The BEST Parenting Advice Ever from Scott Hahn

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ความคิดเห็น • 152

  • @ChachiTelevision1979
    @ChachiTelevision1979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    Preparing for fatherhood, and I can't wait to be able to offer this mercy and love to my son.

    • @bman5257
      @bman5257 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      May God bless you and your family.

    • @adamkramer9080
      @adamkramer9080 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Same here! April 2nd can't come fast enough, I can't wait to hold the fruit of my marriage

    • @GachaTitans
      @GachaTitans 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      First thing you should do is not find out the gender of your growing family, trust me the feeling is unbelievable. Nothing in this world is a surprise, don’t be impatient it’s worth the wait 😄

    • @theresa1953
      @theresa1953 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hang on tight to that feeling, ‘cause it’s a bumpy ride! 😂 Congrats on your little one.

    • @corvinrick3644
      @corvinrick3644 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bless you

  • @cptsil90221
    @cptsil90221 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It hit me in prayer that I must be more merciful with my boys as God is merciful with me. I broke down into tears knowing that fatherhood is not only justice and law. But love through mercy. Then this video comes up. It is a phenomenal idea. My wife and I will pick a Jubelee day and pray for our children ahead of time so that the holy spirit helps them prepare for it.

  • @hpaulson6272
    @hpaulson6272 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I needed this tonight. God heard my prayer and led me to this video. Thank you, God.

  • @severinesds
    @severinesds 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Parenting is about learning to love unconditionally as Jesus does with us ! I've learned it recently when my oldest child did something bad , something so unlike him( something that implied lying to us for almost a year ) . I clearly heard Jesus telling me Love him anyway . That's what I did . I 've prayed a lot the Holy Spirit to guide me and it worked so well . 8 months after our relationship is as trustful as it used to be before . " Be merciful just as your Father is merciful " . 🙏🙏

  • @marynayna6327
    @marynayna6327 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    We have 7 kids all have turned out well but we had trouble with them around 14 I knew that they were becoming adults and becoming independent so I had a serious talk with each one at that time and said you are now responsible for your own decision but always remember there are consequences with what you decide to do and then I let go, and prayed ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ibiyemiumuago3125
    @ibiyemiumuago3125 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    I am a mother of 5 boys. I cry almost everyday over my children and how I feel like I am failing at raising them for God's kingdom. I am greatly encouraged to by the points shared in this video. Thank you. I will share this video to my husband and on my FB page

    • @ilyxa01
      @ilyxa01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You will do well as long as you will seek to improve. Lord will help you.

    • @claudiabullus8740
      @claudiabullus8740 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same here, sister. Mother of 3 young ladies

    • @lizasandoval597
      @lizasandoval597 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Surrender them to the Lord. Humble yourself to the Lord & ask him to help you be the mother he created you to be. He chose you to be their mother. The Praying Parent by Stormie O. is a great simple prayer book that really helped me. And parenting with Grace just as Jesus parents me. God bless you!

    • @gigibudjonila1596
      @gigibudjonila1596 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God help us

    • @XSNN1
      @XSNN1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Your not alone 😢

  • @Emajeninc
    @Emajeninc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    A careful man I ought to be,
    A little fellow follows me.
    I dare not go astray,
    For fear he'll go the self-same way.
    I cannot once escape his eyes,
    Whatever he see me do, he tries.
    Like me, he says, he's going to be,
    The little chap who follows me.
    He thinks that I am good and fine,
    Believes in every word of mine.
    The base in me he must not see,
    That little fellow who follows me.
    I must remember as I go,
    Thru summers' sun and winters' snow.
    I am building for the years to be,
    This little chap who follows me.

  • @cylebalok7465
    @cylebalok7465 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I don't know why I'm crying but, man, this hit hard. Beautiful stuff, guys. Thank you. Being a dad is so hard.

    • @ulysses_grant
      @ulysses_grant 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I read you brother.

  • @erikabright
    @erikabright 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Preparing for motherhood and I love these teaching.

  • @user-vo8so5sh3n
    @user-vo8so5sh3n 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Thank you♥️I’m going to send this to my non-Catholic husband so we can do this with our son. Please pray for my husband’s conversion 🙏♥️

  • @sarahburke8955
    @sarahburke8955 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I love listening to Dr. Hahn, his little bits of wisdom and soothing voice are so calming.

  • @SurrenderNovena
    @SurrenderNovena 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This is excellent advice! Thank you!! Being a father or a mother is truly the most difficult - and the most rewarding - role any human can undertake. You will discover all the virtues you lack and all the virtues you thought you had and, with Our Lord and Our Lady's help, you will grow in virtue like never before! 🌹

    • @lbw6081
      @lbw6081 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This is so very well said. ❤🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @splendornieba1109
      @splendornieba1109 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true !

