Summary: "Remember you are a princess, a daughter of the King!" Follow a 6 point checklist when looking for a guy; 1. Commitments 2.Humility( is he a here i am guy or a there you are guy) 3. Inspect his reputation 4. Initiative/drive 5. Inspect his self-contol 5. Inspect his truth(is his life build on the word of God)
I’m definitely at that point in my life where I needed to hear this message. Such a truthful message and very much needed in this “social media “ driven society . I miss the porch
My first reaction when I saw him pull up in this car was a judgmental one. I thought oh no that's a sort of a full-of-himself pastor kind of guy. Now that I finished this sermon I will be sending it to the teens at my church. Good stuff!
Guys, don’t chase after the girls that like “bad boys”. They aren’t the girls you want to end up with because the ending won’t be good. Look for a girl who wants a godly, humble leader. Girls, don’t chase after “bad boys”. Again, it won’t end well. Look for a godly man who treats you like a princess and looks to the LORD to lead him in everything. Look for a partner who will put God first in everything and always point you back to Him.
No, I don't like bad guys at all... what I find irristibly attractive is a man that is consistent... does what he said he's going to do...be still my heart ❤.
I like you. I am so blessed with the msg. Finding a real love in the fake world. I pray for to God to bless you with more grace, more oil for you in Christ Jesus name, Amen.
I love C.H.R.I.S.T Commitment Humility Refrences Initiative Self-control Truthful Matthew 11:29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
I ignored the red flags in a man and my children and I had to go through a very painful divorce‼️Don’t date a red flag guy- porn, lying, unfaithfulness, drugs, etc.‼️‼️‼️😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😡
Adultery, abuse and abandonment are all valid biblical reasons to end a marriage. That is implied in the classic marriage vows. There's literally no reason to add those things as a condition to anyone's vows. JP totally missed it on that one.
If you divorce you cannot remarry while your spouse still lives. Mark 10:10-11, Luke 16:18, Romans 7:2-3, 1 Cor 7:10-11, Matt 5:32 and 19:9 all say the same thing. Jesus said what God has joined together let no man separate. Jesus said except for fornication and He was talking about the engagement period like Mary and Joseph. You even take a vow to death do us part.
If someone sleeps with someone they left / broke the marriage union it’s over. It’s not the chested on leaving the marriage, that person is now one flesh with someone else. So it’s pointless to put in the vows because it’s a break. Yes if someone joins another person and becomes one with them then what are you going to, be a threesome spiritually?
You have to find good Women, if you can't find women who won't look past income, you're not looking in the right place, and/or the right kind of people (not caring about money alone) are seeing issues that you need to resolve before they'll accept being in a relationship with you. The point is they are rare, but you have to find them, not vice versa (Generally speaking. Men initiate), and if they're actually quality, they won't accept someone who isn't striving like they are. (And I say this as a single guy not a 'condescending girl', I've seen your view myself and eventually found it flawed and limited.)
@Bruce Courtney i loved a man so much who only has a work with a net of $500 dollar a month. I gave my all and he is my first. I didn't see money or his physical appearance the hindrance to my love for him. But he broke my heart. Haha funny
@@jacquebae6535 no doubt. My crazy ex went snd got a tattoo with a guy weeks after We broke up. The same design she wanted to get with me months prior and I said no. Then she gets a demon face tattoo on her forearm.
Kinda fucked up that for men you have to check their references and do a background check. For women their past is whatever, long history of cheating, hooks ups, maybe ending up as a single mom in that whole process. In the same way showing a history that predicts a bad outcome. So why not tell men to be mindful of women’s references as well, interview the ex’s - because it renders 80% of women undateable? You know 70% of divorces are filed by women, because marriages start at a point where men ignored their past. The famous 7 year itch kicks in, a long past of variety in sexual partners and being pleasure and variety focused eventually catches up.
