He was faking it she's a horrifying person for destroying her marriage and her daughter because she wanted to be independent and probably getting jiggy with everybody in town who knows. Horrible horrible. I think it's very simple... These liberal women' are a wicked epidemic. God's got nothing to do with you your decision because it's ungodly.
Yes - a family near where my husband grew up buried their mother and their grandmother next to the man who took their lives and his own - their father.
How dare his obituary call him a devoted father. How dare they say anything positive about him, when he took her life, and ruined the children’s lives.
@jimmyjay689 did HE care of said child going through divorce? You think divorce just came out of nowhere? He literally killed the mother of his child something tells me he shouldn't have been near any women anywhere.
It shouldn’t be confusing. It was NEVER an amicable divorce. He just made it appear that way so that she would keep her guard down. This is pretty obvious
Exactly! He thought either we come back together and she realises life is hard without her husband or she still wants the divorce and I'm not going to allow that to happen.
It goes actually both ways it's not just a man doing this women do the same thing to the man when they snap they snap as usually over something like this but it's not just men it's also women
Joint funeral ? She didn't choose to die so who the heck decided to insult her right to live....... and to elevate the killer to victim status. The nerve of them.
Cheaper. But also bizarre decicion. She wanted a divorce, that would imply she did not want to hang out with him forever and ever... But I guess no one cared what she wanted.
We don’t know that. Just because it’s not in that sweet documentary you watched. Chris mostly was beating on someone behind closed doors. No one just goes from “such a nice guy” to “cold blooded murderer.”
@@JackPeloquin Shannan’s friends and family and Shannan’s own messages to Chris corroborate that he never hit her and that the marriage was going well. Some men just explode and kill people.
Exactly!!! It’s always the people on social media over socializing their relationships online who have THE most skeletons in their closet. And I’m done sympathizing with it.
The best decision of my life was deleting social media 4 years ago - going on 5 this year. I’ve opened my own business and earned the degree I pushed off for years. Life is amazing when you aren’t constantly comparing it to others that always APPEAR happy.
People like this guy make me sick. If you want to take yourself out, go for it, but how dare you take this innocent woman with you and leave those poor children without their mother.
It goes both ways and you can't just go with one side. My ex wife is in prison currently for trying to kill myself and our son and my mother . I was just lucky
@@samuelpancake4084 this isn't about your ex wife, the cops investigated and determined he murdered her then killed his self! So @hotmessexpress00 was correct in saying INNOCENT! When someone MURDER you the person who's murdered is usually the victim! 🙄
@@samuelpancake4084 So what was the "both ways" in your case? Oh, I'm SURE you were TOTALLY innocent and she was a TOTAL criminal and Sammyboy is A COMPLETE victim, because in Sammy's case there wasn't any "both ways," because SAMMY says it's so.
Exactly! You NEVER tell a man when you're leaving, where you're going, or anything. Women alway believe that a man is "fine" if he takes the breakup well. No, protect yourself as a woman when he is angry about the breakup AND protect yourself if he isn't. This man was seething smh
Agree 💯 It sounds callous to some, but honestly you are trying to save your own and possibly your child/childrens lives. Leave. Don't answer their calls or texts. Don't go to them, or allow them to come to you. Don't let them know where you went for safety.
I always give a side eye to those couples who share lovey dovey photos. The ones that can’t stop praising each other. I immediately think “Um ok who is trying to fool who here….Most who are truly in loving devoted relationships don’t have the need to show others that they’re in love.
Why is everyone trying to understand? you keep asking everyone why? He did what he did 🤷🏻♀️. Not everyone is going to have a past. He couldnt handle the idea of her not being his wife. This is not new, Its pretty common!
This! Most men are entitled and have never been taught that rejection means take another route. I literally just made a live about weirdos that can’t accept a no so I tried to spell it out for the men
@@GarifunaGoddess ya definitely men = bad and woman are angels. "men are entitled" well they were married? why did she swear wedding vows and then decide it's time to get a divorce once a baby is coming? why do woman initiate some 80 percent of divorces? how much of his money was he going to lose in this divorce? what he did was evil but i wouldn't be surprised if she pushed him to the edge in some way or another. "most men have never been taught that rejection means taking another route" lol BS MOST men do take another route all through their lives men are rejected, men seem to have to do all the pursuing and approaching after all. woman like you know nothing what it means to be a man stop asserting that you do
Jennifer and I are close friends, and she and I both work in the emergency room. She made everyone around her happy and was a bright spot in the darkest of days. My heart has been devastated since this happened. She did not deserve it. She was ready to begin medical school in the fall, and she had such a promising future ahead of her.
I am so sorry for her loss…people have to be careful and know what they’re doing when getting married…o was devastated when my ex left me and felt no hope and did not care to keep living. Thankfully, I was led to a great healing program to heal my broken heart.
That was her first of many mistakes, living your life through the eyes of Tik TOK, nothing on there is based in reality 🙄. These idyllic lives and wealthy influencers is a load of bs , but people buy into it .
In 2000, a classic book called Bowling Alone came out and argued that people up to the 1990s joined more civic, charity, and religious groups for social contact (e.g. bowling league, church, Rotarians, Kiwanis, PTA). Now, with people not joining these groups, you see them turning to social media for connection. There is no connection there, just strangers.
