Appalachian Man interview-Billie
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Billie, a homeless Appalachian man in Kanawha County, West Virginia.
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This man has been needing to have this conversation for a long time. It's likely the first true conversation he's had in years. I can feel the pain in his voice. He makes no excuses for life's issues, just acknowledges his own faults and keeps it moving. God bless him. I hope and pray he finds peace in this life.
amen
19 minutes wasnt even close to enough. this man could use hours to talk it out. and the world we live in now would be open to help him. hope we catch up with him down the road
He is indeed in need of compassion and understanding: this is basic human decency and he seems like a decent fellow. But I don't see how sky fairies are going to help him.
@@cyberpleb2472 If there is no God (sky fairies as you say) what is the point of decency? Life is meaningless, decency is meaningless, in fact, counter intuitive, to a godless human. Only God makes life worthy of compassion. Otherwise, humans should just kill and take as much as they can in a short meaningless existence.
Aren't you the one who needs compassion...?
R/ttttttttt/
This one...something about it. This man's stoicism, taking accountability and plain honest. This was a rare gem.
I'm from Appalachia myself (although from an urban area) and I've known loads of people like this. He's like a living artifact. If you dragged a mountain man from 1840 into the present day to interview - this is exactly what you'd get.
I believe that...He has a old soul..
Not quite but similar I suppose
Lmao you weren’t around in 1840 so stfu
You sure had to work for that one Mark
I love the fact that Mark is willing to leave those moments of silence between questions. You can see the reflection that goes along with answering his questions.
silence is used commonly in counseling… it allows the person to reflect and continue to open up more
You can just tell by his demeanor, nevermind his looks, that this is a man that's lived a truly hard life.
Yes, and I’d love to sit down beside this man and hear more stories about his life. This is a real dude, no BS.
@@zimmy4868 , how do you know that?
Hell yeah, he's led a hard life. He doesn't drink/drug and looks a 75yo at 54. God Damn!!
A federal lawyer, a nurse, a school teacher and two children in the forces.
Definitely a legacy to live on.
I am wondering why he didn’t live with any of them until he can get on his feet. I am sure there is more to the story, but I would not want my dad living on the street.
Likely all lies. I don’t believe a word of it. It’s just a bunch of tall tales and delusions from a man that has wasted his life.
And they want nothing to do with him
dude is delusional - you really believed that?
@@craiganczelowitz7225 Yes, either he is delusional, or he completely alienated his children and they hate him.
He said "i been lonely, since 2013" he mustve really loved that woman😭 hope he gets what he deserves- a happy, comfortable life and home to live out the rest of his days♡
This part really brought tears to my eyes. :(
I'd be interested in knowing why his kids haven't stepped up to take care of him. I couldn't imagine my father living under a bridge. He's been gone 9 years and I'd do anything for one minute with him.
I pray they reconnect. The pain in his voice is hard to hear.
He says they help him as much as they can. Sometimes it's just not possible to lift a person up the way you want to, for all sorts of reasons.
Some people do not accept help in certain forms. Either out of pride. Or because they don't want to be a burden.
He may not want to live differently.
@@ladyprepper4 everyone needs family. Everyone.
@@ladyprepper4 no one wants no family. No one.
Mark has to receive an award parallel to the Oscars, his channel is simply incredible.
This is too real for hollywood tho
@@HumanOptimization any equivalent award would also be good
That’s almost an insult, the Oscar’s are a joke. He deserves something more like a Pulitzer Prize.
Does TH-cam have awards of some sort?
I'd vote for this channel to receive the "Best Documentary..." Or similar.
@agEyal, I was thinking the same thinking. Mark's work is worthy of the highest documentary award. Riveting!
A serious man with depth and integrity.
It's a shame how such a person can end up under a bridge.
Especially with five successful children. Boggles the mind.
this is what happens to good people.
Society doesn’t care about men
Anyone!…even you….can end up homeless.
It would be interesting to hear from his family. Sounds to me like a man who has the potential to flip quite easily.
This man speaks his heart without being hateful or mean. He says what he thinks about things without hurting others.
I live in Charleston. Do you know the area Billie stays? I’d like to try to help him out any way I can. He seems like a good man.
“I don’t call them friends, I call them associates” This is a wise man indeed.
said that exactly as i read this lmfao
As if he's a made guy, ha!
