Finding LOVE in 20s

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  • Adulting diary season 2
    ep. 42💌
    Finding love in 20s✨
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  • @maannnssi
    @maannnssi ปีที่แล้ว +55

    you know since past few days ive been feeling so single looking at all those perfect lovers and couples but i guess this video was a reminder for me to stop chasing love and start being more present in the moment and heal & love myself first! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS IT WAS SOMETHING I NEEDED TO HEAR

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are love and loved 💚

  • @spxceBreeze
    @spxceBreeze ปีที่แล้ว +12

    10:06 the whole scene legit looks like the final montage from "the perks of being a wallflower" and i bet you my life that this cant get any better!!

  • @purplediaries8201
    @purplediaries8201 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I feel like I'm watching some series,where you see the lead growing up from a joyous teen to an equally responsible adult. That movie which makes you nostalgic and yk leaves some sort of aftertaste. Sid bhaiya main character era! Lessgooo. 🫂💕

    • @seulirava2662
      @seulirava2662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This is OUR journey! We’re growing together 💚🪴

  • @bisme4084
    @bisme4084 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I do want romantic love, ngl. I am fine with being single but that does not mean that i dont want a partner in the future. But i am scared. I am scared of putting myself out there..... all i have ever seen are broken relationship and marriages. All i have ever know is how much someone can hurt you if you are in a relationship. I have never seen in real life what romantic love looks like. I want to love and be loved romantically but i am scared

  • @spxceBreeze
    @spxceBreeze ปีที่แล้ว +19

    okay, just gonna add smth here after every hard hitting line from your voiceover, SO PROUD that you finally feel so secure to take the leap!! genuinely so happy and proud bc thats smth i aim to reach, and ik it's gonna take a lot of time and work and patience, and your "diary entries" alwyas help🌼

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s a journey and we’re in this together 🪴

  • @spxceBreeze
    @spxceBreeze ปีที่แล้ว +18

    w that vulnerability and utmost honesty you make your films is why we appreciate this space you've created - i LOVE that it's more for you than for us, shows that you put your heart on the sleeves💗

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This space is love because it’s made up of genuine souls like YOU! Thank you for being a part of it, honestly i am who i am here because of you guys! Thank you💚

  • @yashithas040
    @yashithas040 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude.....I feel God sent you and this video as a form of blessing for me. I just finished 1st year of college and felt sooooooooooo out of place because of all the pointers you have mentioned in this video( lack of self-confidence)
    This gave me butterflies 🦋 💓 seriously. I feel extremely happy for you.
    Just keep in head that there will always be more stuff that maybe bad but in comparison the happy moments will be way, way, way higher and more in numbers if you don't put conditions to be happy
    Happy living, everyone. Work on yourself everyday to make yourself your first priority, be healthy and happy.
    Thanks, buddy. Absolutely love the video and this chance of typing down this message directed to myself 😅, but an appreciation for you as well❤❤❤❤

  • @anushkapawar3106
    @anushkapawar3106 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jombae is just such a grateful person and his vibe so serene and calm like any girl would fall for him .I like guys like who enjoy and cherish each and every moment.I can make sure that whoever that lucky person is jombae will make you feel special for sure.Anyways my love for jombae and his aesthetic and soothing vlog will never fade.Lots of 💕 #jom clan

  • @lifelovedeath
    @lifelovedeath ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So much joy wrapped up into a single video!❤

  • @Sheetalll__
    @Sheetalll__ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was feeling so down this whole week and was not interested in
    doing anything....even felt so lonely but after watching this vedio i really feel so good and from now i am gona cherish every bit of life .A big thanks to you^⁠_⁠^

  • @aki_iiee2068
    @aki_iiee2068 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If it's a bad day...let's watch jombae...it's a very happy day...let's watch jombae... something is annoying...let's watch jombae...your videos are really necessary for the happy ending of each day...even re watching all these videos feels so good...i feel lucky to be your audience...thanks...thanks a lot jombae

  • @hana_d8533
    @hana_d8533 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    one of my favourite youtubers, so inspiring and positive all the time +the vlogs be aesthetic asf. lots of love

  • @mochasmacha
    @mochasmacha ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video because actually i have been on that path of self-love and self discovery, and i used to think that i was very selfish to think that way about myself and a narcissist but seeing the people in the comments and Jom himself gives me more confidence that it's okay to love yourself more than you love others and it is normal if other's do the same, there is nothing wrong to love your own self. Thank you so much Jom!

