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    It's Wilma's final eventing vlog of the season, and we nearly had the perfect day. From the get-go, everything felt perfect-our dressage, show jumping, and even the first part of the cross-country was seamless. But then, right at the last fence… well, things didn’t quite go to plan. 😬
    Yes, we were absolutely flying until the final fence cross country, where we had an unexpected stop. That moment may have cost us the win, but if you’re into the highs and lows of eventing, you’ll want to stick around to see exactly how it unfolded. I’ve never had a stop at the last fence before, so this was certainly a first for me.
    Despite the "nearly" day, I’m keeping my spirits high-this is just part of the sport, and I know Wilma will have her day! We’ve learned so much this season, and I couldn’t be prouder of how far we’ve come.
    Thanks so much for all the support, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to follow more of Wilma’s journey. Onwards and upwards! 💪
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  • @sarahcooper3378
    @sarahcooper3378 วันที่ผ่านมา +68

    What a shame. She was going so well! Don't overthink it, though. I think it's just part of her learning process, and to hear others had problems at the same jump proves its not just her. Her first season of events was really good. Now a winter of training, fun rides and maturing. She's going to come out next season a different horse. Well done .❤

  • @colleenw8756
    @colleenw8756 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    Please update us on Jam and Winnie. I LOVE any vlogs from you. Stay safe and well.

    • @annjohnson8437
      @annjohnson8437 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Yes! We definitely need an update, please. ❤

    • @JoeAcarnley
      @JoeAcarnley วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I totally agree with an update about jam & and winnie. would be mostly appreciated

  • @theelepeltje6212
    @theelepeltje6212 วันที่ผ่านมา +105

    And also, why do people have the need to comment how quick they are viewing or commenting on a new video??? I mean, no one cares!!! I just don’t get it, or maybe I am just getting too old 😂

    • @LauraBloxham
      @LauraBloxham วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It’s a kids thing. Let them be if they like it.

    • @loridorii
      @loridorii วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Also, if it gets engagement up on a video, not a lot to complain about there

    • @MissJools11
      @MissJools11 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      I don't understand it either!!

    • @theresafawcett6909
      @theresafawcett6909 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agree with you but I think it a kid thing

    • @emmadm826
      @emmadm826 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      It annoys me too but it's a kid thing and the creators like it because it gets engagement up so...I try to just ignore it because it doesn't hurt anything.

  • @DeborahHamilton-q1w
    @DeborahHamilton-q1w 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +26

    I think your friend may have it right, Meg, that you stopped pushing and relaxed a bit coming up to that last fence. Just a thought. Her TB half may be showing that sensitivity to YOU, and how you're riding. If you relaxed a bit too much? I wonder if slowing her on one of those longer runs for a few strides, then pushing her on again would help? Just musing. I've had three full Thoroughbreds, two off the track, one bred and trained for it but never raced. All very different personalities. One in particular was sensitive to every nuance, every thought. Of course it may just be as simple as something odd about that fence! Stay positive. Wilma has so much potential, and is coming along beautifully. She'll get there yet! Try not to over think it.

  • @algeebo
    @algeebo วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    From what I can see, as you’re coming through the trees she isn’t looking forward and where she’s going, she’s kind of looking around and not concentrating- I think maybe she thought she had finished. Then as you say, suddenly this fence (with scary pebbles lol) is in front and she’s like what?!
    I guess she’s one of those horses you can’t take your guard down for a second 😂 well done for the rest of it though! ❤

    • @lucycreighton6430
      @lucycreighton6430 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Was coming to write exactly this. She was switched off from the slower pace, thinking she was done, then you can see her spot the fence and that is the exact moment she puts her brakes on. Don't think it was a spook at anything, rather she saw it too late to get a look at it.

  • @ellenwoolley
    @ellenwoolley วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I swear we’ve just watched a vlog with this title few days ago, my brain is confused 🤣🤣

    • @livpuckett
      @livpuckett 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Me too, I sat here for about five minutes trying to figure out if my brain glitched. I’ve seen this before right??

