Why She's Not Chasing You | What Makes 99.9% of Women Pursue The Right Man!
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- #1 stop controlling the mission. Stop forcing something and pace yourself. A woman will feel this energy of trying too hard.
#2 not enjoying your life of being single. Stop coming off eager for attention to be with her.
#3 did not create a life of balance. Values, goals, and boundaries are so important to find yourself and the right woman. When you are clear on this you can attract the right woman.
#4 you're not doing anything different. Women want to feel like they value the man they are dating. So putting yourself on a pedestal is important!
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Why she doesn’t chase you: she knows you want her more than she wants you
C A very well said champ
Facts 💯💯✔✔✔✔💪
CANDELARIA Siom you’re not alone doing that, same story here!
Yup lol it’s simple
C A what do you do about this then
Don't chase women. Use that energy to develope yourself, explore, take care of your health, achieve your goals ect. Take it slow. ✌️
Take Care of your Health 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 that’s the thing people forget & the most important thing we can do as humans 🤝
SiLx Milx Beats
What if your goal is to have children?? 😢
@@Disappearit Really though!
I had a lady tell me
I wish you would pursue me because im done putting the effort
Now this is coming from a lady that liked me but we never even dated
@@Disappearit Adopt.
Women end up with the wrong man 99.9% of the time, so there's a high probability it's not your loss, it's hers.
Don't immediately assume it's something you're doing wrong, women are completely illogical and irrational when it comes to choosing a mate, so don't worry about it.
Just do you, always do you first.
That is true and when you can give it all for them,,they don"t believe you...
Here's a kicker: Women are more depressed now than they were in the 1970s. How could this be? More choices, more freedom to choose. Many women are unable to be decisive in what they want their life to be like (career vs family). I'm unable to summarize a paper that can't do it succinctly, however, this was eye-opening to read: www.nber.org/papers/w14969.pdf
Make's alot of sense . I have many women in my family , they seem to never know what they want .
Why do they end up with the wrong man 99.9% of the time? So does that mean the girl that friend zone me and is in a 7 month relationship with some Alpha Male ex Marine with tattoos that she might break off with him or he might dump her?
Asao Johnston dont be surprised to see her as a single mom within that 3 yr span.
Best thing to do is simply ignore her. When a man is confident, has goals, occupied with things other than women, a woman will definitely see and notice. That’s how you get women to chase you..
Great advice. I've always said this
Agreed
They will never chase you, only the fruits of your labour, or the empire that you've built. It's funny how these statements always gloss over hypergamy and raw truth. Build an empire....women will move right on in...but they will never chase you as a person, only what you've accomplished, and only if it can benefit them.
she blew me off last minute for a date , i ignored her the next day and got a text saying she wanted to do something but at that point i didnt want it anymore
@@dxfan45 yep fk a bch. How she gonna talk to me when she see me in class, but then ignore a text. Like dam you ain't even gotta date to respond to a message the fuck?
And if she doesn't even want me as a friend either then why exchange numbers with me? Fking lie next time lol say you got a boyfriend or some shit.
Basically relax. What will happen will happen. You have to make sure that you have your life together before you bring somebody else into it. So work on yourself and make you the best you you can be. If a woman finds that attractive once you've achieved it then evaluate her and decide if she's up to your standards. If she is and you're attractive to her then get to know each other and build a relationship together. "Que será, será" What will be, will be. Just let things develop naturally and don't try to force it. The outcome is not good if you do. Also evaluate if you really REALLY want to have a relationship. Evaluate the costs and benefits and if the benefits aren't there or the costs are too high, just enjoy being single.
well said
Thanks man rlly helped 🙏
Woah. You are a guru.
This advice right here is timeless 💯
Man alive what stinko advice.
I stopped calling this girl I was smitten by... I was spending my money my time and getting way too involved and she never would call me unless she needed something... so I stopped 4 days went by and she calls and ask why I stopped calling or coming around... I told her I was busy with work... she said she was worried about me... I said that’s nice to hear.... I told her I’d call her in a few days.... about 4 days went by again and she had her friend call me asking what’s wrong... why haven’t I called... I said again busy with work and then she said Jennifer is upset about me not calling her... I said I felt like I was the only one giving in the relationship and she hardly ever called me... long story short... stop being so damn available to everyone and live your own way and let them come after you sometimes...
