Episode 63: Flea on What he Learned From his Relationships

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  • For Episode 63 of the 5 Questions podcast, Dan Schawbel interviews bassist and co-founder of the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Flea, about the relationship he had with his mom affected future relationships, why his stepfather was a blessing and a curse, why he views his friends as his family, how vulnerability has been his strength and his best career advice.
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  • @annalouise53
    @annalouise53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "there are never good guys and bad guys. we're both" I LOVE THIS MAN

  • @tannerkillian
    @tannerkillian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Say anything you want, but seriously there is no person in the entertainment industry more pure and real and loving and kind and all the good things as Flea is. This is a standout human being even if you didn’t take his musical contributions into consideration!

    • @sect1359
      @sect1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      best commentary ever

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a brilliant comment

  • @garyarms6297
    @garyarms6297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    There is never good guys and bad guys. There is always both.
    Wisdom...

  • @Jay-333
    @Jay-333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I love the way flea expresses himself, all from the heart,beautiful to listen too. Great questions too. 💚🎸🎺🎶

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too and thank you for the support.

  • @TheStarBlack
    @TheStarBlack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    My god this is fascinating, I could listen to this all day. Flea is so full of hard earned wisdom. Great interviewer. Definitely getting the book.

  • @matthewmoggridge5221
    @matthewmoggridge5221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I've read Flea's book and, to put it mildly, it's fantastic! Really. I've never read a book like it and I'm so glad he didn't go down the rock star memoir route. He's one of those people that I'd invite to my 'dream dinner party', such an inspiring individual. I wish him well for whatever he does in his life.

  • @dcross8034
    @dcross8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Everytime Flea speaks I have more respect for him

  • @propjoe1060
    @propjoe1060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flea is a wonderful human being. An example of someone who puts every ounce of what he can give into every performance. A legend.

  • @N8-justchillin
    @N8-justchillin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This book is fantastic. It was released in November 2019 recently.

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a great book, thanks for commenting

  • @liatus1146
    @liatus1146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Badass cheekbone you got there flea

  • @andrewcruz7595
    @andrewcruz7595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    *guy's you should get this book it's interesting*

  • @MontyRoyal963
    @MontyRoyal963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you get to know Flea he's the glue that held the RHCP together

  • @tomkirk6942
    @tomkirk6942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderful book from a genuine human.

  • @wirhannah
    @wirhannah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such an astute guy, thanks for sharing this. The book is great too.

  • @ricchardo
    @ricchardo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's interesting to hear what he said about his Mother. I'm going through a "Bad Patch" with mine now. I think our relationship was actually better when I was younger, Now I'm older I'm more aware of her faults and I'm more likely to tell her if I don't like something or I'm unwilling to tolerate it.

  • @elbettto
    @elbettto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is just amazing! So interesting listening to him! Flea, the only one!

  • @twainjones
    @twainjones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What great views and values this man has ❤ A true legend

  • @graf7568
    @graf7568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much, it is inspirational to hear this guy talk, thanks Flea

  • @B.Weiser
    @B.Weiser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great interview!

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bridget Weiser thanks

  • @olivermcintyre2835
    @olivermcintyre2835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Sorry, but what a terrible way to phrase your first question. Did you read the book you're holding?

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oliver McIntyre after with you, I didn’t phrase it right

  • @river7653
    @river7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Can’t wait 🌶

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's going to be a great one!

  • @RajStarMusic
    @RajStarMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dude what is up with this interviewer? Dude seemed like he didn't even read the book and tried to wing it. Very general questions and not really listening to what Flea is saying. Flea is a man who speaks from the heart with love.. loved to hear his authenticity!

  • @ManoloCaravia
    @ManoloCaravia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    niice interview man, insteresting questions and answers!

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Manuelo appreciate that

    • @abidmabdelaziz
      @abidmabdelaziz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interesting questions? ...lol

  • @Riff24
    @Riff24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ¡Que linda persona es Flea! :) Se siente la paz con solo escucharlo hablar.

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Natanael Ardón Jiménez :)

  • @GebbzSteelo
    @GebbzSteelo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yo flea is very cool and a very humble student

  • @stillmaninmotion6081
    @stillmaninmotion6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Flea is such a humble and nice guy

  • @leorubio5653
    @leorubio5653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a Beautiful Soul!! :)

  • @saintcaine1fan
    @saintcaine1fan ปีที่แล้ว

    Flea is awesome

  • @agneskaszner8535
    @agneskaszner8535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a beautiful man!!

  • @smatsri
    @smatsri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    what am amazing atittude
    really inspiring

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was so inspiring!

  • @anthonyingram6916
    @anthonyingram6916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mister interview man needs a smack

  • @SurfahSistah
    @SurfahSistah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Flea is such an epic human ❤️

    • @SurfahSistah
      @SurfahSistah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great interview,.

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SurfahSistah Thank you!

  • @kovac8788
    @kovac8788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:10 this is hapiness

  • @billlummus6810
    @billlummus6810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With all your Being...........The only way to play.....

  • @irvingsherwood1234
    @irvingsherwood1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heard!

  • @rodricoarasa
    @rodricoarasa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Dan! Was this recorded recently? Before or after the Chili Peppers announcement? Cheers!

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rodrigo Coarasa I conducted the interview over a month ago.

    • @davejohannes7694
      @davejohannes7694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@DanSchawbel That could´ve been THE QUESTION.......

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@davejohannes7694 Agree!

  • @brandonallison3784
    @brandonallison3784 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @whosoever5409
    @whosoever5409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this interviewer man lol

  • @Klesk1985
    @Klesk1985 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    E vero che sono persone con cui ho a che fare.. cmq purtroppo non è uno scherzo..

