I just watched your video. Good info! Appreciated. One point, that maybe needs to be addressed: the word "options". We keep using it when a person is desirable. Having a lot of matches on dating apps, a woman would think she has options but, no, she doesn't. Is the illusion of options! Those are: possibilities not options. Options means something certain. Option A or B and chose from. But you date with a purpose of relationship...then that is not certain with any match...they are actually possibilities. The word "options" gives to much power to the ego. What do you think?
Guys don't settle. Not settling will probably mean alot of guys will stay single. But single is way better then settling and pretending it is good enough.
Yep, here I am again, a married woman, watching dating advice for guys lol 😆 Maxx got be started a few years ago and I'm just invested in David and Julia now 😀 But in case you were wondering from a female perspective their advice is always solid!
The only valid input thats needed from a woman is a woman is aware of the advise she is giving. The type who clearly questions her own advise juss so its solid
Things that might improve your or someone else life - Loving yourself (changed my life) - Getting Sunlight - Nof4p - working out - investing money (crypto, stocks, savings emergency fund) - ending bad habits (snoozing, gossiping, procrastinating) - planning your days - Eating healthier & learning to cook - weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/AirPods) - drinking water daily (1-2 liters) - Reading at least 5-10 pages of an (e)book - Quitting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs) - meditating - Giving to the less fortunate - cutting out bad friends & family - minimalism - Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing) - Behaving how you supposed to, according to your gender (man or woman)
I hear ya - Tomas! Great Content! Getting Flaked - it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it! But you can reframe it - and start thinking of it as she doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway? She’s basically showing you her hand early as opposed to later on - when you have wasted all your time and energy on her! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
This is exactly what has been happening to me since many days recently where they were okay with the schedule and flaked on the day of the date. This has happened with three girls in the past three weeks. It hits hard and you put in all effort to better yourself in every way *(eg: style, grooming, Workout). Letting go and the harsh reality is an important psychology that you emphasize. Always been my guru :) Thanks.
When a woman flakes, all she's telling me is she is not worth it. So I don't get mad at all. She no longer exist to me. I have no time nor will make time for the games, the entitlement, the ego, or the lame excuses.
The one piece of advice that far too many people could use right now is the idea you mentioned about halfway through this video. You can either complain about reality and even try to fight it, or you can accept it and move on with your life. One of those paths will lead to happiness; one will lead to pain. Choose wisely!
The first and best place to start with being open to a relationship with someone else is being right with yourself..Living your life based off what someone else feels or says about you will usually leave you feeling empty. Your self worth is not dependent on anyone but you.Expand your mind,educate yourself,take care of yourself physically..The right person will come along and when they do it won't be work.It'll feel right and you won't have to jump thru hoops and play games..Better to be happy and alone than with someone that makes u miserable..Just a thought..
They only care about your body and wallet to some degree... At the beginning they are just acting nice and then show their real personality after time passes... I know it since my ex cheated on me because apparently I didn't look great... It was almost nine months ago, and I was bored as hell and felt sooo depressed, but some friends helped me to work on myself. They motivated me to be persistent, and introduced me to some tips and tricks that helped me to eat clean as well. In the process I took meal plans from Next Level Diet to further improve my meal planning. I lost 73 lbs in nine months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!
I had a girl who would flake every time with "being busy with family". There's was even one time we're going to go to the movies but she called back an hour later staying she couldn't make it. I had to put my foot down and just told her "Are you still interested in going out with me?", She told me yes but she was seeing someone and was sorry. It obviously made me angry cause I felt stupid chasing her. Still it's a good lesson as I had never asked a girl out before in my 20's.
Bro, take it as a learning experience, you're fine, happens to all of us. Maybe consider this in the future, if she bails or cancels plans, tell her to hit you back when she's free, and stop texting her, and move on. Also, if she is taking days to respond to your texts, just stop texting her and move on.