@@vibeauxssxuaebiv3489 ay yo waste of oxygen, Where do you think i draw the comparison from? Watched the one for men before this one. Think before you try to sound smart on the internet, while contributing nothing of value to the topic
@@zukondis Hey just a quick thing to put in here, I'd assume if you are watching this then you are a Christian, remember Jesus said to have peace, patience, love, joy, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control, there was no need to call them a waste of oxygen. Much love tho :)
“You do not lower your standards, you lengthen your patience” 👏🏼
So true ! Amen 🙏🏼❤️
Amen and Amen
"God's not here to rip you off, he is here to set you free".
Summary:
"Remember you are a princess, a daughter of the King!"
Follow a 6 point checklist when looking for a guy;
1. Commitments
2.Humility( is he a here i am guy or a there you are guy)
3. Inspect his reputation
4. Initiative/drive
5. Inspect his self-contol
5. Inspect his truth(is his life build on the word of God)
That’s amazing to see people watch the whole thing! Keep seeking the Lord Ann.
You forgot 6-Truth:)
@@lyd6563 what's no. 6
@@PurposefulLife123 they put five twice so they put all six but just put five twice. Sixth is truth they got it. Lol
@@lyd6563 oh thanks now only I notice 5 no. Is repeated 😃
“Porn isn’t a sex addiction, it’s addiction to VARIETY.” Oof that’s a good word. 👏🏻
LEADERS. REMOVE. CONFUSION. 😳🙌🏽🙏🙏🙏🙏
„Leaders remove confusion“
Amen to this!!!👏🏾
I’m definitely at that point in my life where I needed to hear this message. Such a truthful message and very much needed in this “social media “ driven society . I miss the porch
My first reaction when I saw him pull up in this car was a judgmental one. I thought oh no that's a sort of a full-of-himself pastor kind of guy. Now that I finished this sermon I will be sending it to the teens at my church. Good stuff!
Guys, don’t chase after the girls that like “bad boys”. They aren’t the girls you want to end up with because the ending won’t be good. Look for a girl who wants a godly, humble leader.
Girls, don’t chase after “bad boys”. Again, it won’t end well. Look for a godly man who treats you like a princess and looks to the LORD to lead him in everything.
Look for a partner who will put God first in everything and always point you back to Him.
Such a brilliant message ! Thank you
Amazing message. Life-changing.
Thank you pastor , blessings sermon .
Powerful! I needed to hear this today. Thank you JP! Keep us in your prayers
Basically the audio book of Outdated. Wish I knew this advice years ago
Never been with a guy I knew was going to hurt me
No, I don't like bad guys at all... what I find irristibly attractive is a man that is consistent... does what he said he's going to do...be still my heart ❤.
Does what he says when he says.
Thanks for your ministry that teach us to grow
This is so Good 👍 👏 I Praise GOD 🙌 for your Ministry. GOD Bless you all 💝 🙏
Leaders remove confusion! Amen!
The Harley comment though 🤔 I ride one but….. lol
I like you.
I am so blessed with the msg.
Finding a real love in the fake world.
I pray for to God to bless you with more grace, more oil for you in Christ Jesus name, Amen.
18:54 Nice 'Friends' reference
So good thank you JP always convicting
Loved this! I bring up first Timothy chapter 3 in a relationship teaching that I have on my channel.
Your metaphors are brilliant!
Please girls, do NOT fall in love with POTENTIAL. He might not submit himself to Growth. That IS his choice.
Also like the messages I always comment on what I disagree with but 99 percent is truth!! Grateful for Him:)
I love
C.H.R.I.S.T
Commitment
Humility
Refrences
Initiative
Self-control
Truthful
Matthew 11:29
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Deng jp leaned out that's so awesome!!
I ignored the red flags in a man and my children and I had to go through a very painful divorce‼️Don’t date a red flag guy- porn, lying, unfaithfulness, drugs, etc.‼️‼️‼️😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😡
Lets not promise until we mean it 💜
Adultery, abuse and abandonment are all valid biblical reasons to end a marriage. That is implied in the classic marriage vows. There's literally no reason to add those things as a condition to anyone's vows. JP totally missed it on that one.
