What Happens To Your Body When You Stop Drinking

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  • The body experience significant changes when we stop drinking alcohol, this videos explains exactly what happens when we become sober or take a break from drinking.
    Alcohol impacts almost every part of our mind and body, it significantly increases the risk of cancer, heart problems and liver disease. But what happens when we stop drinking? Does our body heal? Do we return to normal?
    This video explores the changes we experience when we remove alcohol and covers the various aspects of change that happen.
    It also includes before and after photos from when I was drinking alongside a month after I quit alcohol.
    If you enjoy the video, please subscribe to the channel to ensure you don't miss new content.
    If you need more help quitting alcohol join my stop drinking programme at: www.joinbesober.com
    Simon Chapple
    The Quit Alcohol Coach
    www.besober.co.uk
    #stopdrinking #stoppingdrinking #alcoholandbody #alcoholdamage

ความคิดเห็น • 627

  • @MG-jj3pn
    @MG-jj3pn ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I’ve been sober for 1235 days. Everything in my life has improved 100%

    • @ThePerfectSeason1972
      @ThePerfectSeason1972 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations

    • @ryansaunders65
      @ryansaunders65 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm proud of you. Keep going.

    • @lpsglitterpaws8536
      @lpsglitterpaws8536 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I want to be like you but I feel like it’s unattainable

    • @ryansaunders65
      @ryansaunders65 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lpsglitterpaws8536 one day at a time. Each victory fuels the next one.

    • @mrfeel4910
      @mrfeel4910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whole Europe and uk is down with alcohal😅

  • @danielsnathan3821
    @danielsnathan3821 ปีที่แล้ว +690

    I stopped drinking at the age of 75, after continuous drinking for 55years. I had never touched ever after, without any side effects , even a single day. I used to drink 3/4 of a full bottle , every day, morning to evening. Thanks to My will power . I am 81 now.😀

    • @KingKhan-123
      @KingKhan-123 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      God bless you sir!

    • @MixedCompany2020
      @MixedCompany2020 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      A full bottle of what? Whiskey, wine, beer?

    • @visam28
      @visam28 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fantastic! ❤

    • @raymondjunger4742
      @raymondjunger4742 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      How did you survive that? I‘m 24 and nearly died from alcohol last year. Been dry since

    • @shiftintohigh5564
      @shiftintohigh5564 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Going thru about the same thing. Long time coming. Feeling great. Its just not a bad idea. Lol

  • @Jesusisimaginary
    @Jesusisimaginary ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm going to quit this time for sure, I'm not going to give up

  • @TroyGrey
    @TroyGrey ปีที่แล้ว +426

    I’m two months sober today after decades of drinking myself to sleep. It’s been rough mentally, but it’s all been worth it.

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Day 5 of 40 years 10-15 beers a day. It's hell right now

    • @TroyGrey
      @TroyGrey ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lobstermania4025 Give it two months, no matter what. I went through severe anxiety and panic attacks but they will pass and you will feel so much better. Hang in there!

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@TroyGrey Thank you..Thats what i have now , high anxiety and Heart palpitation along with a murmur that I just went to the cardio for and he said it might be my drinking habits. My plan is to take some time off then only have a few beers 2-3 on the weekends. If I fail at that, I will quit.. I failed two times before trying to moderate but I never tried No beer on weekdays...Thanks for listening.

    • @Meatislife
      @Meatislife ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@lobstermania4025 Same here friend. I'm two weeks in after drinking nightly for years. The first week was pretty brutal. Jolting awake all night, heart palpitations, and the reason I drank in the first place was anxiety which was absolutely the worst I've ever had. One thing that helped me massively was only eating one meal a day. For whatever reason eating would give me more anxiety. Hang in there.

    • @happyglock3426
      @happyglock3426 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Congrats man! I’m right behind you…..60 days next week, after a pint of bourbon every night for years. I feel great and have lost 24 lbs!

  • @racymacy6390
    @racymacy6390 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This morning I decided to stop drinking. I dumped everything down the drain. Today is day one for me. I am determined to do this. I NEED to do this. I am tired of living like this. Thank you for your video. I know it is going to be a difficult journey but I have confidence in myself to go forward.

    • @chrissie.0864
      @chrissie.0864 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing? ❤

    • @jeffreyskinner7167
      @jeffreyskinner7167 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations your mind is a powerful thong! One day at a time .

    • @user-bu1sd1uy8j
      @user-bu1sd1uy8j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pls do this I also decided today we tried of being controlled by unhealthy liquids

    • @jasonspurs
      @jasonspurs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I surrendered myself to stop drinking.3 weeks ago i feel better then i have for 30 years of drinking.Well done mate.

    • @user-kg3ps9nj2t
      @user-kg3ps9nj2t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you. Find people doing the same. Recovery is Connection. Connection is Recovery.

