I was "groomed" by a 40 year old at 16 | storytime
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- so embarrassing but i was young
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He probably disappeared for a year because he went to jail 💀💀💀
fr my exact thought lmao
I thought the same thing lmfaoooo
You dont realize the gravity of these situations until you have your own children.
Exactly
Not even. I have a niece and a nephew and even though I’m still a minor, I feel like I have that same protective, guardian instinct yk?
Not really though lmfao you don't need to be a parent with a child to realize the gravity of those situations. 🤣
As a childree/anatinatalist who was raised to not trust/nor talk to strangers online I understand. It really doesn't take a rocket scientist lol. 💀💀
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as someone who also had a rough childhood that left me with nothing but trauma. we are the target for people like this, they see that we are so desperate for love that they know how easily we can be swayed when we believe someone is showing us what we think is "love" YOU ARE NOT ALONE. thank you for sharing for your younger viewers. :)
Same here.
Completely agree!!!
Hello
I was groomed online from like, 10 to 18 by multiple grown ass men. It makes me feel so icky now, but damn I was just so fucking lonely I would take attention from anywhere.
Anyone younger watching this now, it's not worth it. Even if you think you know what you're doing, if you think, or even if you've been told that you're "mature for your age", you're not. You're a child, and you don't realize this now, but I'm 24, and I wish I could go back and save myself from everything that happened. Even though if anyone had tried to stop me then, I would have been so mad and insisted that I was fine.
same with me but i’m 16 now just this weekend I was in a discord for gta 5 in someone sent my a friend request and I accepted it and then he said if I could facetime him and I said i’m sixteen luckily he didn’t try to hit on me after that but still why can’t I just go places or be on social media with someone hitting on me
Same story applies to me! I'm 23 now and back when I was 14 I legit thought I was cool and grownup for online dating a 26 year old... it is not cool, it is disgusting.
@@Marijemarijee thank you for sharing. People sharing their similar experience, while it saddens me that others experienced it, it makes me feel not so alone.
“I’m bored. I just want to sue” literally in tears 😂
I grew up with your videos and this storytime was one of the most heart breaking ones. The fact that your kindness (and young self) was taken advantage of by some old nasty man…I’m just glad it didn’t go beyond trying on clothes. It’s 100% NOT embarrassing like you claimed, I just hope this storytime brings more light to these online predators…younger people need to more vigilant and most importantly protected so much. I’m sorry you had to go through this ):
I completely agree! It shows us how often it happens and so many others that you wouldn’t believe went through it can relate also):
being on omegle at such a young age made me fall into this trap many many times with older men and i would try to act very mature and i thought i knew what i was doing... i pray nothing like that ever happens to my younger sister growing up on the internet right now
Talk to her about it so that way she has someone to talk to if something does happen
Definitely! ):
Talk to her!! My older sister had that talk with me too when I was younger and honestly it taught me so much. Don’t be vague with details either be in depth because kids get curious. And let her know even if she does Make mistakes you are a safe place and you’re a person she can go to, it’s very important because many people who go though this feel alone.
this happened to me as well at 16.. recently he tried to make himself the victim and say i forced him to groom me. insane! but thank you for sharing it can def be uncomfortable to look back at it. sending you hugs 💗
How the hell do you even force someone to groom you? These people are sick
@@marleycymon3512 beyond sick!!
i feel like every girl has experienced something like this in their youth
Oh yea.. some of my online besties ended up being creepy, I was 7 or 8 maybe 9? And there was this 15 year old girl who said gross stuff to me, now I’m 14.
I do not know if what he did is considered to be "sextortion" but what you described is close to it. It's so dangerous and several kids have unfortunately ended their lives over it. I'm glad you are safe and that it didn't escalate further!
that's what I was wondering too, I wasn't sure if it'd count but its scary that he was trying to escalate it to bikini stuff. Like if she agreed he might've eventually wanted to go further. It was a good thing that she stopped it
I don’t blame you for not thinking it was weird. I’ve been sheltered my whole life. Girl I’m 24 and I just realized how naive and ignorant I am with life
I love how humble you became and the little jokes about yourself, how you talk to the camera is very comforting and I’m grateful for TH-camrs like you when I’m having a bad day ❤️😢
Tbh i probably would have done the same thing. Getting money without having to get naked sounds to good to pass up. I’m glad you knew to stop before it got really bad❤️
Ik for a fact 16 yr old me would have!!
