me, it brings back all the memories of people I thought were my friends telling me kys and not as a joke they said the world would be better if I was gone. And then when anyone says anything suicidal they say don’t and supports them. It also reminds me of my emotionally abusive and alcoholic father, everyone thinks my life is perfect just because I hide behind a smile everyday and they don’t know fucking anything about me. Then when I say I need to talk as cause I’ve tried to commit suicide hey tell me people have bigger issues than wha I’m going through. It hurts. Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are mentally ok. I’m sorry if I’ve wasted ur time but it feels like no one understands.
Dont even get me started on, "looks don't matter". No, Jennifer with blonde hair, blue eyes. Perfect curves, hairless, mentally stable with a rich\healthy family. They do. They absolutely do.
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA It is though, my teacher even said people make too many stereotypes cause she’s a blue eyed blondie and yet she would rather want a basketball then a doll on Christmas when she was younger.
I don't even have friends, being a top student they just approach me for their benefits and I notice it immediately. Everyone just knows me as an introvert who is an exceptional student,no one wants to get to know me
to everyone who's still listening to this, i promise things will get better. i remember listening to this in 2020, my heart as heavy as the waters and head muffled with thoughts of sadness. but, now looking back, i have come so far. not only have i fought over depression, but i believe that you guys can do it too. realise the power within yourself, you are loved, you are perfect, you are amazing.
I too watched this exact video back in 2020, feeling like how you describe. Feels so bittersweet to come back to it🥹 Life does get better too! And you learn and evolve soo much, those feelings wont last forever!❤️
Loved him for four years, confessed and he rejected me, yet somehow still friends. I still have feelings, and we're pretty close, but I don't wanna confess anymore, I'll probably just get hurt
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She’s beautiful She’s extroverted She’s talented She’s smart She’s happy She’s loved She’s kind She’s popular She’s fair skinned She’s a people person She’s not hated by anyone Shes perfect And. She’s everything I’m not but want to be. But what hurts really deep Is that I‘m her heather.
Honestly the bisexuals claim every song as a bi anthem😂😂😂 I’m tryna scope out some lesbian songs but each one, the bi’s have already marked it as their territory
i guess it just seems like she’s got everything she wants. she’s got a beautiful face. perfect hair. perfect eyes. model like nose. perfect lips, eyes. everything. everyone knows her. she’s nice and kind and the ones that are friends with her always talk about how amazing she is. her outfits are amazing. she has a big friend group. she’s got perfect grades. she’s in advanced classes. she does sports. she’s got a little sibling. she’s got a dad. a dad that doesn’t belittle her every two seconds. then there’s me. my hair doesn’t work. it’s a frizzy mess even if i straighten it. i know every person, but no one knows me. i have one friend. one true friend. but she’s also got someone else. im quiet and shy. ive got the worst anxiety about thr stupidest stuff. cant even get my nails done without having a full blown panic attack. i sit back and just watch, watch how awesome and amazing everyone else is. and then there’s me. how their friends didn’t leave them after the summer. how they never had to sit alone at lunch time. how they don’t care about the food they bring, they don’t stare at it in disgust. they just eat it like any normal person would. but if i were any of them, or her. i wouldn’t have a problem with that stuff either.
i hope everything is ok for you now...i understand how u feel and I 100% relate to you. No one understands I feel and the people I love doesn't seem like they do to me anymore and it's kinda sad.but there are people worse than my condition. No one should feel like me so pls take care and know I will always be there for you
Don't be insecure. It doesn't matter if u think they are prettier or better. You're definitely pretty. Cus the universe is beauty, the things alive and not alive everything is beauty. She is pretty so is u. Set a goal, work hard for it, Don't care what others would think..... Love uuh🫂🤍
Faye Javi Well i like to think it’s about Conan and another boy but he hasn’t confirmed his sexuality so it’s unsure. that’s alright tho bc i don’t think any of his real fans would want him to feel pressured into coming out (if he is Bi)
yes. the girl heather was known as the ‘angel’ and was just so perfect Inside and out you literally couldn’t come to hate her because she was so perfect, but she didn’t realise that. Everyone is perfect even when you think your not, your worth more than gold. never doubt yourself.
SugaAnd Spice girl the ‘heather’ in the song was a girl that was so perfect inside and out, she was like an angel. He says he wishes she was dead because she was so mesmerising and perfect
*"She's got you mesmerized while I die"* This. This line over there. When your crush is having a crush on a person who's just so great and talented at everything while you feel like there's nothing you have to impress your crush... And seeing scenarios like this in real life is just so soul-crushing, this song feels like a pat on your head honestly
I had everything to impress her. We were as close as everyone thought we were actually dating. She was the only person I've ever opened up to (with my mom and dad). I confessed my feelings and it was one of the hardest things to do. She said no and acted like nothing happened. Why ? What did I do wrong ? Am I the problem ?I invited her to prom and I confessed my feelings one more time and same thing happened. I always try to forget her but everytime I hear songs like this all the memories come back in a flash, and it hurts like hell.
Same man, I wish people could have a little more confidence in themselves and stopped comparing themselves to others, everyone is so beautiful but nowadays, some people just seem so fixed on being the replica of another person, why does society have such standards? :(
Everytime I hear this song I remember when my crush/boy bsf (we knew each other since the day I entered kindergarten) gave me the wrong signals and I thought he liked me, but was too scared to tell him my feelings so I waited for him to make the move. One day he asked me to help him to get to know this one girl, it was none other then my girl bsf And they both have feelings for each other. They are married now:)
I'm lying on my bed, staring at the ceiling. The thought of my crush floods into my head. I can feel my heart beating faster and louder as I envision us spending time together. Watching movies together, cycling together, living together, laughing together. The thought of doing everything with her is just so exciting!! I can't wait anymore, I'm going to tell her how I feel. Wish me LUCKK!!!! This song is my motivation!!!
@@wtfexza well it makes sense. You can literally create the perfect person (for you). You dont have to fall in "love with them" their just crushes. But if its cringe to you then that's fine.
