I realize this message is for women, but being an ex-husband, I learned a lot about the needed qualities of a 'Christian' husband. Thank you for sharing.
Dephne, I love your teaching on marriage and relationships. They are excellent. The only thing I can add is...never settle. Always pray, put God first, and wait on God's timing until He brings you the one He has for you. It will always be worth it.
Minister Daphne, please pray for me, I have the heart to take care of a wife , but no resources, I worked really honest and hard, the job that I got right now. I work over twelve hours a day but It can't accommodate a woman.
This is SO wild! The Holy Spirit has been telling me to pray for my future husband, and I've been in rebellion because I feel like I'M not prepared (i.e. financially, emotionally, psychologically, etc), but I realized from your video that my "not being ready" is really me trying to be the man in the relationship. Smh. Then, this morning, God put it on my heart strong, so I said, "Well, if you want me to be in the ministry of marriage, tell me what to pray/look for, cause frankly, I'm clueless!" And then, here your pretty face pop up on my notifications. Sooo...I guess I have no excuses now...😄😣😥😔
TheCommonC Under the Old covenant we learn that Rebekah was appointed for Isaac. It shouldn't be any different for us under the New covenant. “O Lord God of my master Abraham, please give me success this day, and show kindness to my master Abraham. Behold, here I stand by the well of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Now let it be that the young woman to whom I say, ‘Please let down your pitcher that I may drink,’ and she says, ‘Drink, and I will also give your camels a drink’-let her be the one You have appointed for Your servant Isaac. And by this I will know that You have shown kindness to my master.” And it happened, before he had finished speaking, that behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham’s brother, came out with her pitcher on her shoulder. Now the young woman was very beautiful to behold, a virgin; no man had known her." [Gen.24:12-16] Notice the words success and kindness in the above passage. I genuinely believe that all men in Christ are suppose to successfully marry their own appointed wives and vise versa. Marrying our appointed spouses is how we receive the highest expression of the Lord's kindness, after the salvation of our souls. I personally have received the Lord's kindness in this regard, for I've been happily married to my lovely wife now for over 23 Years. My advice to anyone who is single and wants to get married is to diligently pray in the Spirit for their appointed spouse, as if they've already met them. The truth is your spirit already knows who your spouse is, unfortunately your natural man/woman doesn't. This is why it's so important to be baptized with the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues. The more time spent praying in the Spirit for an appointed spouse the sooner God will bring you both together.
'A man that is able to see beyond your hair texture' 😂 Amen Amen thank you sis for sowing good seed, seeds of truth and life into my life! May Almighty Jehovah continue to bless you and the work you do 🙏🏾💗
@@Koumondji "Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and GAVE HIMSELF FOR IT."... I think that verse alone speaks volumes.... Wives are to submit to that.... But we must have honourable and responsible men who know how to LEAD WITH LOVE to submit to! Won't you say?
What I loveeeee about your videos is that you offer your viewers an opportunity to come to the Lord. I SALUTE YOU! Blessing my sister, pray that my husband and I come together, and soon!!
So much wisdom here to guide women in discerning their Adam. I always ask married women how they knew he was “the one.” They always say “they just knew” or “they had peace.” I think this is the tangible revelation of how they were able to know and have peace. Provider, Priest, Protector, Prophet and Lover.
There's nothing wrong with desiring a successful man and being equally yoked goal wise career wise...etc. However a man can be a millionaire and not be a provider. Amen! So true!
Amen! 💕 I needed this today. I am in an abusive relationship. I get abuse emotional, mentally and physically. This man is leaving a double life. In the community everyone knows him as the nice guy, helpful and caring guy. Our home is full with pure evilness. I pray everyday to God and I am in the process of finally leaving with no turning back.
Ami Sainfort amen, good for you,. I know many Christians would say God is against divorce don't leave, but you know how bad the situation is and what God wants for you.