@@ItsNicoleAnderson same
@@ItsNicoleAndersonand i’m sixteen right now
I’ve been through something similar but instead I liked the sexual attention I got from older men. I’m 18 turning 19 in a few days and I’m glad I learned so quickly while I’m still young to realize it’s wrong and I’m just a child
I’m sorry that anyone has to experience this 😞 I’m dealing w a creepy boss currently and am trying to see what I can do legally to get this person fired so they don’t hurt anyone else. people are so sick. ❤ hugs.
hi nessa i been here since i was 13 and now im 19 still watching you, you make me so happy and that nostalgia makes me so happy even when ppl were mean to u i always supported u no matter what
same here!!! this makes me feel like a kid again
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Same for me 2003 babies🤞🏼💕
Same!!
You can’t even be upset at your child self because you were a child against a whole 40+ year old. It’s not embarrassing..
Ooohhh girlll please do NOT feel like you owe anyone an explanation for someone older manipulating you !!! He had to know what he was doing … making u feel good and sending u money for innocent vids. That’s how it starts … this is an important video for u to share ! It will save other young impressionable people from making the same mistakes !!! You’ve learned from it… always have been and always will be … a fan girlieeeee ❤❤❤❤
I just want to say that your strong for not letting that creep take advantage of you and try to trick you into making inappropriate videos. Even back then you definitely seen the wrong in that and it saved from being taken advantage by some weirdo. It does suck how it played out tho him leading you on for you to think he was a fan but all along mans just wanted to get to see 3D content, people like that disgust me and makes you look at people in a different light. Overall I’m glad you stood your grown for sure and I love you so muchhh definitely hope you have an amazing month full of love and joy. God Bless❤
I so enjoy a good storytime; happy you made it through!
So true how we view these things differently as we grow up.. thanks for sharing Nessa
it was sad to hear how much you talked down on your past self for ‘falling for it’
You were a child! Please don’t blame yourself for being a victim to this creep
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Hi Nessa! Love your storytimes!! Couldn’t miss this one. Only fans before it wasn’t even a thing 😣 Damn, it’s crazy to look back at the dumb and dangerous situations we put ourselves in as teenagers!
Omg and back when I did TH-cam I had this company reach out for me to review sandals. At first I got a pair of sandals and reviewed them for my channel. Then they started telling me to take off my nail polish in the try on video. Then they sent me socks. They made me cut up the socks and wear them and send them pics of my feet! Then they added me on Snapchat and said they wanted me to review lingerie. I was like 16! And they legit mailed me lingerie and made me send a photo in exchange and literally put it on their website😤 and to this day they still reach out to me so I have to keep blocking them. Like these grown ass people are really out here taking advantage of kids. I’m 22 now and a mom and just realized how fucked up this was
Cant believe I’ve been watching you for 7 years love ur channel so much ❤
That’s insane! Thank you for supporting me for so long !❤
Omg same!!!!!!!!!!
Hi girly!! Been watching your videos for 7 years! Thank you for everything!! Love you and your videos! Sending you, Anthony, and your family love, constant positivity, and ultimate happiness ❤❤
sending you love right back!❤️
I’m sorry that happened to you, and I’m glad that you cut it off before anything really bad happened to you. Also I’m glad that you’re sharing this story now, believe you’re definitely not the first or last young, naive teen this has happened to. I hope when others watch this it can help them avoid this situation or help them out if they’re in this situation now
Loving the natural look girly ❤😊
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I always go through phases watching your content as I’ve grown up, but it ain’t a story time without you saying “dadadadada” 😂😂😂
so excited for future vlogmas videos!
I loooove you Nessa!!! ❤️ been rocking with you since 2015 xx
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Love u and ur storytimes sm bae
i haven’t watched u since long before u had ur baby i used to watch u every day and was obsessed w u as my fav youtuber but i felt like something changed w ur vids but i’m giving it another try i hope that i can keep watching u consistently bc i remember how much i used to enjoy it
Thanks for sharing your story of awareness
Love the video and keep up the great work nessa
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definitely not your fault nessa, don't feel guilty or upset at your younger self. He was/still is in the wrong and knew exactly what he was doing so this is on him
AHHH I missed ur storytimes! I went through something similar at 15 & I'm 19 now. :/ I'm so sorry nessa
Hope youve healed xx sending love !
I love you girl I’m sorry you are going thru this all over again as it comes up again in ur life. It really is fuckin tough but I love you and we are all here for you and can relate!!!!
