This Dog is Tearing this Family Apart! (Cesar's Dog Nation!)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 พ.ค. 2024
- In this Dog Nation Episode, Andre and I make a home visit to help an army medic who is suffering from PTSD who must choose between his child and much needed service dog, Kona.
His wife doesn't feel safe with the kids at home with the dog.
Can I solve this problem and help this family?
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I understand the training of the dog but the mother needs to keep her kids in check. Don’t hit, don’t pull the ears!!! Sometimes parents just don’t know how to discipline!
Agreed! The wimpy "No no, Levi. Be nice" doesn't cut it for me! She needs to use a firmer more serious voice. And not a request, but a command.
@@catharineorellana3522 right like the kid is going to listen to the voice. Hope she figured out babying him won’t work later in life either.
Yesssss
Agree100%
Did not like this at all This women had no intention of checking and keeping an eye on her kids YOU do not let kids pull on a dog I have a strong sense she was jealous of the dog and wanted her husband to get rid of Kona I am a trainer myself and animal behaviorist (BA) I would have immediately told her that she is a huge part of this problem Animals have limits and she was (in my opinion) purposely allowing her kids to do this Very annoying video
3 mins in and the answer is clear, don't let the children mistreat the dog!
yup
Right away I knew it was a kid and the mom they were stressed out more than the dad was but all three of them none of them knew how to get rid of their own Fear I’m glad he showed them. That vet and his family are going to be OK I think Especially the vet I think this turned his whole world around good job Cesar
Witch means that its the parents fault.
@@Storyraymond it’s almost always the parents...
No one wants there ears and nose being touched.
It’s not the dog that needs training, it’s the people.
Always
Cesar’s #1 rule every time.
@@lisamac8503 👍👍
Yes but now a days you can't tell humans anything..they come biting at you worse than animals
If I had a nickel for every time I've heard that, but it's not instructive or constructive
Not sure why people don’t teach children boundaries with dogs, of course animals have their limits especially when kids get bigger and stronger.
they don't teach it, hon, because they don't know how
Because people don’t know how to raise dogs let alone children. I knew when my mom was serious. Today kids get by with acting out because parents don’t know how to lay down rules. Poor puppy!
You can teach children but there’s always going to be an element of unpredictability with kids. Dog owners must have zero tolerance of aggression with their dogs. 🐩
Yes Tien, my sentiments exactly. And I think it's good and healthy if children learn how to be with animals. Can be downright therapeutic. It's not for nothing that there are therapy animals for children with physical or mental problems, like dogs & horses. I was always around animals and I couldn't imagine a life without them...😊🐕🐎
animals are NOT cheap nannys. Sometimes you have to guard the animal from the kids until they become sensible enough to behave.
Saw that when I worked in a shelter. The nicest little cat, a bit shy but always eager to hop on my lap for a good cuddle after my job was done in her department, went to a family with toddlers. This kitty never showed me any sign of aggression. But I am grown up, I wait until it comes to me, I know how to touch a cat and never force it. Well, little kids do not know that. They feel a warm fluffy thing and want to GRAP it whatever it takes. Not many cats (or dogs) take that kindly. They feel pushed, cornered and sometimes the kids hurt them.
The kitty I mentioned came back to the shelter 2 days after adoption, "too dangerous for the kiddies" - ähm, really? They wrote a note on the door "Not sociable with children". It made me angry.
For heavens sake, if you want your children grow up with animals, TEACH them to get along with each other! They are no nannys, no punching balls, no toys, they are living creatures.
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Cesar Millán in spanish with a Yaquis baseball cap ha-ha just kidding. You do you Mr. Cesar M. !!
I would like to see older videos when you were still in L.A. I miss the big pack.
Thanks Cesar!
I'd love to see more of your work with helping two dogs in the same household get along better!
Rules boundaries and limitation count for children too.
Exactly!
