Yes, I would prefer him if she has men again or someone with the same energy. Cool, calm, collected, honest, to the point, and none of the misogyny energy behind his critique (makes it easier for a woman to actually take in the critique).
Nu got all the excuses as to why he’s not married, he’s husband material but he’s single but asking tee why she’s not a kept woman. These the type of man I see in the hospital that dies alone and never gets visitors. Y’all both are single because it’s your choice to be, you haven’t met the right person but when tee said she’s single for the same reasons why he came at her like that, asking where that girl ring is 😂 she clearly haven’t met the one as to why she turned her engagements down.
Yeah his interaction was inappropriate. She was going to the club. How should she dress? The club is fun. They never said what she should wear to the club. This wasn't about dating advice it was about fashion.
I'm glad she came back on. She basically wanted to celebrate a friend's accomplishment. He went to fun girl. I'm like ok she wants to hang with friends not pull a guy. It's weird. But I think he gave some awesome advice to the women but took it too personal with Tee.
The women who joined tonight needed grace and I feel like more disclaimers should have been made on behalf of these women instead of being met with silence. Some of these women support every week and to be addressed like that didn’t feel good to watch and view.
We all loved Rich but BOTH men were in agreement on 98% of the observations. We prefer how Rich handled himself but, in the real world there are more Nu’s than Rich’s especially in the “HVM”world. They are not all sweethearts ladies.
I love Rich ❤ Men don’t have to be abrasive or aggressive to get their point across. He exuded style, class & grace with his interactions. He matched Ashley’s energy, unlike the other male guest.
As much as Nu has mentioned that there are different standards of women, I think looking at both Nu and Rich, we can see different standards of men. Rich is calm, collected and professional. Nu is insecure, had is the hard way, too insensitive and unprofessional.
Brother Nu seems to take things very personal sometimes and become very unprofessional/disrespectful/hostile. Even though he gave very solid advice many times, his attitude is a no for real… Rich had a way better delivery and stayed on topic without inappropriate questions… Maybe vet the guests better next time, Ashley 💜 We appreciate how you want to show us things from a different perspective but it’s very obvious that Nu was disrespectful many times.
@portialand1858 Yes, Nu will be VERY controlling of his VERY submissive wife! If she gets too out of line, he will at the minimum SLAP her in her face! Those 3,000 women have "dodged a bullet"!
I personally think Nu is one of those guys who had it the tough way, now that he is UP he wants to make everyone’s life difficult. It seems like he wants someone he can control.
That man Nu is not up anywhere. He screams rude, self conscious and insecure and lacks confidence because he on this platform doing the most because he can’t IRL. Just saying
Why are black men always so concerned with women's lashes, make up etc? I see no other races of men doing this. Ashley, all races of women watch this show so please bring up other ethnicities of men next time. Probably won't happen since they don't know or care anything about stilettos, purses, hair etc tho 😂😂
...yeah Nu kept asking, "is that your hair?" "Are you wearing make-up, I can't tell" Who cares?? Your supposed to suggest different colors, kindly request options, understanding they may not have any
The advice these brothers are giving you women is priceless. An intelligent woman can appreciate honesty and learn from it. These brothers are showing you how to class yourself up.
@@enrichedtalks lmaooooooooooo The whole live was super entertaining, some advice I agreed with some I didn't and some parts felt cringe lol but I've never ever watched a 3 hour youtube until last night lol
Thanks for letting me join the show! I had a great time and thank you to all of the ladies that were on. It takes a lot of courage to join a platform seen by the world and you all were fantastic. The energy you all brought was very positive and engaging. You all were so beautiful! Ashley has the best looking viewers on YT. These comments are the funniest damn thing I’ve ever read. Very entertaining!
Keep doing you! Wish there were more men like yourself that spoke to WOMEN more diplomatically.. Plus you are super Eye Candy. I'm sure you look just as Dapper in a nice sweat suit..
This channel focuses on personal growth, and although I offer advice and share my thoughts on your outfits and concerns, I am NOT a man. I invited some gentlemen to provide their genuine opinion on how men perceive women based on their attire. Many of you share your struggles in finding a good partner and attracting them, and this was intended to help. I always approach this with love, so if anything came across as harsh, please forgive me. My goal is to help you find the dating or relationship you desire so you don't have to prolong it. This message was delivered with the best intentions. See you tomorrow for out town hall discussion on your concerns ❤️ love y’all! Even if y’all feelings right now 😘
Your show was excellent. Women coddle each other, tip toe around feelings or just don't have genuine intentions in their opinions for whatever reason. Black women need help with our image and this show helps.
Ashley I thought the mens perspective was refreshing . They spoke from their perspective and mindsets. We all have different ideas and thought process than men. Us women we dress for us and we will always continue to do so. But it’s nice to see their ideas and thoughts on outfits. I also thought brothernu was attractive but sometimes made me chuckle because the way he explains his things like a true man 😂. Keep up the good work.
@@onikapinkkI can’t speak for Ash so this is just my assumption…i think she stayed silent because she agreed with the fella’s sentiments….Ashley uses the term “fun girl” often…I think she took the opportunity to have them elaborate on what it means without having to be the one to say it. Do you think that could be the case?
I don't like how Brothernu seemed to make things about him and just kept running his mouth. He never seems to shut up! Ashley please don't invite him back. He was very rude at times.
Tee had brother Nu stressed 😭 …she clearly said she was going out for a fun night with her girls and he made it about her dating life then tried to make a deal about her dating experiences as a way to humble her. No bueno! However I love how Ashley maintained the environment and reassured the ladies that they are in charge of their own beauty standards ❤ and also gave Brother Nu the space to show his “true self” bc you have to be careful about those kinds girlies. Let a man speak and he will tell you everything you need to know about him.
This felt like a Kevin samuels video tbh. Brother Nu seems very insecure and was projecting. He kept referencing to what he likes in a woman and tried to make that the standard amongst all men. He kept using the word “energy” to portray what type of woman he felt like would reject him or give him a hard time. The lady made a brief statement and he made so many assumptions and generalizations about her I feel like to hurt her because he felt triggered. Who’s to say that the men who were engaged to her proposed to many other women or what the dynamic of their relationship is. We talked more about his feeling than the outfits
Number 1, Thank you Ms Ashley for taking the time out to give us new and refreshing content and perspective. Having special guests is amazing, However when the guest in question have opinions rooted in misogyny and inflated ego and hypocrisy, it doesnt align with you and your usual content. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but some opinions (of a certain male guest)lack respect and came off demeaning and off the course of the topic at hand: FASHION from the male perspective. The personal questions and jabs weren’t necessary and were inappropriate at times. I think it will be great to have different real HIGH VALUE MEN that have SUCEESSFUL MARRIAGES that have been vetted and have CREDITIALS join the live next time. Just my personal opinion as a supporter ❤ Love love love you ms ashley.
*UNPOPULAR OPINION* Im only 1.5 hours in.. and i honestly see nothing wrong with either of the guys said.. They said exactly what they would behind our backs🤷🏽♀️ Facts remain, Men love a woman that looks put together, dressed well, and in heels🤷🏽♀️ Some things should be standard 🤷🏽♀️ Like yes, a pair of black heels are standard.. knowing how to apply makeup ‼ STANDARD.. The delivery wasn't harsh, we are just sensitive 🤷🏽♀️ id rather hear it from them face to face, than behind my back.. Or keep wondering "Why am I not being approached by a man of substance" Take the advice, or don't .. it doesn't hurt to switch things up and try UT their way and see the outcome 🤷🏽♀️
*EDIT 😂 FLAG ON THE PLAY ‼* 3:08:09 Once we got back to Tee, I disagree with Nu.. he kept saying she only dates Nigerian, but she actually said she approached by Nigerians.. Which is a difference.. Also, I see nothing wrong with what she's wearing for girls night.. black pants, and a black top 🤷🏽♀️ Nothing wrong with it 🤷🏽♀️ Also, her personality is dope, and outgoing which can be intimidating to men.. She's a fun girl, but that doesn't mean she's a "fun girl".. she's been proposed to, and decided that his background wouldn't allign for a lifetime.. I think Nu perception was actually wrong on Tee 🤷🏽♀️
When Bro Nu was talking about Tee's energy vs attire, I think thats were a lot of the ladies including myself checked out. He started making personal attacks based on the conjectures and projections in his own mind about her and nothing about what she wore. He said things and took the conversation places it didnt need to go revealing how extremely disrespectful and insecure he is. He seemed triggered because he started making statements on things that werent even said. I dont even think he had much feed back to give on her outfit which was the permise of the show. As to one of the reasons he is single, He mentioned he is living in a poor area which lowered his prospects for dating, so is he use to low income energy and possibly not as confident women . In other words he likes to play life on easy mode, Nu wasnt fooling anyone he would not have a chance with a woman like Tee so its best to come up with all this unproven bs reasons to reject her to avoid his ultimate rejection. If he just stayed focus on what she wore, we could take him more seriously. It really doesn't matter what you wear with men like him because ultimately he is looking for traits women wear like timidity, uncertainty, unassuming, nothing that provokes competition from other men all to affirm his fragile masculinity. As far as pumpkin spice I have no words for him because that is not my flavor at all but just some advice they do have shape wear for men and he may want to try it so that button isnt working so hard.
