Hello Counselor - Park Haemi, Cho Hyeryeon, Lee Michelle [ENG/THA/2017.02.27]

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  • @rifa502
    @rifa502 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1347

    The first concern of the female abuser is so wrong. That smirk on her face everytime she speaks is so obnoxious. I dont understand why he doesnt dump her.

    • @leilaa.4733
      @leilaa.4733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      yeah the smirk is really annoying

    • @vicki7116
      @vicki7116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's those fake lenses she has in her eyes.... I couldn't stop staring... like it hypnotized me lol

    • @kpopandjpopinstagramedits3081
      @kpopandjpopinstagramedits3081 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      rifa502 it's all about looks these days

    • @alen203
      @alen203 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      right it looks like she doesn't care about him at all, wether he stays or goes it's fine either way

    • @Nausaica
      @Nausaica 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I was kinda disturbed by the fact that the only quality he kept bringing was her beauty... Can't he see further than that ?
      When that girl from the audience talked (at 15:32), it felt like the girlfriend wanted to beat her instantly.
      She's evil, totally knowing that she has the power over him (and over so many people) thanks to her so called beauty. She kept checking her image on the big screen.
      Please Michelle, let's not talk "wedding" for them. Hope that he'll dump her.

  • @dripdrip08
    @dripdrip08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1029

    The first concern is ridiculous, its clearly domestic abuse - if it was the other way around and she was the one being hit they'd go mad

    • @lalremkimi3759
      @lalremkimi3759 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      L She's having some mental problem I believe lol..

    • @meriemamzal3374
      @meriemamzal3374 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      there are probably many fake concerns in this show since there's price money, but this one sounds way too fake for me...

    • @dreadrea17
      @dreadrea17 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie A fake concern? I don't think there are any fake concerns... what makes you say there are fake concerns?

    • @meriemamzal3374
      @meriemamzal3374 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the show's been airing for years with 4 concerns a week (now with 3) and there's prize money, of course there'd be fake ones from time to time, and people who come just for fame and so on... well we can't tell the real from the fake , i juste think that this one sounds too fake ^^

    • @lateelate
      @lateelate 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Marie A I think the prize is not worth your self dignity. The show has been watched by so many people in Korea, it would only ruin your name and your future.

  • @kbrru444
    @kbrru444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    The first girl has a problem. If it was a guy hitting a girl shit would go down

    • @norag1990
      @norag1990 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ru k WHAT I JUST CLICKED ON THIS IM READY TO FIGHT

    • @kbrru444
      @kbrru444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yehet Ohorat i feel sooo bad for him :/

    • @LaeLae666
      @LaeLae666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      She gave me the cute yet very evil vibe lol like the girl at school they always bullies people yet gets away with it 😂😂

    • @hansinipushpakumara3836
      @hansinipushpakumara3836 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ru k my god whats up with that crazy girl...i think she has some mental problem going in her head...his bf is so good for her.. i must be rude but right now i'm so angry....her personality..OH MY GOD!!!!!!! :((((

    • @Cassie9732
      @Cassie9732 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      jessica kim Its always the super kind hearted who end up in these abuse relationships. Everyone was just laughing it off but if he so much as pushed her all hell would break loose

  • @em.6439
    @em.6439 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1042

    "because she's pretty"
    sorry but that obnoxious personality of hers would've been a turn off--

    • @sawaa2694
      @sawaa2694 7 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Em. she ain't even that pretty tbh

    • @echo9753
      @echo9753 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      exactly. She's barely above average. If her hair was short she'd be average

    • @cutencrafty8478
      @cutencrafty8478 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      she looks like she had plastic surgery on her eyes and nose. honestly I don't think she is thaaat pretty for him to put up with everything

    • @awinw
      @awinw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I wonder if he would put up with it if she wasnt pretty

    • @lateelate
      @lateelate 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ishAsianAndrew thats a million dollar question

  • @xXOtakuHeartsXx
    @xXOtakuHeartsXx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    That first girl is gonna end up hitting the wrong person and she's gonna get a wake up call (if it hasn't happened already). ʅ(。◔‸◔。)ʃ

    • @epifanny
      @epifanny 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      If she doesnt end up dead

    • @whitneyandmariahfan4
      @whitneyandmariahfan4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'd gladly give her that wake up call

    • @viviadjadji7249
      @viviadjadji7249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      whitneyandmariahfan4 lol 😂 me too

    • @chiqagolil
      @chiqagolil 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SHE NEEDS TO DATE A BLACK GUY.

    • @noski33
      @noski33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How I wish for that wake up call soon. I want something strong for her.

  • @mizkelo7348
    @mizkelo7348 7 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    I don't care for the first story at all. Just like the other lady said, someone needs to show her what it feels like to be hit. I hope that his family saw the show and they will intervene. Otherwise he is for an awful life. The smirk on her face is what makes me even madder. She said without blinking that she would dump him, so she doesn't love him at all.

