Praying for all marriages here. Please pray for all people standing for their marriages. There are many of us. My husband was a faithful, practicing Catholic, a strong father and committed husband- until 3 years ago. We’ve been married 26 years. He’s throwing it all to the side (including our 5 adult children) for addictions and another woman. He tells me she’s a widow! I care about her but he’s jeopardizing his soul by his actions and sin. At times the suffering is almost unbearable. I pray for his healing and salvation. Thank you for your prayers.
The addictions and other woman say that he was harboring something and finally cut loose 3 years ago. Protect yourself and household with the sacramentals and seek out Fr. Ripperger's Deliverance Prayers.
So sad to see the suffering we cause to ourselves & others when we are not faithful to God & our own duties before Him first. The suffering I've seen by the lording over is especially hard to stomach I must admit. And I don't automatically mean the one who is meant to be in charge. LOL.
I had one up until today. She was a taker though and likes stuff at other people's expense and I'm a minimalist and a saver. So not just a Catholic connection.
Ehh Catholics aren't any better than anyone else. In my experience less religious people who are raised by a loving mother and father are better. They've been raised well and given the natural love they need without hiding behind religion as a lot of religious people do. And I say this as a Catholic
As a Catholic married to a non-Catholic Christian, I recently gave up my role of pianist for the church choir so I could be more flexible with my husband and our time together, opting also to go to Saturday vigil Mass in order to be with him on Sunday. I’ve had some doubt about breaking my ties with the choir, but Friar Anthony helped me when he said , If you have doubts, go with the wish of your superior (my husband). 🙏🏻
My husband and I know in our heart that we were chosen by God to be together. He helps me with my flaws and I help him with his so we can both grow in holiness. Our main duty is to make sure Our children make it to heaven.
I have been doing Christian clinical counseling for years now- everything this holy priest is sharing about the truth in what a rightly ordered marriage is actually points towards the most faithful & happy couples in marriages because they know it's a choice and "heaven" (eternal bliss forever) is the goal!
An excellent presentation! Thank you for sharing the impeccable wisdom of The Church - we are always in need of Her, but particularly during these times. Thanks be to God!
+JMJ+ Thank you Father for this talk. No matter how long a person has been married, there’s ALWAYS room for improvement 🤗 My husband and I are going on 46 years of marriage and have had our share of struggles, BUT, we have our faith and pray together. Our grown children have fallen away from their faith, but they know we pray for them. In the end, God never gives us a cross heavier than what we can carry. FAITH, HOPE AND PRAY., Padre Pio
Women if we will subject ourselves to our husband's propble we will be in the most comfortable place and in the prper place we will be like little Marie's subject to God it's the most comfortable place to be. Let us be sportive and a the helper God created us to be. Listen to Fr Chad Ripperger on marriage and you will understand this helpt me to understand my worth as a woman. God bless
lol I though when I married that I should see my husband’s decisions as from God. Nothing up for discussion . Trust and Obey. Bad recipe for a very conflict-avoidant person and a domineering husband. Messages like this reinforced my bad thinking unintentionally. Listening to Catholic More2Life podcast. Helped me see what healthy Catholic relationship looks like.
Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow. Kahlil Gibran 1883 - 1931
Kahlil Gibran 1883 - 1931 Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master? And he answered saying: You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God. But let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
If I give dominion over to him he’ll destroy my work of trying to raise children as catholics (he’s baptised Catholic). We fell out after he fully supported my son living with g/f and I refused to visit. They both were verbally abusive and cut me off. My son came back to me a year later to make up👍
My husband often says its hard to be the leader, but my mother in law wants to dominate and is often going against my husband her son. Whats the roles in that relationship
My husband's mother calls him a dictator and calls him controlling I don't think he is but I'm his wife. What's the role of a mother of a son who is not obedient to him and is really quite nasty to him when she lives in our house?
Yes she lives with us. But doesnt want to submit to the house rules. They are reasonable enough, I have no protestation for them and I'm his wife.@@BornaFresh
I honestly feel the same. After this talk I'm like ok lord I hear you. Serving him is serving you even if he is a tyrant. I'll do better serving him to glorify you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of your be alone, Even as the strings of the lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Kahlil Gibran 1883 - 1931
Have you had any luck? If not, becoming a third order Franciscan is an admittedly long yet good way to meet Fr. Anthony and obtain spiritual direction, of that's what you're looking for.
The pandering to or catering to feminists is tiring to listen. Maybe the friar should be commenting on women that men are due respect and yes she is submitting to him. And they both submit to God. Can’t be two bosses. Hard to hear a priest waffle. Let women get upset. They can handle it.