Exactly. Wasn't this live about fashion? How did marriage get into the mix? Who said she was even going out to impress a man? She was going out with her girls.
He complimented Tee and said her hair matched her energy. She was approachable and looked friendly. He didn’t say anything bad about her actually. The only criticism from both men was that she may want to choose a less colorful dress for a Jazz concert next time, but she looked great. It was appropriate for the occasion either way, just comes down to personal preference. I think y’all heard what you wanted to hear and didn’t listen
@@ninagrace-lee8323 no that would be you hearing what you wanted to hear, I am referencing at the 2:42 mark, Bro Nu gave no feedback on her clothes whatsoever which was the assignment. He instead gave wild conjectures of who he perceived her to be as a person and stayed riding that point which had no relevance to the conversation. He was more interested in her preference for men and her engagement with them than her clothing. He had nothing specific or logical insight on her other than the emotional reasoning her energy gives me that of a woman I would have sex with and discard. But in the same breath said he wanted a young woman to dress in hot and sexy clothing because that is why he chose her.
Nu acting like he’s the prize and I don’t like it. Always changed the subject and made it about him. Something about him is off. Call it a women’s intuition. And that’s why he had to go on Kendra’s show to find love.
I remember Eboni on the last live her husband wanted her to change because he was watching Kevin Samuel’s and he is now claiming to be a high value man. Her husband said that she wasn’t his type. I really felt her anxiousness in this live. She really thought she looked good. This live was a hard one to watch 💔
I just watched that one. She didn’t think that she looked good at all. Her confidence was extremely broken. She was distraught with what her husband said because she believed it. She was really hard on herself. She had started working out for herself but broke her ankle and had to stop working out.
I’m disappointed in Ashley. And she got a nerve to take up for them at one point. That one man was gross in his thinking and his delivery. Next time have men on that are into fashion themselves. Because it was about fashion not being a woman of the night and who they would or wouldn’t approach. Nobody wanted them at all.
Yeah it put me off how Ashley was silent at times when we all know she would say something or provide reassurance to make the ladies feel good and SAFE. THIS fashion Friday did not feel like a safe space AT ALL
I love the safe place Ashley created but honestly this fashion Friday was extremely hard to watch for me personally. I couldn't even finish watching, I left after the second lady. I was getting second hand embarrassment and it just wasn't the fashion Friday I look forward to every week. If you do this again, please please choose better
You will be surprised if Rich actually made more money than the other guy. I prefer a sigma man myself ! The other guy is a KS wannabe. Def not original and I know KS content back to back. It helped me because I was open to actually hear his message without being quick to anger lol 😂
@dc704 He was degranding nobody wants that. He he was asking person questions and was very aggressive towards the women. Way too emotional for a usually light-hearted show.
There’s something about having tact with your wording . Brother nu did not speak with tact , and some of questions/statements were rude and condescending. He also talked too much about himself on a tangent and seemed self centered . I really enjoy what Ashley is doing , but i feel he took away from the vulnerable aspect of this segment .
Rich 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 True about the makeup. A surgeon I worked without the day said “ you’re fit , cute, naturally pretty and you look alright”. As in I’m not wearing makeup. When I wore makeup to work everyone was nicer and helpful. (Lipstick lip liner, mascara , eyeliner , neutral eye shadow, foundation)
Rich was a gem. Personally he was more of my preference such a teddy bear 🧸 he’s well dressed. Also, I want to add we don’t need anyone males perception. We have to find the value in ourselves. We are the prize ❤️. I was a little uneasy watching this. Nu was slightly harsh and judgmental. 🤷🏽♀️ he keeps saying competition 😬. Like beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Not everyone is trying to be the “beauty standard”
This was a safe place for women where kind hearted criticism is normally given with grace. The lack of tact with his delivery was unnecessary and disturbing. I’m disappointed. Men can give judgement without being so harsh. Today, the unique factor that made this community seem so uplifting and positive to me was neglected to have “a moment” but not an impact.
I like that last statement. I didn’t know the rhyme or reason for men being here but I assumed it was for their “perspective”… I just know when men are centered, the whole vibe changes and I chose to opt out bc I knew I wouldn’t be able to refrain from speaking my mind lol
@@MsMoneyonMyMind Agreed. This was also my first time catching the live, so it wasn’t a good impression in comparison to the clips posted on her accounts and I was anticipating tuning in. I joined during the height of him ranting and tuned out. If men are added to a segment, it needed to be properly planned and the men vetted. Just posting I need men to join me tonight hours before you go live was not the best idea. What qualified them as high value men whose opinion was necessary. Adding men could have been a good idea in the future but the execution of implementing this was rushed for this live and seemed very unnecessary to me. Yesterday did not feel like a safe place and was equivalent to a stranger walking in and judging how you keep your house in a boorish demeanor.
@@MsMoneyonMyMindright that's the thing. When men are invited to women's spaces they should acquiesce to the way the host conducts the show themselves. Otherwise it comes off like they are trying to conquer.
I think in bringing (unqualified) men to this live it disrupted the safe space Ashley has worked so hard to cultivate and maintain. I’m surprised she allowed it to go on for so long, it got to a point where they quite literally bashed specific types of women which was disgusting. They are not by any means THE definition of “high value men”… the wants of men are varying and are not entirely dependent on some of the things they were highlighting. But you got some more views so good for you Ashley…
I was wondering what were they qualifications to be giving out advice, just because they are men? Definitely wouldn’t be the type of men I would even want to date for sure.
Thank you! I was just saying this they’re single so you’re telling me even though you’re a men you can’t find what you say men want? Nu was on a bigger platform than this Kendra G and you telling me he still couldn’t find nobody seems sketchy he don’t even know what he wants but wants to give advice
Yeah, I thought that was extremely tacky. I love Ashley's shows but I think if she were to bring any man back on here please let it be the first ever gentleman she had on during an Ask Ashley episode. He was very respectful.
It gave the impression that according to how you look you determine the income level of the man who would marry you. However, they said they would date women who worked fast food
And that's why that whole segment was tacky... All that lady wanted to know was how her outfit looked for a night out with her husband of 5 years. She didn't ask them for manosphere talking points. I don't think any of us did. Stick to the fashion.
Big ups for the women that came out and took the critiques in good faith. Something I have realized watching Ash's show is most women are asking for the same type of gentleman that is HVM. And of course everyone wants the best but... These men are very direct and some women take that it as a harshness but it's not, generally type A personalities.
I think it’s funny how they were both saying they’re never intimidated by a woman, but when Mellie came on, they were both dumbfounded and speechless. I like Rich, the other one is a NO.
@@enrichedtalks In my opinion, you were not disrespectful, your perspective was very insightful and even though at times the women in the chat disagreed you maintained a professional demeanor. The other guest did not, and that is what they are referring to. All love to you❤
@@enrichedtalksYou were lovely Rich, I hope we get another Fashion Friday with just you this time. The critique was honest and not abrasive which gives most women comfort enough to actually hear and take in the honest critique.
Thanks Ashley for providing the different perspectives. I would love to hear some different perspectives too from other nationalities of other men if possible.