    • @peko7446
      @peko7446 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      True. I wanted to smack that smirk off her face. At the same time, I want to shake the BF to wake up, realize the situation he's in and do something about it. If this is what she does when they're just going out, what about when they're married? This is not the action of a woman who loves him. I hate to say it but I see him as an enabler who lets her get away with this crap just because he loves her and she's pretty. She's not going to change just like that. He needs to change his perspective that she doesn't deserve to be with him rather than he doesn't deserve to be with her just because her looks is out of his league therefore needs to put up with her abuse.

    • @mizkelo7348
      @mizkelo7348 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      peko peko You are right the guy is an enabler for sure. If he had nipped her ugly habit in the bud right from the get go, she wouldn't have continued. In these waters, the guy would have stepped up and said, I dare you to hit me again, took two steps towards her and told her, who told you you can hit me. Be gone I don't need someone like you in my life. That is how you handle crazies like that.

    • @kittymellisaqueen
      @kittymellisaqueen 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miz Kelo Same with me I wanted to beat ass up.

    • @-deathkidx-3613
      @-deathkidx-3613 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She doesn't love him at all like he doesn't love her at all. The guy just thinks he loves her because he's blinded by her gorgeous face, and nothing more. The girl smirks, because she knows that he's shallow and doesn't love her while everyone think that she's the one wrong, when he is. We've saw through the security camera that she doesn't hit hard at all. When she slaps him she's putting her hand on his face and pushed, it may not sound like this, but it's really different from being slapped. Anyways, this is her personality, she even hit her ex boyfriends so I just think she's looking for a guy who loves her personality. She would dump him anyday, and I think she's right. She knows that he doesn't love her and stays with her for her face, and I'm sure she's upset and have been with a lot of guys like him, that's why she smirks. It's not that she thinks she can do anything because she has a pretty face, but because she want to test how far her actual boyfriend's stupidity and shallow personality can go. I think she truly hate him, and because he doesn't love her, she pretends that at least he can stand her personality, if he doesn't, then for her there's no reason for keep staying in such an hypocritical relationship. She clearly wants a boyfriend who loves her peersonality, not one who accepts it, and if he can't love, he must at least accept it since he's staying with her just for her looks.

    • @___pphh8554
      @___pphh8554 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course..
      He's just her punching bag
      She clearly doesn't love him

  • @르크로스모간
    @르크로스모간 7 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    the first girl is completly crazy! and her face expression each time cameras is on her.....can t bear it!!

  • @mimorin1077
    @mimorin1077 7 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    I think the girl in the first concern was a former gang girls or a bully's when she was young like in the drama , he should break up with her , Just because of her pretty face does not mean to forgive her dirty character

    • @bloomcyrus4023
      @bloomcyrus4023 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      mimorin you are so right i couldn't get why he didn't want to brake up because she is pretty and out of his league that's so lame and absurd you don't love people for appearences but for their personality and hers is srsly shitty

    • @awinw
      @awinw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That was the first thing that was in my head im just surprised none of his friends said something like that to him

    • @azulia9797
      @azulia9797 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      perfect example of 'a pretty face doesnt mean a pretty heart'

    • @CrixusHeart
      @CrixusHeart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was considered very pretty when I was younger. I used to hit men like this because I thought they're big and strong and it didn't really hurt them. (I never hit on the head or face though.) The boys, and later men, never complained because they wanted to appear tough. When I got my first real boyfriend, he told me how much it hurt AND I STOPPED. Not only with him but with everyone else too. So I think she is like this too but she's very selfish and doesn't want to admit it now that she knows because she doesn't want to give up even a smidge of power in the relationship. She thinks if she gives in on this, she'll have to give in on other things. She's just mean and spoiled and wants to keep the upper hand and control.

    • @TheSchnukum
      @TheSchnukum 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's his decision to make. unfortunately, people like him encourage people like her to be that way.

  • @Meow-uy6je
    @Meow-uy6je 7 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I sense psychopathic tendencies from the first girl. At first I wasn't taking it seriously but as the talk went on towards the end, I see her failing to empathise with her boyfriend's feelings even after him crying out about the problem. You don't act dumbfounded and laugh like that when your loved ones are in pain. And saying she would leave if he ever asks to change her way seems not normal to me. She's manipulating and using him for her amusement and nothing more. If I was the guy I would seriously rethink this relationship.

    • @gladitsnotme
      @gladitsnotme 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah they need to break up. He loves her more than she loves him. I doubt she loves him at all, just felt pity for him. She'll move on to someone who can tolerate her playful gestures.

    • @haniafiqah1328
      @haniafiqah1328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is exactly what I thought

  • @anaa4541
    @anaa4541 7 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    Finally they brought the black skin problem up..we are all equal

    • @anaa4541
      @anaa4541 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      upsi, hahaha, never seen it before, but ok

    • @sugarbubblegum9817
      @sugarbubblegum9817 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anastasi a ι αм вℓα¢к ℓυ¢ку

  • @qabesalnaser
    @qabesalnaser 7 ปีที่แล้ว +954

    Am I the only one who thinks that Michelle is pretty?

