I Lost My Band Members | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 102 | Season 3

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
  • A guest shares his story on how the loss of his band members/friends led to his depression
    Studio Guests: Amstel Maboa
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  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Amstel’s mom is friends with my grandmother from Mamelodi. I got to spend a lot of time with her as a child. She is such a sweetheart. Always showed us kindness as kids🥺
    I never got to meet Amstel during those days because he was fully a superstar. But he comes from a very warm family ❤️

    • @mokgadimatli2246
      @mokgadimatli2246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so warm 💛

    • @zetmbonambi4425
      @zetmbonambi4425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Woow,thank you for saying that. We live in the World where nothing is said about good kind people.Many people only talk when they have bad things to say about othern people.May God bless you more as you can say good things you know about people. Stay blessed.

  • @rubysidwell7324
    @rubysidwell7324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He is so articulate, sophisticated and lovely to watch. Very humble and calming he is. Loved this.

  • @bin2kono328
    @bin2kono328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱 watching from Germany am hooked up with unpacked ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @memorymalunga670
    @memorymalunga670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    H is so articulate. There is something just so beautiful about him. He comes across as a very genuine, kind and down to earth person. His energy is very warm and beautiful.

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a she

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ahviwe You're right. Correction taken.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ahviwe Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@relebogilemabotja215 My apologies. I actually changed my original post after someone corrected me and told me he is "she", so now I'm changing it up again.

  • @tukulaobed7602
    @tukulaobed7602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Amstel is so well spoken.

  • @molatelomfupa.gossip
    @molatelomfupa.gossip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    It’s been so many years in the industry but I must say Amstel still looks good..

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes i agree with u compared to the rough life they went through

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's not aging atall.

  • @vusimuzimasina8924
    @vusimuzimasina8924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I bumped into him once at this other perfume shop, ugh and when I tell you he was so sweet to us (family and I) and the guy who worked there

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched. Amstel is an absolutely amazing soul 💕💕

  • @sinethembatwani1460
    @sinethembatwani1460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Amstel is so intelligent, so beautiful and so inspiring. What a storyteller 🥰🥰

  • @Bongsipo
    @Bongsipo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chomi zika Lebo yoo bengaphaphi shuu🤣remember episode kwa City Sesla singing butterfly butterfly oh Koyo the smile 😍... Amstel aa bhoza yam ndkcanywa💕

  • @faithsdollsville2662
    @faithsdollsville2662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Heh! Amstel was my course buddy at Wits Tech. We used to hangout together with another friend of mine. We studied Sports Administration and Marketing together with Stanton Frederick and Owen Nkumane a former rugby player.

  • @ntombozukomatomane9826
    @ntombozukomatomane9826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I grew up watching Three Sum I loved Koyo more may they continue to RIP. Love this interview, Rele always delivers 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123
      @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Koyo was from Gugulethu in Cape Town and he was friends with my older sister. What an amazing person, such a lovely soul.. Amstel bethuna so amazing and honesty

  • @sibusisoradebe9642
    @sibusisoradebe9642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They were (3 sum) the "IT" boys of the early 2000s.....this was before the social media days.....i still recall running into them back in 2001 alongside lebo mathosa in randburg drawing attention as usual......Thank God he is still and may God sustain him ❤

  • @mphoentlemahumapelo4021
    @mphoentlemahumapelo4021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This just took me back when I was young. What moment. Amstel still looks good and I love his energy. Always gracious. Keep going 🙌🏽

  • @boitumelopetlele
    @boitumelopetlele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My favourite. 🎉🎉❤️🤩 Enjoyed the interview. I remember seeing them for the first time in Rustenburg 2004/5. Blessings Amstel💐

    • @sibusisoradebe9642
      @sibusisoradebe9642 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw them in 2001 with lebo mathosa and i knew they were destined for greater things

  • @ratiwabammekwa4219
    @ratiwabammekwa4219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always command the people who are still here to tell their lovely stories, i wish Lebo was still with us to share hers...lovely Amstel

  • @brightdyondzisani4651
    @brightdyondzisani4651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I first met these crazy people they're were sharing a stage with Lebo Mathosa Koyo called me out the same way he did with Amstel after their performance I miss them so bad. This was a great interview, Amstel is a legend

  • @basadibontsi5866
    @basadibontsi5866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I HV been wondering where is Amstel woow we happy to see you❤️❤️

  • @tinotenda.beasty3973
    @tinotenda.beasty3973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The way I'm getting hooked on unpacked lol hopefully one day I have something to unpack lol I love you

    • @mbhuda2208
      @mbhuda2208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol we will keep waiting

  • @eugeniamanana9424
    @eugeniamanana9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May God bless Amstel. Strong and lovable personality.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for giving our loved icons their flowers 💐

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
    @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a closer I didn't think I needed. Thank you Amstel and Lebo.