I’ve seen Nu on this or another channel once before and he has an energy that’s just an acquired taste. He’s done well for himself and you can tell he’s proud of himself (as he should be) but he’s not the humble, chill kind of guy. I can see why he put people off, but I do think it’s valuable to hear his opinion. He’s saying what many men would be too sensible to say out loud.😂 I think getting your feelings hurt by strangers can be good, but you can’t be around it all the time if you don’t take to a personality like his.
Whew chile! Reading the comments is exhausting. Women have to stop being so sensitive. Sure, NU talks too damn much but he wasn't saying anything that the other man didn't agree with. So you didn't like his delivery. Big deal. Listen to what the men are saying they like and want. His feedback was mostly positive and constructive. If you want a man, you have to be who they want and vice versa. As soon as I started LISTENING to what men want, I was able to get the man I wanted.
@@teidraandalehear me well when men feel like women are threatening, they come up with crazy narratives about you to protect their fragile ego and this is what Nu did to you. Notice he mentioned very little about your outfit which was the assignment. You looked great and I hope you had fun with the girls
I love Ashley’s content. And appreciated the switch up this week. But Nu killed the vibe. We do want different perspectives but general respect and active listening was missing.
Thank you very much Ashley for this live it was the best fashion Friday so far ! I absolutely loved the two gentlemen’s advices. All they did was speaking facts and for the most part they were just agreeing with all of the things you’ve been saying for ever !!! But too many woman’s don’t want to learn. Please ladies if you think you know everything and you don’t need to receive any advices you do you, but it’s not the case for all of us. Ashley don’t stop doing this 🤍
Message: I can see how this would be great for Ashley in terms of creating numbers for her social platforms by having these controversial exchanges but at the same time it tarnishes her brand because it no longer provides a safe space for women's improvement. There were women coming on camera revealing their insecurities from fupas to back fats with the purist intention of getting constructive feedback. However, with these male guests who don't even meet the bare minimum of conventional standards for attractiveness demanding that be the case for women is absolutely laughable. To know that you have a man on your platform who foregoes judging clothing to now energy in the most distasteful way unprovoked is disturbing. Not realizing it was his own insecurities and nasty energy he was projecting onto her that he put on display and nothing about her. To further highlight what he said was not worth a dime, he then tells a younger caller to dress hot and sexy because he expects that of her age group, wtf. We know as women; you are to dress according to the level of attention you can handle because if not you will not be able to handle yourself or your surroundings and unfortunately a lot of predators are banking on that. When you dress sexy there is a level of authority you must and need to command and I think we all saw that Tee had it which can be intimidating for some men. To justify not being able to handle that sensual confidence, they find safety in calling her out to be the hoe or slut. His mind was so blown he didn't even judge the fit just abandon the assignment lol and odd enough she met most of his standards for dress and appearance. However, he revealed his mo, he can control shy, unassuming young women but not bold and confident women which is why the rules are different. He needed to be dragged from his bucked teeth to his poor grammar. One wasn't even interested in marriage right now and the one had every excuse to not be married. How do you have so many options but can't choose one at your big age of 37, sounds like poor or inept leadership to me. I can go on and on...but the main point is just because they have a peen doesn't mean you should take them seriously or their advice especially when they view you through the lens of male fragility.
@@Sweetheart0189 lol, aww I don't have to compete I COMMAND. When you are truly in your divine femininity you DRAW to you, and you don't chase. But you are his audience, not me so compete go on compete and hope and pray you won't be the fun girl ok. And that sweetheart, is the spiritual sauce he says he wants but can't seem to manifest because he is operating out of order and he knows this, EYE SEE This!
@@Sweetheart0189 no you mean too big of an intellect. Push yourself to think sweetheart. It won't be as easy as makeup application and putting on stilettos but it's so worth it.
I enjoyed both guests and their opinions for us to require so much from men we sure hate to hear the few things they require of us a purse and some heels thank you Ashley for this episode
Goes to show you high value shouldn't be about finances. NU says he has money. Yet he's still a dusty in a suit. Generally, men look better when they but on a suit jacket. However, his energy just exudes dust.
3:14:37 Ashley i love watching you and your content but you shouldve handled this situation better. Very disappointed of you Ashley!!!! Smh YOU ARE THE HOST
Yes! I love Ashley, but she wasn't taking control of these men AT ALL and at most parts allowing the disrespect when we all know she constantly reassures us and creates a safe space. This didn't feel like a safe space at all. It's not what you say its how you say it
I love Ashley & this just shows how powerful she is alone. Rich saved this live. I would’ve used better discernment picking the other guy. He’s a joke !
Let’s be honest here, if any female in the world wanted to be in a relationship or married they would be; now if you have standards for what you want with a partner you aren’t going to settle for less. Ultimately the woman makes the decision if they want to be with that man. Yes men propose often but in the end who really ends the engagement 🤷🏽♀️
What I notice is these two men missed picking up on PERSONALITY. Style is also an expression of self. You do not wear a black dress in the day time in the spring in Australia like what tje heck.
I guess I’m in the minority. I gave this live the side eye before watching. However I thought the guys did a good job overall. It was their opinion! They pretty much gave every woman a compliment. Even though some of the commentary is misogynistic , a lot of men are misogynistic. However, most single men are not marriage material or marriage minded so men have to stop pushing this agenda that a single woman is doing something wrong because she is unmarried. Black culture, music, and social media has demised the black marital union. Men are having fun sleeping around that is why they are not getting married. No woman is ever going to be good enough if your standards are not coming from a spiritual place. Marriage is a spiritual union at the end of the day. But this was supposed to be about fashion, so on that note it was good.
As a divorce man. I approach women, but they are right certain women i dont approach an women also approach me, an the type of women i dont go for certain types who approach me. part of is it location or venue and place and how you are dress there. its easier for a woman to approach a man at a non social event because what she wears can be super casual if she has the body for it or she can show way too much skin an still be okay. But in certain places how you dress matters to a specific type of man. if im at expo or convention for something an your dress a certain way it turns me off i digress. back to approaching, there are women who catch my eye. part of it is how she dresses, there are other factors but how she dresses attracts me. of course how her body is shaped make up 50% of the reason im gonna approach her, but 20% is her how she dress. In some cases more than 20. i dont think these men are speaking on marriage, they speaking on single men looking to approach women, if you want to get more men approachhing you listen to men, because i know exactly what i need to do to get more women approaching me.
I have absolutely nooooo issue with how the men are presenting their opinions… Infact, if Nu wasn’t on this live, maybe most of the women wouldn’t have received the help they needed… not saying Rich didn’t help… but the men with two different personalities gave the life a bit of a dimension/dynamic… I love it! Us women are sooo sensitive yet still we want a certain type of men. Sorry to break it to you, but certain men don’t go for regular women.. you have to put in the EFFORT darling.. z
Bro nu it’s your delivery… not good. Your delivery needs to be more positive. Your intentions may not be ill, but watch it back. You’re single for a reason. Rich has a great personality and his delivery is better. Until you have placed your size 10 foot in a stiletto or a pointy toe shoe, sit down. Good for you Mr. Red bottom man. Women stand up for yourselves and have humble confidence. Woman do say that they want a HV man and that’s a whole different conversation that needs to be had ladies. Don’t require what you don’t have ladies. You can like and want what you want, but don’t require it unless you are it ladies. Period. 🎉
@@lesliejohnson-nelson4003 I for one have no desire to hear what they want in their women. Each man is different and I have great men in my life. Attracting the right man is about knowing thyself not being told what a few men like...the only guy I appreciated was the one in the orange suit that stood up the entire three hours. He can come back, he has positive energy...all the others act like they are on an online dating website. I'm not there to be auditioned and "picked" (or pimped) Im only there for fashion advice
@@Sweetheart0189 it takes two parties in order for it to be a marriage. Men can ask and the woman can also decline. You sound like a pick me, obeying what they say so you can get picked. Girl bye.