My marriage is great but I never brag post about it. It’s so cringe to me. So many times people post a gushy photo and caption then 6 months later they divorce. Seen it time and time again.
right i was a little confused by how everything was so great if theyre getting a divorce in the first place. if hes so amazing then why are you separating
No offense, but y’all need to do your research (though to be fair most outlets are reporting incorrectly about the family dynamics). Jennifer is not their bio mom, though if I had to guess she stepped in and adopted the youngest. Their bio mom is on Facebook with recent pictures of the girls so it appears they have a relationship with her. A Google search reveals that bio mom had a difficult past of felony drug addiction and participated in an intensive 3 year “ last chance” program whereby her record would be expunged upon completion - and she passed it in 2022 and by all appearances seems yo be doing well. So, thankfully the girls DO have a parent remaining, though I’m sure they are both absolutely devastated to lose both their father and the most consistent and present mother-figure they have ever had.
What's the point of putting all the bio mom's business out there? She completed the program and "is doing well" only for you to focus on the specifics of her past which isn't something everyone needed to know. A simple "bio mom is still active in their life" would have sufficed.
@@MacJay809 yup. I keep telling people this. He essentially groomed her to be who he wanted her to be. When the girls’ bio mom was MIA, Jennifer became their mother figure. When she began to blossom, he couldn’t handle it.
So lemme get this straight both families were more concerned about themselves hence why they did a joint funeral INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON THE VICTIM THAT WAS BRUTALLY TAKEN OUT?? This is probably that woman’s worst nightmare she was divorcing him why would she want to be laid to rest anywhere near him???
I'm wondering if they did the joint funeral so that the kids didn't have to attend two separate funerals. Not condoning it, just wondering if that was a factor.
@@katcraig7525 even if it was the wife was trying to leave him they should honor that fact at least I know it’s hard for the child but she’s going to have to live with the fact that her father took out her mother and I’m sure she’s not going to be happy about the place they were buried the family cannot lie to her when the internet will hold the truth so for me they’re extremely selfish
@@Maryaminx so that makes it ok for the murderer to be buried next to his victim?? And no funerals are for saying goodbye for those who are no longer living the fact you think a funeral is held for you and your ability to be living is wild !! There are sinister people on this app you included
Why does everyone feel the need to document every little thing on social media... TikTok has all the answers... Sad just effin sad what social media is doing to people
Social media isn't a person. WE are doing this, WE are responsible. And there are PEOPLE who would probably be influenced by something else, if it wasn't social media.
I feel that the tiktok she posted about feeling like the devil is after her may have been her sixth sense persay, that she was picking up subtle warning signs but consciously dismissing them because who would think your previous life partner would do this to you? She may have felt the danger looming but didn't want to think it was him.. which is so evil that he actually did this (if totally proven)
@@EL_FLAMEZ because there's nothing to talk about, she was clearly just choosing herself like a strong empowered woman who don't need no man (besides the one she's fleecing in family court)
There's absolutely no benefit to getting married for anyone unless you are a woman marrying a rich man and trying to get half his money but then you also risk getting murdered. Also the stressing process of getting a divorce far outweigh the week happiness of a marriage and its cost
You come in this world alone. You leave alone. Some people spend a lifetime alone. People need to het a grip. Theres 7 billion of us. Find someone else.
Violence against men is way worse. Not to mention that it is females that commit the vast majority of violence against children, which is way worse. At least an adult has a chance to defend themselves. Quit simping, it is pathetic.
This should let you know that women are not & will never be equal to men 🤷🏽♂️ Women really need to be more careful about who they get involved with for their own safety, because they can’t stop a crazy man
You mean like every time a woman reports stalking and threats but the Police say they can't do anything until she actually gets hurt? Every. Single. Time. Yet the one woman who just loosely made a suggestive threat to a ceo, randomly, gets years in prison? Yet abusers get out time and time again (if they even end up in jail)
They probably got together when she was young and wanted to live her own life. Happens to most people/relationships in their late 20s that got together in their early 20s.
exactly what I just said. I don't condone his actions but it could have been what triggered him her talking about being single. Who does that while still married?
Thank you. I was about to post something the same. All due respect to the dead, but man, so many people, especially women, and even worse, mothers like this, seem to be completely self absorbed with "me-ism" 24 and 7. Might have something to do with how oblivious she may have been to the danger that she was in.
I am a close friend of Jennifer and she worked in the ER with me. She put a smile on the face of all around her and was a light in the darkest of days. My heart has been broken since this occurred. She did not deserve this. She was about to start medical school in the fall and she had such a great life ahead of her
@customcarsfordba2481 and when youre isolated and dont have anyone to confide it? When everyone you do know sees a different side of him and tells you not to complain because hes such a great man (as far as theyre aware).
The irony of people tearing this woman apart for tactfully disclosing her divorce on social media when part of why her husband did what he did was the mentality of never talking about your feelings until you boil over. 🙄
Many reasons : validation through attention seeking, autoestim boost, looking for interactions to get support from their followers and help monetize their videos etc.
a LOT of kids would be scared to death to tell ANYBODY about arguing or fighting in the home. they think "what would happen to me? " or "what would happen to my mom if I told anybody?"
My mom and dad fought like cats and dogs, and they regularly gave us a stern reminder that "everything that happens in this house stays in this house." It worked bc none of us ever said a word.
She is driving down the street, no seatbelt, staring at a phone while she talks to an imaginary audience about her amazing husband that she wants to be divorced from so bad.
She was too happy and carefree about the divorce, he obviously was extremely upset about it. We don’t know anything about what really happened. Those poor children.
He more than likely was holding on to hope that it wouldn't actually come to divorce.... and then when he realized it was going to happen, he snapped. And that's sad.
