Why do people complain so much to May Vang… if you don’t like the story simply click out of it and go on to the next.. Everyone deserve to have their story shared to see if they can lift a little bit of burden off from their shoulder. People can’t just live their life without complaining about something jeez. Hmoob Lub neej ces always about marital problems or relationships or money issue but it’s fine, everyone has the right to share and everyone has the right not to listen to it if they don’t want to. Don’t need to bash the story teller!
this is exactly why Hmong people suffer so much from depression and mental illness because... they try to hide their issues or people try to tell them to NOT share their issues.
May you are the voice for us ladies. Keep telling stories Hmong people need to stop trying to silence our voices. Speak loud the only to make a positive change is through education.
Stop complaining and listen and you will learn something new. This is the most open i have heard women in our community. This is an outlet for men and women who come to may. Dont disrespect these people and their stories, its a learning opportunity and eye opener for issue that our community keep in the dark. Listen and learn to better our community
We get the same cheating stories because hmong men have always been put on the pedestal and woman are required to uv them. Im actually learning alot from just listening.
Sister in the story, at least he's man enough to tell you, and let you know what he wants, let it be, while his having fun, you as well, try to have fun, because he already told you he still want to have fun., enjoy let it go, you'll be more happy that way..
Hlub yus tus kheej es tsis txhob cia yus lub cev yug me nyuam coob2 os, yus ob peb tus xwb tau lawm. Ceeb yus lub cev thiab tu yus tus kheej kom zoo. Es luag ntxeev siab rau yus los yus tseem zoo thiab ces ua kiag los pauj nws kiag xwb mas
Stories like these, we learn a lot from. Especially preventing future issues. Knowing how wicked hm men love to use the hm system. And how wicked hm women can get to.
I cannot wait until the days when our Hmong women learn to love themselves and stop tolerating these kind of behavior from their significant other. This kind of behavior is not good role model for our young girls. They learn from the elders and keep this behavior generation after generation. It won't break until us women learn to stand our ground and not tolerate these men
You are what you accept. You’re still with him and will take care of him no matter what you say because he’s still in your life. It’s no one’s fault but yours to put up with someone who disrespects, dishonors, doesn’t love you. There’s ways to not have so many children, we live in America not a third world country. Many marry young like you but we don’t accept cheating. We don’t accept being a wife while our husbands does whatever we want because we’re not that desperate that he’s the only man in the world. We respect ourselves enough to move you.
sim neej no o peb ib tsoom me viv ncaus hmoob aw o cas nej ho g nco hlub nej tus kheej na lo me nyuam yuav hlub yus ces tsi tag yuav yug nto 10 leej lo lawv yeej hlub yus lawm o thiab hais ncaj hais tias peb cov hmoob ces sawv kev ntawm ntawm yus niam yus txiv mus ua neej kiag lawm ces npaum nkaus li yus tshuav luaj nuj luag nqi xb
Lawv muab qhia rau koj tham rau peb mloog kom lawv kaj siab zoo dua li lawv tsis qhia koj, es lawv tsis pom qab tso pa rau leejtwg, thiab lawv mus txov lawv txoj siab. Cov neeg complain txog cov stories no tej zaum lawv lub neej thiab tus kheej perfect 💯
Listening to these stories, teaches the new generation of Hmong women to be self independent and stop relying on their husbands. Honestly Hmong husbands (not all, but the older generations are treat like they are above all). Let’s stop the men eat first then women and kids. Why can’t we all just sit at the table and eat as equal? Men can cheat with no consequences, if that’s that case let us marry women go and cheat with no consequences!! Without women there will not be the next generation so have some respect for your wife, mother, sisters, and daughters and let’s give equality.
Everyone needs to understand that everyone has problem, Hmong, Mekas and all human. Problems are not isolated to Hmoob only. I concur with, "if you don't like it don't listen." Everyone needs to know that this is therapeutic to many who struggle emotionally. Telling their stories relief their stress. I only hope that listening and telling their stories empower themselves. So stop complaining people!!
Me niam hluas aw koj txoj dab neeg ma yog raws nhaim li kuv txoj thiab oyuav tsum cia siab rau lub ntuj ib yam kuv ho thiaj pab u rau cov txiv phem li no ntag
Not only Hmong people have issues/problems. Every ethnic groups have their own issues but they don’t bring it up as much as Hmong people. Not a lot of people like to reveal their issues and problems. People will never know others behind closed doors. Coming here is better than always reporting it to your relatives. This is saving his face. Lol. Whoever doesn’t like it, don’t listen to the stories, simply click the next button and listen to something else. You’re not obligated to listen to it.
