It is very difficult to deal with, my Wife has extreme mood swings due to her bipolar and it feels like she doesn't care most of the time, it gets me down and makes me struggle with her mental illness, especially since she won't seek help and won't listen to me. She's also pregnant so that's even more tough, because it's affecting our child and it just feels like she's being immature and irresponsible and I feel I can't do anything about it.
If she’s pregnant I hate saying this but it might be best to separate for the time being pregnancy is going to trigger her mania and a bunch of other things when I was pregnant it felt like the world was crumbling down around me what she has it’s not easy and sometimes we feel like it’s easier to push people away because we don’t think we deserve them I hope you guys make it through this but pregnancy will definitely be tough just know that it’s not her anything that she’s already diagnosed with is going to be amplified
She's not meaning to be like this either it's not out of immaturity I'm terrified of going in and dealing with the pill cocktail experiment finding my mix bc a couple doses derailed me.. and when pregnant your emotions are already on the fritz adding THIS... it's a struggle for both of you, and just try to remember we want to be okay 100× more than you will know🩷
Going thru this right now😢this is very challenging and she threatens abrortion and throws temper tantrums. I didn’t even know she was diagnosed until after a rough couple of weeks
I have bipolar myself, and I am completely disgusted in the awful things I say to people. If you know someone who has bipolar, know that it’s not acceptable for them to treat you badly, but know that that doesn’t mean they don’t care about you.
They definitely don’t mean it I know it can be tough to deal with someone like that but if she’s constantly hurting your feelings on purpose that could be signs of some thing else as well I would just set up healthy boundaries and if she continues to disrespect you and then maybe that’s not a friendship you want to continue but just know it’s not easy for her in anyway shape or form sometimes we push away the people we love the most because we feel like we don’t deserve them and that’s when this disease gets dangerous because when we feel like we’re completely alone that’s when it becomes suicidal
My brother have it for years mom and dad trying to help he doing good but then he go down so far of control😢 and he is so sweet,then it turn a monster ,we don’t now how more we can help him
@@DK-sg3oewhy do people keep saying to avoid oil salt and sugar? Is it a joke or is there evidence that oil salt and sugar makes bipolar people /anyone worse?
i have bipolar type 2, and as i grow older i realize how much the world hates people like me. i feel alienated every day. but this video helped me feel better. thank you.
I’m bipolar and the best thing you could do if we start to argue is simple, you just Say oh you want to scream ? Im not commig down on your Level, talk when you Feel beter
Exactly, I hate using this comparison because we’re not children, but when you stay calm while another person is screaming or yelling, eventually that person will come back down and be ready to talk. Or if you really need to, just give us space! Even if we didn’t ask for it sometimes we want distance because we feel like we’ll hurt someone’s feelings even if we don’t outright say it. This is just what works for me but I’ve also been on medication since I’ve been diagnosed so thankfully I do know how to make myself come down, but just advice for those who don’t or has a friend who struggles with it as well! We’re not angry monsters, we’re people fighting against our own minds because our own brains are against us. We don’t mean to hurt the people we love or push them away, the best thing to do is to say “hey, I noticed you’re having symptoms of a manic episode and I know how they are for you, would you like to talk about it now or wait until you’re able to come down to talk?” Give them the option but make sure they talk about their feelings, bottling it up makes it WAY worse
@@BabyLove-il5uc it might, but that space and time will usually get them to calm down. Speaking from experience as a bipolar person (granted, I tend to shut down instead of hurl insults at people)
My boyfriend has Bipolarity and OCD, maybe a type of schizophrenia? He has a few good days and everything is wonderful, but then he has his bad days and he has angry outburts out of nowhere! He claims the most irrational things, like I'm cheating on him with some spirits in the astral plane- like are you serious??- and he really believes it! He can go on for hours calling me horrible names and even using things from my childhood to make fun of me and say even more hurtful things. His mom and grandma tell me I have to be patient and that I should just be supportive, but what about me? Is like he knows exactly what to say to just demolish my self-confidence and all my energy is depleted. Then a few hours after mental torture, he then apologizes, says he feels terrible and wants me to just act as nothing happens after he's been yelling to the top of his lungs all this horrible things and all I can do is close my eyes and cry. Then if I want to call it quits I'm unsupportive and selfish. Then I suggest therapy, meditation, couples therapy, and after the arguments is always a yes yes I'll do anything, I'll go, I don't want to lose you, but then when i actually make the appointments, I can't make him go, and the cycle starts all over again. I'm getting internally broken every passing day and I can't do anything about it to help him. I want to start helping me but without being accused of being non supportive or understanding. I'm a person too 😢.
My childs father is bipolar I believe... he didn't start to show it till after I got pregnant... its a very sad sight to see when he was in a rage. I tried my best to help and support him but he is in denial about it.. I pray he gets better
I think you should definitely recommend him for therapy as you can't sacrifice your mental health just to be supportive for him you need to help me professionally cause too much sus and all would make you more irritated.
