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I agree with what she was implying about the reason, infact the general reason why very young Filipinas date and marry old men. It is to alleviate their poor living conditions. But there are few and it likely include Pea who aren't really poor but are fine dating older men for the reason that they are accomplished, and mature. But most women including the westerners look for the financially secure men to settle down with. This is universal.
When I was almost 4 years old, I had my tonsils removed. There was this Filipina nurse who took care of me. Every since then, I've been fond of those women. When I met my Filam wife, I fell quickly in love! She was 15 and I was 16. She just turned 58,and I will be 59 in September. I am a lucky man!
Now Glenda is the type of lady I would come to the Philippines to have a relationship with. I’m 62 and I can’t see myself with a 22 or 25 year old. Please bring more ladies in the 50+ group on your channel. I wonder how many other guys feel like me.
I met my Filipina wife 7 yrs ago. She flew in from Singapore and me from NY. We went to her parents house in order that they could meet me. Which I'm glad we did. I was able to spend time with her while family and her dad. He passed four months after I met him. We are both old school and wanted to show our respect for each other and her family. We are married now.
Miss Pea, Every time you have Glenda on your channel , it will be a big hit with us mature men. She is educated, cultured, and understands life, in a different way then younger women. I know it might be hard to find more women like her on the show, but some of us would prefer to meet Ladies like her. Thanks Again😊
Always love seeing Glenda as your guest. She was the type of person I was looking for when I started my search. Educated, well spoken, equally agreeable and opinionated and easy to carry a multi-topic conversation with. I would have been too young for her (she doesn't strike me as the cougar type), I was very fortunate to find the 39 year old version of her and couldn't be happier. I hope to see more of this great guest!
If I were to move to the Philippines, it would be women like Glenda that I would be looking for. Women who are much closer to my own age, and who speak English as well as she does.
Most will agree with you on this one... not about the men and women game play... plus why not learn the language of the land... we are aggressive to have foreign people to learn English when they are in the U.S
Great to see Glenda again. I love her sense of humor. Always ask for a cenomar. Yes, I'm old and yes, I'll die soon. Recently found out I have stage three renal failure, with a life expectancy of 6 years. Kinda strange to realize that you know what they will put on your death certificate. I made my peace with God when I was in my 20's. The lifestyle I was living made me wonder if I would make it to 30. I'm 67, with multiple medical issues ( severe rheumatoid arthritis, severe osteoporosis, blood pressure and erectile dysfunction ) and my wife still stands with me. I met her when I was 31 and she changed my life completely. Great interview, Pea. Take care and I'll see you next Tuesday.
Pea: Glenda is like a breath of fresh air. She is funny, intelligent, and very openly witty. I would bet she can't have a conversation without at least something in there to laugh about. She would brighten anyone's day just having a conversation with them. She could almost do her own channel " understanding the Dumaguete Dialog" or something. I think it would be useful. Already looking forward to Tuesday's video, I know it will be just as awesome as the rest of them.
@@TheFilipinaPea. Miss Filipino pea I am attracted to Filipino women I would like to meet the right lady one day I have listened to you and the ladies that you have interviewed and another married couple that does shows like yours on TH-cam I have mixed messages from some of the videos I am on Christian Filipino I hope I can meet the right lady. Your videos are awesome watching them and the nurse that you interview that's 45 forgot her name she's absolutely beautiful I wish that I could come to the Philippines and meet that nurse
Excellent guest. Very sound, articulate, reasonable, happy, and a great sounding board. Her honesty on the various subject matters was off the chart! Pea, great job.
So good to see Glenda on your channel again. Such a well rounded down to earth lady. She gives the best answers to your questions. And when her answers raise Pea's eyebrows... adorably cute❣️
Thank you, Pea, for leading this conversation and thank you, Glenda, for being so open. You're a very surprising pair! A most interesting discussion with some unusual twists!
WOWWWWWW Pea , from 700 subscribers ( when I first started watching you ) to 237, 000 wow it's amazing, it is because you do great videos and great topics , plus you are very beautiful and honest
The Honesty is what I love best. The next thing l enjoy is you are able to laugh at things that are not perfect. I am tired looking at the perfect picture with the perfect life which most social media portrays. Life is complex and that is ok with me. All the Best Pea!!!!
I love Ms. Glenda, she's so much fun to listen to. She's intelligent, "logical (sometimes?)" beautiful and a happy person. Could this be Pea in her retirement years? 😁
Two of the most complete Philippines based vloggers imho - Pea and Calvin of Sunshine Shoulders. Addressing real life holistic topics as adults. West meets East, Man meets Woman. I have learned so much from both of them. Much O’bliged.
Please don't compare Calvin with Pea. She is a good hearted person. Calvin has fathered at least 3 illegitimate children while living there that he doesn't support along with the ones he left in the US and is a womanizer beneath his 'help others out when you can' facade.
@@bryankoziar2867 finally someone other than myself sees the exact same thing! There’s no comparison from A - Z! Plus, Calvin states his wife in the U.S. won’t give him a divorce…if you’re from the U.S. you know it’s impossible for a judge not to grant a divorce because the other party refuses to sign.
@@bryankoziar2867 Who is comparing? I just stated that I, emphasis on my speaking personally, feel that there are 2 vloggers that give good / holistic / practical information. I am not going to take Calvin to task based on what I perceive to be who he was in his past. I don't know him, I don't know any of the circumstances, etc. just like I don't know the Pea, past or present. I only get a glimpse into who I think they may be (including their own admissions to being human, making mistakes, and also contributing to the community) from a few TH-cam videos, so I just stay focused on the info they provide, which brings me back to my original comment. Why don't I judge? In my past, I committed a crime / got arrested, I cheated on a girlfriend and lost 'the love of my life', and did a bunch of things that I would never do now and am not proud of. If you knew me now, you would never think those things could even have happened because I have gotten to where I needed / want to be as a person. Knowing that we all have a journey and experiences that make us who we are today helps me avoid engaging in judgement and cancel culture.
Miss Glenda is a lovely, exuberant lady. Yes, communication is very important in a relationship. Love her honesty and everyone can learn from her. Thank you Miss Pea for bringing her on.
this has been one of the most genuine videos I've ever seen by you Miss Pea. I'd love to see a part 3 of you two just chatting, keeping it real like this. brilliant... thank you for posting it. Safe jouorney
Spot on about the emotionality. A few decades ago, I met a really beautiful Filipina through my best friend's fiancée (also a Filipina) when I was 30 and working in New York as a lawyer. She was mid-20's and worked for Hong Kong Airlines. The first couple of months of the relationship were great, but each time we would have an argument/disagreement about anything, even the smallest things, she would seemingly check her "reasoning powers" at the door. In the end I could only conclude that she was childish and immature, just not for me. However, over time I've come to understand the cultural basis for this as my friend's wife was very similar. Luckily for my friend he and his wife were able to overcome a few rocky patches very early on (due to her immaturity) and have now been married happily for almost 33 years ... and I still sometimes think back to the beautiful girl that maybe I should have been more patient with. Great job as always Pea!
