The jealous sister just wants to top up her sister, she got the attention all along, suddenly a little attention to older sister and jealous sister cracked
The issue was the shared bridal appointment. Each of them should have had their own bridal appointment. They are both brides and should receive their own attention. I don't have siblings but if my cousin and I shared close wedding dates, I would never shop with her. It's my special day and I want the attention on me. Not on someone else. Every part of bridal planning is special.
it's a sadly common family dynamic. one child is the golden child who can do no wrong and the other is the scapegoat, the family's emotional punching bag. it's so toxic.
Just pause at 2:41 to see how both of them look. The older sis looks perfect in that dress. The dress on younger sister looks like something that little girls wear on their birthdays. Didn't understand what the family liked in that dress. The younger one kept bullying the older one throughout the appointment but when she didn't get the compliment, she got upset. That's karma.
Funny how the situation changed the youngest sister was getting all the praise and she was just smiling away and then when she didn’t get the right reaction, she was not a happy girl and she knew what it felt like
I don't get the feeling the younger sister REALLY made that decision out of love for her sister. I think her feelings got butt-hurt and she's pouting because she cannot compete with her older sister's dress and their reaction. She doesn't want to try any more on right now because she can't get the attention her sister got, out of her mind and it's spoiling the rest of her day.
I felt the same! When she said "I just wanted her to have her moment", like what? She should have done that from the beginning! Awful younger sister, AWFUL MOM
Mom wanting them to share a dress, an appointment, and even wanted them to share a wedding. Eeek no wonder they are competative, likely always had to compete for moms attention. I wouldn't be surprised if she made them share birthday celebrations if she thought they were close enough (I've had friends that had this happen and they always felt they were in the siblings shadow). I get this stuff is expensive but come on woman, let your kids have their individual days and taste and not have to share everything. Yikes.
I' ve had the birthday thing going on with my mom - my birthday being the day before hers and it always really was the preparation day for her celebration the next day...Even now , living apart, when she calls me on the phone for my birthday, it' s " Happy Birthday ' and then immediately talking about what she is preparing for her guests tomorrow....Of course, these days it does not matter any longer....but it is still a clear picture of what my childhood was like : Cinderella being shown her place in the ashes by step- mum... - Still working on finding my inner Prince....
@@mellifergoldoh yeah. My sister 2 1/2 years younger has birthday close to christmas, never had school parties, and felt left out. My bday is late summer, ditto. So, while we took vacation just before school started, she was celebrated as well on my birthday. I'm in my 70s, it still hurts. My brother had his bday in July, never had to share, plus he was oldest, and a boy, so you know how THAT goes. Oh, we only vacationed where my dad could go fishing, even tho he took a couple trips a year to go with buds to ice fish, trout fish etc. Plus all the fishing in our vicinity.
@@kathimorrical9912It’s so weird how people never think this through, because they’re saying your sister’s birthday is important enough to make sure it’s celebrated, but neither of yours is important enough for your own day. Weird. There are so many holidayish days leading up to Christmas where not much is really happening. Could have celebrated her then, not thrown together with you. 🫤
Maybe it was just a lot of editing going on in this episode, but I sure felt sorry for Diane when Michelle kept getting all the praise and she just kept getting dissed.
Doesn't that younger sister know how horrible she comes across? And this program is on TH-cam. Anybody in her circle to see it. Why be so rude to your sister? They are both pretty young ladies. The younger sister shouldn't bully her older sister. Just terrible.
My mom & her sister who was 1 year older had a double wedding in the 1950's. Not unheard of back then to save costs in big families of 10 kids. They wore identical ballgowns & had a big cathedral wedding. Photos showed strangers in the pews & outside the church who showed up just to see a double wedding.
WTF is with the competition? I have two girls 2 years apart and I always smash down any competition! They are not in competition, they are only needing to worry about finding what works for them and cheering on their sister as she finds her way as well!
The family has told her she's the pretty one her whole life. She doesn't know how to deal with a lack of attention and even her mother couldn't allow the older one to have that moment.
Ill let you have your moment. … what a pile of crap…. She was nasty to her sister the whole time so as everyone else too. She sure didnt like not being the star of the show, she was not being gracious at all. Just jealous.
She wasn't trying to be gracious, she was trying to pull the focus right back on her because "Awwww that's so sweet of you." This young woman has likely never known a moment in her life when she wasn't the star focus. Their mother, don't even get me started...