  • @Ch_Momin
    @Ch_Momin ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so comforting 😭 Thank you so much Jombae😔🤍

  • @KauriSato
    @KauriSato ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for posting this Jombae, this is such a powerful message! I haven't even finished watching this video yet but I want to comment. I'm still young and haven't reached my 20's yet, but I have always craved to be loved in a romantic way like many others, and I guess you could say the society around me feels kind of pressure? No one means to pressure or do any harm, it's just so many girls around me are getting married young, having kids young, and one of my biggest dreams is to be a mother.
    But one of my other big dreams is my career, and wanting to travel, love etc. So I've spent years planning for my future, from my career to marriage one day, and I am finally making progress with my career. I found my passion at seven years old, and although it hasn't changed, I myself have changed since the age of seven. And I've been realizing over the past few months, there's no rush, why stress yourself about something you can't control (love).
    I've been telling myself it makes more sense to "stress" about my career because I have much more control over that, I can graduate on my own, I can't get married on my own lol. I've been easing these thoughts into my mindset and have been realizing I need to grow and find myself before love, and people always say, love comes when you least expect it so I've been letting that settle in.
    And this video affirmed my thoughts to me, I have friends, but I feel like I only have one real friend who gets me to almost 100% point, I haven't found my people, much less my love, so I should go and grow, and find those people myself focus on my career and traveling before worrying about love. Love will come when it's best for everyone I truly believe that now, even if the time feels wrong for someone like they feel too old or too young.
    Sorry, that was long lol, what I mean to say is Jombae, thank you for posting this, thank you for giving me hope, thank you for helping me let go of the pressure I feel to find love and allowing me to just wait for it to come. I don't know if you'll read this but I hope you have a great rest of your day~

  • @pritipaul6893
    @pritipaul6893 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had tears watching this , it was lovely to watch thank you, for making mevrealize my dreams all over again❤

  • @shambhavi1357
    @shambhavi1357 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is a beautiful diary entry 🪄❤️ I have not yet learned to let go of feelings I know I shouldn't hold on to, to love myself to the best I can, to hold utmost pride in who I am may what the situation be but I know I will get there eventually (I'm on the way >

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is a journey and we’re in this together! To love and be loved 💕

  • @studyholic6687
    @studyholic6687 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video was smn i didnt know i needed..all of us can so easily be pressured by wt we see around us..but its important to feel comfartable in ones own skin and love yourself for who you are

  • @eiiraaaa
    @eiiraaaa ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You and literally you just made me to take my life joyfully. From the past few days a lot of things are not really happening for me . There's a lot of pressure for me to make the right decision. Anxiety is in its peak. But whenever literally whenever i feel low or kinda depressed you, your positive thoughts, your videos always cheer me up. Thanks for making me realise the worth of the present moments. As all this going to be just a core memory ;)) love and appreciation💕

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you never forget how loved and strong you are! You got this🥹💚

    • @eiiraaaa
      @eiiraaaa ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jombae. Yess for sure🤍

  • @notbadbutnotgood2841
    @notbadbutnotgood2841 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jombae, you are such an amazing and inspirable person and really, you have inspired many of us 😃 your voice really comforts me , I don't know why but your voice is really warm 🧡😄 and I really love listening when you talk it's just so soothing and this video was full of joy, happiness and love 💗💛 thankyou so much Jombae for all the things...🤧
    I love you too Jombae ❤

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are one of the reasons why i do what i love to do! Thank you for inspiring me🥹

    • @notbadbutnotgood2841
      @notbadbutnotgood2841 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jombae. Always keep doing what you love and thankyou Jombae for replying to each and every one of us 💙

  • @ishwarishinde9434
    @ishwarishinde9434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the last lines❤️

  • @seashells020
    @seashells020 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's just so serene to watch you guys having fun in the rain.
    Bas yahe toh chahiye some crazy people jiske saath aisa crazy stuff kar sake😩❤

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really really recommend doing that! Trust me it’s liberating 🌧️💙

  • @mairuko7266
    @mairuko7266 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The video, the voice, the vibe and Jombae himself is comfort. Never knew I needed this video. Thank you Jombae. Take care💌✨

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m happy you enjoyed it!🥹 thank you!

  • @astha9165
    @astha9165 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most asthetic and raw vlogger.
    It was more like a series kinda thing .
    Nice video , made me giggle and smile a lot ❤️❤️

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankk youu💕

  • @sachinpokhrel_
    @sachinpokhrel_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omygod my favorite video of yours bestie!! 😭😭😭😭

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OmO omo💕

  • @thoiphenchongtok9508
    @thoiphenchongtok9508 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jombae feels like home 🥺✨💓

  • @pawanaburjamagar2561
    @pawanaburjamagar2561 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me living my late 20's watching these vlogs and feeling Connected through every single time it has become my place for healing 😇

  • @sujaamoktan2497
    @sujaamoktan2497 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so good.. i wanna cry 😭😭

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว

      😭💕

  • @zindagikeanecdotes
    @zindagikeanecdotes ปีที่แล้ว

    IN TEARS

  • @momibaekhyuniiieee171
    @momibaekhyuniiieee171 ปีที่แล้ว

    My kinda healing ❣️❣️❣️

  • @soujanyajm7268
    @soujanyajm7268 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a wonderful video wowww🥰

  • @_yuninhome
    @_yuninhome ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay it was so dreamy to watch..... It must be the dream of so many youths..... 🐸🧚‍♀️

  • @srisomasundaram5678
    @srisomasundaram5678 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful narrative well presented.

