Love Em or Leave Em?!!! | HILARIOUS RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

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  • @kemmyoluwo4732
    @kemmyoluwo4732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    The only couple that I tune in to TBH....whilst taking a break from studying.

    • @bethanybdl
      @bethanybdl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Periodt 😂

    • @monteshiaakins1857
      @monteshiaakins1857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SAME!!! They are honestly the most genuine and transparent couple on social media. I can tell they carry this same energy outside of social media.

    • @kemmyoluwo4732
      @kemmyoluwo4732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@monteshiaakins1857 I remember when I clocked in with their Smash and Pass on Half African Beaute Channel a few years ago, when she had just 50k! That was when the handsomeness of Josh catch me ***window shopping***. I then watched their first ever boyfriend tag, when she started the whole thing...MAN...Love how they keep things honest and balance the equity between keeping things public and private at the same time. THEY ARE JUST COOL FOLKS AND ARE REAL, love their story too :) :).

    • @johneleacock
      @johneleacock 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kemmy Oluwo girl I am doing that right now😂

  • @jordangranger7330
    @jordangranger7330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +569

    ISI’s hair is Gorgeous!!!🤩🤩😛

    • @JujusOracleMsgs
      @JujusOracleMsgs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jordan Granger it’s literally goals

  • @nyquismorgan
    @nyquismorgan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    He said, “LOOK AT US.” 😭😂💀

  • @taylorthenatural5509
    @taylorthenatural5509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    "We're black!" Lol Josh.

  • @JadaFay
    @JadaFay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I agree a 100% with Josh at 9:55. The child is highly likely going to grow up and learn what their father did to their mother. No child wants to see their mother be belittled and disrespected. The child’s father cheated on their mother AND filmed it. He knew what he was doing
    (Edit) I am LOVING Isi’s hair

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I agree too. Living in a house with 2 people who hate each other is worse than the father not being there. The father obviously doesnt care about the child if he did that anyway

    • @lexiegray2637
      @lexiegray2637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Disagree...parents bring their child into their bs. The child doesnt need to choose sides. He doesn't have to grow up resenting his father for something the child won't need to understand.

    • @lexiegray2637
      @lexiegray2637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This has nothing to do with the child. I doubt the father was thinking hm let me ruin my child's life. More like ruin the mother's life. Leave the kids out of it

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@lexiegray2637 but guess what? When you step out on the mother of your child you're inevitably ruining the childs life too. When women stay with cheaters it teachers their daughters to be ok with that and teaches their sons that they can do the same so we need to lead by example. He can get visitations, he wouldn't be kicked out of the childs life but he lost his privilege to live in the same house. You teach a man how to treat you and staying with a man like that will teach him that you are worthless

    • @Lulu-qh8uv
      @Lulu-qh8uv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BlackGirlLovesAnime6 So true!!!

  • @kaciawilliams6305
    @kaciawilliams6305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Who else say there intro with them🙋
    "Josh and Isi back again with another quality video😂"

    • @chevinajackson2574
      @chevinajackson2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jack...??

    • @kaciawilliams6305
      @kaciawilliams6305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chevinajackson2574 i meant Josh😭

    • @alyssaallen8605
      @alyssaallen8605 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll be in my kitchen just randomly saying it. Lol there doesn't even need to be a vid anywhere near me

  • @izettaS
    @izettaS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Hahaha Josh's answers are so cut throat but he has legit logic behind them. All I can do is agree and laugh.

  • @tiasmith4557
    @tiasmith4557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Y'all looking alil fine with this black and white contrast👀 come THROUGH Melanin😩🥰

  • @douglasperry659
    @douglasperry659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    5:32 "That's leaving, It's just a slower pace" a whole mood. 😂😂😂

  • @biancarosembert7472
    @biancarosembert7472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I seriously love these talking videos 😩 Future Topics: racism, work/career fears, childhood stories, a time someone betrayed you, best life advice you’ve ever gotten, interesting travel story

  • @CHITARIADUNN
    @CHITARIADUNN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The cheating and recorded a video of it was my story though. 2 year relationship that he threw down the drain, in one night. Our babygirl is 7 months old. I definitely left him, but agree with Isi that what he did to me and our relationship has nothing to do with their relationship.

    • @mumzi07
      @mumzi07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      CHITARIA DUNN , lucky you! It was just two years and 1 child.

    • @CHITARIADUNN
      @CHITARIADUNN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mumzi07 definitely don't feel lucky. 😔 I could've left before it was even this far into the relationship. Maybe a couple of months in? No child?