Willie Sky yes sir. That’s my MO and it withdraws everytime.
In the beginning I pursue and chase until I got u on the hook than once on the hook I take a step back and stop chasing and it seems like the women are desperately trying to figure out what happened and start chasing me down from every angle.
I had multiple women crying in tears because I purposely disappeared for a week lol. They couldn’t figure out what was going on
Thanks bro I’m trying not get out of some hard stuff right know I’m almost out just need few more days and will be good
Lol I’ve had one that’s wanted distance for months but will always want to come talk to me when she sees me in person (happens relatively frequently due to same social circle). Tells me friday by text still not ready to hang out or have regular contact. Sees me the next night and sees I’m riding a motorcycle, suddenly wants to see it and then wants me to let her know when I make it home. 🤦♂️
I figured out all I want is a dog to live with. My best buddy. Loves me NO MATTER WHAT.
Makes for interesting sex too ;D
Don't describe your woman as a 🐕
Mans best friend
Get a girl follow my content!
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In other words. Be confident. Don’t be thirsty.
Sooo damnnn true
I agree with you!
Those who are hungry are Never fed!! True
Yeah you can be fuckin nerdy but as long you own up at that shit and just roll with what you say. She wont really give a damn as long as shes that type of woman that's okay with it. you're playing the certain role. Gotta fake it till you make it.
All that matters as that you build character. You gotta be charismatic. That's my point
Fellas remember it does matter what she does....she was never yours. If she leaves....move on and be single. I know it's hard but it's so worth. Do not put too much faith and hope in women. You'll live a much better life on your own trust me. Do not cater to women. Let them Chase you. 💯🙏😉
Eric Glenn you sir, know something about Life. This is the WHOLE truth.
gotta be able to take a "L" when dealing with women
And when u got this attitude u ll get women
@@JRich165 Hes right thats definitly the right way.
Fact bro
the hardest part of being rejected after expending time and emotions with her is the feeling of being played. It's just happened to me, she took me up and down as she pleased.... I thought it was part of the chasing game, ... It wasn't. I take it as a GOOD LESSON.
Why we have to play this emotional game with each other
@Corn Pop haha. Every 10 seconds .. . may be true.
Because as we get older our ego's tell us we are no longer children, when in reality we are forever children, just aged.
It's not entirely a game man... Would you date a woman that has nothing to her? You got her figured out, you know what she's going to say and do... You probably think "yeah I'm cool with that". But that's a short term way of thinking! Sooner or later you'll grow tired of that routine! Tired and pissed. Women have the same thing but more leaned to personality rather than looks (and I would say "x10 times" over men). That's why you have to be this crazy dude that entertains them
Why do you have to study for exam?😂If you don't study surely you will fail, and people who were interested will pass. Girls are not that emotional at the beginning, the same bullshit you are asking her in text 10 other guys have also been asking the same question.
Now what will differentiate you and the other persons ,is your career and financial stability. No guy is unattractive and not funny ,if they have money, honey!!
I know many will come and argue women don't consider only the money aspects.
I mean STFU dude 70% women you will encounter will ask you what you do for living. If she believes that you don't earn that much , of course she won't be rude and tell go away , rather you will be her chat buddy and will be wasting your time.
First financial aspects then all other aspects (funny,gym lover, traveller) basically if you are a man either you are a provider or looser .
If you can be seen enjoying yourself as a single, some women will be compelled to put a stop to that. Good warning.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@markwhittaker6866 this is real shit
Never make yourself too available, especially at the beginning. Leave a little mystery. Keep them guessing. I'm married, have been for a long time and my wife still can't figure me out.😋😂 Thus, she is still in pursuit 😁
Powerful advice: how do you make yourself a mystery? I am starting to realize that is not OK to respond to women at night. What are your thoughts, champion?
