Almost makes you want to become depressed just so you can be blown away by the remedy. If everything was always good, we would never appreciate it..but when you comes up from the bottom...man there is something euphoric there.
shriharsh i 100% agree ... mahn i was just panicking due to certain financial uncertainties and after a shower i was going through random videos of stuff and lo and behold after reading a thumbnail of steven pinker i remembered jordan and just went to his channel and i find this video
I believe, that history will look back and recognize Dr. Peterson as one of the greatest minds the world has ever seen. Thank you Sir for your contribution to mankind.
In the least, hes one of the most honest and helpful minds out there. But let it be known he has passed through hell and back many times to reach that point.
@@TheKingsapostle Jesus also helps, but only Jesus makes one into a narrow-minded zealot. Original poster just seem like a fan of the ol' Doc. You need to preach like that for people "transitioning", man-hating feminists, the ones who cry when Trump is mentioned... Lots of folk need words laid out like this, for a mere Peterson fan it's unnecesary. He speaks of Jesus too, I know, I know, not in the way you like it, I assume. Sigh. But to me, he spoke of Jesus better than the crappy faith schools I've spent all my young years in a short time.
“If you can even get 1% better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done. Conversely, if you get 1% worse each day for one year, you’ll decline nearly down to zero. What starts as a small win or a minor setback accumulates into something much more.” - James Clear
@@EternityUnknown it depends on who you are. If you’re someone as profound as Jordan Peterson, I would agree with you. If you were someone like, say, me, when I was at my worst, a 1% increase for me was merely getting up, not playing video games all day, and going to the gym for 10 minutes.
It shows how influenced we can be about someone when we don’t know them and someone we “trust” has an opinion, usually from someone else they “trust” So harmful to take an uneducated view as true.
Dr Perterson you are a blessing for thousands of suffering souls, your words and wisdom has helped me to get out of a really dark place. Thank you very much 🙏🏼❤️
Jordan I'm a single father 35 years old 2 kids age 4 n 5 it's a little rough you inspire me to be better I wish I could talk to you just for a moment I think you'd be able to actually reach me n get through to me weather I wanna hear it or not n that's what I admire about you you stand for the truth and justice and we need that more than ever ❤
Thank you for this. Recent single mom of a 9 and 6 YO. Father is literally out of the picture. I am so fortunate to have a solid support system, and it’s still hard.
"If a man knowns not to which port he sails, no wind is favourable". Nearly 40 and still don't know to which port I would like to sail, so I just survive the rough seas the best I can, never advancing anywhere.
Something my stepfather once told me. "A ship with no wind has no power". I don't think it matters much if you know where you are headed, just so long as you have a direction you are pushing in.
@@00yiggdrasill00 While I agree with your stepfather's wisdom, it does indeed matter where you are headed, as an incompetent navigator with no ability to set a precise destination can easily sail in circles while believing they are making progress. The seas are too vast to believe pushing forward alone will get you where you need to go.
I think yggdrasil has a point though. You don't have to see the whole staircase to climb the first step. And like Jordan has said before, you are going to pick the wrong direction to start with, every journey involves course corrections@zelig1799
Same. I came to realize that my strengths and disposition leans to troubleshooting and customer service. As such, I had to lean into a career that is more reactive than proactive. But accepting that has helped me be more successful.
@@chrisriley9182@00yiggdrasill00 The analogy you chose is interesting. I wonder if that gets too the root of the problem. You could have used a mountain in your example as it created the same message. A staircase, however, is much more restrictive; once on A staircases there isn't an alternate path or really alternate ways to move along the path - you can stay where you are, move forward or regress. I'm sure you see where I'm going with this. How does someone chose which staircase to climb? You cannot answer this for me but I would be interested how you chose your staircase.
Just saw you in york, pa and did the meet and greet, the Q&A afterwords was filled with absolutely life changing advice. Thank you for everything Dr. Peterson
I have done that when it came to Atlanta once. I was the first one outside the building 6 hours before the show. Seeing him was awesome as he changed my life, and I told him that.
And if I have not fully achieved a true “manhood” and independence, and my parents are separated and will never talk again, its falls upon me to gauge myself and be my own parent. I think, especially with my extra-comparative Western mindset, if I must compare myself to someone, then it ought to be my yesterday’s self. Truly profound wisdom there, thank you Doc.
