Wisdom is what you get when you don’t get what you wanted. Especially when you marry the wrong person. Better to get your wisdom from the Word, than to spend years in misery with someone who is a thorn in your side (“in the flesh”). God gave Paul one of those, but the rest of us should avoid bringing a “messenger of Satan” on ourselves.
Oh no. They said the one church was Hillsong. There's is some really bad stuff that happens within their organization. And it's worldwide not just one area..
Sorry, but I just don't like this episode. You should have shown other sects of Christianity other than Evangelical Protestant. It would have been better to have seen the dating experience from the lives of a Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, and Evangelical, not just Evangelical.
Allie S, I agree. But for curiosity's sake, it was educational for me to watch the Evangelical Christians sing and dance in rock music accompanied by a drum and electric guitar ensemble when doing their worship like being in a rock concert as compared to a Roman Catholic mass which is solemn and very traditional with a priest, etc. But during the gathering of fellow Christian female youth, they were teaching about avoiding premarital-sex, which is also taught to Catholics....right time, right place, right partner...which should be done only within marriage, with one's husband, etc. Since this is Great Britain, I hope to see a protestant of the Puritan Anglican Church represented here in this episode, too.
OmG, this episode was so beautiful! I really hope that things worked out for Katie and Jake -- although one of the comments suggest that they broke up...
MargauMonteyRibera it’s not a sin most Christians believe that eventually God will reveal their soulmate to them. Christians that want to be proactive usually just end up going on mainstream / Christian dating sites.
It's SO SAD sex before marriage has become as natural as drinking water for most Christians. When I saw most Muslim girls get married virgins, that really brought to Islam, as I realized those people take religion seriously. I imagine the huge struggle of a true Christian who looks for marriage with no sex before it, because I grew up as a protestant and fornication was REALLY NOT a big deal.
+Paulo Piula I am sorry that you are saying that. There are a lot of christian girls who have lived a pure life. And where I grew up in a christian community, fornication was a REALLY big deal and still is.
Fornication is bad & must be taking seriously! But if one repents his/her sin then he/she can get married without a bad feeling!! People who were raped are not the one who did wrong!!! The need to forgive the one who did bad to them!! They didn't sin!!! And I have met atheist couples who said 'it's the best thing to get married as a virgin to one & only person & be 4ever together. Also the first night & the sex life after is the best!!! The connection between those people is stronger.' And also people who were not vergins when they met their best partner were sad about it & suggested to stay clean till that one partner comes!! I love to discuss this kind of subjects with everyone. And that were the responses. Please open your bible & ask the people around yourself!!!!
Fornication should not be done if you can help it. It can be very hard if one lives in a permissive secular society. The Christian concept of the sacredness of the sex act, with no premarital sex as well as keeping the purity of the body, mind and spirit, has been delineated because of other coveted ideas of liberation and freedom and perhaps, off-shots of some sect in protestantism, and or agnotism and atheism. Those forced into sex like rape, molestations, and perhaps poverty should not be judged. They have suffered enough when their freedom and freewill were swept-out of their control. Those who uses their religion to commit such heinous crime and pretend they are righteous men are evil and a scourge to a society that is supposed to uphold the law of God.
No, it didn't work out with Jake and Katie. "Unfortunately the relationship didn't work out quite like Jake and I expected, but we've managed to stay really good friends. Jake had to fly back to California from England a week after we met so we didn't really get a chance to get to know each other properly during the filming. So now I'm getting ready to head back to England in a couple of days. I'm excited to get back to my youth work and see my family! I'll be sad to leave Jake and his family."
The start of my relationship with my fiance was a lot like Jake and Katie. I traveled overseas for three weeks and we met and just knew that God wanted us to be together. He is everything I wanted and needed but never admitted to anyone. God knew. We only had 12 days before I came back to the US. Long distance relationships are hard, but Skype helps. I really hope Katie and Jake get married they seem like such a good match.
"He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." Proverbs 18:22. My dedicated Christian sisters don't run men down! Let Jesus send your husband to you in His timing.