Makes me glad I’m single, never married and have no kids. You truly never know who your spouse is. Hilarious how in America Tik Tok is all about ego, validation and “look at me, look at me” and in China it is used strictly for learning math, science, music, geography, the arts and STEM. Yep, shift in world power is happening!!!
From the videos I've seen of chinas tik tok (i forgot what it's called), its not just for learning. Ppl make videos just like here. I'm sure the cultural differences definitely have us sharing more than over there, but it's not only used for learning.
@@wanderotter4667 she didn’t have enough followers before her death to earn a dime on TT. Her posts were very innocent-mainly gardening and life as a premed student. Sheesh.
Isn’t it possible that her posting it all over for all to see,was a trigger for him To break. Not an excuse but a reason. She could maybe, have been more careful of his feelings.
I wonder if that was really her mindset or if she was portraying a postive image online. She had to tell everyone one way or another and some people's worst fear is seeming like a victim or seeming like they don't have their whole life together.
Im from the same area as her and its really sad because girls are raised to have a more traditional mindset and to trust/follow the men in their lives. She was particularly vulnerable because we're made to feel like we're worthless as women if we can't find a husband and have kids.
In all honesty, when I was watching her last video post, I got the feeling that she was choosing her words very carefully, which is fine, but for a woman that may have recently left her husband, especially if he was borderline abusive, she would be still working hard to maintain calm waters. In my opinion, her video kind of reflects that. I could be wrong, but that was my gut reaction when I saw it.
This generation is sick. They get married, have kids & dogs, put their whole life on social media, lack responsibility and then they kill each other because they are total psychopaths. They act like life is perfect online trying to earn a buck and it’s all a lie.
Its obvious to me why he did it. He was suffering. He couldn't stand her moving on and being happy. Even though he was acting like he was ok with the separation he wasn't. He hid it. Pain is the most dangerous emotion.
I feel so sad for the children left behind, what a coward , it’s obvious he was not going to let her walk away free. To me it’s mind boggling how these Tik Tokers, play pretend to live in a perfect world, when behind doors they might be going through some real life experiences. It’s sad how instead of getting help from family, or the police, they ask social media for advice.
Never think that a person you just broke up with is OK. Also, keep your personal life that involves other people private on 'social media'. The breaking up of a family is none of our business. That child is now an orphan. Tragic event for all close to them. So sorry.
@@ktcooki276the way she says in her own video that he's going to help her financially take care of their daughter suggests one of those girls are bio to her.
@@LaurenCullen-l8sShe DID share information about her marriage and divorce. VERY personal information. She is like most people these days, which says a lot about our society. Private information should remain within the family or close friendships. However, SHE is not to blame!
I was thinking the same thing as Jesse was reporting this. It sounds like one of those cases that if I can’t have you then no one will. He knew she wasn’t coming back and the situation turned to desperation for him.
Welp,,he was ten yrs older than her, supported her,her child,their child. Looks like he was a ship / vessel technician so I wonder if he was out to sea for long periods of time. I'm sure he supported her going back to school. Though it sounded like she worked as well,,, and we don't know WHY she asked for a separation,,I'm sure he felt devastated and used . Not that murder is ever the answer... and like I said before. He was probably being "so wonderful" about the entire situation because he hoped they would reconcile and when he realized it wasn't going to happen, he killed her.
I think sometimes the person "happy to finally be out on their own" are blind to the devastation they cause to the partner that probably feels blindsided...I've seen this situation play out with the moms around me. They get bored with the stay at home life, decide to leave the person that took care of them for years to just take half of everything to go find their new single life. Sucks for everyone involved.
if we knew the exact reason for the breakdown of the marriage then it would give some idea as to what the real mind sets of the couple were regardless of the talk about 'amicable settlement'
I remember this each time I see myself or someone else not believing men will abu$e and mistreat random women for something some woman or even idea of a woman did to him once in another place in his life. Pure regression.
My heart goes out to her children. Especially so to her eldest daughter who not only lost her mother, but is now burdened with the care of her younger half sister who was fathered by the murderer! He ruined thier family and has put a wedge between her children.
So incredibly sad. The most dangerous time for a woman is when she is pregnant and when she is trying to leave. She was trained nurse I think, I am sure she knew this, but she must have trusted him.
It seems to me that she wanted the divorce but maybe he didn't. But was trying to go along with it and somewhere he broke. So heartbreaking. The poor kids : (. Such a selfish act : (
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He was faking it she's a horrifying person for destroying her marriage and her daughter because she wanted to be independent and probably getting jiggy with everybody in town who knows. Horrible horrible. I think it's very simple... These liberal women' are a wicked epidemic.
God's got nothing to do with you your decision because it's ungodly.
The fact that her family did a joint funeral is DISGUSTING!!! She wasn’t even protected in her death.
Yes - a family near where my husband grew up buried their mother and their grandmother next to the man who took their lives and his own - their father.
What?!
Says it all 😢
Absolutely horrifying!!!
@ I sincerely hope her family didn’t allow that.
How dare his obituary call him a devoted father. How dare they say anything positive about him, when he took her life, and ruined the children’s lives.
Not condoning his actions,but did she care of said child going thru divorce?
Totally agree!
@jimmyjay689 did HE care of said child going through divorce? You think divorce just came out of nowhere? He literally killed the mother of his child something tells me he shouldn't have been near any women anywhere.
Men rule no matter what..to me he is or was an egotistical evil creep..they don't truly love..they posess.