A lot of what i get is the advice i should habe had from my own absent father and the logical, fact driven mind receives these drops of gold perfectly, thankyou
Love how he generally asks questions to get the listener thinking, even when they already know the answer. Most people I’ve seen who hate this man are full of inner turmoil and self contempt
This explains really well what the push pull dynamic is good for. Parents really need to work together and become allies if the family task is to succeed. Anytime any other "well meaning" person becomes involved, which they will, their words and advice need to be run through the other partner otherwise it becomes a hidden alliance, a conspiracy, and that will scew the dynamic in the relationship, as someone gets alienated.
"You can't absorb too much change at once." To an extent, I think you can, but you have to make all the change all you do for 6+ weeks; military does it every day to new recruits. (3:00)
That's the exception that proves the rule. Boot camp is essentially 16 hour days, 7 days a week... If boot camp was instead an 8 hour a day / 5 day a week deal like an on the job apprenticeship, you'd be looking at 20+ weeks, or about half a year. If boot camp were a college course, you'd be looking at a full year of education. It's true that bootcamp introduces a lot of changes very quickly, but it does so at great cost. The chance to drop literally everything and focus on a single goal all day, every day, for multiple months, are not opportunities that come often.
Read two of his books. They are not ones you'd forget. Full of advice and life changing motivation. Couldn't manage to read the "Maps of meaning" heavier than two later ones.
I like the docs notion about the youth. The have that energy and "spark" before the learning curve gets overcome. 12 years ago I thought about grad school, nowadays no more. There is that age in life which is "best" (lol Dr.) for a new career, study, or skill. Too late for me to play guitar for example
Please invite brendan fraser next. He is a good man, victim of hollywood and he has risen up again! Would love to see how you and him would interact and discuss his journey from rock bottom to where he is now. Please 🙏🙏
Dr. Peterson, I am loathed to be among those who desire that you abbreviate your wisdom, and conform to those modern mores which cater the those who cannot commit the time needed to your insights, but please, give us more of these brief videos! I am a busy man, with children and a considerable docket of work and community involvement on my plate and simply don’t have the time to view videos that are an hour or more in length on a consistent basis, but I love your insights and would appreciate more of them on a more absorbable basis. Best, and thank you for your significant contributions to humanity. You give me hope. Keep going!
You could always watch the longer videos for shorter periods of time - or do what I do and save them in your "watch later", where you can listen in periodic increments until finished.
Or simply listen through your favourite podcast platform instead of watching what are mostly just people say talking, you might miss some of the emotion and gesticulating which could infer passion etc but rarely is anything shown onscreen that you would not get in the podcast.
I grew up with a single mother, who was an alcoholic and benzodiazepin addict. Listening to this makes me think about how great things could have been growing up with someone who actually cared.
@@redneckarmy6 That would make everybody with drug addicted parents, doomed to fail as parents too. But its not like that. Usually you will give what you never got.
@phantorang It doesn’t necessarily mean that your mother didn’t care. She was too absorbed by other problems, fighting her demons to be able to show care and love for you. These feelings could have been buried under a load of dark feelings based on dark experiences she may have never been able to deal with.
@redneckarmy6 They can. They do. My husband shows in abundance what was denied him for over half of his 80 year life. He worked on doing better than his family and community had given him and is a wonderful husband and stepdad/grandpa.
You give wonderful lectures and I feel like I'm enraptured each time. I wonder though, given that lectures aren't as efficient as practical lessons, why aren't you developing something like that? The book and it's concepts are wonderful, but they feel empty without a direction or inkling to application. Teaching by application has always given me greater reward than lecture.
High office like that wears on a person and they age like mad. I want Jordan Peterson around as long as possible. He'd have my vote, but I say I'd rather have him not run
Her logic reminds me of the statement, "Whenever I look for something that I have misplaced or lost, when I find it, it is always in the last place that I looked."
I know Dr. Peterson will probably never see this, but your message of Sacrifice has had a profound impact on my life, so much so that I wrote and dedicated the song "Sacrifice" to that message. I would be honored if you had a minute to listen to it!
The hunter & Gatherer (risking life and limb for sustenance) v the nurturer Layer on of Hands = A Perfect Circle . Currently: 2 x Hunter Gatherers. No Nurturer or Laying on of hands = Burst, deformed Circle…….