  • @Golden1989-days
    @Golden1989-days วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I think she has improved over the season, honestly, so a lot to be happy about.
    I remember when someone was jumping her at a cross country training session (was it Simon?) and he said she was a horse who you needed to keep a really good contact with right the way through the jump process just to give her confidence. Almost like holding her hand. And you rode that round like a demon, really positive. So I do just wonder, as she can be quite sensitive, when you took the pedal off the gas coming into the last fence if she just faltered for a second. Well done though. Fun in the making 🎉🎉🎉

  • @janeraymond5214
    @janeraymond5214 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Well, she was a good bit better than last time over all..🤔
    Question: Would it be of any help to work on desensitization? Like with plastic bags, ballons, traffic cones, & crazy-shape things around jumps?
    I just know she'll be a 2 or 3 *** one day! 💗🏆

  • @Horsemom
    @Horsemom วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    Would Simon take her around at a show & give you some feedback?

    • @Phinleendn
      @Phinleendn วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Yeh, more often then not if you pop a professional on the horse is fine….

    • @emialice3825
      @emialice3825 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@Horsemom i would love to see this!!

    • @Horsemom
      @Horsemom 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@emialice3825 I think it would be a great idea 💡 😀

  • @jenniferquinn5010
    @jenniferquinn5010 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I think she thought she was finished and was not expecting to jump again.

  • @LindaBell-eo6io
    @LindaBell-eo6io 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    I think because she is so sensitive and looks to you for confidence, you slowing down before that jump may have sent the message that there is something ahead that she should be looking at. You know it’s just exposure and miles under her belt. She ran so well, now you have the winter to work on it ❤❤❤

  • @hannesofie6071
    @hannesofie6071 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I don't think always respect the last fence necessarily ment that it's dangerous Wilma...... 😅😅 So strange how horses react to totally unexpected things! Of course it would have been really nice to end the season with a win...... But close to a win is good enough for the first season!!! ❤❤ Future is still bright!!!

  • @deborahfisher6331
    @deborahfisher6331 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    You have such an amazing support network! So lovely how your friends & family are always there for you. I’m 100% sure you will get there with Wilma, you were absolutely bossing the cross country, such a shame about the refusal. Hope Jam and Winnie are doing okay ❤

  • @colleenw8756
    @colleenw8756 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I love when the horses get off the lorry. Then dive into the green stuff as if they haven't had any for ages. Poor mistreated babies - NOT. No horses/ponies could be treated better. Love your vlogs.

  • @animalovehay
    @animalovehay วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I think overall you did so well in all three phases and you both have improved so much 😊. I love watching your videos. Wilma seems like a sensitive horse.. could it be that if you have the thought of “let’s slow down I’m up on time” she feels that you want to slow but goes too far? Horses do read our body language and how we feel, so you could try to focus more on picturing you both flying over the fence and going forward rather than slowing down? They’re very good at reading our thoughts I think 😊😅. 🐴

  • @suzycute1456
    @suzycute1456 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    Think of how far she’s come though. And she’s still very green. Focus on the positive, that’s all you can do. I honestly think she thought she had finished as you said you’d stopped chasing her on to make sure she was within the time. She does try very hard for you, some horses just need a different approach. Once she’s figured it out she’ll be super. A really lovely little mare.

  • @IRL-pony
    @IRL-pony วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I recently got a horse that is a bit looky and the best advice I can give you is don’t ride differently.
    Make sure you’re really positive not just through your riding but use your voice as well.
    I also have a habit of pulling when she looks at the jumps, but with my horse, it only makes it worse, so I try not to pull.
    Hope this helps you and Wilma Meggy!! I really love you and Wilma together!!💜💜

  • @annjohnson8437
    @annjohnson8437 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Try to think of all the positive aspects of your outing with Wilma. She is still quite green, so a winter of schooling will do wonders, I'm sure! ❤

  • @MarionFeltham
    @MarionFeltham วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I think it was that "smiley" face; the slowing down perhaps made her think "why are we slowing down, is there something to worry about, oooo what's that!" Trying to think "horse"! She did so well otherwise. Well done Meg, you'll get there.

