AITA For Giving My Parents Homework? (React Court)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
  • This came from my livestream on August 16th, 2021. Catch me live every weekday from 11AM-4PM here: / northernlion
    I wanted to mix up my content a little bit and I figured, what better way to use my unique brand of judgemental gaze than to read the top posts on one of the most entertaining subreddits out there: r/AmITheAsshole? Check it out!

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  • @KatyLawson
    @KatyLawson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1299

    "This just sounds like jealousy because your son is just laying pipe 24/7, all the time" - Northernlion, 2021

    • @viking8796
      @viking8796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Coming in hot with the fire takes.

    • @Whatsuppbuddies
      @Whatsuppbuddies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      “I refuse to speak to him because he’s bigger and stronger than me” killed me

    • @Doomroar
      @Doomroar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is hilarious.

    • @BurnedSpace
      @BurnedSpace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      he just alpha’d his father. having loud rough sec in his home and intimidating him

    • @kierengert6177
      @kierengert6177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Based.

  • @anarchium_wellsquest
    @anarchium_wellsquest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1047

    25 YO's dad: "don't interrupt our sleep when you come in late with your long term gf."
    also 25 YO's dad: "he was purposefully trying not to be caught when doing things while we slept, what a hooligan"

    • @greenoftreeblackofblue6625
      @greenoftreeblackofblue6625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      surbans dads in america midwest be like:

    • @MrVovansim
      @MrVovansim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      25 y.o's dad: gets up to go pee at 3am, due to prostate problems, figures he'd rub one out while he's at it.
      Wife catches him at the computer: what is this cam site you're looking at?
      Dad: oh, that? It's... Uhhh... Just, you know, checking our security cam, to make sure our son didn't sneak in a lady friend. **Proceeds to post to r/AITA to cover his tracks**

    • @Montewtf
      @Montewtf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah do you want them to be loud and disruptive or quiet and sneaky

    • @samc771
      @samc771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      another weird part of this is why is he reviewing the security cameras every day?? Like that’s just weird to me (unless you notice something wrong obv)

    • @JamesV1
      @JamesV1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@samc771 because he's a crazy person

  • @ibefullofme
    @ibefullofme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Dying at the one commenter "I'm 21 and my parents have the same rules for me. It's really easy to follow because I don't get laid."

  • @dylanon3k
    @dylanon3k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    I always forget when you go three posts down in a Reddit thread you're about to read some of the most insane shit that's ever been written

    • @Whatsuppbuddies
      @Whatsuppbuddies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      “I was bullied in high school so now I experience post-traumatic stress disorder at having to write an essay”

  • @davieslovesfloyd
    @davieslovesfloyd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    When NL whispered "are you okay?" after reading that response I died

    • @danyukhin
      @danyukhin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      46:06

  • @zonkbronk5260
    @zonkbronk5260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1236

    thank the gods for this level-headed man and his normal opinions

    • @nich3897
      @nich3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Comments invented to be the complete antithesis to Jerma comments

    • @moredcaicyrus2826
      @moredcaicyrus2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      U never see normal online nowadays, his second aita was the best tho

    • @TheSlizzer348
      @TheSlizzer348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Honestly all praise the egg

    • @RECTANGLE339
      @RECTANGLE339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@nich3897 curse the devil for this insane man and his abnormal facts

    • @DezXereanas
      @DezXereanas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I got down voted to hell when I said this exact thing on the post lol.

  • @billicatato-9441
    @billicatato-9441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    The most unhinged episode yet

    • @zonkbronk5260
      @zonkbronk5260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      truly

    • @marmeg5238
      @marmeg5238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      It makes you drop your guard with the most boring first post so far and then hits you with two absolutely crazy ones. Truly, a masterclass of storytelling.

    • @rey7014
      @rey7014 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Next react court, NL will become the joker

  • @docien7342
    @docien7342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    20 minutes of NL going off on power tripping homeowners that loathe their children is genuinely fantastic content

  • @Suavek69
    @Suavek69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    AITA be like
    Hey, I was a little annoyed that my 30y/o son brings his girlfriends to my house so I told him that from now on every girl I find in his room gets a bullet, I even bought brand new AK-47 for that purpose. One night as I was walking to the bathroom needing to pee, I decided to check out my security footage for that night and after spending 3 hours watching trees in my back yard, I saw my son smuggling a girl into our house. I went to my son's room, where they were sleeping peacefully, and totally vaporized that girl's head with a single well place, point black bullet. My son started screaming terrified and even called the police on his own father! I explained to them that it was the rule in my house, but they arrested me anyway, and now I am being tried for murder, am I the asshole?
    69%: NTA - your house, your rules
    21%: everybody sucks here - on the one hand your house your rules, on the other, maybe the girl didn't know about the rule, you should have let her know, and give her 60s to start running, after that time you can shoot her in the back. If you miss, she's going free

    • @trolololo720
      @trolololo720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      NTA, your son needs to either start respecting you and abide by the rules or buy his own appartment.
      Oh wait, he can't, because he doesn't even have a job.
      He's a strain on the family and you need to kick him out. Maybe he'll learn to be a man

    • @pirate135246
      @pirate135246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      This comment is gold, "Your house your rules" is super overused in so many situations as a fallback for people to get what they want.