After 12years, a few months ago, my wife told me "we need an open relationship or to be separated." (Im not stoopid, i know what she said) and i told her i dont want anyone else so separated i guess. 2 nights ago, i enlightened her im crazy enough, not stoopid and know what she was saying. I told her since im not sedated anymore (the last 5 years, the VA has had me on a couple "anti-psycotics" and i can count on 1 hand how many times ive touched her since being on them. I stopped taking them this year (dec/jan) and now shes yelling at me to stop touching her sooo much. According to her, my affection has gone from a 1 to a 10 on a scale of 1-10... extremes. Yesterday, she send me a request on facebook to tell the world were no longer separated and infact married. And that thought is gone. That is happening so much now... i have no idea what i was talking about. I guess if you made it this far, im sure i had a point, who knows if i made it. Have a good day regardless. 😂 Edit: i find it funny to misspell a stupid word. Its stoopid after all.
I've noticed my anger is back. I try and take a flight approach to it so I don't blow up ay others. It hasn't completely worked but I can't go back on those meds. It seriously felt like I was in a constant state of dreaming. Like when your alarm goes off in the morning, you get up and get ready to go. As you are walking out the door to start you day, your alarm goes off again and you are waking up in bed. You just did everything. You know you did but clearly since you're still in bed, you didn't. Thats what it was like for 5 years and I had no idea until I got off the meds. I've noticed multiple times my memory is... lacking. I lose thought so easily and oh my gawd my vocabulary.... I lose a word mid thought and its so agitating and its like daily. I swear I never use to feel so inept. 😕 but I think with some learning and getting use to having emotions again, I think (more so hope) I'm in a better "health" position than I was... granted, looking back, that's a pretty low bar.
@clevernamehere hey, you asking is really appreciated. We both know you couldn't do anything for me regardless but you making a point to ask me how I'm doing is well received. Thank you.
Good on you for getting your marriage back on track. Got what it’s worth, many years ago I felt like I was angry for no reason. I’d never been an angry person so I sought out a therapist. A friend recommended one and the journey began. She told me many men represented anger as an outlet for depression. I worked with her for a few years, until I didn’t really have anything else to talk about during sessions. It might not help you, but it’s good for thought.
@chris66b55 while I was in the military, I had many shrink because of deployments or training at different bases and what not. Over the years, I only found 1 shrink that said things that made sense (later, I would be told "oh no, you shouldn't have seen her, she's to low level for you." I disagreed and never saw her again. Thanks army) like how I was using anger to get my adrenaline fix. Anger is the quickest way to get your adrenaline pumping and she said she think im addicted to the feeling of adrenaline. I can't argue against that. It makes a lot of sense. That said, I've been told "survivors guilt" is a possible thing since my drinking buddy was in my airgaurd hatch when they got hit by an EFP (explosive fragmentation projectile) killing him. I dont think that's it because I have it compartmentalized in my head that it sucks but it was his shift. Not mine. I can't do the what if game. I will lose if I try so I don't play it.
So it's a risk to ask and get to a point weather it's to disagree or agree with your partner, and that's conversations that's tough to have than to not bring those tough conversations up and risk never being honest with them at all and have them accept you for not what your wanting them to accept at all.
Jordan, we love your channel. My partner and I , well he asked me, "What does he mean when he says , play with your partner? How can I do that." For some men, they need a few ideas, examples. We wish you would do a vide of stories of how you play with your lovely wife. Please, we thank you. And blessing to your wife Tammy. 🙏💛
I deeply love what you publicly show as the very best of you Sir, presuming my understanding of it mostly resembles the truth. have you recently listened to madonnas frozen? i just had the oddest feeling as though I caught a fluctuant glympse of why music can be truelly beautiful. bless you!
I'm just an electrician at around 20 i looked into the face of God his power and face is in everything All systems everything is in constant distribution and transformation your body mind and soul how we think the mountains crumbling to the sea Our use of the power of God through our human animal instincts gives rise to the beast and the flames of hell because we are not selfless enough to balance the power of God
In the movie "clan of the cave bear" that is how the man showed the woman it was time to get down and boogie. I wonder if Dr. Peterson has seen that movie? It would be funny to see his reaction.
When you get a chance, on your own cuz you don't do video reactions, watch "The Heart Part 5"...Kdot used deep fake tech. I'm interested on your take of that vs AI tech.