  • @TeamTLS101
    @TeamTLS101 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hey at least Hobs realised the lens cap was still on 😂 my mum would have revorded the whole lot in darkness not realising 😂

  • @stephaniesmith3864
    @stephaniesmith3864 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Oh on the hello fresh if you are on the fence about trying it just try it. They are amazing and taught me how to cook. Literally went from making boxed pasta to being able to make a whole meal for many adults. So a win win you support a creator you like and you get tasty food

  • @theelepeltje6212
    @theelepeltje6212 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I think this was your best run yet with Wilma, despite the stop on that last fence. I ❤Wilma woo!!! She has come a long way this season. It is such bad luck that Jammy and Winnie had their injuries, but at the same time I feel that you got the chance to take Wilma out more often and that shows in her improvement. I understand your initial frustration over the stop, but you should be very proud ❤

  • @emialice3825
    @emialice3825 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    i feel like horses with any thoroughbred in are so unpredictable with spooking 😬 as a teenager i had a pony that was half welsh sec b and half thoroughbred and he was kind of like wilma in that things you definitely WOULD expect a horse to spook at he would be totally fine and really amazing but then other time he would just STOP and nap/jog backwards and also would spook at things that you wouldn't expect him to, no hate to thoroughbreds haha but i think maybe it does just make them a bit unpredictable unfortunately

    • @SophieS-s9n
      @SophieS-s9n วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I have a 100% thoroughbred (off the track) and he is THE MOST chilled guy you can imagine. He is not spooking at anything at all and is just so much more fine with himself than tons of warmbloods I know. So blaming the spookiness on the TB part is always a bit far from the truth for me. :D

    • @Baileyfireland
      @Baileyfireland วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I have a full ID, a bog standard cob and a full Connie and they are all spooky buggers. And you can never predict what will catch their eye!!

    • @emialice3825
      @emialice3825 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      do you know what then, maybe it’s actually the native ponies that are the issue and not the thouroughbreds 😂

  • @debbieredmon5063
    @debbieredmon5063 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    That was weird. You brought her back but she didn't lose impulsion. She was straight to the fence. I think this was a crazy stop, but all of her stops are crazy. There is no reason for it. That being said, it is alright to be upset. If you could say, this happened therefore this, you could understand. It's the randomness. In any case, don't stress. The more miles she gets, the better she will become because she is quite a nice jumper and is brave. I will say you will work hard this winter, her dressage will be even better and keep smiling! You have a beautiful mare who will be an exceptional event horse!

  • @louebegg3623
    @louebegg3623 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Oh that’s a shame. I think next year she’ll understand it more. Maybe she needs more time with you just because you’ve got such a bond with your others. Well done though. Onwards and upwards 😀

  • @nickygentle9246
    @nickygentle9246 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That really sucks. You absolutely willl get there. Perhaps when you walk the coirse really visualise wilms flying each fence and saying to yourself Wilma will fly over tjis fence easily first time. Language is everything. Shes looking fantastic meg 😊
    Ill be interested to know Simons thoughts x

  • @fleetskipper1810
    @fleetskipper1810 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    The “wonky bum” halt-😂 that’s going to be the next thing that judges write on their score sheets. I love it.

  • @ren-uz2mz
    @ren-uz2mz วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    For such a green baby Wilma has done really well over all. Relax, train sensibly and get her out on fun hacks with lots of strange and unusual things to see..

  • @kathyclark921
    @kathyclark921 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What a lovely day for Mum and daughter. Wilma is a sweet mare. She will get there😊

  • @stellangios
    @stellangios วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Mate, horses are thinking feeling individuals. You can't blame them for not just doing whatever you want whenever you like. You'll figure it out, but don't lose sight of the fact that eventing is what you're choosing for her and it's unfair to be frustrated at her. She didn't ask for any of this. Have patience with her and yourself.

    • @kellybiddulph421
      @kellybiddulph421 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@stellangios My thoughts exactly. Poor horse gets blamed for something that she didn’t even asked to do. Everything else was absolutely amazing but she doesn’t mention that. I’m actually sick of hearing all the negativity I think I’m gonna unsubscribe

    • @wearetoocoolforschool
      @wearetoocoolforschool 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@kellybiddulph421 She literally said she was being so good and she was having such a nice round? and sometimes it is the horses fault

    • @tahlia4938
      @tahlia4938 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Get over yourself, she is trying her hardest and so is the horse and she mentions that. It is for tough in the moment that it is hard not to feel frustrated.