@@josepalacios2819 Have a life. Have interests and hobbies that don't involve her and don't talk that much.
Also as a bonus, don't be too quick to do everything she wants you to do. Be a challenge. If she asks you to do something say she first has to do something for you. For example if she asks you to do something say, "Sure, but you have to do something for me first." Say, "Ask me again, but say it in a British accent." Don't do what she wants until she fulfills your request.
thanks for letting us that 👍 to know big brother
Dex. Camerón how do you have the energy for that dude? I understand all this shit and I don’t know why it is so difficult for so many idiots to understand or accept. I know how to pick up women, I know how to seduce them, but although I know what needs to be done in order to keep them it is all just too much work. It is too exhausting. To have to play these games with the same woman your whole entire life. I’m getting tired just thinking about it.
Dex. Camerón exactly bro. Its possible to be married and still keep her on her toes
Her very last line is crucial, "People value something more when they earned it."
Be careful,.. the anxiety for love will drop you homeless,..
The problem is 99.9% of women pursue the wrong man 🤣🤣🤣
The wrong man shouldn't be so lucky🍀
wrong for their life, but not wrong for their emotions.
@@ultrararesabra6159 Yes also wrong for their emotions, they end up miserable.
This reeks niceguy mentality, yikes.
Or Vice Versa?
This exact thing is happening to me right now. Girl went with somebody else and broke my heart..ghosted me.. now I go on a few successful dates and she wants to talk.. The reality is that I'm not going to go that route because I'm the exact same guy before and after those dates and she made her choice.. Know your value fellas.. ladies too... if somebody doesn't want you before ______ then don't want them back after ______
I rather move to India or overseas there more into dating
Good advice Michael. I experienced the same last year only she never contacted me again. I wasn't expecting to meet someone so I went all in ignoring red flags because I was in that head over heels atmosphere. Be strong 💪
Michael Hilliary I like your decision bro, keep it up
@@jayoakland4042 Lol so true bro I'm done with the West kaput this bitch tried to send me this manipulative comment about ghosting the West I blocked her
@@jayoakland4042 wrong info bro.i am an indian and i have not even gone on a single date and i am 21
The "what if" wasted 3 years of my life! This was totally me. Brothas out there please pay attention. Truth being spoken here.
My opinion: " If a woman isn't chasing you at all, it means her level of interest isn't at the point where she has fallen in love with you." Basically you can walk out of her life today and it wouldn't faze her one bit.
I did this 2 weeks ago, I kinda expected her to realize what she Lost but nah, nothing. So now I know it was the right thing to do.. It was hard the first few days but she made it eazy for me by being so arrogant in the whole situation
@@ND-ku4yo you can call her arrogant, but in reality, its cause she lose interest in you and moved on. You aren't a prize yet, deal with it ,
I agree If you are unsure if a woman likes you it is best to assume she doesn't like you very much. If a woman likes you she will let you know.
Zhara Moreira so u want him to do all the work smh lol
Zhara Moreira you’re a clown. If the dude moves on it’s your fault. Keep it up, you’ll see any man worth a damn is not going to pursue you the way you want to be pursued. I get it y’all want us to take the initiative but you take it to a whole new level and you sound unreasonable.
Meh, women ignore me most of the time anyway. So i just focus on work. if i die alone so be it. good video tho.
Work is more important than a woman and YOUR MONEY is important for YOU BROTHER... 😇🤗🙂
I dont care about money and not will I want to wait 4 years to get a good job just to attract the same woman I wanted for so long. It's no guarantee that this same girl will get a boyfriend
I'll pray for you bro. Its tough here. Way too many women to have to die alone. I'm 36 it took a while to get her 🙏🏾
Hey man if your happy single, you won. Take care of yourself.
Focus on your Health & well-being.. exercise and eat right & an Life will be whatever you want it to be 👍🏽
Proverbs 31:3 Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings.
Stay Blessed, Kings.
She wasn't even impressed w/ my night-vision goggles, and video tape of her sleeping! WTF do women want these days?