Leave him and do not turn back. Abuse my any means is TOXIC, and not a safe environment for you to stay in by any means! I know it may feel hard but do not give into your emotion. No matter what memories or feelings the enemy throws your way, continue looking ahead. Your true man of God will be waiting for you, just focus on healing first for yourself and building who you are in the Lord. Don’t lose sight of what He has waiting for you ❤️ Will keep you in my prayers!
Natasha K The whole video I was shouting Amen. My neighbors probably thought I was crazy (it was 6AM). She was speaking the truth. This video was a blessing.
This was beautiful and confirmation of what I desire. Thank you Wog. I am tired of spiritual leeches: a man that wants me to be the spiritual everything, spiritual head while he does absolutely nothing. I have to pray and fast about everything concerning him , his family and his needs , affirm him do everything but the minute I ask for prayer or to pray together about something concerning myself he gets angry. Really?? I want unselfisness and unity in spirit. You have to be one spirit and one mind. How can you be a praying woman with a man that doesn't want to pray? And I met this man at church so please ladies use Godly wisdom and discernment and have a standard which should be Gods standard. I have met men I am compatible in carnal things such as business, goals, fashion, even good conversation but I long to meet a real man that possess these Godly qualities. I admire a man that knows and talks about God as passionate or even more than me. I have not met him yet and refuse refuse refuse to settle as so many I know have. I want to be inspired. In my generation (now) it is rare to see Godly examples , there is always a compromise I see in them (example: they will go to church, build financial together, but will be living together ang think nothing wrong with it and refuse to change= picking and choosing biblical principals to follow) I will pray to receive all these qualities in my future king. In Jesus name Amen.
Starts at 2:21 1. Husband has to be a provider/giver 2. A priest - Able to minister to you where you are, discern your destiny, led by Christ who brings up Christ even in your conversations 3. Protector - someone who respects you, your future and your destiny, who does not abuse you 4. Prophet - visionary who can see who you are and who are called to be. Adam could recognize Eve. He can see through the superficial and see who you really are. You can birth not only children but also help his vision for his future. He is not intimidated by your gifts. 5. Lover - he has to recognize his need to "leave" (not abandon) his parents. He needs to be independent of their influence. He has to cleave to you emotionally psychologically and become one flesh. He will be faithful publicly and privately.
This video is so timely and has been so helpful it's unreal! Thank you Dephne. Thank you for posting this video it's helped me so much. God bless you xx
Omg THIS is beautiFULL!!!! Soooo good to be reminded of all these key points when you can get restless during waiting/preparing seasons..This is like a lovely lullaby to listen to every night before bed!😊
Dephne, I have been watching you for a long time. I am a divorcee for 7 years now. I made a Huge mistake and immediately went into another relationship. That relationship ended in 2013. Well two years ago I prayed and asked God to prepare me for my next Husband. I had prayed and let it go. I have just binged watched your videos on husbands. Thank you so much for sharing what God has given you too share. This is a confirmation that I am on the right track and that I need to continue to Trust God. I wish you continued success and blessings. God Bless you.
Can you make a video on the five-fold ministry of a wife please ❤️ this video was so helpful, I would like to know what my future husband will need from me. God bless your heart you truly have a gift
I love your channel I found it about two weeks ago and I subscribed right away, I heard you just say that you right books I have to find them where do you sell them but I want to say thank you for making these videos they are the best, I don't always watch them on time but I have watched the ones that I saw thar fit at the time say blessed
I pray for my future husband and I that we have the quality’s to protect one another to be able to do all goodness for you and for us to grow in your vision to read and study your word together; that our hearts are in the same place for you Father God lead us and help us to love and honor you with true qualities to recognize the true qualities as we grow together for you and for one another that we will pray honor and love as leaders in Christ and do for you all that you call us to do and be for you Father God lead us in our spiritual life journey to become who you intended us to be in Jesus name we pray Amen
You teach me so much Daphne. & You look exceptionally beautiful in this video.💛😁 This reminds me of my parents relationship tbh, they always talk about God together and my dad respects her in the ways that you talked about. I guess that's why my parents are still together. I was still losing hope in relationships though so I appreciate the word of encouragement 🤗🤗 See you on Saturday Daphne!