  • @utjizembisa
    @utjizembisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Namibia 🇳🇦 present 😊

  • @tshohanamokhothu4462
    @tshohanamokhothu4462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pampamparas! Amstel... You're still looking as young and as stylish as ever! Much love ♥

  • @pinyepinye1997
    @pinyepinye1997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I might not have been born during his/their prime error but I can feel it and see it when he says they gave a performance and the audience asked for more 😆😆😍😍 I believe it ,just by the energy he is giving off so monumental and cheerful #legend

  • @sihleqengqeleka7125
    @sihleqengqeleka7125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh man... I remember this group... You guys did wonders!

  • @hlonimokobodi5776
    @hlonimokobodi5776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Much luv for you Amstel 💓 Thanks for bringing him in Relebogile

  • @charlottemthombeni5922
    @charlottemthombeni5922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amstel you are a warm and genuine person. I love how you love yourself, your family and craft. It's rare to find people like you. Continue to be YOU.

  • @tsheolarakgahla7450
    @tsheolarakgahla7450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So articulate... love him and his story

  • @zeeelove9259
    @zeeelove9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Koyo came all the way from Cape town to say good byee friends ❤❤

  • @irenehlapane5082
    @irenehlapane5082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amstel how beautiful it is to see you my beautiful diva iam watching you all the way from Denver Colorado I love you Amstel. Keep going my my hunny bun ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥#Legend living legend 💟

    • @dikeledimothiba65
      @dikeledimothiba65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I truly agree with that! Living legend. Considering he's been with MaBrrr and Lebo like wooow! It's really nice to see him so happy and alive! His energy is amazing!

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is so well spoken.

  • @tlhologelomashigo4663
    @tlhologelomashigo4663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They way Amstel speak s si lovingly about the other 2, Jeff really had the most gorgeous smile and Koyo's energy was undeniable even off stage

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If youv been young in jhb n ready to explore your can read between th lines..this life can b sweetooooo💕

  • @FirstLadyTshepi
    @FirstLadyTshepi ปีที่แล้ว

    What a life journey that this group has travelled. They stood firm with themselves, loved life and lived their truths. What a time it was in this country's history
    #UnpackedWithRelebogile

  • @DinnyM051
    @DinnyM051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He's always been so stylist, I hope he's still doing well in life ❣️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a she

    • @SiphiwesihleOnako
      @SiphiwesihleOnako 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ahviwe he is a man who is gay, not a she

  • @shandragossett8075
    @shandragossett8075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amstel is a very beautiful name that definitely fits YOU. You are STILL ABLE THROUGH IT ALL.
    💯❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    “Amstel”

  • @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888
    @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your closing remark Relebogile is so humbling 🙏👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @_biekies_9738
    @_biekies_9738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always wondered what ever happened to this group. This was another great episode 👍🏽🦋🌈

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg I remember the group 🔥🔥😂aww bathong

  • @zandilebindamonokoane7321
    @zandilebindamonokoane7321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They blew us away. Thier craft, fashion and music was on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @DJ_Ndiks
    @DJ_Ndiks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    'Love yourself, respect yourself and live life to the fullest'. That's a good advise.💜

  • @unmutewithnonhli
    @unmutewithnonhli ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you are well. Very few friends that are authentic. Good luck

  • @thatokgobe1403
    @thatokgobe1403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amstel is a LEGEND!

    • @griffithmagazi3562
      @griffithmagazi3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amstel is a Legend! We need a documentary.This was a great interview 💯

  • @nontobekosibisi7401
    @nontobekosibisi7401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amstel always on point well put together ❤

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tsala😍😍😍😍😍😍looking gorgeous as always. I love this episode

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed watching this😭 I didn't want it to end🥺❤️🔥 All the best Amstel🎉🎊

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A beautiful story😍❤️💐🥺

  • @clonapsbethe1261
    @clonapsbethe1261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks to bring Amstell ,I love the guy.