He gets the meaning of help eet wrong, for one he should've learned, if he had studied, that the word meet is not a noun but an adjective that means "suitable"
Romans 8:4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. James 2:8 If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well: 1 John 2:5 But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him. Revelation 17:17 For God hath put in their hearts to fulfil his will, and to agree, and give their kingdom unto the beast, until the words of God shall be fulfilled.
@@arnoldvezbon6131I just don’t want to disclose my relationship status-that’s not a crime and you clearly would have bad advise anyway if that’s your takeaway. 😂
Maybe because you are lookin for a partner and not a spouse. The use of the word partner is intended to lead to unfavorable outcomes for relationships in line with the anti natalist movement.
What if he just NO LONGER wants to give?!?? And says it literally? Would that make him an asshole after 25 years of marriage and 2 lovely grown-up offsprings? That’s what my ex-husband did, and believe me, I am everything that desirable embodies… 🤷🏻♀️ and I was willing to continue to give and cooperate. Why did he stop and refuse to give ANYTHING and cooperate?? Am I correct in considering him a robotic asshole? I got divorced 4 years ago with no closure. I still don’t understand why. I can pretend I have forgiven him. But that’s my mind talking me into forgiveness. My heart wishes him bitter, painful, agonizing remorse.
You know.... Every time i get depressed... He comes with a solution. I love him
Right? His words about bitterness really hit me hard today. I needed this video.
@@bubukittee24 I'm genuinely grateful for you, that you got what you needed. And may you continue to do so. God bless💐
Almost makes you want to become depressed just so you can be blown away by the remedy. If everything was always good, we would never appreciate it..but when you comes up from the bottom...man there is something euphoric there.
@@JhbejkwplI did
shriharsh i 100% agree ... mahn i was just panicking due to certain financial uncertainties and after a shower i was going through random videos of stuff and lo and behold after reading a thumbnail of steven pinker i remembered jordan and just went to his channel and i find this video
The father-figure we never knew we needed.
I believe, that history will look back and recognize Dr. Peterson as one of the greatest minds the world has ever seen. Thank you Sir for your contribution to mankind.
In the least, hes one of the most honest and helpful minds out there. But let it be known he has passed through hell and back many times to reach that point.
Whenever I need help or to see myself more clearly, Dr Peterson is there
You need Jesus.
@@TheKingsapostle Jesus also helps, but only Jesus makes one into a narrow-minded zealot. Original poster just seem like a fan of the ol' Doc. You need to preach like that for people "transitioning", man-hating feminists, the ones who cry when Trump is mentioned... Lots of folk need words laid out like this, for a mere Peterson fan it's unnecesary. He speaks of Jesus too, I know, I know, not in the way you like it, I assume. Sigh. But to me, he spoke of Jesus better than the crappy faith schools I've spent all my young years in a short time.
I am living in Ethiopia. You are earthly medicine for many souls. Keep it up. Thank You Sir!
Hi from America!! 😁
It has to be beautiful there! 💚Regaaards!
“If you can even get 1% better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done. Conversely, if you get 1% worse each day for one year, you’ll decline nearly down to zero. What starts as a small win or a minor setback accumulates into something much more.”
- James Clear
Y A G advice.
1% is a big increase.
@@EternityUnknown it depends on who you are. If you’re someone as profound as Jordan Peterson, I would agree with you.
If you were someone like, say, me, when I was at my worst, a 1% increase for me was merely getting up, not playing video games all day, and going to the gym for 10 minutes.
@@morningfog532 Haha. I'm not as profound as Jordan, but I'm quite industrious.
It seems some people get the two mixed up always being the ones who end up aiming to get worse.
It blows my mind that there’s people out there that think JP is some sort of villain.
The hivemind is real and gets its collective opinion from a few curated sources.
The curators are usually found in the mainstream media.
They’re the Crazy ones.
It shows how influenced we can be about someone when we don’t know them and someone we “trust” has an opinion, usually from someone else they “trust”
So harmful to take an uneducated view as true.
He knows a lot about psychology. He’s off picking daisies with politics. That’s the truth.
