My husband is a narcissist it has been 12 days of no contact he could care less that's what the hardest part is is he doesn't care Even told me he will just replace me with someone else astagfirullah he's been cheating the entire time he thinks because he prays it's ok to physically emotionally and mentally abuse me my emaan is hanging by one string I converted to islam 2 yrs ago and married him authubillahi and he has not benefited my Deen AT ALL wouldn't even study with me.... I am broken completely but I have more piece of mind without him then I did with him although he ignores my request for khulah subhanallah I never met someone so evil in my entire life!!!
Having to do same here too after not letting marriage happen too. Aim to destroy child due to sick jealousy and envy. Both Narcissists and then created flying monkeys as my siblings as Narcissistic family system. Living like dogs. Have 2 Narcissistic parents is a special kind of hell. Made mistake of giving chance after chance and they can only become bigger evil monsters. Used to hate me going to mosque 5 times a day and still don't like my Hifz of Quran that I got blessed with. So sick.
@@betsystone1759 In sha Allah we will get our compensation on Day of Judgement for even better home in Paradise. Use such to stay Strong and ask Allah (SWT) to guide you. He can really send hope in the darkest of hours.
Can we create a community forum for Muslim sisters how suffer from narc parents, we are silenced to not speak & sharing with other can help us lighten the load. Physically u can not ever find a woman that will dare to share as she fears backlash. Please comment below if we should do this…
Yes. Please I would like this. I am a revert, but this is how it was in my parents home, and I have been victimized by narcissists, like a bad pattern. I am just beginning to learn about it and start to heal
Assalamualaikum, I’m married to a narcissist man . I love him so much but he made my life jahannam . He punished me so bad , treats me extremely bad . I’m suffering and just looking for Islamic solutions. Everyone suggest me to leave this man . But I’m so much in trauma bond that I tried and failed to leave him . I came back again . What shall I do I’ve no idea. I need help because I want him to change and be a good person . But without Allah nothing possible.
As much as I like the lecture, but really this is not Narcissism and I don't agree with making it similar to عجب ujib. Narcissism is just totally a different thing a combination of many traits which literally makes the person like Shitan (shitan al inis) شيطان الإنس...so really this talk is not about Narcissism..
Egotist for sure. But you have to experience life's tests to know if you have Narcissist traits or even the Dark Triad traits. Ask Allah to *force* you to change for the better always, even against your will. It's also call surrendering your will to Allah. The fact that you are inquiring about yourself is a good thing. Please continue to explore your heart.
Sadly you dont have any knowledge about islam, read the quran and the hadith and go on to other islamic vlogs better still go to a scholor or imam for advice. if you have abusive parents and if they are nassicsist you cannot, i repeat break ties with them. Its a test from Allah still be respectable to them dutiful to them yhea try and keep your limit of contact with them becus he or she or either both affecting your peace mind and your mental health. But you cannot run break ties with them completly its so sad you have no idea you are the one misleading people not my mother so dont attack my mother and accuse her of misleading people have your parent taught you no manner talking to someone much older than you calling her old bitter bullying with your friend on the comment have shame you sad little boy
You dont need to ask that question you actually did a good job of that yesterday dont you think so !! Attacking calling names being rude disrespectable bringing group friend along the platform to make her look bad when it was you the one accusing i read all your mesages the only mistake she did come out with her personal life what did you do attack her you are a narc who lacks empathy has no compassion you are the one whos evil not my mother you think you can come on here attacking calling people names. you the one who needs help and therapy you and your friend, now go to hell
@@faridaaali6170 Oh, my goodness! Have you begun following me now? Please move on. You've heard it from others as well: you're in need of help. You either become empathic or a narc after spending too much time with narc family members. Unfortunately, it appears that you've become one as a result, so apparent through your attacks and stalking. I'm not going to waste any more time responding to you. I'm going to report you, and if you don't let go, I'll pursue additional legal options. Bye
Oh my, you are a horrible horrible littlle boy, so many nasty comments you made to my mother. Just for that true comment she made. you obviously are a horrible person A narc. You are very arrogant and pride ego boy. Yes my mother is uneducated and so what and you are so educated wow vee you have the nerve. Fear Allah and read the quran. You will be asked on the day of akhirah for attacking abusing insulting and accusing a sick woman who going through a lot in life with your cruel horrible mesages . My mother is sick today because of you thats how i have known about all this. i knew something was up yesterday when she was on phone then today she was quite sick i read all your nasty comments made to my mother from you and your mate it looked like. they were horrible to read accusing her when its you the one. Grow up get a life. You are going to attack me now are you!!
@@chompchomp7853 Chomp chomp just ignore her. I dealt with a similar issue prior. They are experts at stalking & gaslighting. May Allah forgive her evil ways
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We need a lot scholars talk about narcissistic people a lot of people effected by the narcissistic
I know some of my relatives are narcissistic and so was an old friend - all of them I have NO CONTACT - keep it that way, it is best for yourself
Compassion and gratefulness is beyond religion. The talk is so beautiful. Love to all my Muslim brothers and sisters. - A hindu
food, shelter, clothing..and a thankful heart. thanks! Home life might be enough to stimulate evolution and growth. lol
Thank you so much for your beautiful and precious lectures🙏
As narcissist brain lacks empathy from childhood, what is the punishment according to islam or they will consider without punishment in akhirah ???
Its not the brain it's the heart. If that narcissist harmed you or took something from you, leave it in Allah's hands and only Allah knows best.