They are incredibly hurtful. I’m trying to deal with the death of both of my parents, who are young, I’m trying to manage an entire house, a business, completely on my own and meet me. His swings have been affecting our nine-year-old daughter too. I’ve also expressed that she is showing signs in childhood bipolar disorder, and if she needs to take this dream, it would be beneficial for her if he takes it with her because he can understand in a way that I Cannot. I can only be so supportive. I am in therapy, her daughter starts her therapy again on Monday. But I really don’t know how much longer I can take this. He went through a two-year manic state already, but nearly killed me, and that was right before my father passed away and then four months later I lost my mom. how much can one person take. I love him with all my heart, but I need him to seek professional help. I am not a professional. And I told him I will be supportive, but I will not enable the bad behavior.
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I was told by my husband's mother that he is bipolar. He has told me he has ADHD but bipolar is what I believe he has because of his hurtful words and the things he makes up about...I couldn't even paint my own image of me to him. How can someone live every day in their mind and not want to get help.
He may have got told that his difficulties are invalid or irrational, so he started to adopt that mindset and doesn't see his behavior as problems. If you want him to change you'll have to show him somehow, how hurtful his behavior is and that it's serious business.
I had to deal with and put up with exactly those 3 things with my girlfriend whom I loved so much for 5 years, the hurtful words, things they made up about me also gaslighting out of no where and also me never being able to paint an image of myself to them, I quit, fk that shi, they would say that they don't mean the things they say but end of the day I'm a human being too and I want to be loved as well
My mother has bipolar and she can be so difficult sometimes. Especially when planning things she overcomplicates everything to the tiniest detail. And she cancels a lot due to it. I know it’s her mental illness it’s just hard. I feel like I can’t always be my true self around her.
But what if you do all this all the time and have been on a huge, long journey with them through addiction recovery, pre-diagnosis manic/depressive/suicidal episodes, then diagnosis, and then they reject any treatment after one week of being on meds? Then they have a deep low and insanely high cycle and expect you to be there for them? I’m exhausted.
You just have to deal with it my mom died so I live with my Grandma and she’s Bipolar she says hurtful things and yells at me everyday and even tried to punch me one time it’s alright just don’t let their hurtful words bring u down just ignore them and say ur better that’s how I cope!
@@L3onaluvsu Yeah, don’t let it get to you. That’s amazing that you can love your gma for her and know that she isn’t her disorder. Stay strong, prayers💜
Don't take it personally. I know that's difficult but try to seprate the hurtful words from the person and know they really don't mean it. Try to also encourage therapy and when they aren't manic or depressive be honest with you feelings and communicate them in a way that won't harm them :)
it's not them. They don't mean it. My mom has Bipolar Disorder, when she's manic, she loves me, treasures me, compliments me, when she's irritable, she can't even see my face, whenever she's fine she apologizes and feels guilty and ashamed for how she behaved. You learn to understand that it's not personal, it's not true, and that those words aren't intended... tough, I know, but that's just how I see it
My mom just got diagnosed and it’s so hard for me to deal with I wanna cry every day I see her and everytime I talk to her it’s so hard because I know she’s not the same , but I have to keep it together for my little brothers
This comment section proves to me that people will always view those with mental disorders less than them. Having bpd and bipolar depression and ptsd, yes I've said and done hurtful things and ive worked everyday for many years to be better. Lack of support makes things way worse. If youre going to come here to be negative, take it somewhere else.
Most mental people don't believe they're mentally ill. I've been diagnosed for 4 years and I still don't fully believe. There will be times where I say or do something off and then it's like "hmm maybe they right"😂😭
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I know exactly how you feel, they could be so fkn cold, hurtful words, making things up about me, gaslighting out of nowhere, and me not being able to paint an image of myself to her. I dealt with her for 5 years, I quit, fk that shit, I loved her alot tho, but I'm human too and I wanna be loved so this could not drag on any longer. You must be ready to put your life on the line with these type of people, I thought I could do it but I have a lot of honour and her hurtful words was too much for me even tho she would say she didn't mean them.
My sister at the moment has spent over $6000 in a week now she’s wanting to go over the mess she’s created loosing your money and your mind is horrifying
By doing this , I’ve been doing this for more than 21 years my mother has bipolar with episodes of schizophrenia that’s not full-blown schizophrenia just little episodes and the evil she works against me her youngest son now 54 years old and I’m her legal guardian and she’s continually trying to turn me in for elder abuse trying to get a restraining order against my wife who is also her legal guardian that the judge threw out and she just caught Old Colony trying to do it again there are police reports in my favor because there is no elder abuse on my behalf it’s just Elder abuse on my wife by my mother !
My boyfriend have been over protective, over possesive, and has shown almost all the signs of a toxic person as he even tried to isolate me from my family and friends too.. Finally i put an end to the relationship... But now he is constantly apologizing and saying he has bipolar disorder and those toxic traits were'nt his personality and those were because of the disorder.. And he also says that now he is taking medication and will never be toxic.. Should i believe that??.. Someone please give an advice...😢
Even if he's taking medicines it doesn't guarantee that they'll be okay. Those episodes could come back anytime. I am saying this because my sister is bipolar and it gets worse as they age. They don't mean what they say to you during the episodes but the experience could really give their caretaker a trauma for life.