  • @ryanburgess7367
    @ryanburgess7367 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    I'm 12 days sober today after 10 years of 40+ drinks a week. The evenings are still tough for cravings, but drinking sparkling water is surprisingly satiating. I've also become much more productive and sleeping better. I hope I can stick with it!

    • @MM-jf6sh
      @MM-jf6sh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Listen to Allen Carr’s easy way to control alcohol audiobook

    • @user-lv1ie5xm2m
      @user-lv1ie5xm2m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm also 12 days sober. I enjoy drinking flavored, carbonated water. Good luck to you!

    • @ryanburgess7367
      @ryanburgess7367 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @user-lv1ie5xm2m Thank you and good luck to you too! At 21 days now and it feels amazing.

    • @Angelove88294
      @Angelove88294 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🎉stick with it! I’m happy for you. I drank the same way. I’m 4 + years sober now. Life becomes sooo good. 🍀🍀🍀

    • @incremental_failure
      @incremental_failure 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Substitute with some drugs, the nice kind that don't tax your health much. It's complete insanity that some of the most innocent drugs like mushrooms are illegal in most countries while alcohol is legal and even advertised. The world is upside down.

  • @DJ-vm2zi
    @DJ-vm2zi ปีที่แล้ว +57

    3 months sober. Feeling good. Blood pressure coming down. Sleeping better. Lost 15 lbs

  • @joannesmith3991
    @joannesmith3991 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    18 days today and already i feel so much better , ive lost a little weight , people say i look younger so onwards and upwards never going back to that poison

    • @KatalinHalom
      @KatalinHalom 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stand strong! You'll make it!!

  • @DarkLouie76
    @DarkLouie76 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    I drank for 40 years, quit at age as 53, I am close to 2 years sober now. It's tough sometimes feeling life without a crutch, but it's better than it's ever been. Every day is a gift.

    • @theliftexpert
      @theliftexpert ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Smoke a low dose thc ,high dose of cbd …..indica joint if you need a crutch once in awhile.
      It will help you relax and sleep like a baby.

    • @john2914
      @john2914 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hard stuff. I am 56 and drinking quite a lot
      I don't see any future, and I have a hard time at night. Best wishes to you.

    • @DarkLouie76
      @DarkLouie76 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@john2914 thank you John, and it's tough but try to get to a meeting, gotta start somewhere, you can do it if you want. Life still is tough but better without alcohol in it... Sleep will get better too. I used to have a tough time sleeping, now I don't.

    • @RickCostello
      @RickCostello ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Get into exercise my friend. It is the only crutch with no catch.

    • @DarkLouie76
      @DarkLouie76 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@RickCostello at the gym right now lol. Usually I would be waking up hung over.

  • @weezyrunner
    @weezyrunner 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I've been sober a little over two weeks, and already my asthma systems have improved greatly and my bloat is already gone. 😊

  • @anthonysquire1241
    @anthonysquire1241 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I stopped drinking alcohol nearly 10 years ago, and I can still feel the benefits of not drinking alcohol now.

  • @lpsglitterpaws8536
    @lpsglitterpaws8536 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    4 days sober. Thanks for the support

    • @Maximilian0011
      @Maximilian0011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just try to understand that alcohol is a pure Poison and its intention is to kill you, slowly..., THAT and those behind it made me mad and I did not touch drink again.
      You can do it buddy if I done so!!!!!

    • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
      @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      How’s it going? I’m day 7.

    • @lpsglitterpaws8536
      @lpsglitterpaws8536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 I have slipped up a couple of times but I keep going back to sober mode. I like the way I feel when I’m sober better and I guess I had to see if it was really better. I need to not see alcohol as a reward and see it for the demon it truly is. Keep going. It only gets better!

    • @abefroman9848
      @abefroman9848 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too, mr

    • @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
      @growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lpsglitterpaws8536 Yup, it only gets better. I’m day 17 now, this is the longest I have gone in many, many tries! One day at a time.

  • @samwilcockmusic
    @samwilcockmusic ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Big love to everyone getting control of themselves here with alcohol. I wish you all success and good health.

  • @Simon-pl2zi
    @Simon-pl2zi ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I quit, didn’t journal, life is now so much better in every single way.

    • @nanfeliciano5465
      @nanfeliciano5465 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yay so happy for you 👍 you got this...your life is worth it 👏

    • @kevinmills5293
      @kevinmills5293 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I quit over 2 years ago. Never missed it and haven’t noticed any difference.

  • @dannydaily20
    @dannydaily20 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I just made 29.I am a week sober now. Already feel a lot better and determined to go forever.
    Alcohol has done more bad than good to me, I've lost alot and don't wanna lose again.
    Decided to quit some cycles of friends for my own good. I been telling them i can't drink again. I'm determined,may God support me.

  • @derekknight7403
    @derekknight7403 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Going on 8 days and feel better than I have in 8 years 😊

  • @scottjackson163
    @scottjackson163 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Day 358 here. I still want to drink occasionally, but I haven’t, for nearly a year.

