Felt this 💯 it’s like the DM picks and chooses when to respond in separation or they just don’t know what to say, when there has been times when we have gone through our toughest life circumstances together, losses together.. ect. I know his heart, we have the same heart but it just hurts when sometimes he’s not always there when I could need someone to talk to & he’s not always there & yet I drop everything for him.
How sad. There is absolutely Nothing wrong or weird or taboo about wanting love, compassion, support, and attention from another human! Especially the one you have been in relationship with! Praying for all of you who feel undeserving...or that you have to go on this life journey all alone. Peace to all your hearts.. ✨🕊️💜🕊️✨
She isn't saying that wanting love is wrong! Its about the journey to go from always feeling needy to actually being ready to receive soul love, being fulfilled within yourself, cause neediness depends on the ego. From my experience ego always wants more / needs more so as soon as what it really wants happens, it might be good for a moment, but the next you find your ego wanting something else or more. She explains how this true love is helping your true self to become that version of yourself, instead of telling what you wanna hear / pleasing you, doing whats best for your soul & maybe unwanted, but necessary for the ego. I found my person 3 years ago. Am I alone right now? yes. Would I'd rather be with him? Yes. Is he everywhere my head heart soul? Yes. But I feel there is a bigger purpose he left. And I trust that I need this time to heal so. To all the beautiful souls: You're enough!! Trust timing and try to remember everyday how much love you deserve. As much as you have to give, lets start giving it to ourselves
NO. I cannot agree with this video at all.. It is only normal to want support from someone you consider your soul counterpart or soul friend in a traumatic situation. This is not neediness, its normality. We have gone too far with the idea of toxic self love. Nobody should go through difficult events alone and if this is your Twin Flame yes they should be there for you. I understand the concept of this video completely but I do not agree with it at all, the idea is scizofrenic. If the Twin Flame cannot support or give you love and support when you need it most, what sort of love is it? "The higher form of love" is to leave you in the "ditch" alone? No. This is not right, is not love, and should never be considered any form of love. This video has unhealthy ideas, aligning with law of attraction, toxic positivity and toxic self love madness and all those support cruelty, injustice and narcissism in society. If you care about the person you should be there for them in 3D reality, whether twin flame or not.
From my understanding is that one or both Twin Flames won’t be able to be in the other persons life if the relationship would turn toxic if they did. Other relationships can “allow” for contact even though toxic in nature, but the whole purpose with the Twin is to push self growth. If they would be there even though there is toxicity, there wouldn’t be a “force” for growth in one or both parties.
@semiprecious 0072, I find your reply and point of view very unhealthy spiritually. More toxic positivity and lonely self love? No, we dont need that in already selfish narcissistic world full of lonelyness and lack of kindness and empathy. We need loving and supporting human contacts also in 3D, also from twin flames. More lonelyness does not make you a better person.
OMG, you are so right. I was going through similar situation….didn’t understand his “ignorance”. Now I understand. It’s my neediness, LOL. Thanks for so good explanation.
3 days ago before i had my own crisis he had gone through a fever and i was there for him i was so compassionate for him,but when i send that snap about what happened to me he didn’t even speak one word, like he was blind or smth😅, that has broke my heart Into pieces , but now I understand that we’re not a normal relationship and we will never be,I already have friends i dont need him anymore and i will never be there for him, iam done.
I don’t understand why a non twin flame connection would not also suffer from the same kinds of reactions and behaviours. Neediness is always a turn off. Why does your TF react so negatively to you not coming to them in the optimum way? It seems highly picky and judgemental. If the chaser gives up on the connection altogether, does that mean union will never happen. It’s talked about as a blessing, but such a difficult union seems more of a curse. I really don’t understand the ‘runner’ psychology. Why can’t they see the potential??
Do you think it is healthy behaviour for someone to come into someone’s life (a person you know wants a future with you) anytime you want, tell them you love them and want them desperately, and then block them? And do this on repeat for years?
@@Ojvyfz Well I don’t think I have much choice now. I will need to ignore his messages. In the past I have allowed interaction because I have been so excited to hear from the person I love and it has been insightful to let him open up to me. But it comes at a price, getting my heart broken again.
No it's not healthy at all! And even though the way we respond is in our hands, it's still genuinely really difficult. We're humans with emotions, after all. Naturally we expect some reciprocity, consistency, and consideration from our person. And to continuously being let down is really not a nice situation. They really need to wake the heck up and stop doing that...lol.