    • @Nana-rv2fd
      @Nana-rv2fd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I think that to❤

    • @leilaa.4733
      @leilaa.4733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She is a pretty woman indeed!

    • @haneefah01
      @haneefah01 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      ofc not, she's gorg.

    • @XoAngelFanyXo
      @XoAngelFanyXo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kabas Alnasser yeah shes pretty

    • @ygstan1238
      @ygstan1238 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she's so beautiful yo

  • @IIIShmeeIII
    @IIIShmeeIII 7 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    I hope the guy from the first concern gets out of that abusive relationship. Nothing is worth sitting there and letting your girlfriend pound you and pull out your hair. The fact that she was laughing about it is sad.

  • @LaBacanitaYaniqueque
    @LaBacanitaYaniqueque 7 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    Here for Lee Michelle ❤

    • @hippochan8860
      @hippochan8860 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      LaBacanitaYaniqueque I don't know her but she seems really nice and super pretty😊 would you mind telling me a few things about her? I really want to get to know her ❤

    • @jazzycat2990
      @jazzycat2990 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yumi Mazumoto same

    • @hafso89ahmed82
      @hafso89ahmed82 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yumi Mazumoto Lee Michelle is half Korean half African American. she was on kpop star; the first time Lee Michelle was introduced, she was then part of a group that disbanded in the end, I think it had something to with the song that she wanted to go solo; I'm not sure so I don't. I think she is doing musically know

    • @hippochan8860
      @hippochan8860 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hafso89 Ahmed thank you :)

    • @Amoodz
      @Amoodz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      why you just here for her? don't get me wrong she's very pretty and an amazing rapper but this is also an interesting show too.

  • @ahlam9822
    @ahlam9822 7 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    OMG I have so much to say to the guy who lost weight and the hosts aren't mentioning any of it. For the first time in this show I completely understand why he's shutting everyone from his life and disagree with the one who brought the problem. He's lonely and hurt of people even those close to him. The mother is right for worrying about him but she should help him with dieting instead of offering bad food for him. She should know what is healthy and okay for him and help him in family gatherings not to reach to bad food. Seriously, the family is what caused all his scars and pain.
    I really wish I was there with them to comfort him and offer a solution. He needs someone to understand him and help him cope with life in a new perspective.

    • @kittyshey3056
      @kittyshey3056 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Like I really thought that I was the only one who realized it, there are some serious family issues that they need to work out and I mean even the mother herself wasn't supportive of him when he was obese and trying to lose weight.

    • @ahlam9822
      @ahlam9822 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Shey Barrae ture. It hurt me when he said his mother was embarrassed to walk next to him. She should change her way of dealing and thinking about her son.

    • @kittyshey3056
      @kittyshey3056 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dreams I agree and to me, it kinda seemed like they ignored that part a bit. They need to work out the family issues so he can be more comfortable and willing to improve himself

    • @sjbaem4448
      @sjbaem4448 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I also think the mother should try harder to help him and understand him. He's emotionally and mentally scarred from all the bad comments and side eyes etc he received when he was overweight and that's why he's shutting everyone out. He's also scared of re-gaining weight and becoming fat again. What he needs is not this tv show but for his mom and his family to support him and give him confidence. He also needs help to accept his new physical self not ppl telling him to go out or be confident. I honestly feel bad for him.

    • @kardsh
      @kardsh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree with everyone, she ignored him when he was obese and now she wants him to be a perfect son and do what she wants without considering his feelings, he's also showing signs of eating disorder, if he doesn't already have an ED from what he says he might develop one.

  • @needlovex
    @needlovex 7 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    Girl in the first concern: You express your love through violence. Baby who hurt you?

    • @requiemforamerica8432
      @requiemforamerica8432 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      i don't think she was ever hurt - and THAT is the problem. She is spoilt rotten

    • @needlovex
      @needlovex 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      RequiemFor America the reason she hits people (not only him but her friends) is psychological. Must be from her childhood, where hitting is expressed as love. That's why I asked who hurt her. I have a friend who is similar

    • @KidQuality
      @KidQuality 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Some people are just aggressive. Everybody is different.

    • @kh-fm5rv
      @kh-fm5rv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      AkaneYoka
      no one is naturally violent.. there must be a trigger, like abuse in past relationship(s) or low self-esteem... even if "some people are just more aggressive than others", like you said, it does not make it right for them to hurt and belittle other people. That is straight up wrong.

    • @Amoodz
      @Amoodz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i agree. they should have a trained professional with them and not just comedians @joana

  • @sallya5174
    @sallya5174 7 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I know everyone is saying WTH is wrong with the girl in the first concern(which is definitely a problem) but I'm just thinking WTH is wrong with the guy!!! Like do u not care about yourself enough !! For real JUST BREAK UP!!

    • @BubburTee
      @BubburTee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      sally a I agree. The girl is a straight up bitch but no one Is forcing him to stay with her. He just thinks that he's out of her league so he's taking it all.