Plenty of Pharisee in the comments section' faith has works! As a christian you have to position yourself well, make your self available and maintain a Godly standard! GOD did not say stay stay in a tower until prince charming is able to locate you! We live in a fallen world, we must learn to hear God and take a step of faith when necessary! The Samaritan lady came to the well that's how she met Jesus! I pray that all these people are able to find suitable partners and Godly relationships
I thought I was Christian...Evangelical Christian... thats a whole nother level of Christianity right there... with the no kissing and what not. But you know what I feel what ever you have to do (or not do) to keep with what you believe in... then do it... I wish them all well. I hope they all find their matches :)
I would stray away from long distance/different countries relationship. I was in one with a guy from Ireland once and it ended tragically still hurts to this day deep down.
Thank you but It's ok, I now have a wonderful American guy who really does love me. :) As far as Irish guys thats the exact impression I had as well is that many are cheaters. "maybe best to stay away" Oh well there many fish in the sea! :)
It's difficult because it all depends on the people in the relationships. Can't say my long distance relationship will last forever since I'm young and naive and we're 1400+ km apart, but there's plenty of examples of successful ones so just like with any normal relationship you have to realise that the same scenario works out differently with different people.
rich is one thirsty ass dudes n the women r pickin up on it right of the bat!!! lol n did they jus play "ante up" by M.O.P at the " christian" get together??
ah i see. But only to be clear. only because somebody is non-jewish and non-muslim it doesnt mean he is automatically christian. For being christian there are some whatever requrements (i guess stuff like baptizing) according to the laws of whatever branch of christianity....but yeah i know what you mean, so its specially activ. I understood that these are mostly protestants (or whatever you call this correctly) or is this also common for example among serbian/greek/russian orthodox, catholic etc?
No. Born again means that basically *REALLY* believe in God to be the truth and the things you learned as a child you have proven to be true through your own life experience and struggles. It changes your outlook on life and requires a lot of learning and research. Only 16% of Born Again Christians believe Evolution (a theory that dismisses God as the creator). 51% of American Catholics and 80% of American Jews believe in Evolution (basically breaking the first commandment and disowns God as your creater, but rather 'mans ideas').
SamOwenI I have to agree with you simply put to be born again is to take your life back to God. Some of us let life moments move us outside of God after that is realized. You can rededicate your life to God therefore you are born again.
Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh. Proverbs 18:22 This should explain a woman is to be pursued by a man not vise versa. When you find something of value;it is a privilege to examine it. When the value of a wife is found she is the favor of God. Proverbs 31 is example of how a wife should be. And very much how a single woman mature to be as a wife.
but what happened later with Laura & Richard, Jake & Katy???? Without an end story seems to be incomplete... don't you think so..??? atleast one of them should have got married or you guys would have given them a bit more time :-(
Richard, are you allowing the Spirit of God to lead you to your wife? Stop playing up to these secular camera people! They do NOT have any dedicated relationship with Jesus Christ, so please don't let them lead you astray!
hold on...Richard gives himself a year? ahh, excuse me, what about what God has to say on the matter? Did God give him a year? U can't rush something like finding your partner,the one for this life in a year and decide now is the time..only got a year left..like...no. Should have known that fr the 'Christian' club. Oh please just watch this sermon about Christian courtship WITH scriptural basis please b4 we err. It is Christian Courtship & Marriage by Jeremiah Davis..it will become clear
Scoffs 🤔. These women need to look in their mirror! The love at first site, overrated. You need to know, looks fade but the way they treat you, love you, take care of you is better. Being a friend and knowing the truth about someone is better. I’ve never had a guy friend that didn’t fall in love with me. I’m so blind I don’t always notice. Treat him like a King and he will treat you like a princess. Remember how you treat someone is how they treat you. And if you can’t meet someone in the grocery store, something is wrong with you. IMO ✌️❤️🦋👸🤴 P.S. men are attracted to the color teal blue and red. Not black, not grey. Oh Katie only likes Jake because he’s an American boy and lives in Cali. Truth!
shamvara What do you love to do? You like sports or concerts? Do you sit at those events silently with no movement? And that's just the natural side. Jumping around isn't a requirement but the Holy Spirit will inspire you to praise in specific ways. Remember King David danced before the Lord.