As someone with bipolar myself, it almost sounds to me like he used the bipolar as an excuse, but idk the whole story and only what you wrote so it’s just my assumption. But I would honestly let him go and tell him that you’ll be there to support him but that you’re not comfortable with a relationship because of actions in the past. We don’t mean the things we say but my episodes aren’t going to be like his, where his are more toxic, mine are more apologetic and I tell myself I’m a horrible person even if I didn’t do anything wrong. It definitely presents itself differently for everyone. I wish you luck in life and I hope you find someone who’ll love you and won’t feel like they have to apologize like this and will apologize immediately after they’ve done something to hurt your feelings. It’s horrible having bipolar, but I’ve found ways I can manage episodes or make them shorter. My meds have really helped a lot and I’ve found coping mechanisms I can use throughout the day to help me calm down if I feel like I’ll go into a manic state. Again, I wish you SO much luck and happiness in your future and you’ll find the one for you! Bipolar sucks, but thankfully with the right help, someday he’ll be able to manage it better and who knows, maybe you can try again. But for now I would lay low and just try to stay friends, I hope this helps! :)
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@@Elizabeth-yx2tiI'm feeling the same way too. I put too much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety level. I am so glad to be part of this community.
Used to stay up all the time. I liked to say, " Ill sleep when I'm dead! I just spent all my time in my room sleeping 18 hours a day. In my 50's everything changed, now I love to sleep. Spending sprees are ok now because I dont use credit anymore.
I have a loved one who I believe is bi-polar. It’s been challenging in our relationship. I’m doing the best I can to be supportive but, they make stupid decisions & have high’s & lows.
The crazy thing about medicine in my opinion is there could be a bunch of diseases or disorders with the same symptoms it definitely can be confusing to figure out which is which. Think therapy should be a mandatory thing. Alot of us are carrying issues and we dont know how to deal. Smh this was literally me all my life. And I knew something was wrong with me. It took me discovering adhd for me to go to Therapy. And now I show signs of bipolar and may not even be adhd at all. So its just crazy to me how symptoms could be a lot of different things
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Hello please help and guide my nephew has deafness adhd and bipolar mood disorder he becomes very violent , his parents are unable to handle him now a days very tough please suggest any good intitute or ngo where he can admitted for long term without parenting support for better care . We are helpless now unable to find any here in india . Pls help suggest whatever u can
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Some illnesses are not always seen, therefore some disabilities are blind. Like myself having bipolar. I do not look like it. My mind is like a horrific battlefield. Im left exhausted still in bed for days now. I come out shining as a non union actress & model grandchildren and children. I choose suffer in silence not wanting to bother anybody with how much I do suffer minute after minute hour after hour. It’s really preventing from living a normally life. As much as I am aware I have much to loved ones being beautiful is not enough. My mind makes my life ugly. I look forward to to just end of my racing exhausting mind. I feel dead already inside. Bipolar depression is God awful and I wouldn’t want to wish it upon anyone ever.😢
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it is really hard specially in depressive episode feels like hopeless loss energy and activities and in mania u will talk too much easily distracted forget what u are doing oh god why u made this evil deasease lifelong i cant handle anymore what happened if will live 80 years old because this desease will stay till death
Because we’re not monsters??? I get that it’s tough dealing with someone with bipolar, but I feel like some people in the comments are making us out to be monsters when we can’t help that our moods change and that we need help regulating that. I understand that sometimes they may say hurtful things but please remember they don’t mean it and they’re most likely in a manic state of mind and will apologize or see how their episodes effect everyone. Please don’t paint us in that light because all I want is to live a normal life and have a happy relationship and I understand that you may feel that we’re dangerous because of mood swings but that is NOT the case.
@@itscc2004 that’s funny. Because the best I’ve ever gotten was the “i’M sOrRy YoU fEeL tHaT wAy” non apology. You fucking people behave however you want and get away with it. I’m passed sick of tired of “mood swings” being an excuse for ignorant shit like breaking dishes and hurling around borderline racial slurs. If I behaved a fraction of the way you people do, I’d be hauled off in handcuffs. I’ve heard all the excuses and I’m over it
@@itscc2004the only difference is monster have control of being monsters. Regardless if you choose to act that way or not, someone doesn’t have to put up with it. People who have the disorder hate it for themselves, how do you think others that have to put up with it feel 🙄. I think bipolar people should date each other for numerous reasons, the only downside is they’ll probably just produce more bipolar hell spawn 👹.
My dad uses this to be a disgusting person, I am also bi polar but my dad has always used it to be a monster I’m here to understand what makes him diffeeent
I actually haven't got in a bad mood in my career since I started using dmtcroop40 this month I don't experience pains,Bipolar,PTSD,depression,anxiety and other mental disorders. She gives the best diagnosis and psychedelic
Bipolar is more frantic in these changes and can happen for sometimes no reason at all, sometimes ya just wake up on the wrong side of the bed, it’s like that except we can’t control it sometimes and I’ll always recommend therapy (coming from someone with bipolar)
I’m sorry but bipolar ruins not only the person suffering from it but also those who are married or dating them. Truly! This is why 90% of marriages fall apart if one spouse has bipolar. I didn’t know that anything was even wrong with him until 10 years into our relationship. And then of course the kids can inherit it and you can’t divorce them! It’s terrible. And you can always find videos on how to help those people with that mental illness but you seldom hear about the spouses and other loved ones that have to deal and cope with it and how it destroys them as the spouse or caregiver.