@@keepingitreal-thatsrightis that why we're all not addicted to benzos like Peterson was,?😮😅😊
Dr Perterson you are a blessing for thousands of suffering souls, your words and wisdom has helped me to get out of a really dark place. Thank you very much 🙏🏼❤️
Jordan I'm a single father 35 years old 2 kids age 4 n 5 it's a little rough you inspire me to be better I wish I could talk to you just for a moment I think you'd be able to actually reach me n get through to me weather I wanna hear it or not n that's what I admire about you you stand for the truth and justice and we need that more than ever ❤
Hey Tommy I'm a single mom of a 10 yo it gets better bit by bit.
Thank you for this. Recent single mom of a 9 and 6 YO. Father is literally out of the picture. I am so fortunate to have a solid support system, and it’s still hard.
Comparison against others is the thief of Joy
I live in Cuba and I watch all your videos, thanks for everything
Thank You Jordan from Latvia.
"If a man knowns not to which port he sails, no wind is favourable".
Nearly 40 and still don't know to which port I would like to sail, so I just survive the rough seas the best I can, never advancing anywhere.
Something my stepfather once told me. "A ship with no wind has no power". I don't think it matters much if you know where you are headed, just so long as you have a direction you are pushing in.
@@00yiggdrasill00 While I agree with your stepfather's wisdom, it does indeed matter where you are headed, as an incompetent navigator with no ability to set a precise destination can easily sail in circles while believing they are making progress. The seas are too vast to believe pushing forward alone will get you where you need to go.
I think yggdrasil has a point though. You don't have to see the whole staircase to climb the first step. And like Jordan has said before, you are going to pick the wrong direction to start with, every journey involves course corrections@zelig1799
Same. I came to realize that my strengths and disposition leans to troubleshooting and customer service. As such, I had to lean into a career that is more reactive than proactive. But accepting that has helped me be more successful.
@@chrisriley9182@00yiggdrasill00 The analogy you chose is interesting. I wonder if that gets too the root of the problem. You could have used a mountain in your example as it created the same message. A staircase, however, is much more restrictive; once on A staircases there isn't an alternate path or really alternate ways to move along the path - you can stay where you are, move forward or regress. I'm sure you see where I'm going with this. How does someone chose which staircase to climb?
You cannot answer this for me but I would be interested how you chose your staircase.
I am so thankful for the opportunity to be able to listen to Dr Peterson!! If the internet is good for nothing else but this then it's well worth it!!
" Marriage is a duel to the death which no man of honor should refuse"
-GK Chesterton
Just saw you in york, pa and did the meet and greet, the Q&A afterwords was filled with absolutely life changing advice. Thank you for everything Dr. Peterson
I have done that when it came to Atlanta once. I was the first one outside the building 6 hours before the show. Seeing him was awesome as he changed my life, and I told him that.
I would love to see him live!!! Because to me, He’s the most sensible, logical and intelligent man on earth.
Is he doing a tour? Where do I find the schedule?
Keep teaching Jordan. ❤
Teacher is a compliment and this is more than deserving for this gem of a human!
Thank You, Jordan! From Romania.
You are a gift to the world. God bless you. ❤
Thanks
And if I have not fully achieved a true “manhood” and independence, and my parents are separated and will never talk again, its falls upon me to gauge myself and be my own parent. I think, especially with my extra-comparative Western mindset, if I must compare myself to someone, then it ought to be my yesterday’s self. Truly profound wisdom there, thank you Doc.
I hear the musical 🎶 notes
F# A Gmajor is that you @phalcata572
Great content we'll spoken thank you Mr.peterson god bless.❤
This is great food for thought. I will be rewatching this with my wife.
Much love jordan❤
A lot of what i get is the advice i should habe had from my own absent father and the logical, fact driven mind receives these drops of gold perfectly, thankyou
Love how he generally asks questions to get the listener thinking, even when they already know the answer. Most people I’ve seen who hate this man are full of inner turmoil and self contempt
This explains really well what the push pull dynamic is good for.
Parents really need to work together and become allies if the family task is to succeed. Anytime any other "well meaning" person becomes involved, which they will, their words and advice need to be run through the other partner otherwise it becomes a hidden alliance, a conspiracy, and that will scew the dynamic in the relationship, as someone gets alienated.
"You can't absorb too much change at once." To an extent, I think you can, but you have to make all the change all you do for 6+ weeks; military does it every day to new recruits. (3:00)
That's the exception that proves the rule. Boot camp is essentially 16 hour days, 7 days a week... If boot camp was instead an 8 hour a day / 5 day a week deal like an on the job apprenticeship, you'd be looking at 20+ weeks, or about half a year. If boot camp were a college course, you'd be looking at a full year of education.