He took everything from them!
It shouldn’t be confusing. It was NEVER an amicable divorce. He just made it appear that way so that she would keep her guard down. This is pretty obvious
Yep
Exactly! He thought either we come back together and she realises life is hard without her husband or she still wants the divorce and I'm not going to allow that to happen.
It goes actually both ways it's not just a man doing this women do the same thing to the man when they snap they snap as usually over something like this but it's not just men it's also women
The internet isn't real. The sooner people get that, the better. I've seen happy photos of families and then divorce announcements the next month.
Truth
Joint funeral ? She didn't choose to die so who the heck decided to insult her right to live....... and to elevate the killer to victim status. The nerve of them.
Cheaper. But also bizarre decicion. She wanted a divorce, that would imply she did not want to hang out with him forever and ever... But I guess no one cared what she wanted.
Idk if it had something to do but some news were reporting a double self unaliving
@@marceloarchiveeh, if that’s true did she choose to off herself or was she forced to make a decision?
@mingiinimene3335 I mean he literally killed her.
I did not get that far yet but likely they made it seem less horrific, for the child
Chris Watts also didn’t seem to be at risk of committing violent behavior prior to killing his wife and kids
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We don’t know that. Just because it’s not in that sweet documentary you watched. Chris mostly was beating on someone behind closed doors.
No one just goes from “such a nice guy” to “cold blooded murderer.”
Shanann was nuts. Destroyed him financially, twice. Isolated him from his family & was abusing the girls. He snapped
@@JackPeloquin Shannan’s friends and family and Shannan’s own messages to Chris corroborate that he never hit her and that the marriage was going well. Some men just explode and kill people.
YES! Her videos reminded me SO much of Shan’ann’s final videos. Always praising Chris and saying what a great father he is. Ughhhh
He could not bear the heartache and heartbreak of a divorce, but he has left his children with it for the rest of their lives...
Such a tragedy
He didn't love his wife or kids. He k!lled her and took their mom away. Entitled and selfish, and most likely abusive hence the divorce.
This 🎯 his comfort was more important
Oh, he could bear it. He just couldn't bear his wife moving along happily and not sweating him. He also couldn't bear his ego being bruised.
Selfish
Men with fragile egos are the biggest terrorist in the world
And again don't believe what you see on social media 😕
1000%
Exactly!!! It’s always the people on social media over socializing their relationships online who have THE most skeletons in their closet. And I’m done sympathizing with it.
The best decision of my life was deleting social media 4 years ago - going on 5 this year. I’ve opened my own business and earned the degree I pushed off for years. Life is amazing when you aren’t constantly comparing it to others that always APPEAR happy.
@@sheonlywearsblackits been 12 years for me
@@sheonlywearsblack same here
People like this guy make me sick. If you want to take yourself out, go for it, but how dare you take this innocent woman with you and leave those poor children without their mother.
@@hotmessexpress00 I believe she is who he wanted to kill. He only killed his self to get out of the consequences of killing her...
Innocent?? How so? We don't know the whole story.
It goes both ways and you can't just go with one side. My ex wife is in prison currently for trying to kill myself and our son and my mother . I was just lucky
@@samuelpancake4084 this isn't about your ex wife, the cops investigated and determined he murdered her then killed his self! So @hotmessexpress00 was correct in saying INNOCENT! When someone MURDER you the person who's murdered is usually the victim! 🙄
@@samuelpancake4084 So what was the "both ways" in your case?
Oh, I'm SURE you were TOTALLY innocent and she was a TOTAL criminal and Sammyboy is A COMPLETE victim, because in Sammy's case there wasn't any "both ways," because SAMMY says it's so.
My maternal grandmother told me to leave without notice and whereabouts: I completely understand.
Grandmother 👵
Is definitely a wise woman..
@ Just leave.
Women need to understand that there is nothing cordial with men. Men are not your friends
Exactly! You NEVER tell a man when you're leaving, where you're going, or anything. Women alway believe that a man is "fine" if he takes the breakup well. No, protect yourself as a woman when he is angry about the breakup AND protect yourself if he isn't. This man was seething smh
Agree 💯
It sounds callous to some, but honestly you are trying to save your own and possibly your child/childrens lives.
Leave. Don't answer their calls or texts. Don't go to them, or allow them to come to you. Don't let them know where you went for safety.
Don’t let social media fool you
They don’t call it “Fakebook “ for nothing!
I always give a side eye to those couples who share lovey dovey photos. The ones that can’t stop praising each other. I immediately think “Um ok who is trying to fool who here….Most who are truly in loving devoted relationships don’t have the need to show others that they’re in love.
Social media is evil. A really bad part of the Internet that should be ignored.
Why is everyone trying to understand? you keep asking everyone why?
He did what he did 🤷🏻♀️. Not everyone is going to have a past. He couldnt handle the idea of her not being his wife. This is not new, Its pretty common!
This! Most men are entitled and have never been taught that rejection means take another route. I literally just made a live about weirdos that can’t accept a no so I tried to spell it out for the men
@@GarifunaGoddess you sound like a horrible person. most men are not entitled. must be a reflection of who you are around.
@@GarifunaGoddess Most women love to sleep around and act like a victim when they're busted by their significant other.
@@GarifunaGoddess ya definitely men = bad and woman are angels. "men are entitled" well they were married? why did she swear wedding vows and then decide it's time to get a divorce once a baby is coming? why do woman initiate some 80 percent of divorces? how much of his money was he going to lose in this divorce? what he did was evil but i wouldn't be surprised if she pushed him to the edge in some way or another.