    • @scottjackson163
      @scottjackson163 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Now almost 15 months without.

    • @DYKWINNING
      @DYKWINNING ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@scottjackson163 Great job!
      Just hit 2 years myself, there were heavy cravings around month 21-22. Maybe you'll feel the same. Keep pushing forward!

    • @truthnowtv187
      @truthnowtv187 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wish me luck I really want to stop but I do not know how

    • @gary3902
      @gary3902 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome I wish I was close to that👏👍

    • @nanfeliciano5465
      @nanfeliciano5465 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't yes will power is everything, you're better then that,you got this...Yay 💪🤞

  • @hayleywarden6315
    @hayleywarden6315 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    This is a very inspiring video. I stopped drinking 208 days ago after a 40 year habit which began after some shitty childhood experiences. My emotional life has been SO hard since I quit, as the layers stripped off and revealed the memories again. No one tells you this will happen, it’s all about great sleep, etc etc etc. So the unresolved trauma numbed by weed and alcohol now needs dealing with properly. I will never drink again.

  • @28tpi
    @28tpi ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ive been on the wagon for 22 yrs. Never looked back. Best decision ever!!!

  • @iandavies1893
    @iandavies1893 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I stopped drinking just under 4 weeks ago having drunk too regularly over the years. I feel much better, my brain feels sharper, my weight is coming down and I sleep better. On top of this I have saved a fortune. The main thing other than the health benefits are family members are really pleased too. A very good informative video.

  • @johnathanriojas2530
    @johnathanriojas2530 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I need this! I cannot keep drinking as much as I do. I'm now 4 days in and I have headaches, irregular sleep cycles, and anxiety 😥

  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    January 21, 2003, I said to myself, "That was the last hangover I'll ever have." And it was, 20 years ago, at age 49. The biggest change I anticipated? I respect and trust myself. I feel good in my own skin. I left an abusive marriage three years later, and met the most wonderful, loving man I've ever known. He quit drinking a few years after we met, and then we married. Sadly, Alzheimer's came on and he passed almost two years ago. I'd never have felt worthy of his love and cherishing, if I hadn't stopped drinking. At 69, I'm going for love one more time. And I know I'm a woman of value at last.

    • @VacumOvale
      @VacumOvale ปีที่แล้ว +4

      69, nice

    • @kevinchaplin3089
      @kevinchaplin3089 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are truly a woman of value, For some lucky someone!!

    • @biondna7984
      @biondna7984 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kevinchaplin3089 Most kind, Sir.

    • @peterlyons8793
      @peterlyons8793 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you. I'm glad you're ❤happy with yourself

    • @alr9967
      @alr9967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m showing your comment to my 30 year old daughter. Everyone who loves her believes in her value. sadly she doesn’t I pray for her to see what we see

  • @test-xn3lm
    @test-xn3lm ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Alcohol makes you pretty useless after about 5 hours you drained and sluggish.
    I found that after a meal with alcohol I was ready to sleep totally ruined the day with no energy.
    Not to mention the anxiety hitting you the next day which want to make you drink again.
    The worst is the drama which follows the next day.
    You might gone to a party and made a fool of yourself and you can’t remember really what exactly you did and if you insulted someone. The next day you start to try and figure out and peace together last nights events adding even more to the hangover and anxiety.
    Alcohol can be an absolute nightmare.
    It starts with one drink and you think it’s just the one.
    By the time you finish it you think oh it’s okay I have another one and you back in the train wreck.

  • @mmbell
    @mmbell ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Saw a documentary about the link between alcohol consumption and breast cancer in female.
    It was a big reason why I quit.

  • @jesus2400
    @jesus2400 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Sober 10 months after drinking for decades. This guy nailed it in this video drinking is a psychological addiction. Never thought I could quit alcohol. No more hangovers emotionally turned my world around.

    • @brandonbell5357
      @brandonbell5357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got help to quit you can't drink that long and quit you have to be detox by professionals

  • @yourguidetorights3909
    @yourguidetorights3909 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I quit when i was 55 , 73 now. Cold Turkey. Only thing that changed was i lost a ton of weight. Didn't experience anything except weight loss. Ate the same, lost 50 lbs over 6 months

  • @stevesoucy5932
    @stevesoucy5932 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I'm on day 8 and feeling amazing!

    • @MG-jj3pn
      @MG-jj3pn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep it up

    • @gedhuffadine1873
      @gedhuffadine1873 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ime on day 13 can already feel benefits.

    • @NCrdwlf
      @NCrdwlf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just went over 2 months and can tell you that it will continue . Sleeping better too.

    • @stevesoucy5932
      @stevesoucy5932 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Just Greg Congrats on 2 months! And yeah, totally agreed. I'm on day 67 today, and feel like a new man. More energy as a result if better sleep, and my mental focus is a whole lot better. Zero regrets cutting it out of my life.