Since I'm a married man for 26 years, points on the dating scene aren't really helpful...BUT...some of the things discussed do apply to a "relationship" in general. I'm doing my best to look good, stay in shape, etc., but I'm by myself in this. When your "partner" isn't supportive and doesn't participate in your life, the relationship can die really quick. Key, communicate and do things together.
Hey man, I'm a 28 y/o male who went through something similar with my ex wife. We got together as two motivated people and over the years got stuck in some bad habits together (videogames, drinking). It was awesome for the first couple of years, but then I had an existential awakening, like "I can't live life like this, coasting all the time." I started picking up major discipline, waking up early, working out, eating healthy, seeking God, and she had no interest in it. Within just a few months, my disdain for what I viewed as her "laziness" lowered my attraction to the level where I felt the need to end the relationship. It's been 5 years since our divorce and I regret it allllll the time. Not because I don't like being single, but because my wife had the makings of a great woman and I gave up on her. I did so in order to embrace the life I desired, but looking back, I believe if I would have stuck my course and nurtured our relationship, she would have began evolving just by proximity to my own evolution. That girl reeeeaaallly loved me and now I can't go back. Just a word to the wise: if you're on a track of self-improvement and she doesn't seem to be, give her time and at least look to see "is she supporting me in my goals?" And if so, keep her around.
@@kamui1769 sounds like you gained a great lesson in your tool belt. That has me thinking about my relationship. I have been un attracted to my girl at certain times but she is so supportive and loves a ton. This makes me rethink breaking up. Thanks for the story!
I can relate. The last 10 or so dates I've set up from dating apps all flaked. Some didn't even make an excuse, they just said they can't make it then ghosted. Dude...
Great video bro, as always you bring the best info and common sense advice. Remember guys that these girls who cancel and flake, ghost you. Its usually not you. This speaks volumes about who they really are. Be glad you are not having to deal with them. There are so many women out there who are nice and won't play games. Just keep looking and you will find what you want.
Nice vid man. Not only are you giving advice that you have learned, but its coming from your girl too, so guys get both sides point of view. I think that there are so many guys out there that try to be nice and respectful the way they were brought up to be and they get little to no respect or attention from women, and they want to know why. Its nice to see that you are trying to help guy see that they can be respectful, but also stand up for themselves and respect themselves, and in turn get the attention from more women. Its not that there aren't enough guys out there for women to chose from, its that most guys don't know how to be guys that women respect. Keep up the great work.
Had a woman flake on me after we went 5 dates didn't try to reschedule, I asked what was up gave me an excuse. But then would still text me and say she was still interested but made no effort and randomly made a comment how she isn't seeing other people. So I figured she is spinning plates. But on top of the hot and cold texting, more and more women are doing this and its like a man is trash for doing so, but a woman its fine she is exploring options, you're a queen......🤦🏻 trying to stay optimistic and watch your videos, thanks
Julia words on overweight and to loose weight was awesome ❤️👏. I will work on that now. Thank you both for giving such awesome tips. Was really very helpful 🙏
I consider myself a high value individual by societal standards, and I can confirm that there are people who simply won’t reciprocate or initiate aspects of a relationship. I learned the hard way by sticking by someone that wasn’t willing to put in the same effort as me and our relationship fell apart after I couldn’t continue doing all the heavy lifting. I will continue to lead and always put my best effort into a relationship but you won’t find me wasting anymore time with someone that won’t reciprocate. Thanks for the video.
Great tips! Getting Flaked - it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it! But you can reframe it - and start thinking of it as she doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway? She’s basically showing you her hand early as opposed to later on - when you have wasted all your time and energy on her! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
3:58 Ego is truly the enemy. I didn't wanna hear that but you were spot on. We as men can't be hypocrites with double standards when it comes to choices
33 & only been on one itty bitty “date”. Met the girl at the gym in November. I started the conversation & sparks started shooting off. We couldn’t stop smiling & staring into each other’s eyes. Her smile was surreal. Got her number, did some grocery shopping after gym, walked her home a block away & she told me to text her when I got home. Next day, she went out of her way to set things up with so much enthusiasm. We hung out, she opened doors for me, didn’t want me to be cold & bought me a hot chocolate. About 30 minutes into hanging out, I put my arm around her & she asked if we could be friends. Mood ruined. Confused. Next day she texted saying she’s scared of falling for me, can’t do a close relationship, that she’s afraid to get close to anyone, she’s messed up & promised it had absolutely nothing to do with me & that she’s gonna distance herself, which she did. She kept her word on that. Still can’t get over it. How DEFLATING & CONFUSING.