    • @jane-po4cq
      @jane-po4cq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      CHITARIA DUNN you’re stronger than the marines

  • @only1dess22
    @only1dess22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I agree with Isi at 5:20. I had a friend who ALWAYS came to me about something negative. It was never a "how are you", "are you mentally capable of hearing my issues today" NOTHING. It was always about her and the negative things that were happening in her life. I made her aware of what she was doing. She changed for about 2 weeks, then instantly went back to the negativity. So I eventually told her about herself and told her maybe she's the problem if she's the one always experiencing the negativity. I ended the friendship on her birthday. I didn't want to, but she did something the day before her birthday that completely rubbed me the wrong way.

  • @nysky1317
    @nysky1317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Y’all always post when I’m bout to sit down and eat. Perfect freakin timing

  • @essenceezell5215
    @essenceezell5215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm on the same page as josh - I don't/won't compete either. With true love there is not competition. I don't care how people see it, I can't be the only one giving 100% my all, while fighting over a person that should be 100% mine with someone else. If someone is making someone compete, that means you're just an option, not the only choice which there should be no hesitation in choosing over another person; hence, therefore, no competition to begin with.

    • @marianb2530
      @marianb2530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree 100%...PERIOD! lol!

  • @sarahbelle1993
    @sarahbelle1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Josh came off the bat saying something foolish! Hahaha.
    “Love Em and Beat Her”😂😭

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Yes, religion does tie in to sea food.
    All fish once they contain scale when out of the sea can be eaten, unscaled fish is considered unclean.
    Leviticus tells us about clean and unclean.
    Just notes for anyone who's curious.

    • @monishapendleton
      @monishapendleton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And Romans tells us that God declared all of that stuff clean. You’re still living in the Old Testament.

    • @serena_bee
      @serena_bee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@monishapendleton We all have our own beliefs hun.
      You go right ahead.
      Somethings were never done away with. Pls, give me the direct scripture which says all things are clean to consume.

    • @serena_bee
      @serena_bee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joline Lima Im a Christian thats what is important.

    • @kenyaj.3208
      @kenyaj.3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm a Hebrew Israelite and I still go by that too...I don't eat pork as well. Ppl think just because the scriptures were from the Old Testament, they're irrelevant. Yah is unchanging!🙌🏾

    • @teeteesoprecious
      @teeteesoprecious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When God said dont call what's common unclean and the whole bless and eat he was actually talking about taking the gospel / preaching to the gentiles. People cut and paste what they want to hear but always ask in prayer to the spirit that he'll guide you into all truth. 🙏🏽

  • @faridaw.s.6322
    @faridaw.s.6322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Lol I just got caught up with y’all’s videos and right when Im about to end my break and start studying y’all post another video........WELP, I guess I’ll start studying after 28 minutes and 7 seconds!

  • @rayaddea5185
    @rayaddea5185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Josh cracks me up😂 you can tell his serious but still jovial😂 Your hair looks goooood Isi 👌🏾

  • @ShyannDixon
    @ShyannDixon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Josh: “ We’re Black” 😂😂😂😂

  • @faridaw.s.6322
    @faridaw.s.6322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When Isi said Josh was being cut throat I was lookin like 👀. I agreed with Josh for most of them lol. I’m leavin 🏃🏾‍♀️✌🏾 with a quickness.

  • @ruthst.julien4581
    @ruthst.julien4581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "...At that time you were not dope"
    Josh was just so blunt that day😂😂😂

  • @clare7424
    @clare7424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    13:58😂😂"Somebody's family is left clueless"

  • @taymay4894
    @taymay4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    isi: murders a person
    Josh: ima lil turned on
    me: lmaooooooo wtf but I understand his reason😭😭😭😭

  • @talacaples98
    @talacaples98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yall been on a roll! I LOVE IT 😻

  • @crystallewis8856
    @crystallewis8856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    josh is such an Aquarius. cut throat and straight to the point

  • @IJusLuvDance
    @IJusLuvDance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you just look at him in amazement at the end 🥰

  • @freddyzsis
    @freddyzsis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need the backstory on the term, "Beep Beep”

  • @taymay4894
    @taymay4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    we love an unproblematic couple like y'all we STANNN

  • @AmariHetep
    @AmariHetep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Leave him and take custody.
    That sent meeeeeeee 💀💀💀

  • @PharaohsBloom
    @PharaohsBloom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you do the hand movements with them when they say “Quality Video’s” 😂😂
    BUT can I know where Josh got that chair!? I love it!!

  • @tiarayvonne
    @tiarayvonne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As far as only having a connection when you have “beep beep” LEAVE! A connection is 9 times out of 10 something that occurs naturally.

  • @kaykay56
    @kaykay56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Never I mean NEVER stay with a man or woman for the kids if they’ve cheated wtf kind of lesson is that going to teach to them. To let someone walk all over you? They’re not gonna fully understand what love is . They can still be in their kids life but not about to be with me hell no.