@@wtfexzait's not cringe. let people be themselves, they're hurting no one. get a job rather than judging random people on the internet and irl as well
Heather shes kind shes nice she doesnt judge she never gets judged she has friends shes funny shes beautiful shes happy everyone likes her shes smart Shes confident she gets good grades she dresses nice everyone has a crush on her shes a golden child She gets treated well no-one bullies her she smells nice Her parents let her do whatever she wants the teachers like her she has amazing hair young girls look up to her she has clear skin she has good make-up shes pretty her parents are nice she gets what she wants she has long eye-lashes she has deep blue eyes shes a people-person Everyone is her friend shes rich Nobody hates her she has no enemys everyone listens to her shes perfect 𝗶𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁
That’s kind of scary like I wouldn’t date a girl with clear skin like I don’t want to see your veins, muscles, organs and your nerves like have some skin
My crush replaced me with my best friend...my crush and i were like sweethearts we were being shipped by everyone before but now hes cold to me like it seems like i am no one
I feel bad because I am the heather to my friend. She said she didn’t like the boy anymore and I stared liking him and then we dated after that. A couple months later she told me how much it hurt to see us together. I had no clue since she said she didn’t like him anymore and started liking another guy (or so that’s just what she said) and I still feel guilty. She was so supportive and wanted us together so bad and I guess she was lying a bit which makes me a bit upset. but man, I’m totally in love with him
I am crying while listening to this song, not by relating myself with Conan but with the other guy. I knew my best friend liked me, but I had no feelings for her. We were always close friends, but I never felt anything more than that with her. She always used to feel uncomfortable when I was with my other female friend, I did notice it, but I never thought of what she must have felt when she saw the one she loved with some other 'heather'. Listening to this song makes me think that she must have cried watching me with someone else. Which makes me cry listening to this song. The first thing I'm going to do after this is text her "sorry" for not understanding her feelings.
This is the nicest version of any song I've heard in a long time. I can literally feel all my stress from the past week fading away and becoming a blur.
both comments actually happened to me today, but the worst part is that she might know that I like her but can't do much bcs it's not mutual, after everyone saying that they looked like a couple she came towards me after and hugged me, I told her that I didn't said anything, she said that she knew like she deep inside knew what I felt.
@@miovids hey hey hey u know what? Idk what you've been trough but I'm just 1 year older than you and.. Well to be honest I am scared aswell, but let me tell you living worth it, even if it sounds cliché or just and excuse to not think that way, living worth every second and in my opinion if u wanna rest in peace you should first enjoy all the things you still haven't seen, fall and stand, you know, all that shit. But yeah, you worth it and sorry for the long message, I just don't want you to think that nobody will miss u just because you are another person in this world full of humans. So yeah, I never take the time to do this but you should take a time to think about how good would it be to do all the things you dreamed about, hope u change your mind ❤️
This comment hits hard when you slowly became heather and lost your self and now you'r stuck being the perfect heather for every one and not knowing your real self becouse you lost it in the long run
hoor alsalehi that was me but kinda the opposite of a heather, i was rude and obnoxious and then when my friend group told me to stop talking to them, i snapped back to reality and a few days ago i managed to get the two that were my closest friends back! thank you god and you graciousness!
She’s so perfect. She has perfect hand writing kind personality sweet pretty. Everyone admires her. She really is pretty. I feel happy but why does everyone have to ignore me.
god this song takes me back. it’s only been a year or two, but it feels so different but in the some way the same. it’s crazy to think though, how chapped my lips were then, how little i showered, how much i starved or binged. how little or how heavily i rested. my life was just empty and i saw nothing. i felt horrible and disgusted with everything about me. unworthy of any love. now it’s a little different, but in some way i always revert back to the same thoughts no matter what i do. just different habits. i still see nothing, just feel less empty. it’s crazy how long pain can last. it makes me worry that it’ll never go, i’ll never have that peace. so, i just live everyday of my life one after another. if anyone’s reading though thanks for reading my thoughts, it may seem empty but it’ll fill up eventually, whatever void it may feel like. there’s an ending to this and we’ll find it together. you got this, strangers across the internet but that doesn’t make you any less important. you got this, best wishes.
The song took the words outta mouth “you like her better” and “why would you ever kiss me. He’ll never kiss me. I’ll always be a shadow, a leaf in the wind, even a pebble in a pond. He’ll always want her.
and whats the worst in the world is when you’re finally, finally happy, and you still have these thoughts in the back of your head keeping you from letting yourself enjoy the relationship. “what would happen if she wanted him. would he leave me?” and i hate not knowing so i convince myself its true LOL
He’s my best friend. No words could explain how much he means to me. But he only sees me as a friend. Our other friend, she’s just perfect. Pretty. Funny. Everything I’m not. I’m just the supportive best friend to him.
I've been broken hearted 3 times: rejected break up and ghosted.. I feel like I hated myself for being so stupid, ugh it's too sad. This song too sad 😢
I don’t know who you are and you do t have to reply but I think that you are beautiful inside and out and I’ve never even seen you. If you wanna make a friend my insta is berk_phoque ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Heather isn’t just a pretty face and a perfect body She’s the girl who is living the life you’ve always wanted she’s the girl who everyone likes better But she’s also the most insecure girl and to her WE ARE all the heathers not her
Yup.. except what’s worse is that she has good mental health (my heather).. she doesn’t have any heathers. I want to be like her- it hurts being her best friend bc I can’t stop comparing myself and idk what to do
since we are all sad here let me show y'all a poem I wrote a while ago: Summer she's the sand on the beach that sticks to your feet when you go ankle deep into salty sea water she’s the foam on the shore it clings to sand floor waves pull back and forth carrying it further she's the freckles in her face scattered all over the place in winter they fade like the warm summer weather Why can’t Summer stay and not fade away? If I were like Summer would you like me better?
