FTM Phalloplasty Does It Pass as Cis? | Q&A

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  • @Blaine-P-Turtle
    @Blaine-P-Turtle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I like how your title question was answered first, most youtubers answer the questions they put in the title near the end or at a random place near the middle so you at least have to watch most of the video.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Haha yea I always get annoyed when people do that too lol!

  • @OllieSkinnervideos
    @OllieSkinnervideos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are seriously such an inspiration, mate. I have my first surgical consult with a surgeon on Thursday for bottom surgery and I've only really gotten to this point because of TH-camrs like y'all that are super open and informational for the rest of us. So thank you!

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay dude congrats on the consult! And so glad I could be of some help sharing my journey! Thanks so much for following along! :)

  • @reme001
    @reme001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Cody, my very best in your authentic life! Even tho I was never comfortable with guys growing
    I ended up getting married because that's what you did back then. Finally at 25 I finally realized who I really was-- a lesbian. So I understand the change of life.
    HUGS from a senior lesbian

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aw hugs!!! So happy for you to live your authentic self :)

  • @dylanimal
    @dylanimal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Really love your videos man. You just seem like such a real, down to earth guy, and come across very likable and relateable. I am also working towards phallo and really appreciate being able to follow your progress as you heal.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks dude!! Congrats on working towards phallo!! Are you looking into surgeons yet?

    • @dylanimal
      @dylanimal 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, I live in NYC and am most likely going with Dr Bluebond-Lagner. I have a consult with her in the end of January. I also have a consult with Chen scheduled for next summer, but will probably go with B-L if the consult goes well so I don't have to travel. I traveled for top surgery and meta and the thought of being able to recover at home is too good to pass up!

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice dude I have heard good things about BL!

  • @DigitalAnchovies
    @DigitalAnchovies 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You really seem like the nicest guy. I appreciate your openness and I enjoy your content quite a bit.

  • @evaweir4007
    @evaweir4007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm pretty sure I've commented on your videos before, but THANK YOU so much for sharing your experience in such a public way! I am not trans, but I want to be more aware of the wide variety of hurdles faced by people who are trans, and I live in a pretty conservative area where there are not a lot of people with whom I can hold informative conversations. I appreciate you and your courage a whole ton. xoxo

  • @jooliebeanpajoolie4244
    @jooliebeanpajoolie4244 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Get better soon beautiful boy...
    Awesome post as always. xoxo ~ hugs ~

  • @nikbesalty5865
    @nikbesalty5865 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    you give me hope for the future.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That means a lot! Keep going! :)

  • @moveitenheimer6405
    @moveitenheimer6405 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your honesty and willingness to be open and to be informative to others!!

  • @1929kristina
    @1929kristina 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Completely off topic......your lips looks so kissable in this video. 😉

  • @MonroeReacts
    @MonroeReacts 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just discovered your channel and I love how open and honest you are. Definitely learning a lot about my trans brothers and sisters lives through your personal insight!

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw thank you for watching and learning! :)

  • @arourtutor8833
    @arourtutor8833 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You are outstanding as a human being. You are like one of my heros. My siblings and mother are my others. My mom recently passed but I addressed the issue of possibly being trans. I explained it to her and asked if she'd still love me. I forget her answer but I think she would.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw shucks that means a lot thank you! I am sorry to hear about your Mom. I think she would too. Sounds like she would of wished for you to be happy :)

  • @yooourbeautiful
    @yooourbeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You seem like such an awesome, down to earth guy. Best of luck and wish you nothing but happiness!!

  • @michellewest3404
    @michellewest3404 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry to hear you are sick. Get well soon, although I have to say even being sick you seem to be in such good spirits compared to just after surgery and during the recovery. Great to see what a positive effect the surgery seems to have had on your general mood.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha true! Thank you! Although I am sick, I am surgery pain free :)

  • @erekereksen3944
    @erekereksen3944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hope you feel better soon. Thanks for being you.

  • @LadeezANDgentz
    @LadeezANDgentz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay thanks for answering my question! Glad to see you uploaded :)

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the question and for watching! :)

  • @bonniemillar5419
    @bonniemillar5419 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think your parentst should be very proud of you. You are a very brave and genuine person♡♡♡

  • @mandisanti2159
    @mandisanti2159 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    As always, so much support ❤️

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Mandi Santi thank you!! 😊

  • @TheAugustineMachine
    @TheAugustineMachine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad you're doing well. And yeah, that cold is a drag-- take it easy!