Damn Straight!
me and my friends always said the same. even adding a third category of “familiars”, meaning you arent associated but know em
@blackline66
Yeah. Or a mobster, indeed.
They don’t make people like this anymore. This man has made a lot of mistakes and is hurting. Yet, not one excuse or point of the finger to place blame. He owns everything he’s done and every decision he’s made. God bless you Sir and thank you for this interview.
Don't get caught up in the whole "This new generation isn't this or that" nonsense.
His isn't first nor the last generation that knows how to own their mistakes.
th-cam.com/video/Ma-XJc_CqPI/w-d-xo.html
You are so right.The truth came out through his pores.
WTF? Made a lot mistakes? His wife was killed, then his girlfriend died of heart failure. The world has fucked this guy sideways.
Bingo. Well said.
@@pobresmeagol True but, he's not blaming anyone else for his poor decisions.
It's hard to help old-timers like Billie. They tend to reject charity. I wish him the best and hope he can find a way to seek & accept help.
I think you're right. Very proud man.
at this point he should have the right to some kind of pension and a pension is not charity. at a certain age almost nobody can live with just working OR living in the street and find food. you get old and that's life. i think he kind of got lost in this process. just accept you are old and need a little help. not accepting that is to me being actually insane.
I didn't think I'd ever find someone in exactly the same situation as myself.
I'm 73, and live in the deep woods on my own but l do have a phone and a pension.
So I'm doin well.
Good luck brother, sleep dream free.
That's really cool. If I had a pension or steady income I would live in the deep woods as well. Nothing but love and respect for you brother
Kool! You have the right idea. Our world is in a mess! You are free from all the sickness and corruption! Peace be with you child of GOD! AMEN
I bet living a simple natural woodsy life is so much better than the rest of us. You sound grateful. You also sound like a compassionate person and a gentleman. I'm only 60 but now I find stories about older folks lives so comforting. I sure hope some miracle will save him. He deserves it so much. And much abundance and goodness and good health to you Jim. Your message was very sweet and quite unique. Not many your age on this channel. May you be happy. May you be free from suffering. May you be at peace. 💜
Please set up a Go Fund Me page for this gentleman. There's so much one could say about Billie. He has a magnificent face. I would love to see a painting of him. Somehow, he has managed to capture my heart with his honesty and dignified presence. I wish you all the best, Billie. You deserve nothing less.
He touched me aswell. I want to help
He reminds me of Robert E Lee in the movies. but I’m not sure he’s being honest. If he has 5 kids with good jobs. Why is he homeless under a bridge? I think he needs help for sure. I feel so bad for him.
There is a Go fund link in the description box 🌟
@@ConJota, thank you!
Drop a link I got something for Billie
He looks like a 19 century Russian writer. And Im sure with his life's experience he is one in a sense. There is wisdom in his eyes.
i was just going to say that! he looks a lot like dostoyevsky. his life experiences echo dostoyevsky’s too in a way.
Yeah he def. has that Dostoevsky thing going on! Good observation!
yes I'd love to paint a portrait of him
Hope this man gets the help he needs
Looks like a confederate soldier.
Heartbreaking. This man still has things to offer this world. I hope he gets some help while he is still with us.
I agree. I feel sad for him. I wish he could move into one of his daughters homes.
yeah me too. but it's the kind of dude that i'd really not be astonished to see a news that he died. he seems close to death. in some societies (like arabic for example), theses kind of guys doesn't exist. they respect olders and feed them/host them by culture freely whenever they want.
it's actually what is sad to me is that this guy is a product of our society. sad to see. he really not look like someone who would had something with drug or being a really bad guy. so our society shouldn't produce a guy like him. i really think shame is on us.
Interviewer: what were the best years of your life?
Man: none.
That hits hard.
It made me cry when he ssaid he slept under a bridge to avoid being disturbed, robbed or beaten. I've said this before, I sometimes complain about tiny problems in my 1st world life, but when I see people in this predicament it breaks my heart.
Here here.
Sometimes though I wish I could have the mental state these guys have an not live the rat race life
Couldn’t agree more. It’s so humbling
this takes place in america which is widely associated with the first world, an absolute shame that people have to live like this in the richest country
@@btnhl no its because theres astigma around homeless people and they often get kicked out of places simply for being homeless, id imagine that makes it hard to get a job, addicts are also victims as they need rehab, the only people responsible for there own actions are violent or thievious homeless people as they perpetuate the stigma that the homeless are lazy criminals, i really do think that you oversimplified any point you tried to make
Imagine finding peace sleeping under a bridge where he isn't robbed or beaten to live is that kind fear is beyond my comprehension. I too give thanks for my blessing that i'm safe in my tiny abode. He lives in the USA and it's suppose to be a first world nation.