    • @DefineMorena
      @DefineMorena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He's blinded by her beauty and is too nice and I feel that people in abusive relationships find it super hard. I hope he will just break up with her >.

    • @kh-fm5rv
      @kh-fm5rv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      sally a
      Please understand that in an abusive relationship, sometimes it's very hard for the victim to get out. There are many reasons as to why some people would stay. Some reasons might be: 1.) they are actually attached to the person/abuser (it's sad but it happens, like the guy on the show. He stays because he loves the girl).
      2.) being with the other person might provide some sort of stability, whether it's financially, socially (like a reputation of having a pretty gf, or simply just being "taken") or whatever it is
      3.) they are afraid to get out of the relationship because of consequences, like the abuser might come after them..
      All in all, there are many reasons as to why he might stay and please don't be ignorant about it

    • @nogasinthetank
      @nogasinthetank 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      sally a
      stop victim blaming. you have to understand that in most cases, it's nearly impossible for the victim to get away from the abuser. there are many factors that come into play.

    • @hajar2549
      @hajar2549 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same like she surely have a problem but so does he ...

  • @sudimohamed8571
    @sudimohamed8571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    the nigerian is so handsome, fine and kind young man

    • @sbrnrn
      @sbrnrn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bruh, he fine as heeell

    • @meeranfarah5115
      @meeranfarah5115 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      goddamn it's a she and she is half korean and half African American

    • @dll5765
      @dll5765 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sudi Mohamed - I'm dead

    • @ashleylkg
      @ashleylkg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      boiii

    • @natriac.6092
      @natriac.6092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@meeranfarah5115 the person is talking about the nigerian man at the end you idiot.

  • @Zabie99
    @Zabie99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The first guy may be nice but he also seems pretty shallow. I can't really sympathize with someone who's willing to stay with such an abusive and self centered person because of her looks.The last guy is a dream. Smart, cute, considerate AND funny!

    • @noski33
      @noski33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zabie99 you’re right. He’s really shallow and an enabler of violence. He is not powerless. He is using the abusive girl as a trophy (though I find her ordinary) and she probably knows it, so she’s using him as a milking cow and punching bag.

    • @harshitapatil2815
      @harshitapatil2815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Luaxon excuse me domestic violence has no gender. If someone is abusing someone it doesn't matter which gender it is . It is VIOLENCE!!!

    • @harshitapatil2815
      @harshitapatil2815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Luaxon thanks for understanding my point

  • @tiwceu2593
    @tiwceu2593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    yooo, the girl from the first story needs some serious help!!

  • @Pandacrazyabtnaruto
    @Pandacrazyabtnaruto 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    1st concern both of them are at fault. He himself said that he like her because of her looks. So, he would not put up to her violence if she was not pretty. He just want to show off that he has pretty girlfriend. Coz if he really loved her he would have tried to be bit stern with her and helped her understand she can't hit anyone she likes.
    The girl is also just dating him because she knows he'll bear anything for her because he needs her by his side as pretty accessory. She also said there was no case of her old boyfriends getting mad at her for her behaviour. That means she knows what type of guys will bear her behaviour and don't date dangerous ones.
    I think they both are twisted people.

    • @noski33
      @noski33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pandacrazyabtnaruto exactly. They are using each other, one as an accessory, the other as a milking cow and punching bag.

    • @ericsetiady4928
      @ericsetiady4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree

  • @sawaa2694
    @sawaa2694 7 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    FUCK YEAH!!! finally seeing Lee Michelle in here ! tbh, She needs to be invited on more korean variety shows !!! 💜💜🔥

  • @loveisblack549
    @loveisblack549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Koreans are the only ones I know who like Drake, Beyonce, Rihanna..but are scared of BLACK people lmao. They claim how they are fans of hip-hop and whatnot..WHO DO YOU THINK SINGS THE SONGS? Wat race???? I can't.
    I wish people will stop discriminating Africans. Africa is really a BEAUTIFUL place.
    JUST STOP DISCRIMINATING, PERIOD!

  • @girlwithabitofall2434
    @girlwithabitofall2434 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    The woman in the first concern seems to be a bit childish and won't make a good wife and mother. You can call me judgemental but I really can't believe they are still together. Is beauty really all that matters to him? that's really superficial

    • @gladitsnotme
      @gladitsnotme 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      She doesn't seem to want to be a wife or mother. She's living her life just fine, as far as I can tell. She'll sharpen her domme skills soon enough lol

  • @anikasoffline
    @anikasoffline 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    First concern is absolutely disgusting! If it was a man going after a women, everyone would've lost their minds! And she's just sitting there smiling! It's abusive, doesn't matter if it is a girl. It doesn't make her "empowered" it makes her the abuser.

  • @BlasianChineseBoy
    @BlasianChineseBoy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm really glad to see Lee Michelle on this episode of annyeong, I hope to keep seeing her own more variety shows soon. As for Uzoh in 3rd concern, I feel his pain of these ongoing struggles as an African foreigner in Korea. Hopefully things get better for him, he's really handsome and so respectful too. Don't fear our melanin skin Korea.