I think if it will be looking someone for a good Christian then it will not be in the club.I am Orthodox but I can't accept any man drinking alcohol because that it means is not a belliver in the total sens.Women should be decent dressed and not showing out to much them legs or breasts.Some people are just making some bad ideas about Christian's not even knowing the difference between it,Christianity includes lot of religious in it.God bless you all. Amin
Monica Anicai because legs are so sexual right?? I get the breast thing. I’m not religious but don’t think women who wear tops with their breast hanging out have class or self respect. But legs? If it’s modest in the sense of not to short, and is a nice skirt or shorts or dress is fine!
If this young girl is going to all these big churches to find a boy, it’s wrong. We go to church to find GOD and a spiritual cleansing to die GODS will. She hasn’t mentioned GOD just trying to look for a guy. So sad. How can you think of how he feels about her on one day she met him. I call it being Desperate. She needs to actually find Jesus and repent and follow God’s word.
Katie, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. The Lord will settle you in His timing.
Wisdom is what you get when you don’t get what you wanted. Especially when you marry the wrong person. Better to get your wisdom from the Word, than to spend years in misery with someone who is a thorn in your side (“in the flesh”). God gave Paul one of those, but the rest of us should avoid bringing a “messenger of Satan” on ourselves.
@@gerryjames9720 that pretty wise
A big smile came to my face EVERY time there was a Kate and Jake scene. Sooooo cute
yeah
this is real life for christian single all over the world.... soo true and authentic content.
I LOVE THIS. I PRAY I FIND MY SOUL MATE TOO
Yes it's true Amen
@@makindemyiuv did you found someone yet?
@@bigdata9605 Not yet. But I believe in God and his promises
@@Makinde_Taiwo_Mary You can't just wait.. you have to put yourself out there.. meet people
I would love to see you do one one Eastern Orthodox Christians. ;)
This has opened my eyes im impressed with it
Oh no. They said the one church was Hillsong. There's is some really bad stuff that happens within their organization. And it's worldwide not just one area..
Sorry, but I just don't like this episode. You should have shown other sects of Christianity other than Evangelical Protestant. It would have been better to have seen the dating experience from the lives of a Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, and Evangelical, not just Evangelical.
Allie S, I agree. But for curiosity's sake, it was educational for me to watch the Evangelical Christians sing and dance in rock music accompanied by a drum and electric guitar ensemble when doing their worship like being in a rock concert as compared to a Roman Catholic mass which is solemn and very traditional with a priest, etc. But during the gathering of fellow Christian female youth, they were teaching about avoiding premarital-sex, which is also taught to Catholics....right time, right place, right partner...which should be done only within marriage, with one's husband, etc.
Since this is Great Britain, I hope to see a protestant of the Puritan Anglican Church represented here in this episode, too.
OmG, this episode was so beautiful! I really hope that things worked out for Katie and Jake -- although one of the comments suggest that they broke up...
Richard's first date was so beautiful and smart. She was too good for him! ❤️
Watching in 2019.. Praise God There So Many Youth Worshiping.
tjanks for uploading this x
I don’t think I’ve ever been so invested in a relationship as I was in Katy and Jake from 2012 😂
Love this documentary. Hope and pray I'll find a guy who loves and is afraid of God too :)
14:07 - that guy is wearing one of those hats many think they look suave in, but really they look really silly! XD
So funny when the woman preacher says "Can I really do that?" 6:10
Why don't christians have a matchmaker?
No it's not Isaac and Rebecca
MargauMonteyRibera it’s not a sin most Christians believe that eventually God will reveal their soulmate to them. Christians that want to be proactive usually just end up going on mainstream / Christian dating sites.
I freaked out when Go by Hillsong came on love that song!
24:02 girl that ain't no worship 💀💀 it's a CONCERT but with nun music LMAOOO
I want pure orthodox Christian and catholic partner finding.
That was amazing! I hope she is happy with Jake. He is really sweet.
It's SO SAD sex before marriage has become as natural as drinking water for most Christians.
When I saw most Muslim girls get married virgins, that really brought to Islam, as I realized those people take religion seriously.
I imagine the huge struggle of a true Christian who looks for marriage with no sex before it, because I grew up as a protestant and fornication was REALLY NOT a big deal.