@@ilikesquirrels9039you shouldn’t rest your case there. I’m someone with bipolar and it’s really tough to deal with but we do end up getting though it, it just takes time. While everyone experiences it differently in their own way with their own episodes, having a pessimistic outlook on people like this further raises a stigma that we’re bad people that can’t hold a proper relationship. Yes it does effect people around them as well, but you have to understand that just because someone is bipolar doesn’t mean their marriage will fail completely. I would offer couples therapy or a family therapist if things get really bad. I understand where you’re coming from but remember that it’s something that not only the person with bipolar has to get help with, but the family as well. Idk, I know you may not have meant it in a condescending way but how you answered the other person and said “I rest my case” when they seemed fearful because they have bipolar and OCD I do t think was the right move. I’m just giving you some insight from someone who has bipolar and has been struggling with it. It seems like we don’t care but we really do, we don’t want to push the people we love away, it’s also not a disease, you can’t spread bipolar or necessarily cure it but it can be helped. Just saying maybe word it differently next time. Have a great day! :)
Hi! To anyone reading this comment and feeling discouraged, I have diagnosed bipolar and have a very happy, loving, healthy marriage. It is possible and not as uncommon as some might think. I understand that every individual's symptoms and situations differ, but I wanted to let you know that bipolar does not inherently mean a failed relationship if you've got the right foundation, support, and treatment. If bipolar disorder is causing a trouble in your relationship or someone could benefit from additional support, there are free support groups and communities for loved ones of those with bipolar disorder.
Hey, I have it too and I care, you’re never alone just always remember that you’ll have support! Our own brains are against us and we’re just struggling to get by, I know you know we don’t mean to hurt people. The best we can do is understand that this is what we live with, we won’t let it take over our lives, and it won’t make us stop living a happy and fulfilling life! I know it’s tough and it’s scary, but we’ve got this! We’re allowed to feel the way we feel but we should always apologize if we hurt someone’s feelings. I hate having it, but it’s apart of me now and I’ve learned I’m allowed to take the lead and learn how to come down from mania and how to blossom into an amazing adult! It’s okay to feel the way you do, I just want you to know you’ll have support and that you’re allowed to take the reigns back!
The adult with bipolar is unreasonable angry violent delusional. How do you talk to someone who is not in the real world. Your advice is lightweight & not helpful.
First off, that did come off as a little ride, just wanted to let you know. Second, my advice would be to find a therapist or a counselor and have them intervene. If it gets to that point than they need an intervention either with a counselor or maybe trying medication. Please understand that we’re not monsters or crazy people, our own minds are against us and we’re just trying to get by, we don’t want to hurt anyone and that is the last thing I want truthfully. But if you really want actual, good advice, I would start looking at counseling or therapy. I understand if you’ve tried everything and just want to give up, it’s okay to walk away, but please don’t put it like you did in your comment because this paints us all like this when that’s not true.
You’ve gotta click the three dots in the top right corner but why wouldn’t you want to understand how someone who could possibly be in your life has to deal daily with their own brain. If anything, I hope they keep recommending it so you continue to learn more so maybe one day you’ll be able to help Someone
It is very difficult to deal with, my Wife has extreme mood swings due to her bipolar and it feels like she doesn't care most of the time, it gets me down and makes me struggle with her mental illness, especially since she won't seek help and won't listen to me. She's also pregnant so that's even more tough, because it's affecting our child and it just feels like she's being immature and irresponsible and I feel I can't do anything about it.
If she’s pregnant I hate saying this but it might be best to separate for the time being pregnancy is going to trigger her mania and a bunch of other things when I was pregnant it felt like the world was crumbling down around me what she has it’s not easy and sometimes we feel like it’s easier to push people away because we don’t think we deserve them I hope you guys make it through this but pregnancy will definitely be tough just know that it’s not her anything that she’s already diagnosed with is going to be amplified
She's not meaning to be like this either it's not out of immaturity I'm terrified of going in and dealing with the pill cocktail experiment finding my mix bc a couple doses derailed me.. and when pregnant your emotions are already on the fritz adding THIS... it's a struggle for both of you, and just try to remember we want to be okay 100× more than you will know🩷
Going thru this right now😢this is very challenging and she threatens abrortion and throws temper tantrums. I didn’t even know she was diagnosed until after a rough couple of weeks
I promise I can help. I have been through this before.
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I have bipolar myself, and I am completely disgusted in the awful things I say to people. If you know someone who has bipolar, know that it’s not acceptable for them to treat you badly, but know that that doesn’t mean they don’t care about you.
Same
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IM BOTH bipolar AND OCD
@@ughugh-q7l Same! I was diagnosed with both OCD and bipolar too.
At least you actually take accountability for your behavior
I wish you and your family strength.