This gentleman is the most direct and sure footed person I’ve seen in a long time. The way he answers the questions with the most direct response is a sure sign of self awareness. He stops immediately after most of his answers due to him being very sure that is all that is needed. Todays world and it’s psych tests may claim him to have mental instability but be assured this man is completely competent and well versed in how to deal with the world around him in his own way.
Easily the thing I noticed and admire about the man.
I feel the same. He is rock solid. I would NOT want him to mix with allopathic medicine at all. They'd have a field day. Best to stay away and remain country pure. IMO. the priority here is getting him back under a roof.
How do you find a virgin in West Virginia? Find one who can run faster than her brothers.
During childhood, I lived in his area. I barely have one good memory. There were a lot of people who spoke and acted like him. My take on him and the people like him is the opposite of yours. They lacked self-awareness. They kept their answers short and closed because they were hiding something.
How does Sùmelly Sock know this? Smelly Sock did not walk in their shoes.
I went through similar experiences. I had , i was faced with similar forks in the road, similar sets of choices. My background was similar.
I was becoming taciturn and secretive just like him and the others.
It was common to lose ones virginity by age 11. How? To ones parents or siblings. If you were lucky, to your cousin.
Similar bad things had happened to me, and i was on the same road of bad choices as them. I was becoming like them. Had I not left the area, that 3rd world cess pit of the USA clalled Apalachia, I have no doubt I would have turned out like him.
They were cruel, mean(spirited, hateful people. They wre violent. They were drunks. A google search of my former classmates, the children of such people and who would grow up to become like that, shows around half to be on sexual predator watch lists and prison histories for other crimes. Sure, they were tough, but they destroyed evertying they touched.
@@smellysock4260 it sounds like you have a lot of demons to deal with. I wish you the best.
Ya this man directness and integrity is so admirable. Even though his life ended under a bridge, his life and him as a person is remarkable. Not a perfect person, lots of flaws, but some strong personality traits that are a model for the rest of us
This is someone who deserves to be helped into getting somewhere to live, his debts paid off and allowed to live the rest of his life in peace and security. I salute you sir!🏴
Considering he single handedly raised 5 children who are so valuable to society, ideally his debt should be cleared so he can move on in peace for the rest of his days
@@TheXaniah777 yeah, or he could be a liar. we dont know. this dude look really crazy to me. there is something in his look. he may also have done bad things and being eaten by guilt.
@@jeandupont4939 you could find yourself in his shoes just like anyone else. You could be a liar as well. Who knows?
@@johnbagewll2321 I'm pretty sure he didn't contact Mark for an interview on SWU. He could've said anything. He could've broke down for the mercy of donations. He doesn't expect anyone to help him and I can relate in that way. Call it stubborn or hardheaded but atleast it's the truth.
@@aspartamekillsyaknow9019
No telling.
Love your Appalachian interviews, especially being I’m from part of Appalachia myself along with most of my family... it’s an area that is looked over often, but has had a huge impact on the U.S. and it’s development. The people here are very proud of who they are and what they’ve got even if it’s hardly anything at all. Keep doing more of these interviews please and I’ll keep watching and loving them!
Props to Mark for getting this man to open up. People don’t understand how difficult it is to receive closed ended answers when you’re asking open ended questions. It’s not easy to stay patient
Well, Mark's been thru a lot, he knows how to deal with it. It was difficult for us too, to listen. Especially with all his inner pain, that was not put into words, but u could feel it 💔
Yes he's drawing the man out of himself.
It’s also not easy telling difficult life stories like this
He’s lucky to ever get genuine answers after coaxing people into interviews for money.
@@Needawholepailofwater a lot of people just want a chance to be truthful. Some people would Probly do it for free. But hey. Money helps a lot of things.
The Appalachian people are by far my favorite interviews, so interesting
I agree, I find them riveting.
Yes most definitely.
Same
Me too, and I am from the place
i also like the appalachian interviews. They go straigh to the point. no waste of words. The alcoholism, drug addiction and lack of jobs is a cancer in this comunity.