+Paulo Piula I am sorry that you are saying that. There are a lot of christian girls who have lived a pure life. And where I grew up in a christian community, fornication was a REALLY big deal and still is.
I'm a muslim and my husband and I both waited, and after 10 years together, it's the best decision we ever made.
Fornication is bad & must be taking seriously! But if one repents his/her sin then he/she can get married without a bad feeling!! People who were raped are not the one who did wrong!!! The need to forgive the one who did bad to them!! They didn't sin!!! And I have met atheist couples who said 'it's the best thing to get married as a virgin to one & only person & be 4ever together. Also the first night & the sex life after is the best!!! The connection between those people is stronger.' And also people who were not vergins when they met their best partner were sad about it & suggested to stay clean till that one partner comes!! I love to discuss this kind of subjects with everyone. And that were the responses. Please open your bible & ask the people around yourself!!!!
There are more important things to value in life than a hymen. Purity is a shitty concept, nothing to do with being a good person.
Fornication should not be done if you can help it. It can be very hard if one lives in a permissive secular society. The Christian concept of the sacredness of the sex act, with no premarital sex as well as keeping the purity of the body, mind and spirit, has been delineated because of other coveted ideas of liberation and freedom and perhaps, off-shots of some sect in protestantism, and or agnotism and atheism.
Those forced into sex like rape, molestations, and perhaps poverty should not be judged. They have suffered enough when their freedom and freewill were swept-out of their control. Those who uses their religion to commit such heinous crime and pretend they are righteous men are evil and a scourge to a society that is supposed to uphold the law of God.
why can't richard just date his work mate Zoey, they know eachother well, and Zoey actually cares for Richard
+martyn580 cuz she's fat and ugly....
Eric Ness what a godly reply...no wonder the world's a mess
So rude
Perhaps they don't want to ruin the friendship ❤ Sometimes, friendships last longer than romantic relationships 😊
No, it didn't work out with Jake and Katie.
"Unfortunately the relationship didn't work out quite like Jake and I expected, but we've managed to stay really good friends. Jake had to fly back to California from England a week after we met so we didn't really get a chance to get to know each other properly during the filming. So now I'm getting ready to head back to England in a couple of days. I'm excited to get back to my youth work and see my family! I'll be sad to leave Jake and his family."
So sad, you both seem so perfect together
The start of my relationship with my fiance was a lot like Jake and Katie. I traveled overseas for three weeks and we met and just knew that God wanted us to be together. He is everything I wanted and needed but never admitted to anyone. God knew. We only had 12 days before I came back to the US. Long distance relationships are hard, but Skype helps. I really hope Katie and Jake get married they seem like such a good match.
Thank you Heather B
I've watched - and been fascinated by - all the other docs in this series. But these people are just BORING. #yawn
By boring do you mean they have standards!
We knew Richard wanted a Caucasian 🤬🤬🤬
Not being rude but not surprising
"He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." Proverbs 18:22. My dedicated Christian sisters don't run men down! Let Jesus send your husband to you in His timing.
Nothing wrong with making your self available! Making sure your in church and involved in christian fellowship.
Just wondering but why's everybody in the church either black or white. or is it just a coincidence
That girl at the end was dodgy... 'But that's not ghettooooo!' Poor Richard, his taste...
Plenty of Pharisee in the comments section' faith has works! As a christian you have to position yourself well, make your self available and maintain a Godly standard! GOD did not say stay stay in a tower until prince charming is able to locate you! We live in a fallen world, we must learn to hear God and take a step of faith when necessary! The Samaritan lady came to the well that's how she met Jesus! I pray that all these people are able to find suitable partners and Godly relationships
Bless Richard. I hope he found a good women. If not I would say don’t put to much pressure on things and just try and relax.
I thought I was Christian...Evangelical Christian... thats a whole nother level of Christianity right there... with the no kissing and what not. But you know what I feel what ever you have to do (or not do) to keep with what you believe in... then do it... I wish them all well. I hope they all find their matches :)
If u were a Christian u would know any kind of touching of sexual nature before marriage is a sin ....
Wowwwww 54:27... katy in the car a heart in the sky :D!!!
god richard just comes off as so desperate and gives every chick the full court press
I would stray away from long distance/different countries relationship. I was in one with a guy from Ireland once and it ended tragically still hurts to this day deep down.
