Brother, i am a black man now living in New Zealand, i watch your videos from time to time, i went to the Philippines to meet one woman only, i didn't want to meet 2 or 3, i blocked the scammers online until i met my now wife, the one woman i went to meet, i was lucky i met a genuine kind, loving filipina from a good family, my wife and the family have never asked me for anything, i would not recommend to anyone to do what i did, like i said i was lucky but for a lot of men it has turned into a nightmare for them.
@centralhigh2321 the people are nice and friendly, they are excepting of black people, not a lot of black people in New Zealand, the women yes they do like the brothers 😊
Calvin! Why are you promoting the immigration and barrangai narrative man. Saying that is giving these women bad ideas to pursue that kind of hatred bro! Condemn that because many men have be taken and lost their lives as a result of some of those women and we can't go to the police..im disappointed you would utter those distasteful words man
You have a good heart, Calvin. You're right too. She's hanging on your every word. I'm glad she got your attention and happy she's getting good advice.
No but we have to be careful the message we put out when we have a platform specially when our platform make up of real lives,real families real couples. we can't advocate for men to have multiple ones lined up , we get in our feelings when we see other women advocate for women to have men lined up - too much destroying and no building! Mr Bryant
Marilyn prominently in the thumbnail. I'm pleasantly surprised how much she has grown over the years as a result of this channel. She's gone from not wanting to be seen to seemingly, "I like being in front of the camera.", and the camera loves her.
As a Black man, I represent my family and other Black men when I'm in the Philippines. I am respectful and respected by my Filipina and her family. No time for foolishness. Men should just stay in the United States if they want to play... go where the women are like yourselves.
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand seven years. My Thai partner and I travel each month. Never use Air BB. Always Agoda. Nice budget hotels and resorts.
Its the "Passport Bro" type of dudes that are running around acting wild, doesn't matter the race. If they traveling strictly to get laid, odds are they aren't trying to find anything serious. Its partially on the women that need to be smarter but ulitmately they need to vet the guys just as much as the guys should be vetting the women. If they're here on vacation or temporary then don't give those guys the time of day. At the end of the day you are the sole protector of your heart and your mind.
Exactly, I have 2 kids , married 20 years , with my fil wife ,, and these pass ports come for ass ,, not to have a family ,, I say u want some go to Thailand , much more fun , but if your a family guy stop running around trying to show off ,,,
BY THE WAY , NO MAN SHOULD GET WITH A BAR GIRL ,, IF YOU DO LIFE IS F,,,,D UP ,,, BELIVE ME ,,,, IT CAUSES SO MANY PROBLEMS NOT CHEATING BUT MY WIFE HAS AN ATTITUDE LIKE A POS ,,, I GOT 2 KUDS SO IM SCREWED , BUT FOR ALL OTHERS NEVER BE MARRY BAR GIRL. LOL😅
Sunshine...I do care and listen to you...I am being patient to save additional money and plan well to come boots on the ground ( as you say ) Thank you for everything...I have learned sooooo much from you...GOD BLESS YOU ! 😊
I agree, there are always two sides to every story, and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle. I’m sure she’ll find someone else once she works through her pain, but one thing is certain she’ll never love the same way again.
That woman is too big of a risk to date at this time. She is still in love with the man who left her, has some bitterness and anger about the who situation. If you are willing to deal with all the madness that is probably going to come with dating her in the very near future, go for it. But I could be wrong, because some people will quickly bounce back stronger and wiser.
Trudi's place is awesome. Great food, live music and clean rooms. I'd definitely stay there again next time I'm in Panglao. I heard you can launch a boat to some good diving from there.
I can almost guess she's going to think twice about dating another Brother man. Shame on him. But I look forward to hearing her story. This will cheer her spirits up a bit
If he left because of TH-cam videos, she's better off without him. There's a new bus stopping every 15 min. get on one going the same way you want to go.