    • @Maximilian0011
      @Maximilian0011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      look, alcohol is a PURE Poison intended to kill us simple as that, if you get that right you are done with drinking, Amen

  • @ericjencson9489
    @ericjencson9489 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It's a mental compulsion not a craving. Physical craving happens after you take the first drink, not before, and result in the inability to stop drinking once you've started.

    • @astragreen
      @astragreen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes and it comes at you it won’t leave you alone, that’s why I always have a few bottles of non- alcoholic beverages in the fridge after one just one I’m okay if that was beer that one would end up being 10 cans, also the longer you abstain the addiction goes down way down, however I always have fake beer at the ready!..

  • @kylekeen3497
    @kylekeen3497 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm 3 years sober

  • @user-xz3iv6tw2i
    @user-xz3iv6tw2i ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Day 7,989 here.

  • @B_2_11
    @B_2_11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm 7 days sober. It's a start

    • @fernageer761
      @fernageer761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What drink are replacing alcohol with?

    • @B_2_11
      @B_2_11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fernageer761 to begin with it was soft drinks but now I'm just water and focusing on my work 👌👍

    • @fernageer761
      @fernageer761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kenny1161 I'm trying to find something that is going to taste enough like wine that'll want it...
      Cranberry juice and tonic is good.
      Also upping my water...
      It's hard. Especially in the evenings when I'm enjoying a campfire, reading or TV
      .good luck to you

    • @B_2_11
      @B_2_11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fernageer761 oh yes all the best to you also. I was a beer and spirits drinker but now over 2months. It gets easier I promise you that. Like I said I've put all my focus into my trade and my daughter ❤️

  • @MassiveLib
    @MassiveLib 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's the 5.30pm psychological bell thats still going off in my body everyday...even after 6 weeks.....

    • @armymarshal13
      @armymarshal13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep yep, I feel this strong. I swear the routine is more addicting than the alcohol

    • @MassiveLib
      @MassiveLib 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@armymarshal13 it took mine about 8 weeks to stop. Now it's only a Friday or Saturday. The conditioning is strong in this one 😏

  • @Jazman342
    @Jazman342 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    At 70 years old, I'm 35 years sober. My heart goes out to all those new to this who have commented here. The selfie tip is good. they didn't exist 35 years ago but in every photo of me from back then I have a beer in one hand and a cigarette in the other. Yes the most significant effects when giving up drinking are emotional and mental, but both are products of our physical brain. It DOES get better although at first it seems to get worse. It's more just a consequence of removal of the aesthetic though. From my early teenage and emotionally developmental years I used alcohol, and then other drugs, to cope. It was the ONLY coping mechanism I had. I had to learn to deal with life on life's terms. Not my own. In my humble opinion it is not so much a matter of "giving up drinking". That's akin to "giving up hitting your thumb with a hammer". It's all about "learning to live sober". It IS WORTH IT!

    • @ElectronicYouth
      @ElectronicYouth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am 35, quit drinking about a month ago.

  • @davestang5454
    @davestang5454 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    These are great points. I stopped about 900 days ago and, to tell the truth, the "hard" part of quitting was over rapidly. The key is to understand what form of "therapy" the alcohol was giving you and learn to replace it with a healthier alternative. Bad habits can replaced with equally "addictive" healthy habits.

    • @brianpollard4350
      @brianpollard4350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree.
      I believe that most people have addictive personalities.
      You're correct in observing that healthy addictive behavior can be substituted for unhealthy addictive behavior.
      Thanks for making this important observation!

  • @Blondie472
    @Blondie472 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3 weeks come Saturday..
    The social aspects have been the hardest.
    All anyone wants to do here is drink. Bars and breweries everywhere i go..

  • @mikeshafer
    @mikeshafer ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I quit drinking tomorrow, on April 1, 2023. I've quit before for a period of one year, just to try it out, but now that I'm 42 I just can't take hangovers anymore, and the recent research just makes it less compelling to drink even a bit. I am hung over as I type this, and it's horrible. I hate hangovers and they just get worse and worse. I will take a photo as you suggest, and I'm also going to schedule a DEXA scan so I can map out my body fat % in highest accuracy. Then I will walk every morning for 10K steps, start my daily yoga routine, and stick to a super clean diet. I think I'll even start reading books again. I can only imagine how my life could change after I quit for good.

    • @Sheila-kh1ez
      @Sheila-kh1ez ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Michael, hope you're doing well. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, easy does it.

  • @Libertas_P77
    @Libertas_P77 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I’m one of those who has quit alcohol because of it what it does the human body. I’m happy to join the rest who have had more of a battle to quit, and 50+ days in, I’ve never felt better from completely staying off it.

  • @Irishstew6969
    @Irishstew6969 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    1 month without alcohol and although i wasn't a heavy drinker, definitely not dependent, i was getting into the habit. I feel better psychologically rather than physically.