I am sorry to hear. :( I have always wanted an irish bloke :D Though hear they cheat a lot.
Thank you but It's ok, I now have a wonderful American guy who really does love me. :) As far as Irish guys thats the exact impression I had as well is that many are cheaters. "maybe best to stay away" Oh well there many fish in the sea! :)
I disagree. I was in a long distance relationship while I was at uni.I am now engaged and we are stronger than ever
It's difficult because it all depends on the people in the relationships. Can't say my long distance relationship will last forever since I'm young and naive and we're 1400+ km apart, but there's plenty of examples of successful ones so just like with any normal relationship you have to realise that the same scenario works out differently with different people.
Happily married now to a wonderful amazing guy.
I found this to be so beautiful
Kate and Jake split up when she was visiting him in California😢💔
when munters get picky they'll never find a man haha
Was there ever updates for these people on where their love lives are now?
www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/legacy/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
24:22 does anyone know the song in the background?
What happened to the English girl and American fella????? so romantic and God bless both of them.
I love Jesus who teaches love
My phone rang at 37:46. For a minute, thought he'd found redemption . ..
Katie and Jack are such a nice couple, love them a lot! I hope that they will get married as soon as possible, and live the best moments toghether
www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
I agree with RK Holm - please tell me they got married! Canada wants to know!
Deborah Barry www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
Wow! Jake❤
I wish there was an update. I want to know if Kate and Jake got married
is katy still seeing jack or are they married yet. so cute those 2.
why doesnt Richard marry Anna?
rich is one thirsty ass dudes n the women r pickin up on it right of the bat!!! lol n did they jus play "ante up" by M.O.P at the " christian" get together??
i just LOVE jake and katie!!
Too bad about jake And katie breaking up afterwards, sucks
Is there any way we can find out what happened with these people?
YT4Me57 www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
it would be nice to have an update on kathy and jake
They split at the airport! Did they get married or not?! Tell me they did! :)
Deborah Barry Thank you. :)
Thank you!
So what happened with Katie and Jake?????!!!!!???
richard is so closeted lol
Of all the criteria for dating, age should not matter so much
Does anyone know what song is playing at 52:38?
Thank you.
Rihanna - Take a Bow, I think.
Thank you! :D
How come he doesn't just date Anna?
what do they mean by "born again"
ah i see. But only to be clear. only because somebody is non-jewish and non-muslim it doesnt mean he is automatically christian. For being christian there are some whatever requrements (i guess stuff like baptizing) according to the laws of whatever branch of christianity....but yeah i know what you mean, so its specially activ. I understood that these are mostly protestants (or whatever you call this correctly) or is this also common for example among serbian/greek/russian orthodox, catholic etc?
No. Born again means that basically *REALLY* believe in God to be the truth and the things you learned as a child you have proven to be true through your own life experience and struggles. It changes your outlook on life and requires a lot of learning and research. Only 16% of Born Again Christians believe Evolution (a theory that dismisses God as the creator). 51% of American Catholics and 80% of American Jews believe in Evolution (basically breaking the first commandment and disowns God as your creater, but rather 'mans ideas').
SamOwenI I have to agree with you simply put to be born again is to take your life back to God. Some of us let life moments move us outside of God after that is realized. You can rededicate your life to God therefore you are born again.
Funny watch this a year on!
So happy for Katy finding her ideal man.
Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh.
Proverbs 18:22
This should explain a woman is to be pursued by a man not vise versa. When you find something of value;it is a privilege to examine it. When the value of a wife is found she is the favor of God.
Proverbs 31 is example of how a wife should be. And very much how a single woman mature to be as a wife.
Katie and Jake are so cute...facebook official...LOL
I don’t need to be told what to do
but what happened later with Laura & Richard, Jake & Katy???? Without an end story seems to be incomplete... don't you think so..??? atleast one of them should have got married or you guys would have given them a bit more time :-(
kanchan7777 www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
type in jake and katie strictly soulmates and click the first link .
I cant believe this, katie and jake broke up. :/
what song was it on 44:09
How can we find out if Jake and Katie ever got married?!