    • @Whatsuppbuddies
      @Whatsuppbuddies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It’s prima nocta dude. You should be able to shoot your load before your son does.

    • @luka6575
      @luka6575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      NTA, I can't believe your son walks around the house 24/7 without clothes on. If that was MY house I would trash all of his personal belongings, for they are all under my PROPERTY.

    • @zacherychapman8474
      @zacherychapman8474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You jest, but if you swapped the genders of the lovers and set this 50 years ago, I'm confident that the consensus in America would have earnestly supported this. The Father's perspective would have been something like, "A man broke into my home and seduced my daughter. I fulfilled my paternal duties by shooting the intruder and protecting her virtue," and he would have had the sympathy of most of the community.

  • @jupiter4602
    @jupiter4602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    every time I hear about parents demanding rent from their own children it's insane. it's one thing to say "hey could you help out with the bills now that you're capable of doing so in order to ease some stress on the whole household", it's another to say "You're basically a stranger to us and unwelcome in the only home you've had your whole life if you don't start paying us money". how do these people like, disconnect from their humanity like this? that's not just a human being you're threatening to kick out on the street, it's your own child. don't you care about them enough to work with them rather than just threatening them with no way out at the very least?

    • @Montewtf
      @Montewtf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah when I worked part time I gave my parents half my paycheck to help out around the house. Then they were paying for my college and I started working full time so I just paid for that instead. It was never rent just for living there

    • @shamblestheclown
      @shamblestheclown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      A lot of it probably stems from people who were treated the same way and internalize it as normal. Also typical American culture lol.

    • @ant3978
      @ant3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      the only way id ever do this is to maybe teach them a lesson about budgeting, but even then id keep all the money aside and give it back to them when they wanted their own place (something like that idk). its so odd to me that people dont want to do everything they can to help their own kid get a leg up in life, instead they want theyre children to sleep rough over something incredibly petty

    • @connorchristian6231
      @connorchristian6231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they don't have a job or going to school I think you should probably do something

    • @andrewg3196
      @andrewg3196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the exact definition of "alienation" by Marx lol. The rules of capitalism become so ingrained in our minds that we operate on them instead of what's natural e.g. treating your child as a customer instead of blood.

  • @0ptimuscrime
    @0ptimuscrime ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “AITA? I’m a completely joyless father and my chad son keeps thwarting my rules and stealing pies from windowsills”

  • @JotteXD
    @JotteXD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    This episode was insane. Realizing this many people think this way is going to turn me into the jokair.

    • @SKYBLUEPINATA
      @SKYBLUEPINATA ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello jokair

    • @slynt_
      @slynt_ ปีที่แล้ว

      They are Redditors, not real people. They merely hear about the very existence of a man who fucks and they're instantly seeing red.

  • @Liam-pi9vi
    @Liam-pi9vi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Actually caught this segment on stream, and I was lucky. This AITA was probably the funniest version of the segment I’ve seen since the recent genesis of React Court.

  • @irresponsibledad
    @irresponsibledad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The comments on that second post were the most distilled Redditness I've ever seen

  • @CssHDmonster
    @CssHDmonster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    lets see if ryan becomes the joker this episode due to chat pressure
    edit: ok the fuck machine making his dad mad was a truly we live in a society, where landlords are gods moment

  • @PlasmaSpark
    @PlasmaSpark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    NL having such good opinions on the second post is giving me life

    • @blinxs99
      @blinxs99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      literally, if i had read that without his voice of reason reassuring me i would've felt like i was going insane lmao

  • @cybrzero7558
    @cybrzero7558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    NTA,
    Every being on this great planet is entitled to pester their landlord by rolling around in his cables while he streams. You deserve happiness and him putting you in that box is oppression. Just because its his house doesn't mean he can deny you the basic right of freedom to fuck with his cables

  • @paradoxtheruler7596
    @paradoxtheruler7596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    The parent is totally jealous his son is laying pipe 24/7

    • @calebbarnes9113
      @calebbarnes9113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Dad literally shaking with rage as he watches his son on CCTV continue to bring new girls in each day.

    • @greenoftreeblackofblue6625
      @greenoftreeblackofblue6625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@calebbarnes9113 Which is the rage face that is crying with blood tears and rage.

  • @ChuggleDBuglGames
    @ChuggleDBuglGames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    The second story with the crazy parents is already sending me from the beginning. “He did this completely normal thing, AND THEN A FEW YEARS LATER HE DID IT AGAIN etc.” like are you counting the days? How do you even remember when the spacing between “incidences” is years!
    Also all the replies that are just like poor shaming or whatever the son are just such classic Reddit. Chef’s kiss.
    I hate editing my original comment because I am becoming Reddit, but the replies are going to turn me into the god damn joker. The whole “he’s 25 and a lazy bum! Tell him to get a job”. I hate! Like my 50 year old mom had to move in with me because everything in the world is awful! Should I kick her out twice as fast? I just hate!

    • @CaturDe
      @CaturDe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      NL misread, it said "a few days later".