@@foodideasbynittu They are just doing what your soul wants to, but your go isn't doing because of patterns traumas etc. their mirror make you grow th way your higher self/god/universe/divine whats you to do it. So basically they care as much as the other half, but the ego isn't able to see
From my understanding is that one or both Twin Flames won’t be able to be in the other persons life if the relationship would turn toxic if they did. Other relationships can “allow” for contact even though toxic in nature, but the whole purpose with the Twin is to push for self growth. If they would be there even though there is toxicity, there wouldn’t be a “force” for growth in one or both parties.
Thank you!! I broke my ankle at a 5k race, he was there, never came to me to help, never called afterwards to ask how I was - in fact he didn’t reach out for 9 months and when he did never mentioned anything, like it never happened. I hopped away that day, I never reached out to him, it would have been nice for him to have contacted me, he couldn’t/wouldn’t and then it dawned on me that perhaps he never really cared for me, that maybe he wasn’t my TF but a karmic. It’s been 2 years since we’ve spoken and I still feel the pain. I do believe a big part of the pain is the death of my ego. 🙏💖🙏
What happens if the Divine Feminine does not reach her twin flame at all after the message he didn't respond to? She just stops chasing in the 3D realm.
OMG THIS HAPPENED 2 ME THANK YOU I WAS ABOUT 2 CRY BUT THEN I WAS LIKE DAMNN I WAS LIKE LAUGHING THIS IS CRAZY I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS BUT YOUR RIGHT THIS HAPPENED TO ME IT SHOCKED ME LIKE CRAZY YOUR RIGHT .
Hey 7:25 REACHING OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES FOR NEEDS LIKE AFFECTION SND COMPASSION IS HEALTHY AND HUMAN!!!! We are social animals!!! We are INTERDEPENDENT. So it is BS to say it is wrong with asking TF for this too
Hello Yvonne, I never dated my twin flame, we had never a relationship. Is this normal or are twin flames at the beginning in a relationship and than seperate. I also have to say that we were Co- workers and he was my Mentor. I'm so confused because I have all this doubts in my mind 😔
Thank you 🙏 Please can you share how it’s possible to find a lost connection with twin flame if all you know about him its he looks like you and he is a musician🤧
Psychic told me I am not even in his thoughts now- how do you explsin that? One thing is for him not to show. Another him trickin his thoughts- HE IS SIMPLY ON ANOTHER THING, probably ANOTHER WOMAN
The sad thing is that the society in general is very self centered. Many people are running away from real commitments out of fear. Perhaps after 20, 30, 40 years, a TF might mature enough to want to stop playing games....
So beautifully understood and explained 💖💖 you've certainly done ur PHD in the journey 🤗🤗 Sending you lots of love and gratitude for sharing, through your experiences. It certainly helps 🤗🤗🤗✨✨
Felt this 💯 it’s like the DM picks and chooses when to respond in separation or they just don’t know what to say, when there has been times when we have gone through our toughest life circumstances together, losses together.. ect. I know his heart, we have the same heart but it just hurts when sometimes he’s not always there when I could need someone to talk to & he’s not always there & yet I drop everything for him.
How sad. There is absolutely Nothing wrong or weird or taboo about wanting love, compassion, support, and attention from another human! Especially the one you have been in relationship with!
Praying for all of you who feel undeserving...or that you have to go on this life journey all alone. Peace to all your hearts..
✨🕊️💜🕊️✨
Not sure you got the content of the video or the purpose of the journey...
@@TwinFlameSpyrit I love the video & how you're gently triggering / opening minds
She isn't saying that wanting love is wrong! Its about the journey to go from always feeling needy to actually being ready to receive soul love, being fulfilled within yourself, cause neediness depends on the ego.
From my experience ego always wants more / needs more so as soon as what it really wants happens, it might be good for a moment, but the next you find your ego wanting something else or more. She explains how this true love is helping your true self to become that version of yourself, instead of telling what you wanna hear / pleasing you, doing whats best for your soul & maybe unwanted, but necessary for the ego. I found my person 3 years ago.
Am I alone right now? yes. Would I'd rather be with him? Yes. Is he everywhere my head heart soul? Yes. But I feel there is a bigger purpose he left. And I trust that I need this time to heal so.
To all the beautiful souls:
You're enough!! Trust timing and try to remember everyday how much love you deserve.