@@antoinettenovella1630 true but if your child gets bitten by a desperate animal because he or she does not know boundaries or empathie for other creatures its the dog or cat that ends up in a kill shelter. So watch out for gods sake and use your brains. Particularly with a special needs child.
By the way, its THEM that get best help from four legged friends. Clever supervision provided.
@@antoinettenovella1630 children with those issues can still learn boundaries with animals like any normal child can. It’s just different teaching and equally if not note important to do!
@@antoinettenovella1630 everyone needs rules boundaries and limitations. Even children with disorders. Its all a matter of extent.
Lol I'm sure your kids are perfect 😂
It gets my heckles up when I hear of any child pulling on a dogs ears and tail. Respect all animals, simple! Well done Cesar 👏👏👏👏
Right! I agree.
Yes correct
Yeah...kids learn respect for animals from day 1
@Kirsten Macfarlane
Are you vegan?
That's true but just like a dog/puppy , the children need to be taught aswell. I've had to teach my youngest son this. He puts his face right in our young male dogs face and the dog growls. So I actually have 2 corrections I need to make. The child and the dog. So much work lol
"Take a break from fear " Best quote if the year, Cesar.👍
Cesar is wisdom in person...
I wish I could. I wish it would go away because it had ruined my life.
@@QueenTaj7 Do you have a dog Julie?
You are such an amazing person!!!!! Love the compassion you display on a regular basis!!!!! This was a wonderful thing you did.
Levi needs to learn the word, “No” and that he isn’t the ruler of the household. That’s the parents fault but it’s not the end of the world. It can be easily corrected.
Geez yes sorry to say but those kids seem whiny 😕
Wow I hope you don't have kids...toddlers will be toddler no matter what some times...there only baby's lerning to be a kid...how about don't get a dog just to use it to dump negative emotions on it...its not fair to the dog.
@@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army Wow yourself. Spoken like the parent of children with excused bratty behavior. I DO have kids and they learned early on that we make the rules and when we said "no" that we meant it. Yes, toddlers will be toddlers, but that's exactly why there are parents - to help nurture and guide children towards better behavior since they don't have the maturity or mental development to do it themselves. Otherwise, as a parent you're just copping out and taking the easy route.
Also, he didn't get the dog to "dump negative emotions on it". If that were the case then anytime he felt anxiety he would abuse the dog, while quite the opposite was true. Whenever the owner started getting tense the dog would come to him with love and that love would be reciprocated, creating a bond of love and trust between the two.
@@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army he's a small kid not a baby lol the kids to blame because Mom and Dad didn't teach him how to respect the dog and boundaries and to not hurt animals
@@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army wow you are so deluded.... you are the problem....
Poor sweet dog... I don't blame it... How would they like to have their ears or hair pulled? In the dogs case his tail.... They wouldn't like it either. So I am so GLAD that Cesar immediately knew that this child was not being taught boundaries.
Mom is passive
Yeah the mom just let it happen kind of encouraged it with her tense energy
Mom needs to not have any more kids.
Mom learns how to set boundaries. We all learn that. So all moms learn that. When someone tells her.
An old acquaintance of mine once brought their dog to the vet, to get him put down because he bit their 2 year old. The vet said: "I'm not putting him down. Especially if he has 25 staples in his ear. I'm surprised the dog didn't bite sooner"
They never knew he had staples in his ear, caused by their own kid
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*That’s NOT an aggressive dog.*
*That’s a fed up dog that is tired of being chewed on and stepped on. He’s very clearly and patiently warning both the parents and toddler.* 🤷🏻♀️
Toddler should be taught not to sit on dog or pull his ears/tail. Parent should be training child not to do these things.
Couldn’t agree more. Toddlers need to learn respect for animals.
@LadieKadie1 just don't let him do these things
@LadieKadie1 yes the toddler doesn't understand, but that's why the parent needs to be a parent and teach the child that it's not ok to do that. If parents don't teach their children what is ok and not ok, think of the troubles that child will get into once older.
Look at the way the world is now, we have more confused people that don't even know what gender they are, more getting involved in drugs and crimes, disrespect for elders, etc.