    • @SurrenderNovena
      @SurrenderNovena 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rf4537 True! Like all difficulties and challenges, if you resist them you make them worse!

  • @derekwildman2474
    @derekwildman2474 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I’m sure you get this all the time but thank you Matt for all that your doing. I started watching your work a few years ago and have recently started RCIA! Please keep it up, you are helping so many people!

  • @mitch8235
    @mitch8235 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so blessed to hear this today! Going through something with family. Thank you, thank you!

  • @Sheyzzz
    @Sheyzzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much Matt and Dr Hahn for this wonderful interview. I can't explain how much it has encouraged me and given me hope. God has given me 3 precious jewels for His crown and often I feel like instead of polishing them, I've been dulling their shine but I now greatly encouraged and I know God showed me this video so that when He reveals my own "jubilee" tactic, I can recognise it.

  • @katkat2340
    @katkat2340 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great conversation ! God has the biggest dysfunctional family . Mankind. So we are not alone in the struggle . The devil waged war against every sacred good , God has. That’s the family. Parenting is tough, not for the slightest coward. There are things you can control and things beyond your grasp but always give your children fully to God and pray for the best.

  • @magddesherrn8289
    @magddesherrn8289 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    „We are all wounded healers“❤

  • @bubulinainc
    @bubulinainc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "We are all wounded healers" ❤

  • @Cottageinthesuburbs
    @Cottageinthesuburbs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    May God continue bless you and your family more, Mr. Hahn.🙏❤️

  • @gpg8204
    @gpg8204 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I am a failure as a mom and My poor kid deserve better, please pray for me and My family, he is a teenager and i feel so lost, i'm scared

    • @stellamarislegal
      @stellamarislegal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No you're not. No child comes into the world bearing a parenting manual and no one knows it all! Please use the Word of God and the teachings of the Church to start over. Peace be with you!

    • @stellamochel3731
      @stellamochel3731 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your family will be in my prayers.

  • @brookes.4545
    @brookes.4545 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ive done this, i call it the "Circle of Trust" but i like Year of Jublilee much better obviously. My son has has invoked the circle the trust a couple of times and it changed the course of his life at that time. He was so relieved and follows up with the Sacrament of confession and it has been really a beautiful thing.

  • @bhagyashaju9285
    @bhagyashaju9285 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So heart warming to hear that even Scott Hann has felt as a failure in parenting.. #Im not alone 😊

  • @melissagoetz8847
    @melissagoetz8847 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Please write a book on parenting tips!

  • @Catechuman23
    @Catechuman23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is absolutely the best parenting advice I've ever heard. Incredible. Thank God.

  • @brob368
    @brob368 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New father here, thanks you

  • @gregjohnson514
    @gregjohnson514 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful and fun to listen to. Thank you.

  • @dennise0909
    @dennise0909 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!

  • @vrgg8376
    @vrgg8376 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish I had heard this 25 years ago!

  • @marianelamendez4283
    @marianelamendez4283 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you. This interview came at the right time to give me hope ❤🙏

  • @xxFairestxx
    @xxFairestxx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Beautiful. I’ll implement this with my kids. I already do something similar but this is a great way to do it. Not a Roman Catholic but thanks! 🙏🏼

  • @13KM193
    @13KM193 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is amazing advice. I’m going to implement this.

  • @channyrose
    @channyrose 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is perfect for me this week, my second daughter gets her first Confession this week. This will help.

  • @MegaConsideration1st.
    @MegaConsideration1st. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks❤

  • @SJ-1985
    @SJ-1985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Thank you so much for this. I have no words to express how encouraging this is. We’re not alone in this process of rearing children. My husband and I are going to implement the “Day of Jubilee”. It was a definite conviction from Holy Spirit. Again, wow! Thank you Jesus. You know exactly what we need.

  • @courtneyhaselberger2382
    @courtneyhaselberger2382 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Homemaker here. My boys are 6, going to be 3 in January, and 3 months old… I would love to do this, and with me asking for forgiveness first.

  • @r_rodriguez3
    @r_rodriguez3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such beautiful advice! Thank you for these wise words and encouragement in parenthood - one of the hardest yet most beautiful blessings of life!

  • @sabrinastolle2265
    @sabrinastolle2265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is an absolutely beautiful way to bring the Gospel to our children! The law never changed anyone - only grace changes the heart

  • @lakishawilliams7801
    @lakishawilliams7801 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a Pints loving Protestant, that just tried Jubilee with our very sin captured 8 year old. Praise the Lord!! Wow! It was a lot of confession but seems like it may be a blessing. Praying that her heart and will yields to worship our glorious Lord!