  • @laxmirana2040
    @laxmirana2040 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my favourite video ❤

  • @eggxoland2757
    @eggxoland2757 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another wonderful vlog ❤

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💚

  • @anungjomang6258
    @anungjomang6258 ปีที่แล้ว

    SIDHANT!!!!

  • @Pinkipradhan_
    @Pinkipradhan_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not crying for sure 😭😭 jomjom

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว

      We’re both crying 😭😂💘

    • @Pinkipradhan_
      @Pinkipradhan_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jombae. Aiyaaaa for sure😭😆😚

  • @sangeetahoro5141
    @sangeetahoro5141 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for making this video.. ❤

  • @_yuninhome
    @_yuninhome ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're love you're so precious man keep making vlogs......... Love from Assam

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you💕

  • @nem2079
    @nem2079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not the intro broooo😭😭i felt like i was actually watching a Netflix/kdrama❤

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว

      Please best friend 💚

  • @blueemess
    @blueemess ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart is so full 🤍

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💛

  • @lemoncacao
    @lemoncacao ปีที่แล้ว

    The scooter clip is giving perks of being wallflower tunnel scene

  • @tanapheline7112
    @tanapheline7112 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur video's boost's me up to chase my dream... God bless you... ❤️🌼🌺🪔

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You deserve the universe ✨💕

  • @saharsshine663
    @saharsshine663 ปีที่แล้ว

    When u say dear diary...it feels like vampire diaries 🦇

  • @ishitasharma770
    @ishitasharma770 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    jombaee! idk if you remember me but i have been ur viewer since 2020!! i have grown so much along with you! i remember writing a comment to you while my board exams were going on i felt so worthless that time but guess what i scored 95% in my board exams ! now once again i feel lost i dont know what choices to make and feel confused and u plan to upload a video you always make me feel so much better !! i just want to thank u for putting so much effort into these videos they help me so much, u might not know this but to me u r a person i look upto or a person whom i want to be like !! I HOPE TO LOVE MYSELF IN THE PROCESS OF GROWING UP !!!!!!!!THANKS SID BHAIYA

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The way I’m smiling right noww! Thank you for joining this journey of ours! To many more growth and glow 💚✨

    • @ishitasharma770
      @ishitasharma770 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Jombae. omg i wouldve not imagined u actually replying to this ,ill cherish this forever!!!!!

  • @UrganSpaldon
    @UrganSpaldon ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of Love dear. I have been watching you from your College Shillong diaries and in love with your editing aesthetics. I want to know which app/tool you use for the voiceover ? 💟

  • @sachinpokhrel_
    @sachinpokhrel_ ปีที่แล้ว

    I did not cry no 😭

  • @blaiterawn9043
    @blaiterawn9043 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just be my boyfriend tf?! I'm a guy tho

  • @tannudhami5676
    @tannudhami5676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤

  • @sangamkhiham-bw5lr
    @sangamkhiham-bw5lr ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting for new vlog❤❤❤

  • @seulirava2662
    @seulirava2662 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜

  • @rutuparna_nayak
    @rutuparna_nayak ปีที่แล้ว

  • @anjanaalley262
    @anjanaalley262 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @pratimarai9727
    @pratimarai9727 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Anime-zd8tz
    @Anime-zd8tz ปีที่แล้ว

    🤝

  • @yataedo
    @yataedo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Msg to his future soulmate.....🩷

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🫢📔💘

  • @shidhantrai6616
    @shidhantrai6616 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Kiramkim-jv5ub
    @Kiramkim-jv5ub ปีที่แล้ว

    I am waiting

  • @diya1004
    @diya1004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish i could also go out with my friends at late night like u........but for me its something impossible

  • @anushkapawar3106
    @anushkapawar3106 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much of wait😢

  • @mrinaldaharia7549
    @mrinaldaharia7549 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello there ! I wanted to BCA in St. Edmund's college. Is it available there and if available then what is the process of admission and hostel ,mess fees etc. expenses. please answer this because CUET result will be declared soon and the counselling procedure will start .

  • @apobangpo1117
    @apobangpo1117 ปีที่แล้ว

    :)

  • @Kennyzero8
    @Kennyzero8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you too 😭💓 you deserve all the love 💓 I miss you 🫶🏻🥹

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You deserve the whole universe! Miss you💕

  • @heyysni
    @heyysni ปีที่แล้ว

    The best of all ❤ I too should try this out , got inspired by you 🫂💖

    • @Jombae.
      @Jombae.  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You should 💚