damn bro give it some time before talking to her again. it maybe felt too real and too overwhelming for her that she became scared once she realized this, or something else is going on in her life. give it a bit and then be honest with her while keeping your spine in tact. honesty can bring people back around
first date should always be talking in a cafe or a walk in the park that doesnt require the man to spend a lot of money. If she doesnt accepts that then she is for the streets.
My first date with my current gf was a walk in the *****iest underground concourse in our city. Homeless and needles everywhere on the ground. Not sure why I thought that was a good idea but she had no problem with it and we are together to this day! (If you can have honest, fun conversation with someone, this shows it doesn't matter where you are or how expensive)
Just when I thought these vids couldn't get any better, yall show up Big. Yalls comedic timing and chemistry is starting to Shine 💥 Good info, by the way
I'm just walking away from dating, It's not worth my time or effort. This girl lead me on for a month while treating me badly. I called her out in her poor behavior everytime, today I told her she needs to work on herself because I'm not putting up with a woman treating me poorly, I told her she has to put in the effort to and she said "no, I wont." I put in all this effort over the past month and got used for validation. Fuck dating.
You should've cut her off the first time she showed any disrespect and moved on to the next. Since you allowed it the first time she thought it was ok to walk all over you. Take a break and come back with a different mindset and be ready to show any girl the door when the disrespect or games come up. Value yourself and your time.
When I met my wife she tried to friendzone me so hard. Got out of it in less than a month. Just did my thing being natural and treated the times we went out like dates without her knowing. I also kept my options open at the same time. One day she came to me and ask what we were, while I was about to go out with this other girl. I chose her since I knew she was a good woman. 3 years married and does not regret any of it. When you find a good one hold on to her, but just in case keep your options open until your 100% sure. Don't simp on them.
Thank you so much David for reminding me of the fundamentals. I'm going through this same text situation and sometimes I slip up. I know better now lol
The way you're delivering this message is great. I've been subscribed for a while now and you and Julia have come a long way. Thank you for the hard work and amazing content. "Brah" lol
I've been in the situation where I go up to a girl & ignite a conversation but it is challenging. I've had good conversations and also some where they weren't interested. OH big yes bro, women do have options. We men have control of wokring on ourselves that's why I started getting better hair cuts (combover with a low fade). Also if she flakes, just leave her and move one, I've been there
I'm a guy whose been in a great relationship with an awesome girl since I decided to level up years ago with help from David. These videos don't really teach me much anymore, but I'm still addicted to the content. I share it with my single homies as much as a I can! I think it's easier to hear the information that is "hard to accept" from someone online then from your friend/ peer.
Can I level up too? For a fact I know I am a good looking guy ( not boasting or anything) but still girls ignore me. Is it because I am a nice guy ? Who cannot talk properly with girls?
My girlfriend always meets me halfway. If she invites me out to eat. She pays for it. Same, if I invite her. I pay for her. But we both make effort to see eachother. We both make sacrifices to make sure we give eachother enough time. Through our crazy work week
I have to literally race my gf to the register sometimes when we are getting coffee or whatever. She works so hard and yet wants to partake in that gesture. Very thankful! Good luck to you guys as well!
Dave the content you bring are significantly unbelievable because they can tremendous impact for anyone who is struggling with his life at any aspect especially the dating life, well done 👏 ✔ 👍
I've heard stories of guys not having any luck with women. Some of them are so sad and depressed that they have thoughts of taking their own lives....I know this is a dark and touchy subject but, have you ever worked with clients who's dating life is rock bottom? So much so that they have suicidal thoughts?