    • @narn3904
      @narn3904 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same here, but for some reason very little weight loss.

    • @tommysherman7155
      @tommysherman7155 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      6 week and feel worse mentally.
      Drank everything every waking minute apart from horrible lager

  • @jorgy1470
    @jorgy1470 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Day 33 here

  • @hvalenti
    @hvalenti ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's the main thing for me, feeling free and not wondering about drinking again. You can just feel good now and with the next breath.

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Very accurate. There was the 3 day period where you felt worse but pretty quickly moved on and I understood that was gonna happen. Definitely didn't sleep well the first days. The biggest challenge I had in the first year was the mental. I was mostly over drinking in boredom and being not being fulfilled in my life. Had to find other things and build a better life. Trust me, particularly the first 3 months were tough on a mental level but I have found other thing and people to fill my life.

    • @paulabutler3506
      @paulabutler3506 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same why I drunk bored lonely and blots pain ...
      Never again week one sober

  • @LindtBunny
    @LindtBunny ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I quit when I turned 50 just a couple of weeks ago. Best decision I’ll ever make.

  • @wj8108
    @wj8108 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    After a bunch of rehab trips. Sober almost 3 years now. Life is so much better. Something was different the last time and it was easier to stop. Now playing m accomplishing life goals. I’m my kid’s little league coach, built my boys a tree fort, saved money, saved tons of vacation and sick days at work. All good stuff!!!

  • @ralphmccawley1554
    @ralphmccawley1554 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Hi Simon, thanks for this video. Funnily enough I only started watching videos about the effects of alcohol, and quitting drinking several months after I quit. Into my six month without alcohol after being a moderate to heavy drinker most of my adult life. Although I did start drinking at the age of 14. I'm 72 and have nothing but total respect for anybody that attempts to stop drinking. And for those that have managed it after years and years... Wow!!! Well done to everybody and at every level. And Simon, only saw you this morning, well, of all the people I've recently watched, you made a reinforcing connection with me. Well done mate. Keep up the excellent effort and work.

  • @christophergregory6940
    @christophergregory6940 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    6weeks sober,and still feel anxiety at times

  • @hughrobertson7242
    @hughrobertson7242 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Inspirational no-nonsense advice-thank you. I have started my journey and have embraced sobriety. 4 days in and I feel positive about what I’m gaining in health and mental well-being. Respect to everyone out there who is on the journey and making it work for them 💪👍

    • @DLY0898
      @DLY0898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck! Wishing you success!

    • @sonialoves444
      @sonialoves444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i’m going to quit today

  • @guitarza7752
    @guitarza7752 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I've never felt better. Drank from 17 to 59. Never Again!! Also saved my life!

    • @bella0167
      @bella0167 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well Done.👍

  • @raymondlin8728
    @raymondlin8728 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Sober since summer 2022. 1 minute at a time, 1 hr, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month , now almost 1 year

    • @bigt4331
      @bigt4331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      16 days today!

    • @katiesimpson8517
      @katiesimpson8517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely!

    • @raymondlin8728
      @raymondlin8728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Big T fantastic. 16 days your liver is cleaning out , 16 days of your brain cells not dying, 16 days your heart , blood pressure, liver is repairing itself. 16 days you're at peace, hopefully with family too
      16 days becomes 30. Then 2 months, 3, then half a year, 1 year

    • @louisbuzzi869
      @louisbuzzi869 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome.

    • @raymondlin8728
      @raymondlin8728 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Still not drinking

  • @davidnightingale8390
    @davidnightingale8390 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Like he said I've only been off alcohol for a month, I sleep far better I am calmer and lost approx 6 pounds.

  • @hookywookywithmalarkyman704
    @hookywookywithmalarkyman704 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I quit aged 72 now i am hooked on ginger tea !!

  • @hughiegreene2991
    @hughiegreene2991 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All true, thanks for sharing. Am 12 years in, best move I’ve made.

  • @thehylers1021
    @thehylers1021 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I chose to fast alcohol for 21 days and decided to continue - it's been 90 days. I feel great and I'm happier. I never drank to get drunk and I won't say that I'll never drink again but I want it to be like a toast here and there.

    • @brucemcguire5324
      @brucemcguire5324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. Im 60 plus days no alcohol and lots of amazing benefits are showing its sign.

    • @thehylers1021
      @thehylers1021 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brucemcguire5324 congratulations on on taking good care of yourself! I wake up sometimes giggling like I discovered this amazing secret 😄.

    • @lisao6928
      @lisao6928 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares if you don't drink then? If you're on this video, I think you're lying to us and yourself.

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Drinking was a social lubricant for me as I suffer from social anxiety, I quit in December 2019 at 48 , I’m still sober living now , you have to find new ways to live your life away from alcohol the world doesn’t stop turning because you stop drinking you have to learn to have fun without the booze , good luck to all !