We have to cherish one another and stop deceiving each other way to much cheating going on chasing feelings and is a emotional hearted broken spirit person - Mr Bryant
There are usually three sides to stories like this: her story, his story and the truth. This lady sounds like she has some issues before her heart was broken. As you have said in the past about the men, whatever is underneath your mask gets exposed once you’re over there. The same might be true for the women. Perhaps she drove him away with whatever became apparent during that 30 days together? Who knows! In any case, I find it real lazy and sloppy to drag you into that mess. The idea that you influenced him significantly is rather shallow and conveniently absolves her from any real responsibility. Sound familiar? There are dozens and dozens of reasons he might have skeedaddled, and I’m thinking she has an obsessive, jealous type personality that he found smothering and unbearable. That doesn’t mean she isn’t a nice person, just not the right person for him. She needs to move on while she is still young, attractive and available and get on with life. Love the channel.
Ok Calvin, if a filipina ever steals from me or leaves me, I know who to blame now. thanks man, good episode. Definitely should have her on, could be a whole new format for your show imo.
I am against making greedy people rich. These resorts are the enemy. Please spread the money to others friends. Mexico resorts are charging $500 to 900 a night USD. A complete sin 💫
Guys misunderstood what you said Kalvin. Usually the first filipina the guy meet will not be who they end up with. In his case he was lucky to find a good one on the first try. Its his fault for not knowing he had a good woman and to stop looking.
Hell hath no furry like a woman scorned. If she is angry/hurt that her man left her, then blame the dude - not someone putting out an opinion on YT. Keep on doing what you are doing, brotherman.
I'm a kiwi I'm brown not black I buy paint black is black if yu mix white u get Grey. They call them brown outs in ASEA not like black outs NZ Or ozy I can't work out what colors black is are Chinese yellow no it's your attitude .lots of love and happy new year
Calvin, ethnic heritage has nothing to do with it. I'm not of the black race, but I fully agree with you a vast majority of the time. People can be fickled and deceptive, and there is also the issue of language barrier with the understanding of some terms that can be miss understood, specially with English language. You have experience that yourself no doubt in the past in conversations with filipinos. Please don't let this change anything with your blog. I look forward to watching them daily when I have time.
Everyone makes their decisions and it’s already pre-planned sucks she was one of the ones who didn’t make the cut for this mans preference, but don’t give up ma’am god bless you it’s not Calvin’s fault he’s just an honest man
I represent myself and not anyone else. I am American and then black. When you have the uniform on , it says America and not black. One black person does not represent another black and the same with any other race or ethnicity. The same if you get scammed by one filipina. You don't say they all scammed you.
Happy Holiday Calvin to you and family. Been to Manila couple of times. Usually stay at the Machdia Palace. My question is how receptive would a woman there be to a prenuptial agreement? Just to protect myself in case I settled down once retired. My guess is if their looking that my spoil their payday. And does Divorce works same way in US half of all assets. If married and it dissolves? Thanks in Advance
As long as the guy doesn't knock her up tight then it is what it is. It takes two to tango and if one wants out so be it. Better to find out your man is a butterfly now then getting a divorce later.
She met a guy who is just playing the field. A lot of filipinas are tired of local cheaters and abusers and look to foreigners to make and heal old wounds, only to be hurt again. She should move on and find someone special. Time will heal old wounds
Like @halfunkbass2966 said, I try to represent all black men in the Philippines. I was very very lucky to meet a really good woman and a really good family. They treat me really well, they shower me with love and appreciation. I try my best to reciprocate, of course without being a simp. I don't like to hear stories like this. Makes me really ashamed..
No disrespect, but rarely take a womans word at face value. We as well traveled and experienced men know women typically twist the narratives to look like victims and not look at their actions. She is literally blaming you at the moment. To the next crowd you would be demonized. So please dont fall for the bs. Remember any time someone is with you to live off you, thats not unconditional love. If im lying, tell that person you are broke/acting the part and see how well that honest good love lasts.
@calroach1 Not critiquing you Cal. Re reading it , it could be more generalized. I'm just putting that truth about women out there for the men who run to stand up for someone who creates a problem and then lies to get sympathy. Way too many men in jail, been thru hospitals or in the ground running to the aide of a woman that was lying.