Well done Pea Thanks for keeping me informed. You have to learn what makes your woman get what she needs. You have to ask her how it feels and what you can do better. You have to know her needs as well as you know your own. I was taught to help your wife treat her with respect and love. Chivalry is what makes a woman happy to let her know you care
I'm thinking to myself, "Wow, that was 25 minutes?" It's always wonderful to see you and watch your videos. You pack a lot of information in them. Miss Glenda is always a delight to see. It doesn't surprise me that the lady has gentlemen wanting to talk with her. She is stunningly beautiful. On the topic of the big "O" I can tell you that I have counselled many couples over the years and it's amazing that how recurrent that topic is. Thank you for always giving us the best videos.
Great interview! Old school rules, with your fresh perspective makes good entertainment. Glenda is a classic. Fun to listen to her wisdom complemented with your fresh generational steering. Win win audiences
I just love your personality Pea! Lived and loved in Makati for over a decade. So if you like to come to LA and need a big lovely home to stay in, my son who is 17 from Antepolo would be more than happy to host you and entertain you. Don't know why you were hangin in FL for so long. LA is the place to be for all cultures especially yours! Muah!
Talks with Glenda are never long enough! She brings out the best in you too lovely Pea. So many thoughtful topics and laughs in that 25 minutes! I would say intelligence is what always draws me rather than education. Education is often a factor of location and background but intelligence can overcome a lack of access to schools or tutors? Thank you so much lovely Pea, made my day! 😘🙏🏻❤
Ms. Glenda is a ray of sunshine and you are a super star! You are both intelligent and charming, with a hint of spice. Thanks for an honest interview, as always. 😘
Back in the seventies, (1970's, yeah, I'm that old), I remember reading an article in some magazine where the author was trying to estimate the percentage of women faking orgasms. Most of the article is long forgotten but one line has stuck with me through the years. "The penalty for faking orgasms is fake orgasms." Sad that people have so much trouble communicating what they want or need from a partner.
@@MrMichaelBCurtis I still crack up over the restaurant scene in "when harry met sally". I've heard that the woman who says, "I'll have what she's having", was actually Meg Ryan's mother.
Oh heck Pea, you just get better and better! Love Glenda, so refreshing to hear you two talk hilariously about taboo subjects that many of us want to hear. 10/10.
Great video Pea, she’s incredible and a great great interview. I would agree with your assessments of percentages of Filipinas who have experienced the big O from my personal experiences there. Thanks again for a very enjoyable interview.
Unconditional love happens with time, and true love situations. Once more than the couple itself, but everyone sees the two as one, it will be very difficult, to step away from something like that. This is a 'whole' love aspect, that will be treasured, and cannot be replaced.
There are plenty of educated men who are not afraid of a woman being his equal, or even above him (as far as career or financial independence goes). As long as you treat each other equally, it creates a much better chance of long, lasting respect. Love your videos, and it's really cool to see your perspective! You do a great job and keep the topics rolling. Very smart, and great personality to keep people interested. Love your breadth of knowledge and definitely a fast learner! Loved what you got out of your visit to the US! 😂💯
HI FILIPINA PEA….I love your channel, I had just subscribed to it recently. I think that you do a very good showing what the Philippine culture is like.
I think if a man really makes you believe he loves you and thinks you are the hottest sexiest woman ever, it boosts your confidence over time and you really lose your timidness and become very comfortable to Rock and Roll! This can make sessions very gratifying and more intense. Losing any timidness and going for that big goal with no apprehension, and along with feeling like he really adores you will be key.
Hi Pea, thanks for you videos, I have learned a lot and will be moving to the Philippines next month, your videos have warned me and consoled me and helped make my decision easy, thank you. I have chosen Cebu, and now I just can't wait to get there and start my new life. Again, thank you for your honest and amusing take on things, keep it up legend, live your work. Luke from Australia.
Two thumbs up Pea and Glenda! One might think that Glenda was an influence on The Pea in her younger years hence the high level of intelligence at the same table, as well as their sense of humor. What’s not to love about these gals? Lucy is included!
As far as the big 'O' conversation (hope I'm not going to get busted, for speaking on this), in my own relationship, there is one particular time, that I will never live up to. I know, without any question, that was a time for her (not to say that there weren't anymore moments), we both can remember this moment very vividly, and it was a very special moment for us. I am one who wants to enjoy my partner, but honestly wants her to have more enjoyment than me. I can never understand those, who engage their partners selfishly. Of course one has to initiate, but intimacy is something that is shared.
I can't remember when I was last privy to a more enlightening (and entertaining) conversation! Pea, I met my asawa in the US; I was 60, she was 56. I was only casually dating at the time, looking for friendship first, wasn't concerned with race, ethnicity, age... I knew practically nothing about the Philippines or Filipino people when I met her. Lucky me, I met the right lady... luckier still, she's 💯%🇵🇭Filipina! Miss Glenda is a perfect example of that ageless, natural pinay beauty and charm!
Mrs. Glenda is awesome and special. That's O subject is a treasure. Pearl, you have the best subjects and guest. You are definitely one of my favorites in this Vlog culture. ❤❤❤❤
I liked how you handled this delicate sensitive topic that one does not speak about in families and mixed company, even friends. You did it with such humor and "getting to point interview." to let her answer from her views and experience. Some insights into the women there, and the age[s] that they really begin to know themselves, their bodies, and the attitudes to what experiences have taught them through the different stages of their lives. Nice to learn something each and every day and to when I return back there. You basically codified what men look for in a good Filipina and confirmed it. Peace
Thanks Pea and Glenda; that talk was very enjoyable. I’ve come across a few women who due to religious, cultural or upbringing reasons had never experienced climax. Think it’s not as rare as many would believe. When educated men of culture encounter these women they should assume a mentor’s position and provide what they have missed in their lives.
@@TheFilipinaPea I'm thankful as you build a bridge of understanding between other cultures and the Philippines and helped me to find a clue to my Filipina girlfriend! Thank you so much, Pea, and please continue with your mission! 😘😘😘
This is what a Filipina wife is,she works full time sometimes 6 and 7 days...This week she had off scheduled plant shut down..She washed all the bed clothing,deep cleaned the house,cooked(she works afternoons),and was out in the heat helping me build a deck..Good luck finding a western woman to do the same..As far as the Big O,,conservative women need to open up that wild side,,just sayin..😊😊
I very much enjoy this guest. The interview format in general is good. Having different perspectives in the same Video is like having salt and pepper on good food. Each ingredient adds to the flavor.
Oh my Miss Glenda! No “O” after seven kids. As an older filipina woman and married for 39 yrs w/same man, i must say men and women must “upgrade” their skills in that dept. This is not prostitution! Thank you Miss Pea for this fascinating interview.
Pea, I always have enjoyed your videos because not only are they informative, revealing and educational, they also expose to us your humanity and love of people. Currently, I am deeply in love with my beloved, but truly enjoyed this interview because it exposes the intelligence and empathy of both of you. If I were to be available, I would most certainly choose an older Filipina. Congratulations and please continue you epic journey in educating us Westerners about the wonderful essence of the Philippines. Peace to you and all you love.