The majority of others ethnic group have problems in marriage but ended up divorced much more easily because they can’t take the pain or doesn’t care like our hmoob women’s because we care so much about the investment that we put in the marriage!! Peb ua everything for the man from day one!!
@@ncouazooxwbya1552 you’re being too nice hiding the truth. What happens when a women leave? Let’s see,…their family will put them down for leaving and labeled the bad wife. They lose their children or at least the sons. They are lied to that they won’t find a better man out there that all men will eventually cheat just like their first one. They won’t get help from relatives/shamans. When they die they go to nothing land etc. you literally have nothing left if this happened to you in the jungle of Laos basically.
Qhov uas pob niam chim siab tshuav tuag es kom koj tham siab thiaj nqij ne hos coj mus rau kwv tij neej tsa hais ces lawv tsuas cem peb cov poj niam nkaus nkaus xwb na .hos cov sib sib hlub es twb zoo zoo siab lawm ne .ho muaj tus qab ntxhiab dab tsi tham na. Yog tsis haum siab ces txhob mloog xwb mas .
Parents only ruin their kids lives by forcing marriage on them. Let them date and have fun when they're young so there's no regrets. Cheating occurs when they're forced to grow up aka marriage. You ladies need to learn to love yourselves. Take care of yourself. Wear makeup and make yourself pretty daily.
Ntuj aw Niag Pog Laus li Koj lawm Ces Tab Tom ua Kom Tej me nyuam Aub Poob Ntsej muag xwb mas nawb hahaha. Koj mus los Koj Niam yuav Tau 1 tug me hluas 2 Tsw Qab ntxiag thiab Cas na lov hahaha. Koj Xav tias ntshai Koj yuav ua Kom Yawg Thaub Mob Strock no Tab si Koj yeej Tsi txog qhov twg tuaj thiab mas nawb. Qhov Zoo tshaj plaws Ces..2 Leeg Rov qab los Sib hlub xwb mas nawb.
Seriously girl. Do you really think all those people with cheating spouses will actually say that to their cheating spouse/ex? May just won't say what they really say to the cheater. I guess she wants to keep her words clean or whatever, but this is what annoys me about her. Just keep it real to us and the people giving her the stories by actually using real life dialog like "niag txiv/niam dev, ntsej muag/tsov tom, etc." If I had a cheating story to share and told May to use the words above, I bet 100% that she'll still say freaking " me koj niam/txiv." But whatever. I already commented about that once or twice but she does what she wants since it's her channel. 🙄
@@MonaLisa-de4cp yeah I always wonder that too becus I noticed she always use me koj niam me koj txiv and I'm thinking do people really talk like that even when they're mad?
@@SV-ii6fy it just became obvious not too long after I began listening to her and these cheating stories and I thought just like you. Does each person submitting their cheating story tell her to say "me koj niam/txiv" every time? Impossible! She's just using them herself!
Mus kawm nrhab ceg mos. Pog laus lawm tsis paub txheej hluas nim no thaj nrhab ceg lawm es niag txiv thiab tsis xav yuav lawm ces mus kawm kom seb niag txiv puas rov los nqa nws li ceg nav. Nej yuav tau kawm ntawm nws hov. Saib seb nws niag txiv dev twb los noj tshuaj mev nqa nws ceg dua lawm ne
I’m kinda confused. You said you don’t care about him, but you’re still there with him. You haven’t moved move on, so my guess is that you still loved and cared for him. At the end of the day, he still win in my book. I would be happy to f around and have my wife still be there for me at the end. Anyway, I’m glad you’ve found peace and finally not hurting anyone
At least she learned at the end but it took her whole life. When he betrayed you the first time - it’s already over…their generation put up with a lot and old style.
Hmong women suffered because they let martial affairs happen and have no well to let go. This is American, the land of the free, let go of the 1975 mentality.