I'm still that happy kid around them If only they knew that I hate my self.that I cry my self to sleep I don't even sleep but I guess I'm good at hiding it .I'm good at hiding my feelings and smiling every time I'm hurt.I'm NOT that perfect kid
@@idontwannaliveanymore7493 please go to a therapist if you are not, tell your parents it’S hard but sometimes it’s necessary so you can feel better after, don’t give up, I hate myself too but I am going to a therapist and every hung is going to be fine, everything changes
I don't know if you guys read this but remember that you're loved and you're beautiful. I know we all have some painful experiences in life but I hope everything gets better for you very soon. Don't let tears fall down those beautiful eyes. I love you
I used to be obsessed with this song back in my Royale High obsessed era. me and my friends would constantly sing it to each other while on FaceTime having no idea what the song even meant and now I listen to it and know I can relate
Everyone is here talking about their crushed hearts, but I’m crying because I’m scared of love, it’s broken me too much already, and now I’m even more afraid
For any of y'all that are feeling down about your love life, just know that I used to feel like you do now. I felt ugly and undeserving, I had my heart broken multiple times and were scared to go out into the dating life again. Then I met this boy. He found me, he reached out to me and made me feel better. We're now married with a gorgeous little son. He turned my depressed life around in a way I never knew was possible. But it is possible. There is someone out there for you, someone that is just waiting to love you and make you feel your best. Just hang in there, know that you are enough. Life can change so quickly, you just have to get through those tough times. Try to be that person that someone needs and always be yourself. I love you all, I'm certain that you will find the one for you ❤️
She knew I liked him but still dated him when she didn’t even like him. They have been dating for 6 months. She was my best friend for 8 years but now we don’t talk
@@kalynnewillis yeah but not just that- heather is someone who's so nice you can't bring yourself to hate them because they're just that sweet. it's not just the popular person, or the person your crush chooses over you.
THANK you so much for saying this. i knew a girl who this song reminds me exactly of. a kind, humble, beautiful girl, her name was emily doucette. i never knew her too well personally, but you could just t e l l when such a good person like that exists
The worst part about having crush when you’re not straight and having difficulty expressing your feelings because you’re afraid of hearing “oh sorry I like boys… and I’m kinda seeing one right now.. sorry” hurts the most
I would like to change the lyrics a bit for myself 😌 I still remember the third of December, me in your sweater You said it looked better on me than it did you Only if you knew how much I liked you But I watch your eyes as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerized while I die Why did you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were Heather Watch as she stands with her, holding your hand Put your arm 'round her shoulder, now I'm getting colder But how could I hate her? She's such an angel What can i do, kinda wish i was dead as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerized while I die Why did you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better I wish I were Heather I wish I were Heather (Oh, oh) Wish I were Heather Why did you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were...
Song hits different when everyone is asleep and you're just trying to cry quietly cause you hate being seen while crying and nonstop asked "Are you okay" because you're embarrassed.
This song is so rich in texture and amazing. Conan really inspires me and my best friend to create music. His song “Feelings” is heavily inspired by him. If just one of you checks it out and enjoys it, it would the mean the world to him. 💜 th-cam.com/video/eiW5-9ipnzE/w-d-xo.html
i made a soundcloud !! here’s a link for this song- soundcloud.com/elevens_eggos/heather-by-conan-gray-but-its
THANK YOU! I've been trying to find it through SoundCloud
h6ney 🥰
I LOVE YOU. THANK YOU
Marina i’m not sure how to 😳
if anyone can tell me how i’ll for sure put it up :)
"I'm not even half as pretty"
"Ma'am this is a Wendy's drive thru-"
The other comments got me down like T - T and you be here like :P thanks :)
nice comment and amazing pfp bro
I NEEDED TO LAUGH AFTER SEEING SOME OF THEM COMMENTS
( continuing on )
“and what ? IM FUCKEN TRYNA STRAIGHTEN IT DOWN BUT THIS SHIT KEEPS GOIN LIKE WOOP”
order me some milkshakes
The fact that “heather” isn’t a specific person hurts. It’s just anyone but me.
it’ll get better i promise
Oh sis
me, it brings back all the memories of people I thought were my friends telling me kys and not as a joke they said the world would be better if I was gone. And then when anyone says anything suicidal they say don’t and supports them. It also reminds me of my emotionally abusive and alcoholic father, everyone thinks my life is perfect just because I hide behind a smile everyday and they don’t know fucking anything about me. Then when I say I need to talk as cause I’ve tried to commit suicide hey tell me people have bigger issues than wha I’m going through. It hurts. Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are mentally ok. I’m sorry if I’ve wasted ur time but it feels like no one understands.
I'll always be second best, and no matter how hard I try, I'll never be anyone's first priority.
@@zhyza someday, you'll be someone's number one, don't give up♡
Dont even get me started on, "looks don't matter".
No, Jennifer with blonde hair, blue eyes. Perfect curves, hairless, mentally stable with a rich\healthy family.
They do. They absolutely do.
Tbh blonde hair is overrated
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA nah
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA It is though, my teacher even said people make too many stereotypes cause she’s a blue eyed blondie and yet she would rather want a basketball then a doll on Christmas when she was younger.
@@WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Fr like the girls could be so ugly( not to be rude ) but still are able to get guys all because they are blonde
@@randomdoggo9489 well, isn’t that just a stereotype for woman in general? Usually the common stereotype is dumb blonde.
I don't wanna be the friend that everyone can just throw away when they get tired or bored of me anymore
I don't even have friends, being a top student they just approach me for their benefits and I notice it immediately. Everyone just knows me as an introvert who is an exceptional student,no one wants to get to know me
i already am, i don’t want to be anymore, i hurts knowing they can drop me js because their bored of me
One day they'll realise what they'd lost🙂
I can feel you, the same is happening with me. It hurts very bad when everyone talking about their friends and you dont even have one@@Veronika_ere
Hopefully.
it's worse when there is no heather and they just don't like you .
is worse seeing him inlove with another person
@@fabyiraheta911 agree, even if he talks about her :(
That's rough buddy
@@calebrobinson845 zuko, what are you doing here?