@LadieKadie1 it's called a baby gate. If the kid is too young to understand how to properly interact with a dog then they need to be separated in times where mom or dad isn't 100% focused on monitoring the child, like cooking dinner or cleaning. The dog's life depends on it because he will be punished for biting that kid even if the kid instigated.
@@findinggod1746 oh calm down. The fact that you think being gay or trans is connected to not being disciplined enough means you're not in touch with reality.
I was really hoping Cesar would mention what a TERRIBLE idea it is to let your kids into your dogs crate, especially when the dog is in it.
I was thinking the exact same thing! Doggos need their den as their place to get away and relax.
He may have but it may not have made the editing. It definitely should be included though
Exactly! Mine dogs get along with my children very well but the only time my female gets feisty is when the kids mess her crate, she will come running and barking from wherever she is. Thank goodness my kids are 10 years old and up and respect her crate but they do it because my female dog is on the smaller side so sometimes we can’t find her in the house and it’s a sure way to find her but they know otherwise don’t mess with her crate and we’ve enforced that from they beginning as a pup and she’ll be 6 this year.
@@iam_loved1686 I used to manage a shelter and many adult dogs were surrendered because of "incidents" with children...the more we asked for info, they would eventually tell you it was because of something the child had done to the dog and the dog reacted, then paid the price.
@@iam_loved1686 if your dog is getting feisty when your kids approach the crate, that's a problem. It's true the dog should see its crate/kennel or whatever space is given to them, as a place of relaxation and not punishment, but they shouldn't think they own the crate.
Dogs are territorial by nature, they scare you away from "their space", all of a sudden you avoid going near it which gives them more space to claim as their own until eventually the entire house is "theirs".
Children definitely need to play their role as well, which means respecting the dog and not trashing the whole show, but children will do what children do, and from what you're describing, if they even so much as approach the crate, the dog goes nuts. You're basically encouraging the dog to be the boss. You're fortunate that she's small.
Always taught my 2 and half year old daughter how to respect dogs and how to be around them, and show her what our dogs behaviours mean/do. She always has respect for their space, she can play with them and command them with confidence and generally take the role as their alpha. She has the respect of and position over 2x 45kg german shepherd family members all due to being taught how to read, respect and deal with dogs. Wish other people would teach at such a young age, its a beautiful thing to see
Well done. The thing is if one owns a dog who is simply an angel, i.e. patient, loving, always there for cuddles and hugs. Those people don't even realize that there are dogs who don't want to be treated like a toy. and this is quite difficult to communicate. Then,the dog looking for respect is always the bad guy...
@@motorola4762 Exactly. Too many people have a romanticized memory of the family dog who put up with all kinds of nonsense from little kids and expect that from all dogs rather than questioning if it's the right thing to do in the first place.
I love how they say "he's afraid of everything and everyone" and Cesar breaks in with "and so do you". It's always emotions going from both sides
Sorry Caesar, when you bring junior out, he steals the whole show. He’s gorgeous. You’re the best Caesar.
Yeah totally 🙈
You can totally see that kid is out of control and the dog isn’t the prblem 😂😂
Exactly! I would be pissed if someone sat on me too..
He's not out of control, he's a typical toddler. The instinct of every toddler is to test boundaries.
@@JoyfulMD sounds like this hit to close to home 😂🤷♂️
western parents are too gentle with their children, to the point of not wanting to reprimand which is right and wrong. this is which is why many spoiled kids
He is 2 y/o, relax bro
Dog showing all the signs of “ please leave me alone “
I have an almost 6 year old pitt/mutt/mix. He’s about 85 pounds. Has been in both of my kiddos lives since my oldest was 2 and a half and my youngest since he was in my belly. I trust that dog with my life. AND I STILL DO NOT ALLOW THEM TO PLAY WITH HIM WITHOUT CONSTANT SUPERVISION. He’s the most patient soul I’ve ever met, but dogs are DOGS. he has always had some amount of food aggression and I’ve worked tirelessly to help my pupper out with that. It’s our jobs as parents to set and uphold the boundaries of our homes.