WOW THIS MAN DESERVES a home his life has been hard and yet he still walked the path , if he was my dad he would be living with me …..his honesty is heartbreaking 💔
My favorite interview you've ever had with anyone. Such an open, honest, and humble man, though you'd not think he was. He admits to things he did wrong in his life and regrets what he did. His voice very much tells the heartache he's been through. Sounds like he would like to make things right, but doesn't have the means. He's tough to the soul, but it seems he has had to be. Sounds like he did do a great job with his children which says a lot for him. Sad that he's now living under a bridge. Prayers that things change for him for the better. Reminds me a lot of Si Robertson look wise and voice.
My favorite too I bawled my eyes out. Maybe he is God in disguise because he sure is a gentleman of substance.
I think you can see this mans life on his face. It's been straight up hard for him.
His kids have done well, he deserves respect for that.
He sound like a man who's pride has been broken and depression has taken him . I'd hazard a guess that it's this that might stop him from allowing his children to help him. You can tell he is a man who had a lot of pride and for men like this to accept charity and not being able pull their own weight can one of hardest thing they will ever have to overcome. Help can literally surround some of us but until we open our hearts, ignore our heads and accept it . Nothing will surely change.
Very well said
He's a person who's been down so long that he doesn't know what up is.
He talks like a lot of people who've had a hard life. I'd say that he's depressed but probably doesn't even realize it. I definitely don't agree that depression has "taken him". I reckon he'd be a hard man to "take". All of the older generation in my family, both sides, talk like he does. I also wouldn't say his prides been broken at all. People from that generation and area were taught that pride goes before the fall. Also, just personal opinion here, but pride probably doesn't get you anywhere when you're homeless or in dire straights. Really I wish there were more people like him, straight talking, honest, no nonsense, doesn't volunteer extra information.
Y by yy
You have a bit of understanding, to live it is whole different thing.
This man is a living description of the best generation this world will ever see. I’d admire him more then anything. Everything he has been through his kids are living a extremely more successful life then most just buy showing them what true hard work and dedication is. 💪🏼💪🏼 it’s an honor to hear your story sir.
My heart breaks knowing he lost his love to drunk driver. I'm glad he had children that did amazing.
I doubt it. I think he's lying. It would be nice to hear from these kids and find out their version of the story.
We NEED more Appalachian interviews.
Real "Salt of the Earth" people.
I got legitimately pissed off when I heard that he owes Verizon almost $10,000. I don't see how that could happen without the predatory practices these telcos use. And please, tell me what Verizon could have possibly provided this man that's worth $10,000. If he wasn't paying bills for years, why was the service still going? To owe that much, Verizon preyed on this man like they do so many. AT&T is especially bad about this too. They love to prey on the young and the elderly. Easy money for them.
There is no way this man should be 10k in debt to Verizon. That sort of thing should never happen. That is crooked business.
This man's story is interesting, as is his character. I don't mean to dismiss the rest of the interview or the rest of this man's life. I just cannot stand that people are victimized so much by corporations these days.
He robbed them and did 12 years for it.
@@briannovak3167 Did I miss that in the video? Got a news article or something?
@@p5eudo883 10:35 minute mark
I wonder if he could just declare bankruptcy and start over.
It does seem pretty shady that he owes that much to Verizon.
He isn’t a saint (who is?) but he certainly could use some financial advise so he can get back on his feet. At least take that burden off of him.
@@Staygoldfarms you can’t file bankruptcy if you can’t pay the filing fees.
Loved his interview and how open and truthful he was. He deserves lots of hugs. God Bless Him.
This is by far my favorite interview I’ve seen. Much to respect to this man❤️
I love the diversity of the people you interview and your style is remarkable
yep harsh life styles
I agree. Its one of the things that keep this channel interesting.
So true
1000% agree
Diversity? Not Really. Diversity would be filming some people who don't have a tragic story. How about showing some good productive representations. Then it would be diverse.
This mans stare is hauntingly beautiful. What a life he must have lived to acquire this hard look 🙏
12+ years in prison will do that.
@Janice Blasingame no, he basically said he made his bed and is now lying in it. He owned up to his biggest regret. No better man than that.