    • @jmanwild87
      @jmanwild87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If i read it correctly ryan misread days as years

    • @ChuggleDBuglGames
      @ChuggleDBuglGames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@CaturDe still cringe tho

    • @handoverthestromboli6715
      @handoverthestromboli6715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Oh you're 25 and you're not slaving away just for a shitty apartment so you can avoid your parents to bang like crazy like the chad king you are?
      Then don't mind if I check the security cameras so I can envy over your sigma male grindset life

    • @ChuggleDBuglGames
      @ChuggleDBuglGames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@handoverthestromboli6715 that’s just how it be in the purgatory of having a kid but also wanting to be a landlord.

  • @Octoshark19
    @Octoshark19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    i hope this series has some staying power, as it is top tier
    edit: on some of these posts, if you disagree with the top comments I recommend filtering the comments by controversial. a lot of times that is where the reasonable people have been downvoted to lmao

  • @wolfengod8277
    @wolfengod8277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    The house guy is actually a sociopath, “my son does this thing that doesn’t wake me up but I check the cameras every day when I do wake up to see if my pointless rules that only serve to constrain him and make me feel powerful are being followed”.
    This man has so little power in his own mind that he feels the need to pointlessly flex the only bit of power he actually has on his adult son. The dads probably just butt blasted that his son is getting some when he likely hasn’t been touched in years. Big salt from him.

    • @pokiboi135
      @pokiboi135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      It's why it's so weird how narrow-minded the comments were. The post wasn't "My son is keeping me up all hours of the night because he brings girls over", it's literally "The IDEA that my son brings home girls at night bothers me because I said no, because, I said no." Sure your house, do whatever you want, but you're the asshole, 100%.

    • @slubbergully9231
      @slubbergully9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@pokiboi135 Yeah exactly! The father doesn't even mention a single practical issue: waking up, noise, mess, anything. It's literally just "my son is disobeying me and I'm mad." The father even got angry at his wife letting the son back into *his own home* after he called in advance.

    • @Burchenall
      @Burchenall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right? I couldn't believe how can he find this behaviour so disruptive if he NEEDS to check the security cameras to find out, it invalidates the whole point he made about that subject.
      It's hilarious to think about that father waking up and going directly to the camera recordings all like "I know one of theese days he's gonna break the rules again, and when he does theese recordings will tell me!"

    • @Kai-K
      @Kai-K 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@slubbergully9231 That's truly insane.
      "Hey, is it okay if I get a variance this time mom?"
      "Yeah, I don't want you to sleep in the street."
      "GODDAMNIT WOMAN I TOLD THAT BOY TO SLEEP ON THE STREET!"

    • @slubbergully9231
      @slubbergully9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kai-K Yeah it's completely unhinged and it shows the father is the asshole. As he says in the post, he wanted some form of "retribution." He's literally just doing his best to harm his child because it makes him feel big, strong, and powerful.

  • @JonIkean
    @JonIkean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Ok those two posts were insane but there's a little detail that got missed in the last one - why did her boyfriend have to write the essay? wtf did he do? lmao

    • @TILsquared96
      @TILsquared96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      IM DYING, that's such a funny observation

    • @TheMrTangamandapio
      @TheMrTangamandapio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe they were on a break

    • @slubbergully9231
      @slubbergully9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Based Sigma GF forces her bf to write essays for no reason NTA

    • @JonIkean
      @JonIkean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Karon Nuva Yeah that might be it. Either that or the bf did say something against her decision. I'd like to imagine that the bf is another total nerd with phd brain-poisoning and he wanted in when he heard that she was making her parents write essays. If so that man is down cataclysmically bad lmao

    • @zkwinkle24
      @zkwinkle24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@slubbergully9231 this made me wheeze

  • @BigWalex
    @BigWalex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Thanks, NL, that first post turned me into the joker. I actually got stunlocked by the comments and just kept pausing to yell at people on the screen.

  • @Fachewachewa
    @Fachewachewa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Chose 1:
    - being uncomfortable in your house knowing someone was there and did nothing wrong
    - forcing your son to find alternative solutions that might not be as safe as his own house

    • @iplay9s
      @iplay9s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      -encouraging the 25 year old man to move out

  • @5oofl3e
    @5oofl3e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    The amount of second-hand rage I got from that guy who doesn't let the adult son live his life is immeasurable

    • @Alylion
      @Alylion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Dude really is just jealous of the ham smacks

    • @zonkbronk5260
      @zonkbronk5260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I too felt a large amount of second-hand rage for that 😤

    • @axis_tilted
      @axis_tilted 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      bro, I don't even own my dorm. If somebody decided to bring their girl over while we were trying to sleep we would be pissed. Yall really don't understand why letting someone "live their life" at 12 am might be annoying as shit?

    • @NTRWeiss
      @NTRWeiss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      @@axis_tilted under the assumption that neither parent even wakes up from the ham slaps at 4:45am, because the father had to check the cameras to confirm that the son even had someone over in the first place, there isn't a disturbance to be had. If he was disturbing them by being loud or what have you, yes that's a good argument - but given the information, that doesn't seem to be the case. That's why it's a non-issue.