Cal, We both from living here, Philippines is Dramaville, I find only one explanation here, Many women here are Krong, Krong. To your Subs Be super Careful, I have even seen men killed over Drama and jealousy it’s nuts, 😮 Make no difference Black or White, You are a foreigner in the Philippines,
If you black you r powerful man read the Bible it all about us his people you don't no the power you possess i seen it just the short time I visit they enjoyed my respect so much they invited us to the big catholic church to wed again an took up a collection of money for her about 2500 Paso. Becareful you will be judge higher than the other race the judgment come higher after death according to how they treated gods true vine this doesn't have nothing to do with money or fame it's a mark god put on his people
Well maybe the guy was not all in to her like she was about him and the other girl was better than her and he decided to go with her that's his choice and she said they chatted for 2 yrs u always say don't chat with them more than a week or two that's not good
All men are different black white Indian and most men are not coming to the Philippines for marriage some of them won't tell you so it's up to you to determine like I tell my Filipina you got to stop living in a fantasy world not all men are coming to sweep you off your feet some will but others won't you need to ask what are you here for.
She was that old woman in your chat. Well maby she was low quality.... Maby he was low quality... She picked a low quality man .... That's her fault not yours...
Owe you talking about the woman who found her dad after you brought it to the publics attention. Now yr gonna accidentally find her a great man. Awesome
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Brother, i am a black man now living in New Zealand, i watch your videos from time to time, i went to the Philippines to meet one woman only, i didn't want to meet 2 or 3, i blocked the scammers online until i met my now wife, the one woman i went to meet, i was lucky i met a genuine kind, loving filipina from a good family, my wife and the family have never asked me for anything, i would not recommend to anyone to do what i did, like i said i was lucky but for a lot of men it has turned into a nightmare for them.
I had dinner with a great guy from New Zealand on Christmas day. Shoutout to Max!
How are the women in New Zealand? I heard they love us brothers! Is this true?
@centralhigh2321 the people are nice and friendly, they are excepting of black people, not a lot of black people in New Zealand, the women yes they do like the brothers 😊
Calvin! Why are you promoting the immigration and barrangai narrative man. Saying that is giving these women bad ideas to pursue that kind of hatred bro! Condemn that because many men have be taken and lost their lives as a result of some of those women and we can't go to the police..im disappointed you would utter those distasteful words man
He doesn't have to smooth nothing out..tell them to stop doing the BS they do bro..seems like you taking sides..why?
You have a good heart, Calvin. You're right too. She's hanging on your every word. I'm glad she got your attention and happy she's getting good advice.
She's not even blaming her own man! 😂😂😂😅
No but we have to be careful the message we put out when we have a platform specially when our platform make up of real lives,real families real couples. we can't advocate for men to have multiple ones lined up , we get in our feelings when we see other women advocate for women to have men lined up - too much destroying and no building! Mr Bryant
Brother Calvin you are not to blame. His actions were on him only.
"Welcome back to my channel, sunshine shoulers"... Classic. Love this guy's videos
Marilyn prominently in the thumbnail. I'm pleasantly surprised how much she has grown over the years as a result of this channel. She's gone from not wanting to be seen to seemingly, "I like being in front of the camera.", and the camera loves her.
She still doesn't like being in front of the channel I made the thumbnail because it fit the title.
As a Black man, I represent my family and other Black men when I'm in the Philippines. I am respectful and respected by my Filipina and her family. No time for foolishness. Men should just stay in the United States if they want to play... go where the women are like yourselves.
THIS
Your words apply to me also, as I'm an Aussie, & my ladies family show me respect as I give them respect in return, 🙏🇦🇺🍺
More Filipinas play games than foriengers do.
Real talk!.....
Who really cares you need to understand that they only want you for your money and not your personality.
I thought she was a troll as well, Calvin. Thanks for straightening out her story. I wish her well.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year brother!
@@calroach1Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too! 🎄🎁🎈🍾🎉💥🥳
Retired expat from the US living in Thailand seven years.