If you divorce you cannot remarry while your spouse still lives. Mark 10:10-11, Luke 16:18, Romans 7:2-3, 1 Cor 7:10-11, Matt 5:32 and 19:9 all say the same thing. Jesus said what God has joined together let no man separate. Jesus said except for fornication and He was talking about the engagement period like Mary and Joseph. You even take a vow to death do us part.
25:47 would have been a really funny moment for him to have slipped into a carmax commercial
Pls have your here in Nebraska
Yes.
Thanks
If someone sleeps with someone they left / broke the marriage union it’s over. It’s not the chested on leaving the marriage, that person is now one flesh with someone else. So it’s pointless to put in the vows because it’s a break. Yes if someone joins another person and becomes one with them then what are you going to, be a threesome spiritually?
Amen
I don’t meet any qualifications. I’m a complete loser. I have absolutely nothing to offer any woman.
If you love Christ and you seek the kingdom of God first. Then you have all things brother.
So do i. And i messed so many things up already. But Jesus still longs for our souls, that's the beauty of it. And yes, seek first the kingdom!!!
Same, and I've spent a lot of time seeking. I just really suck at finding.
God is all you need! Seek God first he is the centerpiece of it all. A god fearing is what you should pursuit
Didnt realize foolishness was biblical
To date in the modern day you need to make at least 60,000 a year. Women don’t want anything less.
You have to find good Women, if you can't find women who won't look past income, you're not looking in the right place, and/or the right kind of people (not caring about money alone) are seeing issues that you need to resolve before they'll accept being in a relationship with you. The point is they are rare, but you have to find them, not vice versa (Generally speaking. Men initiate), and if they're actually quality, they won't accept someone who isn't striving like they are. (And I say this as a single guy not a 'condescending girl', I've seen your view myself and eventually found it flawed and limited.)
@Bruce Courtney i loved a man so much who only has a work with a net of $500 dollar a month. I gave my all and he is my first. I didn't see money or his physical appearance the hindrance to my love for him. But he broke my heart. Haha funny
@@jacquebae6535 you don’t have to try to laugh it off, did you marry him? Maybe the Lord was protecting you and you dodged a bullet.
@@travis6694 no i didn't marry him. He leave. I am better now. I realize it's God's protection.
@@jacquebae6535 no doubt. My crazy ex went snd got a tattoo with a guy weeks after We broke up. The same design she wanted to get with me months prior and I said no. Then she gets a demon face tattoo on her forearm.
first ten minutes is what Andrew Tate says lol
Well the interviews did not disprove the unrealistic expectations of black women in general.
Lol 😂 I’m a black woman. I have NEVER felt the way that lady expressed. Especially the dog thing 🤮
Kinda fucked up that for men you have to check their references and do a background check. For women their past is whatever, long history of cheating, hooks ups, maybe ending up as a single mom in that whole process. In the same way showing a history that predicts a bad outcome. So why not tell men to be mindful of women’s references as well, interview the ex’s - because it renders 80% of women undateable? You know 70% of divorces are filed by women, because marriages start at a point where men ignored their past. The famous 7 year itch kicks in, a long past of variety in sexual partners and being pleasure and variety focused eventually catches up.
Hey genius, this was for women. There are plenty of videos to men and both that cover that topic. Think before spouting off on the internet.
@@vibeauxssxuaebiv3489 ay yo waste of oxygen, Where do you think i draw the comparison from? Watched the one for men before this one. Think before you try to sound smart on the internet, while contributing nothing of value to the topic
@@zukondis Hey just a quick thing to put in here, I'd assume if you are watching this then you are a Christian, remember Jesus said to have peace, patience, love, joy, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control, there was no need to call them a waste of oxygen. Much love tho :)
@ orac: he has another one for men about women.