  • @priscilacandal151
    @priscilacandal151 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ mother of three: 1girl and 2boys. I understand and identify with you. Somedays I just tell them: “are you going to start your day and my day like this? Before 7am?” because it is so petty. Patience, prudence and ask God for wisdom.

  • @KenniaWiswesser
    @KenniaWiswesser 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a great parent advising ❤

  • @graemedewstow8251
    @graemedewstow8251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so encouraging

  • @maureenchilaka446
    @maureenchilaka446 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video.

  • @MishelC-q5y
    @MishelC-q5y 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your different ways of parenting. We all need to hear more of these to help each other to love and parent our children through different scenarios. The different ideas are So helpful. Coming from a single mom of 15 years trying to raise my children in the church actively. Since COVID they haven't returned to church.🙏🙏Many blessings to you.

  • @organicmonica
    @organicmonica 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love. It. ❤ Thanks, Matt and Dr. Hahn! You're both amazing souls. Thank you for offering your advice and encouragement.

  • @sara_haines1328
    @sara_haines1328 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is gold. Thank you for sharing!

  • @briandowdell358
    @briandowdell358 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for exploring this on your show!

  • @makumbibetty6743
    @makumbibetty6743 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the way Dr talks about the Holy Rosary

  • @myriamkanga8518
    @myriamkanga8518 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. I'm 😢😢😢😢😢. God bless you abundantly

  • @edwardclifford6743
    @edwardclifford6743 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Scott is amazing Thank you

  • @Andiev12325
    @Andiev12325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This made my week. So glad I came across this video today

  • @magdalenalibura1523
    @magdalenalibura1523 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great things, I agree that ability to apologize to children is really a key issue, because it shows that we all make mistakes but we have the courage to face it and admit it greeting from Poland

  • @raphaelpetersamat9897
    @raphaelpetersamat9897 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Matt for sharing this, especially to myself a father of two (boy & girl) who are both now 5-years old. and biggest thanks also to Dr. Scott Hahn for sharing his wisdom. As usual for years now, I can never resists to hear Dr. Scott's voice and wisdom. Personally, if I were to imagine how St Paul would looks and talks like, I will definitely look at Dr. Scott Hahn as the best representative.😇🙏

  • @monicageller226
    @monicageller226 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is beautiful, thank you! I’m going to share with my husband.

  • @patrioticimmigrant8817
    @patrioticimmigrant8817 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As catholic parents that are suffering please get together and agree on how you are going to raise them. And listen to each other.

  • @brmm48
    @brmm48 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice thank you

  • @Freedomsterfire
    @Freedomsterfire 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant and beautiful. I’d never heard of this concept. I think I’m going to try it out.

  • @bernadetteensley5653
    @bernadetteensley5653 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this interview and topic

  • @pattyfernaays8864
    @pattyfernaays8864 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish he’d quit interrupting! Let Scott speak.

  • @cameronshorkey843
    @cameronshorkey843 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this. Thank you.

  • @marianmilne6009
    @marianmilne6009 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful advice. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @rebeccacurtin6006
    @rebeccacurtin6006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤

  • @christinebravomom5711
    @christinebravomom5711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I need a tissue. This is so beautiful.

  • @lauriewromar5478
    @lauriewromar5478 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video! ❤

  • @tmc187
    @tmc187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Just wow. Thank you

  • @joelee624
    @joelee624 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s amazing how all these examples show how attachment is completely God’s design. How He is with us through our hard feelings/moments and we are asked to be with our children through their hard feelings/moments. Also, how even though parenting/marriage/family can be so unbelievably hard-it continually calls us to be more saint like, humble, reflective and loving.

    • @lbw6081
      @lbw6081 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said ❤

  • @MrJoepanzer
    @MrJoepanzer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing

  • @journeytswithhtm4828
    @journeytswithhtm4828 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love this! 😭❤️🙏🏽

  • @dougthompson2914
    @dougthompson2914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video! I can't wait to put this into practice!

  • @bakekay21
    @bakekay21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "We're all wounded healers." - Carl Jung (that line about "rearing" children, hurts my Soul ❣ )

  • @thankfullyforgiven9611
    @thankfullyforgiven9611 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this! I think I’ll try to implement this at my home.

  • @ElizabethG-hetProductions
    @ElizabethG-hetProductions 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this so so so much and am eager to be able to implement this as my kiddos grow up

  • @weeklyshorts9944
    @weeklyshorts9944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it! :) go girl!

  • @brunorcayres
    @brunorcayres 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic!

  • @bethezebra
    @bethezebra 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent!

  • @gigibudjonila1596
    @gigibudjonila1596 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful

  • @philspradley
    @philspradley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! Great advice! A Day of jubilee. I may have to try that.

  • @carleen5345
    @carleen5345 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish I'd known this when raising our son, but I will be passing this on to younger parents.

