Quarterlette: How to Make a Marriage Last for 70 Years

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  • Quarterlette sits down to chat with Ruth and Jerry Greenspan - married for 69 years - about what it takes to make a marriage last and what to look for in a potential spouse...
    We were in awe of their sense of humor, their love, and their inspiring words...take a look!

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  • @ericknorthrop
    @ericknorthrop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    He couldn’t remember his own age but he recalled almost every detail of the moment he met her.. beautiful.

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He mentioned the penny loafers she was wearing the day they met two times! Really adorable

    • @macsanatic
      @macsanatic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heliaalves9062 He really loved her to have rememeber each detail.

    • @BettyFL
      @BettyFL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.

    • @ljkoh20052000able
      @ljkoh20052000able ปีที่แล้ว

      Insignificant things are not worth remembering to him.

  • @anisassquad7814
    @anisassquad7814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Young people can learn alot from the elders, I love being around elders, their so wise💗

  • @God.sDaughter
    @God.sDaughter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I declare in the name of God this will be me in my old age with my beloved lovely husband by my side! Amen!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lydiapicano8806
    @lydiapicano8806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This is why I will always, always believe in love.

    • @markvictorious5972
      @markvictorious5972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm proud of you lyndia.. if I may ask where are you chatting from

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This video really proves how powerful love is and how possible it is to have a longer relationship.

    • @carmenguzman8831
      @carmenguzman8831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Thanos of Titan yep

    • @yevernotice9408
      @yevernotice9408 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God is love and the only way to God is through Jesus Christ.

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    be liberal with your love because nothings perfect... wow

  • @tholt0821
    @tholt0821 9 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I love this! I'm not sure my precious hubby & I will make it 70yrs because we married in our 40's, but I sure hope to make 50+ yrs!

    • @Quarterlette
      @Quarterlette  9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So glad you liked the video!

  • @user-ln6pu7kq9j
    @user-ln6pu7kq9j 9 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    My goodness! Old people now days look so young...I did not think she was 88! What a beautiful couple :)

    • @adwoakwartemaa8553
      @adwoakwartemaa8553 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agree with you.

    • @Linkay89
      @Linkay89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      K I think its coz they have less drama. No instagram to argue about lol

    • @kristinesmith9444
      @kristinesmith9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Linkay89 it can happen with dementia and Alzheimer’s. Like the movie the notebook. He’s able to remember in detail every single thing of there first meeting but probably can’t remember his grandchildrens name or like what he had for breakfast. Talking with his wife is bringing his memories back. It can be very sad for families but like in the video it can have happy endings if people understand it and treat those family members good 😊. By reminding them of old times and surroundings.

    • @paulinehignett6557
      @paulinehignett6557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kristinesmith9444 A study found if you play classical music around altzeimer patients they memory returns.

  • @StarAnnasDream
    @StarAnnasDream 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    My parents almost made 70 yrs lacking a month when daddy passed
    No greater love story

  • @1mcpeppergirl
    @1mcpeppergirl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Something to listen to. Times have change but love remains the same...

  • @aCycleofSelfcontrol
    @aCycleofSelfcontrol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THE WEDDING PICTURE AWE THEY LOOK SO HAPPY 😭

  • @leah1590
    @leah1590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How they are holding hands. ❤

  • @Linkay89
    @Linkay89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Awwwwww they are the sweetest. May God keep blessing them.

  • @chandlersampson
    @chandlersampson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is why we should not settle. Everyone deserves this type of love ❤

  • @Aveofficialtone
    @Aveofficialtone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “Jerry is the one”
    “That’s me”

  • @annieportier3584
    @annieportier3584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Simply adorable!! Thank-you for posting!

  • @lifegenius763
    @lifegenius763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love this couple! Thank you for sharing some amazing insights about love, marriage and relationships. As a single person looking for my next coupling, their insights have really inspired me to develop a fresh mindset. Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @josiegustemahana799
    @josiegustemahana799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Don’t say where it works it’s way up to.” 😂😂 😝👏👏

  • @reikomyles1495
    @reikomyles1495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God given wisdom to listen, learn and live by. Thank you for this video.

  • @margaretm9028
    @margaretm9028 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for this video!