My Thai partner and I travel each month.
Never use Air BB. Always Agoda. Nice budget hotels and resorts.
Truth-used AirBB twice- both turned out 2 b train wrecks, too many variables, unpleasant surprises. Agoda or Bookings always
Keepin' it real as always Calvin. Good podcast, it's right to consider life in their shoes (to a point).
She will bounce back. I hope she doesn’t let her past relationship with this one guy haunt her. Good things are waiting for her.
Calvin,
I been watching you for years. You are a good man.
Thank you Jason!
Keep enjoying the beach life.
Appreciate the support.
Its the "Passport Bro" type of dudes that are running around acting wild, doesn't matter the race. If they traveling strictly to get laid, odds are they aren't trying to find anything serious. Its partially on the women that need to be smarter but ulitmately they need to vet the guys just as much as the guys should be vetting the women. If they're here on vacation or temporary then don't give those guys the time of day. At the end of the day you are the sole protector of your heart and your mind.
Yep a girl next door has 6 guys, I know the entire community and it is insane. She is rich without working one minute in years!!!!!!
They really hate her
Exactly, I have 2 kids , married 20 years , with my fil wife ,, and these pass ports come for ass ,, not to have a family ,, I say u want some go to Thailand , much more fun , but if your a family guy stop running around trying to show off ,,,
BY THE WAY , NO MAN SHOULD GET WITH A BAR GIRL ,, IF YOU DO LIFE IS F,,,,D UP ,,, BELIVE ME ,,,, IT CAUSES SO MANY PROBLEMS NOT CHEATING BUT MY WIFE HAS AN ATTITUDE LIKE A POS ,,, I GOT 2 KUDS SO IM SCREWED , BUT FOR ALL OTHERS NEVER BE MARRY BAR GIRL. LOL😅
Sunshine...I do care and listen to you...I am being patient to save additional money and plan well to come boots on the ground ( as you say ) Thank you for everything...I have learned sooooo much from you...GOD BLESS YOU ! 😊
Cal is one of the best. Saving the Philippines from the passport bros
That was pretty solid advise that you gave on this vlog. I am an expat living in Thailand as of last year I hear the same on this side.
I agree, there are always two sides to every story, and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle. I’m sure she’ll find someone else once she works through her pain, but one thing is certain she’ll never love the same way again.
That woman is too big of a risk to date at this time. She is still in love with the man who left her, has some bitterness and anger about the who situation. If you are willing to deal with all the madness that is probably going to come with dating her in the very near future, go for it. But I could be wrong, because some people will quickly bounce back stronger and wiser.
Solid Speech Calin 😌...
Great video Bro.Calvin!
Trudi's place is awesome. Great food, live music and clean rooms. I'd definitely stay there again next time I'm in Panglao. I heard you can launch a boat to some good diving from there.
Belated Merry Christmas Calvin & Family 🎁🎉
I can almost guess she's going to think twice about dating another Brother man. Shame on him. But I look forward to hearing her story. This will cheer her spirits up a bit
But if they were white...... it would be alright.
If he left because of TH-cam videos, she's better off without him. There's a new bus stopping every 15 min. get on one going the same way you want to go.
Looking forward to hearing her story now.
she lost here human ATM
Only a low life individual would leave a comment like this when someone has been done wrong.
We have to cherish one another and stop deceiving each other way to much cheating going on chasing feelings and is a emotional hearted broken spirit person - Mr Bryant
There are usually three sides to stories like this: her story, his story and the truth. This lady sounds like she has some issues before her heart was broken. As you have said in the past about the men, whatever is underneath your mask gets exposed once you’re over there. The same might be true for the women. Perhaps she drove him away with whatever became apparent during that 30 days together? Who knows! In any case, I find it real lazy and sloppy to drag you into that mess. The idea that you influenced him significantly is rather shallow and conveniently absolves her from any real responsibility. Sound familiar? There are dozens and dozens of reasons he might have skeedaddled, and I’m thinking she has an obsessive, jealous type personality that he found smothering and unbearable. That doesn’t mean she isn’t a nice person, just not the right person for him. She needs to move on while she is still young, attractive and available and get on with life.
