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Things as They Really Are

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  • Elder David A. Bednar warns of the harmful effects digital technologies can have on our souls and invites us to ask ourselves two questions to see if we are using these technologies properly.
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  • @DummyForceRed
    @DummyForceRed 12 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I'm so consumed with technology, that I miss opportunities that I'd actually remember.
    I so grateful for this message, I seriously needed to here this.

  • @JacobEnglish76
    @JacobEnglish76 12 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "To be encircled about eternally by the arms of the "Saviors" love will be a real and not a virtual experience!" So moving and powerful and true!

  • @NerdyEd
    @NerdyEd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As one who works in technology, I can say this is true and good advice, even for adults.

  • @debbiedoodle92
    @debbiedoodle92 10 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    wow, I cried while watching this...I am guilty of this. I want to change my ways...I owe it to my family members :'(

  • @danrosales7615
    @danrosales7615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This message was made 9 years ago, but the lesson is still needed right now than ever.

  • @serioussalad
    @serioussalad 12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love it! It definitely reminders us to unplug and tune into the spirit. Thanks Elder Bednar!!!

  • @ClaySummersMusic
    @ClaySummersMusic 13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey hey! That's me in this video! I'm so grateful for the oppurtunity I had to be a part of this project...the message is absolutely true. There is so much media and technology vying for our attention in this world, we have to be very careful with what we partake of, and be sure we are giving the proper attention to the things in life that REALLY matter!

  • @luismolleda9170
    @luismolleda9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This came at a perfect moment to instruct my son and review our own patterns as family.

  • @paulandcorde
    @paulandcorde 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I thought this was a great reminder to ALL of us when we are watching tv, movies, playing video games and such.

  • @moldisj
    @moldisj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The soundtrack in 1:25, the piano...so beautiful. And, most important, the speach.

  • @mrchosop
    @mrchosop 13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Last line gave me shivers.

  • @gordonbarnes3541
    @gordonbarnes3541 9 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Yep. Own a phone, but don't let the phone own you.

  • @Userjm7848
    @Userjm7848 10 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm atheist however I agree with some of the fundamentals

    • @JustinPratt1
      @JustinPratt1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts. This message seems to be universal, whether religious or not. We should not let technology consume our lives. It is a great tool to do a lot of good in the world, but when the tool owns us, it is no longer effective in its purpose. When it comes to our families and personal connections, technology can help bring us closer. However like shown in the video, can also, if used inappropriately, distance us from others.

    • @stephenbailinC7GS
      @stephenbailinC7GS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you will, as I have, use the statements he made to my benefit and change me.

  • @BoothsEurotrash
    @BoothsEurotrash 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You never really think about it until it is put into the perspective of the Gospel and how Heavenly Father views these things. I spend was too much time on my iPhone and FB... time to town it down.

  • @thigomes23
    @thigomes23 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To Be in the arms of His Love will be a real and not a virtual experience

  • @mrajclnlvmrgl3220
    @mrajclnlvmrgl3220 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Elder Bednar and to this video. Even I was 22, I was reminded again. Thank youu 🙂☺

  • @raisinbrandyn
    @raisinbrandyn 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for this mormonmessage! I love to watch these, they give me a new perspective on the things that really matter and help me live a happier life. I've started to make sure that I have read scriptures and done all the hw necessary for the nxt day before txting or facebook-ing. It has made such a difference in my life & blessed me with the Spirit to guide me in ways I wouldn't have imagined. The Gospel of Jesus Christ is true, I have felt it bless my life in so many ways. Thank you!

  • @steeltalon2011
    @steeltalon2011 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It comes down to self discipline and an understanding, as Elder Bednar clearly stated it, to not waste our time on this Earth.

  • @CheetahpawGaming
    @CheetahpawGaming 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    12 years... And it still applies to us now. Amen!

    • @strivetobe
      @strivetobe  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes!!

  • @BYUCougarFan31
    @BYUCougarFan31 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    seriously quickly became one of my favorite Mormon Messages

  • @pamweinberg1212
    @pamweinberg1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. My sons have this problem. They are good but, saddens my heart. They are in their twenties. Thank you 😊🙏😇

  • @noahclark7603
    @noahclark7603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The spirit is so powerful with these videos they always have been

  • @timothyriser5678
    @timothyriser5678 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This impact of this message will shift over the next decade, away from merely avoiding time-consuming media, to understanding and navigating the subtleties and dangers of increasingly immersive and "high fidelity" uses of media. Oculus Rift, GearVR, and other consumer virtual reality products are already here. Like William Gibson said, "The future is already here, it's just unevenly distributed." I am personally giddy with anticipation for coming wave of personalized education that the intersection of virtual reality & machine learning will make possible, but I find myself troubled about how I will teach my own kids about how to use virtual reality. Let's be clear: VR is NOT bad. But like Elder Bednar says, when rapid shifts occur, we have the responsibility to dig down and discover "things as they really are" so we don't misuse or find ourselves abusing new technologies.