:(
_"I'm not even half as pretty"_
Is the one line that hurts the most
Peku G i agree :(
The main part hurts 😔
For real but has he seen himself!! He's so gorgeous😍
right
yep, literally stings :/
When your there for everyone. But no one is there for you , especially when you need them.
relate butto-
relatable.
to everyone who's still listening to this, i promise things will get better. i remember listening to this in 2020, my heart as heavy as the waters and head muffled with thoughts of sadness. but, now looking back, i have come so far. not only have i fought over depression, but i believe that you guys can do it too. realise the power within yourself, you are loved, you are perfect, you are amazing.
As a person who is actually in depression.. Thank you!-
@@AliahsRoses_AliProZme too...this means a lot.
I too watched this exact video back in 2020, feeling like how you describe. Feels so bittersweet to come back to it🥹
Life does get better too! And you learn and evolve soo much, those feelings wont last forever!❤️
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Thank you I was looking for this comment ❤️
i mean, loving him sucks, but knowing he will never return the feeling is worse.
yup.
Yeah... I like this guy but he never texts me first...
i felt that. but we both deserve better❤️ we got this!
i felt that but more like “i mean, loving him sucks,but knowing he will never return is worse.” 3 months since we last talked....
Loved him for four years, confessed and he rejected me, yet somehow still friends. I still have feelings, and we're pretty close, but I don't wanna confess anymore, I'll probably just get hurt
"How could I hate her? she's such an angel" okay, that hits...
Victor with a V i felt that in my soul. i had that moment.
this
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I'm just starting, but I promise that I will keep being constant.
frl 😣
hits even harder when you know she's not an angel, but that person thinks so and it's too late to change that
She’s beautiful
She’s extroverted
She’s talented
She’s smart
She’s happy
She’s loved
She’s kind
She’s popular
She’s fair skinned
She’s a people person
She’s not hated by anyone
Shes perfect
And.
She’s everything I’m not but want to be.
But what hurts really deep
Is that I‘m her heather.
I’m sorry 😣
Awww… 🙁
you're her Heather and she's your Heather?
hits so much harder when you have someone to think about while listening and can relate :/
fr, whether it’s about you crush or a Heather 😔
I regret doing what I did, I hate to admit it, but I still like him
It truly is sad to realize that everyone around you is a Heather, low self esteem sucks.
agreed
it's more like we all think anyone else but us is heather. People could think you're the heather and you cloud never know.
ikr
it does.
so many pretty girls everywhere and when your just below average looking- it hurts, like it actually stings:/
the sad bisexual anthem that's just making us sadder but in the best way possible
Fuck dude true
Biromantic squad 😔💛
Honestly, every Conan gray song is bi anthem
Honestly the bisexuals claim every song as a bi anthem😂😂😂 I’m tryna scope out some lesbian songs but each one, the bi’s have already marked it as their territory
@@fruity3693 sorry:(:(
"she walks by , what a sight for sore eyes" hits hard and i feel that :)
i guess it just seems like she’s got everything she wants. she’s got a beautiful face. perfect hair. perfect eyes. model like nose. perfect lips, eyes. everything. everyone knows her. she’s nice and kind and the ones that are friends with her always talk about how amazing she is. her outfits are amazing. she has a big friend group. she’s got perfect grades. she’s in advanced classes. she does sports. she’s got a little sibling. she’s got a dad. a dad that doesn’t belittle her every two seconds. then there’s me. my hair doesn’t work. it’s a frizzy mess even if i straighten it. i know every person, but no one knows me. i have one friend. one true friend. but she’s also got someone else. im quiet and shy. ive got the worst anxiety about thr stupidest stuff. cant even get my nails done without having a full blown panic attack. i sit back and just watch, watch how awesome and amazing everyone else is. and then there’s me. how their friends didn’t leave them after the summer. how they never had to sit alone at lunch time. how they don’t care about the food they bring, they don’t stare at it in disgust. they just eat it like any normal person would. but if i were any of them, or her. i wouldn’t have a problem with that stuff either.
i hope everything is ok for you now...i understand how u feel and I 100% relate to you. No one understands I feel and the people I love doesn't seem like they do to me anymore and it's kinda sad.but there are people worse than my condition. No one should feel like me so pls take care and know I will always be there for you
Don't be insecure. It doesn't matter if u think they are prettier or better. You're definitely pretty. Cus the universe is beauty, the things alive and not alive everything is beauty. She is pretty so is u. Set a goal, work hard for it, Don't care what others would think..... Love uuh🫂🤍
"why would you ever kiss me,I'm not even half as pretty" that stabbed me in the heart
Emily sorry but I’m a bit new to Conan... but is this song about a guy liking a girl, but that girl likes another girl?
@@fayejavi9269 pretty much yes, but it could also be a guy liking another guy, but this guy likes a girl
it isn't really clear ig
same
Oh yeah same
Faye Javi Well i like to think it’s about Conan and another boy but he hasn’t confirmed his sexuality so it’s unsure. that’s alright tho bc i don’t think any of his real fans would want him to feel pressured into coming out (if he is Bi)
Heather doesn’t even think she is the “Heather”. You are a Heather in someone’s eyes. Even if you don’t feel it yourself. You are
I wish
Memento Mori You wish people hated you and wanted you dead? How bout we swap lives
This comment made me tear up lol
yes. the girl heather was known as the ‘angel’ and was just so perfect Inside and out you literally couldn’t come to hate her because she was so perfect, but she didn’t realise that. Everyone is perfect even when you think your not, your worth more than gold. never doubt yourself.
SugaAnd Spice girl the ‘heather’ in the song was a girl that was so perfect inside and out, she was like an angel. He says he wishes she was dead because she was so mesmerising and perfect
This hits harder when he is the only one keeping you happy
then they just disapear..
@@Noobsarecoolya123like its the most easiest thing to do in the world.
