Why teach this! Teach the women to gain some self respect! If he pulls away then hopefully you have a life! Nobody needs that! It’s so IMPORTANT TO SEE IF SOMEONE VALUES YOU!!!!
7. You make me feel so feminine 6. You're a great leader 5. You're amazing at what you do 4. You make me so happy 3. I trust you 2. I feel safe with you 1. I respect you You're my hero
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
My man & I have dated 6 months. He's widowed. I really like him, we have fun & enjoy each other. He always comes to my house, texts 99% of the time, but has never invited to his home or to be at his family his gatherings. I feel I'm being used as a "friend + sex benefits". We live an hour apart, so he doesn't come often. I'm tired of waiting around.
It's time to say bye to this guy, y'all dated 6 months and you haven't met his family or friends yet? He's playing you, drop him and get someone who is serious about a relationship with you. Too old to be playing games.
Thank you. It's good to be reminded of these things. It was everything I had with my late husband. In fact he paid me the best compliment I've ever had. He said, "You make me want to be a better man." I hope to grow feelings like these again with someone new, someday.
At my age , I Don’t want marriage anymore - just a Masculine man who cares for me -and I can respect and treasure - as he does me . He’s 20 years younger than me - but it works perfectly . lol - he Doesn’t Need Me to be his nurse , just his woman , who respects and adores him . Im blessed . I’m happy ❤🔥
Hey, at 70 my man is 52, love him to bits and he accepts me as i am. No magic formula but i do follow advise given on this site. It keeps me on my toes.
OMG! This is perfect timing! I was just getting ready to have a VERY similar conversation with a man (who happens to be an old friend) that I’ve been seeing since mid May yesterday, but us meeting got moved to today. So, thank you for making this video, because your wording is WAY better than how I was going to approach. 😉🙏🏽
I wish I had seen this 13 months ago. My BF of 43 yrs died by his own choice. The day after Christmas 2023. He was all these things & I never told him any of these. He did everything for me & I was very grateful but never actually expressed ALL these things & now it's too late. I don't even know how to pump gas. It was very hard to get him to talk about things w/ me & I wouldn't press him, now I know there were many problems in his mind . These are 7 things he needed to hear.
When women express their feelings they are telling a man that they don’t feel safe. It’s not emotionally dumping. Most women want to work things out with their partner and know their needs matter too. Men and women have to work together. It can’t be one sided.
re-Tip 1: In your feminine. Dude. Any man who is not a therapist or in therapy is going to think we are a nut job if we say we are in our "feminine." They will more likely think you are on your cycle.😂 Can you please speak to regular people when giving advice?
Mary Martins, you don't have to bother talking to your ex if you can just change your locks. It's not difficult. He could have made copies of the keys.
tysm for your advice on eye contact at the grocery store and remaining feminine and detached!! such GOLD and practical advice as always. thank you thank you.
i have never asked a man permission to ask a question in my entire life. this is incredible. I once said to a man, "I have an assignment for you! :) OMG I'm doomed? Oh wait, May I ask you a question.? Am I doomed?
Wharnwouls tou say to a person who has been in a relationship for 15 years but he does not want to Marry her, amsnje still stay connected with joa Ex through the whole relationship. What would you do!
How can I encourage my man to keep his word and follow thru with what he says? He has a history of not and that hurts me yet i love him so very much. Thank you, Darlene
No your amcestors do not live for you at all. Once you die you either go to hell or heaven. You do not talk to ancestors. It is demons that mimic your ancestors voice.
So we both are going to have our second month anniversary on December 8 and he’s Spanish and I’m English and we communicate through translator on our phone. He is a very broken man. How do I tell him it’s over
What if you are married to a narcissistic man that won't change and I have done all I could do and my prayers is to make away out of it so is it wrong for God to give you someone else someday that will love me
Great advice but you forgot these ones: - “I love your bald head, it’s so sexy! Caesar was bald, so what?”. - “I don’t mind you playing video games all evening, you earned 1,300,000 points! You are so smart, I am so proud of you!” - “So what if you are 5’3...! You will be my little hand puppet my love!” - “I don’t care about your extra 80 pounds! There is more of you to love!” - “So what if you don’t know the capital of India, my motherland, who needs knowledge when you got such muscles!” - “Thank you for slicing the watermelon for me, I love you my handsome and strong Jean Claude Van Damme!” - “I forgive you for cheating, its not your fault, you are so handsome, women are to blame!”