I really like watching your videos. I have been living out in the countryside in Bicol since 7 years and only have Filipino friends to talk to. Everything becomes easier and more fun the more Tagalog and Rinconada I speak because many in the village don't speak English very well. The Filipinos are very helpful in teaching me the languages.
Pea always bringing the riveting content. Great job. I have heard of this as well on ladies missing out on the Big O. Glenda is very sweet and funny. I can tell she enjoys sharing information. Nice to see. Liberate pinays Pea!!
WOW the last part of this talking about being emotional and not logical fits my ex to perfection and explains a lot. I couldn't understand it at the time, but this was an eye opener. Thanks for this.
I really liked listening to your conversation! It's really good to see that some women still have "reservations" about talking about certain subjects. I found it saddening that Fillipina haven't experienced that big "O" ☹️ I have had Fillipina girlfriends in the past and I think, being a man, it's my duty to fully please my woman. Especially if she also feels the same way about taking care of my needs and desires.
I love your vlogs ,I'm 58 and plan on moving to the Philippines when I retire. I don't get the age gap attraction from older men, but I'm not judging it's not my place to do so. I want someone closer to my age ,I truly enjoy your vlogs ,your smile is intoxicating and your wit is charming
Hi Pea, I've been with my philippine wife in London since 2003. She's so lovely, beautiful beyond compare both physically and recently emotionally. I am so grateful to you for the way you delve into the Philippino character with such honesty. Your culture definitely has its nuances but so what, so do we... Through your fantastic vids (each and every one) I've managed to manage my relationship a lot better. So when, at the end of your videos you claim, quite rightly, to be our guide through all the thick and thin then add this one to your resume: you're a damn fine marriage counsellor too 😊😊❤
Wow MsP...what an enlightening interview ,jammed packed with beautiful and powerful golden nuggets. You guys expressed your insight so eloquently with class BUT a sprinkle of naughtiness. Rock on ladies and little girlfriend behind the camera, we know U there! All the best !!
Great video, as per usual! I'm always taking notes: now I have the data of a teacher, of a realtor, of a lawyer... and I think that one or two others... Thank you for your great job!
As a western man it is not difficult to outcompete your average filipino 'in the sack'. Just care about her pleasure. Make sure that you verbally communicate and don't push her into anything she may be uncomfortable with. Just put an idea in her head, have some patience and allow her to explore and open up to the idea on her own terms. Filipino culture is strong and effective on monogamy to make families healthy and strong. But as a consequence they seem to forget that mutually nice bedroom activity is also important.
Hey Ms Pea and Glenda. Many thanks for the advice and fun chat as always! I finally arrived in Dumaguete yesterday! 🤩 Ms Pea can you please tell me what the destination is to the Sunday market that I have seen in your vlogs and in other vloggers? I will be going by bus. Many thanks in advance as always. 🙏
@@TheFilipinaPea , 60 seconds?! I’m in my mid-50’s and I’m just as active as when I was in my late teens. Add life experience to that and I can shock a prostitute with my filthy mind. In my book it’s all about the experience of my lover and our shared pleasure.
Thanks Pea - and Glenda too. For me, this was one of the most interesting of your videos to date. Earlier this year, I spent two months in Tacloban - not travelling very far - just a couple of day trips. I wanted to see whether I felt I could live a good life there, regardless of how things went in my relationship without pan out - woman who is independent, busy and also has health issues - and a husband she hasn’t even spoken to since separating a few years ago). I believe I can and am considering booking a one way ticket for early next year. That said, since I told her of my plan - almost two weeks ago, aside from an angry sounding message to let me know that she wasn’t happy about my plan, I’m either in receipt of extended tampo or I’ve been ‘dumped’ Any time we’ve spent together has been wonderful (including the big O) but once I’m back 12 thousand kilometres away, her communication becomes less over a few weeks. I would love for her to be in my life and felt that she was on the same page and, for now at least I’m putting the current silence down to her very busy life and the extra pressure of organising a big birthday and graduation party for her youngest son - maybe 100 guests. However things turn out, I believe I can have a good life there - a small town about 40 minutes from the city - and can do a lot of what I don’t seem to be able to find the time for here - like writing the book that I should have written 20 years ago. All the best and thanks for the interesting and entertaining chat with the wise Glenda.
Glenda made a real good point that quite a few westerners find poor Filipina girls with little education or experience in the outside world with little to no English skills and then wonder why they don’t relate well. I avoided that pittfall by pursuing a college educated Filipina. On a side note you might find funny. When I first married my Filipina her first job paid little more than minimum wage. I told her then with focus, ambition and hard work she would make a very nice salary in time but I also warned her that the day she started earning more than I did I was going to retire and let her support me Well that almost happened this year. After we did our taxes her net income after taxes and deductions was higher than mine (only because I’m investing more of my salary on retirement.) so I was all excited. Whoopee, I can retire soon. Unfortunately I got a promotion and a raise at work. Ah well the best laid plans of Mice and Men. On the big O. I’ve obviously heard and read about women not being able to have the big O but I have never experienced that myself and I had a lengthy bachelorhood. I can also tell a woman who is trying to fake one a mile off which just only motivated me to find her secret spot and always with success. But I was thinking if a woman can’t have a big O maybe it’s not her. Maybe it’s because, in the words of the immortal Frank Zappa, her man just can’t find her Dyna Moe Hum? th-cam.com/video/u4hzVpYAP-U/w-d-xo.html
@@TheFilipinaPea Ohhhhh….I set myself up for that cheapshot. LOL That’s not a nice thing to say about a fellow Filipina who was offered an academic scholarship to attend the PMI (though she turned it down and completed a BS in business). And what was up with censoring your Dyna Moe Hum story, ehh?! Now we’re all curious. LOL
Older men who move to the Philippines saying they are doing so for economic reasons, and young Filipinas who say they like older foreigners for their openness and maturity, might be telling the truth on some level, but nobody is blind to human nature. That's all I'm gonna say.
At about the six minute point in your video ypu talked about the Filipina working, and competition with the man. Even though that is a concern for western men, for me I don't want my Filipina to work so we can travel and explore. The trade off is my willingness to support her family, and ensuring she will be secure in her future after I am gone.