As much as you have to give, lets start giving it to ourselves
@@jillienjosefine What BULL.then why would I ever go back? That's makes NO SENSE AT ALL. I will never heal. I choose to be alone. It wasn't needy.
She tells me so many times that she is done because I dont care. I was 9 mintes late to respond to her text and she thinks I dont care cause of that.
By far Yvonne this is your most beautiful, truthful and thoughtful video : you are amazing!
Thank you so much 🤗
NO. I cannot agree with this video at all.. It is only normal to want support from someone you consider your soul counterpart or soul friend in a traumatic situation. This is not neediness, its normality. We have gone too far with the idea of toxic self love. Nobody should go through difficult events alone and if this is your Twin Flame yes they should be there for you. I understand the concept of this video completely but I do not agree with it at all, the idea is scizofrenic. If the Twin Flame cannot support or give you love and support when you need it most, what sort of love is it? "The higher form of love" is to leave you in the "ditch" alone? No. This is not right, is not love, and should never be considered any form of love. This video has unhealthy ideas, aligning with law of attraction, toxic positivity and toxic self love madness and all those support cruelty, injustice and narcissism in society. If you care about the person you should be there for them in 3D reality, whether twin flame or not.
From my understanding is that one or both Twin Flames won’t be able to be in the other persons life if the relationship would turn toxic if they did. Other relationships can “allow” for contact even though toxic in nature, but the whole purpose with the Twin is to push self growth. If they would be there even though there is toxicity, there wouldn’t be a “force” for growth in one or both parties.
I think this is very difficulty for me I need a friend who understand and go through the same thing
@semiprecious 0072, I find your reply and point of view very unhealthy spiritually. More toxic positivity and lonely self love? No, we dont need that in already selfish narcissistic world full of lonelyness and lack of kindness and empathy. We need loving and supporting human contacts also in 3D, also from twin flames. More lonelyness does not make you a better person.
I think you misunderstood lol
@@mirandalumiere8980it's not about not having to need love and support, it's about not depending yourr mood or life on what they do.
OMG, you are so right. I was going through similar situation….didn’t understand his “ignorance”. Now I understand. It’s my neediness, LOL. Thanks for so good explanation.
If we want someone in our lives, surely we are needy. If we don’t ‘need’ them then surely we don’t want them? I don’t get it, sorry.
EXACTLY!!
Does anyone else feel like they're the leading lady in fatal attraction 2? Lol
Not anymore...I blocked him on everything and finally walked away with what little dignity I had left :)
I sent him a happy bday message and he did not even reply, thats when everything made sense to me and was able to fully surrender ❤
3 days ago before i had my own crisis he had gone through a fever and i was there for him i was so compassionate for him,but when i send that snap about what happened to me he didn’t even speak one word, like he was blind or smth😅, that has broke my heart Into pieces , but now I understand that we’re not a normal relationship and we will never be,I already have friends i dont need him anymore and i will never be there for him, iam done.
I don’t understand why a non twin flame connection would not also suffer from the same kinds of reactions and behaviours. Neediness is always a turn off. Why does your TF react so negatively to you not coming to them in the optimum way? It seems highly picky and judgemental. If the chaser gives up on the connection altogether, does that mean union will never happen. It’s talked about as a blessing, but such a difficult union seems more of a curse. I really don’t understand the ‘runner’ psychology. Why can’t they see the potential??
Do you think it is healthy behaviour for someone to come into someone’s life (a person you know wants a future with you) anytime you want, tell them you love them and want them desperately, and then block them? And do this on repeat for years?
@@Ojvyfz Well I don’t think I have much choice now. I will need to ignore his messages. In the past I have allowed interaction because I have been so excited to hear from the person I love and it has been insightful to let him open up to me. But it comes at a price, getting my heart broken again.
No it's not healthy at all! And even though the way we respond is in our hands, it's still genuinely really difficult. We're humans with emotions, after all. Naturally we expect some reciprocity, consistency, and consideration from our person. And to continuously being let down is really not a nice situation. They really need to wake the heck up and stop doing that...lol.
@@monisha_3213 exactly!
Exactly ! How can one half of soul being so caring and emotional and the other half so opposite?