"most men have never been taught that rejection means taking another route" lol BS MOST men do take another route all through their lives men are rejected, men seem to have to do all the pursuing and approaching after all. woman like you know nothing what it means to be a man stop asserting that you do
Unfortunately, yes
This is often the horrible reality of leaving an abusive relationship 💔😭
Jennifer and I are close friends, and she and I both work in the emergency room. She made everyone around her happy and was a bright spot in the darkest of days. My heart has been devastated since this happened. She did not deserve it. She was ready to begin medical school in the fall, and she had such a promising future ahead of her.
I am so sorry for her loss…people have to be careful and know what they’re doing when getting married…o was devastated when my ex left me and felt no hope and did not care to keep living. Thankfully, I was led to a great healing program to heal my broken heart.
I'm so sorry you lost your friend. I hope you will be there for her children.
Lesson here is don't make everyone happy or light up a room.
@@kitcat1278no her kids! Stop putting pressure on people!
@@matchhunter7012
Stop it. How about don't be a killer?
Tiktok has all the answers? What a sorry state we're in.
Sad but true
The dumbing down of America is complete, from top to bottom!
Hahah that's what I thought too. Like, no wonder she's 30 and never been on her own....
Speak for yourself... I'm not in that state at all....
That was her first of many mistakes, living your life through the eyes of Tik TOK, nothing on there is based in reality 🙄. These idyllic lives and wealthy influencers is a load of bs , but people buy into it .
In 2000, a classic book called Bowling Alone came out and argued that people up to the 1990s joined more civic, charity, and religious groups for social contact (e.g. bowling league, church, Rotarians, Kiwanis, PTA). Now, with people not joining these groups, you see them turning to social media for connection. There is no connection there, just strangers.
I'm reading that book. It has quite a few insights about people and that one stood out to me.
I mean if you have to broadcast how great things are in a relationship that’s a major red flag that you’re insecure about it
The Absolute Truth 💯
If He is Truly So Wonderful
And Everything is So Great
They wouldn't be Divorcing
To Begin with...
My marriage is great but I never brag post about it. It’s so cringe to me. So many times people post a gushy photo and caption then 6 months later they divorce. Seen it time and time again.
right i was a little confused by how everything was so great if theyre getting a divorce in the first place. if hes so amazing then why are you separating
Yup...I am always wary of any woman who claims her husband is better than sliced bread...no one is. She's over compensating for something.
No offense, but y’all need to do your research (though to be fair most outlets are reporting incorrectly about the family dynamics). Jennifer is not their bio mom, though if I had to guess she stepped in and adopted the youngest. Their bio mom is on Facebook with recent pictures of the girls so it appears they have a relationship with her. A Google search reveals that bio mom had a difficult past of felony drug addiction and participated in an intensive 3 year “ last chance” program whereby her record would be expunged upon completion - and she passed it in 2022 and by all appearances seems yo be doing well. So, thankfully the girls DO have a parent remaining, though I’m sure they are both absolutely devastated to lose both their father and the most consistent and present mother-figure they have ever had.
so she walked away without demanding money from the husband in divorce?
Thank you for sharing this extra information
@@LaurenCullen-l8s I’m not reading this paragraph let alone researching everything that happened
@TheBlindArcher. Yeah imagine reading something that is more than a tldr line...
What's the point of putting all the bio mom's business out there? She completed the program and "is doing well" only for you to focus on the specifics of her past which isn't something everyone needed to know. A simple "bio mom is still active in their life" would have sufficed.
So his daughters were abandoned by their own addicted mother and he decides to kill the only mother they had and take himself out. Such a devoted dad.
The amount of eye contact NOT on the road is ridiculous.
Especially when coupled with the lack of hand contact on the steering wheel! 😳
My anxiety 😢
Yeah, isn’t it illegal for people to do this while driving?
@@RD-ds2cc Her husband should do something about that. We'll see.
@ApocalypticSigns i think he did, they are both dead
She was 15 and he 25 when they met..
Well that’s helpful
@@MacJay809 😮😮😮😮
@@MacJay809 yup. I keep telling people this. He essentially groomed her to be who he wanted her to be. When the girls’ bio mom was MIA, Jennifer became their mother figure. When she began to blossom, he couldn’t handle it.
@@BrisaEscalona-n7z Yep just another case of grooming a minor by a sicko.
nice and young
So lemme get this straight both families were more concerned about themselves hence why they did a joint funeral INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON THE VICTIM THAT WAS BRUTALLY TAKEN OUT?? This is probably that woman’s worst nightmare she was divorcing him why would she want to be laid to rest anywhere near him???
I'm wondering if they did the joint funeral so that the kids didn't have to attend two separate funerals. Not condoning it, just wondering if that was a factor.
She was a victim but they're the survivors. Funerals are for the living.
@@katcraig7525 even if it was the wife was trying to leave him they should honor that fact at least I know it’s hard for the child but she’s going to have to live with the fact that her father took out her mother and I’m sure she’s not going to be happy about the place they were buried the family cannot lie to her when the internet will hold the truth so for me they’re extremely selfish
@@Maryaminx so that makes it ok for the murderer to be buried next to his victim?? And no funerals are for saying goodbye for those who are no longer living the fact you think a funeral is held for you and your ability to be living is wild !! There are sinister people on this app you included
Why does everyone feel the need to document every little thing on social media...
TikTok has all the answers...