    • @e.t926
      @e.t926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have social anxiety too so its hard to give up alcohol...

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@e.t926 depends on your age and circumstances if ur still drinking heavy and single by the time you get into your mods 40s I think quitting is in your best interest health wise .

  • @skipdog9912
    @skipdog9912 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Week 6 booze free. Was hitting it hard for 12 years, after 12 years of being totally sober. Gave it up temporarily for health, but mainly to lose weight. First 3 nights off, not easy to fall asleep, but after that it gets easier. As much as I liked to booze, I don’t miss it as much as I thought. Life’s not amazing, but it does feel great. Better than I expected. If I can do it (again), anybody can! Unless I was sick, I drank daily for the most part of 12 years, sometimes pretty heavy!

  • @GStewie
    @GStewie ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I stopped drinking Saturday 13th of August 😜

    • @wilf7042
      @wilf7042 ปีที่แล้ว

      Still on the wagon?

  • @michaelquinn8618
    @michaelquinn8618 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Four years since I had a beer I feel great I’m now trying to lose weight by dieting

    • @8nakata8
      @8nakata8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing better than a cold almost frozen beer after a nice productive and sporty day. You know that👺

    • @Artman1
      @Artman1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@8nakata8 Never did like the first beer. Had to have at least 4 before i started to enjoy the taste.

  • @toddfish1675
    @toddfish1675 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I am 62 years old, I’ve lived in Mexico, most of my life, drank like a fish, I am one of the few people that quit for my health or so he says, it’s been seven months, not a drop, it wasn’t hard to quit, but it sure is boring 🙈. Seems like I don’t have friends anymore. I hope he gets better. 🙏

    • @lobstermania4025
      @lobstermania4025 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hear you. Day 5 10-15 beers a day. I'll be 60 next week. I got heart problems

    • @toddfish1675
      @toddfish1675 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good Luck Bro, Stay Strong 💪

    • @marydempsey5985
      @marydempsey5985 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Try AA or other sober groups easy way to make sober friends!

    • @toddfish1675
      @toddfish1675 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marydempsey5985 Thanks

    • @MRussell803
      @MRussell803 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Finding a productive hobby that you really enjoy helps with using your time in a wonderful way.

  • @crawdad4823
    @crawdad4823 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this, friend. I'm starting my journey now, and your message is truly inspiring.

  • @jamesbyrne9312
    @jamesbyrne9312 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've been beaten up three times this year. I can't do this anymore. I am intelligent well educated and love people but alcohol is freely. I thank god I am still alive.

    • @vincentm.7462
      @vincentm.7462 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh you’re the asshole drunk that challenges every other guy in the room?

    • @djdoolittle1315
      @djdoolittle1315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big hug ❤

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@djdoolittle1315 thanks

    • @melkathleen6460
      @melkathleen6460 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Life can be really hard. Honestly I was a big drinker for 19 years, I stopped 8 days ago, two things helped, this book I just read Alan carr’s quit drinking. He teaches you to do it by de programming you says willpower doesn’t work. Second ask Jesus into your heart, the Holy Spirit can take away your cravings.

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @melkathleen6460 I agree on both counts. Thanks. It's an evil thing

  • @lisafedele7932
    @lisafedele7932 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ive never made it past 2 yrs. Sober. Im coming up on 3 years clean. I realized, this was the first time...i dont wish i can drink. No more bp meds

  • @dariuspirvu-dg1gb
    @dariuspirvu-dg1gb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your video very easy to understand & good that you have had your own experience & overcome it. Thank you for the inspiration

  • @sandraweber4336
    @sandraweber4336 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I quit 3 weeks ago. So I could quit smoking. I knew I’d get a buzz and light up.

  • @didierdidier1932
    @didierdidier1932 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Day 40 here.

  • @2768231
    @2768231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12 days sober here!!! With the help of a wonderful detox in Richmond Va

  • @mariefeeney6664
    @mariefeeney6664 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Day 20. Thankyou so much for your help Simon❤

  • @deslow7411
    @deslow7411 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I stopped drinking for almost 5 months and this channel was a huge help.
    When I relapsed I had a really shitty job and my mind was always of friday and that sixpack. It was a relief and getting drunk on my computer was actually helping in someway. On most Saturdays I also drank from 4 to 8 beers.
    Now I have a great new job and I honestly don't think about drinking that much. For me it's now just a habit. "Well it's weekend so I SHOULD get beer like usually do", but I have noticed that I don't get the same good feeling as I used to. Like after 2-3 beers I don't feel like drinking anymore where as previously I was pretty bummed when I was getting to the end of my sixpack.
    I'm thinking of trying sober life again and leaving alcohol for good. Please ask me updates on my situation I think it motivates me even more if someone asks 3 months or 1 year from now and I can say "Ye still sober" and give you my intake how it has affected my life.

