WHEN YOU MEET YOUR BOYFRIENDS ASIAN PARENTS FOR THE FIRST TIME 🤣 || SKITS WITH SHU
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- I think I passed the test! Literally! Tell me some of the horror stories meeting your in laws please!!
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Was the pregnancy test supposed to be a pregnancy reveal? Sorry if I'm misunderstanding 😭😭😭
@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ Jesus is not god mate sorry
@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ he’s a prophet
Wait. Are you telling Harvard diplomas are pieces of paper?. Regardless... congratulations. Harvard isn't an easy school to get into.
“Asian” parents when you actually mean “Chinese” parents
“You can do so much better”
But mom I love her!
“I was talking to her”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol, Just a warning when I start writing comedy scripts, I am SO stealing this from you.
Accurate.
😂
Actually, my wife's mother (Korean) said that to me when I first met her 🤣
First they were thinking "is she's good for our son???" but now they must be thinking that "is our son good enough for her???"
536 likes but not reply? Lem me fix that
Bruh not even more than 2 people replied
Ok
Facts 👏✨💅✨❤️✨
😂😂😂😂 facts
They went from "if you fuck this up for my son, we will hunt you down" to "if you fuck this up, my son, we will hunt you down" 🤣🤣🤣
I love when the mom said “we’re big on family” and she holds up the pregnancy test and the boyfriend’s expression was hilarious. Damn she’s good and knows what to say and do.
The funny part is that she didn't say anything 😂😂
I love how the son is just like 'oh, sh*t' when he saw the pregnancy test while the father looks at his son like 'boy, wtf, you really don't know what you're getting into' 💀
But the mother seems to be more than happy to expect her grandchild as soon as possible.
Asian moms and Latino moms are like that. After being married for 2 years, I'm 27, and she's 25. My wife is Vietnamese, and my parents are both half white and half Mexican. I can tell you. My mom and her mom were excited, and her dad told me in his most Vietnamese accent, "mf bullshit you fk ma daughter" like its not normal and my dad was just like "pendejo, ya se acabo el corrido". After my son was born, her dad was excited talking about paying his piano classes, and my dad was already planning on putting him on the will to the farm like I don't exist.
@@dethtour 2 years ... really. My mother in law asked me if I felt myself well in 5 days after wedding. And in a month took me a doctor saying that I didn't get pregnant in 30 days. Certainly doctor punished her but ... . Unfortunately in our country brides should immediately get pregnant otherwise couples get divorced.
Pregnancy can happen the very first time or it can take over a year that’s just normal. Even birth control fails 20% with repeated use. All the statistics act as if you only do it one time. Wait till marriage to pretend your married. To stop your child’s heart with abortion is wrong, better to stop sleeping with someone you wouldn’t want as the parent of your child.
&Shoira Shukhrat Where are you for?
Dad's expression in the end says it all.
Dad (in his mind): "Damn son. It's a checkmate. You've got a puppeteer just like your mother."
He actually knew... He went through the same AND knew he couldn't do anything to stop It now
@@gillove189for the love of god
@@gillove189i mean i get why she feels that way but factually speaking saying asian parents for a couple of asians who are parents is correct and it’s not like it’s offensive calling them that. Calling two asian parents, asian parents cause you don’t want to assume their race is different from calling something you know is a korean drama, an asian drama.
(Also there’s a lot of other famous asian dramas like chinese, malaysian, japanese etc. that people could also be referring too when they say asian dramas.)
@@gillove189 Uhh not really, people usually lumps them together as western or white people. Still bad tho. As for hongkong people, why do they hate china so much? I mean I feel like as outside bystander, chinese government although oppressive is still better than hongkong government. Hongkong government tax little to corporation and in turn the people suffers. Especially those coffin homes, which is result of land bid, making housing hella expensive. I feel like chinese government although obnoxious with their policy, at least they built a lot of thing for people
@@gillove189they mean Chinese, Japanese and Koreans, specifically the Hans, Yamatos and Joseons, the ones with the highest IQ and cultures all are heavily influenced by the Tang dynasty.