Glenda is lovely. I am still trying to fully understand Bisaya. But I understand more than my wife thinks I do. I agree that economic advantage is a factor...also in my relationship, but that is not really a problem. Women worldwide want a mate who can provide (yeah generalizing). It just provides a feeling of security and protection. As the saying goes: "It is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is to fall in love with a poor man"
@@Ed19601 Sorry Ed but I must disagree. Society has brainwashed us men into thinking we owe women that comfort. I don't know how we fell for it. Back hundreds of years ago women worked hard to take care of the family. I am sure they went to the market, got water, made clothes etc....... Women now are becoming spoiled if you ask me. I want one that will help with the finances. I want her to be an adult and not expecting too much. I don't want a kid but a woman. That is my take after a divorce. I learned to think outside of the box I guess you could say.🤣
@@lifeonamarble961 well that is your prerogative, i do not forbid my wife to work but in our case it is totally unnecessary. So I rather see her in a position in which she contributes to our relation in another way, that is more useful. The household is totally her terrain, she keeps the house tidy, does the laundry etc. In the morning i find fresh clothes laid out for me. When i come home on a hot day (that's every day) first thing she does is to get me a cold drink and food. All in all she does a lot of work, in a way that is much more useful to our relationship than getting a job. Sure, very traditional but that is how we both like it. I offer security in terms of food on the table. A roof over her head, bills always paid, which gives her enormous inner peace and she makes my life pleasant in a way i just described. I am not sure if we all are 'conditioned' to think that way as you described, but traditional roles have worked for centuries. That you prefer your wife to contribute to the finances is fine, but one could also say that it is a pity that a man by himself cannot cannot provide enough for his family anymore. ( i can say a lot more about the macroeconomics of women working but will keep that for some other time). My wife is not a kept princess, she works hard and contributes a lot, albeit not financial. I on the other hand provide an income, do the heavy work and the dangerous work. If after a storm something needs fixing on the roof, i climb on it, not her, if something heavy needs to be carried, i am doing that not her. I make her life happier by providing for the things that are important to her, she makes my life happier by providing the things that are important to me. Works great for us. I never have the feelings that i am just the ATM. Couldnt be happier.
@@Ed19601 Congrats. Guessing you are retired and the fact that she helps you a lot is fantastic. I am talking about many of these little princess acting women that stay on their phones and spend money all the time. Glad you have a good life. If I ever get in a relationship again with a Filipina, she will have an easier life just being with me but she will have to do her share in some form or fashion. Much like your wife. I help someone because I am compassionate not because I am indebted to them. Best of luck
One thing I love about my filipina girlfriend is shes very understanding even though early in our relationship is was challenging but her English was better then most. She is a Young single mother, she 20 and im 22, so she's has that matured mind. Long distance relationships is hard with a single love but definitely we're unconditionally in love despite our distance . Next year is marriage. Lol but one thing is our distance actually brought us closer and been through a lot. But she's amazing and loyal and supportive like most filipinas and shes a province women 😅 so shes perfect for me. As a foreigner Canadian
Hi Capt. Pea. Definitely, I would change my schedule for anything just to meet Miss Glenda. She’s really a knockout to socialize with. Enjoy ladies and be safe.
Love, by definition, is unconditional, like a parent who loves their child, but hates their child's faults or weaknesses. Similarly, you can love someone and wish them well, without necessarily be willing to spend the rest of your life with them as a mate or partner . . . That is the true definition of "Love", not to be confused with "Lust"
@@TheFilipinaPea Yeah to retain the full attention of a wider audience 30 to 45 minutes is a good recommended limits. It's also the limit I set myself when I prepare a presentation, a meeting or a training so I fully understand that concern.
It doesn't matter if I got a wife around any part of the Philippines or any other Asian country. I would take joy to learn their language. Plus, I'm intellect like that. To imbrace ones culture of where your wife builds a bond that is stronger and the respect comes out of it. I don't know why some Americans marry a person from a different country and not like the food and the culture. I have seen that many times.
I think the "Big O" is easier to facilitate when the kids/family are out of the house. In our case, I also worry about the police getting called because it sounds like someone being murdered around here at times.
“...Some western guys see a filipina who’s educated, independent ,who has a job and see it as a red flag..." “..Because It reminds them of their own back home...” It's a shame that some guys simply can’t handle a person who’s equally knowledgeable, accomplished or more intelligent than themself. They truly miss out the benefits of team partnering.
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Truly nothing more intimate than "knowing" your partner!! Great work Pea!!
Pea, please refresh me as to what the 4 M's are. Thanks
I agree with what she was implying about the reason, infact the general reason why very young Filipinas date and marry old men. It is to alleviate their poor living conditions. But there are few and it likely include Pea who aren't really poor but are fine dating older men for the reason that they are accomplished, and mature. But most women including the westerners look for the financially secure men to settle down with. This is universal.
Dear Pea, a reason (not all), feel the life of a Filipina is insulting to them.
When I was almost 4 years old, I had my tonsils removed. There was this Filipina nurse who took care of me. Every since then, I've been fond of those women. When I met my Filam wife, I fell quickly in love! She was 15 and I was 16. She just turned 58,and I will be 59 in September. I am a lucky man!
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Wow! Well done, Dude ! Congratulations and best wishes to you both. I hope you have many more happy years together ! Peace and love to you 🌞🙏
Did she touch you "there"?
Now Glenda is the type of lady I would come to the Philippines to have a relationship with. I’m 62 and I can’t see myself with a 22 or 25 year old. Please bring more ladies in the 50+ group on your channel. I wonder how many other guys feel like me.
Thanks Short! I’m always looking for them 👍❤️
No comments hmmm... probably you, yourself 😆
I would love to see more interviews with older than 50 women Pea. How about it
@@rogerrose4845To each his own but I agree with u brother 👍
I like them mature mentally but not necessarily old as me but that's me
I met my Filipina wife 7 yrs ago. She flew in from Singapore and me from NY. We went to her parents house in order that they could meet me. Which I'm glad we did. I was able to spend time with her while family and her dad. He passed four months after I met him. We are both old school and wanted to show our respect for each other and her family. We are married now.
Miss Pea, Every time you have Glenda on your channel , it will be a big hit with us mature men. She is educated, cultured, and understands life, in a different way then younger women. I know it might be hard to find more women like her on the show, but some of us would prefer to meet Ladies like her. Thanks Again😊
Always love seeing Glenda as your guest. She was the type of person I was looking for when I started my search. Educated, well spoken, equally agreeable and opinionated and easy to carry a multi-topic conversation with. I would have been too young for her (she doesn't strike me as the cougar type), I was very fortunate to find the 39 year old version of her and couldn't be happier. I hope to see more of this great guest!
Oh you got VERY lucky, yes 👍👍👍❤️
@@paulsmith2279 if you're so down on Pea, why are you even here and bothering to comment?
@@paulsmith2279 🤡 comment, you should have stayed with the circus.
If I were to move to the Philippines, it would be women like Glenda that I would be looking for. Women who are much closer to my own age, and who speak English as well as she does.
She’s actually quite a catch, if she’s in your age bracket 👍👍👍❤️
English but with a sexy pinay accent 😉
@@TheFilipinaPea Comedian George Burn's was asked why he won't date women his age. He replied, "There aren't any." He died at age 100.
@@TheFilipinaPea I see that. Unfortunately, I won't be in the Philippines any time soon, if ever.