Yog tias yus tus txiv los yus tus poj niam hos phem npaum li ntawm cas hos tsi muab nrauj mus hos nyob2 kom laus tas thiab kuv xa tias yog yus nrauj tsi taus ces yus yeej phem phim nws xwb
Tus niam tsev koj tus txiv no siab phem 6 koj ntev los lawm koj khiav g taus koj ho g ua phem 6 nws thaum ntxov .tsam no nws kev tws muaj mob los khaub zig koj mam pib ua phem 6 nws g make sense li tshwj xeeb koj yuav tau txiav txim siab seb koj yuav ua zaj twg qhov kuv ntshai tsam thaum kawg nws muab koj tua pov tseg neog nws xwb becareful you life are important
Nev2 twg tsis kom maj2 mus yuav txiv, lub niag hlws tsis qoos. And here everyone bagging the little 10 year old bride. Twb nyob meska teb es cas hos tsis hu police rau es tseem muaj tau 2 tug ib xyoo thiab na.
Vim li cas twb tuaj loj hlob teb chaws no es tseem tsis paub caiv thiab tseem yug me nyuam coob ua Luaj thaum lawv tsis hlub kok lawm ces koj tseem yuav yug coob npaum cas los lawv yeej tsis care koj lawm na ,
Zaj neej neeg no mas yog tiag2 li os , ib co txiv tsev uas nim cuab qhov tsim2 txiaj na twb paub tias nws qhov khoom twb tsis ua hauj lwm lawm mas nim cuab qhov tsim2 txiaj twb paub tag lawm mas
Koj siab ntev heev vim koj txawj xav yog heev thiab. Qhov ua taus li no los twb vim yog koj cov mi nyuam coob heev xwb. Txhua tus neeg tau zoo ua ntej lawm no ces nws yuav tau phem tom qab. Yog nws ho tau phem ua ntej lawm no ces nws yuav tau zoo rov tom qab thiab. Tab sis muaj qee leej tau phem los tau zoo ua ntej los nws yeej tsis tau zoo los tau phem rov tom qab thiab.
Yog nej tsis xav mloog ces txhob los mloog txawm niam ntsuab teev nws yuav hais li cas los no yog lawv xa lawv cov story tuaj rau may vang hais xwb. Yog nej tsis txaus siab nej kuj mus open nej ib tug TH-cam los pob. Tos cov neej neeg es cov poj niam chim duas cov txiv neej los vim cov txiv neej pheej mus tshoob pim sab nrauv coj kev liam thiab kev lwj siab los rau tus niam tsev mob siab ne!!!!.
You should have pamper yourself a long time ago and left him so that you shouldn't have to deal with him now and all his sickness. I don't understand why you still with him and allow him to control you and your independence.
May….puas muaj li ntawd tiag? Is it really ease the hurt for real…puas pab tau tiag mas….yog pab tau no ntshe kuv yuav muab kuv zaj rau koj hais kom kuv kaj siab paub?? Lol!! When a spouse cheated on his/her spouse either online or in person it’s still hurts, adultery is painful!!!
Shaman women, why are you mad at your man when he cheats? He can marry a 2nd, 3rd wive, but can’t cheat? He’s got to cheat to find the new women right? Your family dab aren’t offended when he brings her home, they actually approve it. Are you saying you know better than your family dab? Are you saying they are wrong for allowing the mistress to enter the family dab? You don’t truly believe your religion? If so, opt out and leave the religion. Why stay believing when you already see the holes, lies and corruption? A lot of women will ignore this comment, yet still plead for respect. You can’t have respect for women while your religion allows polygamy. I’m not saying this out of hate, but bc I love you enough to tell you the TRUTH. You’re only a victim if you decide to stay and be a victim. The ones who’s not in this situation, stop being a bystander and love your fellow human by helping/loving them
Haha koj ces yog tus swb xwb os niam laus, koj twb pom xeeb mob siab chim siab tu siab npaum li koj hais, koj twb mus kho koj tus kheej tag 15k, tabsis txog thaum kawg koj tseem cuab rau nws ua koj li qub xwb ces ntxhais tau hais tias koj yog tus swb xwb os mog. Koj yeej tsis yeej ib qho me me kiag li. Yog hais tias koj kho koj tus kheej tag es koj cuab rau lem tus txiv neej ua koj rau nws ntsias mas awv koj thiaj yog tus yeej ov. Kho kho tag tabsis tseem rov tuaj hauv qab cua tau tus neeg tsim koj xwb no ces pab koj tu siab xwb lau
Why do people complain so much to May Vang… if you don’t like the story simply click out of it and go on to the next.. Everyone deserve to have their story shared to see if they can lift a little bit of burden off from their shoulder. People can’t just live their life without complaining about something jeez. Hmoob Lub neej ces always about marital problems or relationships or money issue but it’s fine, everyone has the right to share and everyone has the right not to listen to it if they don’t want to. Don’t need to bash the story teller!