He looks like he was there when the declaration of independence was signed
This man should write a book on herbal Appalachian forest medicine I would 10000% buy it! You know he is a good man and it really hurts to watch this
I thought that was particularly pertinent myself, the world is crying out for natural medicines, to capture this information from Billie would be blessing to the world. An amazing man, not much older than myself. Im also of no fixed abode, yet very happy about my future I have freedom just like Billie.
Yes!! I am with you on this! Imagine the knowledge he has. This one hurt to watch, kept praying for him & hating I couldn’t do anything else really.
A hard as nails relic of a bygone era. Extremely grateful to this channel for preserving his memory.
Preserving in hopes that men like this will come back in future. Indeed. He may be God in disguise. :) Bygone era for sure and he is only 6 yrs older but lived that simple life. Blessings.
It’s not easy to open up about such difficult life situations like this. His story is truly humbling and reminds me to count my blessings. I’m praying for him 🙏🏽
What a generically thoughtful comment. You could post the same thing on every video on this channel.
🤢
Amen.🙏❤️
@@badmash5190 😭🤣
@@badmash5190 You sure righted that wrong.
I miss the first part. Did he say he was a hillbilly?
One of your finest portraits Mark and one of the most interesting things I've listened to.
This is the great American novel in photography.
Ooh.. I love that!
Yea a.good interview
I love that you're capturing not just the story but the authentic voices telling that story...these voices must be preserved. Thanks for your good work.
This man is sharp, alert and deserves real respect. It's tough seeing a man come this far only to live under a bridge. This probably sounds corny, but he has the countenance of a king out of the mists of time who's struggles now lay heavily on his shoulders. Nothing creates such fascinating faces as a hard, hard life . His face is more convincing than many shakespearian actors. I could listen to him talk all day, and his eyes seem to miss nothing. It's just crushing to know how sad and alone he is, but still he carries it with a dignity that is all too rare these days. I wish him joy for his remaining years.
I know exactly what you mean. It's like he is Divine or Royal. I mentioned above my imagination kicked in while crying and watching . He could be God in disguise and nothing shakes his resolve. The Appalachian interviews are my favorite. Especially the old gentlemen. His voice is like a kind Grand Father. I like how you said a King out of the mist struggles lay heavily on his shoulder. He is a being from somewhere else almost. I sure hope he doesn't spend the rest of his short life suffering. He deserves so much. I wish I was a fairy from the mist and I could fix it all for him before he passes and send him love greater than great. Thank you for what you said. You are so right indeed.
This hurts man, he needs help both mentally and financially
I'm from Kanawha County this old dude is a addict he needs to help himself he's just lazy af notice he didn't want to explain how he lost his home
He really does, it's very sad that none of his children could offer him a home. No way could I let my dad live under a bridge.
@@dmills7812 this has nothing to do with lazyness
@@dmills7812 can you explain further? Ton of us are interested
@@bobsaul4568just responding to the lady saying somebody needs to help this dude financially he says he worked so hard as a kid figured that would have instilled some type of work ethic homeless people here is Charleston wv is crazy they get shipped in here by the bus loads because they have so many programs n food pantrys n churches n shelters here to help there at every intersection begging for change he sleeps under the bridge so nobody will bother him let me tell you it ain't that bad here I know life's hard n some people are dealt a bad hand from the start but what is this guy doing to make his life better can't just hang under the bridge all day n wait for somebody to help you
I always LOVE it when I see Appalachian interviews. I love these people, and for the most part, they have the best values and advice.
A man of few words, but the words he uses are clear, direct, and impacting
One of the all time best interviews ever! My family is from Kentucky and came up a hard life. Good people, taught me a lot. I realize that now that I'm sixty three.
“I don’t fear nothin” I 100% believe him when he says that. He’s a tough ol man I’m sure he can hold his own.
I feel the emotion expressed in that moment growing more prevalent with each passing day. This is a statement you can declare with such solemn certainty as he did, once you've reconciled yourself with the fact that you've got nothing left to live for, that the best of you lies entirely in the past, so distant that it hardly seems like your own memory anymore. He didn't say it because he's tough...he said it because there's nothing that you can do to him.
@@h4ckh3lp I agree 100% I know he wasn’t trying to say how tough he is, I was just making a statement. This rollercoaster we call life is a crazy ride and I can tell he’s had his fair share of ups and downs. I wish him nothing but the best and I hope he’s able to enjoy the last chapter of his life.
I can't tell you how depressed I was . I thought my life sucked.
I came across your videos and your work and I feel like a selfish brat. I'm saddened by the ruff hard lives of others.