If u been somewhat seeing someone n a long distance relationship all summer and alot of times plans changed always saying he had plans w mom. He said he feels he neglects his mom when I visit but he doesn't want to hurt my feelings he says he love's me dearly and values what we have and hopes I understand but also.if he's busy he always says he's w his mom ???
Get on a friendship level with his mom so you can say things like ....I went shopping today and bought some new shoes, my girlfriend Mary came with me..where did you go today....and....did you go with a friend ? Don t ask directly if she was with her son
How to tell your husband he needs to get help to make our sex life alive again.we don't have sex or make love anymore I am the one always doing the loving he will push me off and I am planning on leaving the marriage l am so unhappy in this 15 yrs marriage with no love no sex no nothing in it.
Allow him to step into his Masculine by YOU stepping into your feminine...and staying there! Be soft & fluffy...If men force you into telling him what to do, again is red flag...I'm not their Mother.
Well then …. It’s no a relationship. - is it ? If it’s a Lie , to You ? You got the wrong man to suit you . I’m a strong woman , but i have no qualms about telling a Real man these things … we Each Have OUR Strengths. It’s About Balance , in all things . These things do Not make “ you “ weaker , rather it makes your “ coupling” stronger. Thus , we both benefit . Just my thoughts - peace to you
What if you are married to a narcissistic man that won't change and I have done all I could do and my prayers is to make away out of it so is it wrong for God to give you someone else someday that will love me
My advice and this is from experience, is walk away. They are the hardest people to walk away from, but I am stronger alone with my boy, than I was in the relationship. Be strong, you can do it! I haven't found love yet, but I'm loving myself first. Sending you strength and love.
When I was little and living in Moscow, Russia, I heard tons of times that a man (a husband) is your bigger gift, like: “Be intelligent, be clean... or no man will marry you”.... “One day you will get married - it will be the happiest day of your life...”....etc.... ALL fairy tales ended with: “he came for her and took her to his kingdom and they lived happily ever after”. “Husband” was the biggest reward. And not finding one was the biggest punishment. Single 30 year old woman was called “odinokaya”, (odin means ONE, odinokaya: alone, lonely). If you were (God forbid!) 35 and still single - you were AUTOMATICALLY “odinokaya”, a pathetic lonely woman. So what if you finished university with gold medal, so what if you are a manager of this huge company, you don’t have a husband, that’s so sad...! For years I believed this lie. One day I saw that life itself is the biggest gift... good health, the well being of loved ones, God, nature, birds, animals, never stopping improving, to love the truth (in my case: Jesus, Bible) .... I am not a lesbian or feminist or some man hater, but I definitely don’t need a man to be happy. Life itself is the biggest gift.
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You say 5-10 % men are broken
Not true ..
let’s make that
40% and I am being nice about it
Why teach this! Teach the women to gain some self respect! If he pulls away then hopefully you have a life! Nobody needs that! It’s so IMPORTANT TO SEE IF SOMEONE VALUES YOU!!!!
7. You make me feel so feminine
6. You're a great leader
5. You're amazing at what you do
4. You make me so happy
3. I trust you
2. I feel safe with you
1. I respect you
You're my hero
Thanks for the list ... what an ego boost for men and such lies😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Jillian15ikr. I'm done with propping up their fragile egos!
@@Robin-xt7yolol
I am buttering you up. Total nonsense.
Not always
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Fatherabulu , and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
His name is Fatherabulu , and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
By instinct you say all these to the right person not just to impress him but because you genuinely feel he is all these.
My man & I have dated 6 months. He's widowed. I really like him, we have fun & enjoy each other. He always comes to my house, texts 99% of the time, but has never invited to his home or to be at his family his gatherings. I feel I'm being used as a "friend + sex benefits". We live an hour apart, so he doesn't come often. I'm tired of waiting around.
Maybe better to move on, and let your silence answer his texts. Wish you all the best!❤
It's time to say bye to this guy, y'all dated 6 months and you haven't met his family or friends yet? He's playing you, drop him and get someone who is serious about a relationship with you. Too old to be playing games.
"Don't wait around" The Red flags are there...he's got no intention of wanting you to get to know HIM better.
Thank you. It's good to be reminded of these things. It was everything I had with my late husband. In fact he paid me the best compliment I've ever had. He said, "You make me want to be a better man." I hope to grow feelings like these again with someone new, someday.
I wish you this from the bottom of my Heart! 💖💝❣️Maria from South of France
@@MariaBanholzer Merci mille fois.