My mom is bipolar and she does lots of crazy things and when we tell her something she disrespects us
Thanks for raising awareness about mental health
My friend is bipolar and she’s been hurting my feelings constantly and it almost feels like she’s playing with my feelinds
Ditch her. My friend does this shit to me all the time and I’m tired of it.
Ask her to avoid oil salt n sugar absolutely she has genetic intolerance toward these
They don’t mean it, it’s hard not to take it personally but if u feel u can’t handle it it’s ok to walk away
They definitely don’t mean it I know it can be tough to deal with someone like that but if she’s constantly hurting your feelings on purpose that could be signs of some thing else as well I would just set up healthy boundaries and if she continues to disrespect you and then maybe that’s not a friendship you want to continue but just know it’s not easy for her in anyway shape or form sometimes we push away the people we love the most because we feel like we don’t deserve them and that’s when this disease gets dangerous because when we feel like we’re completely alone that’s when it becomes suicidal
My pregnant girlfriend is putting me thru it!!!! I wish I had know she was bipolar when I met her
My brother have it for years mom and dad trying to help he doing good but then he go down so far of control😢 and he is so sweet,then it turn a monster ,we don’t now how more we can help him
Avoid oil salt sugar
@@DK-sg3oewhy do people keep saying to avoid oil salt and sugar? Is it a joke or is there evidence that oil salt and sugar makes bipolar people /anyone worse?
i have bipolar type 2, and as i grow older i realize how much the world hates people like me. i feel alienated every day. but this video helped me feel better. thank you.
I’m bipolar and the best thing you could do if we start to argue is simple, you just Say oh you want to scream ? Im not commig down on your Level, talk when you Feel beter
Exactly, I hate using this comparison because we’re not children, but when you stay calm while another person is screaming or yelling, eventually that person will come back down and be ready to talk. Or if you really need to, just give us space! Even if we didn’t ask for it sometimes we want distance because we feel like we’ll hurt someone’s feelings even if we don’t outright say it. This is just what works for me but I’ve also been on medication since I’ve been diagnosed so thankfully I do know how to make myself come down, but just advice for those who don’t or has a friend who struggles with it as well! We’re not angry monsters, we’re people fighting against our own minds because our own brains are against us. We don’t mean to hurt the people we love or push them away, the best thing to do is to say “hey, I noticed you’re having symptoms of a manic episode and I know how they are for you, would you like to talk about it now or wait until you’re able to come down to talk?” Give them the option but make sure they talk about their feelings, bottling it up makes it WAY worse
That would piss most people more😆😭
@@BabyLove-il5uc it might, but that space and time will usually get them to calm down. Speaking from experience as a bipolar person (granted, I tend to shut down instead of hurl insults at people)
My boyfriend has Bipolarity and OCD, maybe a type of schizophrenia? He has a few good days and everything is wonderful, but then he has his bad days and he has angry outburts out of nowhere! He claims the most irrational things, like I'm cheating on him with some spirits in the astral plane- like are you serious??- and he really believes it! He can go on for hours calling me horrible names and even using things from my childhood to make fun of me and say even more hurtful things. His mom and grandma tell me I have to be patient and that I should just be supportive, but what about me? Is like he knows exactly what to say to just demolish my self-confidence and all my energy is depleted. Then a few hours after mental torture, he then apologizes, says he feels terrible and wants me to just act as nothing happens after he's been yelling to the top of his lungs all this horrible things and all I can do is close my eyes and cry. Then if I want to call it quits I'm unsupportive and selfish. Then I suggest therapy, meditation, couples therapy, and after the arguments is always a yes yes I'll do anything, I'll go, I don't want to lose you, but then when i actually make the appointments, I can't make him go, and the cycle starts all over again. I'm getting internally broken every passing day and I can't do anything about it to help him. I want to start helping me but without being accused of being non supportive or understanding. I'm a person too 😢.
My childs father is bipolar I believe... he didn't start to show it till after I got pregnant... its a very sad sight to see when he was in a rage. I tried my best to help and support him but he is in denial about it.. I pray he gets better
I think you should definitely recommend him for therapy as you can't sacrifice your mental health just to be supportive for him you need to help me professionally cause too much sus and all would make you more irritated.
They are incredibly hurtful. I’m trying to deal with the death of both of my parents, who are young, I’m trying to manage an entire house, a business, completely on my own and meet me. His swings have been affecting our nine-year-old daughter too. I’ve also expressed that she is showing signs in childhood bipolar disorder, and if she needs to take this dream, it would be beneficial for her if he takes it with her because he can understand in a way that I Cannot. I can only be so supportive. I am in therapy, her daughter starts her therapy again on Monday. But I really don’t know how much longer I can take this. He went through a two-year manic state already, but nearly killed me, and that was right before my father passed away and then four months later I lost my mom. how much can one person take. I love him with all my heart, but I need him to seek professional help. I am not a professional. And I told him I will be supportive, but I will not enable the bad behavior.
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@@PsychHub i have thank you
I was told by my husband's mother that he is bipolar. He has told me he has ADHD but bipolar is what I believe he has because of his hurtful words and the things he makes up about...I couldn't even paint my own image of me to him. How can someone live every day in their mind and not want to get help.