To be honest with you, your videos are normally a lot of random stuff and you will fit the point in a 2 minutes section but this video was straight to the point and I found it great to watch, 10/10
It shouldn't matter if a woman flakes or not. In fact that should be a good indicator of the type of woman you're dealing with and you oughta be happy of the early warning for your systems
HTB talks like he's got a mouth guard in his mouth all the time. I wonder if he got veneers or not? What other dental/orthodontic work has he gotten done. I would love a video or even a miniseries of videos on that by him. You hear that dude? Millions of us would watch that since it is difficult problem that can yield a lot of social benefits!!
Good to see Julia’s additions, they were helpful but basic sometimes, maybe not for others !, always good to see Female’s opinion on the other side and hitting the points, stay beastly from an old follower 👍👍👍
I'm not fat and I work out. I had a fat girl tell me that she won't date fat guys. I busted out laughing. I still laugh about that when I think about it.
Dave, I recently moved to Houston, saw you eat at a place called Grab n Go Tacos, and tried it and been hooked ever since. Need more Houston eating spot recommendations from you, bro, lol.
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Are you guys a couple.coz ur both matching with each other
Welcome to 2023!
It's gonna get more scarce
She wants me to meet her at her house and sit with her family because they don't let her go out.what do I do?
@@KatanaRIDERS.leave her ass lol
I just watched your video. Good info! Appreciated.
One point, that maybe needs to be addressed: the word "options". We keep using it when a person is desirable. Having a lot of matches on dating apps, a woman would think she has options but, no, she doesn't. Is the illusion of options! Those are: possibilities not options. Options means something certain. Option A or B and chose from. But you date with a purpose of relationship...then that is not certain with any match...they are actually possibilities. The word "options" gives to much power to the ego.
What do you think?
Guys don't settle. Not settling will probably mean alot of guys will stay single. But single is way better then settling and pretending it is good enough.
yeah settling down is when you give all your power away
What? 😆
Most guys who do this kind of stuff don't have options anyway, so that's why they're clingy.
Alot of girls these days want the attention that I run into and they don't really want to hangout but it could be me f3cken up?
@@stevansmith9582 You are probably too good for them and they think you will just pump and dump.
Yep, here I am again, a married woman, watching dating advice for guys lol 😆 Maxx got be started a few years ago and I'm just invested in David and Julia now 😀
But in case you were wondering from a female perspective their advice is always solid!
I appreciate you tuning in!!
We need women's input in these. 🙏
@@Edward_Rogue no we don’t all there goanna do is give bad advice
@@marcusmvpgoat1236 most likely and its our choice to follow what they say, that's why I said their input and not their advice.
The only valid input thats needed from a woman is a woman is aware of the advise she is giving.
The type who clearly questions her own advise juss so its solid
Things that might improve your or someone else life
- Loving yourself (changed my life)
- Getting Sunlight
- Nof4p
- working out
- investing money (crypto, stocks, savings emergency fund)
- ending bad habits (snoozing, gossiping, procrastinating)
- planning your days
- Eating healthier & learning to cook
- weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/AirPods)
- drinking water daily (1-2 liters)
- Reading at least 5-10 pages of an (e)book
- Quitting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs)
- meditating
- Giving to the less fortunate
- cutting out bad friends & family
- minimalism
- Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing)
- Behaving how you supposed to, according to your gender (man or woman)
Very wise
Just made monday 10x better w this vid 🙌💪
I hear ya - Tomas! Great Content!
Getting Flaked - it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it!
But you can reframe it - and start thinking of it as she doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway?
She’s basically showing you her hand early as opposed to later on - when you have wasted all your time and energy on her!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
“Before you get mad at girls, you gotta look in the mirror bro”
REALER WORDS WILL NOT BE UTTERED THIS DAY.
Your 100% right. NEVER text them twice.
Never give a second chance. It's a mindset.
This is exactly what has been happening to me since many days recently where they were okay with the schedule and flaked on the day of the date. This has happened with three girls in the past three weeks. It hits hard and you put in all effort to better yourself in every way *(eg: style, grooming, Workout). Letting go and the harsh reality is an important psychology that you emphasize. Always been my guru :) Thanks.