I love how he said the kid has no boundaries… I’m so proud of my children. Even tho we don’t have a dog but a cat and they are so gentle and genuine with her our cat loves spending time with them. Children just need to be taught.
Wow that is beautiful.
"Service Dog" is not just a dog who does tasks, they need to have a good temperament and proper training. I'm glad Cesar was able to help.
Thank you so much for mentioning this (coming from a service dog handler).
What us humans seem to fail to understand is that it's NOT the fault of the animal and should not blame them.
Thank goodness for someone like Caesar Milan. He's amazing. 😁👍
A child's love of dog is intuitive, however children must have guidance. As usual, Cesar shows the way. As Levi grows into his intellectual self, he will have the foundation to become a healthy and beautiful Dog Whisperer too !!!
Thank you Cesar for saying that! Teach them how to be gentle. My friend has three kids and none of them ever crawled on top of the dog and pulled his ears. That’s NOT “normal toddler behavior”. That’s behavior that you let them get away with because you never wanted to teach them how to treat animals.
Cesar promotes Dog Nation. In a sense he's actually promotion Peace Nation. Thank you so much for your work, I've been your long fan, you help me understand better the problems of dogs and their owner's.
2:42 Really lady.... thats when you teach your child boundaries
Exactly!!!
Cesar is just an amazing teacher
I could also see the kid(s) lack boundaries.
It was wise of Cesar to feel out the parents: do you think it's the dog or the toddler?
Dog doesn't like the hyper out of control no boundaries kid. Neither would I.
People should educate their brats to respect animals
@@briannahernandez6627 👍🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@adorable3817 exactly, I'm with the dog on that one...
Yes I love how Cesar posed the question and gently presented the REAL issue. You’re CHILD that has not been taught how to interact with dogs. But somehow it became the dogs fault. WOW
This episode was exactly what my husband and I needed to watch. We dont have kids but we have a dog who is anxious and unsure of new people. Adults we can set limits with around our dog but other peoples children is hard to do. Plus people always blame our dog. It was validating to hear your son say it's not the dogs fault. Let us know if you're ever coming as far as Vancouver, Canada !
don't fret, tell other people friendly but firmly, careful with the dog, its anxious, not vicious, please be so kind and keep your children at a distance. Let the dog come to THEM. Any sensible person should understand that. Have to do the same with my grumpy old cat and it works.
@@MollyGrue1 it seems there is more and more a lack of education in people around "how to behave properly with an animal". A cop came to my house to give me infos. We were in the garden. A cat was doing his cat business, suddenly the cop decided to pet his head without warning. The cat snapped him and ran away. The cop said to me "you should give a better education to this cat" I was thinking "So should have your mom done with YOU Man".
Is this really a service dog, or just an adopted dog he wants to help him feel better? Huge difference!
He’s an adopted dog that he had a connection with, he’s not a trained service dog.
I wish Cesar would focus and highlight the differences of an actually trained service dog vs. Emotional support. The client has the ability to owner train for service but work needs to be put in.
@@emb6077 Exactly. PTSD isn't something you can just shut off. The whole family is going to be affected and the dog is not trained to handle it.
The dog needs to also be trained as a service dog! I rescued a dog & I trained him into my service dog. It can be done.✨
@@emb6077 Couldn’t agree more. Coming from a service dog handler
I'm going to vote Cesar Millan for president 😇 💕 honestly
Your work is amazing 🤩
thanks
We taught our children to respect the dog.
Cesar, I love your work and miss your programs on TV. I'm so glad I found you on TH-cam. I'm a big fan!
Cesar, always amazed at the beautiful energy you carry, bring, and share with everyone.
IT"S NOT THE DOGS FAULT!!!!! Dogs respect and are loyal and understand that a member of the family isn't respecting their boundaries. I LOVE THIS DOG.
