Single here at 40. To all single ladies here, just be grateful that you are being protected from unhealthy relationships. Having peace of mind is more important than being in a toxic one.
As an NBSB girlie, this was so empowering! I turned 30 this year and grabe the pressure of finding a boyfriend. I'm in a healthy place now where I WANT a relationship but I don't see it as a NEED. Love hearing your insights kasi I feel super validated
I’m a certified happy and blessed single, and I couldn’t agree more with everything you’ve said. I almost got married at 28 but didn’t hesitate to call it off when I noticed the red flags-a decision that turned out to be one of the best I’ve ever made for myself. Since then, I’ve traveled to 33 countries (and counting), lived in several of them, and embraced life to the fullest by serving wherever God has sent me. Every step has been a testament to God’s faithfulness and the joy of following His plan.
This podcast made me realize a lot of things sometimes when you’re getting into a relationship you don’t realize that we put our partner into a pedestal and expect them to do understand reads our minds and do more things that we can’t even offer ourselves. That instead of focusing on finding a partner, you need to build yourself to be that better partner and not just that, have you need to take a second and take a look at yourself maybe there’s something missing within yourself like finding your self, fulfilling your career and dreams that only you can find and really only you can do it no one else. We often say I hope they’re right for me or hoping they’re the last one but at the end of the day are you still happy with yourself without them that’s why it’s important to really just take your time and learn how to do things on your own finding a partner should just be a bonus in life But I think is not necessary to rely and make them think they’re going to make you happy once you’re in relationship everyone in your life can disappoint you. So it’s so important when you get into a relationship you’re self intact that no matter what happen whether they leave and the relationship didn’t work you won’t be a wreck after.
37 years old, always having almost-is-never-enough connections with guys.. technically NBSB.. 😅😅 facing it postively yet still hopeful. go gurls! enjoyed your talk so much
I would just like to say this was Godsent. I think this video found me. I’m 34 now, and I just recently broke up with my ex after a year of dating - in the middle of my Bar exam review. It feels like I’m just going through the motions because I can’t wallow in my sadness as I have to focus on reading. This gave me so much hope and I am excited for the next few months, or even years of my life to enjoy my singlehood. I’m now an instant fan, Nicole and Lissa. 💗
this has got to me one of my most favorite episodes in your podcast. I resonate so so much with both of you guys, especially with Lisa, because I’m 28 and I also just came out (not “just” actually, it’s been 2 years!!) from a long term relationship and I’m extremely happy, content and at peace with being by myself. 🦋 I’ve spent quite some time doing the inner work undistracted and I really now give myself the PEACE that I now want to protect with all my might. LOL like it took so long and hard for me to get to this point, na anyone I date that will not potentially fill my cup as much as I do, I don’t waste my energy on na. and for you to be able to make yourself happy, that is something so empowering! sobrang natural lang na we have this set of standards kasi I can literally buy myself flowers, lamoyon?! hahaha but really, I admire how you both are navigating the single life with full confidence and with a positive outlook. singlehood is indeed a gift that not everyone gets to experience. sabi nga nila, if you know na a year from now you’ll get the family life that you’ve always wanted, what would you have done differently? SO INDEED, ROMANTICIZE YOUR SINGLE LIFE, BESTIES! P.S. I’m a listener all the way from Massachusetts!! add that to your long list of international reach hehe
I'm really amazed and inspired sa friendship nyong blogger besties, esp during the time na iba iba na kayo ng season where someone got married na, someone dating/engaged and someone still being single but you guys embrace each of your friends current season. Yung support nyo for each other very evident❤
Lissa, I’ve said this before but ikaw talaga ang spirit animal ko. 💯💯💯 Also happily single in my thirties. Most of your advices, I already know but listening to you and Nicole just gives me the comfort na hindi ako nag-iisa. I truly enjoyed this episode!!
I agree not to rush in getting married… married life is not always a bed of roses, neither it is full of thorns..it’s still the best feeling na may inuuwian ka at the end of the day..just a bit of encouragement lng 😊
Hello Nicole! Hooked to your podcast for days now! I appreciate all the topics & lessons I get. I am an OFW based in Qatar and I usually listened while driving to/after work. Btw, looking forward to male guests on your pod! I am a husband and a dad of two and would like to listen my fellow dad's perspectives about dad life, marriage, finances and life in general. Thank you! Keep up the good work. You're doing really great.
I love this episode Nicole!! Thank you for sharing you and Lissa's story. It is so empowering and inspiring especially for all the single ladies out there! Listening to you podcast from Japan!!