  • @tiarachiffon8131
    @tiarachiffon8131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yessss, do that valentine's day edition.
    also, everyoneee go and watch their year 3 video because i'm excited and ready for year 4!

  • @RekaBaby93
    @RekaBaby93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a new subscriber and I’ve been binge watching all y’all videos! Quaaaality fr!

  • @itssnai4201
    @itssnai4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Isi !!!! Spill the tea on the hair !!!!! I love it ❣❣❣

  • @laurenmatthews151
    @laurenmatthews151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really love the Love em or Leave em. Probably my favorite thing y'all do!

  • @barihubbard3751
    @barihubbard3751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lmaoooo Josh said he leaving and calling the cops😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yric3334
    @yric3334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A valentines day adition would be cute

  • @arykahg9036
    @arykahg9036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Y’all energy is so comfortable, like I’m here feeling included irl lol 😂😄 love the dynamic and your videos💕💕
    p.s: ISI, your hair is giving me LIFE😍😍

  • @AromaologyLLC
    @AromaologyLLC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ayeeee yup! Valentine’s Day addition 💜💜❤️❤️❤️

  • @shazz286
    @shazz286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You ghost me 3 weeks I ghost you the rest of your life😂😂💀💀💀

  • @OGseoulite
    @OGseoulite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    12:34 Did Isi really just use one of the subplots in Love & Basketball as an example😂😂

  • @sariahm2953
    @sariahm2953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loveeee your channel!!❤️ Best couple out here hands down👏🏽 I love the energy and the content💕 God bless y’all

  • @Francesca_casseus
    @Francesca_casseus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yayy!!! Something to watch while i relax after a long day of school :)

  • @sugahbear8253
    @sugahbear8253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Walhatever Negroe" 😭😂💀💀

  • @DecemberJay_
    @DecemberJay_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That “ who you gonna dance with sir” is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pepsifan1364
    @pepsifan1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Josh is on 💯💯💯the entire video.

  • @shadem376
    @shadem376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We need year 4 asap yall better be liking that video😂😂😍

  • @basicallymelissa1911
    @basicallymelissa1911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y’all are hilarious! Love the video!

  • @rachelleraspberry53
    @rachelleraspberry53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Of course y’all should do a Valentine’s Day edition 🥺❤️

  • @autummntate3150
    @autummntate3150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The break from studying we all need🙃

  • @tiombedikara1910
    @tiombedikara1910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The "We're Black" took me out 😭😭😭

  • @nibri2007
    @nibri2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am I the only one who watches their videos and like the first 2minutes go by and the whole time I'm just admiring their beauty!? Like ISI is one GORGEOUS chocolate Queen and Josh is an immaculate King! Just shook, I tell ya.

  • @saundrad2317
    @saundrad2317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “I shaved all my hair prank”

  • @Taliam500
    @Taliam500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For the seafood question: I'm highly allergic to seafood. My boyfriend and our daughter will go out to eat it. However, they come home brush teeth and shower so they don't touch me with it. Sometimes it needs to be that serious.

  • @ashly_gonsalves
    @ashly_gonsalves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    do a 'love em or leave em' with ur bff that's in a relationship with her SO...... like a double love em or leave em
    mannnnnnnnn look uk wah i mean 😍

  • @faeriediaries
    @faeriediaries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That's crazy I was just watching y'all earlier 😂

  • @paige2166
    @paige2166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    what about smoking, I feel as if its being normalized, especially vapping when that's bad as well.

  • @aundreawilliams1211
    @aundreawilliams1211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's exactly why sex was made for marriage, because it's your connection to your spouse and cling to them. It's you and then against the world

  • @devyncoulson6309
    @devyncoulson6309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where is the tutorial on your hair? BOMB!!! SO CUTE!

  • @luvs2groove
    @luvs2groove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Isi, is that a braid out? I'm checking your videos, but don't know which style this is... I love it... I know this is Y'ALL channel, but can you leave links to hair tutorials in the description :p

  • @dajaharvey129
    @dajaharvey129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Love him and beat her" lmao I agree

  • @bethanybdl
    @bethanybdl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    13:46 boii what? 😂😂😭
    By the end of every video my cheeks hurt... I laugh too much. #qualityvideos

  • @jorjadobre5042
    @jorjadobre5042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this channel and I just started watching

  • @kiml1226
    @kiml1226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    13:17 look at Josh's face that's the face of someone whose wrong😂😂

  • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
    @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If you dont have kids why you messin with a baby daddy in 2020? Black women we are leveling up from now on no more struggle love

  • @kieshabrown8068
    @kieshabrown8068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could y’all think about doing a podcast like once a week or two because these talk are fire 🔥 love you y’all(Isi your hair goals) 🥰

  • @justjuicelyn
    @justjuicelyn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    isi looks so in love

  • @elonabebe9565
    @elonabebe9565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    15:03-15:09 got me deadddd😂😂😂😂 josh was like aww hell naw once he saw Isi’s face💀

  • @nikole6442
    @nikole6442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    IM LOVING ALL THESE VIDEOS!!!!