What a horrible sister the younger one. She damaged the whole appointment for the older sister and then she decided to have an appointment for just herself.
I would not share my bridal appointment, Having to share the attention with someone else. Also what if i find a dress and they don't and vice versa. NOPE
I think the "baby" sister is moms favorite because of the way she was so excited over the dress the youngest sister liked. Not fair to either bride to be competing for moms approval for something so zpeci7
Every time sisters share a bridal appointment, it’s always a bloodbath of attention. One will turn into a she devil while the other one gets punched in the gut repeatedly… The younger one was so immature and rude. The older sister held her head high in spite of the backlash from her family. Lori did the right thing. Though it wound up confirming that without the older sister next to the younger sister, there was no way to bully her to make herself feel better. I feel sorry for her fiancé. But I still hope they both had a happy marriage
Mom? One wedding, one dress? smh I felt the girls were being pitched against each other (for sport!) until Lori intervened. Watching this appointment was like watching everyone "pile on the donkey" when it came to the oldest sister. So glad she found what she was looking for. Not surprised baby sister wanted her own lighting (as it should have been for both girls). jmo
i guarantee that mom has been pitting her daughters against each other their whole lives. mom's only willing to spend money/attention on one kid so she treats them like conjoined twins and makes them fight to be seen as individuals.
Oh. My. Heart. Hurt my heart with this one… I can’t believe the mom said that to her older daughter and can’t believe little sister was acting so selfish. I really do hope their wedding days were so so special and amazing glad this at least ended well.
I still don’t understand when you KNOW YOUR GETTING Married. Why DON’T YOU START SAVING MONEY to go towards the budget that your parents are GIVING YOU! Maybe then YOU COULD GET A BETTER DRESS?😱
That's typically what happens. Then the parents of either side express wishes to pay for the dress, photographer, dj, whatever to offset the cost/help the kids out. My mom insisted on paying for my dress. I was prepared to pay for it myself, but she insisted. I kept it *very* affordable and was able to get what I wanted. I'll do the same for my daughter if/when the time comes. IMO, whenever the word "wedding" is attached to an event, the prices are jacked. For instance, I could rent a hall for $150 for a stag and doe. But say it's for a wedding, then suddenly, it's $500. Frosts my flakes. Still, I love weddings. I love this reality series, haha...
I know they aren't twins but the same thing happens to twins some times when: the parent/parents and other family members just see them as one. The family doesn't celebrate their autotomy; so they grow up enmeshed and constantly being compared to one another. and that can create rivalry between them when one sibling decides they want to venture out as their own person.
Michelle has a lot of narcissistic tendencies (I wouldn't be surprised is she is a narc), sad really. I wish Dianne the best. the way her family treated her, so rude!! my heart goes out to her. and Michelle, therapy girl.
The damaged done by a parent playing favorites (especially if it’s mom choosing one daughter over another) brings generational pain. After having interacted with so many of these family dynamics, moms playing favorites take note: when it comes down to the wire and your suffering hardships like illness, that quiet daughter will be there for you while favored daughter will run away. Mom coddles the fav, forcing the outcast daughter to grow up strong. It may be anecdotal but I’ve seen it happen again and again.
The younger sister did the right thing by letting the older sister have the day and her coming back a different time, the way everyone was acting at first putting the girls against each other was so wrong, but I'm guessing this is the norm as the girls didn't seem to react to it at all
I know sisters who did it. They had mutual families, relatives and friends. They saved money on their wedding and spent more on their dresses. But the sisters weren't competitive. They were very close.
The cruelty and viciousness was brutal. I felt like it was Cinderella vs. the ugly step sisters! And turning the appt over had nothing to do with grace but instead had everything to do with jealousy, contempt and throwing a tantrum. I can't imagine how awful growing up in that environment was for the older sister. 😢😢😢 She turned out great! ❤❤
Oh yeah. Sharing something important like a birthday or a wedding dress appointment with someone else really hits home for me. I had to share my birthday with my older sister who is five years and three days older than me a few times. So for something like sharing a wedding dress appointment; favouritism is bound to show its ugly head.
Only one of those girls are mature enough to get married, it seems. But good job, mom, bringing on this set up, which is bound to make sibling rivalry kick in. It can't be news to her that it exists...