Because their old txiv dev /maum aub don’t comeback to eat tshuaj mev for them ne. So they got jelly xwb
EXACTLY!!! Simply move on to the next story listeners.
this is exactly why Hmong people suffer so much from depression and mental illness because... they try to hide their issues or people try to tell them to NOT share their issues.
They complain but they also dont have a good life story to share...and they still wonder why. People acting like May controls who submits their story.
Agree!
May you are the voice for us ladies. Keep telling stories Hmong people need to stop trying to silence our voices. Speak loud the only to make a positive change is through education.
This man deserves everything coming his way. I support you, sister. You are a strong woman…love the one loves back…😩👍!!!
Stop complaining and listen and you will learn something new. This is the most open i have heard women in our community. This is an outlet for men and women who come to may. Dont disrespect these people and their stories, its a learning opportunity and eye opener for issue that our community keep in the dark. Listen and learn to better our community
💯 rights and I'm very proud of you
Niam ntsuab teev cov lus koj hais ko yeej muaj tseeb nawb
We get the same cheating stories because hmong men have always been put on the pedestal and woman are required to uv them.
Im actually learning alot from just listening.
Zoo tshaj nplaws li muab 5 stars 🌟 rau zaj neej neeg no nawb
May tell us your ❤ story and back 2 back?🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦&🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸…👏👏👏👏
Hai yog lawm o
Koj mam ua yog tshaj plawv li..👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
Zaj no hais tau zoo kawg nploog lo ua kev kawm nawb peb cov niam tsev hmoob
Sister in the story, at least he's man enough to tell you, and let you know what he wants, let it be, while his having fun, you as well, try to have fun, because he already told you he still want to have fun., enjoy let it go, you'll be more happy that way..
Nkauj hmoob koj hais zoo heev thiab koj tseem ntxim hlub tiag li yog tau hlub yuav hlub tsis dhuav li ok
Hlub yus tus kheej es tsis txhob cia yus lub cev yug me nyuam coob2 os, yus ob peb tus xwb tau lawm. Ceeb yus lub cev thiab tu yus tus kheej kom zoo. Es luag ntxeev siab rau yus los yus tseem zoo thiab ces ua kiag los pauj nws kiag xwb mas
Thaum ntawd nkaws tsuas lom zem nrhab ceg thiab tsaj tsas xwb na. Tej niag kas tom ntawd cia li tawm cuag kas los lawm xwb los pob 😂
yog lawm kv nploog kj cov neej neeg e thiaj ua rau kv muaj kev zam ntxim thiab muaj kev kawm os niam laus aw
Stories like these, we learn a lot from. Especially preventing future issues. Knowing how wicked hm men love to use the hm system. And how wicked hm women can get to.
Yes! Learn to love your spouse correctly, so that when you are old and sick they are there for you.
Yog li koj hai tshaj plaw lawm os niam tshuab teev aw
Yog. This is therapy for some people. We are just listeners and commenters.
tau txiv ua hlua lwj siab dhau
I cannot wait until the days when our Hmong women learn to love themselves and stop tolerating these kind of behavior from their significant other. This kind of behavior is not good role model for our young girls. They learn from the elders and keep this behavior generation after generation. It won't break until us women learn to stand our ground and not tolerate these men
Peb cov poj niam hmoob, yog peb yuav txiv hmoob xwb ces peb sawv daws yeej taug kj tib txog kev os sister aw... tos tsam no peb cov neeg hmoob mus yuav lwm hais neeg lawm los yeej tsis txawv li, yuav lawv lwm haig neeg, lawv tseem txawj hlub thiab saib yus muaj nuj nqis dua..
👏👏zoo kawg nkaus li no los twb tseem pauj tsis tau koj txoh kev quaj kev tsim siab os! Kav tsij ua zoo nkauj mus lam hlwb ncig ntuj xwb os..
Yog kawg, peb cov txiv neej puas loj tsaj poj niam. Es thov nej cov poj niam hlub thiab nawb.
What done in the dark will always come to light 🙌🏼
Good for you lady. Today it's his turn sitting at home crying for you.