WTF?! 😆
terry witzu
Lol
She should be impressed with your sense of humor, though.
LoL!
LMAOOO
As if most women have it "all together." Please!
That's why us men die first. We are required to be perfect and there's no such thing.
let her earn it guys, remember fool's rush in.
wow!! yes, said Elvis
I should have listened to this 6 months ago. Rejection = obsession. I chased away any chance at reconciliation by being too eager, too needy instead of accepting the reality and being a man about the situation.
MR - Then, six months later, she tells the world that you "gave up" too easily and were not persistent enough. Good luck!
I don't agree...you were in love, that's all, and that's nothing to be ashamed of, trying to make things work is what people do...she just didn't want to invest as much as you did and that's just because she didn't feelt the same, so great for you to "scare" a non lover away cause you deserve someone who will fight the world for you just as you did when you were in love =)
@@enniswhalen2428 damn if you do and damn if you dont. Damn bitches.
Alexandre Azevedo I love ❤️ you comment 🤝 it’s Deep & much needed 🤝 too all who is lucky enough to read it.
Ennis Whalen I had a girl tell me that shit hahahaha 😂😂😂women are fucking insane
that's because traditionally, men do all the heavy lifting in dating
Specially if shes fat and they want to switch position
Lifting 💰 should be in the bank💲
@@CertifiedRealism
🤣🤣🤣🤣
True advice. Build slowly. Not full force til you know u belong to each other...
Some women have no idea when they find a great guy(😉me)----money,job,status, Hollywood romantic idea...take priority in their mind. 🤔
success in relationship is when she invest more than you
True
the view from the top of your building is always breathtaking...
I dont kno i think ppl these dayz are become more narcissistic and ungrateful especially women in this generation...😂 selfies etc...
The problem is, I’ve had women that I’m not attracted to chase me and even stalk me. No matter what, do not give in to these women. If you are attracted to them physically and mentally then sure, go for it. I think a genuine relationship lies in both partners being fully into each other and not giving up no matter what.
Like i always tell men. Focus on being the man you want to be. Women will either like you or not. The ones that like you-take care of them.
Women do not know what they really want and change like seasons. They barely like themselves!
Apollonia always speaks the truth 💯👍 have goals, enjoy yourself, be happy, enjoy life, travel, and don’t invest too much time in a woman. That will get them to come to you when you’re working on a objective potential. My advice also if you’re single make a lot of female friends and hang out and date. Whoever ends up being serious and committed to you congratulations you have a partner. Give the dates time to come different days not too much at once. You stay busy working on yourself on whatever it is your striving for. You won’t worry on the what if’s and think about that women too much that you like. If she really likes you the two of you will keep it going with the flow on seeing each other on dates. While you guys are enjoying each other’s lives. Be happy and move on to the next if she doesn’t come back to you 💯👍
It's not always that simple to date though for some Men..
That “what if” gets every guy. I’d say put the relationship at rest if she doesn’t put the time in with you.
i came here to see why apollonia is not chasing me 😎
She drove by you in her car so become a traffic cop and make that traffic stop.
Because she is actually chasing me
Cause you are poor lame
Use your energy and devotion to yourself, build yourself, motivate yourself and move on....if someone comes in the way that can be yours that you can show them your affection and if they don’t accept it then move on and avoid them............let them or her learn a lesson, treat her the same way by excluding her out.
If you do not properly pursue,then you are a "weak beta", and if you DO pursue, then you are too eager.You are in for a rough,rough ride!
Read " How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne.
Really though! I find this nonsensical.
Can you say oxymoron? If woman had been in charge since the beginning of time, we would still be living in mud huts. Logic vs feelings.
Be alpha!
I think this 'alpha' thing is useful only in the beginning. And I mean the very first pickup lines (which shouldn't be lines, mind you) or messages online. After that, it's reasonable to initiate contact every once in a while to agree on a date but all else is up to her. If she'll be interested, she'll write, call, send pics and go out of her way to get in touch.