As a single guy who's actively dating, it is true na nakakapagod naman talaga and also what Nicole said na, "sometime nakakalimutan mo na king ano na kwento mo" specially when you're dating 3-5 people at the same time hahaha that's why sometimes, id take my time to rest and delete the apps for months. I love their genuineness!
hindi ko alam kung iiyak ba ako or tatawa. but it feels so good na may topic na ganito. Ito yung totoong we do not invalidate someone just because we did not experience it. Ito yung kahit konti na feel ko na okay lang kung di ako ganito di ako ganyan. Thank you Girls! Na feel ko na somehow parang ako si Lissa less sa part na pumarty sya during her 20s hahaha
mabuti kayong tao at naniniwala akong darating si mr. right kaya mag prayer reveal na lang ako haha. pag nagpray kayo be specific like Lord, pls sana pag nakita ko na si mr. right sana po mabait, masipag, matangkad, gwapo etc. and it works promise! pag di pa to sapat isulat niyo sa paper lagay niyo sa ilalim sa unan after praying ewan ko na lang talaga haha. love you girls! God loves you!
mga ate. this topic, the conversation - batuhan ng question at sagot with the heart, is a conversation i never had with myself. thank you! both of you are amazing lovely ladies and I believe God is still writing your lovestory. ❤
Super dami kong natutunan sa inyo!. I can relate to you ladies because I am in the same situation, early 30’s, single for 6 years din, and happily doing the self work! Minsan mahirap but it was really a wakeup call hearing Lissa say na mas nanghihinayang siya sa future if mag end up with the wrong person. That’s such a really nice perspective, hindi na ako manghihinayang to take my time at present to focus on myself. ❤
I super love this talk. Para akong kinakausap ng isang ate para payuhan. Super meeded this and so timely ❤️ more topics about this please gusto ko ma enlighten. Chars. love you both.
Oh my! I strongly agree with what you both, Ms Nicole and Ms Lissa, have shared in this podcast and it's nice, truly appreciated your podcast as your platform to freely discuss what you've gone through and what you have to impart with us (apart from your vlog which I miss this Saturday, parang walang bagong upload) :) I just admire the both of you, intelligent and brave and empowered young women at your 30s! God bless and keep you!😍🙏💝
I never knew Nicole is so fluent in Tagalog. Nakakatuwa. Also, being cheated on, I guess nakaktrauma yun. Kahit ako I’d rather be single. Gusto ko yung honesty and rawness nito. Feeling ko ganon din ako.
Para kang si Marie Forleo na binansagan ni Oprah na America's Thought Leader. Para sa akin ikaw ang Philippines' Millenial Thought Leader! God Bless You Nicole A! 😇
I agree: With your keen sense of awareness; Your advice brings about compassion, balance, love and wisdom…you’re empowering and more power to the podcast & you - ❤️🤗
Listener from Dubai and I’m your fan in the early days pa. Idk but I keep dming you sa Insta haha and you somehow still responds. Yk I listen to your podcast when I do my runs. Na shashock na lang ako naka 5k ako nonstop running. Ganyan ako kahook!!! (I could only run 1k nonstop before)
"No one has ever died from marrying late, but some have died from marrying the wrong person."
Very well said! ❤
well, lack of sex can lead to increased risk of cancer or coronary heart disease. so that statement is not entirely true
Single here at 40. To all single ladies here, just be grateful that you are being protected from unhealthy relationships. Having peace of mind is more important than being in a toxic one.
I just love how Lissa is so comfortable and confident on being single. Being single doesn’t mean you’re unhappy. Love you both☺️
I first started dating at 33 years old!! Then married at 35 years old with my first boyfriend and now husband 😃 Waiting really pays off!!
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Wow! Amazing story. I starte at 29, thought I was so late then.
@@MaiMai-om7cz hello! :) yup I really took my time to know myself better, pray and focus on my career ;)
As an NBSB girlie, this was so empowering! I turned 30 this year and grabe the pressure of finding a boyfriend. I'm in a healthy place now where I WANT a relationship but I don't see it as a NEED. Love hearing your insights kasi I feel super validated
ang refreshing to hear this kind of perspective that empowering single people in a world na everyone is rushing to be in a relationship.
I’m a certified happy and blessed single, and I couldn’t agree more with everything you’ve said. I almost got married at 28 but didn’t hesitate to call it off when I noticed the red flags-a decision that turned out to be one of the best I’ve ever made for myself. Since then, I’ve traveled to 33 countries (and counting), lived in several of them, and embraced life to the fullest by serving wherever God has sent me. Every step has been a testament to God’s faithfulness and the joy of following His plan.