i understand this is all fun and I enjoy watching Ash you’ve created such a safe space for women … I just don’t think bringing the men in was a good idea Brother Nu specifically some of his comments were very disheartening
I agree … and I think Ashley mischaracterized the chat by saying some women weren’t ready to hear the truth. I think we were all ready, but NU’s delivery was so chauvinistic and judgmental… I’m too grown to take that type of attitude seriously 🥴
thank you for having me 🩷 I really enjoyed the live and appreciated the advice and perspective! I’d also love to see them come back for an Ask Ashley, toward the end they were hitting on things I’ve been having curiosities and questions about 😭
Even though I’m married, I really appreciated the men’s perspectives. I appreciate the honesty of the men but Nu got more aggressive than necessary a couple of times while Rich kept it respectful the entire time. Much love to all of the women who were brave enough to come up, to Ash for the platform and to Rich for being a real class act! 💎
Ashley surely wanted to respect her guests but I feel like sometimes she should have speak for the girls and redirect the subject (Fashion) because that’s not the kind of energy we are used to in this show
Hello Ashley and everyone. I enjoyed episode today. Kudos to Rich for standing for more than 3 hours! Enjoyed both of the gentleman on the panel today. Hey Ashley, we know where you cut the last lady off! 😂 take care and God bless. ❤
1:06:55 "I don't care how your feet feel." *sigh* I was enjoying the live replay and a bit confused about some of the negative comments...until the rant started. It was almost as if a switch went off in nu and he forgot the assignment. Ashley did say to give constructive critique and to lead with love. TheRealEnrichedTalks shared the same sentiments, but his delivery was different. I get the impression that, in a relationship, TheRealEnrichedTalks would provide covering and nu would need a safe word. FYI: Some employers do invest in their employees by providing professional development and covering the cost to obtain a degree.
Exactly! Nu’s analogy was off … if I’m committed to a job and the job is committed to me, then they will help pay for my school. Likewise, if I’m in a relationship with a man, it shouldn’t be a dealbreaker to ask him to pay for the shoes that HE thinks I need 🤷🏽♀️
I feel like so many viewers are misunderstanding him. Yes there are many jobs that will invest in you but before you get there you have to invest in yourself. MOST jobs won’t higher you with no experience or education and build you from the ground up. You usually come into it with something and they help you grow ever more because they see you as an asset. The same applies here. He said a basic stiletto from aldo or Steve Madden. And then maybe a man would upgrade you into something like louboutins. MOST men want to see that you value yourself enough to invest in yourself before they invest in you. And there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s called standards. We should all have them, men and women.
@enrichedtalks, I was curious and had a question for Rich. Why would it be ok for tee to wear the top she had on if she is in a relationship with you but not when she is single? If you see this question can you provide more details about that please. Thank you in advance.
This is an excellent question. I think she should wear it whenever she likes. I didn’t say don’t wear it. I said it will send a certain message. If she is cool with that then everything is good. But if she is attracting a type of man that she doesn’t want, she may want to try something different. If we are in a relationship or dating, she is wearing it for me and I love that. The outfit looked great.
I think brother nu is genuinely just someone who enjoys listening to himself talk.
Although Rich wasn’t intended to be the “special guest”, he alone, would have been enough-and well received.🧡
I agree and he stayed on topic.
That part!!
Yes, I would prefer him if she has men again or someone with the same energy. Cool, calm, collected, honest, to the point, and none of the misogyny energy behind his critique (makes it easier for a woman to actually take in the critique).
They were doing fine until the misogyny started. 🙄
@@Ace_Of_Spade_Callinggo cry
Nu got all the excuses as to why he’s not married, he’s husband material but he’s single but asking tee why she’s not a kept woman. These the type of man I see in the hospital that dies alone and never gets visitors. Y’all both are single because it’s your choice to be, you haven’t met the right person but when tee said she’s single for the same reasons why he came at her like that, asking where that girl ring is 😂 she clearly haven’t met the one as to why she turned her engagements down.
Well said. He met 3000 women on Kendra G's show yet still single. What an insecure clown.
Yeah his interaction was inappropriate. She was going to the club. How should she dress? The club is fun. They never said what she should wear to the club. This wasn't about dating advice it was about fashion.
Does he truly even want a WOMAN?
Facts!! Like who/what makes them somebody she would want?
I'm glad she came back on. She basically wanted to celebrate a friend's accomplishment. He went to fun girl. I'm like ok she wants to hang with friends not pull a guy. It's weird. But I think he gave some awesome advice to the women but took it too personal with Tee.
Rich stood up for 3 hours ... He wild.
😂😂
Wild as a dawg
@@enrichedtalks Why you ain't grab a chair!? Lol
@@kimokat lol. I like standing up. Keeps me focused
😂😂😂😂
The women who joined tonight needed grace and I feel like more disclaimers should have been made on behalf of these women instead of being met with silence. Some of these women support every week and to be addressed like that didn’t feel good to watch and view.
Exactly
Agreed
We all loved Rich but BOTH men were in agreement on 98% of the observations. We prefer how Rich handled himself but, in the real world there are more Nu’s than Rich’s especially in the “HVM”world. They are not all sweethearts ladies.
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Exactly,,
The dudes they are chasing with the unlimited Amex are like Nu 💯!!
Love Rich, would love another Fashion Friday with him if possible.
Thank you. I’d love to come back.
I love Rich ❤ Men don’t have to be abrasive or aggressive to get their point across. He exuded style, class & grace with his interactions. He matched Ashley’s energy, unlike the other male guest.
As much as Nu has mentioned that there are different standards of women, I think looking at both Nu and Rich, we can see different standards of men. Rich is calm, collected and professional. Nu is insecure, had is the hard way, too insensitive and unprofessional.
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Nu thinks he is Kevin Samuels.
A bit too try hard.
@@tmcurly 🎯🎯
Nu thinks he is Kevin Samuels.
A bit too try hard. I personally don’t mind the blunt approach!!
He was harsh but delivered mostly the truth ..
We love Rich! His style, his grace, his smooth delivery, his positive and encouraging energy ❤ we would love to see more of him! 🥰 He's a perfect fit.
Brother Nu seems to take things very personal sometimes and become very unprofessional/disrespectful/hostile. Even though he gave very solid advice many times, his attitude is a no for real… Rich had a way better delivery and stayed on topic without inappropriate questions… Maybe vet the guests better next time, Ashley 💜 We appreciate how you want to show us things from a different perspective but it’s very obvious that Nu was disrespectful many times.
Nu is aggressive and will definitely put hands on you. I see it in every word he utters.
@@portialand1858He was almost licking his lips sometimes
@portialand1858 Yes, Nu will be VERY controlling of his VERY submissive wife! If she gets too out of line, he will at the minimum SLAP her in her face! Those 3,000 women have "dodged a bullet"!
He was cringe af
@lorriebrown1243 He was especially lacking his lips to the young lady with the big/thick hair! Most likely because he is bald and just odd.
I personally think Nu is one of those guys who had it the tough way, now that he is UP he wants to make everyone’s life difficult. It seems like he wants someone he can control.
But he is not UP. Look at his shirt, it's dingy and wrinkled. No HV man will step out of the house with his shirt looking like that.
That man Nu is not up anywhere. He screams rude, self conscious and insecure and lacks confidence because he on this platform doing the most because he can’t IRL. Just saying
I’m willing to bet maannyy women get annoyed and turned off with Bro Nu and he has great difficulty in dating.
True but these are the dudes 80% if these ladies are chasing with the so called funds.
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@Ace_Of_Spade_Calling
Yeah 😹😹
Why are black men always so concerned with women's lashes, make up etc? I see no other races of men doing this. Ashley, all races of women watch this show so please bring up other ethnicities of men next time. Probably won't happen since they don't know or care anything about stilettos, purses, hair etc tho 😂😂
She asked them about lashes.
...yeah Nu kept asking, "is that your hair?" "Are you wearing make-up, I can't tell" Who cares?? Your supposed to suggest different colors, kindly request options, understanding they may not have any
@@lorriebrown1243 I was so turned off that I didn't get that far into the show, but I'm not surprised. These dudes are just "different".
They are ladies. They just speak with their money and actions, not words. They don't have time for that.
The advice these brothers are giving you women is priceless. An intelligent woman can appreciate honesty and learn from it. These brothers are showing you how to class yourself up.
Yes I don’t take offence at all. I prefer blunt honesty 😹
So true!