    • @wolfengod8277
      @wolfengod8277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@axis_tilted
      Cry harder incel. Nobody cares about your crying from no sex. Go join a church and live like a monk.

  • @TheSlizzer348
    @TheSlizzer348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    My parents used to do that shit like lock me out, tell me I can’t come home, or both. Pretty much since I was like 15 - I used to lit have to sleep in alleys, down the side of houses or in the woods. Shit is scary.

    • @emnersonn
      @emnersonn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      jesus, hope you’re doing okay now

    • @TheSlizzer348
      @TheSlizzer348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah like it unreservedly fucks you up

    • @TheSlizzer348
      @TheSlizzer348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thing I think if anyone still sees this that you need to takeaway is that whatever is going on behind closed doors is far worse than this.

    • @pookey7755
      @pookey7755 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God damn it, this post unlocked a memory of my mom scolding me from coming home late once and threatening the same shit when it wasn’t even my fault because my friends dad went psychopath and threw me out so he could be “alone” even though the mom wanted me to keep her son out of trouble by sleeping over. I had never been home late once before that and it’s now occurring to me my mom just fucking threw that on me even though I had no prior history. I sympathize with you.

  • @Drephin
    @Drephin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My mind is boggled by the second one.
    I love with my girlfriend in her family’s house. I have a job but the rent here is too expensive for us to get an apartment.
    So the only “rule” we have is not to be too loud after 1.
    And I agree with NL if you have to look at the security footage then it’s not a problem

    • @shamblestheclown
      @shamblestheclown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is almost exactly my situation to a tee. My partner and I live with my mom, we both pay some rent but if we can't make it that month my mom understands. Do these people really have that little empathy?

  • @Zebo12345678
    @Zebo12345678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    Holy shit I can't believe that parent that refuses to let their 25 year old son have a girlfriend got a NTA verdict. All those comments saying "he should just get his own place" reminds of that Ben Shapiro clip of "if the oceans rose then don't you think the people living in coastal providences would just sell their houses and move?"

    • @wolfengod8277
      @wolfengod8277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      It all works out, they all sell their houses to aqua-man and move somewhere higher. Not even a problem.

    • @Zebo12345678
      @Zebo12345678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@wolfengod8277 I wanted to mention that in my dialect we pronounce it "ahqua" instead of "aaqua" but when we talk about the Ben Shapiro clip, I can only read it as "aaqua"

    • @DemagogueBibleStudy
      @DemagogueBibleStudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I thought Redditors were mostly in their 20’s-30’s so it’s wild that they have no idea what the housing market is like for people that age.

    • @314Marvin
      @314Marvin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@DemagogueBibleStudy Those comments are 20-30 yr olds that live with their parents but pretend they live on their own and believe it's super easy

    • @spencechan
      @spencechan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is the point of this post seriously to suggest that it's inconceivable for a 25 year old to be able to afford to rent an apartment?
      That one commenter said buy a house, but read between the lines

  • @jamesthom7869
    @jamesthom7869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Laughed out loud at the "pouring over security footage like a Frickin Psycho" comment.

  • @kokorikopi
    @kokorikopi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I cannot believe the bringing girls home post. That person is actually insane.

    • @Pedun42
      @Pedun42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      I have a harder time believing all the comments on it are real and not just alt accounts of op

    • @GuiTheKratos
      @GuiTheKratos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      The whole post is insane

    • @truffeltroll6668
      @truffeltroll6668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@Pedun42 libertarian circlejerk

    • @Pedun42
      @Pedun42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@truffeltroll6668 I honestly don't know if you're saying I'm being a libertarian circlejerk or the comments on the post are.

    • @TILsquared96
      @TILsquared96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Pedun42 Seeing that nearly no one told the OP that their rules were overkill, was very harrowing

  • @gooble1
    @gooble1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "I too think subservience and respect is the same thing. MYHOUEMYRURURUMHUARGH"
    - reddit

  • @Durzaka
    @Durzaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My god, im glad that NL saw how insane the post about the kid sneaking his dates home. Like that entire post was absolutely ridiculous. ive never disagreed with an entire AITA post so thoroughly in my entire life.

    • @calvin5426
      @calvin5426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And some of those top comments sounded straight sociopathic. Even worse if you consider that usually you're already getting a pretty biased take on the situation since it's a party defending themselves, and still everything the son did sounded well within the real of reason? No mention of loud ham smacking. No mention of messing up the place or anything of the like.

    • @Durzaka
      @Durzaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@calvin5426 Im still so blown away by the responses on that post. FYI for anyone looking, OP has since deleted that post, interestingly enough. But while the Son was in the wrong for disobeying the rules, his dad is also insane for setting the rules and enforcing them with a camera in the first place

  • @cantrip7
    @cantrip7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The homework one is hilarious. I agree with "asshole, yet based"

  • @AppleJackApple
    @AppleJackApple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Someone should post on Reddit with "AITA for making my son write his will?" so Egg can read it in court

  • @314Marvin
    @314Marvin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm actually going to become the joker after hearing the homeowner/father story. Every comment was like "kick your son out"???