Ok who keeps contacting May to complaining about her stories?! Just shut up and listen 🤣
Mloog ib chim xav quaj mloog ib chim xav luag 😅😅😅
You are what you accept. You’re still with him and will take care of him no matter what you say because he’s still in your life. It’s no one’s fault but yours to put up with someone who disrespects, dishonors, doesn’t love you. There’s ways to not have so many children, we live in America not a third world country. Many marry young like you but we don’t accept cheating. We don’t accept being a wife while our husbands does whatever we want because we’re not that desperate that he’s the only man in the world. We respect ourselves enough to move you.
Tu me viv ncaus aw koj ma hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os mog
Zoo heev li os
sim neej no o peb ib tsoom me viv ncaus hmoob aw o cas nej ho g nco hlub nej tus kheej na lo me nyuam yuav hlub yus ces tsi tag yuav yug nto 10 leej lo lawv yeej hlub yus lawm o thiab hais ncaj hais tias peb cov hmoob ces sawv kev ntawm ntawm yus niam yus txiv mus ua neej kiag lawm ces npaum nkaus li yus tshuav luaj nuj luag nqi xb
Lawv muab qhia rau koj tham rau peb mloog kom lawv kaj siab zoo dua li lawv tsis qhia koj, es lawv tsis pom qab tso pa rau leejtwg, thiab lawv mus txov lawv txoj siab. Cov neeg complain txog cov stories no tej zaum lawv lub neej thiab tus kheej perfect 💯
Yog nej cov poj niam ua tau li no ces peb txiv neej tuag tas tus li lau.
Zoo kawg poj niam leej twg txawj ua ces kav tsij ua pauj tej niag Txiv neej siab phem no 👏👏👏
Yeah GUYS! Stop complaining. If you don’t like move on
Listening to these stories, teaches the new generation of Hmong women to be self independent and stop relying on their husbands. Honestly Hmong husbands (not all, but the older generations are treat like they are above all).
Let’s stop the men eat first then women and kids. Why can’t we all just sit at the table and eat as equal?
Men can cheat with no consequences, if that’s that case let us marry women go and cheat with no consequences!! Without women there will not be the next generation so have some respect for your wife, mother, sisters, and daughters and let’s give equality.
Everyone needs to understand that everyone has problem, Hmong, Mekas and all human. Problems are not isolated to Hmoob only. I concur with, "if you don't like it don't listen." Everyone needs to know that this is therapeutic to many who struggle emotionally. Telling their stories relief their stress. I only hope that listening and telling their stories empower themselves. So stop complaining people!!
Vim muab txoj Kev Hlub pub tag khiag rau lawv lub plawv thiaj tag
As a hmong what do you guys think of marriage counseling? Does it help?
It depends on the individuals. If 1 person want to save the marriage but the other does not, it would never work.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣....funny story
Me niam hluas aw koj txoj dab neeg ma yog raws nhaim li kuv txoj thiab oyuav tsum cia siab rau lub ntuj ib yam kuv ho thiaj pab u rau cov txiv phem li no ntag
Not only Hmong people have issues/problems. Every ethnic groups have their own issues but they don’t bring it up as much as Hmong people. Not a lot of people like to reveal their issues and problems. People will never know others behind closed doors. Coming here is better than always reporting it to your relatives. This is saving his face. Lol. Whoever doesn’t like it, don’t listen to the stories, simply click the next button and listen to something else. You’re not obligated to listen to it.
The majority of others ethnic group have problems in marriage but ended up divorced much more easily because they can’t take the pain or doesn’t care like our hmoob women’s because we care so much about the investment that we put in the marriage!! Peb ua everything for the man from day one!!
@@ncouazooxwbya1552 you’re being too nice hiding the truth. What happens when a women leave? Let’s see,…their family will put them down for leaving and labeled the bad wife. They lose their children or at least the sons. They are lied to that they won’t find a better man out there that all men will eventually cheat just like their first one. They won’t get help from relatives/shamans. When they die they go to nothing land etc. you literally have nothing left if this happened to you in the jungle of Laos basically.
U have a point lady
U did good sister
Qhov uas pob niam chim siab tshuav tuag es kom koj tham siab thiaj nqij ne hos coj mus rau kwv tij neej tsa hais ces lawv tsuas cem peb cov poj niam nkaus nkaus xwb na .hos cov sib sib hlub es twb zoo zoo siab lawm ne .ho muaj tus qab ntxhiab dab tsi tham na. Yog tsis haum siab ces txhob mloog xwb mas .