Just like how American doesn’t mean the entirety of America, it means people born in the USA.
Stop living under a rock.
I love how she just wrote "I’m Chinese" lol also didn’t expect the last one🤣
To be fair, my asian parents were based enough to realise that Asian guys have it tough dating, they were really happy when I introduced to them a kind and thoughtful girl.
How's it going for you two?
@@sirizalotstoilet7524 married with our first child, parents on both sides are overjoyed.
Congratulations! 🎉🎉
@@captainross4706Damn...Life goes fast...Great news after a yr..
@@captainross4706congrats bro
The dad’s hair looks like it’s something out of a Pixar movie, it’s so perfect!
He looks like the gramps from the movie "Up"
@@jungkooksmissingnightappleYeah but as a younger and Asian version. Pretty amazing
Looking like a cartoon dad.
Ikr !
He should start an onlyfans
That pregnant sequence lmao. I'd react like that father too if I was one in that situation. He's got "oh, you stupid boy, what have you done" all over his face.
Dad seems too experienced in this. Like he went through something similar and now is afraid of his son's future with this girl. Cause mom likes him...haha
As Uncle Roger would say, you wash the rice before you steam it, not after!
@@firedup692 😂
@@anushkachakraborty8635 what do you mean go in detials😊
Why???? Shouldn't the father be happy that his son landed a woman who is sooo accomplished and smart????
I am Pakistani and can totally relate to that except from the pregnancy part before marriage 😂😂😂
so do as a Chinese😂
Grape
Some tribes wants to make sure that the girl is fertile.
So do as an Indian 😂😂
So do as an Iranian 😂
The most unbelievable part was the boy wearing a long earring in such a conservative family.
Shu has everything going in a relationship. Omg!!!
Yup
She even pregnant before marriage! Wait...
@@tusk444 Yeah, she totally just "got" pregnant. Not like her boyfriend had anything to do with that..... 🙄🙄🙄 You know, it takes two to tango. If he didn't want her to get pregnant, he should've been more careful.
@@bellebonebag8096 What if she used someone else's pregnancy test kit?
@@hahaha00000 "What if"??? It's a satire video, bro, there is no "What if". What you see is what happened. Are you ok?
Just do not cross your Asian mother-in-law and you will be loved fiercely.Asian father-in-law may be the head but Asian mother-in-law is the neck that turns around the head.Remember,first impression is always the game changer.
This doesn't work with Indian mother in laws though, unfortunately. You can do everything right, to the point they brag to their friends about how nice their room is and how thoughtful the daughter in law was to buy you the specific soaps and things she knows you like. But they still hate you for no reason. Mine is like this. She is ungrateful and disrespectful. I did anything and everything for her for 2 months until I found out she was ruining all my belongings by being reckless. Then she would deny she did anything and scream and cry if you pressed the issue.
She broke multiple dishes (which only come in sets so hard to replace) in just 3 months. She ruined 2 of my pans. She broke my shower curtain. She stained my rug, shower curtain, and tub with hair dye. She covered my kitchen in dirt and grime without ever cleaning up after herself. She was in the kitchen all day every day but only cooking for her son and herself, not me. And I mean she started at 6am and didn't stop til midnight. When I told her I needed to use the kitchen the day before Thanksgiving she screamed and cried that we wanted her to starve to death. She rearranged my entire pantry in a nonsensical way, because she didn't know what anything was she just put boxes with boxes, bags with bags, etc. She rearranged my cabinets in the same way. So many things. 😞
Now there's big tension bc I don't want her in my home ever again because I feel extremely offended and disrespected. And when I tried to explain that, she wanted to excuse it by saying "that's her culture" and that I needed to adapt. But I have my own culture, and she was in my home, in my country. Also I know it's not her culture, because I know a lot of others from her culture and I discussed these things with them. They're not even my friends, they're my husband's friends wives and even they said she was taking things to an unreasonable extreme. She treated my home as if it was my husband's home when he was a bachelor, and we've been living together for 2 years already. I was flexible enough, she was completely rigid.