  • @princessfaromade8081
    @princessfaromade8081 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Such a sweet couple!

  • @annatevesbanzon1359
    @annatevesbanzon1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It was a loving time even though it was a hard time. I appreciate her wisdom!

  • @myaccount3979
    @myaccount3979 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow they are so cool and beautiful together :) God bless them

  • @chandlersampson
    @chandlersampson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The hand holding ❤❤❤

  • @the50chronicles
    @the50chronicles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's a very good question that was asked (What should someone look for in a spouse).

  • @monniechu
    @monniechu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a fun life they’ve had together! Thank you for a wonderful portrayal of great admirable people.
    He still thinks she’s good looking...meanwhile my ex kept comparing me to Taylor Swift even when he was balding and short :/

    • @ginajk8857
      @ginajk8857 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought so too , as she IS good looking .

  • @jacquelinegunstone6147
    @jacquelinegunstone6147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So lovely. What an example to aspire to!

  • @mrs.davidson4482
    @mrs.davidson4482 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ok, seriously adorable!!!!!

  • @Melody-mu6nk
    @Melody-mu6nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovely💞 Made me smile🙌

  • @ALMAGNZLZ80
    @ALMAGNZLZ80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am watching this on DECEMBER 16TH!!! Wow!!

  • @chanelleusen612
    @chanelleusen612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this vid.

  • @roseannepryor4068
    @roseannepryor4068 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cycle of life! Love it! Incredible ! The couple we all want to be!

  • @marykenah3082
    @marykenah3082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So beautiful!

  • @divinepayton1696
    @divinepayton1696 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aweeee this is so adorable. 😍 😍 ❤

  • @kellydunn4344
    @kellydunn4344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are adorable❤

  • @fishinjunkee1701
    @fishinjunkee1701 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice 👌

  • @mmasabataengelinaseokamo9659
    @mmasabataengelinaseokamo9659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's awesome 👌 story worth listening to

  • @jonathandiveney3696
    @jonathandiveney3696 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That's the same length of time my grama and granddad have been married

  • @donaldbird6239
    @donaldbird6239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love these two sweethearts!! I hope this is me one day

  • @themodernsophisticate
    @themodernsophisticate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so so beautiful 😍

  • @AndrogynousMIE
    @AndrogynousMIE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful couple! I never met "my man"......only the wrong men......

    • @franciscahope3363
      @franciscahope3363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same..and same goes with my mom. I hope everyone will find the one for them

  • @1muffinaonly
    @1muffinaonly 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lmao, they're the best, and they look amazing.

  • @Fat_swede
    @Fat_swede 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I cant get married yet but. I hope thet when I do, I hope it will last for long :)

    • @franciscahope3363
      @franciscahope3363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope mine and every couple who really loves eachother will last forever

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@franciscahope3363 forever??

    • @franciscahope3363
      @franciscahope3363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ASmith-jn7kf well yeah. They shouldnt be in a marriage if they dont want to be together till the end ykwis? If not then whats the point.

  • @rachy5384
    @rachy5384 ปีที่แล้ว

    So adorable

  • @srchavez5804
    @srchavez5804 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love them

  • @alejandrasotelo2798
    @alejandrasotelo2798 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're so cute 🥺

  • @WidyaBackstrom
    @WidyaBackstrom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So cute

  • @emotional_support_ghost9787
    @emotional_support_ghost9787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want this but without the kids, so sweet so wholesome so loving

  • @GuessMyName234
    @GuessMyName234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are they now

  • @Creeaamm
    @Creeaamm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So cute ❤

  • @sylhomeo6351
    @sylhomeo6351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One soul!

  • @beccalove8791
    @beccalove8791 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sweet couple

  • @jonathandiveney3696
    @jonathandiveney3696 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That is how long my grandparents have been married

  • @conniemurphyover70stillgla47
    @conniemurphyover70stillgla47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    one couple said "stay out of each others way" LOL

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    👋manymany years

  • @americanflower6859
    @americanflower6859 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💚

  • @ronalddeem8154
    @ronalddeem8154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏻✝️✡️🇺🇸🔥🔥

  • @thithachnguyen8913
    @thithachnguyen8913 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now a day ,if they have had enough of each other ,,what will going to happen ….?