  • @Pumpkin0_0
    @Pumpkin0_0 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I can see from the comments that people obviously don't like the abusive girl at all. The thing is, most Koreans see women as weaker than men, even the women themselves accept that. So of course many Koreans will see the man as being weak, especially for staying with that girl. The hosts still saw it as a concern and the guests got in the show. It takes time, but people are changing.

  • @Norawarsame
    @Norawarsame 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The first girl clearly has a big issue. The Second guy is really hurt from the past yet he will be okay.the black guy omg how sweet I love him but Korean people really need to leave people the fuck alone ,I don't know but in my community, we really don't care how others live their lives either fat skinny black or white we respect people

    • @alanaa887
      @alanaa887 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NORA warsame. exactly. That's such a childish mindset. Judging from stupid things like that are stuff kids who don't understand people can look completely different and not like them but that doesn't mean they are from a different planet or any less then them. Just plain stupid. & i know there are people who are going to try to defend their actions but just f*ck off because you are part of the problem

  • @HarperPolo
    @HarperPolo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Paul is hot, and people thinking that racism isn't a concern is very bothersome. *Not saying you should be nice to him because he's hot but just stating the fact that he is hot*

  • @ALEXA-ek8vf
    @ALEXA-ek8vf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    OOOHHHH!!! Lee Michelle ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kh-fm5rv
    @kh-fm5rv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This show really needs a professional, like a psychologist, because the hosts don't seem to understand that some of these people are mentally ill. (Like the first concern is abuse/aggression. The second is body dysmorphia/eating disorder. and etc.)
    Even if the hosts diagnose some of these people on the show, it might not be 100% accurate since they are not certified psychologists.

  • @ahumanbeingalive1630
    @ahumanbeingalive1630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was just jamming to BTS's Spring Day at the end of the episode 😂😂

  • @eyeswithhope13
    @eyeswithhope13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow, the first concern, if the genders were switched it would have been taken more seriously. I don't care if you're a man or a woman, the equipment you're born with doesn't justify you hitting anyone for no reason. That's clearly abuse and he needs to leave her, that relationship is not healthy for him.

  • @HaneulPink
    @HaneulPink 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Hello counselor and 2 days 1 night are my vitamins

    • @ruerubox
      @ruerubox 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree

  • @gaoxiong9688
    @gaoxiong9688 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg 😭😭 I wanna hug the son from the second concern when I heard about his negative experience from his family. I feel like the family or mom should understand him. I'm in is shoes at the moment and can understand the son so bad ❤

  • @busrabusra19
    @busrabusra19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    i love michelle

    • @LJ-jx8os
      @LJ-jx8os 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Büsra Busra yup ☺️

  • @afreenmaklai4975
    @afreenmaklai4975 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The second concern made me cry especially near the end. You could see both sides were suffering, they saw the factors that they had to change and both were apologetic. The son really was crying, realizing what he'd done but the mom saw what he was suffering through. And they both wanted to change, it was really beautiful. I'm so glad they came to the show to clear it all out

  • @MarwaAlaachannel
    @MarwaAlaachannel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel sad for The guy who lost weight and very upset how that concern was handled by the hosts! He is suffering from emotional scars and shame caused not only by society but by the people closest to him. The mother is getting him on national TV to talk about his shortcomings when she says he lacks confidence! At the end when he said I am sorry I only cause suffering I cried for him, really that shame and guilt.. I can see how hurt, lonely he is and may he finds a way to relief and happiness with people who really love and care for him.

  • @mvc1412
    @mvc1412 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I like Dongyeop so much. He seems a really nice person!

  • @기치죠지의치킨난반
    @기치죠지의치킨난반 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    남자분은 빨리 여자분이랑 헤어져야 할 것 같아요..ㅠㅠ 더 자신을 대우해주고 위해주는, 그런 진정한 사랑을 할 수 있는 연인이 꼭 올거에요.. 외모를 가장 중점적으로 보고 만났지만 지금 이 자리에까지 나온 걸 보면 이 관계를 외모로만 보는 것 이상을 보려는 의지가 보이네요.. 여자분은 딱봐도 남자친구를 전혀 배려하지도 않고, 신경써주지도 않고 그러는 것 같은데.. 남자친구가 울때 '뭐야?' 이러면서 저런 표정 지을 수 있다는 것에 다 나왔죠.. 한국은 외모지상주의가 심해서 아마 지금까지 살면서 항상 호의와 주도권을 잡으며 이기적인 사람으로 자라난것 같아요. 모든 예쁘고 잘생긴 분들이 그런 것은 아니지만... 남자분이 나이가 더 드시고 사람들도 많이 만나보며 사람을 내면도 볼수있는 스킬을 기르셨으면 좋겠네요 지금 인연은 본인 자신을 위해 놔주시고

  • @Xenirine
    @Xenirine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not sure why all the hosts kept saying the last case was not a problem... I think discrimination is a huge problem that definitely needs to be addressed. It's not just this guy who's suffering, people are discriminated against because of so many things; race, religion, disability, financial wellbeing, looks, etc. I think judging and treating people differently because of this is absolutely unacceptable, and there are sooooo many ignorant people in the world who do this. Its a big problem that needs to be talked about for people to be enlightened.
    The first girl is clearly one of these ignorant people who thinks she's so pretty and can do whatever the hell she likes because of that. Honestly she ain't all that, but her personality truly makes her ugly. I can't stand to look at her..