Shocking lives. God bless the humble
God bless you Eleanore.
Watching this channel for two years now. I've never been less judgemental in my life. It's changed me.
Depression is something people of all walks of life encounter. Just because u have better circumstances than others doesn't mean that your Depression isn't real. Look at some of the wealthiest people - Robin Williams, Anthony Bourdain, etc. You deserve help the same as someone with less or more means than you. Best wishes from upstate NY!!
Your feelings and pain matter. Keep keeping on and I hope you find moments of bliss as you go along. This life ain't easy but it has snippets of joy. Embrace them when you can.
@@kimsdreamjewelry931 Great advice. Best wishes from upstate NY!!
I have a great respect for this man. His silence between questions is deafening, yet extremely simple. I miss people whom don't feel the need to fill silence with idle chit-chat.
His internal strengths are ever so admirable. Brought up in a different time and place: seemingly making his way through the remainder of his life.
With the great losses he's experienced, he did not get lost in the bottle or drugs.
Thank you for allowing him space for sharing his story. 🙏💙♾️🌬
5 minutes into this video I wished I could reach out and give this guy a huge tight hug.
I appreciate how you let the silence linger after they answer a question.
I've watched hundreds of your interviews, but there's something about Billie that just tugs at my heartstrings....please lets all find a way to help this man...raising 5 kids on his own who go own to become productive members of society
His kids are not kids, they're adults they're all grown up, productive citizens, well educated and working. They need to help their daddy, he raised them as a single man.
@@kathy1149 to trie
@@kathy1149 do you no them 😁
He doesn't need help. If you gave it to him he'd just piss it away. I know these interviews are presented in a way that "tugs at heartstrings," but please take it from someone who has spent 55 years in rural Mississippi: No able-bodied man of sound mind has to sleep under a bridge. I know that makes me sound callous and heartless, but emotions aren't reality and every sad story isn't sad. Just look what his kids have done. Why is he not capable of 1/4th of that?
@@jakemitchell1671 I'd like to see you find work / employment with his difficulties at 68 years old, there's just no employer who'd give him a chance.
I would love to hear more about this man's life. There is so much more to him than we are seeing.
Mark you are a blessing to humanity! You give voice to so many people, I did behavioral therapy when I was little, from an early age I thought differently and I have no words for how much I appreciate these people and their stories! please be safe! Greetings from Lisbon Portugal
The Appalachian people's stories are my absolute favorite on this channel. Some amazingly interesting people 😊
My favorite stories too..the real deal
That 12 years in Prison changed him. He might not dwell on that time much but the damage is there. Wish him the best.
My heart hurts for this gentleman.he’s a real good man. God Bless you sir.
Im from
Knoxville Tennessee.
He's my kinda people.
I understand him completely.
Thank you so much for bringing him on to speak.
He reminds me of my grandpa. So soft spoken and calm with not much to say. I love this man and I wish he was apart of my family. I'm sure his life hasn't been easy at all. Godspeed Billie, To you and yours. ♥️🧡💚💙💜❤️✌️🤟
I’ve watched tons of these videos and for some reason this one really hit me in the feels more than any other one I’ve watched. When he said about how successful his kids are and what a hard worker he’s always been then he said he lived under a bridge my jaw dropped and my heart sank.
Excellent docs. More to the point, truly excellent interviewing, patient, to the point & direct & totally non condescending. Really enjoyable & watchable.
Thats one of the best portraits ive seen on this channel, maybe even ever.
Wow. This is heartbreaking, he seems so genuine and the power to remain sober through all of his struggles is inspiring.
My best friend’s girlfriend got taken away from him by a rich drug dealer so he hates drugs, this man lost his wife due to a drunk driver, Pretty much I’m saying probably made them hate drugs and alcohol
He’s so fascinating. I know he has a whole lot more to say. Hopefully you can interview him again.
My people on mom's side were from Appalachia. This is profound for me to get to watch. Thank you.
Of all of your interviews, this was the most compelling.