    • @turdfurgason8476
      @turdfurgason8476 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound kike a super responsible drinker, and then chose sobriety. Most of us would ve kucky to end up where you started. Good for you.👍♥️

  • @rogerhugh177
    @rogerhugh177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Watch all you videos,your doing great work and helping people Sir

  • @MrGuitarshred777
    @MrGuitarshred777 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have 4 years and 5 months clean&sober ✝️🙏 what happened when I tried to quit ? Serious DT’s and then seizures it was BRUTAL of course I had to be hospitalized, my liver was in acute failure and had pancreatitis so damn bad I thought I was going to die

  • @jeanettesquires4809
    @jeanettesquires4809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great content! And uplifting.

  • @Moradude99
    @Moradude99 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I stopped drinking at home in the new year but still drink socially, once or twice a month, best decision I’ve ever made but don’t intend to stop completely.

    • @Maynardd
      @Maynardd ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same… I stopped drinking at home 12, 15 years ago. I had to because I was drinking at home almost every night. Once I made that decision, I might drink two or three times a month. It’s fun, doesn’t affect anything in my life in a negative way, I think that’s the way to go.

    • @martinhill2583
      @martinhill2583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To some of us one drink is not enough and 2 is too many 😢

  • @pinkhombre
    @pinkhombre ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Super relatable thanks!

  • @susannaughton6063
    @susannaughton6063 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your honesty. I am on the same journey and taking one day at a time. Congratulations! ❤

  • @verity4013
    @verity4013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you.. I need to find my way out of this habit. Triggered tonight after a conversation with my Dad aging and becoming more depressed. Sadly the first thing I did after attending to him was to get a bottle of wine. Already tired but drank a the bottle even though my intention was to have one or two. Your video gives me hope. My intention is to change and soon.

  • @NO_OPEC_NO_PROBLEM
    @NO_OPEC_NO_PROBLEM ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Crazy to think EVERYTHING you said here was true. My sleep is 10000000x better after 2 weeks of no more drinking.

  • @MrAllan9
    @MrAllan9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was really good advice, practical and life saving.

  • @louisesumrell6331
    @louisesumrell6331 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Don't forget that the opposite of addiction is connection. When you quit you need to be around others who have successfully quit.-weezi-🙏💖🙏

    • @theliftexpert
      @theliftexpert ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The opposite of addiction is sobriety.
      Addiction is an attempt to temporarily control the emotional pain and dysfunction you are experiencing .
      Sobriety will force you to learn how to deal properly with the emotional pain and dysfunction you are experiencing.

  • @virgilrytaar9083
    @virgilrytaar9083 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm only in day 4, had to resort to the wonderdrug baclofen today. The panic and anxiety was off the map 1st thing this morning. That, combined with the fact that I have a family thing to attend tonight has tipped me over the edge. If I can get through tonight without alcohol it will be a major triumph and a turning point in my life

    • @DianaCarolinaGirl22
      @DianaCarolinaGirl22 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you made it through?

    • @virgilrytaar9083
      @virgilrytaar9083 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DianaCarolinaGirl22 amazingly, I did. Thankyou, I'm still going through withdrawal but I'm determined to beat it

  • @stephenmorton8017
    @stephenmorton8017 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was a well-stated and well presented exposition of positivism. Well done.

  • @Anvanho
    @Anvanho 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Right after I stopped (22 years ago) I experienced drastic improvement to my sleeping. I would say within days I felt it. Scary dreams subsided and quietly faded away for good, as well.
    Other changes include healthy gut behaviour; return of relaxed, confident mind and mood. and physical stamina (I'm a runner).
    Great video.

  • @tqn65
    @tqn65 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow...What a great communicator....I have cut my drinking down quite a bit over the last 4 years and now I am trying to stop drinking completely....This channel will help.

    • @martinhill2583
      @martinhill2583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Go for gold friend 🎉

  • @damianlopez7630
    @damianlopez7630 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You Simon. I went through 3 days of Withdrawals.

  • @calvinbealer7264
    @calvinbealer7264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I was Drinking. I Let it get the Best of Me. I've been sober for 5 years. And I don't miss it at all. Once again Thank You Very Much SIR.

  • @MrPants1970
    @MrPants1970 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I quit a week ago, still,feeling a bit rubbish and scared I have left it too late, great video thank you 🙏 ❤ subscribed

  • @mrshifter9582
    @mrshifter9582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I signed up yesterday, I want to change my bad habit so much.

  • @davidkeith9015
    @davidkeith9015 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your great programme 7 days off the drink on the alcohol for over 46 years one of the problems that I experienced was severe constipation and sleep deprivation and my anxiety was very severe but I know that I have to go through cold turkey I have made a pledge to my son that I will never drink again.much appreciated

  • @chriswood7165
    @chriswood7165 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 12 days in stopped all drinking and Cigars. Its been very interesting watching the fight inside of me.

