You have an attachment wound and it’s affecting your romantic relationships.

Understanding what attachment wounds are and where they come from is essential to being in healthy relationships.
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Our first and most significant attachment is formed when we’re infants with our caregivers. It’s important that we get our emotional and basic needs met. If they’re met we’ll start to feel a secure attachment. However, often times those needs are not met or they’re only met sometimes and this can cause trauma which creates attachment wounds.
If you’re a child and you’re not getting your needs met then your brain is going to internalize what’s happening in a very child like way. It can’t not. Children’s brains don’t understand that parents and caregivers can do anything wrong. By default a child is going to automatically think that it’s their fault and something is wrong with them.
If that wound is still present as an adult you’re going to be attracted and magnetized to relationships that will continue to hurt you or let you down in the same way your caregivers did. This happens because we are always looking to confirm our narratives and deepest fears.
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