Probably the youngest sister was forced her whole life to wear her oldest sister's clothes, and by marrying first, she would reverse the flow. Just saying 🤷
Good on you Lori, you definitely came to the rescue. Gee i think never ever have the same appointment with your sister, i truly think that could never work. It's in human nature to be competitive with each no matter how much you love one another. And as for their mother shame on you to say that one daughter looks better in one particular dress than the other. Not on dear mother, they are both your daughters and equally as beautiful. Gee how can mothers be so brain dead😮
This family is not functioning properly. As a mother you should never say that you have a preference with who wears what dress, and sisters should not make a game out of something that is so emotional
This is uncomfortable to watch. The younger sister is very entitled and the rest of the family are her enablers. Their mother is the biggest culprit here. The older sister will be pitched against her sisters (both of them) forever poor woman.
The younger sister knew that she couldn't get the same attention as her older sister. She couldn't upstage that. So that's why she decided to "give up"...but show it as if she's sacrificing her moment for her older sister. And got everyone's sympathy votes.
I think there are some underlying family dynamics going on here, other than just the wedding dress shopping. Having synchronistic, same-salon appointments, was a set-up for sibling issues to assert themselves - no matter HOW well-adjusted they might be. Is the younger sister the baby, the golden child, the most pretty/ beautiful (and TOLD so), who can do no wrong? The one who is used to getting the lion's share of attention, and rarely - if ever - hearing the word, "no"? Is the older sister the black sheep (even if she isn't the eldest) - the one who is USUSALLY blamed - for everything? The one who NEVER satisfies, even when her test score is perfect? The one always expected to be more mature & more knowledgeable than her peers? I SUSPECT these things are occurring here, as well. Glad the younger sis stepped back. I am glad the older sister had her time, and her moment. I am SURE she will give the same to her younger sister... Wishing them both - not only happy dress shopping, but also, long, full lives of matrimonial happiness.
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That family is vicious to that one sister.
i would never share my appointment with anyone else. the spotlight should be on one person and not anyone else.
Parents are at fault. Cheaping out on the appt, putting them against ea other. Talk about keeping the rivalry going. I'm embarrassed for both.
The jealous sister just wants to top up her sister, she got the attention all along, suddenly a little attention to older sister and jealous sister cracked
The issue was the shared bridal appointment. Each of them should have had their own bridal appointment. They are both brides and should receive their own attention. I don't have siblings but if my cousin and I shared close wedding dates, I would never shop with her. It's my special day and I want the attention on me. Not on someone else. Every part of bridal planning is special.
I can’t believe the mom said I liked it better on Michelle
I know! Even if you think it, don't say it. Have some class and compassion.
@@tiffanytroutt5727 exactly
Why is family treating the one sister so terribly? It’s awful that she feels so hurt.
it's a sadly common family dynamic. one child is the golden child who can do no wrong and the other is the scapegoat, the family's emotional punching bag. it's so toxic.
Wow,, that was a bad idea. The older sister was the family pinata.
Just pause at 2:41 to see how both of them look. The older sis looks perfect in that dress. The dress on younger sister looks like something that little girls wear on their birthdays. Didn't understand what the family liked in that dress.
The younger one kept bullying the older one throughout the appointment but when she didn't get the compliment, she got upset. That's karma.
Funny how the situation changed the youngest sister was getting all the praise and she was just smiling away and then when she didn’t get the right reaction, she was not a happy girl and she knew what it felt like
I don't get the feeling the younger sister REALLY made that decision out of love for her sister. I think her feelings got butt-hurt and she's pouting because she cannot compete with her older sister's dress and their reaction. She doesn't want to try any more on right now because she can't get the attention her sister got, out of her mind and it's spoiling the rest of her day.
I felt the same! When she said "I just wanted her to have her moment", like what? She should have done that from the beginning! Awful younger sister, AWFUL MOM
Exactly
Mom wanting them to share a dress, an appointment, and even wanted them to share a wedding. Eeek no wonder they are competative, likely always had to compete for moms attention. I wouldn't be surprised if she made them share birthday celebrations if she thought they were close enough (I've had friends that had this happen and they always felt they were in the siblings shadow). I get this stuff is expensive but come on woman, let your kids have their individual days and taste and not have to share everything. Yikes.