Most will agree with you on this one... not about the men and women game play... plus why not learn the language of the land... we are aggressive to have foreign people to learn English when they are in the U.S
Great to see Glenda again. I love her sense of humor. Always ask for a cenomar. Yes, I'm old and yes, I'll die soon. Recently found out I have stage three renal failure, with a life expectancy of 6 years. Kinda strange to realize that you know what they will put on your death certificate. I made my peace with God when I was in my 20's. The lifestyle I was living made me wonder if I would make it to 30. I'm 67, with multiple medical issues ( severe rheumatoid arthritis, severe osteoporosis, blood pressure and erectile dysfunction ) and my wife still stands with me. I met her when I was 31 and she changed my life completely. Great interview, Pea. Take care and I'll see you next Tuesday.
No worries , I have seen many " Sick " people live on while the " Healthy " ones around them die first...
Pea:
Glenda is like a breath of fresh air. She is funny, intelligent, and very openly witty. I would bet she can't have a conversation without at least something in there to laugh about. She would brighten anyone's day just having a conversation with them.
She could almost do her own channel " understanding the Dumaguete Dialog" or something. I think it would be useful.
Already looking forward to Tuesday's video, I know it will be just as awesome as the rest of them.
She really could, yes 👍👍
Spot on @crazykid040 Also, interviewing women her age type would be nice as well.
Sorry about that @Crazykid949, not 040.
@@TheFilipinaPea. Miss Filipino pea I am attracted to Filipino women I would like to meet the right lady one day I have listened to you and the ladies that you have interviewed and another married couple that does shows like yours on TH-cam I have mixed messages from some of the videos I am on Christian Filipino I hope I can meet the right lady. Your videos are awesome watching them and the nurse that you interview that's 45 forgot her name she's absolutely beautiful I wish that I could come to the Philippines and meet that nurse
"sensitive" content handled in mature, respectful ways, while teaching us Westerners valuable life lessons...
I always try to keep it classy 👍❤️😊
Excellent guest. Very sound, articulate, reasonable, happy, and a great sounding board. Her honesty on the various subject matters was off the chart! Pea, great job.
So good to see Glenda on your channel again. Such a well rounded down to earth lady. She gives the best answers to your questions. And when her answers raise Pea's eyebrows... adorably cute❣️
Thank you, Pea, for leading this conversation and thank you, Glenda, for being so open. You're a very surprising pair! A most interesting discussion with some unusual twists!
WOWWWWWW Pea , from 700 subscribers ( when I first started watching you ) to 237, 000 wow it's amazing, it is because you do great videos and great topics , plus you are very beautiful and honest
The Honesty is what I love best. The next thing l enjoy is you are able to laugh at things that are not perfect. I am tired looking at the perfect picture with the perfect life which most social media portrays. Life is complex and that is ok with me. All the Best Pea!!!!
Laughter really is the best medicine 🤣❤️
I love Ms. Glenda, she's so much fun to listen to. She's intelligent, "logical (sometimes?)" beautiful and a happy person. Could this be Pea in her retirement years? 😁
I’d consider myself lucky then 👍👍❤️
Two of the most complete Philippines based vloggers imho - Pea and Calvin of Sunshine Shoulders. Addressing real life holistic topics as adults. West meets East, Man meets Woman. I have learned so much from both of them. Much O’bliged.
interesting, i will look for Calvin, thanks
Thanks for that, Andrew 👍❤️
Please don't compare Calvin with Pea. She is a good hearted person. Calvin has fathered at least 3 illegitimate children while living there that he doesn't support along with the ones he left in the US and is a womanizer beneath his 'help others out when you can' facade.
@@bryankoziar2867 finally someone other than myself sees the exact same thing! There’s no comparison from A - Z! Plus, Calvin states his wife in the U.S. won’t give him a divorce…if you’re from the U.S. you know it’s impossible for a judge not to grant a divorce because the other party refuses to sign.
@@bryankoziar2867 Who is comparing? I just stated that I, emphasis on my speaking personally, feel that there are 2 vloggers that give good / holistic / practical information. I am not going to take Calvin to task based on what I perceive to be who he was in his past. I don't know him, I don't know any of the circumstances, etc. just like I don't know the Pea, past or present. I only get a glimpse into who I think they may be (including their own admissions to being human, making mistakes, and also contributing to the community) from a few TH-cam videos, so I just stay focused on the info they provide, which brings me back to my original comment. Why don't I judge? In my past, I committed a crime / got arrested, I cheated on a girlfriend and lost 'the love of my life', and did a bunch of things that I would never do now and am not proud of. If you knew me now, you would never think those things could even have happened because I have gotten to where I needed / want to be as a person. Knowing that we all have a journey and experiences that make us who we are today helps me avoid engaging in judgement and cancel culture.
Miss Glenda is a lovely, exuberant lady. Yes, communication is very important in a relationship. Love her honesty and everyone can learn from her. Thank you Miss Pea for bringing her on.
this has been one of the most genuine videos I've ever seen by you Miss Pea. I'd love to see a part 3 of you two just chatting, keeping it real like this. brilliant... thank you for posting it. Safe jouorney
Spot on about the emotionality. A few decades ago, I met a really beautiful Filipina through my best friend's fiancée (also a Filipina) when I was 30 and working in New York as a lawyer. She was mid-20's and worked for Hong Kong Airlines. The first couple of months of the relationship were great, but each time we would have an argument/disagreement about anything, even the smallest things, she would seemingly check her "reasoning powers" at the door. In the end I could only conclude that she was childish and immature, just not for me. However, over time I've come to understand the cultural basis for this as my friend's wife was very similar. Luckily for my friend he and his wife were able to overcome a few rocky patches very early on (due to her immaturity) and have now been married happily for almost 33 years ... and I still sometimes think back to the beautiful girl that maybe I should have been more patient with. Great job as always Pea!
Ms. Pea, Ms. Glenda;
What a Treat ..... the two of you have provided !
Tks. much.
Pea goes, once again, where no other Filipina will😁😁😁. You go, girl!!! Thanks for sharing.
Dr. Phil-i-peana, Fun video,
That’s something you can count on 👍🤣
Great guest, nice to see Glenda again ticks all the box's.
Well done Pea
Thanks for keeping me informed. You have to learn what makes your woman get what she needs. You have to ask her how it feels and what you can do better. You have to know her needs as well as you know your own. I was taught to help your wife treat her with respect and love. Chivalry is what makes a woman happy to let her know you care
Thanks for your input, Joe 👍👍😊
I'm thinking to myself, "Wow, that was 25 minutes?" It's always wonderful to see you and watch your videos. You pack a lot of information in them. Miss Glenda is always a delight to see. It doesn't surprise me that the lady has gentlemen wanting to talk with her. She is stunningly beautiful.
On the topic of the big "O" I can tell you that I have counselled many couples over the years and it's amazing that how recurrent that topic is.
Thank you for always giving us the best videos.
Now that’s a real compliment! Maybe I should make even longer ones 🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Yes, please.
Great interview! Old school rules, with your fresh perspective makes good entertainment.