Why is he acting like 37 is super old? I been laughing this whole live! Also, the standing for 3 hours is taking me OUWT!
Lol. I would have stood another 3 hours. The positive energy of the ladies that joined the show gave me strength 😂
loooool you're so unserious 🤣. thanks for being helpful and respectful! @@enrichedtalks
@@HB-pi2ew 😂. Thank you
@@enrichedtalks lmaooooooooooo The whole live was super entertaining, some advice I agreed with some I didn't and some parts felt cringe lol but I've never ever watched a 3 hour youtube until last night lol
@@athingaboutnikki That damn chat was funny. Yea it was very entertaining. I didn’t feel like 3 hours to me.
Thanks for letting me join the show! I had a great time and thank you to all of the ladies that were on. It takes a lot of courage to join a platform seen by the world and you all were fantastic. The energy you all brought was very positive and engaging. You all were so beautiful! Ashley has the best looking viewers on YT. These comments are the funniest damn thing I’ve ever read. Very entertaining!
Keep doing you! Wish there were more men like yourself that spoke to WOMEN more diplomatically.. Plus you are super Eye Candy. I'm sure you look just as Dapper in a nice sweat suit..
@@Novembersongbird 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you
Rich has the most beautiful face . Beautiful in men’s standards
I hope you come back again Rich
Loved your feedback 🎉
3:09:03 Brother Nu was definitely hostile here and very unprofessional “well show me your ring”… very unnecessary.
I was with him til he said that
This channel focuses on personal growth, and although I offer advice and share my thoughts on your outfits and concerns, I am NOT a man. I invited some gentlemen to provide their genuine opinion on how men perceive women based on their attire. Many of you share your struggles in finding a good partner and attracting them, and this was intended to help. I always approach this with love, so if anything came across as harsh, please forgive me. My goal is to help you find the dating or relationship you desire so you don't have to prolong it. This message was delivered with the best intentions. See you tomorrow for out town hall discussion on your concerns ❤️ love y’all! Even if y’all feelings right now 😘
Your show was excellent. Women coddle each other, tip toe around feelings or just don't have genuine intentions in their opinions for whatever reason. Black women need help with our image and this show helps.
Ashley I thought the mens perspective was refreshing . They spoke from their perspective and mindsets. We all have different ideas and thought process than men. Us women we dress for us and we will always continue to do so. But it’s nice to see their ideas and thoughts on outfits. I also thought brothernu was attractive but sometimes made me chuckle because the way he explains his things like a true man 😂. Keep up the good work.
Ashley you shouldve handled that situation with tee better at the end. Kind of disappointed u didnt chimed in.
We loved it ASHHH!!!!! Most Woman are scared of change 😬😬
@@onikapinkkI can’t speak for Ash so this is just my assumption…i think she stayed silent because she agreed with the fella’s sentiments….Ashley uses the term “fun girl” often…I think she took the opportunity to have them elaborate on what it means without having to be the one to say it. Do you think that could be the case?
I don't like how Brothernu seemed to make things about him and just kept running his mouth. He never seems to shut up! Ashley please don't invite him back. He was very rude at times.
Thanks y’all for being so sweet ! I didn’t take anything personal. And I hope I didn’t offend anyone as well❤❤❤ -Tee
You didn’t boo I’m glad you spoke your piece and held your ground
You’re THAT gurl Tee!
you looked amazing! I hope you have a lot of FUN ! ❤️
You are so beautiful and I truly appreciate our dialogue. I hope you have a wonderful night with your friends.
@@enrichedtalksthanks Rich ! All love
Tee had brother Nu stressed 😭 …she clearly said she was going out for a fun night with her girls and he made it about her dating life then tried to make a deal about her dating experiences as a way to humble her. No bueno! However I love how Ashley maintained the environment and reassured the ladies that they are in charge of their own beauty standards ❤ and also gave Brother Nu the space to show his “true self” bc you have to be careful about those kinds girlies. Let a man speak and he will tell you everything you need to know about him.
No truer words spoken.
Real 😭‼️
This felt like a Kevin samuels video tbh. Brother Nu seems very insecure and was projecting. He kept referencing to what he likes in a woman and tried to make that the standard amongst all men. He kept using the word “energy” to portray what type of woman he felt like would reject him or give him a hard time. The lady made a brief statement and he made so many assumptions and generalizations about her I feel like to hurt her because he felt triggered. Who’s to say that the men who were engaged to her proposed to many other women or what the dynamic of their relationship is. We talked more about his feeling than the outfits
"you need makeup" - I know he is serious but this guy is way too funny! Sometimes, all you can do is laugh!
Ladies remember that you are the prize ❤! very disappointed in this, the belittling and irrelevant questioning by brother nu was quite disturbing.
Number 1, Thank you Ms Ashley for taking the time out to give us new and refreshing content and perspective. Having special guests is amazing, However when the guest in question have opinions rooted in misogyny and inflated ego and hypocrisy, it doesnt align with you and your usual content. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but some opinions (of a certain male guest)lack respect and came off demeaning and off the course of the topic at hand: FASHION from the male perspective. The personal questions and jabs weren’t necessary and were inappropriate at times. I think it will be great to have different real HIGH VALUE MEN that have SUCEESSFUL MARRIAGES that have been vetted and have CREDITIALS join the live next time. Just my personal opinion as a supporter ❤ Love love love you ms ashley.
Beautifully said 👏👏
Thank you for the feedback.
@@enrichedtalksjust to clarify, you are not the guest I was referring to. You did a great job and maintained professionalism.
@@breanna834 Ok thank you
@@enrichedtalksit wasn’t you at ALL ! You did an amazing job tonight . Thank you for your advice and perspective .
*UNPOPULAR OPINION* Im only 1.5 hours in.. and i honestly see nothing wrong with either of the guys said.. They said exactly what they would behind our backs🤷🏽♀️ Facts remain, Men love a woman that looks put together, dressed well, and in heels🤷🏽♀️ Some things should be standard 🤷🏽♀️ Like yes, a pair of black heels are standard.. knowing how to apply makeup ‼ STANDARD.. The delivery wasn't harsh, we are just sensitive 🤷🏽♀️ id rather hear it from them face to face, than behind my back.. Or keep wondering "Why am I not being approached by a man of substance" Take the advice, or don't .. it doesn't hurt to switch things up and try UT their way and see the outcome 🤷🏽♀️
*EDIT 😂 FLAG ON THE PLAY ‼*
3:08:09 Once we got back to Tee, I disagree with Nu.. he kept saying she only dates Nigerian, but she actually said she approached by Nigerians.. Which is a difference.. Also, I see nothing wrong with what she's wearing for girls night.. black pants, and a black top 🤷🏽♀️ Nothing wrong with it 🤷🏽♀️ Also, her personality is dope, and outgoing which can be intimidating to men.. She's a fun girl, but that doesn't mean she's a "fun girl".. she's been proposed to, and decided that his background wouldn't allign for a lifetime.. I think Nu perception was actually wrong on Tee 🤷🏽♀️
Completely agree
I’d have to agree with you
Agreed!!!!!
I have no desire to hear or care what a mean bitter man thinks
Why is it that the women have to be open minded but the man ALWAYS gets to be so closed minded. Ugggh I hated this live. So misogynistic
I love this fashion Friday. Rich is a ❤….. nothing else too add. Thank you ash looking forward to come next week
Thank you
When Bro Nu was talking about Tee's energy vs attire, I think thats were a lot of the ladies including myself checked out. He started making personal attacks based on the conjectures and projections in his own mind about her and nothing about what she wore. He said things and took the conversation places it didnt need to go revealing how extremely disrespectful and insecure he is. He seemed triggered because he started making statements on things that werent even said. I dont even think he had much feed back to give on her outfit which was the permise of the show. As to one of the reasons he is single, He mentioned he is living in a poor area which lowered his prospects for dating, so is he use to low income energy and possibly not as confident women . In other words he likes to play life on easy mode, Nu wasnt fooling anyone he would not have a chance with a woman like Tee so its best to come up with all this unproven bs reasons to reject her to avoid his ultimate rejection. If he just stayed focus on what she wore, we could take him more seriously. It really doesn't matter what you wear with men like him because ultimately he is looking for traits women wear like timidity, uncertainty, unassuming, nothing that provokes competition from other men all to affirm his fragile masculinity. As far as pumpkin spice I have no words for him because that is not my flavor at all but just some advice they do have shape wear for men and he may want to try it so that button isnt working so hard.