I' ve had the birthday thing going on with my mom - my birthday being the day before hers and it always really was the preparation day for her celebration the next day...Even now , living apart, when she calls me on the phone for my birthday, it' s " Happy Birthday ' and then immediately talking about what she is preparing for her guests tomorrow....Of course, these days it does not matter any longer....but it is still a clear picture of what my childhood was like : Cinderella being shown her place in the ashes by step- mum...
- Still working on finding my inner Prince....
@@mellifergoldoh yeah. My sister 2 1/2 years younger has birthday close to christmas, never had school parties, and felt left out. My bday is late summer, ditto. So, while we took vacation just before school started, she was celebrated as well on my birthday. I'm in my 70s, it still hurts. My brother had his bday in July, never had to share, plus he was oldest, and a boy, so you know how THAT goes.
Oh, we only vacationed where my dad could go fishing, even tho he took a couple trips a year to go with buds to ice fish, trout fish etc. Plus all the fishing in our vicinity.
@@kathimorrical9912It’s so weird how people never think this through, because they’re saying your sister’s birthday is important enough to make sure it’s celebrated, but neither of yours is important enough for your own day. Weird. There are so many holidayish days leading up to Christmas where not much is really happening. Could have celebrated her then, not thrown together with you. 🫤
Moms are the root of all problems. LOL
@@mellifergold sorry you have to deal with that.
Team Diane!! I can’t believe how her family treated her.
That girls laugh! I want to jump through the screen so badly!!!
She was being mean to her big sister all the time and it backfired and she couldn't take it.
I remember this one, mum had a favourite, their nasty attitude towards the older sister is sad
Maybe it was just a lot of editing going on in this episode, but I sure felt sorry for Diane when Michelle kept getting all the praise and she just kept getting dissed.
Diane looked so gorgeous in her dress pick!
I can understand having the same appointment but WITHOUT the competition 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️!
Doesn't that younger sister know how horrible she comes across? And this program is on TH-cam. Anybody in her circle to see it. Why be so rude to your sister? They are both pretty young ladies. The younger sister shouldn't bully her older sister. Just terrible.
Setting both brides up for a bridal appointment on the same day and time was a disaster waiting to happen.
My mom & her sister who was 1 year older had a double wedding in the 1950's. Not unheard of back then to save costs in big families of 10 kids. They wore identical ballgowns & had a big cathedral wedding. Photos showed strangers in the pews & outside the church who showed up just to see a double wedding.
I know twins that did this. Spectacular, unforgettable, treasured day.
WTF is with the competition? I have two girls 2 years apart and I always smash down any competition! They are not in competition, they are only needing to worry about finding what works for them and cheering on their sister as she finds her way as well!
Nobody deserves a family like that. I feel you big sis. I hope you have found a family of your own with people who love you and prioritize you 🌸
Bad idea having two sisters put on wedding dresses because that family is taking sides😮😮
Yea, and inevitably you have a preference about the dresses, which automatically diminishes the other.
I would hate to have the younger one as a sister, she is terrible. So nasty. And the family is just as bad, the way they treat the older sister awful.
The family has told her she's the pretty one her whole life. She doesn't know how to deal with a lack of attention and even her mother couldn't allow the older one to have that moment.
Michelle has crazy eyes when she laughs 😲
This is a terrible episode. I have secondhand embarrassment for the older sister. Their family is ridiculous and have zero emotional intelligence.
The attention starved middle child. Even the way she gave up the appointment, she made it all about her.
I would not like to be a child in this family. If it's OK to hurt someone's feeling just to overcome her... NOOOOO!
Yes it seems the younger daughter is treated better. SAD
💯% agree with Lori. Bride to be's deserve to feel individually special during their bridal appts.
they clearly have a fav child
Ill let you have your moment. … what a pile of crap…. She was nasty to her sister the whole time so as everyone else too. She sure didnt like not being the star of the show, she was not being gracious at all. Just jealous.
She wasn't trying to be gracious, she was trying to pull the focus right back on her because "Awwww that's so sweet of you." This young woman has likely never known a moment in her life when she wasn't the star focus. Their mother, don't even get me started...
What a horrible sister the younger one. She damaged the whole appointment for the older sister and then she decided to have an appointment for just herself.
Ouch this family is being so mean. Diane has just been taking a beating. Then, Michelle doesnt have the attention so she is backing off. So weird.