This podcast made me realize a lot of things sometimes when you’re getting into a relationship you don’t realize that we put our partner into a pedestal and expect them to do understand reads our minds and do more things that we can’t even offer ourselves. That instead of focusing on finding a partner, you need to build yourself to be that better partner and not just that, have you need to take a second and take a look at yourself maybe there’s something missing within yourself like finding your self, fulfilling your career and dreams that only you can find and really only you can do it no one else. We often say I hope they’re right for me or hoping they’re the last one but at the end of the day are you still happy with yourself without them that’s why it’s important to really just take your time and learn how to do things on your own finding a partner should just be a bonus in life But I think is not necessary to rely and make them think they’re going to make you happy once you’re in relationship everyone in your life can disappoint you. So it’s so important when you get into a relationship you’re self intact that no matter what happen whether they leave and the relationship didn’t work you won’t be a wreck after.
Probably the best guest to have on this podcast. I can tell how deep & a solid of a friendship this is.
37 years old, always having almost-is-never-enough connections with guys.. technically NBSB.. 😅😅 facing it postively yet still hopeful. go gurls! enjoyed your talk so much
Love this episode! Part 2 please on how to put your self out there after being single for so long? And how to improve one’s dating skill?
ooh! great idea! :) Thank you
I would just like to say this was Godsent. I think this video found me. I’m 34 now, and I just recently broke up with my ex after a year of dating - in the middle of my Bar exam review. It feels like I’m just going through the motions because I can’t wallow in my sadness as I have to focus on reading. This gave me so much hope and I am excited for the next few months, or even years of my life to enjoy my singlehood. I’m now an instant fan, Nicole and Lissa. 💗
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this has got to me one of my most favorite episodes in your podcast. I resonate so so much with both of you guys, especially with Lisa, because I’m 28 and I also just came out (not “just” actually, it’s been 2 years!!) from a long term relationship and I’m extremely happy, content and at peace with being by myself. 🦋
I’ve spent quite some time doing the inner work undistracted and I really now give myself the PEACE that I now want to protect with all my might. LOL like it took so long and hard for me to get to this point, na anyone I date that will not potentially fill my cup as much as I do, I don’t waste my energy on na. and for you to be able to make yourself happy, that is something so empowering! sobrang natural lang na we have this set of standards kasi I can literally buy myself flowers, lamoyon?! hahaha
but really, I admire how you both are navigating the single life with full confidence and with a positive outlook. singlehood is indeed a gift that not everyone gets to experience. sabi nga nila, if you know na a year from now you’ll get the family life that you’ve always wanted, what would you have done differently? SO INDEED, ROMANTICIZE YOUR SINGLE LIFE, BESTIES!
P.S. I’m a listener all the way from Massachusetts!! add that to your long list of international reach hehe
I'm really amazed and inspired sa friendship nyong blogger besties, esp during the time na iba iba na kayo ng season where someone got married na, someone dating/engaged and someone still being single but you guys embrace each of your friends current season. Yung support nyo for each other very evident❤
Lissa, I’ve said this before but ikaw talaga ang spirit animal ko. 💯💯💯 Also happily single in my thirties. Most of your advices, I already know but listening to you and Nicole just gives me the comfort na hindi ako nag-iisa. I truly enjoyed this episode!!
Love your honesty so much. Talagang matapang na kape ☕️ One could see why you have such lovely friends.
A filipina Listening from Sweden! Not single anymore but got married at 39! I love everything about this.
I agree not to rush in getting married…
married life is not always a bed of roses, neither it is full of thorns..it’s still the best feeling na may inuuwian ka at the end of the day..just a bit of encouragement lng 😊
Personally speaking, I resonate on Lissa POV. I’m happy you have this kind of podcast and topic.
Hello Nicole! Hooked to your podcast for days now! I appreciate all the topics & lessons I get. I am an OFW based in Qatar and I usually listened while driving to/after work.
Btw, looking forward to male guests on your pod! I am a husband and a dad of two and would like to listen my fellow dad's perspectives about dad life, marriage, finances and life in general.
Thank you! Keep up the good work. You're doing really great.
I love this episode Nicole!! Thank you for sharing you and Lissa's story. It is so empowering and inspiring especially for all the single ladies out there! Listening to you podcast from Japan!!
Nakakaempower kayong dalawa. Minsan nafefeel ko maybe something’s wrong with me. But I appreciate you two sharing your story to us.