    • @eS-ql7vm
      @eS-ql7vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quite the experience, reading this comment 5 years after it was written and contemplating all that has happened technology-wise in the intervening years.

  • @aiddld
    @aiddld 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to say that 15 years ago when there was no internet I read the scriptures and more lds books more more more than now. The video is true.

  • @justanotherhuber
    @justanotherhuber 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Technology is one of my favorite parts of living. But recently, much of my time has been spent on it. Now that summer is here, it has been hard to limit. Thank you Elder Bednar for helping me to reset my priorities.

  • @MickelsonBJ
    @MickelsonBJ 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate this video. This is an effective call for vigilance and balance in our lives. Grateful for Elder Bednar's inspired words.

  • @omiolo
    @omiolo 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    playing that video game with a little child present sent chills down my spine.

  • @scottandjamiet
    @scottandjamiet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mormon messages are awesome

  • @OSRS16
    @OSRS16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Elder Bednar and Strive to Be!

  • @210jenn
    @210jenn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is beautiful. Thank you for making these wonderful videos.

  • @sam1594788
    @sam1594788 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe this is true. I have been struggling to stay righteous on my devise so I plan to use it more sparingly and look after my brothers and sisters as I am supposed to. I believe this to be true and I hope I will listen to this and others who are having problems like me.

  • @AlexLopez0506
    @AlexLopez0506 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well, this is one of the very reasons why I'm happy I don't have a cell phone. That way I can enjoy more of what Our Heavenly Father has given me, and enjoy the lovely world He's created.

    • @musicaldrawing4808
      @musicaldrawing4808 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alix Human I don't own a smart phone, but I do own a tablet.. At least it's not a phone.

  • @tuesdaymacdonald
    @tuesdaymacdonald 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm going to show this to my brother.(He really needs the message)!!

  • @annyperez8565
    @annyperez8565 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is really true of what this elder says ;-)

  • @FASASUD
    @FASASUD 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sure that God gives us His love showing their voice warnings through his holy prophets, and the best way we can thank him for his great love is following the holy prophets of the Lord and be safe.

  • @chrisangel1401
    @chrisangel1401 12 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I should have watched this video at the beginning of summer! :( Oh well....life is about learning from your mistakes!

  • @davincent98
    @davincent98 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 31 years old, and this can help my generation as well. It might also explain why I am single...

  • @imhoLDS45
    @imhoLDS45 12 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Now I dont consider myself overly religious but I honestly cant say I see Jesus playing really much of any video games that I see out there (grand theft auto 4, call of duty mw2 [referring to the airport level]) i finally realized this plain and precious truth after 2 xbox live players were arguing (using words i dont dare repeat) over an issue of why our team lost, which seemed unimportant to me. All im trying to say is I

  • @islandgirlxx3465
    @islandgirlxx3465 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these short videos.

  • @PogonaPrincess94
    @PogonaPrincess94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not a very religious person, but this is accurate. Worked with technology for quite sometime and I do know when to go to a stopping point

  • @franciscoacuna8463
    @franciscoacuna8463 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great message.

  • @stopcompetingstartenjoying9175
    @stopcompetingstartenjoying9175 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    These words from this talk touched my soul, "Does the use of technology enlarge our capacity to love and serve in meaningful ways?" I believe it can if used wisely, which often means less time online and more time with people in hands on service.

  • @asuydguyasgbdkj
    @asuydguyasgbdkj 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is not just a video. It is an apostolic reminder and speech coming from the Apostle of the Lord.

  • @ambertoy3
    @ambertoy3 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU for making these videos, they help me in ways you cannot imagine. :) I can defin. spend less time on facebook! Thank you for the reminder, and for all of you who have put in so much hardwork to make this-thank you! it was not wasted!