  • @allcapsbeats
    @allcapsbeats 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "you've been doing drugs for 27 years"... wtf. Such an off putting way to start the interview.

    • @sandralee5106
      @sandralee5106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Couldn't agree with you more.

    • @73brook
      @73brook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He didn’t say that at all he said “for most of you life” and flea said “I haven’t done them for 27 years”

    • @allcapsbeats
      @allcapsbeats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@73brook that's even worse 😂

    • @73brook
      @73brook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@allcapsbeats no

  • @3aw77
    @3aw77 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Dan is this available on Audiobooks

    • @raysherlock1053
      @raysherlock1053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes on audible and it's read by Flea. It's beautiful listening to him read the book himself

    • @3aw77
      @3aw77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you very much @@raysherlock1053 .

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it is

  • @trishemerald2487
    @trishemerald2487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am thisclose to getting my first tattoo... it's gonna be a Chilis one, esp now (JOHN)

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      cool

    • @ricchardo
      @ricchardo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Patricia, I want to tell you a story, When I was a child, I had a grandad, He was in the Army and fought in the second world war. It was (and is) very common for Soldiers to get Tattoos and he was no exception. By the time I knew him, He had left the army and ALL his Tattoos had faded, so much so that it was virtually impossible to tell what they were supposed to be. I suppose what I'm trying to say is that what might look like a Chili Pepper today, could more closely resemble a Willy tomorrow. Food for thought, I think you'll agree? 😂

    • @trishemerald2487
      @trishemerald2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ricchardo my dad was a medic in the 3rd wave of Normandie.

  • @sangimignano8975
    @sangimignano8975 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please buy my book

  • @BudFuddlacker
    @BudFuddlacker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, what a terrible way to start off an interview. Flea was gracious, because he could’ve really torn you up on that

  • @billepperson2662
    @billepperson2662 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That guy couldn't have started this interview any worse... Jesus

  • @ricosadao828
    @ricosadao828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did he cry again?

  • @maggie7843
    @maggie7843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yikes the start of this interview was painful to watch. Interviewer incorrectly interpreting book’s title. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @biorebeca
    @biorebeca 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ladies and gentelmen: Michael Balzary ♥️

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bahahahahahaha

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best known for Back to the Future

  • @000slappydirk
    @000slappydirk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well that was an awkward opening to the interview

  • @Papelito-bd6vq
    @Papelito-bd6vq หลายเดือนก่อน

    Marry me Flea

  • @knowledgewillincrease7508
    @knowledgewillincrease7508 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    what about his relationship with satan?

  • @justinparkerthewildwolf6394
    @justinparkerthewildwolf6394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First thing the interviewer says is, so you've obviously been on drugs all your life and flea is like , no not for 27 years , way to do your research bro and your holding the book

  • @minichanz
    @minichanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How embarrassing was that intro... "Umm, I can tell by your book cover you're a drug addict"... "umm nope"

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you heard of rhcp?

  • @chainedriderlmt3796
    @chainedriderlmt3796 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Flea talking about profound meaning in their friendship and music, interviewer then likens it to being in a fraternity.. idiot... Thanks Flea ! 😎❤🤙

  • @gabreallec.jacques9281
    @gabreallec.jacques9281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes experimental jazz is over people's heads. They pretend to understand it but.........
    I want to make a rhythm opera about dying a religious cult prisoner.

  • @mikenewbold1699
    @mikenewbold1699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    you've been doing drugs most of your life?. I actually havnt done drugs in 27 years. Hate interviews who don't do research

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It was a mistake for sure, but after we got that question it was awesome!

  • @tesstikles3225
    @tesstikles3225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flea talks about love and unity and all sorts of things but yet him and Anthony fired Josh just to take the abusive husband back ( John ) . Don't get me wrong I love John but he has quit twice on them. I guess his ego got the best of him and he couldn't believe the band continue to be successful without him.

    • @freebird1975
      @freebird1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They were successful without John because people were still hooked on material John created. As good as Josh is, he could never elevate his creativity to the level needed to even come close to what John did for the band. Do you have the impression the rhcp where as successful in the past 10 years as they were in the 10 years prior? People were going nuts when they played old songs during their shows but didn't really respond too well to new material. I don't think there's anybody out there who could really replace John. I believe Josh always knew that he was not going to be part of the band forever, I think he knew John was eventually going to come back and he knew that Flea, Anthony and Chad would always choose John before Josh. Calling John the abusive husband is way out of line btw. John did what he thought was best for him and the band by leaving but making sure that the band had a good replacement (let's not forget that John was the one who gave Josh the opportunity in the first place) , now he's back with his family.

    • @masxn_t2276
      @masxn_t2276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao you’re a fucking idiot. You don’t even deserve to “love John”.

  • @giovannimanetti3747
    @giovannimanetti3747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a bad interview for a great book.
    Missed opportunity

  • @paulmactavish3355
    @paulmactavish3355 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    PITTA SAD STOP COME PLAIN ÷**

  • @douglasheineckleaes1629
    @douglasheineckleaes1629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man dude started the interview the worst way, dunno just saying.. good interview overral.

  • @aheli
    @aheli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is that homeless guy?

  • @gregorygalyan3670
    @gregorygalyan3670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Flea looks sick man I hope he is okay

    • @deadeyes2803
      @deadeyes2803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      not sick just old he is almost 60 years old

    • @angelotornetta4959
      @angelotornetta4959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      57 he said it in the beginning

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He meditated before the interview and seemed overall healthy, just tired from the book tour.

    • @Melanindi
      @Melanindi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought he looked good.