Exactly. Wasn't this live about fashion? How did marriage get into the mix? Who said she was even going out to impress a man? She was going out with her girls.
Absolutely!!
He complimented Tee and said her hair matched her energy. She was approachable and looked friendly. He didn’t say anything bad about her actually. The only criticism from both men was that she may want to choose a less colorful dress for a Jazz concert next time, but she looked great. It was appropriate for the occasion either way, just comes down to personal preference.
I think y’all heard what you wanted to hear and didn’t listen
@@ninagrace-lee8323 no that would be you hearing what you wanted to hear, I am referencing at the 2:42 mark, Bro Nu gave no feedback on her clothes whatsoever which was the assignment. He instead gave wild conjectures of who he perceived her to be as a person and stayed riding that point which had no relevance to the conversation. He was more interested in her preference for men and her engagement with them than her clothing. He had nothing specific or logical insight on her other than the emotional reasoning her energy gives me that of a woman I would have sex with and discard. But in the same breath said he wanted a young woman to dress in hot and sexy clothing because that is why he chose her.
Nu acting like he’s the prize and I don’t like it. Always changed the subject and made it about him. Something about him is off. Call it a women’s intuition. And that’s why he had to go on Kendra’s show to find love.
I remember Eboni on the last live her husband wanted her to change because he was watching Kevin Samuel’s and he is now claiming to be a high value man. Her husband said that she wasn’t his type. I really felt her anxiousness in this live. She really thought she looked good. This live was a hard one to watch 💔
It was 😢
I just watched that one. She didn’t think that she looked good at all. Her confidence was extremely broken. She was distraught with what her husband said because she believed it. She was really hard on herself. She had started working out for herself but broke her ankle and had to stop working out.
I love all the feedback. Stop being sensitive ladies. They gave very constructive criticism.
I’m disappointed in Ashley. And she got a nerve to take up for them at one point. That one man was gross in his thinking and his delivery. Next time have men on that are into fashion themselves. Because it was about fashion not being a woman of the night and who they would or wouldn’t approach. Nobody wanted them at all.
Yeah it put me off how Ashley was silent at times when we all know she would say something or provide reassurance to make the ladies feel good and SAFE. THIS fashion Friday did not feel like a safe space AT ALL
Honestly, made me unsubscribe.
@@RamahneeDavisno fr sitting like a duck
Right!!
Masculine energy, of course your triggered
I love the safe place Ashley created but honestly this fashion Friday was extremely hard to watch for me personally. I couldn't even finish watching, I left after the second lady. I was getting second hand embarrassment and it just wasn't the fashion Friday I look forward to every week. If you do this again, please please choose better
Exactly, I was it didn’t feel as calm and safe as we are used to.
@@amtuumuchdon't ever bring Nu back, I won't watch. He brings that "high value man" bull. He compared a woman to a f'in car
Well why were you getting embarrassed? They gave their opinion that's what the women came up for
You will be surprised if Rich actually made more money than the other guy.
I prefer a sigma man myself !
The other guy is a KS wannabe.
Def not original and I know KS content back to back.
It helped me because I was open to actually hear his message without being quick to anger lol 😂
@dc704 He was degranding nobody wants that. He he was asking person questions and was very aggressive towards the women. Way too emotional for a usually light-hearted show.
There’s something about having tact with your wording . Brother nu did not speak with tact , and some of questions/statements were rude and condescending. He also talked too much about himself on a tangent and seemed self centered . I really enjoy what Ashley is doing , but i feel he took away from the vulnerable aspect of this segment .
Rich 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
True about the makeup. A surgeon I worked without the day said “ you’re fit , cute, naturally pretty and you look alright”. As in I’m not wearing makeup.
When I wore makeup to work everyone was nicer and helpful. (Lipstick lip liner, mascara , eyeliner , neutral eye shadow, foundation)
People treat you like you treat yourself.
That's not the best thing to hear...people are swayed by a facade. Feeble-minded.
That's not the best thing to hear...people are swayed by a facade. Feeble-minded.
Rich was a gem. Personally he was more of my preference such a teddy bear 🧸 he’s well dressed. Also, I want to add we don’t need anyone males perception. We have to find the value in ourselves. We are the prize ❤️. I was a little uneasy watching this. Nu was slightly harsh and judgmental. 🤷🏽♀️ he keeps saying competition 😬. Like beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Not everyone is trying to be the “beauty standard”
Yesss !!!!!!!!
Y’all are not the prize 🏆 🛑 it
Yes he is great but I don’t know about the orange. Gives “pimp” vibes but it suits him.
I'd like to point out that Rich was standing the entire time.
Right. He was a team player. He really hung in there, especially considering the fact that he didn't plan on being a host of sorts.
This was a safe place for women where kind hearted criticism is normally given with grace. The lack of tact with his delivery was unnecessary and disturbing. I’m disappointed. Men can give judgement without being so harsh. Today, the unique factor that made this community seem so uplifting and positive to me was neglected to have “a moment” but not an impact.
Agreed.
I like that last statement. I didn’t know the rhyme or reason for men being here but I assumed it was for their “perspective”… I just know when men are centered, the whole vibe changes and I chose to opt out bc I knew I wouldn’t be able to refrain from speaking my mind lol
@@MsMoneyonMyMind Agreed. This was also my first time catching the live, so it wasn’t a good impression in comparison to the clips posted on her accounts and I was anticipating tuning in. I joined during the height of him ranting and tuned out. If men are added to a segment, it needed to be properly planned and the men vetted. Just posting I need men to join me tonight hours before you go live was not the best idea. What qualified them as high value men whose opinion was necessary. Adding men could have been a good idea in the future but the execution of implementing this was rushed for this live and seemed very unnecessary to me. Yesterday did not feel like a safe place and was equivalent to a stranger walking in and judging how you keep your house in a boorish demeanor.
@@MsMoneyonMyMindright that's the thing. When men are invited to women's spaces they should acquiesce to the way the host conducts the show themselves. Otherwise it comes off like they are trying to conquer.
I think in bringing (unqualified) men to this live it disrupted the safe space Ashley has worked so hard to cultivate and maintain. I’m surprised she allowed it to go on for so long, it got to a point where they quite literally bashed specific types of women which was disgusting.
They are not by any means THE definition of “high value men”… the wants of men are varying and are not entirely dependent on some of the things they were highlighting. But you got some more views so good for you Ashley…
AGREE WITH YOU 100% 💯💯
I was wondering what were they qualifications to be giving out advice, just because they are men? Definitely wouldn’t be the type of men I would even want to date for sure.
It was so sad that Ashley sat there and let those men out right disrespect Tee
What did I say that bashed certain women? What qualification is needed to give a personal opinion on fashion?
Thank you! I was just saying this they’re single so you’re telling me even though you’re a men you can’t find what you say men want? Nu was on a bigger platform than this Kendra G and you telling me he still couldn’t find nobody seems sketchy he don’t even know what he wants but wants to give advice
Why does it matter what her husband does for a living?why are they comparing women and their looks your guest arent nice
Yeah, I thought that was extremely tacky. I love Ashley's shows but I think if she were to bring any man back on here please let it be the first ever gentleman she had on during an Ask Ashley episode. He was very respectful.
It gave the impression that according to how you look you determine the income level of the man who would marry you. However, they said they would date women who worked fast food
And that's why that whole segment was tacky... All that lady wanted to know was how her outfit looked for a night out with her husband of 5 years. She didn't ask them for manosphere talking points. I don't think any of us did. Stick to the fashion.
Brother Nu wants to be somebody's daddy..bless his heart
Girlllll😩
I see why brother Nu single 🤦🏾♀️
shapewear has always existed. All grandmas wear/wore girdles, they had corsets. This man is unserious.
I can't see a woman still being single after listening to these two men's great advice. I know it put me in a better position.