  • @blujelyi
    @blujelyi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This episode is going to be aired so when people hear about the girl in the first concern, no is going to deal. I wonder if her parent knows about her habit.
    I think she really selfish. She knows she has her boyfriend wrapped around her finger and she using it to her advantage.
    You know what the funny thing is, she didn't want to change when they were talking but after people press their button, she decide that she want to change.

  • @ChibiMii22
    @ChibiMii22 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    oh my goodness im so glad to see michelle

    • @ChibiMii22
      @ChibiMii22 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      the first problem: this has nothing to do about "pride". this is physical abuse and it can really mess up a someone mental state regardless of gender. see if this was the other way around, the guy would be arrested immediately for assault. but she's just laughing like nothings wrong. i hope he broke up with her because it's such a toxic relationship

  • @Bengiichick123
    @Bengiichick123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can I just say that guys friend in the second concern is a real MVP. He literally stuck by his friend through hard and possibly happy times :(:

  • @amya.3174
    @amya.3174 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I know the first concern is domestic abuse and it's also very weird, but I totally understand that girl. I had the same problem before, but a psychiatrist fixed my behavior. I hope she'll see a doctor too.

  • @nyny1004
    @nyny1004 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can relate so much to that last guy. Same thing happened to me on a Korean Penpal app.
    The people there were very friendly, considering I had dark skin. Though, I noticed the profiles were very biased, and the people who contacted me had this in their profiles,
    "Looking for dark-skinned women!" or "I want to fall in love with a beautiful african girl. ."
    I felt slightly uncomfortable when people began to ask for pictures of my body, because of my skin color. I felt like a total alien, and deleted the app a few days after I had been messaged by people who only complimented my skin tone. I would have posted a picture of myself holding something cute, and they would only talk about how pretty my skin was. I'm like,
    ("Please care about the product and not just my skin! Stop sending compliments and asking for pictures. . 😭😭😭 I am sorry, but I have to delete such an app. .")
    I wonder if things are different today? 😇

  • @12345jli
    @12345jli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The girl in the first concern is so /used/ to getting away with things because of her looks. She /knows/ how much her boyfriend loves her, and she really takes it for granted-- because who hasn't showered her with so much love? It seems to be normal for her. She doesn't think he'll leave her, and she doesn't want to chase after him because to her, it's not worth it. She'll be able to find someone else who loves her.
    She also fails to realize that there's a time and place for everything. Even in the boyfriend liked her hitting him, even if they mutually had that kind of joking relationship, there are certain lines you can't cross: you can't go hitting him whenever you want, especially in the workplace when he's your boss, and you certainly can't take advantage of your position as his girlfriend. Just as you wouldn't do some things at a funeral or wedding, or act all slob-slovenly at someone else's house: there's a time and place everything. I hope she realizes that. Like one of the guests said, "your beauty won't last forever".

  • @nasri7027
    @nasri7027 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    abuse is abuse. period. whether it be man to woman, man to man, woman to man, woman to woman OR ANY OTHER FORM!. its abuse

  • @teresav98
    @teresav98 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    yay, its Lee Michelle

  • @yamandabeaudry
    @yamandabeaudry 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    How can racism not be a problem...

  • @tifegrace5105
    @tifegrace5105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
    Finally, a concern I can relate with personally. Proudly African💜💜
    FYI--- I just started watching hello counselor, so sorry if you think I'm too late

  • @Asnnerd
    @Asnnerd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's just pure ignorance. I'm glad that this show is spreading awareness about racism towards foreigners in Asia.
    Korea is slowly waking up, while The U.S. is getting worse and worse. :/

  • @ayeshakhan8544
    @ayeshakhan8544 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally started screaming when Spring Day started to play in the end!!

  • @dibidibidibidis2161
    @dibidibidibidis2161 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finally Lee Michelle! I love her ❤❤

  • @mundanemonday46
    @mundanemonday46 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can totally relate to the first guy, except it's with my little brother. He always hits me on my arm and head. And he slaps my face, mostly around the eye area. Then I yell at him. What a rude little guy. 😂

  • @koffee_time01
    @koffee_time01 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In the last concern, uzoh paul is very handsome 😍😍

  • @curls_n_kimchi2467
    @curls_n_kimchi2467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He sincerely loves her and she just smirks when people ask her serious questions about the relationship. The audience laughing really shows exactly how she’s gotten away with her behavior for this long....because she’s pretty. She obviously uses her looks to get away with the fact that she thinks bullying people is funny. It’s not hard to see that she doesn’t love him. She just wants to play “pranks”. He’s hoping he can change her but she’s not going to. If anyone is in a similar situation, just know that’s it’s better to be single than to be abused & embarrassed on a regular basis. Don’t be in a relationship with someone that you have wanted to change from the beginning because he reality is that most of the time they won’t. And physical appearance really isn’t everything. If it was a man who did this to a woman this concern wouldn’t have been treated the same.