*"She's got you mesmerized while I die"*
This. This line over there.
When your crush is having a crush on a person who's just so great and talented at everything while you feel like there's nothing you have to impress your crush... And seeing scenarios like this in real life is just so soul-crushing, this song feels like a pat on your head honestly
I had everything to impress her. We were as close as everyone thought we were actually dating. She was the only person I've ever opened up to (with my mom and dad). I confessed my feelings and it was one of the hardest things to do. She said no and acted like nothing happened. Why ? What did I do wrong ? Am I the problem ?I invited her to prom and I confessed my feelings one more time and same thing happened. I always try to forget her but everytime I hear songs like this all the memories come back in a flash, and it hurts like hell.
@@skanderhadhri6985hey don't worry, you are going to get the best of everything!
hearing your crush saying they like someone else is one of the most painful things ever
jesus christ nothing but facts 😔🤕
When you had a chance with your crush and then blew it and then they go out with your best friend :/
Ghostly Tea i feel this... so much...
@@avamharlindson yup.. or like play every frigging girl infront of you smh..
For real...
"not even half as pretty" that crushed me. that hurt.
That hit me like a bus...
Hit harder than my mom
same dude
Same man, I wish people could have a little more confidence in themselves and stopped comparing themselves to others, everyone is so beautiful but nowadays, some people just seem so fixed on being the replica of another person, why does society have such standards? :(
Sunny Bunny 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓶𝔂 𝓶𝓸𝓶 𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓼𝓵
Everytime I hear this song I remember when my crush/boy bsf (we knew each other since the day I entered kindergarten) gave me the wrong signals and I thought he liked me, but was too scared to tell him my feelings so I waited for him to make the move.
One day he asked me to help him to get to know this one girl, it was none other then my girl bsf And they both have feelings for each other.
They are married now:)
That means that he wasn't the one for you,you will definitely meet the right person when the time comes
God iam going through the same now. Hope you find the right one❤
You will find someone else. I'm sorry though
I'm lying on my bed, staring at the ceiling. The thought of my crush floods into my head. I can feel my heart beating faster and louder as I envision us spending time together. Watching movies together, cycling together, living together, laughing together. The thought of doing everything with her is just so exciting!! I can't wait anymore, I'm going to tell her how I feel. Wish me LUCKK!!!! This song is my motivation!!!
Eee thats what i always thought about her, but it turns out she likes my bsf, Big L
💕
How'd it went?
How did it go??
For all it’s worth,good luck
"But how could I hate her, she's such an angel"
I've never related to something this much.
Same..
Love is shit
like you cant't hate her because she is literally the nicest person on earth, but you wish you could because it would be easier.
this.
now.. why cant everyone be this sweet 🥺
it hurts worse when “she” isn’t a real person. he wants someone he doesn’t even know yet. but he doesn’t want me
FELT
my crush is straight and fell for someone gay..
Same he's waiting for that "girl" and I know that girl isn't me 😂
제이Red oh no, im sry for urs darling 🥺
He just hates me, and loves to let me know :/
I never had this thing called 'love' or 'crush' other than to fictional characters but this song hit in multiple levels 😭😭
I have the same thing as you...
Having crush on fictional characters is the cringiest thing I've ever heard
@@wtfexza well it makes sense.
You can literally create the perfect person (for you). You dont have to fall in "love with them" their just crushes. But if its cringe to you then that's fine.
@@wtfexzait's not cringe. let people be themselves, they're hurting no one. get a job rather than judging random people on the internet and irl as well
@@studygram_ you're asking me to get a job while defending people who love pixels. Lol get a job
Heather
shes kind
shes nice
she doesnt judge
she never gets judged
she has friends
shes funny
shes beautiful
shes happy
everyone likes her
shes smart
Shes confident
she gets good grades
she dresses nice
everyone has a crush on her
shes a golden child
She gets treated well
no-one bullies her
she smells nice
Her parents let her do whatever she wants
the teachers like her
she has amazing hair
young girls look up to her
she has clear skin
she has good make-up
shes pretty
her parents are nice
she gets what she wants
she has long eye-lashes
she has deep blue eyes
shes a people-person
Everyone is her friend
shes rich
Nobody hates her
she has no enemys
everyone listens to her
shes perfect
𝗶𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁
That’s kind of scary like I wouldn’t date a girl with clear skin like I don’t want to see your veins, muscles, organs and your nerves like have some skin
Crying over someone who doesn’t care or think about me is difficult.
ik this isnt related to the situation but I love the pro piccc!!
Yup😔
Leilani Mua thank you! ✨
Relatable
I just wanna hug her so bad :"
it sucks how no one cares about personality. they will always choose the pretty girl over us.
ikr 😔
HAHDKAJ THIS COMMENT HITS TOO CLOSE TO HOME-
exactly.
I was a “heather” once. I was a little girl living in a perfect world and I guess it just all changed slowly because of that one person.
nah i just have a shitty personality, everyone will tell you that ✨
It's always the worst feeling when the one who you went to when you were heartbroken and promised never to hurt you that way, *hurts you that way.*
It's so painful when someone fills you with love and then leaves
“Why would you ever kiss me? I’m not even half as pretty.” Hits hard.
But he never did kiss me... only her.
mypie90 well he’s stupid for not kissing you,I’ll tell you that.
@@mypie9035 same sis :)
@@mypie9035 k u didnt have to hit so close to home BSHSBDBDB
yea he kissed me and then went back to her... I always cared more but he only wanted her
I think all 7.6 million of us should meet up and have a big therapy session
Aahhhh! Therapy sux :")
When ?
I Love you
33k
Yeah, wouldn’t that be something
The sad thing is that no one would come to me as a first resort.
;-; Hang in there bro
lyric
Tysmm
Thankkyouu❤
everybody talking bout their crushes i jus want my family to love me again
keep your head up queen. Your family just doesn't realise how precious and how much of an angel you are ❤
I'm so sorry that that happened. I know we don't know each other, but I wish I could give you a hug
fuck them! I'm sure you're an amazing person and it's a true shame that your family can't see that.