  • @ingvildkvakestad
    @ingvildkvakestad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this technology is the only way I can talk to missonaries it also showed me evil I am working on avoiding that evil

  • @kewlestkidondablock
    @kewlestkidondablock 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I come here too often! But I cant help it...I love these videos. :3

  • @dextersurdu308
    @dextersurdu308 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a great message

  • @temporayhome
    @temporayhome 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've always known this, but when spelt out in this 'apostolic warning' it is a wake up call, time to exercise the 'power of choice'

  • @christianjohnson5379
    @christianjohnson5379 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Elder Bednar is definitely right. However none of us should mistake his counsel as saying: Don't do ANYTHING fun with technology, don't play video games or use apps, that's NOT what he's saying. He's simply telling us to put the more important things first, you can play your favorite video game...but don't let it take you from your relationship with God and your family.

  • @l8ndadgmail
    @l8ndadgmail 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great words of wisdom

  • @RcascadeD
    @RcascadeD 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was good and totally needed!

  • @MegWasHere2011
    @MegWasHere2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this video

  • @alessialynn7098
    @alessialynn7098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right now I’m doing a challenge to not use electronics for anything besides music and LDS stuff. I’ve have learned for this experiment. I would recommend it!

  • @delmorgan
    @delmorgan 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This a good warning!

  • @thundersheep001
    @thundersheep001 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so true ..thank you

  • @nwalter08
    @nwalter08 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    0:28 I love that game!

  • @megansimons1012
    @megansimons1012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am now going to close my laptop and go play with my little brother

  • @danceryetnerd
    @danceryetnerd 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so cool!

  • @ccconrad88
    @ccconrad88 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is not always the game that you play, but the length that you play it. If you feel the game is taking up too much time or the content is blocking the Spirit from your life than you must limit the play time or remove the game fully. It is a personal choice you must pray about.

  • @edwardnielsen2661
    @edwardnielsen2661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i appreciated this message, it said it in ways I could not. technology is good as long as like one other said we own it not it owning us.

  • @nessiehannasus4694
    @nessiehannasus4694 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good!!!

  • @jenfira
    @jenfira 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thumbs up! Great video!

  • @neotev
    @neotev 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very true... This video always makes me sad. Because I fall into this category . I am addicted to video games. Its because I use them to escape the world. Because I hate the way my life is going. No matter what I do I cant get out. I always come back. Please dont make the same mistakes I do. For it is a trap that you cannot get out of. I wish it were different but Its so hard. :(

  • @MissTracyf1
    @MissTracyf1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LIKE IT ! 100%

  • @yesiruelassings28
    @yesiruelassings28 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah, she went to school with me for a while :)

  • @MrBobmaloney
    @MrBobmaloney 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cindy, this is really good. Could you share it with the kids? Thanks.

  • @michellerowe9093
    @michellerowe9093 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love it

  • @gregoryfouriesa
    @gregoryfouriesa 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, especially for us, not sure how to use technology for good.

  • @qqwwerttyuiopp
    @qqwwerttyuiopp 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    scientists don't even have to make a mistake for science to be untrue! The scientific method is a process that does not necessary lead to absolute truth. Instead it leads to a hypothesis that we are not able to falsify. And ultimately this contributes to the fact that sciences changes so often. (even in principle). With the gospel however, we can be sure that the principles will never change!!! They never have!!

    • @raymondellis1454
      @raymondellis1454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your correct about science and the scientific process. The development of technology is riddled with errors that have cost people their lives. Recently it is driverless cars that haven killed people -- Science is powerful but not wise. We know from 1John that anyone who loves the world does not love the Father, and scientists love the world and for that reason have developed this God-less technology. If you like what I said here, see my post about the Song of Solomon.

  • @StillSpy
    @StillSpy 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good message

  • @scottmuck
    @scottmuck 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would never have watched this, or any of the other Mormon videos, if I wasn't in the habit of using technology. Technology is a great thing that betters our lives.

  • @skippymagrue
    @skippymagrue 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish they had shown the parents counciling their children about their media use.

  • @jasonfalcon
    @jasonfalcon 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was once addicted to video games and I wasted away much of my time. At that point in time I did not fully realize it until after I quit playing the games. If you want to truly know if you are addicted to a game consider your thoughts. When you are at church or in the temple are you focused on what is happening? Or are you thinking about what you want to do next in your game or which quest to complete? These are not thoughts coming from the Holy Ghost who should be present in such situations.

  • @huntersmith8586
    @huntersmith8586 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this on my phone while going ham on some memes....