Avoid oil sugar n salt for him simple do that ❤
He may have got told that his difficulties are invalid or irrational, so he started to adopt that mindset and doesn't see his behavior as problems.
If you want him to change you'll have to show him somehow, how hurtful his behavior is and that it's serious business.
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren my mother has the same mentality. It’s basically “tolerate my ignorant behavior or get the fuck out”.
I want help extremely bad but it's too much. I can't pay 250 monthly for meds
I had to deal with and put up with exactly those 3 things with my girlfriend whom I loved so much for 5 years, the hurtful words, things they made up about me also gaslighting out of no where and also me never being able to paint an image of myself to them, I quit, fk that shi, they would say that they don't mean the things they say but end of the day I'm a human being too and I want to be loved as well
My mother has bipolar and she can be so difficult sometimes. Especially when planning things she overcomplicates everything to the tiniest detail. And she cancels a lot due to it. I know it’s her mental illness it’s just hard. I feel like I can’t always be my true self around her.
But what if you do all this all the time and have been on a huge, long journey with them through addiction recovery, pre-diagnosis manic/depressive/suicidal episodes, then diagnosis, and then they reject any treatment after one week of being on meds? Then they have a deep low and insanely high cycle and expect you to be there for them? I’m exhausted.
They hurt your feelings tho. How does one cope? They’ll keep hurting you if you allow
You just have to deal with it my mom died so I live with my Grandma and she’s Bipolar she says hurtful things and yells at me everyday and even tried to punch me one time it’s alright just don’t let their hurtful words bring u down just ignore them and say ur better that’s how I cope!
@HistoryBuff I’m 13 I can’t just move away :/
@@L3onaluvsu Yeah, don’t let it get to you. That’s amazing that you can love your gma for her and know that she isn’t her disorder. Stay strong, prayers💜
Don't take it personally. I know that's difficult but try to seprate the hurtful words from the person and know they really don't mean it. Try to also encourage therapy and when they aren't manic or depressive be honest with you feelings and communicate them in a way that won't harm them :)
it's not them. They don't mean it. My mom has Bipolar Disorder, when she's manic, she loves me, treasures me, compliments me, when she's irritable, she can't even see my face, whenever she's fine she apologizes and feels guilty and ashamed for how she behaved. You learn to understand that it's not personal, it's not true, and that those words aren't intended... tough, I know, but that's just how I see it
My mom just got diagnosed and it’s so hard for me to deal with I wanna cry every day I see her and everytime I talk to her it’s so hard because I know she’s not the same , but I have to keep it together for my little brothers
This comment section proves to me that people will always view those with mental disorders less than them. Having bpd and bipolar depression and ptsd, yes I've said and done hurtful things and ive worked everyday for many years to be better. Lack of support makes things way worse. If youre going to come here to be negative, take it somewhere else.
How can we support them mentally when the person with bipolar always refuse that he/she is suffering from mental illness.....they never admit it
Most mental people don't believe they're mentally ill. I've been diagnosed for 4 years and I still don't fully believe. There will be times where I say or do something off and then it's like "hmm maybe they right"😂😭
I have bipolar. I really don't know what to do 😔😭
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hope you’re doing alright, hope you can take your bipolar one day at a time & get the help you need.
Hey it's ok
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just got left by my girlfriend of a year in a half because of her bipolar she has nothing in her soul so heartless i’m lost in life now
I know exactly how you feel, they could be so fkn cold, hurtful words, making things up about me, gaslighting out of nowhere, and me not being able to paint an image of myself to her. I dealt with her for 5 years, I quit, fk that shit, I loved her alot tho, but I'm human too and I wanna be loved so this could not drag on any longer. You must be ready to put your life on the line with these type of people, I thought I could do it but I have a lot of honour and her hurtful words was too much for me even tho she would say she didn't mean them.
My sister at the moment has spent over $6000 in a week now she’s wanting to go over the mess she’s created loosing your money and your mind is horrifying
By doing this , I’ve been doing this for more than 21 years my mother has bipolar with episodes of schizophrenia that’s not full-blown schizophrenia just little episodes and the evil she works against me her youngest son now 54 years old and I’m her legal guardian and she’s continually trying to turn me in for elder abuse trying to get a restraining order against my wife who is also her legal guardian that the judge threw out and she just caught Old Colony trying to do it again there are police reports in my favor because there is no elder abuse on my behalf it’s just Elder abuse on my wife by my mother !
My boyfriend have been over protective, over possesive, and has shown almost all the signs of a toxic person as he even tried to isolate me from my family and friends too.. Finally i put an end to the relationship... But now he is constantly apologizing and saying he has bipolar disorder and those toxic traits were'nt his personality and those were because of the disorder.. And he also says that now he is taking medication and will never be toxic.. Should i believe that??.. Someone please give an advice...😢
I’d say no imo, if u want to give it another shot while he’s on meds go for it! But if it doesn’t turn out so great dump him again
Especially not being married yet, i think uou should find someone safer for you. Think about if you had kids in the future.