Being a man means I am a provider and it talked to my spirit when you mentioned when it is not a matter of resources BUT a matter of the HEART....and as a man to me when I hear a woman speaking of wanting to only marry or date someone with much resources is a woman who is fooling herself and looking wrong and is lead astray.
I leave the bad behind right now, in Jesus Name, amen!
I realize this message is for women, but being an ex-husband, I learned a lot about the needed qualities of a 'Christian' husband. Thank you for sharing.
If God can raise up the dead then he can surely raise up a Godly husband. Wow! Thank you for that! Amen!
Kenya Johnson doesn't she does speak life.
Dephne, I love your teaching on marriage and relationships. They are excellent. The only thing I can add is...never settle. Always pray, put God first, and wait on God's timing until He brings you the one He has for you. It will always be worth it.
Minister Daphne, please pray for me, I have the heart to take care of a wife , but no resources, I worked really honest and hard, the job that I got right now. I work over twelve hours a day but It can't accommodate a woman.
This is SO wild! The Holy Spirit has been telling me to pray for my future husband, and I've been in rebellion because I feel like I'M not prepared (i.e. financially, emotionally, psychologically, etc), but I realized from your video that my "not being ready" is really me trying to be the man in the relationship. Smh.
Then, this morning, God put it on my heart strong, so I said, "Well, if you want me to be in the ministry of marriage, tell me what to pray/look for, cause frankly, I'm clueless!" And then, here your pretty face pop up on my notifications.
Sooo...I guess I have no excuses now...😄😣😥😔
TheCommonC Me too! I just said yesterday I am not gonna pray for my husband because I'm not ready
Me three! Lol
Yes! I am not ready either. I feel led to pray for him now.
Danaé Lauren Tolbert Me too
TheCommonC Under the Old covenant we learn that Rebekah was appointed for Isaac. It shouldn't be any different for us under the New covenant. “O Lord God of my master Abraham, please give me success this day, and show kindness to my master Abraham. Behold, here I stand by the well of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Now let it be that the young woman to whom I say, ‘Please let down your pitcher that I may drink,’ and she says, ‘Drink, and I will also give your camels a drink’-let her be the one You have appointed for Your servant Isaac. And by this I will know that You have shown kindness to my master.” And it happened, before he had finished speaking, that behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham’s brother, came out with her pitcher on her shoulder. Now the young woman was very beautiful to behold, a virgin; no man had known her." [Gen.24:12-16]
Notice the words success and kindness in the above passage. I genuinely believe that all men in Christ are suppose to successfully marry their own appointed wives and vise versa. Marrying our appointed spouses is how we receive the highest expression of the Lord's kindness, after the salvation of our souls. I personally have received the Lord's kindness in this regard, for I've been happily married to my lovely wife now for over 23 Years. My advice to anyone who is single and wants to get married is to diligently pray in the Spirit for their appointed spouse, as if they've already met them. The truth is your spirit already knows who your spouse is, unfortunately your natural man/woman doesn't. This is why it's so important to be baptized with the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues. The more time spent praying in the Spirit for an appointed spouse the sooner God will bring you both together.
'A man that is able to see beyond your hair texture' 😂 Amen Amen thank you sis for sowing good seed, seeds of truth and life into my life! May Almighty Jehovah continue to bless you and the work you do 🙏🏾💗
Daphne you have outdone yourself. This video has such a strong powerful anointing on it. May God continue to bless you and your ministry.
Wonderful! Can you do the five pillars of a wife next please?
Nadia Pugh that's a great idea!!!
Nadia Pugh yesss I'd love to see that too!
That would be great. Dephne can you do this please!!!
Exactly. Why does it seem like men have tougher role to play when it comes to relationship?