I flexed so hard I broke and literally didn't leave my room for the last month she was here. I survived on protein bars and takeout my husband brought me which was nothing new by then since she had dominated my kitchen for months already. She triggered my eating disorder to come back because even though I only ate 1 meal a day it was takeout so I gained 15lbs in 3 months. I'm still trying to recover from that and she left a month ago.
I hate this feeling of rejection from her. His dad and sister are even on my side with this saying she is "just like that, it's not your fault". I said if she really thinks her behavior is acceptable, she needs therapy and medication. But I just wanted harmony in the family. My parents have accepted us and helped us so much when we were first starting out. They lent us their car, bought us a few furnishings, took us out to eat, etc. My mom is even sponsoring him for the green card process right now so he won't have to deal with renewing work visas and the restrictions work visas come with. Even my grumpy sister is super nice to my husband and likes him a lot. He's great, I love him so much and I don't want this tension for him. But I have to stand up for myself too. We're in our 30s as well, not super young.
I hope no one read all this lol I just need to vent, really. I'm still so upset when I think of all of this.
@@lavenderohgood luck 👍
May God help you. You’re not the only one living these things. Every time my mom in law comes it is a source of stress. Mine says she does not know anything, does not understand ´work from home’, she gets emotional for nothing (in comparison I feel like a stone as I don’t cry for anything at all), when we work she says we let her alone and she let herself starve all day long until we come, she does everything I don’t agree with(gives my son sweets and not fruits, she gives my son money when he needs to deserve it), she’s happy when her son disagree with me, she’s unhappy when my husband helps me and she tells him in front of me ´let me do it for you’, she wants her son to take her out all day and then she complains he does not work, I put attention to eat balanced meals and she does not eat my meals complaining that she does not feel good and is not hungry, when she cooks she does not accept the same behaviour or she will tell her son to take her home and my husband is very attached to his mom well being. I agreed to have her with us as I had no prejudice against her but her behaviour over time puts me in stress state every time she comes.
She has good qualities as every human being but her old school manners and education does not match my way of life nor thinking. Still, I have to be patient for my husband and I hope time will give me reason as she is the righteous person by default
My Big Fat Greek Wedding reference nice
@lavenderoh8104 moroccan here and we have the same exact types of toxic mothers in law. I'm not married yet but here's the thing : talk with your husband and if she has to stay in your house, she'll either abide by the rules or get the hell out of there. Same if she screams and cries, out.
Nobody deserves to have such priviliges, not even for the sake of your husband. Do it now as long as your husband "needs your family supoort" because it will be too late later.
@@lavenderoh holy crap your MIL is doing more damage to the home than I ever did in my life, including childhood
The ending killed me. The dad approved until the end xD
I think it's more he was mad his son is so irresponsible 😂😂😂
Nah, I'm pretty sure he still approved, but he just couldn't believe his son messed up so bad.
This girl was prepared for this interview. LoL 🤣❤️❤️❤️
With there secret weapon preserve for the end💫💫✨
but pregnancy before marriage seems to be a big no no in traditional asian families 🤣
edit: I want to clarify some stuff... Some of y'all think that not encouraging pregnancy before marriage means disapproving of the marriage/aborting the child. What I actually mean is we are discouraged from getting pregnant before we are married but in the event we do get pregnant, we would most likely marry as soon as possible so that the child will have a happy family. ☺️ Hope this clarifies!
yeah but in Chinese families they'd marry them right away
Not really, with asian parents, if she already has one in oven, its to get married before it shows.
The moms reaction is priceless
@@rainningstorm marriage should be thought and planned well, though 😔
@@silscr If u can f*ck you should be able to get married too.
choices come with consequences
That’s how you become the girlfriend the parents like more than their own child lmao. This woman has two sets of parents now even if they break up.