For example, I started talking to this girl on tinder yesterday. Seemed witty, had a few dark jokes in between us and agreed on a date tomorrow. Then I started noticing that she is either inattentive or likes to be chased, so I stopped pursuing. Will see if she remembers about the date tomorrow as we need to agree on a time and place. If not, good riddance.
If a woman isn't chasing you for who you are, don't be fooled when a woman start chasing you because you accomplish things in life. Should be best interest at heart. Not best interest how much money you have. She may love you because of security not because of your heart. You can tell a lot of about a person when you don't have anything. Some women will love you because you have goals. Some women will love you because if your heart & not your status. Not all women chase after the same thing.
I love the way you dress always classy and sexy! I LOVE your advice thank you for your videos they opened my ears to my mistakes in courting woman.
And you both don't know the correct tense between woman and women. Awe. Cute!
I want to meet you some day and you can just watch me in action, and tell me everything I need to fix
Because i dont own a ferrari
Everyday Products 😂
I don't have an actual tank...
Money is not everything
this woman or lady give legit legit legit advice! it's like you were born to do this. move over marni!
So true 20% they dont deserve the 100% up front always.. you end up getting hurt when she finds someone else
U want to change my guys have u heard of nofap my life has changed so much no joke I'm on day 86 and still going strong
Obsession..that's the word ..thank you
I miss her so much and it's been the hardest thing to let go, I deleted her number completely out of my contacts so I don't give in to the urge to call her. I'm doing my best to regain my happiness of being alone, it just hits me so hard from time to time. As much as I miss her I can't ever get back with her, I have to really respect myself. I'm not a door mat.
She's not chasing you cuz these broads are lazy. That's why they get left. ✌
PREACH!
Thank you for making all these videos, I got the woman I've had a crush on for 3 years because of you.
Took up boxing, providing security, being playful, and being consistent, and so much more over these past few months. You really helped me gain perspective and I'm so happy
Most women don't "chase" men anyway. Fellas know remember that most of the time the woman isn't interested but "sometimes" is & can resist because she may know that she doesn't want you to ever get to know the real her. She may also be afraid how hard she has fallen but can't allow you to see it. They won't you to chase them. Never do this however fellas. Just leave them alone. That's how you will know what the deal is.
a woman chasing you would imply that the man is running away...be assertive, pursue me too, but don't chase me...
This is a great video Apollonia, very informative. My boyfriend must have knew the tips in this video, because I definitely chased him down when I knew what I wanted LOL. 😂😂😂
Thank you, Kata! I love seeing another woman speaking the truth on my channel. Listen up, men. :) Appreciate your support beauty.
Apollonia Ponti Anytime! My man knows lol.
@@ApolloniaPonti - I like your advice. But I read between the lines that I should date several women in parallel which I already do.
Important
Yeah but women normally don't do anything in order to make a relationship happen with a man
Dudes:use the "one strike you're out" rule.
Text or call her occasionally and build the relations.
Ask her out after a week of this; if it's a "no," move on; you're done with her.
it's not rocket science
She’s actually right about the three stages and how after stage 2 they lead you to seduction. It’s literally 50% physical attraction, 50% feeling secure about you for the future. They love hearing words of reassurance if they really like you already. For us guys we see her and already made up most of our minds. Women are slower lol
Rite on with what is goin on with ,My relationship with a person Im trying to pursue in life right now,glad you did this videos😊
Women need to work for it too, it can't all be on the man to change the dynamics all the time. Also don't forget women age too and lose their appeal rather quickly if they want to waste their time let them, dont let them waste yours?
This is a matter of heart. Listen to it but don't be obsessed to the extent of losing your self respect. If she is interested, she also needs to respond. It's not one way traffic. Your heart will know if she is also into you. Watch carefully if there is reciprocation. If there is not in spite of your sincere efforts, just forget her and move on. Look after yourself.
Here's something I don't mind admitting. It's really tough to resist going after a woman when it's someone you want more than anything. It's like being thirsty and someone shows you a glass of water and tells you you can't drink it if you behave like you want it at all. That person doesn't care how long you've been in the desert or if you'll die of dehydration any minute now.