MashaAllah the lecture was good but there was no solution to how to deal with narcissist. Please post how to deal with narcissist. Shukran
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My mother is a narcist. I went to NO CONTACT, because you can lose your iman. Estagfirullah....
My husband is a narcissist it has been 12 days of no contact he could care less that's what the hardest part is is he doesn't care Even told me he will just replace me with someone else astagfirullah he's been cheating the entire time he thinks because he prays it's ok to physically emotionally and mentally abuse me my emaan is hanging by one string I converted to islam 2 yrs ago and married him authubillahi and he has not benefited my Deen AT ALL wouldn't even study with me.... I am broken completely but I have more piece of mind without him then I did with him although he ignores my request for khulah subhanallah I never met someone so evil in my entire life!!!
@@betsystone1759 May Allah give you sabr and help you dear sister in Islam 🕊❤
Having to do same here too after not letting marriage happen too. Aim to destroy child due to sick jealousy and envy. Both Narcissists and then created flying monkeys as my siblings as Narcissistic family system. Living like dogs. Have 2 Narcissistic parents is a special kind of hell. Made mistake of giving chance after chance and they can only become bigger evil monsters. Used to hate me going to mosque 5 times a day and still don't like my Hifz of Quran that I got blessed with. So sick.
@@betsystone1759 In sha Allah we will get our compensation on Day of Judgement for even better home in Paradise. Use such to stay Strong and ask Allah (SWT) to guide you. He can really send hope in the darkest of hours.
My mother is religious N
Mashallah barakalH jazakalah 💓💓💓💓💓
Can we create a community forum for Muslim sisters how suffer from narc parents, we are silenced to not speak & sharing with other can help us lighten the load. Physically u can not ever find a woman that will dare to share as she fears backlash.
Please comment below if we should do this…
Yes. Please I would like this. I am a revert, but this is how it was in my parents home, and I have been victimized by narcissists, like a bad pattern. I am just beginning to learn about it and start to heal
Narcist are or abuse or praise when they are little
❤️U immensely
Assalamualaikum, I’m married to a narcissist man . I love him so much but he made my life jahannam . He punished me so bad , treats me extremely bad . I’m suffering and just looking for Islamic solutions. Everyone suggest me to leave this man . But I’m so much in trauma bond that I tried and failed to leave him . I came back again . What shall I do I’ve no idea. I need help because I want him to change and be a good person . But without Allah nothing possible.
As much as I like the lecture, but really this is not Narcissism and I don't agree with making it similar to عجب ujib. Narcissism is just totally a different thing a combination of many traits which literally makes the person like Shitan (shitan al inis) شيطان الإنس...so really this talk is not about Narcissism..
I love myself a lot and feel kind of bad when people don't agree with me but I don't look down on people is it narcisstic?
Egotist for sure.
But you have to experience life's tests to know if you have Narcissist traits or even the Dark Triad traits.
Ask Allah to *force* you to change for the better always, even against your will. It's also call surrendering your will to Allah.
The fact that you are inquiring about yourself is a good thing. Please continue to explore your heart.
Arrogance not narcissist alhamdulillah. For one a Narcissist never questions or agrees that they are one..
Ujum?
unfortunately you didn't address how to handle a narcissistic person
Sadly you dont have any knowledge about islam, read the quran and the hadith and go on to other islamic vlogs better still go to a scholor or imam for advice. if you have abusive parents and if they are nassicsist you cannot, i repeat break ties with them. Its a test from Allah still be respectable to them dutiful to them yhea try and keep your limit of contact with them becus he or she or either both affecting your peace mind and your mental health.
But you cannot run break ties with them completly its so sad you have no idea you are the one misleading people not my mother so dont attack my mother and accuse her of misleading people have your parent taught you no manner talking to someone much older than you calling her old bitter bullying with your friend on the comment have shame you sad little boy
You dont need to ask that question you actually did a good job of that yesterday dont you think so !! Attacking calling names being rude disrespectable bringing group friend along the platform to make her look bad when it was you the one accusing i read all your mesages the only mistake she did come out with her personal life what did you do attack her you are a narc who lacks empathy has no compassion you are the one whos evil not my mother you think you can come on here attacking calling people names. you the one who needs help and therapy you and your friend, now go to hell
@@faridaaali6170 Oh, my goodness! Have you begun following me now? Please move on. You've heard it from others as well: you're in need of help. You either become empathic or a narc after spending too much time with narc family members. Unfortunately, it appears that you've become one as a result, so apparent through your attacks and stalking. I'm not going to waste any more time responding to you. I'm going to report you, and if you don't let go, I'll pursue additional legal options. Bye
Oh my, you are a horrible horrible littlle boy, so many nasty comments you made to my mother. Just for that true comment she made. you obviously are a horrible person A narc. You are very arrogant and pride ego boy. Yes my mother is uneducated and so what and you are so educated wow vee you have the nerve. Fear Allah and read the quran. You will be asked on the day of akhirah for attacking abusing insulting and accusing a sick woman who going through a lot in life with your cruel horrible mesages . My mother is sick today because of you thats how i have known about all this. i knew something was up yesterday when she was on phone then today she was quite sick i read all your nasty comments made to my mother from you and your mate it looked like. they were horrible to read accusing her when its you the one. Grow up get a life. You are going to attack me now are you!!
@@chompchomp7853 Chomp chomp just ignore her. I dealt with a similar issue prior. They are experts at stalking & gaslighting. May Allah forgive her evil ways