    • @VasReds
      @VasReds 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      curls_n_ kimchi I’m convinced that the guy feels he’s lucky to have a “beautiful” girlfriend and he’s willing to put up with any shortcomings. Defeatist git!

  • @fleabag6477
    @fleabag6477 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the best Hello episodes.

  • @barqueen245
    @barqueen245 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the first concern is pissing me off. she would hit the dude for no reason. his reason for not wanting to break up with her is stupid as f**k. he need to get out of that relationship before it get worse and she smiling like the shit is funny is pissing me off. a pretty face dont mean you have to accept a crazy female as your girlfriend.

  • @tatiannawilliams6733
    @tatiannawilliams6733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    as someone who goes to a co-ed highschool I call bullshit on the first concern even if you're used 2 getting a little rough with male friends u don't treat ur bf like that if he needs to leave her cuz thts just not OK no matter how pretty she mite b

  • @mad0di0di0domo
    @mad0di0di0domo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing for sure is that if the members of Sistar were here to listen to the first abusive relationship, they would've definitely stood up and fought.

  • @requiemforamerica8432
    @requiemforamerica8432 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's great to see lee michelle again! Good to know that she is still performing and doing well

  • @maryme6696
    @maryme6696 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanna encourage the son in 2nd concern. Although he used to be kinda mean to his mom, now he can realise how much she loves him. 😊 Be kind and takes care each other the best you can. Cheer you up!

  • @josiejeanlouis5192
    @josiejeanlouis5192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lets be honest that girl so LUCKY! she met a nice guy. Boy or girl I don't give fuck I wouldn't put up with that.

  • @feun1000
    @feun1000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i understand the 2 concern well. i use to be the same even after i loss weight i still dont feel good im so scared that i will gain weight again and other people will treat me like a trash again i understand alot but i start to learn how to love myself and dont care to much what other people think i hope he can love himself more.

  • @rahmam.t5304
    @rahmam.t5304 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW. I didn't know Lee Michelle before, but wow she's sooooo beautiful!!!

  • @lightningjuniorsuper
    @lightningjuniorsuper 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In the first concern dude you aren't the lucky one she is but you need to let her know that stand tall and confident bc based on what you have said you are in it for the long hall but I hope you help her change so she will be there with you for the journey if she isnt interested then leave her you honestly have a better chance at finding a partner than she does if she's constantly hitting people

  • @KarolinaLopez
    @KarolinaLopez 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was streaming Spring Day while watching this so when BTS came on at the end I thought my computer glitched and I kept trying to fix it. Anyway, out of all the eps I've seen so far this is one of my favorites. All of the topics got me. Crying, that is.

  • @Kenny-eo2wl
    @Kenny-eo2wl 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the NIGERIAN GUY, i could tell he was igbo even from his face nd then accent. boy u got that going. i'm rooting for uuu.

  • @NunaMusics
    @NunaMusics 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Hello Counselor for giving people the chance to talk about their problems. Especially for bringing up the nationality, religion and skin color problems

  • @natriac.6092
    @natriac.6092 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    47:25 he said something really wise and helpful, not only to him but everyone who is insecure. 👏

  • @NehaJain-ih7cz
    @NehaJain-ih7cz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its amazing that this show is humanizing problems like narcissism, abuse, the stigma of obesity and race. We need to see and relate to such problems especially in developing nations such as South Korea and India where the conservative mindset of the people may lead to a casteist and xenophobic mentality. Lots of love from India, from a person who respects the Korean culture and people, wishes to speak that adorable language fluently soon.

  • @kris10kent45
    @kris10kent45 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is no one gonna talk about Choi TaeJoon's reaction to that first girl saying she would like getting her hair pulled/yelled at bc I'm dying 😂 dem ears got so red

  • @ReiinaaVel
    @ReiinaaVel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG IT'S LEE MICHELLE GIRL HOW HAVE YOU BEEN!!????

  • @yoongnuts2641
    @yoongnuts2641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the third guest is the the most cutest patootie ever ilu

  • @valentinarios2567
    @valentinarios2567 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE FIRST STORY HAD ME CRYING, THAT GIRL IS A DEMON WTF BRO SHE DOESN'T EVEN DESERVE A MAN LIKE HIM. I WISH I COULD FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES ME THAT MUCH SO I CAN MAKE HIM THE MOST HAPPY PERSON IN THIS WORLD.