I would not share my bridal appointment, Having to share the attention with someone else. Also what if i find a dress and they don't and vice versa. NOPE
Way to go little sister! You showed true love for your sister and good character!❤
damn... what a bunch of vultures.
Mom should have insisted they have separate appointments.
One of the saddest episodes.
What a terrible family :( I hope this bullied girl cuts off contact with them.
They were horrible to the older sister 😢😢😢
I'm over here trying not to cry for the older sister getting constantly slighted by EVERYONE! I hope that crap doesn't happen to her all the time. 😢
I think the "baby" sister is moms favorite because of the way she was so excited over the dress the youngest sister liked. Not fair to either bride to be competing for moms approval for something so zpeci7
Why would yo do a consultation together if you’re known to get competitive? Getting feelings hurt for fun?
mom is wild for suggesting a joint wedding
Every time sisters share a bridal appointment, it’s always a bloodbath of attention. One will turn into a she devil while the other one gets punched in the gut repeatedly…
The younger one was so immature and rude.
The older sister held her head high in spite of the backlash from her family.
Lori did the right thing. Though it wound up confirming that without the older sister next to the younger sister, there was no way to bully her to make herself feel better. I feel sorry for her fiancé. But I still hope they both had a happy marriage
Brutal
with such a sister and family - who needs enemies?
Younger sister was a bit of a snot and the minute her sister got some positive reactions, she quit. Sad.
In what world was this a good idea?????
That family. Jesus find something nice to say.
It wasn't fair to the older sister. Both have great figures.
Mom? One wedding, one dress? smh I felt the girls were being pitched against each other (for sport!) until Lori intervened. Watching this appointment was like watching everyone "pile on the donkey" when it came to the oldest sister. So glad she found what she was looking for. Not surprised baby sister wanted her own lighting (as it should have been for both girls). jmo
i guarantee that mom has been pitting her daughters against each other their whole lives. mom's only willing to spend money/attention on one kid so she treats them like conjoined twins and makes them fight to be seen as individuals.
You should support each other and not compete with each other...
Oh. My. Heart.
Hurt my heart with this one…
I can’t believe the mom said that to her older daughter and can’t believe little sister was acting so selfish.
I really do hope their wedding days were so so special and amazing glad this at least ended well.
Why are they so mean to the one sister
Bad idea 😢
The mom is a weirdo for pushing them to wear the same dress smh
Cold hearted women ganging up and a younger sister acting like a brat.
I would go back to the salon by myself. Who needs haters. It is her wedding.
I still don’t understand when you KNOW YOUR GETTING Married. Why DON’T YOU START SAVING MONEY to go towards the budget that your parents are GIVING YOU! Maybe then YOU COULD GET A BETTER DRESS?😱
That's typically what happens. Then the parents of either side express wishes to pay for the dress, photographer, dj, whatever to offset the cost/help the kids out. My mom insisted on paying for my dress. I was prepared to pay for it myself, but she insisted. I kept it *very* affordable and was able to get what I wanted. I'll do the same for my daughter if/when the time comes. IMO, whenever the word "wedding" is attached to an event, the prices are jacked. For instance, I could rent a hall for $150 for a stag and doe. But say it's for a wedding, then suddenly, it's $500. Frosts my flakes. Still, I love weddings. I love this reality series, haha...
Are these girls in middle school?? Good grief. 🤦🏻♀️
BRUTAL!!
Hard to watch!!
My mom use to say, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."
I’d divorce this family
I know they aren't twins but the same thing happens to twins some times when: the parent/parents and other family members just see them as one. The family doesn't celebrate their autotomy; so they grow up enmeshed and constantly being compared to one another. and that can create rivalry between them when one sibling decides they want to venture out as their own person.
Oh this is awful! Both girls needed their own appointment and own dress.
I cannot believe this family and friends is this a pageant contest or a bridal appointment I can’t tell anymore
Michelle has a lot of narcissistic tendencies (I wouldn't be surprised is she is a narc), sad really. I wish Dianne the best. the way her family treated her, so rude!! my heart goes out to her. and Michelle, therapy girl.
The consultants really messed up on this one, turning it into a contest between the two sisters 😞
Oh, the younger sister is a royal pain.
The damaged done by a parent playing favorites (especially if it’s mom choosing one daughter over another) brings generational pain. After having interacted with so many of these family dynamics, moms playing favorites take note: when it comes down to the wire and your suffering hardships like illness, that quiet daughter will be there for you while favored daughter will run away. Mom coddles the fav, forcing the outcast daughter to grow up strong. It may be anecdotal but I’ve seen it happen again and again.