Sad just effin sad what social media is doing to people
attention seeking!! posers
Social media isn't a person. WE are doing this, WE are responsible. And there are PEOPLE who would probably be influenced by something else, if it wasn't social media.
You are wearing your emotions on your sleeve there… no different.
You don’t understand yet comment on YT which is social media platform
It's because it's easier and people are lazy-minded.
“Hey everyone, look at me, I’m so happy!” That is often a cry for help.
Although more typically it's just a cry for attention.
Exactly!!
I feel that the tiktok she posted about feeling like the devil is after her may have been her sixth sense persay, that she was picking up subtle warning signs but consciously dismissing them because who would think your previous life partner would do this to you? She may have felt the danger looming but didn't want to think it was him.. which is so evil that he actually did this (if totally proven)
A joint funeral seems wrong on the most extreme level.
Friends don’t let friends TikTok.
AGREE!!!
How would you stop them 🤪
best comment
@clarissa-xd9iuwait a few weeks, ez
She thought he was fine with everything but really in his heart he wasn’t.
Yup...she didn't read the room because she was just focused on her
Exactly! That man was SEETHING smh😭😭
@@aselyne5631 focused on tiktok
Notice no one is talking about what led to the divorce?
@@EL_FLAMEZ because there's nothing to talk about, she was clearly just choosing herself like a strong empowered woman who don't need no man (besides the one she's fleecing in family court)
She’s driving during video but her hands are not on the wheel????!!!!!
She didn’t die from that though! Way to miss the point and appear completely heartless! Bravo!
Some new vehicles automatically centre the wheel when you're on a straight road and your hands are off the steering wheel.
And Filming is what gets me
Getting married seems more like a nightmare than a dream
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Depends on the couple. Some marriages last forever.. Others crash and burn
There's absolutely no benefit to getting married for anyone unless you are a woman marrying a rich man and trying to get half his money but then you also risk getting murdered. Also the stressing process of getting a divorce far outweigh the week happiness of a marriage and its cost
@@SimplyTheBestCSGOimagine hating your nation this much
I been married for 30 years and I love it.
You come in this world alone. You leave alone. Some people spend a lifetime alone. People need to het a grip. Theres 7 billion of us. Find someone else.
The violence against women in this country is very saddening.
And I'm more than aware of what women face around the world, I'm speaking about America.
It's daily and we don't talk about it enough
Violence against men is way worse. Not to mention that it is females that commit the vast majority of violence against children, which is way worse. At least an adult has a chance to defend themselves. Quit simping, it is pathetic.
This should let you know that women are not & will never be equal to men 🤷🏽♂️ Women really need to be more careful about who they get involved with for their own safety, because they can’t stop a crazy man
yeah nothing worse then an abusive woman!! stay away men stay single
@@fabshelleyglady please shut it violencia aganist every and anyone is terrible
You mean like every time a woman reports stalking and threats but the Police say they can't do anything until she actually gets hurt? Every. Single. Time. Yet the one woman who just loosely made a suggestive threat to a ceo, randomly, gets years in prison? Yet abusers get out time and time again (if they even end up in jail)
This.
Exactly
Just make a false accusation. The police usually believe women.
Yep
Don't Tik Tok and drive people!
😂😂😂I thought she was driving a tesler.
People need to stop using social media to air out their business. What a world.
Right. Get a journal, or better yet get a therapist.
@meili2618 yep!!
Right 🤦♀️
I wonder why the divorce to start with? Something was not going right.
They probably got together when she was young and wanted to live her own life. Happens to most people/relationships in their late 20s that got together in their early 20s.
What a total evil pos. He is a killer and deserves no respect whatsoever.
He was prob just deeply hurt and didn't want to lose his family. Grow up.
I don't know what is sadder... This case or the fact that it seems EVERYONE needs to parade their lives around for the world to see to feel validated.
exactly what I just said. I don't condone his actions but it could have been what triggered him her talking about being single. Who does that while still married?
@@djohny-ne3gg her driving while making that video and having both hands off the wheel for half of it triggered me.
Thank you. I was about to post something the same. All due respect to the dead, but man, so many people, especially women, and even worse, mothers like this, seem to be completely self absorbed with "me-ism" 24 and 7. Might have something to do with how oblivious she may have been to the danger that she was in.
It's this case
I cannot stand social media...
I am a close friend of Jennifer and she worked in the ER with me. She put a smile on the face of all around her and was a light in the darkest of days. My heart has been broken since this occurred. She did not deserve this. She was about to start medical school in the fall and she had such a great life ahead of her
That’s what happens when women like her reject nice guys like me and instead date these big brutes. What do they have that I don’t?
@@maryglennwaldrop2821 absolutely tragic to think this spiteful man robbed her of that life he would have been forced to help bankroll
I'm sorry for you and for her friends and family. Tragic loss.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. She seemed like a bright light with such positive energy. ♥️
If you need advice from tictock you are already wrong. What a horrible situation.
It's not advice rather documentation of behavior, sometimes knowledge is given too. It's just about sharing.
I don't even have TT, but what is wrong with asking for advice?
@@TolaTolaTola Asking strangers for advice? Ask people you know and trust.
@customcarsfordba2481 and when youre isolated and dont have anyone to confide it? When everyone you do know sees a different side of him and tells you not to complain because hes such a great man (as far as theyre aware).