So the it’s the dog his fault? Train your kids to leave the dog alone, pulling a dogs ear, get in the dogs crate what is suppose the dogs safe place, I have PTSD and I know what the man feels, if I had not my dogs, I would be in a bad situation, I have a bad anxiety too, so people please, train your kids.
So happy to hear César saying immediatly "this child goes too roughly into the dog 's intimacy". Mama, your kid is able to understand "leave the dog quiet!"
That's one of the reasons dogs don't like To be around little kids, because the kids are not trained to respect the dogs boundaries. No one wants to be around out of control children who hurt animals. Good job Caesar.
When you look up positive vibes! Cesar’s picture should just pop up 😀
Cesar has taught the family "how to be happy" 🙂🙂🙂🙂
Being a military brat to a Veteran for a Father, this REALLY touched my 💜. Thanks for your SERVICE and Thank you Cesar for helping that family and dog!
God forbid you teach that kid to respect personal space
I want to know why it’s always the dogs fault when it comes to the kids… There are parents involved here start acting like responsible parents and pet owners🤦♀️
If it were me, I’d make it clear to the kid that you treat the dog with love or you aren’t going to be near the dog!!! Boundaries are a must
Bcoz kids are just kidz. They dont know what they do.
@@brianmayabella5992 That’s why there’s parents to teach him the right way to approach a dog a treat a puppy or a cat or a kitten or any animal inside the home and… It wouldn’t be bad for them to take the kids to PetSmart’s they have a pet or not and realize how to treat animals in general
@@jeanmastrangelo1157 kids learn from watching adult òr someone or something like tv. Do u think that a 3 yr old learns from talking to you? Its like talking to a dog and you say come, come. Kids learns from adults of what your voice pattern is, your action and the way you react. Common mistakes is to treat a dog or a child with the same intellectual as us. That you expected to follow you by telling them. Have you not learn what they see in tv is the same way as watching you as a parent act?
@@brianmayabella5992 that’s why I said it’s up to the parents to teach them it’s not the dogs fault at all stop putting it on innocent animals … And you’ll be surprised with three-year-old knows and doesn’t know it just shows how ignorant the parents are… I’m respectfully removing myself from this conversation
Awesome!!!!
No this is not awesome, I’m studying animals and vet nursing and I’m class we watch his videos to make sure we don’t become like that, he does not know how to properly train a dog with proper techniques. He does not understand the animal at all
@@breesimmons8244 your opinion my dear and seeing that you have no real life experience with dogs than it is not a very educated opinion. I have been involved in dog rescue and rehabilitation with much success for twenty years and have seen it all.
@@catherinemorris908 well you can have your opinion hun but what I’m telling you is my opinion. And I’m quite educated I work in animal shelters and everything too so don’t go saying I’m not educated hun xx
@@breesimmons8244 you sound like a teenager so you can’t be that educated. And my twenty years beats your teenage years by 100 miles. He has saved more dogs from euthanasia than you have ever worked with, so take it somewhere else.
Hi from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 ! Love your videos !
blessings!
Seria bueno que pongan subtítulos español!! Saludos desde La Rioja, Argentina
❤️stay safe everyone❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧
Dogs are such a reflection to the human psyche. It's amazing.
Master Cesar, always puts dogs and families together!
I just love how Cesar brings man and dog to that peaceful place. You the man, Cesar! ;)
Cesar eres un orgullo para nuestro México,tus hijos preciosos jóvenes!
what you are doing is great
That Was Fun... I Love Watching You Work Your Aura Magic!!✨❤🐾
SO grateful Cesar helped a vet. They deserve everything good we can give them.
I loved 2 see this Cesar. I had an AmStaff who was dumpt, his family moved 2 an other country. And I took him, also having PTSD, before I had him there was a German Sheppard in my home and she was focused 2 hurt other little dogs, so she had 2 go. When this amazing dog I namend him Snoopy was with me for 2 years, he kept me calm. I was really calm because of him. Even when he was diagnost with heartfaillure... and I had 2 give medicins and care (that gave me stress 2 lose him), you didn't see it 2 him because he was joking me!😍😊
Lost him on 21/11/11. 😥😭
You're so good with children! A natural kid whisperer too!🤗
This is encouraging to teach the kids to be a friend of a dog and how to teach their kids to be kind to the animals.Because some people getting adult with lack of empath.