Parents only ruin their kids lives by forcing marriage on them. Let them date and have fun when they're young so there's no regrets. Cheating occurs when they're forced to grow up aka marriage. You ladies need to learn to love yourselves. Take care of yourself. Wear makeup and make yourself pretty daily.
tu niam tsev cas koj lub neej yuav tooj kuv lub ua luaj li os
Ntuj aw Niag Pog Laus li Koj lawm Ces Tab Tom ua Kom Tej me nyuam Aub Poob Ntsej muag xwb mas nawb hahaha. Koj mus los Koj Niam yuav Tau 1 tug me hluas 2 Tsw Qab ntxiag thiab Cas na lov hahaha. Koj Xav tias ntshai Koj yuav ua Kom Yawg Thaub Mob Strock no Tab si Koj yeej Tsi txog qhov twg tuaj thiab mas nawb. Qhov Zoo tshaj plaws Ces..2 Leeg Rov qab los Sib hlub xwb mas nawb.
Your husband is right in the sense that it's your parents fault in forcing you two to marry so young.
Txiv neej ces nws twb tsis hlub yus los .nws yeej tsis pub lwm tus hlub thiab mas .tseem khoo yus thiab mas .
tog neg cov hmoo meka sib nrauj coob dua lo nej lam nyob teb chaw vam meem xw nej yug mi nyuam coob npaum li hmoo xyoo 75 ,
Hmoob Mekas ces ua neej li tsiaj ua xwb.
Peb cov txiv neej nrog2 poj niam pwg los yog nyiam2 ua paum thaum hluas laug muaj 50 xyoo rov saum nrog tsis tau poj niam pwg los ua paum tsis tau lawm. Ntawm kuv tus kheej twb muaj 60 tawm xyoo tseem nrog tau poj niam pwg tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab lis. Vim thaum hluas2 kuv tsis nrog poj niam pwg heev2 ib avthiv nrog nwg pwg lis ua 3 rau 4 zau xwb lub sij hawm no tseem zoo lis nyuam qhuav muaj 30 tawm xyoo xwb ho.
Cov niag muaj menyuam coob mas tsis yog lawv xav yuav menyuam coob tabsis yog lawv tsis txawj ua neej xwb. Lawv tsis paub muab kev sovsiab rau lawv tus txwjnkawm, lawv tsuas paub ua li tsiaj ua xwb.
Cas yuav nco qau ua luaj li lau. Ntiaj teb qau ntau ntau ntog tsuab tau.
Geees... 10 kids In this country and don't know how to do the birth control? Ruam tiag2
Omg 10 kids Please don't have too many kids so you can keep up with him
Tsawg sawm
Qhuav Ntxim xwb os tus txiv dev no na
Kev teeb meem ces yeej yog li ntawv nkaus nkaus xwb 1 choj 2 kis txhua tus
90% poj niam Hmoob ces nyuab siab tag li os vim txiv neej Hmoob phem heev
90% poj niam hmoob nyuab siab vim lawn tsis hlub lawn tus kheej . Ua neeg nyob hlub yus tus kheej zoo tshaj hlub cov txiv dev li no.
Cov niag ntsej muag txiv tshob cuab quav dev qias neeg....Cas yuav tsis muaj ib tug siab ncaj li o..hmoob e...Cas yuav ntxim. Ntxub ua luaj li o..ntshe thau nws Tuag ntshe yus yuav tsis paub qauj li o
Leej twb hais kom koj than cag tas hnub tas hmo ces koj yeej tsis khw koj ob the ceg hlo li Tus me niam tsev
Kv xav muab kv lub neej rau kj tham thb o
Regarding scar, everyone is difference. Dont think that if other dont develop scar u wont be. This is a 50/50 chance.
Ua txiv dev txaus lawm ces tsam no los nyob mob siab kuj zoo kawg lawm mas
Yup nowadays is about payback but trufully that's not a fulfilling life.
What I don't get is...how come these people who are so mad at their spouse for cheating, but they still call them "Me Koj Txiv" or "Me Koj Niam"?!!!
Hmong people don't have a other word to describe LOL
Agree. Those are May Vang’s terms. Chim thiab ntxub npaum li mas tsis lam siv me koj Txiv raws li kuv pom los
Seriously girl. Do you really think all those people with cheating spouses will actually say that to their cheating spouse/ex? May just won't say what they really say to the cheater. I guess she wants to keep her words clean or whatever, but this is what annoys me about her. Just keep it real to us and the people giving her the stories by actually using real life dialog like "niag txiv/niam dev, ntsej muag/tsov tom, etc." If I had a cheating story to share and told May to use the words above, I bet 100% that she'll still say freaking " me koj niam/txiv." But whatever. I already commented about that once or twice but she does what she wants since it's her channel. 🙄
@@MonaLisa-de4cp yeah I always wonder that too becus I noticed she always use me koj niam me koj txiv and I'm thinking do people really talk like that even when they're mad?