“Sorry our son can’t marry you because you are too good for this pig”
When I met my boyfriends Asian parents (I was in middle school btw) they were super nice and welcoming as I had known him previously since the first day of school at our pre-school. We’ve broken up now but we’re still close and I’m especially close with his younger sister! He’s also still the boy that I fell in love with and now we’re in junior high.
UPDATE: we got back together and both of our lives have become brighter!
WW3: Did someone say Nuclear bright?
My parents would've already said 'i do' after they saw that doctorate degree
😂😂😂😂
"Do you...take this girl to be your lawfully wedded daughter-in-law? Do you promise to treat her as if she were your own?"
Parents: "I do. Who needs this son. Will adopt you instead!!"😃
How much debt was taken to get a political science degree at Harvard.
@@KirstaRunner Enough
His parents' facial expression changed greatly when they saw her pregnancy test is positive :D
Their facial expressions alone already won the oscars Lol 🤣😂😂
LOL the mom was like yes she got him! I get to keep her!
@@MissMiserize and the dad was like "YOU STUPID BOY".
The expressions on the parents' faces. The father's like: "Boy, you stupid?!" Meanwhile the mother is overjoyed with "Grandbaby!!!" running in her mind on a continuous loop.
@@tashas4241 lol 😂😆🤣
As a Peruvian I can say that we have the same interview even when friends are invited 😅😅😅😅 everything is exact the same except for the pregnancy, I've seen many cousins that have gone through the same 😂😂😂😂😂
The way she nailed the coaster test had me cracking up 😂
I'm not Asian but watch so many various Asian dramas I understand how critical it is to impress.
She's rocking it!
Yap,Koreans,Japanese Arabians,Indians,Filipinos or Malaysians are Asians including Chinese even Iraqis are Asians,they should use specific ethnic origins not Asians as Asian is a broad word,my culture doesn not care their children will marry
@@senbm4095 sorry. Normal people can figure it out. Sorry you can't. Eait you can it's why you are whining about it cause you thought I was talking about you and your ideology when I was saying Asian based off the actual video.
Stop being a drama queen. This is why you get picked on.
@@Realmreaver1 just want to say that not all Asians are like that, they should use specific ethnic groups of Asian,thank you
@@Realmreaver1 lesson learned, people who does not know Asian geography dont just believe what they watch in YT, so many asian country with own culture and traditions, you must correct them when they use Asian in general, not all Asians are alike in tradition and culture so much so with looks..
@@senbm4095 ok Asian people who are not insecure. Does that define it better for you? Caucasian, white, cracker, Hillbilly ; whatever. I am so thankful I wasn't raised to be so insecure about my heritage being generalized.
Unless I know them in person they are stranger and I take opinions with a grain of salt and not cling to every strangers remarks.
Last post I will make about this.
I can see the tension there😂 good job Shu! Nice work❤❤
It's not you in your profile picture. 🤮🤮🤮
Shu is pregnant, who's baby is it.
@@user-mr6rq2uo7n everyone knows. 😑
@Nora Tiysa ew wtf
@@teddx_bear8647 I'm talking about the original commenter.
"You deserve better"
"But mom I love her so mu..."
"I'm talking to her!!"
Panderverse
🤣🤣 OMG the dad's face once she whipped out the pregnancy stick was like, "son you're life is over now, WHY are you stupid?!" Meanwhile the son's face was like, "NO I'm not ready yet!!"
Shu is aiming to conquer the world with much more achievements to come 😂
They thinking rn . Not enough .
The daughter in law ... What
The parents of the son ... Not you i was talking abt him
Like Shu is their daughter dayyymm
😂
Father: son what the meaning of this
Son:dad i can explain
Father: tell it to my belt😠
Son:😱😱
LOOOL
hahahahahah damn the belt is worse than the clothes hanger
@@TheOneShuoh man when you mean that for real it isn't funny but abuse. I find it really upsetting that everyone puts it in that comedic sense 😓
@@Sophie-vw5ol by any chance your parents aren’t Hispanic or Asian?