@@Koumondji "Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and GAVE HIMSELF FOR IT."... I think that verse alone speaks volumes.... Wives are to submit to that.... But we must have honourable and responsible men who know how to LEAD WITH LOVE to submit to! Won't you say?
What I loveeeee about your videos is that you offer your viewers an opportunity to come to the Lord. I SALUTE YOU! Blessing my sister, pray that my husband and I come together, and soon!!
So much wisdom here to guide women in discerning their Adam. I always ask married women how they knew he was “the one.” They always say “they just knew” or “they had peace.” I think this is the tangible revelation of how they were able to know and have peace. Provider, Priest, Protector, Prophet and Lover.
There's nothing wrong with desiring a successful man and being equally yoked goal wise career wise...etc. However a man can be a millionaire and not be a provider. Amen! So true!
Danaé Lauren Tolbert yess that was such a good point!!
Amen! 💕 I needed this today. I am in an abusive relationship. I get abuse emotional, mentally and physically. This man is leaving a double life. In the community everyone knows him as the nice guy, helpful and caring guy. Our home is full with pure evilness. I pray everyday to God and I am in the process of finally leaving with no turning back.
Ami Sainfort amen, good for you,. I know many Christians would say God is against divorce don't leave, but you know how bad the situation is and what God wants for you.
Sounds like a narcissist
Leave him and do not turn back. Abuse my any means is TOXIC, and not a safe environment for you to stay in by any means! I know it may feel hard but do not give into your emotion. No matter what memories or feelings the enemy throws your way, continue looking ahead. Your true man of God will be waiting for you, just focus on healing first for yourself and building who you are in the Lord. Don’t lose sight of what He has waiting for you ❤️ Will keep you in my prayers!
ama o he is indeed a narcissist.
Ami Sainfort Young. Lady. The. Real..Heaven Creator. LORD ! GOD ! You. ate. his. Daughter. ... I. hope. He. will...Help. You. /. Guide. / also. watch. over. you. and. those. others. you. LOVE'S GOD's. TOO. I. Been. Divorce. for. Over 17.. years. and I. BELIVE. daily. for. him. to. send. me. another. more. better. Who. Really. LOVE'S. GOD.!! a. BOAZ. kind. hope. the. very. same. for. YOU. TOO. Read. PSALMS 70....PSALMS:91
..and. For. You. BELIVE.&. READ::ISAIAH;. 61: 7_9 ♥️🤸🚵🚴💓💜💚💖💜💓💕💕💕
Yes this Man can Lead Bless my Husband I love him. Keep him and protect him from all satanic bondage. In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen
Ladies do you hear this woman of God? Even if he is a "preacher" and he's trying to sleep with you he is a spiritual robber.
Truth
I been there. RUN! "Pastor or Preacher" is just a title.
Natasha K The whole video I was shouting Amen. My neighbors probably thought I was crazy (it was 6AM). She was speaking the truth. This video was a blessing.
Mh
Danaé Lauren Tolbert Amen 🙏🏽 Lord have mercy!
This was beautiful and confirmation of what I desire. Thank you Wog. I am tired of spiritual leeches: a man that wants me to be the spiritual everything, spiritual head while he does absolutely nothing. I have to pray and fast about everything concerning him , his family and his needs , affirm him do everything but the minute I ask for prayer or to pray together about something concerning myself he gets angry. Really?? I want unselfisness and unity in spirit. You have to be one spirit and one mind. How can you be a praying woman with a man that doesn't want to pray? And I met this man at church so please ladies use Godly wisdom and discernment and have a standard which should be Gods standard. I have met men I am compatible in carnal things such as business, goals, fashion, even good conversation but I long to meet a real man that possess these Godly qualities. I admire a man that knows and talks about God as passionate or even more than me. I have not met him yet and refuse refuse refuse to settle as so many I know have. I want to be inspired. In my generation (now) it is rare to see Godly examples , there is always a compromise I see in them (example: they will go to church, build financial together, but will be living together ang think nothing wrong with it and refuse to change= picking and choosing biblical principals to follow) I will pray to receive all these qualities in my future king. In Jesus name Amen.
god563616 Amen sister😇.