At my age , I Don’t want marriage anymore - just a Masculine man who cares for me -and I can respect and treasure - as he does me . He’s 20 years younger than me - but it works perfectly . lol - he Doesn’t Need Me to be his nurse , just his woman , who respects and adores him . Im blessed . I’m happy ❤🔥
Yes. I refer to this kind of man as a "sensual companion".
Hey, at 70 my man is 52, love him to bits and he accepts me as i am. No magic formula but i do follow advise given on this site. It keeps me on my toes.
Good video. I'm 75 & still am learning.
OMG! This is perfect timing!
I was just getting ready to have a VERY similar conversation with a man (who happens to be an old friend) that I’ve been seeing since mid May yesterday, but us meeting got moved to today. So, thank you for making this video, because your wording is WAY better than how I was going to approach. 😉🙏🏽
I wish I had seen this 13 months ago. My BF of 43 yrs died by his own choice. The day after Christmas 2023. He was all these things & I never told him any of these. He did everything for me & I was very grateful but never actually expressed ALL these things & now it's too late. I don't even know how to pump gas. It was very hard to get him to talk about things w/ me & I wouldn't press him, now I know there were many problems in his mind . These are 7 things he needed to hear.
“You’re a great leader”- of COURSE they love that😂
Yep!!! 😂
I really enjoyed viewing your content. You have some excellent advice. I'm glad that I came across you. Thank you for sharing!
Never ask for your keys back. Get the locks changed. End of story.
Smart 🤓
Ladies I am 70. Never ever say to anyone " I don t know what to do '" Say... "I need to work out what to do "
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I disagree. Say whatever feels authentic to you. People value vulnerability and authenticity
Thanks!
When women express their feelings they are telling a man that they don’t feel safe. It’s not emotionally dumping. Most women want to work things out with their partner and know their needs matter too. Men and women have to work together. It can’t be one sided.
re-Tip 1: In your feminine. Dude. Any man who is not a therapist or in therapy is going to think we are a nut job if we say we are in our "feminine." They will more likely think you are on your cycle.😂 Can you please speak to regular people when giving advice?
Thank you for this video.
I will save it specially for the end!
I am going to start speed dating. What things can I say to him, to help him be attracted
I'm really enjoying what you're doing, Coach! 😌
Glad to hear it!
I feel like I am with one of the badly broken men or idk. I could use your consultation so bad.... Like an assessment of my situation...
Mary Martins, you don't have to bother talking to your ex if you can just change your locks. It's not difficult. He could have made copies of the keys.
tysm for your advice on eye contact at the grocery store and remaining feminine and detached!! such GOLD and practical advice as always. thank you thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for 7 Things Men Most Want to Hear, It is very help.
Amazing. Thank you for all you do.❤
You are so welcome!
Hello I been married for 27 years my husband Jeff but we have some up down I am sad sometimes
Make a video about why do men ghost ?
i have never asked a man permission to ask a question in my entire life. this is incredible. I once said to a man, "I have an assignment for you! :) OMG I'm doomed? Oh wait, May I ask you a question.? Am I doomed?
It's never too late! ;)
LoL, such is love!
LOL
Wharnwouls tou say to a person who has been in a relationship for 15 years but he does not want to
Marry her, amsnje still stay connected with joa Ex through the whole relationship. What would you do!
How can I encourage my man to keep his word and follow thru with what he says? He has a history of not and that hurts me yet i love him so very much. Thank you, Darlene
Ouch! Find someone who respects you and keeps his word.
You will find love again with someone who loves you back, just be patient and improve yourself in the meantime.
How do u fix a situation when the man believes ur bad?
Thankyou,,god please you and you all
I also held on to the feeling that my ancestors lived for me.
No your amcestors do not live for you at all. Once you die you either go to hell or heaven. You do not talk to ancestors. It is demons that mimic your ancestors voice.
So we both are going to have our second month anniversary on December 8 and he’s Spanish and I’m English and we communicate through translator on our phone. He is a very broken man. How do I tell him it’s over
How do you know a man really love you
Thank you these are good reminders, ❤
What if you are married to a narcissistic man that won't change and I have done all I could do and my prayers is to make away out of it so is it wrong for God to give you someone else someday that will love me
No. Pray for his deliverance. He has demons in him. Once they are out, he will be the man he shoiod be
Such an awesome video, thanks so much! 🙏🏽💯🙂
Welcome!
Thank you! ❤
Welcome!
Excellent
Great advice but you forgot these ones:
- “I love your bald head, it’s so sexy! Caesar was bald, so what?”.
- “I don’t mind you playing video games all evening, you earned 1,300,000 points! You are so smart, I am so proud of you!”