  • @RFconductor
    @RFconductor 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is awesome.

  • @carolyngalbraith6202
    @carolyngalbraith6202 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I regard your forgetfulness as a beautiful thing. The sins are in the deepest sea as far as east is from west. This is the joy of love and forgiveness for all our family and friends.

  • @michellecarbonell707
    @michellecarbonell707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is beautiful

  • @_eemjee_
    @_eemjee_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i can't wait to be a mother. i always wonder how are we gonna be as a parent cause my husband and i want to raise holy kids who fear, revere, and trust our God. i am already 31, please pray for me that God may bless me and be fruitful 🙏✝️🛐

  • @marektrojan4529
    @marektrojan4529 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This one was a great piece of advice for me. Very inspiring. Thank you Matt, thank you Dr. Hahn.

  • @paulodasilva7701
    @paulodasilva7701 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nice video guys

  • @sabrinastolle2265
    @sabrinastolle2265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Confess your sins to one another and you will be healed

  • @sandstorm7768
    @sandstorm7768 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful ❤

  • @batboy49
    @batboy49 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sam Shamoun and Scott Hahn should take a meeting together....would be awesome for both of them.

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great idea!!!

  • @dianabohorquez1600
    @dianabohorquez1600 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video it’s amazing! Is it possible to have subtitles in Spanish please? It would be very very helpful, for much more people. Thank you so much!

  • @legomegaman101
    @legomegaman101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this was beautiful

  • @accademiaoscura7870
    @accademiaoscura7870 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What kids need to be good is humility, charity, and compassion, they also need to grow up surrounded by a loving community of people who share a culture..... unfortunately you're not gonna get any of these things in the USA, unless you lock yourself up in some kind of locked down isolated place which is a terrible way to raise kids. My advice: move to rural Europe where strong interconnected communities are still flourishing within western culture, and with great social services and excellent schools, and very little crime compared to the US.

  • @christiang4497
    @christiang4497 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love this idea, but I'm worried about implementing it some day when I have kids. Are there ever times when a child confesses something, but absolutely needs to still be punished? Or what if it's a situation where the kid needs to remedy the chaos they have caused, but they feel that it would be hard or embarrassing for them to fix it (like if they need to confess to a teacher that they cheated on a test)? Would it be punishment for me to make them fix it?

    • @whitevortex8323
      @whitevortex8323 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      well I think Scott Hahn's basis is that they are never punished since it is supposed to be an imitation of God the father. Remember the parable with a man who owed a great debt and did not forgive someone who was indebted to him. Maybe, there are other ways not so extreme to remedy it, like doing some act of penance, perhaps restitution can be like giving to charity or smth or in the case you propose, helping fellow students, and making a firm resolution not to do it again. I don't know, I don't advise doing it if there isn't mercy in the absolute sense, at least I wouldn't go to confession, if I thought one day I could commit a sin so heinous that the priest might spill it to the court or whoever.

    • @faithful451
      @faithful451 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also wonder this. Perhaps reparations or penance instead of spanking or removal of privileges

    • @joelee624
      @joelee624 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Problem solve with them, and help them discern the best way to repair or an appropriate penance-which is how one should aim to parent every day. Through loving guidance.

    • @MaaFreddy
      @MaaFreddy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      If they come forth and repent why would you punish them ? Of course they may have to repair some of the consequences but this is not punishment.

    • @carisahimes512
      @carisahimes512 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it depends on the severity of the deed. For example, if they cheat on a test or steal, they should have to make reparations and face the consequences. If not punishing them. It's teaching them to be accountable for their actions.

  • @deepthymarcel222
    @deepthymarcel222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Parenting is the most difficult thing to do, and that too to bring up HOLY children.

  • @Bella_Love_123
    @Bella_Love_123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video but it’d be nice if the other speakers would stop cutting him off.

  • @karinacatalan289
    @karinacatalan289 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video! ❤❤❤

  • @artsygirlsclub4263
    @artsygirlsclub4263 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Parenting 101 is there a work book we can purchase thay can guide parents.

  • @susanapena197
    @susanapena197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @robertdelgadocapetillo8684
    @robertdelgadocapetillo8684 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is where my dad failed with us when me, and my sisters were younger, he such an imbecil.

  • @LinneaDolfsmom
    @LinneaDolfsmom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And after the rest of the family became Catholic, did you then encourage them to go to Confession?

    • @Joker22593
      @Joker22593 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I assume so. Dr. Hahn's youngest sons are priests who have heard his confession!

  • @SusanM-ez7ky
    @SusanM-ez7ky 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos but they are so short.

  • @sentinelsofvmi2227
    @sentinelsofvmi2227 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shut up and let the man finish his story for crying outloud!