Adolescent Narcissist: Personal Fable, Imaginary Audience

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  • Adolescent Narcissism: Personal Fable, Imaginary Audience, Depressive Realism, Defensive Pessimism, Hostile Attribution Bias or Intent.
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  • @mbarcco
    @mbarcco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Highly enjoy your content, professor. Recently left a BPD/NPD spouse. I miss the person he portrayed to be, but from listening to all your lectures I understand he was showing me the best parts of myself. The marriage lasted 8months. I’m extremely sad specially during the holidays but daily reminders like your lectures help me stay away and go without contact. He has not reached out & it might be for the best.

    • @rlsloan80
      @rlsloan80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jiltedlittle6868I used that in my playlist to get over a similar situation.

    • @rlsloan80
      @rlsloan80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And no contact is DEFINITELY for the best.

    • @mbarcco
      @mbarcco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jiltedlittle6868 just balled 😭 my eyes out. I wish it would have been different. It’s very sad & I just wish he’d try to take care of himself. I was sacrificed our marriage was sacrificed Because of his illness & alcohol also played its part. Very sad truly 😢

  • @meriemmimi104
    @meriemmimi104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember when i thought i was the centre of the world , and i was so reckless thinking i was courageous now i finally understand it was normal and healthy i will not regret my mistakes again

  • @bellabotanicals1869
    @bellabotanicals1869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sam Vaknin, this is pure poetry , so gentle way to clarify a complex pursue for understanding, you are so appreciated .

  • @shadowgirl6522
    @shadowgirl6522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have just watched 1 minute into the video and it made my eyes full tears ... I am 26 and raised by a communal narcissist and it's been a while that I am experiencing depression because I kept recalling my teenage years and how I had some narcissism signs but had no idea about them... I've been feeling confusion and helplessness ... I assume this video is going to teach me a lot ... thank you from bottom of my heart ❤❤❤

  • @nadiasorkhabi3529
    @nadiasorkhabi3529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Absolutely remarkable Dr. Vaknin! Thank you❤❤

  • @ninanina8023
    @ninanina8023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing video professor Vaknin, as always!😊👏 It would be great if you can discuss traits and behaviours of antisocial personality disorders in women, in some of your next videos. Keep up awesome work. ❤

  • @zwelabantuwopula376
    @zwelabantuwopula376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best. Sam Vaknin. Well put as always. I truly appreciate your intellect and the skill to easily explain these psychological concepts. Keep up the good work.

  • @jeab5797
    @jeab5797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prof. Sam Vaknin, thanks you so much . This vdo is so high value .it make me understand how I should treat my teen son .

  • @danielfrancoismalherbe6803
    @danielfrancoismalherbe6803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this

  • @andrewcox1677
    @andrewcox1677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Paranoia in adolescents can be greatly magnified by the consumption of some drugs, such skunk cannabis.

  • @074FaTiiH
    @074FaTiiH 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ah yes, This one hit home hard.

  • @kasiakas
    @kasiakas 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So having friend (safe relation) in early adolescence does not imply safe relation in adulthood even if the contact was from time to time refreshed and it is because we don't know if growing up was succeded? and the whole process of establishing relation adolthood (this time intimate, romantically) in should be as with a stranger? No sentiments?

  • @sarahsuliman4462
    @sarahsuliman4462 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to turn the anxiety that came from my defensiveness into self confidence?

  • @bunmitella9672
    @bunmitella9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This makes sense actually. But can u help me with my kids? Their father is a covert narcissist and he is totally fucking up my adolescent kids. Legit worried he is going to make one of them a narc!

    • @ilomonaliza1669
      @ilomonaliza1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Run away ,it's the only solution.

    • @bunmitella9672
      @bunmitella9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ilomonaliza1669 i did. But thats jst made it worse. Now I can’t protect them from him.

    • @unknownfem9450
      @unknownfem9450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bunmitella9672 teach them about narcissism and allow to think for themselves

    • @c1111
      @c1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@bunmitella9672 if they are school age reach out to counselors or psychologists at their school…you need to get their brains firing in healthy ways, as often and as soon as possible.

    • @bunmitella9672
      @bunmitella9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@unknownfem9450 u r right. And thats wat i try to do but its hard someones. And then a random stranger like u takes the time to offer me advice and i feel stronger. Will persevere. Thank u so much.

  • @soggysketchbooks
    @soggysketchbooks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    damn the intro 2 mins into the video