It's true that bootcamp introduces a lot of changes very quickly, but it does so at great cost. The chance to drop literally everything and focus on a single goal all day, every day, for multiple months, are not opportunities that come often.
Read two of his books. They are not ones you'd forget. Full of advice and life changing motivation. Couldn't manage to read the "Maps of meaning" heavier than two later ones.
Absolutely agree with that.
I think I know am better today than yesterday..how ??!!! Am beginning to understand what are you on about Mr Jordan..thank you
Wise advice🧐👂
Sir Peterson, thankyou ❤
The man the world needs
Thank u dr. Peterson.
4:20 Yes, there is this phenomenon. You're doing great JP; phenomenally well. No mistake about it.
Thanks for the videos.
Jordan B.
I progress to have as much, if not more, knowledge and understanding than you one day.
You are unprecedented
Love from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
I like the docs notion about the youth. The have that energy and "spark" before the learning curve gets overcome. 12 years ago I thought about grad school, nowadays no more. There is that age in life which is "best" (lol Dr.) for a new career, study, or skill. Too late for me to play guitar for example
Absolutely needing these advices
Thank you.
Please invite brendan fraser next. He is a good man, victim of hollywood and he has risen up again! Would love to see how you and him would interact and discuss his journey from rock bottom to where he is now. Please 🙏🙏
Dr. Peterson,
I am loathed to be among those who desire that you abbreviate your wisdom, and conform to those modern mores which cater the those who cannot commit the time needed to your insights, but please, give us more of these brief videos!
I am a busy man, with children and a considerable docket of work and community involvement on my plate and simply don’t have the time to view videos that are an hour or more in length on a consistent basis, but I love your insights and would appreciate more of them on a more absorbable basis.
Best, and thank you for your significant contributions to humanity. You give me hope. Keep going!
You could always watch the longer videos for shorter periods of time - or do what I do and save them in your "watch later", where you can listen in periodic increments until finished.
There are literally thousands of these shortened versions of his talks lol
Or simply listen through your favourite podcast platform instead of watching what are mostly just people say talking, you might miss some of the emotion and gesticulating which could infer passion etc but rarely is anything shown onscreen that you would not get in the podcast.
Getting What You Need Is Important. I need a Better environment for optimized opponent processing.
Most people have no idea what they need.
Thanks
Starts with my favorite rule 🎉😮
Thank you JP
God hes good. I love when he talks about relationships/family/parenting
I grew up with a single mother, who was an alcoholic and benzodiazepin addict. Listening to this makes me think about how great things could have been growing up with someone who actually cared.
How can someone who's never been loved show you something that they were never shown?
@@redneckarmy6 That would make everybody with drug addicted parents, doomed to fail as parents too.
But its not like that. Usually you will give what you never got.
@phantorang It doesn’t necessarily mean that your mother didn’t care. She was too absorbed by other problems, fighting her demons to be able to show care and love for you. These feelings could have been buried under a load of dark feelings based on dark experiences she may have never been able to deal with.
@redneckarmy6
They can. They do. My husband shows in abundance what was denied him for over half of his 80 year life. He worked on doing better than his family and community had given him and is a wonderful husband and stepdad/grandpa.
Please tell God he cares and listens. I am not just a believer, but I physically know that he’s real.
It makes so much sense that my wife is my beneficial adversary. Without her I could not have accomplished a fraction of where I am today.
Good stuff. Makes me wonder where I will be in five years, hopefully somewhere worth going to!
You give wonderful lectures and I feel like I'm enraptured each time. I wonder though, given that lectures aren't as efficient as practical lessons, why aren't you developing something like that? The book and it's concepts are wonderful, but they feel empty without a direction or inkling to application. Teaching by application has always given me greater reward than lecture.
JP for Canadian Prime Minister!!?? That would be epic for the world.
Could we call you George?
Impossible man!
He is too intelligent.
The Cubans wouldn’t ever let that happen.
High office like that wears on a person and they age like mad. I want Jordan Peterson around as long as possible. He'd have my vote, but I say I'd rather have him not run
When I have a problem, I turn to God. Often God tells me to go ask Jordan Peterson and God is always right. This man is truly a blessing to the world.
Wow that might not be God you are talking to...
