HOW TO STOP SHOPPING: 5 TIPS TO STOP BUYING CLOTHES YOU DON'T WEAR

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  • @NajaSierra
    @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hi guys, as always thanks for watching! If you enjoyed the video please give it a like! Other than that I hope you have a wonderful day ✨🐓

  • @lainelee3632
    @lainelee3632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I've mostly stopped buying things on sale because often, the reason why I bought it was because... It was on sale, not because I had planned to buy it. And looking back, it was the items paid full price for that had the most wear lasting the longest in my wardrobe. And that's simply because I bought knowing I was looking for it, needed it and liked it. I only learnt many years later of this concept of cost per wear. I'm so glad you talk about it in your channel.

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I buy good brands second hand, cashmere, leather bags etc. my costs can be as little as 10 cents per wear. I only buy great things.🤩

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are the CPW Queen ✨👸

    • @JS-ns8dr
      @JS-ns8dr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      10 cents is expensive for me, I prefer 3 😂

  • @ivajekova7747
    @ivajekova7747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I will defenetly try the tip with "Am I gonna wear it 30 times?!"😀 Sounds like very good saving tip!😁

    • @lizb4156
      @lizb4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      30 x = 1 month! Surely you wear your clothes more than that?

  • @mckaymusick123
    @mckaymusick123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Similarly to your questions, I try to separate my fantasy self from my actual self and lifestyle. I work from home, go to the gym, run errands, go to muddy dog parks- a silk blouse or fancy dress just doesn’t fit my life. I can appreciate its beauty in the store while recognizing it’s not for me.

  • @amandahuby871
    @amandahuby871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Spent so much money on clothes that were never worn over the years... the phrase "quality not quantity " springs to mind . Am 53 and don't buy anything I don't need anymore . Lovely video xx

  • @ItsJustFashion
    @ItsJustFashion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I actually decided to do a year long no buy challenge because I realized that the answer to all of those questions is a no, at least for now...I'm already half way through!

  • @kathrynhenderson4647
    @kathrynhenderson4647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love your analogy of "crow brain". I laugh and empathize every time I hear it!

  • @kawiothman
    @kawiothman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Wish more creators on TH-cam taught the importance of mindful shopping and buying sensibly! Please make more videos!! ❤️

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the wonderful comment x

  • @rhonda2337
    @rhonda2337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Growing up poor and only able to shop in thrift stores and clearance racks, I became the queen of shopping sales. But with body image problems and not knowing my style, it wasn't a healthy shopping habit in the long run. I had to learn the value of buying something expensive in order for it to last a long time and not have to replace items the didn't fit, shrunk, was scratchy, or just never wore. Great tips!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s been my experience regarding more expensive items too.
      Thanks for watching! x

  • @AmyMarks
    @AmyMarks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have been tracking everything I wear every day since July 2019. I track total wears with additional columns to track if it has hit £1 per wear and if it is has hit 30 wears. I love seeing the 30 wears and £1 per wear columns turn from red to green!

  • @marciagarcia8486
    @marciagarcia8486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There was a time not far ago I would wear a piece once 🥺 and already want another. Two years on conscious journey and now I surely wear them several times .

  • @michelleb6395
    @michelleb6395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for encouraging responsible shopping on TH-cam!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy to be of service x

  • @marciagarcia8486
    @marciagarcia8486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everybody is seeking happiness . By the time we find it not in things, we become free of consumption triggers. I love fashion, but surely now I know where my happiness is ❤️

  • @heartquaked
    @heartquaked 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hav 5 tops in my everlane bag right now... patiently waiting! My bank account and future self thank you for this video 😋

  • @jan-nl7rw
    @jan-nl7rw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great questions to ask with each and every purchase. Conscious consumption is the only smart thing that makes sense. The cost per wear is a real gauge to whether the items is worth the money and your time.

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly my thoughts! All we can do is our best but cost per wear really makes it worth it

  • @kimberlyperrotis8962
    @kimberlyperrotis8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently decided to stop buying jeans and shorts. The number of times I’ve worn these in the last three years? Zero. If I do want to, I already have plenty, all brand new.