    • @abidingdong6326
      @abidingdong6326 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      “Mate” No one asked for your bs opinion.

    • @abidingdong6326
      @abidingdong6326 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Don’t act like you wouldn’t be irritated if that happened to you. Megan and hobbs even said “thats horses”! I can guarantee that most equestrians would be cross if they were sitting in first place, then their horse spooked at the last jump.

  • @Ridingforwardwithmaria
    @Ridingforwardwithmaria วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Such a great day she has improved so much, as for the stop horses sense of smell is much more intense than ours and I think we forget that,so if a predator or something she didn’t understand had left their smell, that could have also been a factor. Great book is horse brain human brain by Janet L Jones it’s on audible , very interesting on how horses interpret the world it completely changed the way I interact with my ponies 🧡🇦🇺

  • @karachikay5759
    @karachikay5759 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My sister has always loved T-breds and all of them had special issues so welcome to the Thoroughbred Brain 😂

    • @lottagreenmalmqvist7651
      @lottagreenmalmqvist7651 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Haha no that’s not true. I’ve been riding them as well and a lots of eventing. We were just hacking almost every day with them. So they got used to traffic and spooky things. Yes you need to be a very patient rider and work a lot with your relationship with your horse.

  • @audreypolarwater2969
    @audreypolarwater2969 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Any chance we've got 2 eventing vlogs coming our way? One with Wilma and one with Teddy Bear? Hope Bear gets to go eventing at some point soon!!!!

  • @emma_and_a_horse
    @emma_and_a_horse วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My horse is very similar to Wilma. He puts on a brave face as much as he can, but sometimes it's all just too much.

  • @colleenw8756
    @colleenw8756 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I feel soooo sorry for those who don't have the support you do. Wonderful friends.

  • @magicaltrails
    @magicaltrails 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    3 minutes ago
    It is super frustrating to be in FIRST and then have that happen. It was frustrating for me sitting on my couch in the US refreshing BE scores LOL. BUT . . . it was just one fence in an otherwise great day. You're used to horses like Jammy who just power to the fences and never think about refusing (until she did, and then you knew something was wrong!), and that's not Wilma. Wilma, it seems to me from afar, needs her hoof held a bit. Perhaps she felt you slacking off when you realized you were up on time and that made her feel less confident, so suddenly the fence looked spooky. The spookier fences early on didn't seem that spooky to her because you were holding her hoof. I think it's just going to be about your relationship with her. Once it's 100% solid she will, like most mares, go to the moon for you. But mares don't just hand over their hearts right away, and it hasn't really been that long. Take the Fall and Winter to work on the relationship, and I'll bet by Spring she'll be 150% in your corner! 🙂

  • @qvmarlins3506
    @qvmarlins3506 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You’ve really improved the spookiness in stadium though!? My trainer would just say Wilma needs more mileage🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @PixiesPoniesEvents
    @PixiesPoniesEvents วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Well done 👏 I really thought, I was going to write whoopeeee to the first clear. Anything was going fantastic. 💜 It is coming.....🎉

  • @cavalloalto6631
    @cavalloalto6631 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    We got Hobbit commentary!!
    Sweet Wilma really has improved, but it’s SO frustrating that her spook ended up costing so much. A bit of a relief that other horses agreed with her that the fence was pony-eating, though.

  • @two_bays_eventing
    @two_bays_eventing 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    One of mine will train perfectly but sooooo spooky on comp day was 50/50 get eliminated or around the course, after 5 years of confidence building we could generally get around a course but never made it out of the baby heights! She always tried her absolute best!

  • @susantescione8007
    @susantescione8007 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    And part of the problem is that you don't really know what the issue is. When you figure it out, she'll be fine. But dressage and show jumping were fine.

  • @All-Three-Phases-
    @All-Three-Phases- วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh my goodness that is so annoying.! Wilma..!! Feel your pain but as you said when it does happen it will be so much sweeter .. keep going your doing fabulous xx

  • @Baileyfireland
    @Baileyfireland วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Don’t sweat the small stuff Meg. She’s still a bit green and She’s still learning - it takes some horses longer but you have the flat work going brilliant, which is a massive part of it. Well bloody done! 👏

  • @anniecampbell8554
    @anniecampbell8554 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love that you are analyzing all the reasons Wilma might have spooked. Something that occurred to me is that you are still super early in your partnership and maybe by the time you’ve spent the winter together working out you’ll both understand one another better.