Even if he's taking medicines it doesn't guarantee that they'll be okay. Those episodes could come back anytime. I am saying this because my sister is bipolar and it gets worse as they age. They don't mean what they say to you during the episodes but the experience could really give their caretaker a trauma for life.
As someone with bipolar myself, it almost sounds to me like he used the bipolar as an excuse, but idk the whole story and only what you wrote so it’s just my assumption. But I would honestly let him go and tell him that you’ll be there to support him but that you’re not comfortable with a relationship because of actions in the past. We don’t mean the things we say but my episodes aren’t going to be like his, where his are more toxic, mine are more apologetic and I tell myself I’m a horrible person even if I didn’t do anything wrong. It definitely presents itself differently for everyone. I wish you luck in life and I hope you find someone who’ll love you and won’t feel like they have to apologize like this and will apologize immediately after they’ve done something to hurt your feelings. It’s horrible having bipolar, but I’ve found ways I can manage episodes or make them shorter. My meds have really helped a lot and I’ve found coping mechanisms I can use throughout the day to help me calm down if I feel like I’ll go into a manic state. Again, I wish you SO much luck and happiness in your future and you’ll find the one for you! Bipolar sucks, but thankfully with the right help, someday he’ll be able to manage it better and who knows, maybe you can try again. But for now I would lay low and just try to stay friends, I hope this helps! :)
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Used to stay up all the time. I liked to say, " Ill sleep when I'm dead! I just spent all my time in my room sleeping 18 hours a day. In my 50's everything changed, now I love to sleep. Spending sprees are ok now because I dont use credit anymore.
I don’t have Bipolar and sometimes I get mad for no reason. It sucks
I have a loved one who I believe is bi-polar. It’s been challenging in our relationship. I’m doing the best I can to be supportive but, they make stupid decisions & have high’s & lows.
The crazy thing about medicine in my opinion is there could be a bunch of diseases or disorders with the same symptoms it definitely can be confusing to figure out which is which. Think therapy should be a mandatory thing. Alot of us are carrying issues and we dont know how to deal. Smh this was literally me all my life. And I knew something was wrong with me. It took me discovering adhd for me to go to Therapy. And now I show signs of bipolar and may not even be adhd at all. So its just crazy to me how symptoms could be a lot of different things
When i am in high i stop my med again i get depressed again i start med..
It is very hard to cope with this mood swings..
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@@PsychHub i didnt found links for treatment
@@easyway7308 For information on how to find support and treatment, and hotlines for specific issues and audiences, visit psychhub.com/resources/hotline.
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especially when you don’t want those mood shifts and your trying to be normal but you can’t
This is informative 👏
Being family of a person with bipolar disorder is hard and life consuming and honestly they’re usually so abusive. No one wants to live that way.
My episodes are becoming worse
What do I do?
Get some professional help please I hope you get well ❤
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Very well said. 👍
Hello please help and guide my nephew has deafness adhd and bipolar mood disorder he becomes very violent , his parents are unable to handle him now a days very tough please suggest any good intitute or ngo where he can admitted for long term without parenting support for better care . We are helpless now unable to find any here in india . Pls help suggest whatever u can
I’m bipolar and im so bad at routine tasks
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Go to an asylum
My bipolar 1 sucks.
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Some illnesses are not always seen, therefore some disabilities are blind.
Like myself having bipolar. I do not look like it. My mind is like a horrific battlefield. Im left exhausted still in bed for days now. I come out shining as a non union actress & model grandchildren and children.
I choose suffer in silence not wanting to bother anybody with how much I do suffer minute after minute hour after hour. It’s really preventing from living a normally life. As much as I am aware I have much to loved ones being beautiful is not enough. My mind makes my life ugly. I look forward to to just end of my racing exhausting mind. I feel dead already inside. Bipolar depression is God awful and I wouldn’t want to wish it upon anyone ever.😢
I also have bipolar ,no one helping me, working place,with foreigner worker,they don't know, Myanmar,Nepal , Bangla, laughing at me
I don't really know if I have this and I just want someone to talk to
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I heard they switched from straight to queen is that true.
No and I don’t think anyone knows what that means
it is really hard specially in depressive episode feels like hopeless loss energy and activities and in mania u will talk too much easily distracted forget what u are doing oh god why u made this evil deasease lifelong i cant handle anymore what happened if will live 80 years old because this desease will stay till death
When are they going to make one on how to defend yourself from these people?
Because we’re not monsters??? I get that it’s tough dealing with someone with bipolar, but I feel like some people in the comments are making us out to be monsters when we can’t help that our moods change and that we need help regulating that. I understand that sometimes they may say hurtful things but please remember they don’t mean it and they’re most likely in a manic state of mind and will apologize or see how their episodes effect everyone. Please don’t paint us in that light because all I want is to live a normal life and have a happy relationship and I understand that you may feel that we’re dangerous because of mood swings but that is NOT the case.