    • @thenextgeneration9030
      @thenextgeneration9030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      redditors are literal robots. they have no emotions to the point that they will kick their 10 year old son out for not "following the rules" (of course they knew this by checking the security footage of their home)

  • @EDoyl
    @EDoyl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The one user who suggested bolting the door to stop the son entering his home has kinda scared me.

  • @eltee704
    @eltee704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That curfew one got me good. So glad NL is so level headed and sane

  • @shawn4819
    @shawn4819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I can't be the only one who thinks the first post was a YTA? When someone asks for a ride somewhere and you know you have other plans later you don't just go "sure", you go "yeah that's okay but I've got plans later in the night, is that okay?". The passenger had no idea they needed to make separate plans. What pushes this over for me is the "well, actually" technicality of "I only promised a ride there". If not the asshole, the driver is at minimum an idiot.

    • @Paradockzz
      @Paradockzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree

    • @JD2jr.
      @JD2jr. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep, that's why it's ESH, then again depending on how it was asked (like in the post it specifically said "can I get a ride *there*"), it may have been easy enough to misconstrue.

    • @Gigator
      @Gigator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ESH for making assumptions, but it was the passangers job to make sure her ride there was her ride home. Here, it's fairly typical to get somewhere with someone, but they have other plans to get back home since they want to drink etc. Making assumptions like that is just naive.

  • @knightenma6432
    @knightenma6432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Northernlion is so level headed that whenever I go and look at the comments on these posts by myself I lose my mind by how weird people are on reddit (etc)

  • @avery6758
    @avery6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    hearing NL say "Laying pipe 24/7" made my day thank you so much

  • @wszczeklypiesz
    @wszczeklypiesz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow, those redditors are detached from reality. Considering that most of them are probably kids themselves, encouraging someone to treat their son like shit sounds terrible.

  • @DForSpiD
    @DForSpiD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The amount of people in that second post saying that if you don't contribute financially then you deserve to be treated like shit is telling. And they're calling him the entitled one when they're coming at it from the perspective of "just get a job and your own place" like that's something you can just do, or like those things aren't also specifically being made harder by a pandemic

  • @JonathanSharman
    @JonathanSharman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Demanding her family write an essay on that article is mildly insane, but good for her for quitting her PhD when she realized it wasn't working out. I wish I'd done the same instead of sticking it out out of pride/embarrassment/fear.

    • @xTobsecretx
      @xTobsecretx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that’s the part that gets missed in that discussion. It’s often not just the parents shaming you for quitting, it’s the entire system. There’s a reason even pre-pandemic academics had some of the worst rates of depression. An essay is a little much maybe, but enforcing boundaries with family is fine.
      Since they’re talking so much about exams, I’d guess they’re maybe in physics, maybe astro physics?

  • @kylemagee693
    @kylemagee693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    today we learned for certain that NL is not a boomer. my parents would totally side with dad in second post

  • @patricktan7120
    @patricktan7120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    STEMlordy is exactly the right term for that first case

    • @jakx2ob
      @jakx2ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and for the comment section of the second post.

  • @DOGroove
    @DOGroove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are now entering the court of the honorable Judge Egg. The trials are real. The assholes are real. The verdicts are final.

  • @dragonfire14x
    @dragonfire14x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    For the girlfriend after dark one. We live in a time in North America where there is a push for multi-generational homes. I hear a lot of people throwing around "owning a home isn't for everyone anymore". This issue is one of the growing pains of multi-generational homes, and North America isn't equipped to handle them. In Japan they have places called Love Hotels that are low cost hotels you pay by the hour. In North America we have hotels and motels, but they are quite expensive, especially if you are like the man in the post who does it often. I agree that the parents are the assholes in the post.

  • @DCrswims
    @DCrswims 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Honestly NL losing faith in reddit over that second post is amazing. Definitely agree for sure, wild how power hungry over little things alot of redditors are 😂

  • @SeairraAnn
    @SeairraAnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i wish you would include the twitch chat in these videos i would love to see their comments without having to dig through a twitch vod. i know they would make me laugh even more

  • @mitchlahr9527
    @mitchlahr9527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This had me rolling. The takes on the second one are both hilarious and fully reasonable

  • @Emnms68
    @Emnms68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a 25 year old who lives with her parents in a very small very old house, pre Covid, (when I was 22) my parents and I agreed that if I was out past midnight at a friends house for a party or something, I would just stay at the friend’s house. My biggest problem, and my mom’s biggest problem, is that my dad regularly goes to bed at 7:30 pm, or even sometimes 7pm, which in the summer time is before sunset (I don’t know how he does it) and so my mother and I have to basically not do anything after that point. I can’t even get a glass of water or snack out of the kitchen, because it makes too much noise. He claims that it’s because he gets up at 3 or 4 am, but he really just wakes up at 4:30 or 5 am but stays in bed until around 6:30 am. It’s not even like he has to do it for work or anything, he just likes to. So yeah, needless to say, it kind of drives me and my mom crazy.