You're awesome...thank you
Her logic reminds me of the statement, "Whenever I look for something that I have misplaced or lost, when I find it, it is always in the last place that I looked."
Listening to this made me feel more lonely in my relationship than before I listened to it.
Ask and you shall receive
If you don't ask you will never know
Thanks for the meeting Bucko. Keep coming back.
I know Dr. Peterson will probably never see this, but your message of Sacrifice has had a profound impact on my life, so much so that I wrote and dedicated the song "Sacrifice" to that message. I would be honored if you had a minute to listen to it!
Jeez I could have used this 60 years ago.
It's never too late.
Dr Pete #1.
The hunter & Gatherer (risking life and limb for sustenance) v the nurturer Layer on of Hands = A Perfect Circle . Currently: 2 x Hunter Gatherers. No Nurturer or Laying on of hands = Burst, deformed Circle…….
Jordan, read Timothy Alberino's book BIRTHRIGHT. Page 198-199. This book is the information you need
After 12years, a few months ago, my wife told me "we need an open relationship or to be separated." (Im not stoopid, i know what she said) and i told her i dont want anyone else so separated i guess. 2 nights ago, i enlightened her im crazy enough, not stoopid and know what she was saying. I told her since im not sedated anymore (the last 5 years, the VA has had me on a couple "anti-psycotics" and i can count on 1 hand how many times ive touched her since being on them. I stopped taking them this year (dec/jan) and now shes yelling at me to stop touching her sooo much. According to her, my affection has gone from a 1 to a 10 on a scale of 1-10... extremes. Yesterday, she send me a request on facebook to tell the world were no longer separated and infact married. And that thought is gone. That is happening so much now... i have no idea what i was talking about. I guess if you made it this far, im sure i had a point, who knows if i made it. Have a good day regardless. 😂
Edit: i find it funny to misspell a stupid word. Its stoopid after all.
Good for y'all. But how's your mental health without your meds? Are YOU good?
I've noticed my anger is back. I try and take a flight approach to it so I don't blow up ay others. It hasn't completely worked but I can't go back on those meds. It seriously felt like I was in a constant state of dreaming. Like when your alarm goes off in the morning, you get up and get ready to go. As you are walking out the door to start you day, your alarm goes off again and you are waking up in bed. You just did everything. You know you did but clearly since you're still in bed, you didn't. Thats what it was like for 5 years and I had no idea until I got off the meds. I've noticed multiple times my memory is... lacking. I lose thought so easily and oh my gawd my vocabulary.... I lose a word mid thought and its so agitating and its like daily. I swear I never use to feel so inept. 😕 but I think with some learning and getting use to having emotions again, I think (more so hope) I'm in a better "health" position than I was... granted, looking back, that's a pretty low bar.
@clevernamehere hey, you asking is really appreciated. We both know you couldn't do anything for me regardless but you making a point to ask me how I'm doing is well received. Thank you.
Good on you for getting your marriage back on track. Got what it’s worth, many years ago I felt like I was angry for no reason. I’d never been an angry person so I sought out a therapist. A friend recommended one and the journey began. She told me many men represented anger as an outlet for depression. I worked with her for a few years, until I didn’t really have anything else to talk about during sessions. It might not help you, but it’s good for thought.
@chris66b55 while I was in the military, I had many shrink because of deployments or training at different bases and what not. Over the years, I only found 1 shrink that said things that made sense (later, I would be told "oh no, you shouldn't have seen her, she's to low level for you." I disagreed and never saw her again. Thanks army) like how I was using anger to get my adrenaline fix. Anger is the quickest way to get your adrenaline pumping and she said she think im addicted to the feeling of adrenaline. I can't argue against that. It makes a lot of sense. That said, I've been told "survivors guilt" is a possible thing since my drinking buddy was in my airgaurd hatch when they got hit by an EFP (explosive fragmentation projectile) killing him. I dont think that's it because I have it compartmentalized in my head that it sucks but it was his shift. Not mine. I can't do the what if game. I will lose if I try so I don't play it.
Jordan please consider having David Goggins on a podcast. Millions of people will listen & Benefit from it. Please consider it.
if you cannot grow together is it a real relationship?
So it's a risk to ask and get to a point weather it's to disagree or agree with your partner, and that's conversations that's tough to have than to not bring those tough conversations up and risk never being honest with them at all and have them accept you for not what your wanting them to accept at all.