  • @aminaarmiento6820
    @aminaarmiento6820 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you & God bless you!🙏

  • @stevencaldwell838
    @stevencaldwell838 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Day 2 for me… I’ve been drinking off and on for decades… I’ve gone over a year sober, 6 months here and there, a month or two from time to time but always went back to the bottle! With a wife and young daughter now, its time to give it another go🙏

    • @orethe09
      @orethe09 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck mate

    • @Mrspeedwell
      @Mrspeedwell ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you going?

    • @stevencaldwell838
      @stevencaldwell838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mrspeedwell 2 1/2 weeks… feeling great with no desire to drink. The real test is when we go to Mexico for a month long surf trip. I’ll cross that bridge when I get there. Thanks for asking 🙏

    • @DLY0898
      @DLY0898 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck on your surf trip! When you’re tempted, try to remember your “why” - why you’ve chosen the difficult journey to sobriety.

    • @stevencaldwell838
      @stevencaldwell838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DLY0898 thanks buddy!

  • @krishnasaru
    @krishnasaru 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's my day first. Getting very hard to sleep. By reading all these comments, my not to drink decision is becoming stronger.

  • @jgdooley2003
    @jgdooley2003 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video and great support for people giving up alcohol. My journey started with an eye condition called wet macular retinal obstruction. This can be aggravated by high blood pressure and high cholesterol. Also high liver enzymes suggesting fatty liver were detected at my blood assay and physical test I undertook as a result of discovering the eye condition.
    Push came to shove and the doctor recommended cutting to less than 14 units a week.
    As I have a very compulsive and addictive personality, I know this from cigarettes 33 years ago, I decided to quit drink altogether.
    19 days off and my mind is much clearer and focussed than it ever was as an adult, drinking since age 19, and now I notice the number of people around me who DONT drink or do so very moderately.
    Unlike most people I do not have an "OFF" switch when it comes to addictive things.
    Like my time giving up tobacco I am only in the early stages of giving up alcohol but many of the personal skills I learned giving up cigarettes I can now apply to alcohol.
    You do not TRY to gove up something, you just DO it. THe word " try "gives people an opt out if they regress to drinking again. The mind will try to subvert your will and resolve in many different ways because the body likes "business as usual". This is known as homeostasis and also applies to food habits and weight loss.
    Another thing to watch out for is social settings and friends who may try to encourage a former drinking buddy to go back to the old ways of drinking. Happily in my case all my close friends are non drinkers or very modest drinkers who do not try to encourage me to drink so at my age tha is not a problem.
    Social messaging and adverts are a problem in that I never realised how much money is spent on advertising drink and also gambling and junk food. Something needs to be done about this but governments will not do it because of all the lovely taxes they get with present arrangements.
    Solving this problem and going up against these corporate interests is well beyond my pay grade. At least now I am aware of the problem.

  • @HighCountryRambler
    @HighCountryRambler ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had the false impression beer wasn't really alcohol, found out the hard way.
    Thanks for the video.

  • @billgiles3261
    @billgiles3261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I gave up alcohol a while ago as I thought that it was bad for me (after 50 years of excess!). When lockdown came I started again but much less, a couple of bottles of wine a week. After being diagnose with AFib I cut out alcohol completely. I was tempted to have a glass of wine and then two on holiday. I woke in the night with a racing heart so that stopped that sneaky drinking. I still enjoy a small glass of wine on my birthday and at Christmas so I am not TT. But I do now count myself as a ex-habitual drinker. I’ve lost about 30lb and my BP has also reduced over the years since my heavy drinking days. I also feel much better.

  • @incremental_failure
    @incremental_failure 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My reasons were all health related. I had not many social issues from alcohol. Liver is a big one but heart problems are extremely common and often the cause of death. I had heart arrhythmia at dangerous levels but since I stopped drinking, it has disappeared. Lastly, brain and focus issues are critical if you work with your mind.

  • @kennethbrown2193
    @kennethbrown2193 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stopped drinking 10 years ago sometimes feel tempted but will never start again.

  • @emmanuellewis2139
    @emmanuellewis2139 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is great 👍 thanks

  • @josephsnisky1851
    @josephsnisky1851 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your whole body and senses wake back up. Life becomes great again. I'm glad I got sick of the smell of it right on time for the grandkids. Although disappointment and discussed sets in when you see how you and family have been treated and attacked. The way things have gotten are hard to put up with.

  • @franreid8203
    @franreid8203 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stopped smoking and drinking same day, hard slog for awhile but feel great now. Life is good, being alive is a gift.

  • @annanelson6830
    @annanelson6830 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3 days. 4 nights. Nights are the hardest.

    • @annanelson6830
      @annanelson6830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perthwatchgirl Starting again.

    • @annanelson6830
      @annanelson6830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perthwatchgirl Thank you so much.

  • @ketotrucker6262
    @ketotrucker6262 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you ❤

  • @esteban1487
    @esteban1487 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is as good a time as any to quit drinking Bud Light. 🤣