I was engaged for a long time to my ex but never got married. Something in my gut told me not to. I was right as he started to devalue me when he found new supply in his friend’s sister. Been free now almost a year and healing thanks to videos like yours.
Get all the help you can!!! When I married a narcissist over 40 years ago, I was told I was crazy, stupid, lazy and went through 10 years of hell. The saving grace for me was he found someone else and made her life miserable for 20 years. He died 10 years ago at the age of 58. She and I oddly enough have become friends and have realized how similar our marriages were. It does not get better if you stay. Leaving works out better if the narcissist leaves you. I still had contact because of my son. My son has figured for himself why his father was so disengaged in his life. He has recognized some of the same traits he has to work on in his own life. Please consider not only you own future, but the future of your children if you have them.
New supply is BPD. He married her. They seem to be happy. What I understood is that it is a perfect match...NPD and BPD....Toxic as hell but apparantly stable enough to last for yeats.
@@cupcake0480 He is not prone to cheating....Lying and deceiving for the stupiest things yes....But cheating with another woman no... Apparantly there are narcs that don't cheat (cfr Sam Vaknin en some selfaware narcs).
He gave me the ring three years ago…… from the way he proposed…. All 30 seconds of the moment I realized he had NO intention of following through….I later found out he is actually legally married to someone else
His long term goal was control of me and my families money. After he managed to get his greedy hands on a lump sum then came extreme devalue then discard. And that's only a slice of the continuous mental abuse. Now he delaying the divorce every step of the way smh
We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass
Well now that my ex narc is almost divorced from me he told me that he didn’t know what love was until he met this new girl they are going to get married when he told me he would never get married again
It’s ignoring a determined and vindictive antagonist. Sometimes, that can be easy. But, most times…it is very difficult. It’s been set-up, to be made very difficult…by the controlling narcissist. Many factors have to be dealt with, and it all depends on how ‘entangled’ they have managed to become in your life. By sharing living space (mortgage)…daily living finances…parenting children together…having relocated to a different county (to accommodate ‘their’ visa or career)…being in business with them…it can be brutally difficult to disentangle from such control-obsessed individuals, once you realize what you are really dealing with. Nothing that simply ‘ignoring’ can’t come close to become free from. .
I was engaged for a long time to my ex but never got married. Something in my gut told me not to. I was right as he started to devalue me when he found new supply in his friend’s sister. Been free now almost a year and healing thanks to videos like yours.
Get all the help you can!!! When I married a narcissist over 40 years ago, I was told I was crazy, stupid, lazy and went through 10 years of hell. The saving grace for me was he found someone else and made her life miserable for 20 years. He died 10 years ago at the age of 58. She and I oddly enough have become friends and have realized how similar our marriages were. It does not get better if you stay. Leaving works out better if the narcissist leaves you. I still had contact because of my son. My son has figured for himself why his father was so disengaged in his life. He has recognized some of the same traits he has to work on in his own life. Please consider not only you own future, but the future of your children if you have them.
Think you.
I haven’t even listened to this yet but have been laughing at the title since I first saw it. 🎯
Great information, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
@RawMotivations thank God for you and lee telling us no hope here!
New supply is BPD. He married her. They seem to be happy. What I understood is that it is a perfect match...NPD and BPD....Toxic as hell but apparantly stable enough to last for yeats.
until BPD finds out NPD a is cheating and then all hell breaks lose and it becomes even more toxic and deadly
@@cupcake0480 He is not prone to cheating....Lying and deceiving for the stupiest things yes....But cheating with another woman no...
Apparantly there are narcs that don't cheat (cfr Sam Vaknin en some selfaware narcs).
Same thing here. My narcissists ex married his bipolar old supply after she tried to slit his throat and he tried to strangle her. Wow😮
7:02 “All my exes are crazy” = projection
He gave me the ring three years ago…… from the way he proposed…. All 30 seconds of the moment I realized he had NO intention of following through….I later found out he is actually legally married to someone else
His long term goal was control of me and my families money. After he managed to get his greedy hands on a lump sum then came extreme devalue then discard. And that's only a slice of the continuous mental abuse. Now he delaying the divorce every step of the way smh
Worst husband EVER
We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass
You think is normal to get married after 1 month of discarding someone ?
Mine was married, met when he was divorced, about 9 years ago. Red flag #1, XD.
Well now that my ex narc is almost divorced from me he told me that he didn’t know what love was until he met this new girl they are going to get married when he told me he would never get married again
What a waste of 14 years and a child together sad
I knew my ex was had the potential to be a narcissist abuser before we got together. My bad.
Title without the responsibility. It's playing house.
Can’t be that hard just ignore them
It’s ignoring a determined and vindictive antagonist. Sometimes, that can be easy. But, most times…it is very difficult. It’s been set-up, to be made very difficult…by the controlling narcissist. Many factors have to be dealt with, and it all depends on how ‘entangled’ they have managed to become in your life. By sharing living space (mortgage)…daily living finances…parenting children together…having relocated to a different county (to accommodate ‘their’ visa or career)…being in business with them…it can be brutally difficult to disentangle from such control-obsessed individuals, once you realize what you are really dealing with. Nothing that simply ‘ignoring’ can’t come close to become free from. .
Not so easy when you have kids and assets with them already 😬
This is a good short video. I also suggest Dr. Les Carter.