S Pateman www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2012/01/strictly-soulmates-what-happen.shtml
Oh yes you are the real Lorraine. Since the programme, did you find a partner ?
aww thank you x
Richard, are you allowing the Spirit of God to lead you to your wife? Stop playing up to these secular camera people! They do NOT have any dedicated relationship with Jesus Christ, so please don't let them lead you astray!
Ia m SO glad I'm an Episcopalian (American Anglican)!
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+Airah WSA screw you...God loves all his children equally you daft sod
No, he loves me best.
I love Jesus ❤
I'm sure that Richard will find a very sweet and kind wife.
hold on...Richard gives himself a year? ahh, excuse me, what about what God has to say on the matter? Did God give him a year? U can't rush something like finding your partner,the one for this life in a year and decide now is the time..only got a year left..like...no. Should have known that fr the 'Christian' club. Oh please just watch this sermon about Christian courtship WITH scriptural basis please b4 we err. It is Christian Courtship & Marriage by Jeremiah Davis..it will become clear
Richard fancies Snow Bunnies. That bunny was a RACIST
The other episodes are sooooooo much better ( Muslim, Jewish and Asian), this one is really boring.
Oh bless.
So heartwarming Katy's story. Others, thumbs down.
WHAT HAPPENED??? Scoffs 😞❤️🇬🇧❤️🇺🇸
24:15 I'd rather go to a metal concert 💀
so God didn't give her, her last broken relationship? lol
I think Richard looks materialistic which I think hinders him ,maybe he should date his assistant
Richard, have you asked God if Anna is your wife?
JAchica11 How would God answer that question? He's not a genie... Or an oracle...
How sweet.
The only FB statuses that I will use are "single" and "married".
Scoffs 🤔. These women need to look in their mirror! The love at first site, overrated. You need to know, looks fade but the way they treat you, love you, take care of you is better. Being a friend and knowing the truth about someone is better.
I’ve never had a guy friend that didn’t fall in love with me. I’m so blind I don’t always notice.
Treat him like a King and he will treat you like a princess.
Remember how you treat someone is how they treat you. And if you can’t meet someone in the grocery store, something is wrong with you. IMO ✌️❤️🦋👸🤴
P.S. men are attracted to the color teal blue and red. Not black, not grey.
Oh Katie only likes Jake because he’s an American boy and lives in Cali. Truth!
JAKE AND KATIE
After coming into contact with a religious man I always feel I must wash my hands. Friedrich Nietzsche, me too mate, me too.
I’d eat the men for breakfast ha
i love jesus more than anything but MAN!!!! 'happy clapping evangelicals' are cringeworthy! no no no....
There on fire for Jesus... if your going to be a Christian you at least should be passionate about it.
Yeah, but that's just sad..
In the Psalms it says to clap when your worshipping... Whats sad is you think people are 'too happy' 'MAN!!!' JESUS DIED FOR YOU.
God and Jesus are the same people. Just like my mum is a mother and a wife.
On fire is not literal it basically means pumped or excited.
shamvara
What do you love to do? You like sports or concerts? Do you sit at those events silently with no movement? And that's just the natural side. Jumping around isn't a requirement but the Holy Spirit will inspire you to praise in specific ways. Remember King David danced before the Lord.
I don't understand evangelism.
I think if it will be looking someone for a good Christian then it will not be in the club.I am Orthodox but I can't accept any man drinking alcohol because that it means is not a belliver in the total sens.Women should be decent dressed and not showing out to much them legs or breasts.Some people are just making some bad ideas about Christian's not even knowing the difference between it,Christianity includes lot of religious in it.God bless you all. Amin
Monica Anicai because legs are so sexual right?? I get the breast thing. I’m not religious but don’t think women who wear tops with their breast hanging out have class or self respect. But legs? If it’s modest in the sense of not to short, and is a nice skirt or shorts or dress is fine!
That's a really rude and judgmental comment.
BIG RICHARD
If this young girl is going to all these big churches to find a boy, it’s wrong. We go to church to find GOD and a spiritual cleansing to die GODS will. She hasn’t mentioned GOD just trying to look for a guy. So sad. How can you think of how he feels about her on one day she met him. I call it being Desperate. She needs to actually find Jesus and repent and follow God’s word.