Daily wires messing with the numbers :( 50 isn't much but still that's a bummer
Huh? Video came out 3 mins ago
Jordan, we love your channel. My partner and I , well he asked me, "What does he mean when he says , play with your partner? How can I do that." For some men, they need a few ideas, examples. We wish you would do a vide of stories of how you play with your lovely wife. Please, we thank you. And blessing to your wife Tammy. 🙏💛
Optimized opponent processing = Tango dancing
( you must find the rot spots and fix em ) ,, working on it.
when will the full tour be posted?
I deeply love what you publicly show as the very best of you Sir, presuming my understanding of it mostly resembles the truth. have you recently listened to madonnas frozen? i just had the oddest feeling as though I caught a fluctuant glympse of why music can be truelly beautiful. bless you!
Get Matias de stefano on your podcast!!!!
I'm just an electrician at around 20 i looked into the face of God his power and face is in everything
All systems everything is in constant distribution and transformation your body mind and soul how we think the mountains crumbling to the sea
Our use of the power of God through our human animal instincts gives rise to the beast and the flames of hell because we are not selfless enough to balance the power of God
( just an electrician ) , naw bro , your a skilled technician 💪
"If".
In the movie "clan of the cave bear" that is how the man showed the woman it was time to get down and boogie. I wonder if Dr. Peterson has seen that movie? It would be funny to see his reaction.
I love these old JBP clips. I much prefer these to the anger and bitterness of political issues.
Old? This is from his speaking tour last year.....
Love JBP
When you get a chance, on your own cuz you don't do video reactions, watch "The Heart Part 5"...Kdot used deep fake tech. I'm interested on your take of that vs AI tech.
well, what do you mean by "aim"?
a place worth getting to? Sure ive been wanting a job for a couple of years now but seems it Never was possible to get a job.
He gets the meaning of help eet wrong, for one he should've learned, if he had studied, that the word meet is not a noun but an adjective that means "suitable"
I wish he continued talking about these things and leave politics alone
Let us pray for the victims of the tornadoes of north Texas and Kentucky
When was it? Seems recent
Romans 8:4
That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
James 2:8
If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well:
1 John 2:5
But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him.
Revelation 17:17
For God hath put in their hearts to fulfil his will, and to agree, and give their kingdom unto the beast, until the words of God shall be fulfilled.
Plz Dr. Peterson can you do a video with Mr. Oleksandr Usyk (Boxer)? Like if you want to see that too :D
What does it mean when your partner responds with “I just want what makes you happy?”
If you call your spouse your "partner" your relationship will fail.
@@arnoldvezbon6131and dodging questions won’t? 😂
@@arnoldvezbon6131I just used it because I don’t want to disclose my relationship status. Not a crime.
@@arnoldvezbon6131I just don’t want to disclose my relationship status-that’s not a crime and you clearly would have bad advise anyway if that’s your takeaway. 😂
Aim up 🎯 💯 😅 😂 ❤ 🎉
JP should take a year off in Argentina and study Tango dancing..
Calling somebody your "help-mate" could get you charge for verbal assault if your wife or girlfriend is woke lol
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I never made it far enough to have a partner. I'm un-lovable.
Maybe because you are lookin for a partner and not a spouse. The use of the word partner is intended to lead to unfavorable outcomes for relationships in line with the anti natalist movement.
You gotta learn to love yourself first.
I don't need to fix my life. The world need fixin 😂
Be the change you want to see in the world. Work for it. Push.
In Genesis 2:18, the Hebrew word ezer means helper. Turns out the bible says what it means.
Step one: Get a partner
real💀
Step 2: Get ready to forgive
What if he just NO LONGER wants to give?!?? And says it literally? Would that make him an asshole after 25 years of marriage and 2 lovely grown-up offsprings? That’s what my ex-husband did, and believe me, I am everything that desirable embodies… 🤷🏻♀️ and I was willing to continue to give and cooperate. Why did he stop and refuse to give ANYTHING and cooperate?? Am I correct in considering him a robotic asshole? I got divorced 4 years ago with no closure. I still don’t understand why. I can pretend I have forgiven him. But that’s my mind talking me into forgiveness. My heart wishes him bitter, painful, agonizing remorse.
3:55 I get it's a joke, but it's a strange one. Why would your wife slap you because you referred to her as your helpful companion?
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