  • @aqhamustang
    @aqhamustang วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wilma is beautiful and has improved but not sure her future is to be an event horse she needs tons of desensitization in a round pen to build her confidence as her lack of it is her downfall

  • @dailyequestrian
    @dailyequestrian วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So excited I was just hopeing that you would post toady !,

  • @emmyennit
    @emmyennit วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wilma's really coming along ! Such a shame about that last fence but i'm excited to see how she returns next season and hopefully she can go bigger 😚

  • @j.ivaneljohnson685
    @j.ivaneljohnson685 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Never mind, Meg. It's happened to us all, that last fence thing. We def. do something a bit diff. in our heads when we've had a great round and we're happy and proud, I think. I also was in the lead once, and was so chuffed coming up to the end, I lost concentration at the last fence ; my lovely boy still jumped, but veered off to the right and jumped the level HIGHER instead! Bloody eliminated us!😳 My husband and coach didn't speak to me for 3 days!

  • @malloryalford9808
    @malloryalford9808 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Horses really are some of the most complex creatures out there, aren't they? Though frustrating, she is coming along nicely, Meg. We only really appreciate the peaks when we can recognize the valley's below. This is just a silly bump in your journey with Wilma. ❤

  • @michellestrickland7613
    @michellestrickland7613 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not sure what can help. Maybe saying fence before each fence until she knows that's what she should be focusing on.

  • @caroleminvielle9554
    @caroleminvielle9554 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m sure it’s just a matter of experience and thus confidence. It takes time for a horse gain complete confidence in their rider; they are naturally cautious of odd things, that’s how they survive, isn’t it? She’s a lovely horse and you are building a great rapport, but they are all individuals. Disappointing but it will be resolved. Will be educational for all your viewers too.

  • @rebeccahetfield8379
    @rebeccahetfield8379 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just watched the dressage, oh Hobbs,you've got such a lovely soft voice I was nearly nodding off 😂😂😂 you should do a lullaby vlog 😂😂

  • @bromsonstud
    @bromsonstud 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ahhh how frustrating, I feel your pain. That’s horses for you unfortunately. I think a winter of BD and BS and she’ll come out next year a mega event horse 😊

  • @lucy7408
    @lucy7408 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think it was an amazing day for you. I wouldn't worry about the spooking too much, you both did great❤

  • @jessicahigdon3962
    @jessicahigdon3962 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video Meg. I think I saw something there. A few fences, you did pull her to slow her at some fences and she had her head up. Then it was like she suddenly saw the fence and looked like she thought about stopping but she kept going. I'm wondering if she gets to feeling like that and stops when she does. I don't know, but she'll get there.

  • @margaretmetcalfe9380
    @margaretmetcalfe9380 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's still early days, she will come through, irs obvious that she is trying, she just needs to get into the whole routine

  • @melissabaanders2751
    @melissabaanders2751 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Top of the eye sees distance, bottom sees close, thats why they want their head up 3,4 strides out

  • @donnajeffery8267
    @donnajeffery8267 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Apart from that fence you both did amazing

  • @brew_dougiehorses5074
    @brew_dougiehorses5074 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Maybe she is one of those horses that are better competing once a month rather than every week or every other week

  • @karachikay5759
    @karachikay5759 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hobbit and the camera lens cap 😂😂😂 I love this channel ❤️

  • @lastlegeventing8865
    @lastlegeventing8865 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That's horses....it happens to us all 😊

  • @trebrehrm
    @trebrehrm วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing plaits! Plait tutorial pulease

  • @chrisbrowne3235
    @chrisbrowne3235 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She just glides so beautifully in her trot

  • @JRi-r2i
    @JRi-r2i วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is it just me or does Meg produce her horses so well?