When a woman flakes, all she's telling me is she is not worth it. So I don't get mad at all. She no longer exist to me. I have no time nor will make time for the games, the entitlement, the ego, or the lame excuses.
The one piece of advice that far too many people could use right now is the idea you mentioned about halfway through this video. You can either complain about reality and even try to fight it, or you can accept it and move on with your life. One of those paths will lead to happiness; one will lead to pain. Choose wisely!
Neither will lead to that, you charlatan.
@@vklnew9824 You must be a joy at parties!
@@KaizenLegacy and you must be the poser at parties.
@vklnew 98 👏👏👏 Have a wonderful life kiddo.
This homie is always making my mondays and thursdays . Stay beastly
The first and best place to start with being open to a relationship with someone else is being right with yourself..Living your life based off what someone else feels or says about you will usually leave you feeling empty. Your self worth is not dependent on anyone but you.Expand your mind,educate yourself,take care of yourself physically..The right person will come along and when they do it won't be work.It'll feel right and you won't have to jump thru hoops and play games..Better to be happy and alone than with someone that makes u miserable..Just a thought..
They only care about your body and wallet to some degree... At the beginning they are just acting nice and then show their real personality after time passes... I know it since my ex cheated on me because apparently I didn't look great... It was almost nine months ago, and I was bored as hell and felt sooo depressed, but some friends helped me to work on myself. They motivated me to be persistent, and introduced me to some tips and tricks that helped me to eat clean as well. In the process I took meal plans from Next Level Diet to further improve my meal planning. I lost 73 lbs in nine months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!
I had a girl who would flake every time with "being busy with family". There's was even one time we're going to go to the movies but she called back an hour later staying she couldn't make it. I had to put my foot down and just told her "Are you still interested in going out with me?", She told me yes but she was seeing someone and was sorry. It obviously made me angry cause I felt stupid chasing her. Still it's a good lesson as I had never asked a girl out before in my 20's.
Most girls dont reject you directly. They will just keep making bs excuses why they cant hangout. Thats usually telltale sign shes not interested.
Bro, take it as a learning experience, you're fine, happens to all of us. Maybe consider this in the future, if she bails or cancels plans, tell her to hit you back when she's free, and stop texting her, and move on. Also, if she is taking days to respond to your texts, just stop texting her and move on.
Guys do you think we should be direct by asking a girl if she is still interested when she doesn't seem implicated ? Or just let things go
Since I'm a married man for 26 years, points on the dating scene aren't really helpful...BUT...some of the things discussed do apply to a "relationship" in general. I'm doing my best to look good, stay in shape, etc., but I'm by myself in this. When your "partner" isn't supportive and doesn't participate in your life, the relationship can die really quick. Key, communicate and do things together.
Hey man, I'm a 28 y/o male who went through something similar with my ex wife. We got together as two motivated people and over the years got stuck in some bad habits together (videogames, drinking). It was awesome for the first couple of years, but then I had an existential awakening, like "I can't live life like this, coasting all the time." I started picking up major discipline, waking up early, working out, eating healthy, seeking God, and she had no interest in it. Within just a few months, my disdain for what I viewed as her "laziness" lowered my attraction to the level where I felt the need to end the relationship. It's been 5 years since our divorce and I regret it allllll the time. Not because I don't like being single, but because my wife had the makings of a great woman and I gave up on her. I did so in order to embrace the life I desired, but looking back, I believe if I would have stuck my course and nurtured our relationship, she would have began evolving just by proximity to my own evolution. That girl reeeeaaallly loved me and now I can't go back. Just a word to the wise: if you're on a track of self-improvement and she doesn't seem to be, give her time and at least look to see "is she supporting me in my goals?" And if so, keep her around.
@@kamui1769 sounds like you gained a great lesson in your tool belt. That has me thinking about my relationship. I have been un attracted to my girl at certain times but she is so supportive and loves a ton. This makes me rethink breaking up. Thanks for the story!