@@SV-ii6fy it just became obvious not too long after I began listening to her and these cheating stories and I thought just like you. Does each person submitting their cheating story tell her to say "me koj niam/txiv" every time? Impossible! She's just using them herself!
Ua cas kuv yuav ntshaw koj txoj kev hlub ua luaj. Kuv tus poj niam yeej tsis txawj nco kuv li as.
Koj twb tsis tshuav dabtsi rau nws nco lawm ne
Cas Koj tseem nrog nws mus nplog mus ua hluas thiab naw. Ib tus txiv tsev es Liam thiab phem npaum ko ces ntxov tso tseg ces ntxov zoo xwb.
Mus kawm nrhab ceg mos. Pog laus lawm tsis paub txheej hluas nim no thaj nrhab ceg lawm es niag txiv thiab tsis xav yuav lawm ces mus kawm kom seb niag txiv puas rov los nqa nws li ceg nav.
Nej yuav tau kawm ntawm nws hov. Saib seb nws niag txiv dev twb los noj tshuaj mev nqa nws ceg dua lawm ne
Niam tais kav tsij coj hluas nraug los puag rau nws saib li thaum ub nws coj hluas nkauj coj los ua. Rau koj saib thiab Seb nws puas txawj mob siab thiab
I’m kinda confused. You said you don’t care about him, but you’re still there with him. You haven’t moved move on, so my guess is that you still loved and cared for him. At the end of the day, he still win in my book. I would be happy to f around and have my wife still be there for me at the end. Anyway, I’m glad you’ve found peace and finally not hurting anyone
At least she learned at the end but it took her whole life. When he betrayed you the first time - it’s already over…their generation put up with a lot and old style.
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Hmong women suffered because they let martial affairs happen and have no well to let go. This is American, the land of the free, let go of the 1975 mentality.
Tsis lawb dab los cas pheej hais vajtswv.
13-14 Xyooj xwb nes twb yuav Txiv lawm! Kuv lis 13-14 Xyooj Kuv tsi tau Txhawj tso zes lis os.
Right!? Parents of this generation should have supervised their daughters more closely.
Yog tias yus tus txiv los yus tus poj niam hos phem npaum li ntawm cas hos tsi muab nrauj mus hos nyob2 kom laus tas thiab kuv xa tias yog yus nrauj tsi taus ces yus yeej phem phim nws xwb
Tus niam tsev koj tus txiv no siab phem 6 koj ntev los lawm koj khiav g taus koj ho g ua phem 6 nws thaum ntxov .tsam no nws kev tws muaj mob los khaub zig koj mam pib ua phem 6 nws g make sense li tshwj xeeb koj yuav tau txiav txim siab seb koj yuav ua zaj twg qhov kuv ntshai tsam thaum kawg nws muab koj tua pov tseg neog nws xwb becareful you life are important
Nev2 twg tsis kom maj2 mus yuav txiv, lub niag hlws tsis qoos. And here everyone bagging the little 10 year old bride. Twb nyob meska teb es cas hos tsis hu police rau es tseem muaj tau 2 tug ib xyoo thiab na.
Vim li cas twb tuaj loj hlob teb chaws no es tseem tsis paub caiv thiab tseem yug me nyuam coob ua Luaj thaum lawv tsis hlub kok lawm ces koj tseem yuav yug coob npaum cas los lawv yeej tsis care koj lawm na ,
Zaj neej neeg no mas yog tiag2 li os , ib co txiv tsev uas nim cuab qhov tsim2 txiaj na twb paub tias nws qhov khoom twb tsis ua hauj lwm lawm mas nim cuab qhov tsim2 txiaj twb paub tag lawm mas
Yom?
Cov uas tias tsim txiaj ces ntshe twb li koj hais lawm xwb tiag ov
Mloog cov neej neeg no ma %90 yog poj niam. Vim cov neej neeg no poj li poj niam xwb. Hos txiv neej cov %10 xwb. Poj niam yeej phem tshaj thiaj tuaj hais ntau tshaj hahahaha
Hehehe tus niam tsev aw....! Kuv twb kho tau kuv 💯 💯 lawm os... kuv kom nws pw zoo2222 tsis txhob sawv lawm los nws twb tsis sawv li lawm os...hahaha..