Thanks Cesar,you save the family too.
Love cesar from Spain!
Love this family. Wish healing on them all. Cesar is the best!
Bringing a family together. Ceaser you are one of my heroes.
So heartwarming.
Always happy to see a vet and family helped.
Ésto es lo mejor de todo, lograr la unión familiar con la energía correcta 👍
Thank you Cesar I have been watching you for years and years and I still am learning and loving it
It's like he's always therapeting both the dog and the owner.
This guy has PTSD and I recon he needs guidance aswell.
This story truly touched my heart. We as humans are always quick to blame the animal because we don't understand the animal kingdom. We just say, I want that pet without knowing how to understand them. I'm glad they called on Caesar for help before getting rid of him. At the end of the day, our kids come first.
Tht was amazing 👏 🙌 & so heart felt 💓
It's because his dog needs personal space. My lil brother did the same thing. Now my dog is used to having him around.
Love you Cesar ❤️ you are born incredible
Cesar is such a gift to the world.
Fantastic job Cesar, great video thanks 💖😁
What a fabulous story, loved this video. Thankyou.
Wow, this was a great video...thank you César Milan 👍🏼
Very good work Cesear. Your insight n knowledge is impeccable. Thank you.😊 💕
My kids have always grown up around dogs, words I taught them were, “gently” and “not near the face”, “not while he’s eating”. I never left the kids alone with the dogs when they were little, not because the dogs ever showed aggression, but because being safe around dogs is a lesson that takes constant guidance. My kids are older now, but from the age of 10 we adopted 2 chihuahuas, both had issues and as a result of the beautiful way my kids are around them, the dogs are fine now.
We love you Cesar and Andre! It's awesome to see Andre the gentle soul working with dogs. This is all for the Spirit and Love of Daddy.
I really love your training and have followed you for years. Thank you for "fixing" this relationship.
It is so good to encourage children to be comfortable around dogs. Everything made so much sense. 🐕
But it was dog that wasn't comfortable around this out of control kid
Awesome!! Cesar M.
You are the best...
Thank You for your healing work Cesar. God bless you.
Bless you Cesar. What a lovely story.
This family is so sweet and I am so happy they have the tools to help their dog now! Thank you for your service!
More and more such unseen videos please Cesar 😭😍♥️ You're the best!
A la verdad que como César ninguno🙌🙌....bendiciones para el y su familia.
Loved every moment of it!🤗🤭 such a nice family very great moment!
I think this is a perfect example of not only teaching a child how to be nice to a dog but also helping someone who has PTSD. Perfect combination, you're amazing Cesar!!💞
Caesar is amazing, not cocky. Just professional, calm attitude. Thank you for the videos.😊
So much can be over looked in creating a good environment for a dog and family to thrive togrther! Being able to "see" what is missing is a true gift! I have always enjoyed watching Cesar work with dogs and their owners to get them on the right path.
Master Cesar is a step higher in a modern dog business. 👍♥️🎯
So awesome to teach them and the little one how to react around the dog
I recently started watching Cesar and now I’m hooked!
This is a beautiful story. That dog is so dedicated to his vet and being able to show a family how to properly live with the dog is amazing. I hope one day we will recognize this man as the national treasure he is.
love you Cesar you have a special gift to understand dogs
I feel tearful watching this. Thanks Cesar!
Que buen programa!!
Cesar you are the great man! Rerspect!
Cesar Millan for President!! Teaching the country rules, boundaries and limitations! America, you need to learn trust, respect first- then comes compassion. So wish Cesar
could run in 2024!
hey Cesar!
This was great therapy for the family ..thank you Caesar