Marriage is neither, actually. It's a partnership. Conceptualizing it as either a "total donation" or a "right to the body" opens the door to marital r*pe and other abuse.
@@michaeldemarco1465 marital rights are something God Himself implemented when he said "Be fruitful and multiply". It's not a matter or opinion. You can not like the language because a perceived association with something else, but frankly that's not a reasonable objection. You do in fact agree to give up your bodily autonomy when you get married. That doesn't mean a married couple can go about raping each other. No amount of feminist propoganda can change that.
Praying for all marriages here. Please pray for all people standing for their marriages. There are many of us. My husband was a faithful, practicing Catholic, a strong father and committed husband- until 3 years ago. We’ve been married 26 years. He’s throwing it all to the side (including our 5 adult children) for addictions and another woman. He tells me she’s a widow! I care about her but he’s jeopardizing his soul by his actions and sin. At times the suffering is almost unbearable. I pray for his healing and salvation. Thank you for your prayers.
I am so sorry. I will remember you in my prayers. May all your suffering bear great fruit in Jesus name through his mothers immaculate heart.
The addictions and other woman say that he was harboring something and finally cut loose 3 years ago. Protect yourself and household with the sacramentals and seek out Fr. Ripperger's Deliverance Prayers.
Sweetheart, I’m so sorry to hear your heartbreak!!! I will be praying for you and your husband!!🙏💜
He is lucky to have a wife like you
Praying for your strength & perseverance dear sister. God bless you
This is also why it’s good to marry a faithful practicing well catechized Catholic lol. If you can find one.
So sad to see the suffering we cause to ourselves & others when we are not faithful to God & our own duties before Him first. The suffering I've seen by the lording over is especially hard to stomach I must admit. And I don't automatically mean the one who is meant to be in charge. LOL.
Or become one together
So true! I have already seen divorce of so many unequally practicing marriages. Especially after the stress of Cov. Lockdowns and job losses
I had one up until today.
She was a taker though and likes stuff at other people's expense and I'm a minimalist and a saver.
So not just a Catholic connection.
Ehh Catholics aren't any better than anyone else. In my experience less religious people who are raised by a loving mother and father are better. They've been raised well and given the natural love they need without hiding behind religion as a lot of religious people do. And I say this as a Catholic
As a Catholic married to a non-Catholic Christian, I recently gave up my role of pianist for the church choir so I could be more flexible with my husband and our time together, opting also to go to Saturday vigil Mass in order to be with him on Sunday. I’ve had some doubt about breaking my ties with the choir, but Friar Anthony helped me when he said , If you have doubts, go with the wish of your superior (my husband). 🙏🏻
My husband and I know in our heart that we were chosen by God to be together. He helps me with my flaws and I help him with his so we can both grow in holiness. Our main duty is to make sure Our children make it to heaven.
I have been doing Christian clinical counseling for years now- everything this holy priest is sharing about the truth in what a rightly ordered marriage is actually points towards the most faithful & happy couples in marriages because they know it's a choice and "heaven" (eternal bliss forever) is the goal!
Do you mind saying where you work out of? We have been looking for a Dr to help my sister.
You must rest after this Father....too much coffee is not good.AVE MARIA!
Love all your talks Father God bless you for your guidance 🙏
Can you please do a talk on in-laws and their place in society lol..
The final battle will be over marriage and the family
Thank you very much for this conference. I wish I have heard it when I was in my youth. God Bless you Father! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Many of us wish to have heard this before
Will we actually accept this teaching the way we accept it now, if we were younger, though?
Thank you Father!
GOD BLESS!
AVE MARIA!
An excellent presentation! Thank you for sharing the impeccable wisdom of The Church - we are always in need of Her, but particularly during these times. Thanks be to God!
+JMJ+
Thank you Father for this talk. No matter how long a person has been married, there’s ALWAYS room for improvement 🤗
My husband and I are going on 46 years of marriage and have had our share of struggles, BUT, we have our faith and pray together.
Our grown children have fallen away from their faith, but they know we pray for them.
In the end, God never gives us a cross heavier than what we can carry.
FAITH, HOPE AND PRAY.,
Padre Pio
Whew. This really is a harsh dose of reality. We men place peace above all else.
Don’t be afraid to love, for the glory of God.🙏🙏🙏
Wow. I will probably listen to this more than once so I can meditate on it.
Please pray for my husband and I. And the 21yr old he is my husband is with.