  • @arabellascadillac6340
    @arabellascadillac6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I fell in love with that warm winter vibes! ❄️

  • @valerijadimitrovska9376
    @valerijadimitrovska9376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your energy! Thanks for sharing!

  • @mattanderson6672
    @mattanderson6672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There's some gems of wisdom here.
    I've never thought of looking at shopping like this before.
    Interesting

  • @elrienmarais2440
    @elrienmarais2440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow these tips are so good and definitely helped change my perspective.

  • @Antistylestyleclub
    @Antistylestyleclub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Talking about resell value when talking about costs per wear is so important! Good analogy :) 🌻

  • @gbrown9942
    @gbrown9942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super solid advice. Thank you!!

  • @g.m.4877
    @g.m.4877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish I had seen this 20 years ago! You are very wise.

  • @WendyDarling94
    @WendyDarling94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love each one of your videos so so much❤️🤗

  • @EmA-sm8se
    @EmA-sm8se 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Excellent tips! I really like your channel, it speaks to me more than the others out there.

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m very very glad to hear that! Thank you x

  • @anavictoriaher
    @anavictoriaher ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i just want to say, you literally always know how to put in words all those feelings that i go through each time I buy new clothes. My goal is to really stop buying new things and wear everything that I own and love, but it is so hard for me and I want to learn from you. Great video and channel.

  • @tuvaamalie
    @tuvaamalie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My biggest issue is the fear that the item will sell out if I wait before buying it... do you have any tips for how I can look at this problem differently?

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I'll probably address this more in more videos, but you can only really practice to get better. Let something you want sell out and hopefully you'll realise (not that you don't already know this on a conscious level) that nothing bad happens when that does happen and that other things you want will take it's stead.

    • @stucumins8511
      @stucumins8511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Tuva A Remember if you miss out on something, another special thing will always come along.

    • @jurysdykcja
      @jurysdykcja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And a lot of old collections one can find second hand online. I bought like this a lot of things i really wanted to have. One, two years later - 75% cheaper. And after this kind of delay if i still wanted it, it means it was meant for me.

    • @agiimaajargalsuren4987
      @agiimaajargalsuren4987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      “All these things eventually turn on us” fumio sasaki

    • @TheGatorChompion
      @TheGatorChompion ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially at lululemon!

  • @annetted5435
    @annetted5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved all the tips! Glad I found you on this minimalist journey!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome aboard x

  • @mjane821
    @mjane821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi from NZ! I just discovered your channel a few days ago and it has been very inspiring 😊 Keep up the good work!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome aboard and thank you x

  • @Deem57
    @Deem57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One strategy I have is to go shopping in my closet. Often I can find better clothes for me there than I can find in the shops.

  • @emilypasold7767
    @emilypasold7767 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your channel I used to be a shopaholic but now that I'm retired and just discovered what's my style I only buy good quality clothes no polyester love linen and cotton .

  • @elin9467
    @elin9467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I buy most clothes second hand so pretty much all of them are under 10 cents per wear now! However I go though a lot of workout clothes and those usually don't get as low before they need to be replaced

  • @merb.3576
    @merb.3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Greetings from NYC! Just discovered your channel, have seen several of your videos, and now subscribe. You make great points, succinctly and with good examples. I look forward to more great things from you and expect your channel to grow rapidly. Best of luck and have a happy, healthy 2022. ❤

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for subscribing and happy new year xx

  • @carolineg3079
    @carolineg3079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My H&M top cost as much as my Hermes bag - :) such a powerful image

  • @westvirginiascoolestcanadian
    @westvirginiascoolestcanadian 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m trying to cut down on the amount of money I spend on clothing because I am a broke college student and it’s not financially healthy for me. What works to prevent me for buying something is when I’m in the store, when something catches my eye I try to visualize myself wearing it, and where I’d wear it, what I’d do while wearing it, and how I’d look and feel in it. and if I can’t I immediately put it back. If I can, I ask myself if I’d ever realistically choose it over the similar items I already have in my closet, and about 70% of the time the answer is no. It’s very helpful.