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks dude! and seriously it just lingers!!

  • @knitting4premies
    @knitting4premies 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You should check a woman’s perspective on the cis passing question 😉😉 xx

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol!!

    • @knitting4premies
      @knitting4premies 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You know where I am should you require assistance, strictly in the name of research of course! 😉😉xx

    • @Ridiculousnessness
      @Ridiculousnessness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm weak 😂😂😂

  • @B3eau16
    @B3eau16 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos man, I cannot wait for my phalloplasty! Watching your videos make me even more excited haha

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks dude!! When is your surgery!?

  • @chasejohnson6665
    @chasejohnson6665 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for making videos that you do. Gives me hope and actual answers to big questions. xoxo

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching! :)

  • @ryptoll4801
    @ryptoll4801 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting to hear how your journey has been so far. I've watched a few of your videos here and there, and I find them to be informative. I'm getting metoidioplasty (sometime next year), but I'm still curious about how it's going for those who choose the phalloplasty route instead. I hope it keeps going well for you, and that you'll feel better soon too.

  • @johnathank7583
    @johnathank7583 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    phallo def has a higher complication rate than meta.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is all about what you want.. basically what I would recommend is to not let the possible complications dictate your decision... some people have multiple complications, but some are complication free. It is hard to know which one you will be but for me personally it was worth the risk.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found this older video, I have a question if you're still checking these older videos: Do you notice that getting used to the weight of having the phallo was any issue? (Pulling of incisions, different ways to walk/sit, different prefs in support underwear?)

  • @Rowe_Ti
    @Rowe_Ti 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro u r doing such a great job by making these videos, keep up the good work buddy👍

  • @rafaella9700
    @rafaella9700 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are so likable, you sholud have a meeting with your subscribers, I would love to met you in person.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw thanks I would love to do that someday!

  • @sandraallsopp1234
    @sandraallsopp1234 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay, great video..... good to see your smile back 😍

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +SJ Allsopp thank you! :)

  • @emilyhonsinger9665
    @emilyhonsinger9665 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job!! Good questions and answers!! Can't wait for next video😍😍

  • @deborahnieling2315
    @deborahnieling2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since i discovered your channel let me tell you something.....i would date you because of your Charisma ...i am as i allready said straight....but i dont give a flying flip anymore.....what is important ....you are a charming beautiful men now! I have the feeling from inside out....!!!!!! But i mean that in all respect for your transition....and how happy you are with it!!!!

    • @deborahnieling2315
      @deborahnieling2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And ...your happy face when you talk about your Penis. .is really cute! And it makes people realize how important, life changing AND life saving a transition is!!! That people understand that it is a world to you that you transitioned into the body that really belongs to you...and not be stucked anymore with the wrong body! So such a physical thing like a penis, is so special to you for so many different reasons.....with your vlog people hopefully start to understand what all this is about because you educate us in such a authentic and beautiful.way!!!! I really really hope that much more people emphazise with you and other transgender people! And you owned it 100%! I hope i dont ramble here to much...but it comes from the bottom.of my heart for Pro Transgender support!'Lots of hughs from.Berlin!!!!!!!

  • @ryanitunes6216
    @ryanitunes6216 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice Q&A Cody! Also I like your hat.

  • @xhazza_louehx6099
    @xhazza_louehx6099 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope you feel better! x

  • @midnytegoddess
    @midnytegoddess 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I was really looking forward to this one.

  • @codywilkinson8344
    @codywilkinson8344 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Some chick is gonna be lucky to get with you!! Like winning the jackpot. Ooo baby

  • @connorwilliam7106
    @connorwilliam7106 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your inspirational to the point that I was questioning if I was male.... I was born Male. I haven’t been this confused since I came out as ace 😂

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha! Thank you :)

  • @captainsmoov9462
    @captainsmoov9462 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super helpful Cody thanks

  • @debrahildreth9783
    @debrahildreth9783 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Get better real soon.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Debra Hildreth thank you!

  • @checkurs675
    @checkurs675 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Use Mederma PM on ur arm its expensive but works amazing

  • @henryohana6349
    @henryohana6349 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    UL is the biggest complication that seems to happen - meta or phallo.

  • @ayogage5039
    @ayogage5039 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊 🙏 im happy for you, you seem like you're in a great place

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +bitch who I am! ;) thank you!