Wow, you said it all! 🙌😆
Continue to wait on the Lord sister He will never forsake you! In due time
I aopreciate you🙌
Beautiful video Deph. Some men need to be watching your videos honestly lol.
Mic Drop! 12:50 - 12:55. I'm done Dephne! The levels of revelation are too deep! Had to pause the video and take it all in for a sec.
Thank you this helped me so much with my role as a man to my future wife.
Daphne, it's like God himself is talking through you
I agree I receive this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen.
God bless you sis more and more Amen.
I am humbled by this message. Thank you Jesus and thank you sister for your obedience
EXTREMELY IMPORTANT AND WISE INFORMATION HERE!!!
Thxs a lot Dephne you are such a blessing in my life. May God continue to use you more and more Amen
Dephne, I had to call the 911 after hearing this message because it's on FIRE!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Keep up the good work and I like your new look!
, I had to call the 911 after hearing this message because it's on FIRE!!! 🔥🔥🔥 LOOOOOOOOOLLL!!!!🤣🤣
So powerful! Thank you sis 🙏🏾 God bless you!
Wow! I love your definition of a provider!!! We need to notice this!
Such a rich message.... Thank You and God bless you Sis Daphne!
You are truly anointed by God. I enjoy your teachings tremendously. You speak with authority and confidence. May God richly bless you.
Successful not Unsuccessful God has the Power to assist. God is Awesome. Anything can happen with God.
AMEN.I also prayed on behalf of my Kingdom husband.Glory be to the Almighty God ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙌
This is SOOOOOOO on time!!! God bless you.
Starts at 2:21
1. Husband has to be a provider/giver
2. A priest - Able to minister to you where you are, discern your destiny, led by Christ who brings up Christ even in your conversations
3. Protector - someone who respects you, your future and your destiny, who does not abuse you
4. Prophet - visionary who can see who you are and who are called to be. Adam could recognize Eve. He can see through the superficial and see who you really are. You can birth not only children but also help his vision for his future. He is not intimidated by your gifts.
5. Lover - he has to recognize his need to "leave" (not abandon) his parents. He needs to be independent of their influence. He has to cleave to you emotionally psychologically and become one flesh. He will be faithful publicly and privately.
So awesome 👍 thank you WOG!!
Waow! Nice tips and good teaching ma. God bless your MINISTRY, richly IJMN. AMEN!!!
I have saved the video so that I can watch again and again
Thank you
Thank you lord I receive and confirm your word today. Amen 🙏🏾❤
God Bless You Women of God! I still have hope. Wonderful teaching!
I love you Dephne you have changed my life
This video is so timely and has been so helpful it's unreal! Thank you Dephne. Thank you for posting this video it's helped me so much. God bless you xx
What a husband heavenly father I thank you for giving me an Ephesians 5 husband 🙏💖
Wow! Confirmation Thank God for you and your wisdom
Praise the lords . I know all these words of god r spoken by you. I receive in the name of jesus. God bless u.
God bless you Woman of God. Thank you Jesus for this vessel of honor.
Thank you for a such wonderful messages!!!!
this video was so insightful and grounded in the Word. Thank you for your wisdom as usual Dephne!
Thank you so much Dephne for this great message. May the Lord richly bless you my lovely sister.
Thanks so much for this. More grace🙏🏼
You are such a blessing, thank you for this video!
May Adonai continue to bless you, thank you for sharing this.
God bless you and more grace
Omg THIS is beautiFULL!!!! Soooo good to be reminded of all these key points when you can get restless during waiting/preparing seasons..This is like a lovely lullaby to listen to every night before bed!😊
Amen, powerful teaching. Glory to God, thank you Dephne 😇🙌.
Thank you, thank you for being obedient to God by teaching this, I so need to hear this. Yep God answer my prayer. God bless you woman of God.
Wow thank you for such a wonderful message. 😃
Thank you dephne... This is a huge blessing
Thank you sis . for another great video.
