Ann Voskamp: How to Let Go of Perfectionism | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

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  • This week on Better Together, Ann Voskamp helps us get to the root of perfectionism. Join the conversation as Sheila Walsh, Debra Fileta, Jess Connolly, and Holly Wagner join Ann Voskamp to help viewers understand the cause of their need to be perfect, and how to work through it.
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    00:00 The Difference Between Excellence and Perfectionism
    09:39 How Perfectionism Keeps Us From Moving Forward
    20:01 The "Why" Behind Perfectionism
    30:18 The Negative Impact of Perfectionism
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  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Jesus help me. I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. I have faith you will carry me through this difficult time.💕

    • @njeednah6629
      @njeednah6629 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You r doing a good job girl.hold in there.Gods grace is sufficient

    • @FamilyBooksTogether
      @FamilyBooksTogether หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏽🙌🏾

    • @notgivingup1740
      @notgivingup1740 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally understand as my plate is full also as a single mom but God keeps showing me he’s got me!!! So I know he has you too. Keep growing and learning. One thing at a time.. You have this more than you know..

  • @ceew2387
    @ceew2387 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Perfection to me is run by the fear of making mistakes, and fear of looking bad in front of people. I grew up with a family member whose perfectionist attitude had such a negative affect on me. If something was not as they expected then the blame would come in for their expectation not being met, which meant that mentality of get it right or you'll be in trouble stuck with me for a while. It was hard but have learned and am slowly accepting within myself that it's ok to make mistakes, and it's ok if things are not perfect, it doesn't have to be. I take God as my perfection as His ways are higher than ours.

    • @felicitygrace5113
      @felicitygrace5113 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I too grew up in a household with fear of making mistakes. This fear and perfectionism has had a negative impact on my life. I think it held me back in many ways

  • @laurac5021
    @laurac5021 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Excellence is moldable by the master. Perfectionism is rigid and attacks the identity. I loved this talk. ❤️

  • @Calonpersonal
    @Calonpersonal หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm glad Jess Connolly spoke up because I'm not a perfectionist I'm FARRRR from it lol and it actually makes me humble. It also teaches me to keep God in my life so I can be a better me everyday. I'm so glad she spoke up may God bless her beautiful honest soul.

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are so glad you resonated with her take!

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a perfectionist 😢and I can see the ways in which it affects me in my relationship with God, in my work place, in my life...Only God knows when or how that seed was planted and I pray that He heals and uproots it so I can enjoy my walk with him and my job

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We can rest in knowing that only our God is perfect! We are praying alongside you!

  • @WRXMomma31
    @WRXMomma31 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really needed to hear this! I’m 40+ weeks pregnant and I’m realizing I’m so nervous and anxious about labor because of my perfectionism and I feel that works define me. Needed to hear “our job is excellence not perfection”!

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing! We pray that you will have a safe and healthy delivery and that God will bless you and your sweet baby in Jesus' Name. 💜

  • @favourednaffe3703
    @favourednaffe3703 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this and that prayer. Thank you Jesus ❤

  • @michellebrown2853
    @michellebrown2853 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the many ladies of Better Together. I'm encouraged by them weekly if not daily. I learn from them in life changing ways, always toward Christ, toward Christ, toward Christ.
    So, please know that when I ask this, it's not an attack on this message. It's an honest question coming from a place of wanting to know and understand and grow in Jesus. I'm asking here because I trust this ministry to have wisdom that I do not.
    When Jesus says, "Be perfect, as your Heavenly Father is perfect, " in Matthew 5, what does it look like to pursue that v. living in this crippling realm of perfectionism?
    I struggle with, like, well, almost everything, daily. Any wisdom from God is welcome.
    Thank you, ladies for all you do and for loving Jesus with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength! ❤

  • @tiannaannenicole
    @tiannaannenicole หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is for me, I was raised in such a way to be as close to perfect, it is so hard when life is lived that way

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are happy you could relate to this topic, and hope that it helped you!

  • @user-ll7sg3mk3m
    @user-ll7sg3mk3m หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, what enlightening conversation, we praise God 🙌

  • @shellontim5871
    @shellontim5871 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome topic ladies. Lord Jesus I Shellon need Your help, at times I felt like am struggling in finances and most of all my walk with God

  • @mavjuda2283
    @mavjuda2283 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    so good, good conversation 👍

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are glad that you enjoyed the conversation!

  • @louiseyoung1231
    @louiseyoung1231 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ladies, this was super helpful. Thank you 💗 🙏

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are happy you found the talk helpful!

  • @ML-rh7lv
    @ML-rh7lv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love that word Excellent= doing your best for God. A person with qualities Perfectionism= Emptiness always striving but to be perfect but never getting there. The perfection that exists is God Jesus and the Holy Sprit Amen.

  • @Chasity-sl5ri
    @Chasity-sl5ri หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely touched my soul! Thank you for sharing

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are so glad you were moved!

  • @siphilisiwedulcieMithi4267
    @siphilisiwedulcieMithi4267 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Jess...thats me!!!!

  • @user-sm8un5ht8r
    @user-sm8un5ht8r หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank U God 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @DevotedLady53
    @DevotedLady53 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AMEN ♥️♥️♥️🙏

  • @NakaggwaGorretPatience-dc6pt
    @NakaggwaGorretPatience-dc6pt หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lord Jesus please have mercy on and forgive me my sins, wash me with your precious blood and make me pure again, help me change my ways and attitude, please grant me Grace to be forgiven by all I wronged, in Jesus Christ's Holy and Mighty Name, Amen 🙏

  • @freda10623
    @freda10623 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Prefect in the Bible means maturity

  • @motivationalbeautyscarscol3803
    @motivationalbeautyscarscol3803 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have mercy on me 🙏🏽for not honoring God

  • @ZionTreasureHunt
    @ZionTreasureHunt หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is me 😂I always think am I good enough to get into heaven? How can I do better do more be more perfect so that God is please with me 😂 but it’s not me it’s Jesus he is perfect I am flawed but in Jesus God views me as perfect already 😢