Thank you for this nessa ):
I love you so much Nessa ❤
I was waiting on this ! I saw your tweet. I really love your channel and am sad that you’re seconding guessing posting. The real supporters will stay no matter what and the fake will weed out we don’t need them here anyway! ❤
I can’t believe this happened to you mamas 🥺, I’m glad you’re okay nessa.. laaawd people are so damn creepy 😭
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been here since the tmart video!! you’re really the GOATTTT NESSSAAAAA💖
I’ve been watching for quite a while but o don’t think that long. You were still at home though. You’ve matured into such a beautiful woman and mother!
I think since your having a second baby your thinking about the things that happened to you as kid. Some of these men are sickos
I had the SAME thing happen & the worst part for me was that the guy was asking for feet videos…(no, the few videos I posted weren’t feet related) & I was soooo naive I actually recorded myself stepping, slipping, & sliding my foot onto a stick of butter & sent it to him. I was like…11? & no, I never got paid lmmfao
What😭😂 I’m so sorry you had this happen tho men r so weird
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Lmfao I can’t even say anything because I would’ve done the same 😭
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“Am I talking about now” 😂 😂 that made me laugh so hard, but you know you’re flyyyyyyy!!!!!!
Love u Vanessa💜💜your amazing
Men can be so creepy and disgusting, so happy no real harm ever came from this situation.
bruh i hate the internet cause i’d accept any friend request at 13-15 & these grown ass men never cared to get locked up 🥴 i was way too friendly & dumb back then
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the same happen to me i was 16 and i was on Kik app 😷and Facebook or IG bro they sent me videos lieing to me about going to my school or pretending to not email or dm me on IG .just alot of manipulation it was rough but i still to this day never try to go on Facebook and haven't been on Kik ever again since 16 .Grooming is just not good for you even the money is great or being told lies and trying find where you live was wrong don't do it .
I started watching you shortly after you created this channel and I was 14 now I’m 22 going on 23. I went through a similar experience but he was actually my age but was an idiot as well. I’m loving your blog as videos and love you as well ☺️
Please don’t get mad at yourself you were a child! I re-read my old messages with my gr00mer and was mad at myself too but it’s really not our fault. We were kids and didn’t know better.
hey girly so excited for vlogmas!
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The internet has been so traumatizing honestly
I just want to say don't be too hard or feel embarrassed because I was raised in very similar way as you and boys at school also called me ugly so any attention, I got online from men made me happy. Now I'm 21 and no longer talk to perverted men online but I just want to say many girls have been through similar things and this just teaches us what we need to do as future moms to protect our children. Love you Nessa
i was 11, he was 30.. i was groomed multiple other times, but he was the first to do it and it truly fucked up my perspective of relationships more then it already was fucked up lol.. i have so much childhood trauma and it was the perfect storm for me to be groomed.. it's fucked, but i just hope i can protect my daughter from ever experiencing something like that.
I’m so sorry you had to experience any of that..
I’m sending you so much love and support ! ❤️❤️
You really want to protect your kid(s)? Don't have any!! 👏🏻 SIMPLE 👏🏻 AS 👏🏻 THAT!!!! 👏🏻 Antinatalism is the way!!!!
@@prnst4r i am okay, but happy that you've chosen that! :)
When I was 12 kik was popular and used a lot back then. I had a lot of love for Harry styles and was a big fan of one direction. I’m pretty sure this was a grown man pretending to be him and he would flirt with me and say all kinds of things . This video made me realize that, thank you for actually speaking about this, as it hit when u said “not all attention is good attention” i will definitely remember that. I love u girl ❤️❤️
Yea, I also remember when kik was really popular. Lots of creepy guys on there trying to get videos and pictures of me.
Same here??!!!!
The im bored I wanna sue took me tf out 😂
Never saw a title I related to so fast
Same sadly
Hey girl!!! We here 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Tbh when I was a teenager I would have feel for this too 💀
it was a check $😭😭💀
I love you nessa
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Nessa You So Beautiful, You Always Been 💓Love Your Videos!!!!
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My queen❤❤❤
I love you and ur videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Girl this is crazy I’m 26 right I been watching you since before hd 😂😂 like I think I was 18/19 something like that but why do I feel like we grew up together 😂❤️ I love you and the mature woman you’ve become you’re gorgeous and I literally feel like we actually are hanging out or some😅😂 but anyways keep it up girlie
honestly girl! I had it happen to me through a child's game - habbo hotel 😂 like not even joking I did start speaking to them like everyday then eventually led to Skype etc. Some guys are so sick !
