FTM | My Supervisor Asked Me If I Had Bottom Surgery !! Super Unprofessional & Awkward

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  • @stylesbylaunig7350
    @stylesbylaunig7350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Report to HR....period. Unacceptable! Regardless if you work there or not. So sorry brotha.

  • @davidg9241
    @davidg9241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so sorry you went through this. Sounds like that guy was way inappropriate. Unfortunately, people like that exist. 😨

  • @zzzzChant
    @zzzzChant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn thats Hella weird and unprofessional that he'd say that. I wanna get my name changed soon aswell I just don't where to start.

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I know right! And yeah can’t wait until my name is changed

  • @davidg9241
    @davidg9241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I pass on the phone but one time I called Western Union and the guy asked me are you a man or a woman? Totally, no filter. I feel embarrassed for people like that guy and the supervisor. After that call, I felt like sh*t, so I totally relate to you😥😘😺

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that’s surprising that he just came out and asked that yeah that shit suckss

    • @davidg9241
      @davidg9241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elijahray132 He did, the call center where the call had routed is not in US, somewhere else so I'm not sure, maybe it was his cultural background or something.

  • @chrisonx2882
    @chrisonx2882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People are ignorant to what they don't know. Never put none pass anybody no matta who it is. A lot of people are curious and have fetishes with lgbt mostly trans people.

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that’s so true, it really sucks.

  • @JordanP.
    @JordanP. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im looking in to getting my name changed too. i live in wisconsin for reference and i only had to print out three papers total. you will have to pay a fee and idk if this is universal but you may have to publish a notice for 3 weeks before seeing the judge. check out the local courthouse in your county and don't stress. the process doesn't scare me but the money kinda adds up

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the info! Yeah Ima get that shit done asap 👌🏽👌🏽

    • @ablcktransjourney8450
      @ablcktransjourney8450 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elijahray132 See if there's a fund in your area. I've been able to get everything I paid reimbursed by Trans Law in DC

  • @zSwagsterz
    @zSwagsterz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well technically you do have a penis the second you start T. It's just premature, you could say. And if you told one person you were trans, it likely spread through gossip over that or someone reading your files, or someone found your TH-cam account. Either way its awkward and I understand the frustration. I had this issue, with people getting over-fascinated, and then discrimination like this prompted me to go stealth for the most part except when I've explained my surgery to a few coworkers wondering why I couldn't lift pretty much anything or tolerate cold air (even now at 5 months post op, healing is a roller coaster with 8 complications but was well worth it). You're looking so much like my little bro btw

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah you have a good point there and damn my dream is to go stealth.

    • @zSwagsterz
      @zSwagsterz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elijahray132 you could anytime, you pass very well dude

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zSwagsterz Aye, thanks bro ♥️♥️🤟🏽😊

  • @brielleharmony7568
    @brielleharmony7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did he know you were transitioning or that you were transgender ?

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said he knew just because of my voice and the fact that my legal name is a females name but I wanted to go by my last name🙃

    • @brielleharmony7568
      @brielleharmony7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elijahray132 Just when I was going to delete my comment because I got to the part where you said how they knew you were transgender. I saw your comment lol . I’ve been binge watching your channel I’m enjoying it 🥰

    • @elijahray132
      @elijahray132  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brielleharmony7568 Lol it’s all good. Wow really? I’m happy you like it ❤️❤️✌🏽