@@taliajung1553 awe thankies
@@all4fatema awe thank you bb
It sucks when “heather” is your best friend, but instead it’s not just him who likes her better, it’s everyone
Dude that hit hard
Maya V I feel that
Why is that so true?
My crush replaced me with my best friend...my crush and i were like sweethearts we were being shipped by everyone before but now hes cold to me like it seems like i am no one
I feel bad because I am the heather to my friend. She said she didn’t like the boy anymore and I stared liking him and then we dated after that. A couple months later she told me how much it hurt to see us together. I had no clue since she said she didn’t like him anymore and started liking another guy (or so that’s just what she said) and I still feel guilty. She was so supportive and wanted us together so bad and I guess she was lying a bit which makes me a bit upset. but man, I’m totally in love with him
I am crying while listening to this song, not by relating myself with Conan but with the other guy. I knew my best friend liked me, but I had no feelings for her. We were always close friends, but I never felt anything more than that with her. She always used to feel uncomfortable when I was with my other female friend, I did notice it, but I never thought of what she must have felt when she saw the one she loved with some other 'heather'. Listening to this song makes me think that she must have cried watching me with someone else. Which makes me cry listening to this song. The first thing I'm going to do after this is text her "sorry" for not understanding her feelings.
real
This is the nicest version of any song I've heard in a long time. I can literally feel all my stress from the past week fading away and becoming a blur.
everyone talking about their crushes, i just want my best friend back.
Oml me too😢
wait.. me too
me.... too....
love; me too.. 💖
same :/
me: trying to listen to depressing music
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So true 😳😂😂😂
Omg😂😂😂
lol,samee
is it grammarly SKSDSOSLDKS
me using ad block: hey
hits different when you are in love with them for years but then find out they actually have someone they like...and its someone you know
I guess She really like her(R) and
They flirt with each other I front of me
both comments actually happened to me today, but the worst part is that she might know that I like her but can't do much bcs it's not mutual, after everyone saying that they looked like a couple she came towards me after and hugged me, I told her that I didn't said anything, she said that she knew like she deep inside knew what I felt.
@@Kaii-_- one sided love is the worst istg
the times when i was listening to this video every night were insane
Anyone just in bed thinking why is life so fucked up.
I do it on the regular
every night
Right here💃😭
Casually
@@miovids hey hey hey u know what? Idk what you've been trough but I'm just 1 year older than you and.. Well to be honest I am scared aswell, but let me tell you living worth it, even if it sounds cliché or just and excuse to not think that way, living worth every second and in my opinion if u wanna rest in peace you should first enjoy all the things you still haven't seen, fall and stand, you know, all that shit. But yeah, you worth it and sorry for the long message, I just don't want you to think that nobody will miss u just because you are another person in this world full of humans. So yeah, I never take the time to do this but you should take a time to think about how good would it be to do all the things you dreamed about, hope u change your mind ❤️
Everyone’s talking about missing other people, I just miss myself.
k this comment hit😖
This comment hits hard when you slowly became heather and lost your self and now you'r stuck being the perfect heather for every one and not knowing your real self becouse you lost it in the long run
hoor alsalehi that was me but kinda the opposite of a heather, i was rude and obnoxious and then when my friend group told me to stop talking to them, i snapped back to reality and a few days ago i managed to get the two that were my closest friends back!
thank you god and you graciousness!
I constantly miss my old self everyday. Every breath I take is different, I want the past back but at the same time I don’t.
Mood. this lowkey hit me hard.
She’s so perfect. She has perfect hand writing kind personality sweet pretty. Everyone admires her. She really is pretty. I feel happy but why does everyone have to ignore me.
god i remember when this was posted, loved the song just because, now i’m back again and have a reason to cry over it 😻🤞🏽
“why would you ever kiss me?”
“i’m not even half as pretty.”
ouch
a whole new pain😃
Reality hurts😢
That line is more painful than a knife slashing at your heart.
999 LIKE OMG HEY HAIKYUU FAN
“why won’t you ever kiss me? Oh wait I’m it even half as pretty”
This hurts when your best friend and everyone around you IS Heather.
• M a d s • yep.
my closest friends are the prettiest girls in my grade but i’m not. they’ve all dated or had things wit boys and i’m just there like 👁👁
YESSS
@@mariiiiiiiiuahhha SAMEEEEE
you are perfect just the way you are and i bet you are heather
god this song takes me back. it’s only been a year or two, but it feels so different but in the some way the same. it’s crazy to think though, how chapped my lips were then, how little i showered, how much i starved or binged. how little or how heavily i rested. my life was just empty and i saw nothing. i felt horrible and disgusted with everything about me. unworthy of any love. now it’s a little different, but in some way i always revert back to the same thoughts no matter what i do. just different habits. i still see nothing, just feel less empty. it’s crazy how long pain can last. it makes me worry that it’ll never go, i’ll never have that peace. so, i just live everyday of my life one after another.
if anyone’s reading though thanks for reading my thoughts, it may seem empty but it’ll fill up eventually, whatever void it may feel like. there’s an ending to this and we’ll find it together. you got this, strangers across the internet but that doesn’t make you any less important. you got this, best wishes.
How are you doing now? At the moment I'm practically the same as you were.
Hits different when you're madly in love with someone who doesn't care about you anymore....
The song took the words outta mouth “you like her better” and “why would you ever kiss me. He’ll never kiss me. I’ll always be a shadow, a leaf in the wind, even a pebble in a pond. He’ll always want her.
it takes time but you'll find the right one
and whats the worst in the world is when you’re finally, finally happy, and you still have these thoughts in the back of your head keeping you from letting yourself enjoy the relationship. “what would happen if she wanted him. would he leave me?” and i hate not knowing so i convince myself its true LOL
He’s my best friend. No words could explain how much he means to me. But he only sees me as a friend. Our other friend, she’s just perfect. Pretty. Funny. Everything I’m not. I’m just the supportive best friend to him.