PERFECT description for my case. The girl does not give a single flying fuck.
I think it’s better to tell the girl that you like her after two weeks of talking bc enough is enough with these mind games & if she doesn’t feel the same. Forget about her & move on
Then die?
I'm getting more tips from the comments than in this actual video... 👏🏻 Thanks Appollonia and those great souls who commented
Thanks,once again great video.I appreciate that you have the themes of putting yourself on a pedestal and doing different things[for self growth] repeated throughout different videos.Thanks again.
She's not Chasing you because she found out that you don't have a Big enough Bank account$!!!
Second place is first loser.
Or because you're not Idris Elba/Lebron James/Drake
Or you own a Samsung Galaxy
Or you cheer for Alabama instead of Auburn
Or you wear purple a lot.
Anything can cost you a girl. Too much/little of XYZ, having/not having XYZ can cost you.
I blame myself for what I planted,, I used to beg her,, making myself available all the time,, thinking about her, showing her openly I love her, whenever we disagree I ignore just to maintain good relationship. Our relationship is 2yrs old now,, thanks a lot for what I have learned from relationship coaches. Last two weeks we had an argument, I went silent thereafter, and communication has changed now and I will never beg for anything now I want to play my mind games now, if she stays it's okay if not it's also good for me.
Apollonia, good advice. I was guilty of going full force 100% when trying to get this woman I liked and she still wasn't interested. I was playing it by ear listening to all the horror stories she told me about guys she dated. Figuring I would be a better option, I went all in but failed. She even would hint that I was doing too much. There was a reason for it. She had a bunch of guys pursuing her at once. I felt like I had to give 100%. Didn't understand it at the time but I understand it now after watching this. Thanks
Hi Charles- now you know. You will know what to do moving forward. Happy you're here! :)
Wow, I am in the same situation. She has 3 guys after her to marry her. YIKES!
@@ApolloniaPonti Thanks
Would suck to be in a place like the US were women date with multiple dudes at the same time
I concur. Women love a man on mission too. Being uncertain on how you feel at the beginning will allow her to be intrigued more. It’s called the mysterious man that’s on a mission. Show interest, but never over pursue. Tell her she’s beautiful, but show her with actions. You can still be an alpha man with beta man actions. Good points.
This literally just changed my life. Thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Show them a couple stacks 💵💵
She's got to respect you and you respect her. It's that easy.
Nah, who am I kidding. It's difficult - but that is the only way forward.
Very sound advice. I used to be that guy pushing for a relationship when I'd start dating a girl. For awhile there, I was preoccupied with trying to get into a relationship and what I've learned is you really can't force it. Giving a woman her space in the beginning will also let you gauge her crazy level also.
Hello, I did the no contact rule,she reply in three days time,now I repeat it for the second time but it didn't work out ,no reply ...should I contact her back
I've really learnt a lot after finding this channel
In the end women have a negative or at best zero return on investment......yes all women!
Thank you. Even though I'm 39 and haven't had a relationship I will continue to build up my beautiful single life. Long time being alone but I will continue on dealing with it. 😇 besides I get ignore anyway by women so I don't even try so.
women only chase men for 3 reasons
1. He has something she wants
2. He is really really good looking
3. How he makes her feel
these are the hard facts of it. My advice is just continue to be the authentic you and work on yourself as you see best. The right woman will come along and if she doesn’t at least you created a life where you are happy and content. The worst thing is changing the authentic you in order to attract women; or becoming the bad boy.
They say nice guys finish last, but I disagree. Nice guys who are their true authentic self will ultimately finish first as they end up with who they are truly meant to be with. Forcing yourself to be the bad boy you will attract people, but the wrong types. Essentially your just wasting your time with the wrong people by changing the authentic you.
So I confessed to a woman she said she likes our friendship I just decided to be cordial when I see her out there and I haven’t texted her for days and now I’m talking to two women that actually do want something and she will know I have options. I bet she will eventually reach out . Sometimes you have to be tough and be willing to lose that way they will see that you have self respect
I am sick of hearing about how complicated the women are....Why aren't they advised to drop their sneaky mentality and stupid mind games?