@@foodideasbynittu They are just doing what your soul wants to, but your go isn't doing because of patterns traumas etc. their mirror make you grow th way your higher self/god/universe/divine whats you to do it. So basically they care as much as the other half, but the ego isn't able to see
From my understanding is that one or both Twin Flames won’t be able to be in the other persons life if the relationship would turn toxic if they did. Other relationships can “allow” for contact even though toxic in nature, but the whole purpose with the Twin is to push for self growth. If they would be there even though there is toxicity, there wouldn’t be a “force” for growth in one or both parties.
Thank you!! I broke my ankle at a 5k race, he was there, never came to me to help, never called afterwards to ask how I was - in fact he didn’t reach out for 9 months and when he did never mentioned anything, like it never happened. I hopped away that day, I never reached out to him, it would have been nice for him to have contacted me, he couldn’t/wouldn’t and then it dawned on me that perhaps he never really cared for me, that maybe he wasn’t my TF but a karmic. It’s been 2 years since we’ve spoken and I still feel the pain. I do believe a big part of the pain is the death of my ego. 🙏💖🙏
That sounds more like an abusive sociopathic partner someone with no empathy whatsoever, I doubt he is your real twin flame.
Really? How can your other half of the soul not be bothered! I question the single soul theory.
We should learn that just God is our source of happiness.
If you need anything from them, they won’t give it to you.
What happens if the Divine Feminine does not reach her twin flame at all after the message he didn't respond to? She just stops chasing in the 3D realm.
In that case why interact with anyone because you might be needing friendship, companionship etc?
You can interact from a place of not needing but appreciating them/it.
feels like such an empty feeling like a piece of you is missing. When you need them the most…
I let it go...too exhausting
OMG THIS HAPPENED 2 ME THANK YOU I WAS ABOUT 2 CRY BUT THEN I WAS LIKE DAMNN I WAS LIKE LAUGHING THIS IS CRAZY I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS BUT YOUR RIGHT THIS HAPPENED TO ME IT SHOCKED ME LIKE CRAZY YOUR RIGHT .
What do you think about the theory of "pushing and pulling" of new world allstar and Allie of been with your twin flame?
Raise your own energy and thoughts. 😊
Hey 7:25 REACHING OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES FOR NEEDS LIKE AFFECTION SND COMPASSION IS HEALTHY AND HUMAN!!!! We are social animals!!! We are INTERDEPENDENT. So it is BS to say it is wrong with asking TF for this too
Yvonne. Always great to see you.
Hello Yvonne, I never dated my twin flame, we had never a relationship. Is this normal or are twin flames at the beginning in a relationship and than seperate. I also have to say that we were Co- workers and he was my Mentor. I'm so confused because I have all this doubts in my mind 😔
I'm in a similar position. And many, including me, meet twin flames that are in relationships/ situationships 🥲
Thank you 🙏 Please can you share how it’s possible to find a lost connection with twin flame if all you know about him its he looks like you and he is a musician🤧
Create a bond inside. Talk and be with him inside.
My twin fame wishes she didn't have feelings for me why??????
Thank you Yvonne ❤️
Thank you ❤
Psychic told me I am not even in his thoughts now- how do you explsin that? One thing is for him not to show. Another him trickin his thoughts- HE IS SIMPLY ON ANOTHER THING, probably ANOTHER WOMAN
I felt very bad while i had fever i felt alone
Interesting word choice, "they are smarter...". Ever heard the phrase a little sugar makes the medicine go down?
The sad thing is that the society in general is very self centered. Many people are running away from real commitments out of fear. Perhaps after 20, 30, 40 years, a TF might mature enough to want to stop playing games....
it's about inner healing, not about playing games.
I don’t believe your TF is thinking about your ego patterns when they don’t answer our calls etc. That would be giving them WAY too much credit.
❤️ your videos are eye opening ones my dear❤️i thank you from the bottom of my heart 💞
🤣🤣🤣 he thinks im karmic. I told him i saw our soul being separated
🤷♀️
If you dont have sentiments for you him dont have for you
So beautifully understood and explained 💖💖 you've certainly done ur PHD in the journey 🤗🤗 Sending you lots of love and gratitude for sharing, through your experiences. It certainly helps 🤗🤗🤗✨✨
Thank you so much! I'm glad you recognize my TF PhD!! ;) It's nice to be recognized for what you went through. :) Glad to be of service to all of you.
I reached out to my twin that my uncle passed away and she responded and send her sympathy an said hope I'm ok... Is that a real twin flame??
Human decency
I had a heart attac and he was just.. almoust ok.. enpathy no no and no.. he dont react.. so he is olmoust 4D and i am 5 so he is just a child