Yay 😊 finally the long wait is over😂❤... 35 years as a NBSB listening u both is❤❤❤
Im 32 and NBSB and we are so okay where we're at naman diba. 😄
Congratulations to this podcast.. meaningful.. worth listening to..
As a single guy who's actively dating, it is true na nakakapagod naman talaga and also what Nicole said na, "sometime nakakalimutan mo na king ano na kwento mo" specially when you're dating 3-5 people at the same time hahaha that's why sometimes, id take my time to rest and delete the apps for months. I love their genuineness!
As a single 31 year old female with no interest in dating at the moment, I loved this! Thank you for sharing your stories 🙂↕️❤️
I wish i had the same mindset with you when i was in my early 20’s. Grabe! Strong, empowered, and intelligent women
this podcast is so empowering! Hoping to see more of Lisa's POV in this podcast
hindi ko alam kung iiyak ba ako or tatawa. but it feels so good na may topic na ganito. Ito yung totoong we do not invalidate someone just because we did not experience it. Ito yung kahit konti na feel ko na okay lang kung di ako ganito di ako ganyan. Thank you Girls! Na feel ko na somehow parang ako si Lissa less sa part na pumarty sya during her 20s hahaha
mabuti kayong tao at naniniwala akong darating si mr. right kaya mag prayer reveal na lang ako haha. pag nagpray kayo be specific like Lord, pls sana pag nakita ko na si mr. right sana po mabait, masipag, matangkad, gwapo etc. and it works promise! pag di pa to sapat isulat niyo sa paper lagay niyo sa ilalim sa unan after praying ewan ko na lang talaga haha. love you girls! God loves you!
grabe nung nakita kong 1hr parang tinamad ako panuorin pero di ko namalayan na mag-eend na yung episode sana more episodes like this with Lissa
mga ate. this topic, the conversation - batuhan ng question at sagot with the heart, is a conversation i never had with myself. thank you!
both of you are amazing lovely ladies and I believe God is still writing your lovestory. ❤
Super dami kong natutunan sa inyo!. I can relate to you ladies because I am in the same situation, early 30’s, single for 6 years din, and happily doing the self work! Minsan mahirap but it was really a wakeup call hearing Lissa say na mas nanghihinayang siya sa future if mag end up with the wrong person. That’s such a really nice perspective, hindi na ako manghihinayang to take my time at present to focus on myself. ❤
Hi, Lissa & Nicole! Just wanted to know how much I admire your friendship. Thanks for inspiring me.
I super love this talk. Para akong kinakausap ng isang ate para payuhan. Super meeded this and so timely ❤️ more topics about this please gusto ko ma enlighten. Chars. love you both.
Looking back, I truly enjoyed the period of solitude before I met my husband. Thank you for being vulnerable with grace. This is an inspiring episode.
Watching this grabe palang kasama ako sa conversation nyo. Kudos to this video. New fave yt channel!
Love seeing you guys together in one frame❤
Saw this when I feel like I needed it the most.
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I really had so much take aways from this conversations. Super worth it yung 1hr 🤗
💯 relatable. Thanks for sharing this. Best topic 💖 Say it all out loud to all the toxic people who do not understand single women in their 30s. 🥰
Oh my! I strongly agree with what you both, Ms Nicole and Ms Lissa, have shared in this podcast and it's nice, truly appreciated your podcast as your platform to freely discuss what you've gone through and what you have to impart with us (apart from your vlog which I miss this Saturday, parang walang bagong upload) :) I just admire the both of you, intelligent and brave and empowered young women at your 30s! God bless and keep you!😍🙏💝
Love this so much. I take this episode as an eye opener 🎉❤
11:36pm here in NZ. Listening to this podcast while winding down. So loved this episode. Sobrang relate 😅
The best episode ever! Very raw and both of you were right that acceptance is key. I'm 41 yrs old single for 1yr but happy. Part 2 please. ❤
I never knew Nicole is so fluent in Tagalog. Nakakatuwa. Also, being cheated on, I guess nakaktrauma yun. Kahit ako I’d rather be single. Gusto ko yung honesty and rawness nito. Feeling ko ganon din ako.
16:38 On point tlaga si Lissa here
🤭💖💖💖thank you. Please share the episode with your friends too
@SoloFlightPodcast Shared the podcast earlier super relatable 😍 Looking forward for more episodes 🥳
Sobrang gusto ko attitude ni Lisa❤❤❤ and nicole❤❤❤ part 2 naman please❤❤❤❤
Listening from SoCal! You’re podcast is my new companion when I drop off and pick up my daughter from school. Yay millennials!😄
aww love that!