  • @f00ky3w2oob
    @f00ky3w2oob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Holy shit everything from the 25 year old son just blows my mind. Every comment was just 'wtf world are these people from'

  • @Gaminginvader-f4h
    @Gaminginvader-f4h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I could never get into other youtubers looking at reddit for videos, but this series is god-tier

  • @Ojciectwuj
    @Ojciectwuj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m completely baffled by the second one. Just the complete lack of communication, and the comments just confirm that people on Reddit are completely horrified by the concept of sex. Thanks nl that I can get a nice filtered version of the shit show that this website is.

  • @GDAlkali
    @GDAlkali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    more react court, this day is truly blessed

  • @TheJoobel
    @TheJoobel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Jesus Christ that 25 year old son curfew post gave me whiplash. Are these people serious?!

  • @triplixity
    @triplixity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "I never respected my child and even as an adult I treated them like a stupid teenager, and now they don't want a relationship with me?? Kids these days have no respect."

  • @dilonpaul9247
    @dilonpaul9247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m confused, in the second story was the 25 year old bringing over long-term girlfriends (because in that case the dad is ridiculous) or was he bringing random hook ups. If it was random strangers, I can see why the dad would be mad, I don’t want my child bringing over people he doesn’t know that may potentially try and rob me blind now that they know my address

  • @JCSopko
    @JCSopko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    These are literally the only thing in recent memory that consistently makes me laugh out loud. The one with the son and curfew was gold. NL, make these daily behind a paywall and I'd throw money at you. thanks for the laughs man

    • @버그준
      @버그준 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No don't make it a pay wall please.

    • @ethanlocke3604
      @ethanlocke3604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally the only thing? Have you not been watching the gartic phone episodes?

    • @mdaily318
      @mdaily318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@버그준 yea but you and me both know we’d pay

    • @JCSopko
      @JCSopko 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ethanlocke3604 I have not, but I just put it on my list, thanks for the recommendation!

    • @JCSopko
      @JCSopko 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@버그준 I agree! I don't want it behind a paywall, I was just speaking in hyperbole

  • @Hadradavus
    @Hadradavus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have no idea if the redditors judging that 2nd story were the same sort of aspiring power-tripping psychos or too far up their own asses in centrism to realize how fundamentally flawed OP's viewpoint was

  • @CritikalJari
    @CritikalJari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yo the second post is INSANE, I feel like all the comments are discord moderaters that love swinging their big power around. Its crazy that a majority of that reddit thinks that way.

    • @shawn4819
      @shawn4819 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never been so confused by a consensus. Fuck that post all the way

    • @Bspammer
      @Bspammer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But you don’t understand, it’s his house. And his SON is FUCKING in it. Do you not see how fricked this is?

    • @slubbergully9231
      @slubbergully9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Bspammer My CHAD son is getting laid ALL THE TIME do you not see the problem???

    • @CritikalJari
      @CritikalJari 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bspammer Im so mad at all these "family members" that think im supposed to be "reassonable", frick off

    • @CritikalJari
      @CritikalJari 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shawn4819 I mean his house, his rules, the 14 yr old redditor says

  • @Kappa123
    @Kappa123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As someone who's parents aren't comfortable having my girlfriend of 4 years over at the house, the second story hit DIFFERENT.

    • @Mossquean
      @Mossquean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry man, that must suck

    • @carlosboozer4575
      @carlosboozer4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get your own place or deal with it

    • @Kappa123
      @Kappa123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@carlosboozer4575 I have my own place haha, I would just enjoy having my girlfriend over when I meet my parents. Don't project/assume.

  • @jimbon
    @jimbon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just watched yesterday's stream vod and saw this in my sub box.I just want to see these are the funniest videos ive watched in a long time. thanks for the company NL

  • @goldenbamboo9725
    @goldenbamboo9725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "hey... Look" just calmly, you know this man just witnessed something..

  • @LegendaryBilly
    @LegendaryBilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “I didn’t even talk to him cause he is bigger and stronger than me”…. These people need therapy…

    • @Octoshark19
      @Octoshark19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      NL made that part up lol

    • @LegendaryBilly
      @LegendaryBilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Octoshark19 thanks for letting me know, I wasn’t reading along and hadn’t realized he was joking.
      Well, my comment is kinda void now

    • @LiarJudas666
      @LiarJudas666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LegendaryBilly I mean, you're still right and that's definitely why the dad won't confront his son

  • @sigmaklim2532
    @sigmaklim2532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This content is literally made for you, NL. Please keep doing it.

  • @VerbalLearning
    @VerbalLearning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Having read most of the comments on this video i find it fascinating that the further down you go the more the comments shift from being with NL and against the Father of the second post to the opposite.

  • @Mossquean
    @Mossquean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Honestly the comments on the second post is just the epitome of teenagers pretending they understand how to be an adult.

    • @Supercris25
      @Supercris25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The epitome of "Just get a house lol".