This was Hard to watch 😢
This Mom is terrible. She obviousl does not love her older daughter as much. She is downright nasty.
The younger sister did the right thing by letting the older sister have the day and her coming back a different time, the way everyone was acting at first putting the girls against each other was so wrong, but I'm guessing this is the norm as the girls didn't seem to react to it at all
Mom want them to share the same dress? What dumb, cheap idea!
Am I the only one who sees who the golden child is?
I think it’s sad that Mom wanted them to share a wedding but maybe it’s a financial issue
I know sisters who did it. They had mutual families, relatives and friends. They saved money on their wedding and spent more on their dresses. But the sisters weren't competitive. They were very close.
Can't believe the younger one ended up getting the sympathy of not finding her dress lmao attention seeker
The cruelty and viciousness was brutal. I felt like it was Cinderella vs. the ugly step sisters! And turning the appt over had nothing to do with grace but instead had everything to do with jealousy, contempt and throwing a tantrum. I can't imagine how awful growing up in that environment was for the older sister. 😢😢😢 She turned out great! ❤❤
By each seconds I hate the younger sister, tbh all the older sister wearing are gorgeous on her.
Who else just loves Flo? ❤️
Oh yeah. Sharing something important like a birthday or a wedding dress appointment with someone else really hits home for me. I had to share my birthday with my older sister who is five years and three days older than me a few times. So for something like sharing a wedding dress appointment; favouritism is bound to show its ugly head.
Interesting episode and of course Lori saved the day!!! Go Lori! I would go here WAY before Kleinfeld.
These are weird friends. They are mean
I also think it’s sad that the younger sister is coming across as so mean.
OMG - Enough with the "jack"! Add the Frosting - or Fairy Dust! SOMETHING ELSE! Ugh!
Only one of those girls are mature enough to get married, it seems. But good job, mom, bringing on this set up, which is bound to make sibling rivalry kick in. It can't be news to her that it exists...
The fact the whole family keeps going to the 1 sister..... that is just wrong smh on that family 😢😢.
I would never pay that much for a wedding dress.
Probably the youngest sister was forced her whole life to wear her oldest sister's clothes, and by marrying first, she would reverse the flow. Just saying 🤷
Good on you Lori, you definitely came to the rescue. Gee i think never ever have the same appointment with your sister, i truly think that could never work. It's in human nature to be competitive with each no matter how much you love one another. And as for their mother shame on you to say that one daughter looks better in one particular dress than the other. Not on dear mother, they are both your daughters and equally as beautiful. Gee how can mothers be so brain dead😮
Honestly Diane is good in every dress while Michele looks awkward in every dress..
This family is not functioning properly. As a mother you should never say that you have a preference with who wears what dress, and sisters should not make a game out of something that is so emotional
The younger sister is comparing, and she shouldnt.
This is uncomfortable to watch. The younger sister is very entitled and the rest of the family are her enablers. Their mother is the biggest culprit here. The older sister will be pitched against her sisters (both of them) forever poor woman.
in their 20s but look in their late 40s
The younger sister knew that she couldn't get the same attention as her older sister. She couldn't upstage that. So that's why she decided to "give up"...but show it as if she's sacrificing her moment for her older sister. And got everyone's sympathy votes.
I think there are some underlying family dynamics going on here, other than just the wedding dress shopping. Having synchronistic, same-salon appointments, was a set-up for sibling issues to assert themselves - no matter HOW well-adjusted they might be.
Is the younger sister the baby, the golden child, the most pretty/ beautiful (and TOLD so), who can do no wrong? The one who is used to getting the lion's share of attention, and rarely - if ever - hearing the word, "no"?
Is the older sister the black sheep (even if she isn't the eldest) - the one who is USUSALLY blamed - for everything? The one who NEVER satisfies, even when her test score is perfect? The one always expected to be more mature & more knowledgeable than her peers?
I SUSPECT these things are occurring here, as well.
Glad the younger sis stepped back.
I am glad the older sister had her time, and her moment. I am SURE she will give the same to her younger sister...
Wishing them both - not only happy dress shopping, but also, long, full lives of matrimonial happiness.
If i was going to an apointment i would only go with my mom