Brother Nu nagging Chile and Rich gon out dress you every time🤣😂🤣🤣
The off topic discussion came off as judgemental. Why did it matter if that lady husband was blue collar.
It didn't..he was being a jerk
Big ups for the women that came out and took the critiques in good faith.
Something I have realized watching Ash's show is most women are asking for the same type of gentleman that is HVM. And of course everyone wants the best but... These men are very direct and some women take that it as a harshness but it's not, generally type A personalities.
I think it’s funny how they were both saying they’re never intimidated by a woman, but when Mellie came on, they were both dumbfounded and speechless.
I like Rich, the other one is a NO.
At first I was like nu was tripping but he got a new fan. He was spitting facts throughout the whole thing.
I think the two men giving their opinion on style and impressions of what it does for the young ladies is excellent. Love watching this. Brilliant!
Rich gave constructive criticism and came across calm and collected. Loved him and he's stylish. NU was too harsh for me.
Nu was more constructive, imaging if you guys can hear the thoughts of majority of men you’d probably not want to date anymore
I was really disappointed with the men you brought on this live. Some of the comments made were VERY unnecessary and disrespectful.
Thank you for the feedback. What did I say that was disrespectful?
@@enrichedtalks In my opinion, you were not disrespectful, your perspective was very insightful and even though at times the women in the chat disagreed you maintained a professional demeanor. The other guest did not, and that is what they are referring to. All love to you❤
@@breanna834 ok I see. Thank you
@@breanna834 thank you! you explained it perfectly
@@enrichedtalksYou were lovely Rich, I hope we get another Fashion Friday with just you this time. The critique was honest and not abrasive which gives most women comfort enough to actually hear and take in the honest critique.
Thanks Ashley for providing the different perspectives. I would love to hear some different perspectives too from other nationalities of other men if possible.
Most of them of have fun with Black woman.
I’ve seen Nu on this or another channel once before and he has an energy that’s just an acquired taste. He’s done well for himself and you can tell he’s proud of himself (as he should be) but he’s not the humble, chill kind of guy. I can see why he put people off, but I do think it’s valuable to hear his opinion. He’s saying what many men would be too sensible to say out loud.😂 I think getting your feelings hurt by strangers can be good, but you can’t be around it all the time if you don’t take to a personality like his.
On point sis! All of what you said.
And that’s why he’s still not married 😂 don’t blame it on his low quality area sir women are turned off by you
I agree wholeheartedly…. There are people with different personalities… he did nothing wrong at all. And I trust Ashley’s discernment
Whew chile! Reading the comments is exhausting. Women have to stop being so sensitive. Sure, NU talks too damn much but he wasn't saying anything that the other man didn't agree with. So you didn't like his delivery. Big deal. Listen to what the men are saying they like and want. His feedback was mostly positive and constructive. If you want a man, you have to be who they want and vice versa. As soon as I started LISTENING to what men want, I was able to get the man I wanted.
Tee if you see this YOU LOOKED FAB AND THE BODY WAS GIVING HUNNY❤
Her IG is her name
Thanks babe 💕💕
@@teidraandalehear me well when men feel like women are threatening, they come up with crazy narratives about you to protect their fragile ego and this is what Nu did to you. Notice he mentioned very little about your outfit which was the assignment. You looked great and I hope you had fun with the girls
Yes I would wear that if I was hanging with the girls celebrating their winnings
I love Ashley’s content. And appreciated the switch up this week. But Nu killed the vibe. We do want different perspectives but general respect and active listening was missing.
I agree 100%. I love the idea of having different perspectives but it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it!
This !
agree!! he was very defensive and wouldn’t let the ladies speak from their perspective as well.
He talked about himself too much. Omg
He wanted us to go watch that Kendra G clip lol@@msccmb9929
This is interesting about purses. How are you carrying items if you don't have a purse? I didn't know this was a thing.
Brother nu must be short 👀😂
🤣🤣 I think he said he was either 5’9” or 5’10”. One of those heights.
Thank you very much Ashley for this live it was the best fashion Friday so far ! I absolutely loved the two gentlemen’s advices. All they did was speaking facts and for the most part they were just agreeing with all of the things you’ve been saying for ever !!! But too many woman’s don’t want to learn.
Please ladies if you think you know everything and you don’t need to receive any advices you do you, but it’s not the case for all of us.
Ashley don’t stop doing this 🤍
Totally true
Message: I can see how this would be great for Ashley in terms of creating numbers for her social platforms by having these controversial exchanges but at the same time it tarnishes her brand because it no longer provides a safe space for women's improvement. There were women coming on camera revealing their insecurities from fupas to back fats with the purist intention of getting constructive feedback. However, with these male guests who don't even meet the bare minimum of conventional standards for attractiveness demanding that be the case for women is absolutely laughable. To know that you have a man on your platform who foregoes judging clothing to now energy in the most distasteful way unprovoked is disturbing. Not realizing it was his own insecurities and nasty energy he was projecting onto her that he put on display and nothing about her. To further highlight what he said was not worth a dime, he then tells a younger caller to dress hot and sexy because he expects that of her age group, wtf. We know as women; you are to dress according to the level of attention you can handle because if not you will not be able to handle yourself or your surroundings and unfortunately a lot of predators are banking on that. When you dress sexy there is a level of authority you must and need to command and I think we all saw that Tee had it which can be intimidating for some men. To justify not being able to handle that sensual confidence, they find safety in calling her out to be the hoe or slut. His mind was so blown he didn't even judge the fit just abandon the assignment lol and odd enough she met most of his standards for dress and appearance. However, he revealed his mo, he can control shy, unassuming young women but not bold and confident women which is why the rules are different. He needed to be dragged from his bucked teeth to his poor grammar. One wasn't even interested in marriage right now and the one had every excuse to not be married. How do you have so many options but can't choose one at your big age of 37, sounds like poor or inept leadership to me. I can go on and on...but the main point is just because they have a peen doesn't mean you should take them seriously or their advice especially when they view you through the lens of male fragility.
Get out your feelings & COMPETE
@@Sweetheart0189 lol, aww I don't have to compete I COMMAND. When you are truly in your divine femininity you DRAW to you, and you don't chase. But you are his audience, not me so compete go on compete and hope and pray you won't be the fun girl ok. And that sweetheart, is the spiritual sauce he says he wants but can't seem to manifest because he is operating out of order and he knows this, EYE SEE This!
@@mzbrown6969 too much word salad
@@Sweetheart0189u must be brother nu from a fake page 🤣🤣
@@Sweetheart0189 no you mean too big of an intellect. Push yourself to think sweetheart. It won't be as easy as makeup application and putting on stilettos but it's so worth it.
This was so much fun,I love both the Gentlemen ✨
I enjoyed both guests and their opinions for us to require so much from men we sure hate to hear the few things they require of us a purse and some heels thank you Ashley for this episode
Yes when I hear young ladies say they don’t wear a purse.
Over and hour in and i agree and respect everything these men have said
This live was very male-centered and not fashion focused.
3:02:33 why he asking her where did she go for happy hour? He keep asking invasive questions
Goes to show you high value shouldn't be about finances. NU says he has money. Yet he's still a dusty in a suit. Generally, men look better when they but on a suit jacket. However, his energy just exudes dust.
3:14:37 Ashley i love watching you and your content but you shouldve handled this situation better. Very disappointed of you Ashley!!!! Smh YOU ARE
THE HOST
Yes! I love Ashley, but she wasn't taking control of these men AT ALL and at most parts allowing the disrespect when we all know she constantly reassures us and creates a safe space. This didn't feel like a safe space at all. It's not what you say its how you say it
@@PureeTaurussEXACTLY SIS
I love Ashley & this just shows how powerful she is alone. Rich saved this live. I would’ve used better discernment picking the other guy. He’s a joke !
Whoever missed this today chiilldddd 😂😂😂
That thang was thanging tonight
Thank you for your words of wisdom tonight 😊
@@silvalinejangu-tj2sw Thank you for watching. Hope I can do it again sometime.