  • @pannarr8798
    @pannarr8798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love your channel so much

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so very glad! x

  • @yap4808
    @yap4808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I decided to buy some wool sweaters, because the ones i have do have polyester in the mix and i get soooo hot, i cant stand it anymore..I will replace them, buying secondhand..I want to create a better Wardrobe 😋..xo from germany

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can so relate! Thank you for watching x

  • @shannonfleming-wood476
    @shannonfleming-wood476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved these tips and also your wintry scenery and cabin interior:)

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad, thanks for letting me know! x

  • @keodi1
    @keodi1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the tip of am i going to wear this xx amount of times? I love it! as always great video!

  • @tracygellatly1267
    @tracygellatly1267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent video! Very on point. You have inspired me to start a cost per wear tally for my wardrobe and accessories. Thank you!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s surprisingly rewarding and teachable! x

  • @maureenrose9166
    @maureenrose9166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting video with wonderful and helpful guidelines! Thanks for inspiring us!

  • @marianao2270
    @marianao2270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So helpful. I am about to start ion this journey

  • @katiemacmillan3122
    @katiemacmillan3122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this video so much!! Subscribed !!! : ))))

  • @kimberlyperrotis8962
    @kimberlyperrotis8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What I really want: daily comfort.

  • @heidifarris1458
    @heidifarris1458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    spare oom.... that brings back memories (:

  • @destinyforreal9744
    @destinyforreal9744 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good I love it thanks

  • @samanthawhitted525
    @samanthawhitted525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. I’m very much run by my crow brain and my crow brain also said “she looks amazing in that yellow shirt tho” ☺️

  • @RO-wy5lx
    @RO-wy5lx ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video! Just subscribed! Mindfully shopping for long-sleeved pink top with stripe down sleeves. No luck yet. I can select, try on and leave a store empty-handed when nothing looks and/or feels right or I own a similar one I'm already not wearing because I have favourite go to pieces😒 Rosie 🇨🇦

  • @erikamaria2875
    @erikamaria2875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, what a great channel created by a beautiful young lady...... I declutter my wardrobe every spring and fall but still do have maaaany items. Recently I bought a bunch of new pieces because I feel like I am getting ready for a new beginning in my life and my style has changed quite a bit.... Yesterday a thought popped up in my head, you never ever must buy clothes anymore, now you have everything you need and you wanted...... And guess what happened a few minutes ago 😉😂... I was lead to your channel. How amazing is that!? Thumbs up, I love what you do..... Greetings from Austria!

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you found me x

  • @larissaaocm
    @larissaaocm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your content ❤️

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t realize you were married. I didn’t know how I missed this. How long? Watching this again.❤️❤️❤️

  • @cabbagecrosby1993
    @cabbagecrosby1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Crow brain,” I like that analogy! 😂

  • @deedeec776
    @deedeec776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great and useful tips

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you thought so x

  • @freesoul2804
    @freesoul2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful and encouraging 🤗

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm very glad you think so! x

  • @ameliewunderkind3449
    @ameliewunderkind3449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great! Trank you!

  • @sarahthatcher123
    @sarahthatcher123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah...a few different takes on this...thank you.

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy you thought so x

  • @gabrielas3602
    @gabrielas3602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, thanks for the Idea of the useless trinkets.

  • @rowbex3522
    @rowbex3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice video

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💖

  • @kimberlyperrotis8962
    @kimberlyperrotis8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t think expected resale value should be taken into account, except for luxury bags and solid gold jewelry, maybe. Clothing and accessories lose all their value instantly because clothes are so inexpensive nowadays. There are many poor people where I live, they won’t pay $20 for a higher-quality used item, they’ll go to Target or H&M and get two new items for that price. My lowest cost-per-wear items are mostly fast fashion, or one level up high-street. The main thing is how many times an item is worn. That said, I do have quality standards for my cheaper items, mainly no synthetic fiber fabrics.

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have always wanted a black cashmere sweater. What do you think?

  • @emilypasold7767
    @emilypasold7767 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now it's about quality not quantity as a matter of fact you can buy more quality clothing to second hand and it's still in good shapes.