  • @ellenwoolley
    @ellenwoolley วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Proper horses are so different to ponies. I think what you’re dealing with for Wilma is more normal and the ponies have lulled you into a false sense of security with their boldness. I think she is going to be amazing but maybe need to slow down your expectations and have another no pressure year of schooling next year to give her a proper foundation 🩷

    • @juliaforsyth8332
      @juliaforsyth8332 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Some kids have trouble going on to horses from ponies because horses won't or can't be hurtled at jumps and get away with it( not that Meg does that). Wilma seems to have TB brain rather than a Connie brain. Sensitive and green still.

  • @april5666
    @april5666 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Woot woot nice to see your pals show up to support :)

  • @bernster123
    @bernster123 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ah horses. You’ll work it out.

  • @jenniferquinn5010
    @jenniferquinn5010 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    She really has improved this season and it will be a good starting point for next year. It does take time to build that relationship and it has not even been a full year yet so I think you have come a long way.

  • @janeminwell4395
    @janeminwell4395 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    One of those things.

  • @ceri_noyce
    @ceri_noyce วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ahh, I can see the improvement. I’m sure to you it feels one thing after another but from a viewers point of view I think she’s looking more & more grown up & quite special ❤ her confidence is growing & growing and it does look like she’s learning a lot.
    Plenty of time for it to come right Megs 😊 x

    • @ceri_noyce
      @ceri_noyce วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also you’ve been so used to reliable Jam & Dee Dee with all their experience. Wilma will get there I’m sure….but just in her own way & time x

  • @linda97639
    @linda97639 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Wilma is being good and going over most of the jumps solely because you ask and she knows you want her too. I think she is more afraid than you think. I would slow down... go back to basics build confidence. She needs to know that she can trot that whole course and clear all jumps from a trot. To my eye she is spooking at a lot of the jumps and not comfortable. It would be great if you could help her to a mental space where she was so confident that she was actually having fun.

  • @juliacohen8330
    @juliacohen8330 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @kippen64
    @kippen64 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Your Holland and Cooper breeches and stock shirt are gorgeous.

  • @ponyparty28
    @ponyparty28 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    why the spurs on X-country? I thought the plan from Simon was to hug with the leg 🤔genuinely confused 😶‍🌫🧐

  • @hschenck94
    @hschenck94 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have a very cowardly mare and I have to slow to a trot about 5 strides out when she gets spooky. Some mares are just low on bravery

  • @janl8683
    @janl8683 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It was a big scary mouth that was going to gobble her up!
    Shame but still learning ❤

  • @elliefreddy9008
    @elliefreddy9008 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It could be worse Meg and it could of been the last fence at Badminton in the 5star 🙈 That’s what happened to that rider Elisa Wallace on her horse Johnny! Imagine getting all the way round that track and that happens at the last fence 🥴 It will all come together and that little horse will win quite a few events next year, watch this space ❤️

  • @alisontabernor6332
    @alisontabernor6332 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Megan! You did really well until that fence! Annoying with that stop Wilma but until then very good! Paint some spooky fillers for home to practice! 😊

  • @loridorii
    @loridorii 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I've known quite a few horses that spook at white rocks. They're terrifying!

  • @kristellapoole4087
    @kristellapoole4087 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Possibly coming through the trees there eyes ultra much slower than what we do from light to dark so maybe hers just took a bit longer.. x

  • @Neusix062
    @Neusix062 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Horses have dichromatic vision they seeing in blue, and green have trouble distinguishing between red and green

  • @poppyshaw-rutter5554
    @poppyshaw-rutter5554 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, you can actually see your body changes after you got through those trees... Bless her and you.... Chin up... And she really does need you to hold her and "be driving".. She's not an autopilot pony that's for sure!! 😅🥰🤗 Looking forward to training videos with her... 🤗🥰

  • @carolthorson7854
    @carolthorson7854 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    TB's do that, they are very sensitive to changing mindset. You relax, stop riding and they stop. Maybe they think you are suspicious of the jump so they say, 'if you don't want to do it, I'm not doing it'. Too cleaver to get complacent. They really make you work for it, but if your on, they're on.

  • @SoozUK
    @SoozUK 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Horses love to go "I think I will cause problems on purpose".