A lot of partners lose year ability of taking care of themselves once the settle down unfortunately
I can relate. The last 10 or so dates I've set up from dating apps all flaked. Some didn't even make an excuse, they just said they can't make it then ghosted. Dude...
And when these chicks get past their prime and there demand drops they will turn up to dates early ! ! but just know they will have been run through
@@Simon-og5vy We need to wear t-shirts with "#Never date 25+ women gang" To humble them down.
Make your self so strong and different that it will be stupid for them to leave you
Great video bro, as always you bring the best info and common sense advice. Remember guys that these girls who cancel and flake, ghost you. Its usually not you. This speaks volumes about who they really are. Be glad you are not having to deal with them. There are so many women out there who are nice and won't play games. Just keep looking and you will find what you want.
10:51. This is, for me, the best part of this video. Thanks a lot for being sincere and remembering us, how "the game" is played. You're awesome.
love yourself no matter what. soul in a body then the soul leaves the body. why get attached?
Nice vid man. Not only are you giving advice that you have learned, but its coming from your girl too, so guys get both sides point of view. I think that there are so many guys out there that try to be nice and respectful the way they were brought up to be and they get little to no respect or attention from women, and they want to know why. Its nice to see that you are trying to help guy see that they can be respectful, but also stand up for themselves and respect themselves, and in turn get the attention from more women. Its not that there aren't enough guys out there for women to chose from, its that most guys don't know how to be guys that women respect. Keep up the great work.
Had a woman flake on me after we went 5 dates didn't try to reschedule, I asked what was up gave me an excuse. But then would still text me and say she was still interested but made no effort and randomly made a comment how she isn't seeing other people. So I figured she is spinning plates. But on top of the hot and cold texting, more and more women are doing this and its like a man is trash for doing so, but a woman its fine she is exploring options, you're a queen......🤦🏻 trying to stay optimistic and watch your videos, thanks
Julia words on overweight and to loose weight was awesome ❤️👏. I will work on that now.
Thank you both for giving such awesome tips. Was really very helpful 🙏
I consider myself a high value individual by societal standards, and I can confirm that there are people who simply won’t reciprocate or initiate aspects of a relationship. I learned the hard way by sticking by someone that wasn’t willing to put in the same effort as me and our relationship fell apart after I couldn’t continue doing all the heavy lifting.
I will continue to lead and always put my best effort into a relationship but you won’t find me wasting anymore time with someone that won’t reciprocate. Thanks for the video.
Great tips! Getting Flaked - it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it!
But you can reframe it - and start thinking of it as she doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway?
She’s basically showing you her hand early as opposed to later on - when you have wasted all your time and energy on her!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
A woman who flakes is a woman who no longer exists to me. She's not worth it at all.
I swear dating wasn't this difficult as a kid. I feel like I'm going to die alone
So real, as an autistic guy, I feel like I too am destined to be the last member of my bloodline, dating is way far off my level of social skills
3:58 Ego is truly the enemy. I didn't wanna hear that but you were spot on. We as men can't be hypocrites with double standards when it comes to choices
Huh?
Women have the biggest of egos.
I love David cause this man causes a shit ton of self-reflection for myself. Preciate you bro, keep ballin in life
This is the best way to end my Monday. Meditate on it and apply it.
33 & only been on one itty bitty “date”. Met the girl at the gym in November. I started the conversation & sparks started shooting off. We couldn’t stop smiling & staring into each other’s eyes. Her smile was surreal. Got her number, did some grocery shopping after gym, walked her home a block away & she told me to text her when I got home. Next day, she went out of her way to set things up with so much enthusiasm. We hung out, she opened doors for me, didn’t want me to be cold & bought me a hot chocolate. About 30 minutes into hanging out, I put my arm around her & she asked if we could be friends. Mood ruined. Confused. Next day she texted saying she’s scared of falling for me, can’t do a close relationship, that she’s afraid to get close to anyone, she’s messed up & promised it had absolutely nothing to do with me & that she’s gonna distance herself, which she did. She kept her word on that. Still can’t get over it. How DEFLATING & CONFUSING.
damn bro give it some time before talking to her again. it maybe felt too real and too overwhelming for her that she became scared once she realized this, or something else is going on in her life. give it a bit and then be honest with her while keeping your spine in tact. honesty can bring people back around
@@dontfeo Thanks for the response
The reason why women wait for you to set up the date is that they wont suggest a place and have to pay for it.