I just want to address all the people questioning his kids not helping him more. First of all, he stated that they help when they can. A year ago, I might've wondered the same thing, but I've recently been faced with having to help out my elderly father in law (88) since my MIL passed away. He refuses to leave his home, which is not fit for anyone to live in, borderline hoarder situation and overrun with pests. My husband is successful and does well and helps when he can, but we live 2.5 hours away. My FIL expects my husband to be ready to talk whenever he needs to cry (he's in a job where he's not even supposed to have a phone on him while working) or to come up there whenever he needs him to help him out. My FIL has the money to pay someone to help him with things, but I think he's old school and is very frugal. He also refuses to come live with us. He says he wants to eat when he wants, sleep when he wants, and walk around in his underwear when he wants. He's stubborn and chooses to live the way he does. We can't FORCE him to come live with us, though it would be much easier all the way around. So while it's easy to pass judgment, we need to know the full story before making the decision to do so.
Truth. We don't know everyone's story. I'm sorry the situation is so difficult with your FIL.
@@marylougeorge9890 Thank you so much.
@@sheepnomore8063 ❤️
You and your husband are doing the best that you can. Best wishes from upstate NY!!!
My father was very disagreeable. Its hard.
Many thanks for these interviews. As someone from the blue ridge mountains, it feels good knowing a familiar voice is being shared and heard.
Beautiful. It’s amazing to learn about these types of things . His father was an early coal miner that experienced some of the absolute worst conditions ever known .
One of the best interviews I've seen on this channel.
More old timer Appalachian videos where no drugs are done and they’ve lived life. Wether good or bad. I’ve been through rehab and was raised by an old timer and I definitley feel ashamed of what I’ve done which is why I’m building my life to be just simple. More like them please.
Keep on good path..
Nice comment.
Thnx!.
@@Mark-gn5rw thank you! It’s been three years now, and there ain’t no looking back.
Keeping on the sober path my friend
@@thechosenwon6762 absolutely. Thank you sir/ ma’am!
I am proud of you. Making changes and setting a redirect on our life path takes strength, humility and determination. Take the time to consider your strength over feeling ashamed. No human is fit to judge. Only God. God loves His children that stand tall and find the strength to CARRY ON. 🌬🔥🕊♥️
This man lost his wife and never dealt with that. He lost his girlfriend and never dealt with that.
I wish I knew what that meant. “Never dealt with it”
Such a captivating interview. His honesty in his answers is so refreshing. I would love to just sit and listen to this gentleman and Rice. I also hope that somehow Mr. Latia is able to encourage the people he interviews to read through the better comments (and to ignore the spiteful and nasty ones).
WOW! Sir, I hope you read this comment but you are have accomplished something amazing. You raised your children to be successful all by yourself under these circumstances. I cannot begin to express the amount of respect and admiration I have for you. Absolutely amazing.
With all of his 5 kids having well paying and stable jobs I feel like we are missing something when he says that "they help as much as they can."
I think its his proud that probably doesn't allow more!
Or a bit of bs they exist in his imagination
@@stanstanton6154 That was the exact thought that crossed my mind.
@@stanstanton6154 I was thinking that myself. He has kids with real careers and they're letting him live under a bridge? It's either a fantasy he's concocted in his mind as a coping mechanism or he's heavily sanitizing his story.
There could be a reason why it might be hard for him to accept any help and allow to be taken care of by others. I have a parent in a very downhill situation and even though all the necessary help and free accommodarion in very good place has been offered several times by me and my siblings, you cannot force someone to drastically change their environment unless they really want to. So I know there could be situatiin when you really do the best you can for someone but that someone still has to reach for that hand for the change to happen.
He is only 67 amazing. Younger than my dad. Clearly needs a shave and haircut and a nice T-shirt and jeans so he can stop looking 90.
So much silence in his speech, but articulate. Left me hanging wondering about so many details of his life. So many times I end a watching a video wanting to share a coffee or meal with the person interviewed to know more, but sadly I'm in Argentina.
Mark, as always thanks for your content.
Tell that man to his face he needs a shave..lol!
I bet he'd half-ass laugh under his breath and give you a quick NO!😅
@Wesley alan 😂. Well, he did do a aggravated armed robbery. He might just say ‘Oh yeah! Gimme yours!’ 😳
I've watched a lot of these videos and appreciate them very much. I would really like to see some more of this guy. All the interviews feature special people in their way, but this man I feel has so much more to tell us. An hour or more would be nice, or the follow ups you sometimes do. I certainly wish this man the best
Love this guy! Worked hard his whole life, admits he’s made mistakes and isn’t perfect, and will just tell you like it is with no BS. Would love to sit down with him and hear him talk more about his life. Need more people like this in the world.