  • @davidb4935
    @davidb4935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Based on that 25y pipesman post, I would absolutely be on board for this series to become a platform for NL to dunk on chuds

  • @Fadolapanoli
    @Fadolapanoli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The amount of second hand rage I felt from the second post's injustice had me sleeping badly xD

  • @TILsquared96
    @TILsquared96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is truly the diamond age, of NL content

  • @xadielplasencia3674
    @xadielplasencia3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It would honestly never cross my mind to think that a ride is just one way. It's different if you "dropp me of" but if you are gonna be there aswell I think the default position is to go back together aswell

    • @Crantr0n
      @Crantr0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      If you are ever in a situation where you are asked for a ride and don't say "Yes BUT I can't give one back" you're absolutely the asshole imo. Driver sucks here

    • @xadielplasencia3674
      @xadielplasencia3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Crantr0n Agree

    • @Argennon
      @Argennon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Crantr0n It blew my mind that they got the verdict of NTA, they are most definitely an asshole for not saying anything.

    • @goldenirie
      @goldenirie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @UCbs2IRqGxt1Iiag8mHsXO-w how about instead of being called an asshole you can just call them naive

    • @Argennon
      @Argennon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@goldenirie Probably because the subreddit is not called "Am I naive?"

  • @rainbii
    @rainbii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    for the first story, it was definitely a lack of communication on everyone's part. it also makes me wonder what they talked about during their long drive that neither brought up how they were going to return home.
    for the second one, i'm a little more on the fence. i feel like the backstory didn't give as much detail, so a lot of people are assuming things ( or it was edited ). i, for one, don't think it's an unreasonable ask for their son to be more quiet in the mornings when returning home. but giving a curfew seems a little much. and it doesn't sound like the son is trying to be an asshat. the son seems to be quiet enough that he's not waking up his parents, so they only find out through the camera footage. i can get them being annoyed by him breaking their rules, but they should really discuss alternate methods to resolve the issue and not establish these, imo, silly rules that clearly aren't working and just seem to irritate everyone.
    this is assuming that they haven't already tried these things, and the rules was more the last straw? i certainly hope it wasn't the first thing they came up with...
    also, i don't think the basement idea is a bad one. i'm not saying kick the son out of his room, but maybe have the son use the basement if he brings gusts home late. esp if it'll keep the noise down and the son can still be in his own home.
    also also, i'm really against the idea of the son not being able to come home in the morning if he's been out all night... that just sounds dangerous... :( :(
    for the final one, i think it's hilarious that she tried to get her parents to write an essay. is it weird? for sure! i could only imagine trying to get my parents to do the same thing. it would not work out. i think she should sit her parents down and walk them through the issues that she's having, assuming she hasn't tried this already. even if she has to go through the article or video or whatever with them, and bring up her own experiences to try and help them understand her pov.

  • @oo4667
    @oo4667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    if my parents constantly complained about a choice i made i would probably not want to visit them either. but assigning homework is purely wild

  • @ross_ykm
    @ross_ykm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ‘no one tell the landlords’ and the ham-slaps, both wonderful and my new twee band

  • @GurdevSeepersaud
    @GurdevSeepersaud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The "homework" thing could just be resolved like this:
    Kid: "Parents, here is homework. You must do it."
    Parents: "We don't want to do it."
    Kid: "This is my point. I also dislike homework."
    Parents: "We understand now but are still disappointed."
    Kid: "Okay. You need not approve of everything I do."

  • @bulletmccarthur
    @bulletmccarthur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It sounds like the son needs to be the bigger man and kick the dad out of the house.

  • @TenaciousDealer
    @TenaciousDealer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What the actual fuck, absolutely insane that the second one's Dad didn't get result of asshole in that post. Not only to his son but obviously completely ignoring his wife too.

  • @NiftyPants
    @NiftyPants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    As someone in their late 20s living with their parents for a multitude of reasons, that post and all the comments were fucking insane

    • @neuroticjester4173
      @neuroticjester4173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But are you a jobless person living at home in their late 20's?

    • @HugoGlz56
      @HugoGlz56 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just take women to hotel, I don't get the problem.

    • @TwenOalley
      @TwenOalley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@HugoGlz56 money?

    • @HugoGlz56
      @HugoGlz56 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TwenOalley don't hotels start like at 40 bucks? I try nicer but, If you can get multiple women like story you can probably assume he can get 40 bucks. Also, I didn't get from the story he was poor.

    • @bulletmccarthur
      @bulletmccarthur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@HugoGlz56 Why when he has his own room at home?

  • @goldenbamboo9725
    @goldenbamboo9725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the first post, because it is slightly how my situation was at home with my step dad, and for gods sake I am happy that I went to college and got my own rules. At this point I am onlx at home for Christmas because of rules that are just nonsensical

  • @iplay9s
    @iplay9s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    imagine not moving out by 25

    • @ziggle5000
      @ziggle5000 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the part that's mind blowing to me. I'm 25 now, if I found out one of my friends was using his parents place as a bachelor pad I'd instantly think much less of him and any woman I know involved. Sorry but at a certain point it's just kinda pathetic

  • @Fieshs
    @Fieshs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i cannot believe the insane answers on that dad post

  • @MrZelnoth
    @MrZelnoth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Expecting a ride back home from a party is wild to me. Unless it was previously discussed. Not discussing it is weird as well since it would seem like someone going to a party might get dunk and not be able to drive back.