No, I just don’t want to initiate it all the time and rather they do it sometimes
Your content makes Monday a whole lot better
first date should always be talking in a cafe or a walk in the park that doesnt require the man to spend a lot of money.
If she doesnt accepts that then she is for the streets.
My first date with my current gf was a walk in the *****iest underground concourse in our city. Homeless and needles everywhere on the ground. Not sure why I thought that was a good idea but she had no problem with it and we are together to this day! (If you can have honest, fun conversation with someone, this shows it doesn't matter where you are or how expensive)
Good content, so different communication now these days than used to be
I’ve definitely done this before. All of these tips are definitely spot on.
Just when I thought these vids couldn't get any better, yall show up Big. Yalls comedic timing and chemistry is starting to Shine 💥 Good info, by the way
Good stuff David! Words can't explain how valuable your content is!
Well said
I'm just walking away from dating, It's not worth my time or effort. This girl lead me on for a month while treating me badly.
I called her out in her poor behavior everytime, today I told her she needs to work on herself because I'm not putting up with a woman treating me poorly, I told her she has to put in the effort to and she said "no, I wont."
I put in all this effort over the past month and got used for validation. Fuck dating.
You should've cut her off the first time she showed any disrespect and moved on to the next. Since you allowed it the first time she thought it was ok to walk all over you. Take a break and come back with a different mindset and be ready to show any girl the door when the disrespect or games come up. Value yourself and your time.
@@mista.e lessons were learned now I'm in simps anonymous
Don’t sweat it something better may always happen no pressure no stress no anger be happy 👍
SR & NoFap boys. Get on it
When I met my wife she tried to friendzone me so hard. Got out of it in less than a month. Just did my thing being natural and treated the times we went out like dates without her knowing. I also kept my options open at the same time. One day she came to me and ask what we were, while I was about to go out with this other girl. I chose her since I knew she was a good woman. 3 years married and does not regret any of it. When you find a good one hold on to her, but just in case keep your options open until your 100% sure. Don't simp on them.
Move onto the next one😌
Thank you so much David for reminding me of the fundamentals. I'm going through this same text situation and sometimes I slip up. I know better now lol
Going through your recommended reading and I’ve had a physical copy of no more mr. Nice guy catching a lot of that book in this video, good stuff.
The way you're delivering this message is great. I've been subscribed for a while now and you and Julia have come a long way. Thank you for the hard work and amazing content. "Brah" lol
I wish I found your videos a lot sooner like 2 years ago 😂😂😂 I literally used to be soooo needy
Thanks for the video David. Always love to listen to you and Julia talk about this stuff. Love y'all
Beast- As always dropping 💎ems for us! Appreciate it always 👊🏽💯
Been a subscriber since the OG days, helped me a lot in the past but I needed a reminder of a couple of these things at the moment.
i always hit the thumbs up way before i watch your videos David
I've been in the situation where I go up to a girl & ignite a conversation but it is challenging. I've had good conversations and also some where they weren't interested. OH big yes bro, women do have options. We men have control of wokring on ourselves that's why I started getting better hair cuts (combover with a low fade). Also if she flakes, just leave her and move one, I've been there
I'm a guy whose been in a great relationship with an awesome girl since I decided to level up years ago with help from David. These videos don't really teach me much anymore, but I'm still addicted to the content. I share it with my single homies as much as a I can! I think it's easier to hear the information that is "hard to accept" from someone online then from your friend/ peer.
Can I level up too? For a fact I know I am a good looking guy ( not boasting or anything) but still girls ignore me. Is it because I am a nice guy ? Who cannot talk properly with girls?