I've been broken hearted 3 times: rejected break up and ghosted.. I feel like I hated myself for being so stupid, ugh it's too sad. This song too sad 😢
ok
This hits the hardest when you're sobbing but have to be quiet so no one hears you :/
me rn bahahab
i feel that. I'm sorry you go through this. it'll get better. i promise. im here for you. if you need to talk, my email: kcrane1023@gmail.com
It feels like thorns are choking you :(
Yup
lmao me, one time i was at my friends and she was talking shit abt me behind my back and saying how i should kms and i was sobbing quietly
watching my mum give others the attention and love i wanted..
Happy Heather Day everyone. Hope y'all are doing ok
"i'm not even half as pretty" hit harder than my moms chancla.
:(
thank u for making me chuckling 🥺🖤✨ it helped :’)
@@alexcurrieee2268 no problem :))
I felt that on a spiritual level-
Natalie _Joyce pfft
“heather is just anyone but me” -comment that I relate to.
I don’t know who you are and you do t have to reply but I think that you are beautiful inside and out and I’ve never even seen you. If you wanna make a friend my insta is berk_phoque ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Could i be your friend too?
I been exposed.
I wanna like this comment but it has 666 likes
did i comment this on someone else's account or does someone actually relate to me?
I still cry over this song because of that one person
the rain sounds like you’re frying chicken
LMAO
im tired of being the therapist friend.
me too
lets be friend
me too
okay, but why does this comment hit hard tho cause like I'm that person too. ;-;
me to me to
the rain in the backround is the sound of everyone’s tears falling on the ground
Yeah
oh sorry those are just mine
you got that right
nope not crying :/
a LOT of tears 😔
happy 3rd of December guys
Yeyyyy
listening to this song and reading comments below at same time gives goosebumbs
Heather isn’t just a pretty face and a perfect body
She’s the girl who is living the life you’ve always wanted
she’s the girl who everyone likes better
But she’s also the most insecure girl
and to her WE ARE all the heathers not her
yes 💕
Yup.. except what’s worse is that she has good mental health (my heather).. she doesn’t have any heathers. I want to be like her- it hurts being her best friend bc I can’t stop comparing myself and idk what to do
heather in total drama
Yeah, living life by people’s expectation sounds suffocating.
hes talking about a boy that he likes
you gave her your sweater, it’s just polyester
𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧
Wish I were heather
I
Ibuk1zz buki mioda
me: i’m sad let me listen to some music
youtube: here, enjoy an ad on tasmanian cheese
since we are all sad here let me show y'all a poem I wrote a while ago:
Summer
she's the sand on the beach
that sticks to your feet
when you go ankle deep
into salty sea water
she’s the foam on the shore
it clings to sand floor
waves pull back and forth
carrying it further
she's the freckles in her face
scattered all over the place
in winter they fade
like the warm summer weather
Why can’t Summer stay
and not fade away?
If I were like Summer
would you like me better?
i love it
it fits the song so well, your poem is amazing i am in love with it
The most painful thing is when everyone “likes you” but no one cares about you.
Yea everybody in my school likes me so they can “borrow“ my stuff they even broke my stuff
So i moved school
when everyone loves you but no one likes you :(
...yeah.
nobody likes me and nobody cares about me
magnolia strouse I feel that... that hits really hard.
My mom: Where's my happy and cheerful daughter?
Me: I don't know but i miss her too
I'm still that happy kid around them
If only they knew that I hate my self.that I cry my self to sleep I don't even sleep but I guess I'm good at hiding it .I'm good at hiding my feelings and smiling every time I'm hurt.I'm NOT that perfect kid
Brissia Calleros i honestly couldn’t relate anymore to this...
@@idontwannaliveanymore7493 please go to a therapist if you are not, tell your parents it’S hard but sometimes it’s necessary so you can feel better after, don’t give up, I hate myself too but I am going to a therapist and every hung is going to be fine, everything changes
@@idontwannaliveanymore7493 this hit
I felt this on a spiritual level
I don't know if you guys read this but remember that you're loved and you're beautiful.
I know we all have some painful experiences in life but I hope everything gets better for you very soon.
Don't let tears fall down those beautiful eyes.
I love you
Thank you for this, and you too.
I used to be obsessed with this song back in my Royale High obsessed era. me and my friends would constantly sing it to each other while on FaceTime having no idea what the song even meant and now I listen to it and know I can relate
don’t fall in love. be in love. because everything that falls breaks.
Poetic but hurtful at the same time💔..
damn...
Damn that’s good
"Everything that falls break"
Nokia: *pathetic.*
Maybe that’s why I’m broken
they always will choose the prettier and non-depressed one.
When the depressed one is the one who needed them the most
Vilde LS that’s deep
They would rather break another instead of trying to fix someone else’s mess
my so called “bestfriend” chose thw non depressed and happier one wen i was suffering -_-
its because the depressed one will always be a 'burden' to them :) and the ugly ones will never be chosen :')
it's a different kind of pain when you know they've moved on.
This song hits different when you know you will never get a break….
Everyone is here talking about their crushed hearts, but I’m crying because I’m scared of love, it’s broken me too much already, and now I’m even more afraid
same girl
i realized that i’m here to make ppl to feel loved but i’m not able to receive love from anyone else. i believe their is a love for everyone but me.
I got rejected by my crush before because it's so awkward now I don't want to talk to her anymore I'm just pretending to be happy but inside I'm broke
For any of y'all that are feeling down about your love life, just know that I used to feel like you do now. I felt ugly and undeserving, I had my heart broken multiple times and were scared to go out into the dating life again. Then I met this boy. He found me, he reached out to me and made me feel better. We're now married with a gorgeous little son. He turned my depressed life around in a way I never knew was possible. But it is possible. There is someone out there for you, someone that is just waiting to love you and make you feel your best. Just hang in there, know that you are enough. Life can change so quickly, you just have to get through those tough times. Try to be that person that someone needs and always be yourself. I love you all, I'm certain that you will find the one for you ❤️
Simren NASEER i love u too🥺❤️. thank u!!
here’s a random pov: you’ve grown older yet still can’t forget about them and it’s aching in your mind :)
xxdeadcloudxx xo 🥺
this called me out so hard like i didn’t plan on being attacked through a comment😔🤭Haven’t seen him in almost three years but can’t forget him.