The irony of people tearing this woman apart for tactfully disclosing her divorce on social media when part of why her husband did what he did was the mentality of never talking about your feelings until you boil over. 🙄
What is this trend of people propping up their phones and telling their whole life on ick ock. Grown ppl too smh
Many reasons : validation through attention seeking, autoestim boost, looking for interactions to get support from their followers and help monetize their videos etc.
a LOT of kids would be scared to death to tell ANYBODY about arguing or fighting in the home. they think "what would happen to me? " or "what would happen to my mom if I told anybody?"
My mom and dad fought like cats and dogs, and they regularly gave us a stern reminder that "everything that happens in this house stays in this house." It worked bc none of us ever said a word.
She is driving down the street, no seatbelt, staring at a phone while she talks to an imaginary audience about her amazing husband that she wants to be divorced from so bad.
@@Cococonutt not to mention hardly even having hanton the steering wheel 😬
Well said
So strange
The family doing a joint funeral is so evil
Why was she divorcing him if he was such a great guy
Great Question
She simply wanted to pretend that her life wasn’t in shambles
@@notsorryyouretriggered100%…sad
Maybe they weren't in love anymore?
@@kamencic I wasn't in love with my ex-wife when we divorced; the idea of doing something like that to her never in a million years crossed my mind.
Wow this is horrible, he might have lied to her to keep her guard down. This is so sad.
Oh yes...he was playing nice guy, but deep down....he was livid...seething smh😭
Yes just pack and go.
Why is she talking about her divorce to Everyone on social media??
That's just what women do!
She was looking for attention .. and advertising she was single and ready to mingle
@Sam-gv6lo Well perhaps that's why he got angry... She did sound a little flirty
She was too happy and carefree about the divorce, he obviously was extremely upset about it. We don’t know anything about what really happened.
Those poor children.
Sidenote: Why is she recording while driving??
Tik Tok is the best and worst social experiment EVER!
It’s not that shocking. Tragic? Absolutely. But not shocking.
Not shocking anymore 😞.
idk it's pretty shocking... never heard someone praise their murderer like that days before getting killed
@@sylvan429 Romeo and Julliet. But that was fiction, lol.
@@marleylove510it never was , m en cant handle rejecti0n and never could
Everyday I'm more and more glad I'm not on the cesspool that is social media anymore.
So you are not really here? 😮
He more than likely was holding on to hope that it wouldn't actually come to divorce.... and then when he realized it was going to happen, he snapped. And that's sad.
Makes me glad I’m single, never married and have no kids. You truly never know who your spouse is. Hilarious how in America Tik Tok is all about ego, validation and “look at me, look at me” and in China it is used strictly for learning math, science, music, geography, the arts and STEM. Yep, shift in world power is happening!!!
Facts
The Chinese are also stealing info from the people using TT.
From the videos I've seen of chinas tik tok (i forgot what it's called), its not just for learning. Ppl make videos just like here. I'm sure the cultural differences definitely have us sharing more than over there, but it's not only used for learning.
Why put your divorce on social media.
For views, she wanted to earn her money with social media.
@@wanderotter4667 she didn’t have enough followers before her death to earn a dime on TT. Her posts were very innocent-mainly gardening and life as a premed student. Sheesh.
attention seeking
Because divorcing is lonely and isolating. Don’t shame her for sharing her testimony
Husband was a lame for that
That's an understatement.
@ that’s very true
What’s that make her?
@ her? The victim?
@@notsorryyouretriggeredsuper lame
She seemed so incredibly sweet. I'm so heartbreaking for her.
Eerie......he was able to fool her and remain calm whilst inside he was plotting revenge. That's scary af.
All assumptions.
@@santiedormehl3042 Fair ones. Give me a break....he was clearly NOT okay with her leaving.
Isn’t it possible that her posting it all over for all to see,was a trigger for him To break. Not an excuse but a reason. She could maybe, have been more careful of his feelings.
Love this guest! Very raw, well spoken, and genuine. Would love to see her back!
I wonder if that was really her mindset or if she was portraying a postive image online. She had to tell everyone one way or another and some people's worst fear is seeming like a victim or seeming like they don't have their whole life together.
Im from the same area as her and its really sad because girls are raised to have a more traditional mindset and to trust/follow the men in their lives. She was particularly vulnerable because we're made to feel like we're worthless as women if we can't find a husband and have kids.
I believe both were her step daughters according to posts that’s been made by people that knew her.
In all honesty, when I was watching her last video post, I got the feeling that she was choosing her words very carefully, which is fine, but for a woman that may have recently left her husband, especially if he was borderline abusive, she would be still working hard to maintain calm waters. In my opinion, her video kind of reflects that. I could be wrong, but that was my gut reaction when I saw it.
Which one filed for divorce?
Why TF does it matter?!
@@nicolegroves6880because it lends insight as to who might’ve been the upset non willing one.
obviously her and he wasnt' going to have it
@@nicolegroves6880 it actually does it's an investigation and a crime channel
Obviosly her
he agreed because he knew he would kill her.
Why is she making the video while she's driving? There's something really off. Rip
Joint funeral is messed up thing ...but their souls went different direction...her soul went ⬆️ his soul ⬇️..
It's best when you're divorcing to separate and protect yourself, regardless! People change after they're no longer together with you...
This generation is sick. They get married, have kids & dogs, put their whole life on social media, lack responsibility and then they kill each other because they are total psychopaths. They act like life is perfect online trying to earn a buck and it’s all a lie.
He MURDERED H E R they didn't "kill each other" you need help.
Its obvious to me why he did it. He was suffering. He couldn't stand her moving on and being happy. Even though he was acting like he was ok with the separation he wasn't. He hid it. Pain is the most dangerous emotion.