@@itscc2004 that’s funny. Because the best I’ve ever gotten was the “i’M sOrRy YoU fEeL tHaT wAy” non apology. You fucking people behave however you want and get away with it. I’m passed sick of tired of “mood swings” being an excuse for ignorant shit like breaking dishes and hurling around borderline racial slurs. If I behaved a fraction of the way you people do, I’d be hauled off in handcuffs. I’ve heard all the excuses and I’m over it
@@itscc2004the only difference is monster have control of being monsters. Regardless if you choose to act that way or not, someone doesn’t have to put up with it. People who have the disorder hate it for themselves, how do you think others that have to put up with it feel 🙄. I think bipolar people should date each other for numerous reasons, the only downside is they’ll probably just produce more bipolar hell spawn 👹.
Yes
My dad side of the family is bipolar my brother and my dad and uncles is
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My dad uses this to be a disgusting person, I am also bi polar but my dad has always used it to be a monster I’m here to understand what makes him diffeeent
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Doesn’t everyone change moods throughout the day?
Bipolar is more frantic in these changes and can happen for sometimes no reason at all, sometimes ya just wake up on the wrong side of the bed, it’s like that except we can’t control it sometimes and I’ll always recommend therapy (coming from someone with bipolar)
I’m sorry but bipolar ruins not only the person suffering from it but also those who are married or dating them. Truly! This is why 90% of marriages fall apart if one spouse has bipolar. I didn’t know that anything was even wrong with him until 10 years into our relationship. And then of course the kids can inherit it and you can’t divorce them! It’s terrible. And you can always find videos on how to help those people with that mental illness but you seldom hear about the spouses and other loved ones that have to deal and cope with it and how it destroys them as the spouse or caregiver.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IM BOTH bipolar AND OCD
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IM BOTH bipolar AND OCD
I rest my case.
@@ilikesquirrels9039you shouldn’t rest your case there. I’m someone with bipolar and it’s really tough to deal with but we do end up getting though it, it just takes time. While everyone experiences it differently in their own way with their own episodes, having a pessimistic outlook on people like this further raises a stigma that we’re bad people that can’t hold a proper relationship. Yes it does effect people around them as well, but you have to understand that just because someone is bipolar doesn’t mean their marriage will fail completely. I would offer couples therapy or a family therapist if things get really bad. I understand where you’re coming from but remember that it’s something that not only the person with bipolar has to get help with, but the family as well. Idk, I know you may not have meant it in a condescending way but how you answered the other person and said “I rest my case” when they seemed fearful because they have bipolar and OCD I do t think was the right move. I’m just giving you some insight from someone who has bipolar and has been struggling with it. It seems like we don’t care but we really do, we don’t want to push the people we love away, it’s also not a disease, you can’t spread bipolar or necessarily cure it but it can be helped. Just saying maybe word it differently next time. Have a great day! :)
Hi! To anyone reading this comment and feeling discouraged, I have diagnosed bipolar and have a very happy, loving, healthy marriage. It is possible and not as uncommon as some might think. I understand that every individual's symptoms and situations differ, but I wanted to let you know that bipolar does not inherently mean a failed relationship if you've got the right foundation, support, and treatment. If bipolar disorder is causing a trouble in your relationship or someone could benefit from additional support, there are free support groups and communities for loved ones of those with bipolar disorder.
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I have this ,but no one cares😢😢
Hey, I have it too and I care, you’re never alone just always remember that you’ll have support! Our own brains are against us and we’re just struggling to get by, I know you know we don’t mean to hurt people. The best we can do is understand that this is what we live with, we won’t let it take over our lives, and it won’t make us stop living a happy and fulfilling life! I know it’s tough and it’s scary, but we’ve got this! We’re allowed to feel the way we feel but we should always apologize if we hurt someone’s feelings. I hate having it, but it’s apart of me now and I’ve learned I’m allowed to take the lead and learn how to come down from mania and how to blossom into an amazing adult! It’s okay to feel the way you do, I just want you to know you’ll have support and that you’re allowed to take the reigns back!
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Wtf freeze everything is all hunkydoorie
Bro plankton from spongebob represents this 💀
OH MY GOD I HAVE OCD AND THIS TOO
The adult with bipolar is unreasonable angry violent delusional. How do you talk to someone who is not in the real world. Your advice is lightweight & not helpful.
First off, that did come off as a little ride, just wanted to let you know. Second, my advice would be to find a therapist or a counselor and have them intervene. If it gets to that point than they need an intervention either with a counselor or maybe trying medication. Please understand that we’re not monsters or crazy people, our own minds are against us and we’re just trying to get by, we don’t want to hurt anyone and that is the last thing I want truthfully. But if you really want actual, good advice, I would start looking at counseling or therapy. I understand if you’ve tried everything and just want to give up, it’s okay to walk away, but please don’t put it like you did in your comment because this paints us all like this when that’s not true.
@@itscc2004 say whatever you want. It’s not a free pass to behave however you want and get away with it
This is not helpful at all
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Never recommend me this content on this subject ever again, thank you.
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why.
You’ve gotta click the three dots in the top right corner but why wouldn’t you want to understand how someone who could possibly be in your life has to deal daily with their own brain. If anything, I hope they keep recommending it so you continue to learn more so maybe one day you’ll be able to help
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Don’t.