Glenda is a classic. Fun to listen to her wisdom complemented with your fresh generational steering. Win win audiences
That format with that lady works well. Make a good team every now and then. Easy to listen to. No egos
Great video sweet Pea thank you. We need more Glenda. This format works really well for you, more please. X
I just love your personality Pea! Lived and loved in Makati for over a decade. So if you like to come to LA and need a big lovely home to stay in, my son who is 17 from Antepolo would be more than happy to host you and entertain you. Don't know why you were hangin in FL for so long. LA is the place to be for all cultures especially yours! Muah!
Talks with Glenda are never long enough! She brings out the best in you too lovely Pea. So many thoughtful topics and laughs in that 25 minutes! I would say intelligence is what always draws me rather than education. Education is often a factor of location and background but intelligence can overcome a lack of access to schools or tutors? Thank you so much lovely Pea, made my day! 😘🙏🏻❤
Very well said ! 👍
education is often just "learned ignorance" but not always!
@@georgeholdsworth2774 I suppose biden skipped those classes 🤣😂
yes , the videos with her go super fast.
Ms. Glenda is a ray of sunshine and you are a super star! You are both intelligent and charming, with a hint of spice. Thanks for an honest interview, as always. 😘
Thanks JMD! That’s what I’m always aiming for 👍🤣
Back in the seventies, (1970's, yeah, I'm that old), I remember reading an article in some magazine where the author was trying to estimate the percentage of women faking orgasms. Most of the article is long forgotten but one line has stuck with me through the years. "The penalty for faking orgasms is fake orgasms." Sad that people have so much trouble communicating what they want or need from a partner.
Hahahahaha
I may have to use that quote myself 🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea surely no need for you 😂
the sad thing is most women think they can fake an orgasm. If they think that they have never had one.
@@MrMichaelBCurtis petite morte
@@MrMichaelBCurtis I still crack up over the restaurant scene in "when harry met sally". I've heard that the woman who says, "I'll have what she's having", was actually Meg Ryan's mother.
Oh heck Pea, you just get better and better! Love Glenda, so refreshing to hear you two talk hilariously about taboo subjects that many of us want to hear. 10/10.
😁👍 Fun interview again Pea. I think with age comes less inhibition. That’s a good thing.
She sure isn’t inhibited, no 🤣👍🤣
Great video Pea, she’s incredible and a great great interview. I would agree with your assessments of percentages of Filipinas who have experienced the big O from my personal experiences there. Thanks again for a very enjoyable interview.
It’s a sad situation 😢😳
Unconditional love happens with time, and true love situations. Once more than the couple itself, but everyone sees the two as one, it will be very difficult, to step away from something like that. This is a 'whole' love aspect, that will be treasured, and cannot be replaced.
There are plenty of educated men who are not afraid of a woman being his equal, or even above him (as far as career or financial independence goes). As long as you treat each other equally, it creates a much better chance of long, lasting respect. Love your videos, and it's really cool to see your perspective! You do a great job and keep the topics rolling. Very smart, and great personality to keep people interested. Love your breadth of knowledge and definitely a fast learner! Loved what you got out of your visit to the US! 😂💯
HI FILIPINA PEA….I love your channel, I had just subscribed to it recently. I think that you do a very good showing what the Philippine culture is like.
I think if a man really makes you believe he loves you and thinks you are the hottest sexiest woman ever, it boosts your confidence over time and you really lose your timidness and become very comfortable to Rock and Roll! This can make sessions very gratifying and more intense. Losing any timidness and going for that big goal with no apprehension, and along with feeling like he really adores you will be key.
Hi Pea, thanks for you videos, I have learned a lot and will be moving to the Philippines next month, your videos have warned me and consoled me and helped make my decision easy, thank you. I have chosen Cebu, and now I just can't wait to get there and start my new life. Again, thank you for your honest and amusing take on things, keep it up legend, live your work. Luke from Australia.
Two thumbs up Pea and Glenda!
One might think that Glenda was an influence on The Pea in her younger years hence the high level of intelligence at the same table, as well as their sense of humor.
What’s not to love about these gals? Lucy is included!
Pea always does a phenomenal job! Thank you.
Always an interesting topic on your channel, Pea. Never boring! ❤
That’s one of the nicest things you can say ❤️❤️❤️
2 very intelligent sensible woman..
GIRL POWER lady's.. 🙏
As far as the big 'O' conversation (hope I'm not going to get busted, for speaking on this), in my own relationship, there is one particular time, that I will never live up to. I know, without any question, that was a time for her (not to say that there weren't anymore moments), we both can remember this moment very vividly, and it was a very special moment for us. I am one who wants to enjoy my partner, but honestly wants her to have more enjoyment than me. I can never understand those, who engage their partners selfishly. Of course one has to initiate, but intimacy is something that is shared.
I can't remember when I was last privy to a more enlightening (and entertaining) conversation! Pea, I met my asawa in the US; I was 60, she was 56. I was only casually dating at the time, looking for friendship first, wasn't concerned with race, ethnicity, age... I knew practically nothing about the Philippines or Filipino people when I met her. Lucky me, I met the right lady... luckier still, she's 💯%🇵🇭Filipina! Miss Glenda is a perfect example of that ageless, natural pinay beauty and charm!
Mrs. Glenda is awesome and special. That's O subject is a treasure. Pearl, you have the best subjects and guest. You are definitely one of my favorites in this Vlog culture. ❤❤❤❤
One of??? 😢😢😢
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@@TheFilipinaPea Oh boy I think he just stepped in it! LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nice to see two educated well spoken ladies in this video.
I liked how you handled this delicate sensitive topic that one does not speak about in families and mixed company, even friends. You did it with such humor and "getting to point interview." to let her answer from her views and experience.
Some insights into the women there, and the age[s] that they really begin to know themselves, their bodies, and the attitudes to what experiences have taught them through the different stages of their lives. Nice to learn something each and every day and to when I return back there. You basically codified what men look for in a good Filipina and confirmed it. Peace
Pea. This is one of your best interviews. Glenda is an awesome woman. Great job
Thanks Pea and Glenda; that talk was very enjoyable. I’ve come across a few women who due to religious, cultural or upbringing reasons had never experienced climax. Think it’s not as rare as many would believe. When educated men of culture encounter these women they should assume a mentor’s position and provide what they have missed in their lives.
Thank you so much for all that interesting stuff, dear Pea! Your big fan from Austria - it's Peter!
Peter! Thank you so very much for that most generous gift!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea I'm thankful as you build a bridge of understanding between other cultures and the Philippines and helped me to find a clue to my Filipina girlfriend! Thank you so much, Pea, and please continue with your mission! 😘😘😘
This is what a Filipina wife is,she works full time sometimes 6 and 7 days...This week she had off scheduled plant shut down..She washed all the bed clothing,deep cleaned the house,cooked(she works afternoons),and was out in the heat helping me build a deck..Good luck finding a western woman to do the same..As far as the Big O,,conservative women need to open up that wild side,,just sayin..😊😊
Great interview. The two of you work so well together. Thanks Pea.
I very much enjoy this guest. The interview format in general is good. Having different perspectives in the same Video is like having salt and pepper on good food. Each ingredient adds to the flavor.