  • @Bibi-le4mm
    @Bibi-le4mm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the story of Michelle when she was young its Naruto story lol

  • @zzsmile1
    @zzsmile1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wanted to slap the MC making a stereotypical foreigner accent, especially when they hadn't even met yet.
    Atleast this time, they seemed more receptive to his concerns. I'm sad that he 's still experiencing this 😩😢

  • @hamnah4glte979
    @hamnah4glte979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG Lee Michelle. shes a yg artist and was on kpop star

  • @zahraaa.s4360
    @zahraaa.s4360 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was really surprised to see spring day at the end but turns out jin and jimin will come on hello counselor next week I'M SO EXCITED ALSKFKFJFKLFLG XD

  • @thatsnotvegan2272
    @thatsnotvegan2272 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the girl in the first concern is crazy. just like those girls who are just pretty and are always around guys and take everything for granted duh

  • @rosemarieabuzo7313
    @rosemarieabuzo7313 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That first girl who hits his boyfriends, always check her face in the screen everytime! she should focus more on what her boyfriend is saying than checking her self in the screen everytime LOL.! She's so Lucky her boyfriend is so understanding!

  • @stopthemadness78
    @stopthemadness78 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so off topic, but Choi Taejun is so bright and cute omg

  • @Taartje361
    @Taartje361 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy that lost 80kg, they told him you're clinging on the past. But the way they hurt him by being indifferent and being embarrassed about him, a scar like that will never ever leave

  • @ItsBrittanyLajoyce
    @ItsBrittanyLajoyce 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The lady in the first concern takes advantage of him because she's pretty and knows he won't go anywhere this is abuse and it needs to be addressed as such! The girlfriend keeps looking on the screen to make sure she looks good she's all about her looks and self centered. Also lee Michelle is not here for the foolishness and I'm lovin it!

  • @shunchunjun
    @shunchunjun 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 1st concern boiled me up. Sometimes I wish I was a cast/guest there so I can give these kind of people a piece of my mind. Too bad I'm not in Korean nor am I at all famous. -_-

  • @misha745
    @misha745 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That first girl is lucky those guys have manners and were seemingly raised right cause the wrong dudes would knock her out.

  • @jackietse6495
    @jackietse6495 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the last guy in this episode is so cute!

  • @sentilahlam6701
    @sentilahlam6701 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish i was there and talked to that guy in the second problem , cause they really didnt understand what he's feeling ...

  • @moongazer9891
    @moongazer9891 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this episode was very interesting to watch ,they discussed about three very importants issues

  • @shayla3855
    @shayla3855 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My teacher was talking about this how when he went to Korea in Busan people were shocked that he had blonde hair and blue eyes he said people went up and tried to touch his hairs and asked how he got blue eyes he said he was the only blonde he saw in the huge crowd he was in he was at this huge market plac

  • @TheSherry0820
    @TheSherry0820 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    She did it my baby girl is in a variety program

  • @michu_o
    @michu_o 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate hearing ppl discriminating others with black skin everywhere, even though it's better in America, we still have ppl seeing black ppl walk down the street and stay far from them. Like my parents, they say black ppl are not smart, don't have manners, don't live well, are thugs, and that hurts me so much to see and hear that. We live in a multicolored world, and we need to accept differences. I hate ppl for doing that, they are human too, put yourself in their shoes. I know plenty of ppl that have colored skin, and some that are really smart, really nice and all that good stuff. Let's stop discriminating.

  • @letsalltakeawalk6906
    @letsalltakeawalk6906 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    second concern: the son spent his whole life without anyone ever looking at him like a human being and it's clear that he's deeply hurt. he's hurting him mother, but he's doing it by hurting himself. it's a shame he doesn't have hobbies and interests because he's been fixated on looks.

  • @alhassan5623
    @alhassan5623 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bigger people and specially guys turn out really great once they shed the weight off. I have seen many cases personally. I hope no one would ever take a persons dreams lightly.

  • @notfunnybutfunny7333
    @notfunnybutfunny7333 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    spring day

  • @NehaJain-ih7cz
    @NehaJain-ih7cz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, to the person who has managed to lose the weight, lots of respect. It can be a very hard journey, but you must love your body, no matter what. Its the only thing that will remain with you till the end of your days. Hope you start working and socializing soon to regain that much-needed self-confidence for such an amazing person as yourself!

  • @shackylicious
    @shackylicious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have no words for the first girl😳. She should count her blessings that she's not with a man that hits back.
    I like paul, he's positive and has a optimistic outlook on life. I get asked dumb questions when I say I'm from Jamaica. "Do I live on the beach" "sleep in a hammock" honestly I prefer getting asked those questions to educate rather than someone sitting aside & making outrage assumptions or snide remarks. Now that really upsets me

  • @MsSkatergirl09
    @MsSkatergirl09 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't care how much I love someone don't ever fucking smack me in the face especially for no reason

  • @matokichoi
    @matokichoi 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st concern deserves so much better :( I hope he broke up with her and finds someone better cause the girlfriend will never understand what great and caring of a person her boyfriend is.

  • @ruerubox
    @ruerubox 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    why am I always crying when watching hello counselor ;(