- “So what if you are 5’3...! You will be my little hand puppet my love!”
- “I don’t care about your extra 80 pounds! There is more of you to love!”
- “So what if you don’t know the capital of India, my motherland, who needs knowledge when you got such muscles!”
- “Thank you for slicing the watermelon for me, I love you my handsome and strong Jean Claude Van Damme!”
- “I forgive you for cheating, its not your fault, you are so handsome, women are to blame!”
Hah, you can try them and report back ;)
LOL
Thank you once again ❤🥰🔥
Welcome!
This is something i included in my promise to him in my love letter awaiting for him to due his time behind bars
If u been somewhat seeing someone n a long distance relationship all summer and alot of times plans changed always saying he had plans w mom. He said he feels he neglects his mom when I visit but he doesn't want to hurt my feelings he says he love's me dearly and values what we have and hopes I understand but also.if he's busy he always says he's w his mom ???
make friends with his mom
Get on a friendship level with his mom so you can say things like ....I went shopping today and bought some new shoes, my girlfriend Mary came with me..where did you go today....and....did you go with a friend ? Don t ask directly if she was with her son
Oh, like praying/ talking to Mother Mary to reach her son Jesus.
My advice .Don't bother with these women.They will rip you off.I was.Ruined my life
All golddiggers.
Re: Question: "Shall I Move In". If a man has all the benefits of a marriage...they WON'T marry you. 🤔
How to tell your husband he needs to get help to make our sex life alive again.we don't have sex or make love anymore I am the one always doing the loving he will push me off and I am planning on leaving the marriage l am so unhappy in this 15 yrs marriage with no love no sex no nothing in it.
Allow him to step into his Masculine by YOU stepping into your feminine...and staying there!
Be soft & fluffy...If men force you into telling him what to do, again is red flag...I'm not their Mother.
How can you tell a man that has such a big ego and not hurt him l just got tired of him l don't know if l want to go back with him
No dear. You tell him this. i DO NOT FORNICATE. HE HAS ZERO RESPECT FOR YOU AND REGARDS YOU AS EASY MEAT.
I don’t like when u meet a guy and they almost force you say. You feel safe with me right? Like in just meet you today guy
Is it un-feminine to ask a man out?
Best to signal your interest instead and let him initiate to maintain polarity with what we teach you.
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Unless he’s a narcissist!
Sorry, but i'm not gonna tell lies to him just to prop up his ego 😂😂😂
Well then …. It’s no a relationship. - is it ? If it’s a Lie , to You ? You got the wrong man to suit you . I’m a strong woman , but i have no qualms about telling a Real man these things … we Each Have OUR Strengths. It’s About Balance , in all things . These things do Not make “ you “ weaker , rather it makes your “ coupling” stronger. Thus , we both benefit . Just my thoughts - peace to you
If they are lies then why are you with him? That's what you should be asking yourself.
I had to rewind so many times to hear if he really called us ‘“ creature”. 😮
I think you need the words femininity and masculinity instead of the way you used "your femininity or your masculine ".
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Whine whine whine.
👏👊👍🌞
What if you are married to a narcissistic man that won't change and I have done all I could do and my prayers is to make away out of it so is it wrong for God to give you someone else someday that will love me
My advice and this is from experience, is walk away. They are the hardest people to walk away from, but I am stronger alone with my boy, than I was in the relationship. Be strong, you can do it! I haven't found love yet, but I'm loving myself first. Sending you strength and love.
When I was little and living in Moscow, Russia, I heard tons of times that a man (a husband) is your bigger gift, like: “Be intelligent, be clean... or no man will marry you”.... “One day you will get married - it will be the happiest day of your life...”....etc.... ALL fairy tales ended with: “he came for her and took her to his kingdom and they lived happily ever after”. “Husband” was the biggest reward. And not finding one was the biggest punishment. Single 30 year old woman was called “odinokaya”, (odin means ONE, odinokaya: alone, lonely). If you were (God forbid!) 35 and still single - you were AUTOMATICALLY “odinokaya”, a pathetic lonely woman. So what if you finished university with gold medal, so what if you are a manager of this huge company, you don’t have a husband, that’s so sad...! For years I believed this lie. One day I saw that life itself is the biggest gift... good health, the well being of loved ones, God, nature, birds, animals, never stopping improving, to love the truth (in my case: Jesus, Bible) .... I am not a lesbian or feminist or some man hater, but I definitely don’t need a man to be happy. Life itself is the biggest gift.
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