  • @lesegochaane9909
    @lesegochaane9909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Amstel’s humanity. Met him a couple of times and what you see is definitely what you get. He is definitely a peoples person. Love him

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow I love him so much we’ll spoken 😍

  • @TarCarNey
    @TarCarNey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I use to see them all the time on Drum megazine 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @Leradennis
    @Leradennis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This band was lit!

  • @mililzydizzy9695
    @mililzydizzy9695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aus Relebogile looks so beautiful ! The make up 😍😍

  • @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz
    @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz ปีที่แล้ว

    I really ❤ this soul

  • @kaingonakauta6460
    @kaingonakauta6460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He so lovely 🥰 💕

  • @mapulakola8495
    @mapulakola8495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So sweet, I want to give you a hug hle Amstel

  • @carolinemotlhabane4386
    @carolinemotlhabane4386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my favourite episodes,as for papanras koyo 😂

  • @marientalphysiotherapy3325
    @marientalphysiotherapy3325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember them, the 1st time I read about them was from a move magazine back in the years.....
    Soo thy rest eishhhhhhhhhh
    All the strength to him..

  • @SecondChanceswithSophiaV
    @SecondChanceswithSophiaV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm watching the episode on 15 March, the same day Koyo's memorial service was hosted. This was heart warming to watch.

  • @nomvulalangasiki3927
    @nomvulalangasiki3927 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the genuine Ness frm Amstell

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh maan Amstel😍😍😍

  • @edwardmoutlana6248
    @edwardmoutlana6248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much Love 😍 😍 😍

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a beautiful person in and out

  • @ZomziWeAfrika
    @ZomziWeAfrika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I know Amstel❤️ is so funny and adorable. Rest In Peace Koyo. Three some

  • @boipelomohlakoane7959
    @boipelomohlakoane7959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    KE BA LUVA GORE🥺❤️ ke rata go re o butsi ka Butterfly

  • @sibonginkosinyathi7580
    @sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Usajaiva like you used to do e Tandoor ubuyenza into yakho back thern Tandoor is no longer the same without you Moffie. Ezasala zazingefani nani

  • @julietedochem9041
    @julietedochem9041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Went to school with Koyo...RIP

  • @annetsletsiki5808
    @annetsletsiki5808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gorgeous Armstel ❤️😍

  • @deborahmurorua5018
    @deborahmurorua5018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Miss XO❤️

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Somizi must also come to this show 🥺

  • @diamondgirl1264
    @diamondgirl1264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice interview from Amstel

  • @nduvho94
    @nduvho94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amstel ♥️♥️♥️

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TANDOOR!

  • @sisandalisa2215
    @sisandalisa2215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amstel is so lovely ☺️

  • @tebogosenosi2389
    @tebogosenosi2389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haibo this guy still alive 😳 long time no see or hear from him ijoh guy keep going man I remember u from group 3sum

  • @zamo_ma
    @zamo_ma ปีที่แล้ว

    😭❤️❤️

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought she passed too. Am I the only one who thought so?

    • @tatendakatsumbe
      @tatendakatsumbe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You're the only one

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tatendakatsumbe hahahahaha wow

    • @wangechiwangareassociatead4345
      @wangechiwangareassociatead4345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you definitely are the only one. we can't assume people we love have died. we are even in denial when they do.

  • @princesspheto2001
    @princesspheto2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🦋✨

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I got lost between the eye lashes and finger nails

  • @Amanda-nh7nf
    @Amanda-nh7nf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💐💐🇿🇦♥️

  • @wamkelwentuli3130
    @wamkelwentuli3130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Firsttt🥳

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥺🥺🥺

  • @cebonkosi5103
    @cebonkosi5103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2nd 💪🏽😂

  • @MrZuneJ
    @MrZuneJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    eyebrows for days

  • @letlotlojoykekana5646
    @letlotlojoykekana5646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    6th 🤣🤣

  • @noluvobavuma1332
    @noluvobavuma1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6th 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿😂

  • @velilengema8188
    @velilengema8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4th☺

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ask him/her whether Ephriam is gay🙄

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Him. Why should I ask that?

    • @letshegomelesi8536
      @letshegomelesi8536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haaibo 😒

    • @penelopegomez5934
      @penelopegomez5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are out of order

    • @marytsheole2007
      @marytsheole2007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lebo is professional she knows which questions to ask she knows how to respect people she knows boundaries she is excellent at her craft , girl bona u r killing it ,gape le gape over n over💌

  • @fungaikufa4312
    @fungaikufa4312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fifth

  • @leratomaleke3345
    @leratomaleke3345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Third 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