Oh my Miss Glenda! No “O” after seven kids. As an older filipina woman and married for 39 yrs w/same man, i must say men and women must “upgrade” their skills in that dept. This is not prostitution! Thank you Miss Pea for this fascinating interview.
Glenda is like the wise aunt. She has a lot of good information for us Western guys to listen to.
What a lovely intelligent funny lady. 🥰🥰 thank you pea.
Pea, I always have enjoyed your videos because not only are they informative, revealing and educational, they also expose to us your humanity and love of people. Currently, I am deeply in love with my beloved, but truly enjoyed this interview because it exposes the intelligence and empathy of both of you. If I were to be available, I would most certainly choose an older Filipina. Congratulations and please continue you epic journey in educating us Westerners about the wonderful essence of the Philippines. Peace to you and all you love.
Hello Pea , its always interesting when you have Glenda on your show , thanks you take care .
I have always heard the nearest thing to unconditional love one will experience is from their mother.
I think a parents love for their child is perhaps the only unconditional love, yes 👍😊
Great interview P, love Ms Glenda openness
Hi Pea! Wow...Glenda was a cool mature lady. Great conversation to be a part of. 👌
Yes, that’s why I like her - she talks about anything! 🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Yea..no shyness at all.
@@TheFilipinaPea But does she like kitties?🐈🐈
I really enjoyed listening to the two of you. You were funny, informative, interesting, and did I say funny?
Thanks so much for the tip, Alfredo! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really like watching your videos.
I have been living out in the countryside in Bicol since 7 years and only have Filipino friends to talk to. Everything becomes easier and more fun the more Tagalog and Rinconada I speak because many in the village don't speak English very well. The Filipinos are very helpful in teaching me the languages.
Pea always bringing the riveting content. Great job. I have heard of this as well on ladies missing out on the Big O. Glenda is very sweet and funny. I can tell she enjoys sharing information. Nice to see. Liberate pinays Pea!!
Such a brave duo! Is there any subject you’re afraid to address? Love you ms. Pea, keep the street real
I’m not afraid of any topic, but I’m smart enough to avoid a few 🤣🤣🤣
WOW the last part of this talking about being emotional and not logical fits my ex to perfection and explains a lot. I couldn't understand it at the time, but this was an eye opener. Thanks for this.
I really liked listening to your conversation! It's really good to see that some women still have "reservations" about talking about certain subjects. I found it saddening that Fillipina haven't experienced that big "O" ☹️ I have had Fillipina girlfriends in the past and I think, being a man, it's my duty to fully please my woman. Especially if she also feels the same way about taking care of my needs and desires.
I am heading off to my other home Portugal in a few days, listening to the background sounds on this video are making me homesick for the Philippines.
I love your vlogs ,I'm 58 and plan on moving to the Philippines when I retire. I don't get the age gap attraction from older men, but I'm not judging it's not my place to do so. I want someone closer to my age ,I truly enjoy your vlogs ,your smile is intoxicating and your wit is charming
Love these interviews... they are so real and down to earth.
Hi Pea, I've been with my philippine wife in London since 2003. She's so lovely, beautiful beyond compare both physically and recently emotionally. I am so grateful to you for the way you delve into the Philippino character with such honesty. Your culture definitely has its nuances but so what, so do we... Through your fantastic vids (each and every one) I've managed to manage my relationship a lot better. So when, at the end of your videos you claim, quite rightly, to be our guide through all the thick and thin then add this one to your resume: you're a damn fine marriage counsellor too 😊😊❤
The Big Bang theory 😮😮
Wow MsP...what an enlightening interview ,jammed packed with beautiful and powerful golden nuggets. You guys expressed your insight so eloquently with class BUT a sprinkle of naughtiness. Rock on ladies and little girlfriend behind the camera, we know U there! All the best !!
Pea, Wow, I truly love this. This woman is a jewel 💎 Honest and innocent. Super cute. Wow. ❤😊
And no topic is off limits - I love it! 🤣👍
Great video, as per usual!
I'm always taking notes: now I have the data of a teacher, of a realtor, of a lawyer... and I think that one or two others...
Thank you for your great job!
As a western man it is not difficult to outcompete your average filipino 'in the sack'. Just care about her pleasure. Make sure that you verbally communicate and don't push her into anything she may be uncomfortable with. Just put an idea in her head, have some patience and allow her to explore and open up to the idea on her own terms.
Filipino culture is strong and effective on monogamy to make families healthy and strong. But as a consequence they seem to forget that mutually nice bedroom activity is also important.
Yes, it can be more of a 60-second thing 😢
@@TheFilipinaPea ...The filipinos themselves are not all to blame. It would help if the houses they live in would literally provide more privacy.
And, the tongue, skillfully used, will make a woman extremely happy
Hey Ms Pea and Glenda. Many thanks for the advice and fun chat as always! I finally arrived in Dumaguete yesterday! 🤩 Ms Pea can you please tell me what the destination is to the Sunday market that I have seen in your vlogs and in other vloggers? I will be going by bus. Many thanks in advance as always. 🙏
@@TheFilipinaPea , 60 seconds?! I’m in my mid-50’s and I’m just as active as when I was in my late teens. Add life experience to that and I can shock a prostitute with my filthy mind. In my book it’s all about the experience of my lover and our shared pleasure.
“O” really good episode of your video webpage here. I enjoyed it “O” so much. Young ladies! 👍🏼💯👍🏼💯
Thanks Pea - and Glenda too. For me, this was one of the most interesting of your videos to date.
Earlier this year, I spent two months in Tacloban - not travelling very far - just a couple of day trips.
I wanted to see whether I felt I could live a good life there, regardless of how things went in my relationship without pan out - woman who is independent, busy and also has health issues - and a husband she hasn’t even spoken to since separating a few years ago).
I believe I can and am considering booking a one way ticket for early next year.
That said, since I told her of my plan - almost two weeks ago, aside from an angry sounding message to let me know that she wasn’t happy about my plan, I’m either in receipt of extended tampo or I’ve been ‘dumped’
Any time we’ve spent together has been wonderful (including the big O) but once I’m back 12 thousand kilometres away, her communication becomes less over a few weeks.
I would love for her to be in my life and felt that she was on the same page and, for now at least I’m putting the current silence down to her very busy life and the extra pressure of organising a big birthday and graduation party for her youngest son - maybe 100 guests.
However things turn out, I believe I can have a good life there - a small town about 40 minutes from the city - and can do a lot of what I don’t seem to be able to find the time for here - like writing the book that I should have written 20 years ago.
All the best and thanks for the interesting and entertaining chat with the wise Glenda.
Miss Glenda is well-informed, funny, wise, personable, and utterly delightful, Pea! ❤👍
Thanks, Noah - she really is 👍👍👍
Glenda made a real good point that quite a few westerners find poor Filipina girls with little education or experience in the outside world with little to no English skills and then wonder why they don’t relate well.