Oh wow you been married 21 years? Congratulations
@@nataliabenoit4653 Unfortunately, I think she meant he is with a 21 year old, but I may be mistaken?
Are you 21 by chance?
Yes my husband left me for a 21yr old
@@zbrown72 no the woman my husband is with is 21
Thank you Father
This talk has inspired me very much!
God bless you
Amen sista!!!!
God bless you dear father!
Women if we will subject ourselves to our husband's propble we will be in the most comfortable place and in the prper place we will be like little Marie's subject to God it's the most comfortable place to be. Let us be sportive and a the helper God created us to be. Listen to Fr Chad Ripperger on marriage and you will understand this helpt me to understand my worth as a woman. God bless
I can hear you Father !
Very edifying. Thank you very much Father! Thank you so much Sensus Fidelium!
Thank you for this, never heard it this way
My goodness do we need to hear this! Roles all messed up today
This was excellent.
lol I though when I married that I should see my husband’s decisions as from God. Nothing up for discussion . Trust and Obey. Bad recipe for a very conflict-avoidant person and a domineering husband. Messages like this reinforced my bad thinking unintentionally.
Listening to Catholic More2Life podcast. Helped me see what healthy Catholic relationship looks like.
Bless you Father. Let’s pray for the Evil to be rooted out
Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.
Kahlil Gibran
1883 -
1931
I agree Father. Isn't it that "what GOD has put together let no man put asunder"?( with regard to marriage in the CATHOLIC Church.)
AVE MARIA! 16:59
Kahlil Gibran
1883 -
1931
Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master?
And he answered saying:
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
There are noises at the background. Someone slamming doors, woman talking… but apart… very nice talk.
At minute 1:15 he’s talking about an apologetics book. What is this, so that I can buy it.
If I give dominion over to him he’ll destroy my work of trying to raise children as catholics (he’s baptised Catholic). We fell out after he fully supported my son living with g/f and I refused to visit. They both were verbally abusive and cut me off. My son came back to me a year later to make up👍
Does anyone know the name of the book the priest says about Blessed Anna Marie taigi
My husband often says its hard to be the leader, but my mother in law wants to dominate and is often going against my husband her son. Whats the roles in that relationship
Marriage is for two people, not three...
@@suzanneb86253 , meaning God in the middle 🙏
My husband's mother calls him a dictator and calls him controlling I don't think he is but I'm his wife. What's the role of a mother of a son who is not obedient to him and is really quite nasty to him when she lives in our house?
My husband's mother doesn't submit to his authority, she says he has no authority over her, how does that work?
Yes she lives with us. But doesnt want to submit to the house rules. They are reasonable enough, I have no protestation for them and I'm his wife.@@BornaFresh
Can you do a talk on mental illness
Why does my husband hate me
I cannot know the answer, Nora. But please know I will pray daily for you, your husband, and your marriage.
Fr Jim Blount recommended 4 Rosaries per day. Get St Joseph involved!
Ask him.
I honestly feel the same. After this talk I'm like ok lord I hear you. Serving him is serving you even if he is a tyrant. I'll do better serving him to glorify you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of your be alone,
Even as the strings of the lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Kahlil Gibran
1883 -
1931
The only concern i have with this is that as Catholics Christ calls us to share from the one cup of His blood.
The two shall be made one
Respectfully, most families financially require two incomes in order to support their children.
Most families also live way being means according to what modern society considers to be an acceptable standard of living.
who is this talking?
Friar Anthont
@@JanMarcoCamacho-cc9nxFr Anthony who? What's his last name?
Anyone know how to reach this priest?
Have you had any luck?
If not, becoming a third order Franciscan is an admittedly long yet good way to meet Fr. Anthony and obtain spiritual direction, of that's what you're looking for.
@@mitchellmayers828 not looking for spiritual direction. I just want to get him a memo about this talk.
The pandering to or catering to feminists is tiring to listen. Maybe the friar should be commenting on women that men are due respect and yes she is submitting to him. And they both submit to God. Can’t be two bosses. Hard to hear a priest waffle. Let women get upset. They can handle it.
Marriage is not a "total donation," it is a "right over the body."
Marriage is neither, actually. It's a partnership. Conceptualizing it as either a "total donation" or a "right to the body" opens the door to marital r*pe and other abuse.
@@michaeldemarco1465 marital rights are something God Himself implemented when he said "Be fruitful and multiply". It's not a matter or opinion. You can not like the language because a perceived association with something else, but frankly that's not a reasonable objection. You do in fact agree to give up your bodily autonomy when you get married. That doesn't mean a married couple can go about raping each other. No amount of feminist propoganda can change that.