  • @lottie3853
    @lottie3853 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Of course it's frustrating! I'm not surprised how you felt. You are doing a really good job with her and in three years I do think you'll have yourself a very flashy super horse.

  • @toffy1952
    @toffy1952 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Perhaps a chat with her producers would give you an insight as to how to solve her spooking. Just a thought.

  • @christinedavies336
    @christinedavies336 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ❤ Oh dear Meg! 😢 Even the best of days can suddenly go wrong - at the last fence - Emily M's "smile of dooom" 😅 too! 😮 Naughty Wilma! I hope you can crack the weird spooks soon. It would be good to hear what Emily M, Simon and Cameron have to say about them. 😊
    What position did you finish on in the end?
    It was great to see Emily and Tina and to have Tina's input on the cross country phase too. 😊
    I missed having 'Pete's Eats'! ❤ xOx

  • @ponyparty28
    @ponyparty28 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    i noticed that about 4strides out to every fence (you're anticipating the spook) so do a drive with your seat or check with your hand, but coming up to that last fence you should have followed that pattern coming through the trees but you were distracted by reading your timer (you should really be learning to read speed not time - its a feeling riding, not reliant on equipment) - and she had completely switched off like she thought she was done, then you presented her with a fence and she genuinely looked surprised (and was tired enough to say) wtf! 😇 she's not experienced enough to just cover for you like that...when you are consistent, she is consistent. You CANNOT afford to be complacent - she is requiring of you to be that grownup rider and treat every fence like you've been through a reboot. 🦄She is good for you. 🌟They say horses are a mirror reflecting back at you what kind of rider/horseperson you are - if you don't like the rider staring back at you, go back to your basics and fix it 🌟

  • @Emzie.Equestrian
    @Emzie.Equestrian วันที่ผ่านมา

    they always stop at the jumps you don’t worry about 🤦‍♀️ such a shame but everything else was fab!

  • @jeffbob8520
    @jeffbob8520 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m in the start box when she walks the course

  • @sparkle.-buggg3610
    @sparkle.-buggg3610 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Meg you rode brilliantly Wilma just needs time to process all her training she a special sweet girl you've nailed the dressage and show jumping just the cross country. It was lovely to she the girlie's ❤

  • @thomasmumw8435
    @thomasmumw8435 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I think it's something like 2/3ft straight a head they can't see, probably why they turn their heads first to check. It's why you're taught never to come straight at a horse head on and to aways approach from the side. I think you need to stay at the same pace or more practice going up and down speed over the same bits of cross country when training.... You both still did well! Could have been a lot worse!! 🏇🔥♥️👍

  • @rayneheinze8404
    @rayneheinze8404 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Definitely a shame, but in my head was definitely more rider than her backing off. When you were going faster and had more impulsion, the jumps were fine! But when she is going slow, she backs off. I would get a professional at a higher level to take her around!

  • @maryhluch659
    @maryhluch659 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Why are you not showing Jam? I love Wilma.

  • @Tenebrisvis
    @Tenebrisvis 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love the babiessss i hope for an update on them all soon ❤

  • @annejarvis7002
    @annejarvis7002 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Horses laugh when Riders make plans". Bit of a misquote, but it seemed appropriate. I feel for you, Meg, but Wima's day will come. Look how far she's already come, she is a beautiful horse & you are doing a fantastic job🎉. Much love to Team Elphick (& Wilma)❤

  • @alisongrainger5388
    @alisongrainger5388 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Might be worth getting her eyes checked for pressure behind them. Just a thought ❤

  • @charlieemortley22
    @charlieemortley22 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful round in all 3 Meg
    But I do think it’s Wilma being naughty and still seeing what buttons she can press with her being new still. But she is being naughty you rose very well

  • @the.hopeful.equestrian
    @the.hopeful.equestrian 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    There was a similar last fence at Bicton in August & my horse who is really bold, properly looked at it! I also know a few people stopped at that one too. I think they struggle to read whether to bank it or jump it when it has then ascending top on it. Such a shame, I would have been cross too 🙈

  • @nikkicheyne4457
    @nikkicheyne4457 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So disappointing for you, very much like my horse stops at white hand marks on a corner that he’s jumped before. Well done though she’s going to be super !! Still pretty awesome the rest of it though!!!!