I avoided that pittfall by pursuing a college educated Filipina. On a side note you might find funny. When I first married my Filipina her first job paid little more than minimum wage. I told her then with focus, ambition and hard work she would make a very nice salary in time but I also warned her that the day she started earning more than I did I was going to retire and let her support me
Well that almost happened this year. After we did our taxes her net income after taxes and deductions was higher than mine (only because I’m investing more of my salary on retirement.) so I was all excited. Whoopee, I can retire soon. Unfortunately I got a promotion and a raise at work. Ah well the best laid plans of Mice and Men.
On the big O. I’ve obviously heard and read about women not being able to have the big O but I have never experienced that myself and I had a lengthy bachelorhood. I can also tell a woman who is trying to fake one a mile off which just only motivated me to find her secret spot and always with success.
But I was thinking if a woman can’t have a big O maybe it’s not her. Maybe it’s because, in the words of the immortal Frank Zappa, her man just can’t find her Dyna Moe Hum?
th-cam.com/video/u4hzVpYAP-U/w-d-xo.html
You pursued an educated Filipina? Does you wife know?
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@@TheFilipinaPea Ohhhhh….I set myself up for that cheapshot. LOL That’s not a nice thing to say about a fellow Filipina who was offered an academic scholarship to attend the PMI (though she turned it down and completed a BS in business).
And what was up with censoring your Dyna Moe Hum story, ehh?! Now we’re all curious. LOL
Great bringing her back she is great
Older men who move to the Philippines saying they are doing so for economic reasons, and young Filipinas who say they like older foreigners for their openness and maturity, might be telling the truth on some level, but nobody is blind to human nature. That's all I'm gonna say.
You didn’t need to say more 🤣👍❤️
At about the six minute point in your video ypu talked about the Filipina working, and competition with the man. Even though that is a concern for western men, for me I don't want my Filipina to work so we can travel and explore. The trade off is my willingness to support her family, and ensuring she will be secure in her future after I am gone.
Glenda is lovely. I am still trying to fully understand Bisaya. But I understand more than my wife thinks I do.
I agree that economic advantage is a factor...also in my relationship, but that is not really a problem. Women worldwide want a mate who can provide (yeah generalizing). It just provides a feeling of security and protection.
As the saying goes: "It is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is to fall in love with a poor man"
Keep it that way! 🤣🤣👍
@@TheFilipinaPea I plan to
@@Ed19601 Sorry Ed but I must disagree. Society has brainwashed us men into thinking we owe women that comfort. I don't know how we fell for it. Back hundreds of years ago women worked hard to take care of the family. I am sure they went to the market, got water, made clothes etc....... Women now are becoming spoiled if you ask me. I want one that will help with the finances. I want her to be an adult and not expecting too much. I don't want a kid but a woman. That is my take after a divorce. I learned to think outside of the box I guess you could say.🤣
@@lifeonamarble961 well that is your prerogative, i do not forbid my wife to work but in our case it is totally unnecessary. So I rather see her in a position in which she contributes to our relation in another way, that is more useful. The household is totally her terrain, she keeps the house tidy, does the laundry etc. In the morning i find fresh clothes laid out for me. When i come home on a hot day (that's every day) first thing she does is to get me a cold drink and food. All in all she does a lot of work, in a way that is much more useful to our relationship than getting a job. Sure, very traditional but that is how we both like it. I offer security in terms of food on the table. A roof over her head, bills always paid, which gives her enormous inner peace and she makes my life pleasant in a way i just described.
I am not sure if we all are 'conditioned' to think that way as you described, but traditional roles have worked for centuries. That you prefer your wife to contribute to the finances is fine, but one could also say that it is a pity that a man by himself cannot cannot provide enough for his family anymore. ( i can say a lot more about the macroeconomics of women working but will keep that for some other time). My wife is not a kept princess, she works hard and contributes a lot, albeit not financial. I on the other hand provide an income, do the heavy work and the dangerous work. If after a storm something needs fixing on the roof, i climb on it, not her, if something heavy needs to be carried, i am doing that not her. I make her life happier by providing for the things that are important to her, she makes my life happier by providing the things that are important to me. Works great for us. I never have the feelings that i am just the ATM. Couldnt be happier.
@@Ed19601 Congrats. Guessing you are retired and the fact that she helps you a lot is fantastic. I am talking about many of these little princess acting women that stay on their phones and spend money all the time. Glad you have a good life. If I ever get in a relationship again with a Filipina, she will have an easier life just being with me but she will have to do her share in some form or fashion. Much like your wife. I help someone because I am compassionate not because I am indebted to them. Best of luck
You are real ladies. Wish we had more women like you here.
One thing I love about my filipina girlfriend is shes very understanding even though early in our relationship is was challenging but her English was better then most. She is a Young single mother, she 20 and im 22, so she's has that matured mind. Long distance relationships is hard with a single love but definitely we're unconditionally in love despite our distance . Next year is marriage. Lol but one thing is our distance actually brought us closer and been through a lot. But she's amazing and loyal and supportive like most filipinas and shes a province women 😅 so shes perfect for me. As a foreigner Canadian
Love the talks with Glenda. Very frank and i love the views between the younger and older genaration. Good stuff pea i love it.
Glenda's such a fun interview.
I know, right? She really is 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with Glenda on so many things. Thank you for posting.
❤❤ always a pleasures to see Pea thank you for another informative and entertaining vlog. have an awesome weekend ❤❤
And let me take this opportunity to thank you for always supporting me, Erik ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Capt. Pea. Definitely, I would change my schedule for anything just to meet Miss Glenda. She’s really a knockout to socialize with. Enjoy ladies and be safe.
Love, by definition, is unconditional, like a parent who loves their child, but hates their child's faults or weaknesses. Similarly, you can love someone and wish them well, without necessarily be willing to spend the rest of your life with them as a mate or partner . . . That is the true definition of "Love", not to be confused with "Lust"
That was a great conversation. I wish it could've gone on longer and in more depth. Thanks for sharing.
Wow, thanks! I always worry that anything over 20 minutes will bore you 👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Yeah to retain the full attention of a wider audience 30 to 45 minutes is a good recommended limits. It's also the limit I set myself when I prepare a presentation, a meeting or a training so I fully understand that concern.
It doesn't matter if I got a wife around any part of the Philippines or any other Asian country. I would take joy to learn their language. Plus, I'm intellect like that. To imbrace ones culture of where your wife builds a bond that is stronger and the respect comes out of it.
I don't know why some Americans marry a person from a different country and not like the food and the culture. I have seen that many times.
I always enjoy learning and listening to you and your guests. Thank you Pea!
I think the "Big O" is easier to facilitate when the kids/family are out of the house. In our case, I also worry about the police getting called because it sounds like someone being murdered around here at times.
Hi Pea and Glenda. I am not planning to visit the Philippines but if I were I would head for your door Miss Pea.
“...Some western guys see a filipina who’s educated, independent ,who has a job and see it as a red flag..." “..Because It reminds them of their own back home...”
It's a shame that some guys simply can’t handle a person who’s equally knowledgeable, accomplished or more intelligent than themself. They truly miss out the benefits of team partnering.
Enjoyed…. Two very beautiful/intelligent Filipino women discussing Life in the Philippines!!