My woman loves me because we understand how these things work. These people that think they are above earning a real woman will never get the one they really want.
Money will make make Chase everything towards it...so be a money magnet !! Have money ultimately any one would be there for you become successful focus on your goals and achieve them ultimate goal is to have money...it's only about it.. and yeah no women would be there with a broke guy...it's all myths and fairy tale story Which is shown in movie like money doesnt matter in love or only what matters in only heart and feelings...but in reality only money matters .....so attain money in life the whole world will chase you...!!
Great points. Learning curve for me. Thanks Apollonia
Well im Aries so i only chase strong honest women so i dont chase nobody right now 😅 👍🏻
Wow!!!! Just wow!!! This is me. I just never heard it put into words for me. Over 4 years ive told myself that i am proving myself by waiting and not going out with other women. I thought i was showing loyalty and proving my sincerity. But it is so much closer to what youve described here. Thank you!! This really helps with some perspective.
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This not only works with women but everything
its easy to try and put down women for rejecting you as an individual, infact it causes a long term negative effect on yourself because that aspect in itself is an instability. Simply wishing them all the best and side stepping to pursue your own goals will not only make you feel great, but will be seen by others and prepare you for other women you cross paths with.
Being happy within and a goal chaser, plays a major role in finding the right woman. The right woman will recognize and respect the passion you are putting into pursuing your Health, career and finances. A selfish woman won't and will end up bringing you down if you let her.
Nah I just gave up. I obsessed over her. It was self destructive behavior. To be honest I wonder if she’ll ever forgive me.
Very helpful video Apollonia. That's the cold truth. We have to face reality instead of fantasies and go with the flow. 😎👍
Out of all the women dating coaches she sounds the most logical. I usually just watch these videos for entertainment. She is correct. Men and women fall in love with hope and lose sight on reality. They’ll become angry or frustrated because the sequence they created in their mind is not a reality.
Why can we just love each other, go to beach together:(
she posted a pic with her ex because he helped her out. i reached out to her and told her that it bothered me and i got jealous by that. she got very mad because she told me i kept pushing her and pressuring her. she said we will never be together because she doesnt want to and i shouldnt have fake hopes.
Thank you Apollonia. I think you have to be the prize always.
By the way, I think you worked to earn my compliments Apollonia 😃😄. Your outfit is so nice especially with your favourite colour. Allah bless you Apollonia.
she's not chasing you because your're ugly ....that's the best answer.
What you mentioned about the “what if” is on point! That is something I struggled with the last woman that rejected me. Plus I battle with OCD, which is fueled by the “what if” thoughts. You are amazing at what you do Apollonia! Keep it up!!!
Fellas! Pursue your money it doesnt talk back 💪
You need love in life, they go hand and hand... however these games and rules may seem stupid but its basic human psychology and biology, you're going to be attractive to someone out there but these systems might just get you in the position to find that special person
honestly what ive learnt the most with this channel is women are so fucking complicated
I really enjoy your channel, I gave up on dating for a long time, you have great advise, thanks for sharing
Funny how none of these rules apply to women, only men. Women always have all their shit together
It's bcuz most men want to be "liked" & not "desired" .. Most men put women on a pedestal & make her the prize possession & not value & make themselves the "valued prize" .. Don't be a "prize" be "THE PRIZE" .. Stop running behind her,calling & checking up on her every day or every other day,calling her back when she said she'll call you back,over complimenting her instead of just giving her a nice simple compliment or two & looking at her like she just fell down from the heavens above ... Guys with value just keep things nice,simple,hold their composure,stay calm,cool & collected while treating her like a woman & not a 🏆 trophy he wants to win at a contest ..
Wow! What a great comment. Thank you, Fred!
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Well said brother Fred👊😎
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I’ve always heard you can’t say the wrong the to the right person. Both are the prize and should embrace and love each other.
Cuz I’m fucking broke lmao. I look clean though