  • @demonspawn7252
    @demonspawn7252 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to get srs but I'm scared of how my family will react what do I tell them?

  • @BDMcN-vo8op
    @BDMcN-vo8op 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my god! these girls have really gone off the deep end!!

  • @nekocringe2917
    @nekocringe2917 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 14 right now but I'm planning to undergo therapy where they may put me on testosterone and i hope that in a few years, i will be able to go through Phalloplasty surgery. And since you have gone through it, i was just wondering if you could give me some tips or information I must know?

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just do your research, find a good surgeon ( I recommend Dr. Chen ) and joint some support groups and talk to some guys that have been through it :)

    • @nekocringe2917
      @nekocringe2917 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cody_talks
      Thank you so much! I really appreciate your help. You were the one that inspired me to gain the confidence i needed for this decision, I just wanted to let you know that. I'll surely try my best!

  • @jayysoul5375
    @jayysoul5375 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LMAO 😂😆🤣 dreams do come true. CNT wait till mines does!

  • @marissamalone621
    @marissamalone621 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look so cute in this one Cody!

  • @jessy5581
    @jessy5581 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any side effects you get??

  • @foreverwantingpie
    @foreverwantingpie 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey bud in your research where did you find results of other people? It's easy to find top surgery results but not bottom (for obvious reasons lol)

    • @jayysoul5375
      @jayysoul5375 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      foreverwantingpie u can look online for surgeon's work

    • @nathamiel6467
      @nathamiel6467 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      foreverwantingpie Dr crane and Dr brownstein have results on their website

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      They have pictures up on the brownstein crane website and also on transbucket :)

  • @Cameron-np7hw
    @Cameron-np7hw 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love all your videos has really helped with me , I’m yet to go to the dos , but I know that I want to start testosterone and get top surgery but still unsure on bottom surgery as ide want to know what it looks like and there’s not many pics out there to see off trans penis’

  • @jenniferbart3060
    @jenniferbart3060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story.Im curious if you are gay?Or bi?I know gender and sexuality are two different things.Im just curious but I respect it if that is private.Im just very curious but people don’t ask cis people what they have in their pants or who they want in their pants.lol

  • @charlenemackason6395
    @charlenemackason6395 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I noticed to get well soon

  • @noahmartin4098
    @noahmartin4098 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone know why his eyebrows r so thin?? Just wondering

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Think reallllly hard. What would be your best guess? How do eyebrows usually get thin? What was his past like? Let’s hear it detective.

    • @noahmartin4098
      @noahmartin4098 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorryy.. I wasn’t trying to be rude.. I was just genuinely wondering

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m wondering why you were wondering?

    • @noahmartin4098
      @noahmartin4098 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      They just don’t really look like they were plucked so I thought maybe something happened...😂

  • @reeces5142
    @reeces5142 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    boi I love his vids

  • @DJohn83
    @DJohn83 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Cody. Have you noticed a length increase due to gravity?

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +D. John yes actually! Haha. Good question :)

  • @Lulu-ql6mm
    @Lulu-ql6mm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i don't know why but i think you work at whole foods

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Close! Not whole foods, but something similar :)

  • @alnthevalley1
    @alnthevalley1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @seheabol
    @seheabol 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do you like men or women?

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Women :)

    • @seheabol
      @seheabol 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cody_talks good choice 😜

    • @GodAdmit
      @GodAdmit 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you asked this question, I was too shy lmfao

    • @1976Leila
      @1976Leila 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cody_talks , you look great. Do you like biological women or other?

    • @daviddalton1335
      @daviddalton1335 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Codytalks11 The original women or the fakes?

  • @ottawatransguy
    @ottawatransguy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you use integra for your arm?

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, integra was used on my arm :)

  • @beegee7700
    @beegee7700 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very handsome :) brave man

  • @an.dr.16561
    @an.dr.16561 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you gay or straight I mean you go out with girl or boys .. or both

  • @reneethed2499
    @reneethed2499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your eyebrows remind me of 2004. Tiny and ultra plucked line.

    • @Codytalks11
      @Codytalks11  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +renee the d I’d say more 2008

    • @reneethed2499
      @reneethed2499 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cody_talks Maybe i was early to it. Haha :)

  • @jamesgarcia7771
    @jamesgarcia7771 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many frogs named Cody, why?