Especially for feeble ego driven men.
Heartbreaking. We are from neighboring towns. 😢😢 everyone has said just how precious she was. It’s so sad
I feel so sad for the children left behind, what a coward , it’s obvious he was not going to let her walk away free. To me it’s mind boggling how these Tik Tokers, play pretend to live in a perfect world, when behind doors they might be going through some real life experiences. It’s sad how instead of getting help from family, or the police, they ask social media for advice.
Who sits there and records themselves in a coffee shop lmao
Never think that a person you just broke up with is OK.
Also, keep your personal life that involves other people private on 'social media'.
The breaking up of a family is none of our business.
That child is now an orphan. Tragic event for all close to them. So sorry.
Actaully the children are eith their viological mum luckily.x
@@ktcooki276the way she says in her own video that he's going to help her financially take care of their daughter suggests one of those girls are bio to her.
Law and crime nails it Everytime! This just happened and they are already out with a video, thank you for keeping us updated!
Why turn to social media for support? People these days share too much. RIP 🙏🏽
@@mins3369 all she was asking for was ways to make/save money as a single parent. She wasn’t airing dirty laundry.
@@LaurenCullen-l8sShe DID share information about her marriage and divorce. VERY personal information. She is like most people these days, which says a lot about our society. Private information should remain within the family or close friendships. However, SHE is not to blame!
What is wrong with asking for advice?
@@TolaTolaTolaasking strangers on the Internet is crazy.
@@Susan-l8twell it wasn’t a stranger that ended her life, so there’s that to consider also…
I was thinking the same thing as Jesse was reporting this. It sounds like one of those cases that if I can’t have you then no one will. He knew she wasn’t coming back and the situation turned to desperation for him.
He just could not handle her being strong and Independent. He was losing control of everything and that includes her!!
Exactly
Lmao
Absolutely!!
@@hellisotherpeople929 did this “strong and independent” woman want his money in the divorce?
lmao "strong and independent" how much was he paying for her independence i wonder
Welp,,he was ten yrs older than her, supported her,her child,their child. Looks like he was a ship / vessel technician so I wonder if he was out to sea for long periods of time. I'm sure he supported her going back to school. Though it sounded like she worked as well,,, and we don't know WHY she asked for a separation,,I'm sure he felt devastated and used . Not that murder is ever the answer... and like I said before. He was probably being "so wonderful" about the entire situation because he hoped they would reconcile and when he realized it wasn't going to happen, he killed her.
I think sometimes the person "happy to finally be out on their own" are blind to the devastation they cause to the partner that probably feels blindsided...I've seen this situation play out with the moms around me. They get bored with the stay at home life, decide to leave the person that took care of them for years to just take half of everything to go find their new single life. Sucks for everyone involved.
Brandon diid not want the divorce. He snapped.
sherlock holmes over here
Perhaps he PLOTTED
if we knew the exact reason for the breakdown of the marriage then it would give some idea as to what the real mind sets of the couple were regardless of the talk about 'amicable settlement'
jealousy will do it
did she walk away from his money?
Big incel / abusive beta energy in the comments here, blaming the victim. Pathetic.
For real. I can’t believe they have the audacity.
Well, there's plenty of blame to go around.
@@brianbaratheon You’re really trying to justify the murder of this woman. Disgusting. She did not deserve that
I remember this each time I see myself or someone else not believing men will abu$e and mistreat random women for something some woman or even idea of a woman did to him once in another place in his life. Pure regression.
Maybe she made him mad by posting it all on social media and letting other men know she's available for 💦....so she does get part of the blame!
So crazy how often this has been happening last few years 😢😢
I love watching Side Bar. ❤
It’s chilling to see and hear someone’s last moments 😔
What a Selfish human😢
The Script says it best, “cause when a heart breaks, no, it don’t break even.”
My heart goes out to her children. Especially so to her eldest daughter who not only lost her mother, but is now burdened with the care of her younger half sister who was fathered by the murderer! He ruined thier family and has put a wedge between her children.
So incredibly sad. The most dangerous time for a woman is when she is pregnant and when she is trying to leave. She was trained nurse I think, I am sure she knew this, but she must have trusted him.
Only for women who don’t know how to choose a man.
Any woman who trusts a man and thinks they are cordial is a whole fool
@@notsorryyouretriggeredall men are the same. Stop being delusional in the la la land! They look at women as property. So they act on it!!
@@notsorryyouretriggeredDumb comment like you men don’t act like saints.
The takeaway is dont make videos about how happy you are to be getting divorced because it could end in a fatality.
That's ridiculous. How about don't commit murder. You people are really something.
Yea she seemed excited saying newly single mom
That's probably what set him off.
THIS 💯
Well said.....be mindful of other people's feelings....even if the other person is your ex
It seems to me that she wanted the divorce but maybe he didn't. But was trying to go along with it and somewhere he broke. So heartbreaking. The poor kids : (.
Such a selfish act : (
It's like she was trying to set the narrative in hopes he would follow. That's a form of fear.
Agreed
Seeing is not always believing.
Sometimes family is our biggest enemy, joint funeral my foot,😢😢😢😢
It wasn’t love it was one sided relationship. Yall be careful
So heartbreaking
She was beautiful and even though maybe alittle naive, she was very educated !!! Beautiful ❤
Divorce is often the most dangerous time in a woman's life. Rest in Peace Jennifer 🙏❤️💐🕊️
Statistically you're far more likely to take him to the cleaners than he is of unaliving you.