@@Sophie-vw5ol it's called discipline, when done in the right circumstances. When wrong actions don't have consequences, society will disintegrate into chaos. It's even biblical not to spare the rod.
My mom to my gf: You shouldnt be with him cause you will never be happy with this thing
This is kinda the one thing I don't get... I'm Asian myself and this is so accurate... When meeting the men's family it's like your getting an interview on being a baby sitter like wtf???
LMAAAAO Dad by the end side eyeing his son like she's his daughter. 😆
The last part had me rolling on the floor🤣
Mom: We are big on family
Shu: shows pregnancy test
Mom: WELCOME TO THE FAMILY 😆
Dad: wtf boy
Me: 😂😂😂
I just love this video! Can't stop rewatching it.
Fun story about my first serious bf (this was in high school)
Their parents (chinese) were very traditional and (this is still a mystery) they assumed I didnt speak Chinese because I looked half white(? - my parents are Chinese. Its weird. I still get questions).
So...whenever I went over, their parents made a deal of smack talking me in chinese while my then bf and I spoke only English. I did my best to play dumb. But i couldnt handle it anymore. So...i eventually broke up with him (he didnt really do anything to defend me either but he 15. I dont really expect him to either). And I explained the situation to him in English - to his horror, he realized I understood everything his parents said.
Got an apology from his parents 15 years later. :')
That was a long time for realizing and apologizing🙄... seem they didn't forget it after all...
They probably realised that their son hadn't found anyone better yet
@alexandrapankratov1906 my ex's grandmother was at the hospital and needed a translator and I was the only one that could speak it fluently 😅
Water under the bridge now 😊
@@cassandramuller7337alas, he's getting married next year lol. Shes a sweetie and speaks mandarin fluently too lol
Your mom owed you and dad an explanation since you look half white.
Shu is great as away making our day by making us laugh
Father expression: Gosh your so stupid!
Son: I didn’t know dad
Father: What did I tell you about using protection 😠
Son: Am so sorry 😢 😅😅
I love how ready she was for everything I laughed so hard
I love the way the Mom and Dad react so differently to the pregnancy tester.... 😂😂
Parents: Where did you study?
Her: Harvard.
Parents: Never heard before. Not a real school!
The mom is so accurate, im not even dating, yet every girl that i acquainted with gets the "profile scanning" and "interview" indirectly
I had it the other way around when I met my ex gf's parents.
Her dad really liked me cause I could do the grill and he liked that his daughter was dating someone educated who was already making good money and was her age (I had landed a good corpo job).
He called me when we broke up to ask what happened. He was not happy 🤣😭
Edit 1: We broke up because we wanted to proceed differently with the relationship. She was going to college and she wanted me to move to her city and rent an apartment. I didn't want to move. She felt that it wasn't ok that I still lived in my family home, but at the time, my family needed the extra help so I couldn't move. We went back and forth on this for a few month before she broke up with me. It tussled my mind up a bit lol. Her dad thought that was a really, really dumb reason.
What happened?
Yeah bro, you can't just leave us hanging here
Everybody will curious to know what happend.
He probably cheated on her..
Tell us what happened😂
it's so funny I didn't expect it 😂😂😂
Sex before marriage is a big no in Asian families...maybe they can say what can prove me that the baby is from our son
Haha! It's standard Asian parents reaction, they care about your academic qualifications and your family background, that's it.🎉❤
“you should find someone better.”
“mom! Be nice to her.”
“I wasnt talking to you.”
"Son, are you good enough for her?" 😂
The unrealistic part is the son has an ear piercing. That's a no-no in front of Asian parents
Well Done!
Hilarious!
You nailed it in 62 seconds!