I moved from L.A. to Tennessee and compared to California people are actually polite, humble, hardworking, and would give you the shirt of their back. I'm gonna grow old and die in Tennessee.
Yes Tennessee has the southern hospitality
I moved to TN as well after ft Lauderdale went to hell ; you are right the people up here are just phenomenal! I love it l am on top of a mountain in the smokies - had a baby bear right below my back deck the other day.
@@stephaniepanis8669 cocke county here, same deal with families of bears!
That’s fine as long as you don’t start voting for the “Californication” of Tennessee
You wouldn't have loved certain parts in the 80s trust me.
As my dad has said to myself and my siblings.
No matter how bad you’ve got it there’s always someone worse off.
These videos highlight that for me.
Certainly gives me allot of perspective on my own life.
Definitely one of my quotes to my children and husband has always been “Things could be worse”, especially when they whine about ridiculous things. And the Golden Rule, Do unto others as you have them do unto you.
@@bbe3034 Important facts to remember.
So true
Different levels of modern day slavery.
@@eggyolked108 can we not compare things that are nothing like slavery, to slavery?
This portrait is absolutely beautiful. You are a very talented man.
What gets me with these interviews is the time Mark gives them to answer and consider their answers. The silences speak volumes. This one especially.
Being from the Appalachian, when I saw the title of this vid I couldn't click fast enough .thank you Mark! ❤️
“I’ve been angry and lonely, but I’ve never been depressed.” Powerful mindset to have but can’t help but feel like there’s always a bit of denial when people say that. Obviously I have no idea and could totally be projecting my thoughts on him. But his tone, his words, the lack of people around him that care… I think depression creeps in inevitably
Everyone has depression creep in from time to time. If they don't, I think they're either in denial or don't know what it is. Even though depression can come I do think that's different from being depressed.
You must interview him again , I get the feeling that he has so much to say and share , I feel you weren't asking him the right questions, the next time he'll be more relaxed and open and he'll be very happy to see you again, sending love from VOLOS Greece
One of my favs so far. Wish you the best, Billie. Hope everything starts lookin up soon ❤️
This story was riveting, though sparse with details. As a single father myself, I tip my hat to you Billie. Good luck!
being raised by a single father right now… y’all don’t get the recognition y’all deserve, it’s hard raising a kid escpeially when it’s out of the “norm” for the father to do so! thank you for your efforts and all the other single fathers for keep pushing without help and without praise
@@jillianmcbeaver8371 👍👏👏👏❤️
He did a good job too
My family on my Daddy’s side are from Appalachia, and he resembles my kin, both in looks and demeanor. That strong oak of a man type, owns every decision they made, good bad or otherwise. I enjoyed listening to him and hope he finds a way to pay his debts so he can sleep in good conscience one day. Maybe he can narrate or do audio books, he’s very deliberate in how he speaks, easy to listen to.
I know what you mean my family came to Texas from that part of the country and he looks a lot like my grandfathers family.
This man has touched my heart more than any one you have ever interviewed. He seems to have a wonderful character. And wow, he did a great job with his children. They seem very successful.
This man touched my heart. He reminds me so much of my deceased brother, a man of few words battling who knows what demons and fiercely independent. I hope his children can find a way to help him. A shed in a back yard would allow him to still have independence and have shelter and safety. I understand it's not that easy but believe me when I say you will never regret trying to help him. Life is short.
Mark please help him. My heart just broke into a million pieces.
WV born and raised. There are many like him that still exist here. They're a wealth of knowledge, and they are tough as they come. The last of the hill people. 🙏
What a very wise, honorable man. You don't find many like him left. He knows his flaws and doesn't try to unload the burden of his own shortcomings on others and he well knows the consequences to his actions. Despite a very difficult path in life, he isn't hateful or mean or bitter. I pray God blesses this man. He deserves a home and a good life.
Much Respect to Billie and his Family Loved this interview
He has a lovely voice. I can’t speak for the rest of him but his voice is beautiful.
I agree so much!
So thankful I found this channel! Mark is an amazing guy! Love the content and how he asks simple questions and lets the people give their perspective and their life stories ❤️
I like this dude, his beard, and his accent, he has integrity. I must say he has been my favorite interview. Much respect, God Bless you sir!!!
Man I tell you he’s the type of man we need more of now a days like he said he was tough on his kids but it payed off this is a father this is a man