  • @cereallover19
    @cereallover19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Man let me go find myself a Josh

  • @mariacrudup2501
    @mariacrudup2501 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ISI, your hair is so beautiful! You make me want to start styling my natural hair again.

  • @amelymusafiri5528
    @amelymusafiri5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love that i'm watching this video exactly a year after it came out :))

  • @mosunshine9265
    @mosunshine9265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do the intro with you guys every time 😂😂😂

  • @alyshahilliard7668
    @alyshahilliard7668 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    y’all should do a love them or leave them friendship version!! Too keep the friends? Or ditch them! 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @perrfectlypeach6168
    @perrfectlypeach6168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    NahNahNahNah I dead had a guy kiss my hand when I thought he was just gonna shake it. SMH sometimes it's hella unexpected.

  • @quanasialewis5675
    @quanasialewis5675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It crazy I been through the bf always working then come to find out he was seeing another girl.

  • @dominiquea5562
    @dominiquea5562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this video before it even started. I just already know it's 🔥

  • @michellejoseph382
    @michellejoseph382 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these videos, keep them coming. Your hair looks beautiful 😊

  • @SimplyBrit._.
    @SimplyBrit._. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I clicked immediately! ❤ or ✌
    😂#Notificationsquad #JISIGang

  • @LawlaS
    @LawlaS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes ....we need a Valentine day edition❤❤❤

  • @yasmins6864
    @yasmins6864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am loving the consistency!

  • @absolutebeautyxoxo
    @absolutebeautyxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The stalker one I would say love cuz tht was essie & Maurice...she did it to him & they’re bouta get married. It’s ok long as nobody died

  • @krystynco
    @krystynco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Love em or Leave em friendship edition: your friend partakes in drugs that you don't feel comfortable with

    • @diamy3320
      @diamy3320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Help them

    • @krystynco
      @krystynco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@diamy3320 what if they not taking it... so situation: best friend is going to a different school and she's smoking weed a lot (ik it's not all that bad but I don't like it) and she talks about doing more drugs that really are bad and I try to talk to her and she just blows me off and acts like it's not bad

    • @yric3334
      @yric3334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@krystynco sadly leave them i know its gunna hurt but if thats really not okay for you and their not taking your advice then just slowly drift away. Because it is her life and she can do whatever she wants but like isi said maybe you can love her from a distance.

    • @queenb7821
      @queenb7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Talk to them about it and if they don’t understand, leave and love em from AFAR!

    • @marleycymon3512
      @marleycymon3512 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@diamy3320 have a real talk in person ab it so they can see how much you're hurt ab this. if they continue to use them, leave them. they don't care enough ab you to change

  • @denayasfaith
    @denayasfaith 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yassss for the quality video.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 what camera do y’all use? 👀

  • @Kblaber
    @Kblaber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes please do Valentine's Day edition

  • @dustynwilson236
    @dustynwilson236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol i love Isi's laugh

  • @xenitadelange9377
    @xenitadelange9377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y'alls Love em or leave em's are always very interesting😊💞

  • @jakaylajohnson5099
    @jakaylajohnson5099 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    They switched sides and that’s really throwing me. 😂

  • @inuyashaMTV
    @inuyashaMTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do I always miss submitting my questions? I need HALLP 😭😭😂

  • @maliaalfredson7073
    @maliaalfredson7073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is beautiful!!!!! Is that a braid out??

  • @rachelatta-mensah2094
    @rachelatta-mensah2094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Isi 😍😍 I love your hair like this

  • @RyyDaBrat7
    @RyyDaBrat7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These love em or leave em are getting crazier every video lol and I'll watch every time #peacelovehairgrease

  • @kiaraldavis
    @kiaraldavis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Isi's laugh 😭

  • @rissaosman758
    @rissaosman758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great relationship video.... especially when u hear your question pop up 🙌

  • @neekneek0108
    @neekneek0108 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes to more of these videos! I really enjoy them 😁😁💖💖💖

  • @aishafye
    @aishafye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Isi when next are you getting jumbo braids😌

  • @sheayanafrederick3436
    @sheayanafrederick3436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yall are my fav ❤💞 but guess what I'm early 😉

  • @emenjim5667
    @emenjim5667 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yessss mine got featured 💕 love you both 💯

  • @briannarochez5814
    @briannarochez5814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yo Isi real life has me hollering😂😂😂😂