She's definitely the cousin they ask why you can't be like 😂
_She took the last request to another level_ ㅋㅋ
This girl is dangerous. 😂
This is one of my fav videos of you guys 😂❤
The plot twist at the end had me cackling! 🤣
Also showing the picture of her like a beauty queen and some artist I guess makes me laugh so hard and the last one I really laugh at is when the mom said we are big ni family 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg! This is so spot on esp the educational background 🤭
At Last Moment -
Mommy Rocked
Daddy Shocked
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The mom's reaction at the end is priceless
The mum's reaction was hilarious 😂
@@rinaprocrastinator9191 yes it was really funny
son's panicking because she pregnant before marrige and the parents already accepted her 😂 hilarious
This is gold 🤑
This could go for almost any culture!😂😂 Love it.❤
“Where did you stu-?”
*shows Harvard certificate*
Lol! This was fun to watch. Everybody nailed their expressions. I enjoyed it. Thank you!
I miss my mother in law. She was a feisty lady who thought the world of me (not that I deserved it). This is funny and sweet. I'm already like these parents with my children's boyfriends/girlfriends. You just always want what's best for your child, however old they are 👍
Edit: I come from a high achieving family, but not an Asian family
I love it! That was awesome!!! 😂😂😂
She should’ve responded with, “No, would YOU like some tea?”
This entire video made me giggle but the pregnancy test at the end, that got me the most 😂😂
The "we're big on family" was my favorite part 🤣
Love how she writes out that she is a Chinese person but not that she speaks Chinese.
She is perfect God has blessed you both may this blessing continuous ever after
Shu take her pregnant test😂😂😂
Ya 😂😂
As an Asian I know this real Welly 🤣 if that was my parents they would say "How the hell this idiotic lazy got this gem "
Than after seeing her pregnancy test 💀 my dad will simply break all my bones
What about yo mom?
Where r u from btw?
@@adeekivlogs105 Bangladeshi living in Germany
This is one big thing Asian families get right. High expectations beget better results in the long run. Love it
U fool
Oh 😂! This cracked me up, especially that part when she pulled out the pregnancy test and seeing everyone’s reaction to that! 😂
That was unexpected.
My mother in law's favorite expression was Don't make a bad impression. You can imagine how much fun I had with her.🤦♀️
The moms huge smile after the pregnancy test cracks me up
I like the implicit threat of the pregnancy test..., lol ... Grandparents who want to see their grandchildren better be nice to the daughter-in-law....
Wow.. Loved this ❤
Loved the concept.
😍😍
Are the they the guys real parents,he looks allot like the dad
Dad at the end like "WHAT DA HAIL????"
Me thinking, “wasn’t this guy the blue ranger in Power rangers?”
I'm not Asian, but I just knew she did everything perfect 👏👏👏
So funny! Love how prepared that girl was 😂
All I could do is laugh. I needed this.
Very Funny video that you made Yes! the experience on meeting someone and while you later on introduce your family to them which we all have been down that road before.
I'm sure she needed to bring copy of her parents diplomas and professional awards too.
Even in Russia grandparents and grandparents usually help A LOT with raising kids, so it is reasonable to know who are those people.
It's amazing the editing and make up those two had to do to look like their older and younger selves. It's believable that there are really that many people in the room.
That was nothing short of superb, thank you
The look from dad was more along the lines of
You should have told me you needed money for a ring. I felt that in my soul.
Rule no1, get his mother to like you, his dad's affection doesn't matter
😂😂 this is so funny, so you have to be good at PTS after all
Great video it had me 😂 they interviewed her like it was a job interview 😂. She nailed it 👍.
this is my favorite thing to watch. i've watched this at least 100 times
@@ordinaryname6665 wont attack you for saying your opinion, and okay.
Father in law looks like some kind of k-drama actor, dapper as hell
This is gold 😅
His dad is really cool, I wish I can be like him in that age
Shu has got it all, XD this is hilarious