Maliha Noor Halim you’re so kind 🥺
Ari ana it’ll be okay ♡
damn i really got called out
it hurts so much worse when your heather is your best friend 🥲
"I love you"
"Love you more"
Memories break me down istg!
guys don't be upset, remember that "Heather" would probably be on straight tik tok :)
That’s why I’m upset, she is on straight TikTok 😪
alt tiktok is superior 😼😼
antoinette yes, as well as lesbian, witchy and art TikTok lmao
OH WAIT-
This comment genuinely made me feel better
me with no emotions reading everyone’s comments: 👁👄👁
same im sociopathic
bruh, literally same.
Imma follow you just because you like killua and bts 😌
@@eisfeekuchen4367 I like killua and bts- jshsjs
@@hythegreatest self diagnosed?
This can be both comforting and sickening when you relate to it
This song is already sad enough. Putting the video looping in the background as this scene of shinji from evangelion is just on another level 😭
it’s worse when heather doesn’t even like him back
god dang this comment got me
it would be even more worse if Heather loved you/conan
frhgetgjuhfthgrfehfhrtwkdbhggh mood
heather doesn’t even like him but he still has a hope, like i do
imagine heather doesnt like him because she likes you and its all a love triangle where no one gets what they want
i’ve had a crush on him for 4 years . he’s never noticed me, but noticed my bestfriend. I wish i was her .
It the same for me. I’ve liked him for five years, but all he talks about is my best friend. She likes him too. It Hurts
i'm so sorry.
She knew I liked him but still dated him when she didn’t even like him. They have been dating for 6 months. She was my best friend for 8 years but now we don’t talk
Melanie Chairez i’m so so sorry❤️
Caro Q it’s fine. I have gotten over it
Its bad when you have a breakup, its worse when you never talk to them and one day you just give up on your feelings because you know it wont work.
Just met up with my childhood friend for the first time in years and it was so awkward. We barely know what to talk about anymore.
everyone talking about their crushes, yet I just want myself back
Same
Relatable.
Same ;-;
I feel you fellow human 😭
@@vanshikha7179 telling a depressed person to stop "overreacting" is like telling a person with cancer to get better ;-;
Heather is not the famous or popular girl- she is “an angel.” She is not only beautiful but kind.
its not just her looks, shes always first choice
No heather is the person ur crush chooses over Instead of you sadly
@@kalynnewillis yeah but not just that- heather is someone who's so nice you can't bring yourself to hate them because they're just that sweet. it's not just the popular person, or the person your crush chooses over you.
THANK you so much for saying this. i knew a girl who this song reminds me exactly of. a kind, humble, beautiful girl, her name was emily doucette. i never knew her too well personally, but you could just t e l l when such a good person like that exists
She's the one around you that always seems perfect..
The worst part about having crush when you’re not straight and having difficulty expressing your feelings because you’re afraid of hearing “oh sorry I like boys… and I’m kinda seeing one right now.. sorry” hurts the most
This song hurts even more since it's December 3rd.😓
"committing suicide doesn't stop the pain."
"it passes it to someone else."
That kinda hurt
Yes ik brother tried to do it now my whole family is broken
stay strong
this is only reason I'm still here. I could never do that to my twin brother. he is the only person that is keeping me alive
Damn I was thinking of commiting but this comment...just hit me hard
I'm 14 and have a teddy bear. I only have him because it's the only one who won't judge me crying.
This is true
Felt that a lot
well l have mirror bc it will just cry with me
Related
All my teddy's are gone I'm 13 and have no one
I would like to change the lyrics a bit for myself 😌
I still remember the third of December, me in your sweater
You said it looked better on me than it did you
Only if you knew how much I liked you
But I watch your eyes as she
Walks by
What a sight for sore eyes
Brighter than the blue sky
She's got you mesmerized while I die
Why did you ever kiss me?
I'm not even half as pretty
You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester
But you like her better
Wish I were Heather
Watch as she stands with her, holding your hand
Put your arm 'round her shoulder, now I'm getting colder
But how could I hate her? She's such an angel
What can i do, kinda wish i was dead as she
Walks by
What a sight for sore eyes
Brighter than the blue sky
She's got you mesmerized while I die
Why did you ever kiss me?
I'm not even half as pretty
You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester
But you like her better
I wish I were Heather
I wish I were Heather
(Oh, oh)
Wish I were Heather
Why did you ever kiss me?
I'm not even half as pretty
You gave me your sweater, it's just polyester
But you like her better
Wish I were...
HAPPY THIRD OF DECEMBER EVERYONEEE
Why was she so happy ew
Song hits different when everyone is asleep and you're just trying to cry quietly cause you hate being seen while crying and nonstop asked "Are you okay" because you're embarrassed.
Can relate lol , I was crying right now at 11:46 pm.
Did you just read my mind?
Hits even more different when you cried so much that you can't cry
@@bashsusulan2109 OH MY GOD DUDE WHEN I READ THIS IT WAS 11:46 WHAT A COINCIDENCE LOLL SIRI JUST SO COOL
@@yunimn013 Teehee
i’m sorry for being such a disappointment, parents.
I feel that, dude
This song is so rich in texture and amazing. Conan really inspires me and my best friend to create music. His song “Feelings” is heavily inspired by him. If just one of you checks it out and enjoys it, it would the mean the world to him. 💜 th-cam.com/video/eiW5-9ipnzE/w-d-xo.html
CHEER UP WE LOVE YOU!!
Me too.
I've never seen such a relatable comment :(
Listenning to this in 3 of december hits different