Can u ask the lady where she did her plastic surgery.
Xab maim tshiab lawm es nej es tseem yuav yug 10 tug me nyuam omg vim txoj niag kev tsi tsim txiaj tsi mloog lus thiaj tau lub niag neej lwj siab ntag
Koj siab ntev heev vim koj txawj xav yog heev thiab. Qhov ua taus li no los twb vim yog koj cov mi nyuam coob heev xwb. Txhua tus neeg tau zoo ua ntej lawm no ces nws yuav tau phem tom qab. Yog nws ho tau phem ua ntej lawm no ces nws yuav tau zoo rov tom qab thiab. Tab sis muaj qee leej tau phem los tau zoo ua ntej los nws yeej tsis tau zoo los tau phem rov tom qab thiab.
Yog nej tsis xav mloog ces txhob los mloog txawm niam ntsuab teev nws yuav hais li cas los no yog lawv xa lawv cov story tuaj rau may vang hais xwb. Yog nej tsis txaus siab nej kuj mus open nej ib tug TH-cam los pob. Tos cov neej neeg es cov poj niam chim duas cov txiv neej los vim cov txiv neej pheej mus tshoob pim sab nrauv coj kev liam thiab kev lwj siab los rau tus niam tsev mob siab ne!!!!.
Cov niag uas complaint May txog cov neej neeg neej phem tsis xav mloog na, lawv ces yog muaj zaj neej zoo meb, lawv yog cov yuav complain tias dag, tsis muaj tseeb, made up xwb no tiag.
Nyob mekas teb not good ideas to had 10 kids. Yug coob22 yus hlub tsi taus li lawv kev ntshaw me nyuam loj ces pib ua luab ua coos.
You should have pamper yourself a long time ago and left him so that you shouldn't have to deal with him now and all his sickness. I don't understand why you still with him and allow him to control you and your independence.
Xav paub kj tu fb o
Lol
May….puas muaj li ntawd tiag? Is it really ease the hurt for real…puas pab tau tiag mas….yog pab tau no ntshe kuv yuav muab kuv zaj rau koj hais kom kuv kaj siab paub?? Lol!! When a spouse cheated on his/her spouse either online or in person it’s still hurts, adultery is painful!!!
Thaum laus ces los khoo yus ua qhev tu nws tus mob es nws mus phov sab nrauv los xwb.
Shaman women, why are you mad at your man when he cheats? He can marry a 2nd, 3rd wive, but can’t cheat? He’s got to cheat to find the new women right? Your family dab aren’t offended when he brings her home, they actually approve it. Are you saying you know better than your family dab? Are you saying they are wrong for allowing the mistress to enter the family dab? You don’t truly believe your religion? If so, opt out and leave the religion. Why stay believing when you already see the holes, lies and corruption?
A lot of women will ignore this comment, yet still plead for respect. You can’t have respect for women while your religion allows polygamy. I’m not saying this out of hate, but bc I love you enough to tell you the TRUTH. You’re only a victim if you decide to stay and be a victim. The ones who’s not in this situation, stop being a bystander and love your fellow human by helping/loving them
Why 10 kid’s women. This is the reason he left u too.. used protection
Haha koj ces yog tus swb xwb os niam laus, koj twb pom xeeb mob siab chim siab tu siab npaum li koj hais, koj twb mus kho koj tus kheej tag 15k, tabsis txog thaum kawg koj tseem cuab rau nws ua koj li qub xwb ces ntxhais tau hais tias koj yog tus swb xwb os mog. Koj yeej tsis yeej ib qho me me kiag li. Yog hais tias koj kho koj tus kheej tag es koj cuab rau lem tus txiv neej ua koj rau nws ntsias mas awv koj thiaj yog tus yeej ov. Kho kho tag tabsis tseem rov tuaj hauv qab cua tau tus neeg tsim koj xwb no ces pab koj tu siab xwb lau
We are ladies be strong👍🏻glad you remodel your body👏👏
Its funny how she remodeled her body but still a doormat for the man she claimed he cheated on her….. its just sad…..
It's his fault for his own fate. He was hurting you and being irresponsible husband and father.
Lawwwd , this lady all talks yet still with her txiv dev. This is why Hmong men treat Hmong women like shiet!!! 🤦🏻♀️