I know, I’m like what happened. I can’t wait to see
I love Rich tone when addressing the women. The other 🤷♀️
Let’s be honest here, if any female in the world wanted to be in a relationship or married they would be; now if you have standards for what you want with a partner you aren’t going to settle for less. Ultimately the woman makes the decision if they want to be with that man. Yes men propose often but in the end who really ends the engagement 🤷🏽♀️
Can’t end anything without getting asked first 😂. You the type of female that believes her own lies
What I notice is these two men missed picking up on PERSONALITY. Style is also an expression of self. You do not wear a black dress in the day time in the spring in Australia like what tje heck.
I guess I’m in the minority. I gave this live the side eye before watching. However I thought the guys did a good job overall. It was their opinion! They pretty much gave every woman a compliment. Even though some of the commentary is misogynistic , a lot of men are misogynistic. However, most single men are not marriage material or marriage minded so men have to stop pushing this agenda that a single woman is doing something wrong because she is unmarried. Black culture, music, and social media has demised the black marital union. Men are having fun sleeping around that is why they are not getting married. No woman is ever going to be good enough if your standards are not coming from a spiritual place. Marriage is a spiritual union at the end of the day. But this was supposed to be about fashion, so on that note it was good.
What a fabulously insightful comment🙌🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for revealing something deeper and sharing wisdom💜
I agree
As a divorce man.
I approach women, but they are right certain women i dont approach
an women also approach me, an the type of women i dont go for certain types who approach me.
part of is it location or venue and place and how you are dress there.
its easier for a woman to approach a man at a non social event because what she wears can be super casual if she has the body for it or she can show way too much skin an still be okay.
But in certain places how you dress matters to a specific type of man.
if im at expo or convention for something an your dress a certain way it turns me off
i digress. back to approaching, there are women who catch my eye. part of it is how she dresses, there are other factors but how she dresses attracts me. of course how her body is shaped make up 50% of the reason im gonna approach her, but 20% is her how she dress. In some cases more than 20.
i dont think these men are speaking on marriage, they speaking on single men looking to approach women, if you want to get more men approachhing you listen to men, because i know exactly what i need to do to get more women approaching me.
When you’re chosen, there is no competition 😂
Exactly they act like it’s a shortage of men 😂
I have absolutely nooooo issue with how the men are presenting their opinions… Infact, if Nu wasn’t on this live, maybe most of the women wouldn’t have received the help they needed… not saying Rich didn’t help… but the men with two different personalities gave the life a bit of a dimension/dynamic… I love it! Us women are sooo sensitive yet still we want a certain type of men. Sorry to break it to you, but certain men don’t go for regular women.. you have to put in the EFFORT darling.. z
Bro nu it’s your delivery… not good. Your delivery needs to be more positive. Your intentions may not be ill, but watch it back. You’re single for a reason. Rich has a great personality and his delivery is better. Until you have placed your size 10 foot in a stiletto or a pointy toe shoe, sit down. Good for you Mr. Red bottom man. Women stand up for yourselves and have humble confidence. Woman do say that they want a HV man and that’s a whole different conversation that needs to be had ladies. Don’t require what you don’t have ladies. You can like and want what you want, but don’t require it unless you are it ladies. Period. 🎉
How does a grown woman not own a purse
This episode was jjuuiiiccyyy
We didn’t need this at ALL!!!! They’re sassy enough on their own chile🤔🤢 teddy graham was cool at some points but the brother that came late🤦🏾♀️😩🙄🥴😒
The problem is that the guys were giving fashion advice and telling everyone what they like in their women.
That’s the point…
Exactly..was this an opportunity for the guys to choose women?? ...or participate in Fashion Friday?
That’s the whole point of the live
@@lesliejohnson-nelson4003 I for one have no desire to hear what they want in their women. Each man is different and I have great men in my life. Attracting the right man is about knowing thyself not being told what a few men like...the only guy I appreciated was the one in the orange suit that stood up the entire three hours. He can come back, he has positive energy...all the others act like they are on an online dating website. I'm not there to be auditioned and "picked" (or pimped) Im only there for fashion advice
Neither of these men are married so how can they really give advice on meeting a “husband”….. the blind can’t be leading the blind now 😂
Men ask women… they can be married tomorrow if they want to…. WE have to be asked so it would behoove you to do what men like….
@@Sweetheart0189 it takes two parties in order for it to be a marriage. Men can ask and the woman can also decline. You sound like a pick me, obeying what they say so you can get picked. Girl bye.
Do women typically entertain men long enough to turn down a potential proposal?
@@Sweetheart0189girl if that was true they’d have one. Nobody wants that zesty man 😂
The way nu treated that lady who went to the club last night was totally disrespectful smh he did way toooo much towards her
i understand this is all fun and I enjoy watching Ash you’ve created such a safe space for women … I just don’t think bringing the men in was a good idea Brother Nu specifically some of his comments were very disheartening
I agree … and I think Ashley mischaracterized the chat by saying some women weren’t ready to hear the truth. I think we were all ready, but NU’s delivery was so chauvinistic and judgmental… I’m too grown to take that type of attitude seriously 🥴
I like Rich for sure! His style and presentation was awesome!! Thank you Rich!
Thank you!
Their both so honest and respectful with the comments
the anti black comments are crazy
thank you for having me 🩷 I really enjoyed the live and appreciated the advice and perspective! I’d also love to see them come back for an Ask Ashley, toward the end they were hitting on things I’ve been having curiosities and questions about 😭
Thank you for joining. It was a pleasure.
@@enrichedtalksyou did a great job
Love-Notes set herself apart from the others in the jazz club. 90% of the women in the room will be in the little black dress.
She doesnt require make up. We should start encouraging natural beauties.
Even though I’m married, I really appreciated the men’s perspectives. I appreciate the honesty of the men but Nu got more aggressive than necessary a couple of times while Rich kept it respectful the entire time.
Much love to all of the women who were brave enough to come up, to Ash for the platform and to Rich for being a real class act! 💎
Ashley surely wanted to respect her guests but I feel like sometimes she should have speak for the girls and redirect the subject (Fashion) because that’s not the kind of energy we are used to in this show
Hello Ashley and everyone. I enjoyed episode today. Kudos to Rich for standing for more than 3 hours! Enjoyed both of the gentleman on the panel today. Hey Ashley, we know where you cut the last lady off! 😂 take care and God bless. ❤
Lol. Facts
He didnt want to wrinkle his suit
Need the live chat added to the video
1:06:55 "I don't care how your feet feel." *sigh* I was enjoying the live replay and a bit confused about some of the negative comments...until the rant started. It was almost as if a switch went off in nu and he forgot the assignment. Ashley did say to give constructive critique and to lead with love. TheRealEnrichedTalks shared the same sentiments, but his delivery was different. I get the impression that, in a relationship, TheRealEnrichedTalks would provide covering and nu would need a safe word.
FYI: Some employers do invest in their employees by providing professional development and covering the cost to obtain a degree.
Exactly! Nu’s analogy was off … if I’m committed to a job and the job is committed to me, then they will help pay for my school. Likewise, if I’m in a relationship with a man, it shouldn’t be a dealbreaker to ask him to pay for the shoes that HE thinks I need 🤷🏽♀️
I feel like so many viewers are misunderstanding him. Yes there are many jobs that will invest in you but before you get there you have to invest in yourself. MOST jobs won’t higher you with no experience or education and build you from the ground up. You usually come into it with something and they help you grow ever more because they see you as an asset.
The same applies here. He said a basic stiletto from aldo or Steve Madden. And then maybe a man would upgrade you into something like louboutins. MOST men want to see that you value yourself enough to invest in yourself before they invest in you. And there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s called standards. We should all have them, men and women.
I have tattoos on my shoulder and in color. Still bagged an amazing man ♥️
Audacity is crazy these days frfr!!!!
@enrichedtalks, I was curious and had a question for Rich. Why would it be ok for tee to wear the top she had on if she is in a relationship with you but not when she is single? If you see this question can you provide more details about that please. Thank you in advance.
This is an excellent question. I think she should wear it whenever she likes. I didn’t say don’t wear it. I said it will send a certain message. If she is cool with that then everything is good. But if she is attracting a type of man that she doesn’t want, she may want to try something different. If we are in a relationship or dating, she is wearing it for me and I love that. The outfit looked great.
He talks soooo much
he loves to talk last so he can drag his opinions out. talks way too much sounds like he's whining 😂