Love listening to you Nicole. Listening from Chicago ❤
Ms. Nicole and Ms.Lissa , interesting topic., sana may part 2 ❤❤❤
Viewer from NY. Wow, I've learned so much from you ladies.
We missed the vlog era of Lissa on her vlogs dating guys ANUNAAAAA LISSA
The best episode. Proud single 😊
Watching from Toronto!! Looooooove this episode so much ❤️❤️❤️
♡♡♡ thanks for watching! Please share the video with someone you think would enjoy it as well!
Great episode! Listening from Montreal, Canada ❤
Part 2 please, love love love this episode, thanks for boldly sharing your experiences, Lissa and Nicole!
You guys are awesome...great info...very empowering..Mommy ping..listening from Minnesota USA
great episode, so many wisdom & learnings ❤
Lalala Lisa is the female version of a hustla of a hustla of a of a hustla.. Love you Lisa K! ❤
Love ds conversation wt lissa🤗🥰🙏😇👍👏👏👏bravo to both of you 🥰🤗😇
“Everyone comes to your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime”
I miss this tandem! I miss Lissa Kahayon’s vlog too!
i super love this episode.. thought am gonna cry a lot but yes this one’s empowering one!
Looking forward for another episode (may pa sequel pala😅) after kong panoorin to feeling ko andami kong kailangan baguhin sa pagkatao ko lol
Pashout out sissy Nicole on ur next podcast! Watching u now here in Taiwan Christy & fam
Hui bet na bet ko tlga podcast mo nakaka aliw saka light lang parati topics. ❤ from brisbane- ivory
I love it!!! thank you for sharing your experiences about love and life. :)
You are AMAZING!!!
Next topic for you both pls. What are you non negatiables in friendship and romantic relationship (+dating stage)
Huy relate ako into. Like ganito ako, boring hindi umiinom and people don't understand why. Huy ganito ako man!
Hi. Love your combo. Its honest, real and true. Cheers to both of you. Great message
I have been watching all your content ever since and now I’m rooting as well your podcast I’m a silent follower here from Nz.. 😸🤓
Listening to this episode as a 26 year old NBSB na pressure sa mga taong ang tanong lagi is kelan ka magkakaboyfriend
Same
Me too❤
love ur show nicole!
Thank you !
i feel you can talk a lot of personal things together on this pod. part 2 please🎉
I loved this. Listening from Australia! ❤
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Listening from Sweden very informative and helpful👍❤️
Listening from San Diego ❤❤ I look forward to each new episode!
Hi Nicole, watching from Norway here. I love your podcasts. More more pa pleaseeee
Don't ever feel pressured by what society thinks is the "right" age to get married or have kids. Your life, your choice.
enjoyed your podcast sm to the point I didn't notice it's already almost 2am and I'm still cleaning the entire house😂
😂😂😂 yay
Love this! Thank you for inspiring strong single women!
Listening from 🇨🇦…love this episode
II ENJOYED THE PODCAST PO. NBSB. 26 YEARS OLD. VERY RELATABLE PO KAYO BOTH 👉👈
I'm 50, single and loving my life
You two have good positive vibes 😂❤❤❤
AHHHHH BEEN WAITING FOR THIS EPISODE!!!
Best episoden by far. Love you both❤❤
Part 2 with Lisa is a must!!! Hahahah
Para kang si Marie Forleo na binansagan ni Oprah na America's Thought Leader. Para sa akin ikaw ang Philippines' Millenial Thought Leader! God Bless You Nicole A! 😇
I agree: With your keen sense of awareness; Your advice brings about compassion, balance, love and wisdom…you’re empowering and more power to the podcast & you - ❤️🤗
I am married but this is my favorite episode so far.
It's just the society guys who pressure us. Ang hirap magjowa pag maganda kasi madalas yung love nagiging lust nalang.
have been looking forward for a pod ep like this!! love this duo! much love from san fran ❤
❤ for me i dont care how old the girl is, as long as she can have a children with me and you both respect and love each other..
Hi Nicole all the best w your blogs enjoy singlehood the right guy will come in time
God bless❤
Love this episode!! Next episode ung how to move on hahaha 😂❤
Super love this episode!!
Next podcast: “When your so comfortable with being single.”🤣 -from a 42 and still single and willing to be single forever🤭😄
Listener from Dubai and I’m your fan in the early days pa. Idk but I keep dming you sa Insta haha and you somehow still responds.
Yk I listen to your podcast when I do my runs. Na shashock na lang ako naka 5k ako nonstop running. Ganyan ako kahook!!! (I could only run 1k nonstop before)