    • @torqueblue
      @torqueblue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is weird, Giving a Friend of a Friend A ride to a party is pretty odd too. I mean 40 minutes of being in the car and not discussing the Plan on the way there is just Stupid, Personally They're both at fault.

    • @zeldosan5138
      @zeldosan5138 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah that's smart though so we can't have that

    • @testingmysoup5678
      @testingmysoup5678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a garden party, if it was a house party it's different. A garden party it's definitely acceptable to expect a ride home. He should have let he know what his plan is really weird he wouldn't

  • @Donatti
    @Donatti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do people like the ones who responded NTA in that second post really exist? Holy shit. My mind can't even conceive all that bullshit, maybe it's an american thing, but if that's the case then I feel sorry for them

  • @nyansugoi
    @nyansugoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my god that entire second post's comment section was boomer central. Complete with the horrific grammar and everything. I mean, look at the way the OP was writing about his kid; clearly having a healthy, communicative relationship with his kid must stopped being an option when his kid wasn't a CEO and homeowner by his 18th birthday. I even wanted to be on the NTA boat but not if it meant sharing wind with those birds, yuck

  • @evancasey9714
    @evancasey9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    why did everyone assume the son in the second post was just some jobless deadbeat? like the dude is probably looking how for some place seeing how crazy the dad is.

    • @bearlythinking
      @bearlythinking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean they said in the comments he doesn't pay rent or utilities

  • @TheImpatientGam3r
    @TheImpatientGam3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What the hell was with reddit on the rules for the 25 year old and those insane rules? If you hate your son and dont want him there then say that and kick him out otherwise don’t try to enforce insane rules like hes a toodler. Like who the hell thinks there 25 year old isnt gonna have sex? And if the issue isn the sex then wtf are you telling him what times he can have sex? Those parents are insane, bet they want him to keep his door open also

  • @TwiCaCaX
    @TwiCaCaX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yeah lets write an essay and demand my parents who doesnt really have an academic background but also doesnt really know much about it to write one back and hold a family quality reunion hostage, what the fuck

    • @LiarJudas666
      @LiarJudas666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's kind of the point?

  • @doctorhandshake1880
    @doctorhandshake1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm speechless dude. That dad and those commenters are actual psychos assuming they aren't the same person lmao

  • @mohamedkoblawi4175
    @mohamedkoblawi4175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    that 2nd post was probably machine generated just to get commenters to say "your house your rules" .. Those commenters are actually insane

  • @Lbgroff
    @Lbgroff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    OP: Academia is not what I want.
    Also OP: All you guys have to read this paper and write an essay about it.

    • @slubbergully9231
      @slubbergully9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am a grad student. That lady is Based.

    • @jakx2ob
      @jakx2ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@slubbergully9231 yea, definitely an asshole move but also kinda based.

    • @louieberg2942
      @louieberg2942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      At the core, there is some sense there. "Suffer (only a fraction) as I do, then tell me again how you insist on me continuing the PhD".
      It's just a weird and uncompromising way to interact with your family.

    • @madssocks8532
      @madssocks8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@louieberg2942 You've clearly never lived with abusive parents....

  • @thomasandrewclifford
    @thomasandrewclifford 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This kids parents: no girls, curfew at the age of 25
    My parents: dont get anyone pregnant, dont get and STI aside from that do your thing at the age of 18

  • @artinua4091
    @artinua4091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    bro i'm actually losing my mind over the curfew guy. who on god's green earth would consider this a reasonable thing? this is the most deranged thing i've ever heard; i've gone from hysterical laughing to actually being worried

  • @argenteus8314
    @argenteus8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl who didn't give the other girl a ride home isn't an asshole, but it was a bit thoughtless not specify that she wouldn't be able to give her a ride back ahead of time just in case. I mean, that could have been a dangerous situation for the other girl.

    • @louieberg2942
      @louieberg2942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's probably the first thing I'd tell someone if I had no intention of bringing someone home.
      It'd also be the first thing I'd ask if I was the one being chauffeured.
      Both parties failed at clear communication, I think.

  • @doomboom21
    @doomboom21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The average age for leaving home in the united states is around 35 years old right now. So while it might be your house your rules you should probably realize hes gonna be there another 10 years. Laying pipe 24/7 lol

    • @moredcaicyrus2826
      @moredcaicyrus2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sbef ya, theres no way its 35, other countries are just built diff ig, like i couldnt imagine staying with parents and relying on them that long, felt like i learned the most about life when i moved out for college and payed for my dorm/apartment

    • @louieberg2942
      @louieberg2942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm gonna need a source for that stat beyond the classic "dude, just trust me".

  • @JwuYT
    @JwuYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's finally back baby, I live for these segments

  • @TheMrTatero
    @TheMrTatero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Why do so many redditors love the idea of 'owning' their parents?" Probably because the average redditors is an 17-22 year old male.
    Reddit comments should also include their age and gender and a lot of the comments start to make way more sense

  • @davidballantyne4492
    @davidballantyne4492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All those 25 YO son comments were insane.

  • @TBoogey00
    @TBoogey00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best episode yet of the best series on the channel! Laughing out loud from start to finish

  • @spellxthief
    @spellxthief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i absolutely love this man and his takes