Please do more storytimessss
Gonna try once week!
a lot of these things happen to people at a really young age and i hate that. kids are easily manipulated and that shit comes back to bite you in the ass later in life 🥲 look what happened to Ozuna! it scars me seeing how often this actually happens
i’m not an advocate for taking or heavily monitoring how teens use their phone/social media. if anything, they should be taught how to be aware of weird messages/requests that they get from people and how to handle it. we can’t always protect everyone, but we sure can let them understand how bad it can get
What happened? I can't find anything
@@jackiiemedrano I agree
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Dude I remember when I was 15 years old, I met someone online. Turns out he was in his 20s! He took me on a “date” I ended up in Tucson I was so scared idk what to do. We stopped at a gas station I went to the “restroom” and I told the cashier I was scared and I didn’t know this man. Memory is a little fuzzy but I’m pretty sure my mom picked me up. Luckily I made it out alive and didn’t get trafficked.
yayyy vlogmas
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Don’t be so hard on yourself I feel like a lot of us would of took that chance at that age
when I was 11 I got instagram, I started posting, got followers, followed them back.. and then a 28 year old man started texting me asking inappropriate questions. he’d always ask to call and made me feel bad if I didn’t, later he started asking where I lived.. I’ve logged out of that account now, maybe he’s still there…
my(17) sports coach (46) whom I looked up to groomed me just this may. He ghosted me when he realized that it's way too risky for him. I still don't know what to do, how to get back up. I also feel stupid because I knew he was manipulating me, it was so obvious, but I let him do everything to me because I crave love so much, it hurts. I learned from it, but it is really hard.
Can I vent? I really don't understand why men can be so evil, like as a human being how could you even think of doing that to a child basically. He was old enough to be your father. I also get hit on by married men & old men. It's so annoying, like what does a 40 year old see in an 18 year old girl. Their intentions are always evil. So disgusting and annoying 💔💔💔💔💔💔
I’m sorry you have to deal with that. It’s unfortunately the world we live in. I’m transgender (female to male) and was sexually abused as a young kid by my father. Have mental and legal help now, am 16, and haven’t seen him in about two years, but the damage will never go away. It’s much more common than people think. I hope you stay safe, if you ever want to talk or vent you can always talk to me! Just let me know. Have a wonderful day/night.
@@Werileyz knowing that there are others makes it easier because that way we can heal together
Smh, I really wish he got exposed
I’ve been here since I was like 14 or so and I’m now 21(almost 22) with a 7 month old happily married
Edit: I also went through something similar at 12. Don’t know if anyone remembers a game called “wee world” yeah… it was on that lol.
omg not wee world! i do remember that ! I hope youve healed from that ❤ and wow youve been watching for a minute!!! thank you for the support 😭❤❤
@@simplynessa15 yeah I’m so much better now 😂😂😂 I was young and dumb. And I’ve learned not to talk to strangers on games that give me their Facebook 😬😬
21 with an almost 1 year old!?? Pff embarrassing!! 💀💀
@@prnst4r Says Wittle Kitten
Stay strong girly
I’m fine babes❤ just sharing a strange experience
@@simplynessa15 I hope you and your family are doing well you are so amazing and sweet it's amazing how much you've grown as a person I'm so proud of you🥰❤
Man we all go through that I would guess
so scary because he probably still has those vids to this day..omg..
Right! Should had been in real life without money. With consent and normal.. Without a video camera and some peoples real eyes instead. Normal evolution..
You need to check if your photos were sold online or the videos was sold online. Child porno rings do those kinds of things
I’m only 19 but 16 year old me would have 100% fell for it as well lol!
That’s insane wtf
pls this is so scary..
I’m an introvert at heart so I get it shoot don’t matter to me I remember when Chicago was on lock down it didn’t bother me lol
right like i love being home lol
@@simplynessa15 yes🥰
Our parents were too lenient with us back then 😞
Yup 🥲
Mine were strict in the wrong areas 💀 but social media was kinda new so they couldn’t have known
@@simplynessa15 aww no I have no doubt in my mind your parents were amazing but 90's parenting style was wild 🤣
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Not you saying " Am I talking about now?" girl 🤣🤣🤣🤭🤦♀️
Girl why is this exact same way for me
okay but what foundation is that because i just saw the coverage with that little ass bit of foundation you had left and I NEED THAT FOUNDATION ahhhhh
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That explains a lot
Lol he’s gonna be too scared to comment with all of Nessa’s army behind her back. We ready 👊🏽
Heyy Ness , I want to start a channel and I’m in college. I don’t want to censor myself completely and not be someone I’m not, but I want to express myself as a youtuber if my content could be about anything. Could you get advice so I can limit the risk of anything like parts of my life being “out there”? If that makes any sense 🥴I understand house tours but anything that no youtubers talk about
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