  • @eldermacy2004
    @eldermacy2004 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    www.lds.org/ensign/2010/06/things-as-they-really-are?lang=eng
    Link to the talk^

  • @tinahartman392
    @tinahartman392 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch these everyday they are awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!⚡😀😀😀😀😀😀😅😅😎😎😂😂😂 oh and by the way I am a boy I'm on my mom's phone I am Mormon two

  • @jessicalockhart1792
    @jessicalockhart1792 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful video! Would anyone happen to know the song that starts playing at 1:26?

  • @Syberiyxx
    @Syberiyxx 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @slipknot80210
    1. Does it invite or impede the Holy Ghost?
    2. Does it enlarge or restrict your capacity to live, to love, and to serve?

  • @waynetalili6258
    @waynetalili6258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh wow!! the brother that is playing the video game, won't even pay attention to his little sister!!!😢😢😢

  • @toulest23
    @toulest23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like :)

  • @jordanforbes2557
    @jordanforbes2557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've played massacre war 3 it's alright, but not as good as massacre war 2. Lol, good video, and so true.

  • @takaylad.saengkeo5957
    @takaylad.saengkeo5957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The women that is the boys mom is one of my friends from Church

  • @lexinaylor4908
    @lexinaylor4908 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The funny thing is that I am listening to this at 10:00 at night on my phone. I should go to bed now

  • @rome492
    @rome492 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thack you i spend so much time on games i think ill stop now

  • @RainbowManification
    @RainbowManification 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @MKidYup that's what this is saying.

  • @abyucougar
    @abyucougar 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So what "video game" were you really "playing" (I think it was supposed to look like Modern Warfare 3 or something) or where you actually playing one?

  • @sk8erkenny
    @sk8erkenny ปีที่แล้ว

    amen

  • @ZionicKnight
    @ZionicKnight 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Irony, found this posted while surfing facebook too much.

  • @godfreylaureano
    @godfreylaureano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yep phone is good if you do in the right way

  • @michl2460
    @michl2460 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yet again, I can fly.

  • @RainbowManification
    @RainbowManification 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @LOGICandREAS0N He says that too, basically.

  • @gwantM
    @gwantM 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    @scottmuck You missed the point, he has nothing against free information or the knowledge on the web or technology or learning. His point is that some of these cool gadgets are nice to have and useful but dont let the entertainment factor consume your entire life, which honestly some people do, everyone has a friend who plays to much battlefield or call of doodie (or some other game)

  • @gob2011
    @gob2011 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @LOGICandREAS0N he says that "I am not even suggesting that all technology is bad."

  • @skyhiker9669
    @skyhiker9669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I deleted all the games on my phone and IPad. Don’t miss ‘em.

  • @dougvoice
    @dougvoice 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the 2 questions in this video are:1. Does the use of various technologies and media invite or impede the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost in your life?2. Does the time you spend using various technologies and media enlarge or restrict your capacity to live , to love to serve in meaningful ways??

  • @Khaztr
    @Khaztr 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmm, good video (and amazing talk), but it annoys me that the makers of it apparently either didn't really get the message or for some reason decided to try to expand the scope of Elder Bednar's message to non-"high fidelity" technology, as he puts it. The video shows the girl playing what appears to not the type of game or experience that Elder Bednar is referring to in his talk, and instead seems to focus on how time consuming portable media can be. 2 very different, but important, messages.

  • @parrafjavier
    @parrafjavier 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Las tecnologías podrán cambiar, mas no los principios del Evangelio..

  • @anotherkindofcold
    @anotherkindofcold 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @huttie2342 I agree with most of what you say, but the idea that it's 'just a game' isn't really true. My non-member brother, an Iraq and Afghanistan War veteran, told me that the option to kill innocent civilians in a CoD game, and reward for it, was disturbing; then, in RPGs, he finds himself choosing noble paths. I'm not saying someone is evil if they do those "dark" things in games, but it shows there are those who can't help project their "what if it WAS me," even subconsciously.

  • @AeronPrince
    @AeronPrince 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    i wonder, did you listen to the whole video, he does not say that science and technology are evil, he simply states that the contents of some electronic medias are distractions from it allowing you to be a positive influence. Does what you are doing edify you, improve you, and make you a better person? there are bad things that technology is used for, but it can and should be used for great good as well. you are allowed to think what you will. "Choose you this day" joshua 24:15

  • @josuepaepke7619
    @josuepaepke7619 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its so disappointing that there are not videos with spanish subtitles i wanted to show this to my brother who forgot that he have a family or even a relation with me rather than with his friends but he dont know english so its a problem to transmite this message as the message does....