Wonderful, you always Bless me.
Thank you Holy Spirit Deep Truths.
I loved your teaching dephne mam..i always loved to lesson your teaching
This was a good word! Keep sharing preach it !
Hi. Thank you. This really spoke to my spirit.
Hey Daphne I just want to thank the almighty God for your life and may he continue to bless you.
Amen! God Bless! Good Stuff.
In Jesus Name, I agree with you in prayer. God bless you my Sister in Christ!
I love this woman of God .so true u has opened my eyes sister ,may God give me the right man in Jesus Christ Powerful name.
Dephne, I have been watching you for a long time. I am a divorcee for 7 years now. I made a Huge mistake and immediately went into another relationship. That relationship ended in 2013. Well two years ago I prayed and asked God to prepare me for my next Husband. I had prayed and let it go. I have just binged watched your videos on husbands. Thank you so much for sharing what God has given you too share. This is a confirmation that I am on the right track and that I need to continue to Trust God. I wish you continued success and blessings. God Bless you.
Very rich and confirming message!
I always pray my husdbin will know God frist in his life..God will lead him protect him..and also he will love me so much
Such a blessing to know all these things
God bless you and give you more insight 🙏🙏🙏
honor and respect for my destiny and purpose is important
Thanks depney for today preaching ... So empowering for single like me
LOVE THIS. PRECISE. PROFOUND. PURPOSEFUL.
Amen!! Peace and grace to you and your beloved xx
Thank you, Dephne! This video has truly blessed me.
It would be really awesome to have a video on the 5 fold Ministry of a wife🌸
Wow HALLELUJAH well said Dephne!
Sister you are a prophet God bless you
Amazing
Thank you so much. Everything's you say make so much sense.
Powerful message
Can you make a video on the five-fold ministry of a wife please ❤️ this video was so helpful, I would like to know what my future husband will need from me. God bless your heart you truly have a gift
WoW this is so amazing this a confirmation for me#God knows what I need#you’r blessed 😇❤️🔥🔥
God bless you woman of God
Thank you and God bless you
Wow
Great one
Thank you
Thank you for this amazing message!
Amen! You are such a beautiful woman of God, a woman after God's own heart! 🔱💖🔱
WOW! A true word of what a spiritual potential husband is supposed to be and no settling for a fraud.
you are a blessing Daphne, now I understand why my two engagements failed. I would have ended up with a man that didn't have these qualities
Proverbs 31 Wisdom Awesome
Great video Dephne :) You are very wise and helpful.
Awesome Message!!
I love your channel I found it about two weeks ago and I subscribed right away, I heard you just say that you right books I have to find them where do you sell them but I want to say thank you for making these videos they are the best, I don't always watch them on time but I have watched the ones that I saw thar fit at the time say blessed
I pray for my future husband and I that we have the quality’s to protect one another to be able to do all goodness for you and for us to grow in your vision to read and study your word together; that our hearts are in the same place for you Father God lead us and help us to love and honor you with true qualities to recognize the true qualities as we grow together for you and for one another that we will pray honor and love as leaders in Christ and do for you all that you call us to do and be for you Father God lead us in our spiritual life journey to become who you intended us to be
in Jesus name we pray Amen
God is really using you
Daphne, it's like you God himself is talking through you
Preach Sister, true.
You speak life my Sister
Amennnn
God can raise a man for me
You teach me so much Daphne. & You look exceptionally beautiful in this video.💛😁 This reminds me of my parents relationship tbh, they always talk about God together and my dad respects her in the ways that you talked about. I guess that's why my parents are still together. I was still losing hope in relationships though so I appreciate the word of encouragement 🤗🤗 See you on Saturday Daphne!
Being a man means I am a provider and it talked to my spirit when you mentioned when it is not a matter of resources BUT a matter of the HEART....and as a man to me when I hear a woman speaking of wanting to only marry or date someone with much resources is a woman who is fooling herself and looking wrong and is lead astray.