  • @dinahassan4320
    @dinahassan4320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Naja, could you allow The captain option please, as English is not my first language so it would be very useful if u allow such option , thanks for the video anyways 🌹

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Dina, absolutely. I always have the automatic captions on, but for some reason, they sometimes take a while to appear!
      Thanks for watching x

  • @lizasoliman723
    @lizasoliman723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:28 priceless humor

  • @destinyforreal9744
    @destinyforreal9744 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I saw this yesterday before I went and bought a bunch of clothes

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  ปีที่แล้ว

      Return it if you can :)

  • @duajeveten2745
    @duajeveten2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have on shopping two problems, first buy clothes smaller size and shoes big size because my size is sold out and I told my self... stop, this is stupid it.

  • @clarabella8
    @clarabella8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! You have a daith piercing! Do you recommend it? Was it painful to get your ear piercied? I was considering doing it since many say it helps with migraine and even some doctors recommend it as a possible solution... I think that it is also very cute and elegant :)

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I only recommend it if you want it of course. I have one in both ears and I think it’s sooo beautiful.
      I heard about the migraine thing too and I would say it’s definitely worth trying if there’s a chance it would work, don’t you think? 😊
      I’ve had 15 piercings in the ears in total and this was the most painful one because it’s hard for the piecer to get inside and get a grip, so they have to pull as they pierce. But it’s over in 5 seconds, which is no time!

  • @MY-rh5fw
    @MY-rh5fw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not sure I’m understanding you correctly by “crow brain”. But if you are talking about our attraction to shiny things and collecting them, I’m pretty sure its a magpie and not crow😁

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And you would be wrong! Neither bird have been scientifically proven to be attracted to trinkets, actually, it's been disproven. But anecdotally both will steal trinkets like coins, stones etc and I grew up with crow anecdotes.
      Seems like you understood me perfectly though x

  • @chika_333
    @chika_333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have bought 6 shorts in the month of january alone and have bought shorts in the past (summer 2020) that i have not worn yet. 😅🥲 i dont know why i couldnt stop. the only month/weather i could potentially wear it is August when its peak summer here in japan. other months its just too cold for me 😭 is it because im deprived of summer/hot weather? since i used to live in a tropical country in philippines where its basically various state of hot.

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe that and out of habit? Sounds like you're unconscious and not really in a mindful place when shopping for shorts. Like you said yourself, you can't even really wear them. Maybe it's time to set up some rules and challenges for yourself for a while regarding shorts xx

    • @chika_333
      @chika_333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NajaSierra i kept thinking i might be coming home for vacation and thats the time when i could use them but then covid happened and i dont think i'l be going home soon enough 😭 i'l do some downsizing and sell some of the things i hoard

    • @KathleenGreer-hk6yl
      @KathleenGreer-hk6yl 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have only 2 shorts. I live in the mountains so summer itself is short. I have a black short and 1 khaki colored short. So neutral and goes with just about every shirt and t-shirt in my closet. I've had these shorts for about 10 years. Still look like new. When I downsized upon retirement, I adopted the capsule wardrobe concept. Now, everything in my closet gets worn and I only kept things I felt great in. I no longer impulse buy. At the beginning of each year, I make a short list of items I would like to add to my wardrobe. Then I go back and look at each item and ask myself if this item would work with my existing wardrobe. Often, I decide I don't really need that item. I've become very intentional about spending. It saves a lot of money and I always feel "put together."

  • @leeanncomeau8930
    @leeanncomeau8930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think I will wake up every weekend watching this video to stop myself and my stupid crow brain.

  • @valeriebouchard7365
    @valeriebouchard7365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crow brain!! 😂

  • @mochalatte665
    @mochalatte665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just watched Narnia. IS “SPARE OOM” @ 0:11 A REFERENCE OR JUST A COINCIDENCE I NEED TO KNOW

    • @NajaSierra
      @NajaSierra  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it's a Narnia reference, it was my favorite movie as a young teenager xx

    • @mochalatte665
      @mochalatte665 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NajaSierra hahaha I love it!

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mother-in-law! I didn’t realize you were married. How long?

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching again. How you still seeing your boyfriend?