@@Korosensei5891 you are to shy
@@nemzi8969 yeah i guess so. I gave up it's better to be alone than chasing girls.
This video is totally on point today. Good job David long time watcher of your stuff. Like how you keep finding ways to improve.
Your vids are always nice. Been with you since 2017 bro💪
amazing advice in this vid!
Nice video man, really helpful.
Awesome video!
My girlfriend always meets me halfway. If she invites me out to eat. She pays for it. Same, if I invite her. I pay for her. But we both make effort to see eachother. We both make sacrifices to make sure we give eachother enough time. Through our crazy work week
shes pays ! wow
That's the spirit!
Careful, if she does meet the guy that wants to pay for her… Well, prepare yourself she might “like that“
I bet you had to hit on her
I have to literally race my gf to the register sometimes when we are getting coffee or whatever. She works so hard and yet wants to partake in that gesture. Very thankful! Good luck to you guys as well!
great advice as always!!
Thanks David
This is the video I needed, and why I never been on a date. I know what to do now!! Thanks 🙏
Yo, thanks for the video!
That Popeyes spicy chicken got mcDs beat tho don't sleep. Great video as always
Your videos always make me want to freaking be a beast after I watch them!
I wish I realised these things so much earlier in life man, would've saved me a lot of frustration!
STAY BEASTLY 🐺
Complain, or accept reality and level up!! ❤
That opening was great
Thanks for the advice brother
Top facts bro👊🏻
Thank you bro, this was truly epic.
Honestly, got the beastly app just over a week ago. Can't lift my arms after smashing shoulders to bits today. The app is AMAZING 🥵🔥
Dave the content you bring are significantly unbelievable because they can tremendous impact for anyone who is struggling with his life at any aspect especially the dating life, well done 👏 ✔ 👍
Love your videos
I've heard stories of guys not having any luck with women. Some of them are so sad and depressed that they have thoughts of taking their own lives....I know this is a dark and touchy subject but, have you ever worked with clients who's dating life is rock bottom? So much so that they have suicidal thoughts?
To be honest with you, your videos are normally a lot of random stuff and you will fit the point in a 2 minutes section but this video was straight to the point and I found it great to watch, 10/10
This some good shit David! Keep it up brotha!
Good info
Thanks beast 🙏🏼😭🔥
It shouldn't matter if a woman flakes or not. In fact that should be a good indicator of the type of woman you're dealing with and you oughta be happy of the early warning for your systems
Super helpful
Thanks for this awesome teaching what a great teacher ❤
Literally just watched 10,000 BC last night too! 😂💪🏻
“Let It Go!!”
Valuable content bro. I am happy to see content change on your channel. 🖤👍🏻
HTB talks like he's got a mouth guard in his mouth all the time. I wonder if he got veneers or not? What other dental/orthodontic work has he gotten done. I would love a video or even a miniseries of videos on that by him. You hear that dude? Millions of us would watch that since it is difficult problem that can yield a lot of social benefits!!
I usually stop giving effort when she doesnt respond or making up excuses and guess what, we never speak again xD like 10/10 :D
Good to see Julia’s additions, they were helpful but basic sometimes, maybe not for others !, always good to see Female’s opinion on the other side and hitting the points, stay beastly from an old follower 👍👍👍
I'm not fat and I work out. I had a fat girl tell me that she won't date fat guys. I busted out laughing. I still laugh about that when I think about it.
AMAZING, as always!🇵🇭
Nice video David! keep it up brother
Julia looks so damn evil in the beginning of the video 😂😂😂😂
Good video bro
Oh my friends… the 90s mullet trend is coming back hot here in denver.
Dave, I recently moved to Houston, saw you eat at a place called Grab n Go Tacos, and tried it and been hooked ever since. Need more Houston eating spot recommendations from you, bro, lol.
This video hit home
Damn Julia I’m trying okay😭😭
Love it !!!!
TH-cam was hiding this video glad I didn’t miss it
Awesome video dude, keep going!