  • @ronaldrobinson4559
    @ronaldrobinson4559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @Emptytopfloor
    @Emptytopfloor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Secret to long marriage
    1. Don’t cheat/lie
    2. Don’t abuse
    3. Don’t get bad addiction.

  • @virgiliapamutongan6317
    @virgiliapamutongan6317 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Number 5 ,35

  • @ydbetan
    @ydbetan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol don’t say where it works it’s way up yo 😅😅😅

  • @navin4984
    @navin4984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In 2017:
    Muslim Wife: I would really love for our future boy child to be circumcised at birth
    Hindu Husband: You must be out of your damn mind woman. That hurts!
    Muslim wife makes sure baby is circumcised behind husbands back and husband does not know until baby comes home from hospital.
    Married couple divorces several hours later.
    ---------------
    People break up easily these days.

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Male Patriarchy Are you sure about that?

  • @therights6794
    @therights6794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does anyone know their Zodiac signs? ❤️

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patients.5

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    No Respects Education and Treat well.

  • @angelomatthewreyes5278
    @angelomatthewreyes5278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meanwhile Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip: "What about 73 years?"

  • @melindaaimeeroth5580
    @melindaaimeeroth5580 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do you call them "you guys"?

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    No my name is madam young women khatriina respects.The girl.5

  • @anastasia10017
    @anastasia10017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wasn't he a handsome young man ?

  • @anastasia10017
    @anastasia10017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think marriage has changed from a sacred and valued relationship to a 15- 18 year team project (children) . Once the project nears the end, the divorce process starts.

  • @carmenguzman8831
    @carmenguzman8831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How to make a marriage last? That is impossible now a days since you can cheat on your spouse with one click of a button.

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hélia Alves that's idealistic. It's not about how much a man loves you. If you have a man or a woman who is selfish, they can cheat. People in general men and women have no respect or desire for true fidelity or know how to have it, that's the problem.

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hélia Alves think about it. Why would a man or woman get into a relationship with someone and then just cheat on them?? Really think about that. They don't have to be in a relationship with one person. They can just sleep around but instead they enter into these commitments with people and then do this. It's not just black and white. They obviously intended to do the right thing or they had a desire to have one person and be faithful to them but were not. Some people cheat because they are unloved at home. Some people cheat because they are not getting sex at home and do not know how to go without. Some cheat because they don't know how to say no because they didn't guard their interests, their hearts and minds or attention. Most people are like this. They are with one person but have their eyes set on others in every day life, they go to strip clubs, they watch porn, they masturbate, they make sex the main priority trying to season it up so that they can maintain their relationship. No one now a days is ever satisfied or content or knows how to react properly and exercise self control when they don't get what they want. You think it just starts with men who can't stay faithful. It starts with moms and dads and home. It's just a very sad time in our society. No one wants to raise their children, everyone is selfish and lacks directions, everyone is impatient and intolerant and everyone wants results without work. That's the problem.

    • @jennag3226
      @jennag3226 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ASmith-jn7kf Wtf? Theres nothing wrong with watching porn or masturbating whether you're in a relationship or not. Jesus you're super unrealistic and self suppressive concerning that. Wow!!

  • @pboenhorror9747
    @pboenhorror9747 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @bradstevens3253
    @bradstevens3253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most women today are just so very horrible to meet unfortunately, and back in those days most women were Real Ladies and nothing like today at all.

    • @godistoogood6362
      @godistoogood6362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah a genuine good woman is a rare gem.

    • @godistoogood6362
      @godistoogood6362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Jenna Provenzale it's hard to tell a nice one from a regular one .some ones who seemed nice we're Jezebel's so ye .it's hard

    • @godistoogood6362
      @godistoogood6362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Jenna Provenzale good men exist .I personally don't believe in hookups

    • @marrop2760
      @marrop2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Jenna Provenzale You need to state your case with people - be looking for the same thing, have the same values.. try online dating.. & take your time getting to know someone.. good luck! have faith!

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But aren’t you the same men who talk about “pump then and dump them?”
      How is a woman supposed to be loyal to a man who is all about sex and doesn’t want to love her?

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Families.5

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 ปีที่แล้ว

    family , Farhiasrespects yeeeh.5