Love the channel.
Ok Calvin, if a filipina ever steals from me or leaves me, I know who to blame now. thanks man, good episode. Definitely should have her on, could be a whole new format for your show imo.
😂🎉
No.....don't do it
American Raffy Tufoe
I am against making greedy people rich. These resorts are the enemy. Please spread the money to others friends. Mexico resorts are charging $500 to 900 a night USD. A complete sin 💫
You are so right I’m trying to use points and miles to combat this
Guys misunderstood what you said Kalvin. Usually the first filipina the guy meet will not be who they end up with. In his case he was lucky to find a good one on the first try. Its his fault for not knowing he had a good woman and to stop looking.
Hell hath no furry like a woman scorned. If she is angry/hurt that her man left her, then blame the dude - not someone putting out an opinion on YT. Keep on doing what you are doing, brotherman.
Without knowing anything else, sounds like she grossly misunderstood his intentions. Ok, but when 1 door closes, another opens
Thanks for letting her go on your program but i would like to hear his side of the story. But i doubt he will come on.
THE HELL WITH THESE WOMEN AND THERE EMOTIONAL MESS C THEY CAN NEVER DEAL WITH THERE OWN LIFE WOMEN ARE TO DAMN PITIFUL
Sounds like you want a man then
They all want your money
What do you want?
Short term fulfillment sir
I'm a kiwi I'm brown not black I buy paint black is black if yu mix white u get Grey. They call them brown outs in ASEA not like black outs NZ Or ozy I can't work out what colors black is are Chinese yellow no it's your attitude .lots of love and happy new year
Thank you for sharing this important video
Calvin, ethnic heritage has nothing to do with it. I'm not of the black race, but I fully agree with you a vast majority of the time. People can be fickled and deceptive, and there is also the issue of language barrier with the understanding of some terms that can be miss understood, specially with English language. You have experience that yourself no doubt in the past in conversations with filipinos. Please don't let this change anything with your blog. I look forward to watching them daily when I have time.
I know. This is not what the video is about. She's wanting me to know his race for some reason. Maybe because I share the same color?
9 out of 10 women be dating 8 guys at one time
This is one case that has One-itis
Everyone makes their decisions and it’s already pre-planned sucks she was one of the ones who didn’t make the cut for this mans preference, but don’t give up ma’am god bless you it’s not Calvin’s fault he’s just an honest man
I represent myself and not anyone else. I am American and then black. When you have the uniform on , it says America and not black. One black person does not represent another black and the same with any other race or ethnicity. The same if you get scammed by one filipina. You don't say they all scammed you.
Thats ok. Tell her u got another black brother for her. I'll be on the airlines by tonight lol im jp. Keep making content brother
Great idea Calvin to get the other side.
All I can say is " Don't become the next JERRY SPRINGER !!!! " only you would be the " Black Jerry Springer " live from the Philippines.
Happy Holiday Calvin to you and family.
Been to Manila couple of times. Usually stay at the Machdia Palace.
My question is how receptive would a woman there be to a prenuptial agreement?
Just to protect myself in case I settled down once retired.
My guess is if their looking that my spoil their payday. And does Divorce works same way in US half of all assets. If married and it dissolves? Thanks in Advance
I Salute To The Men Who Don't Cheat Their Woman
Two sides to every story.
Thanks, I never cheat, but I will be open to letting them know I am dating more than one woman at a time.
As long as the guy doesn't knock her up tight then it is what it is. It takes two to tango and if one wants out so be it. Better to find out your man is a butterfly now then getting a divorce later.
Message me my love, referring to the young lady whose heart was broken. This ends soon 💕
Fundamentals succeed.
Im here brother
Your a good man Calvin.🤔👍🏾
She met a guy who is just playing the field. A lot of filipinas are tired of local cheaters and abusers and look to foreigners to make and heal old wounds, only to be hurt again. She should move on and find someone special. Time will heal old wounds
Sunshine alot of them play games , especially in the west.
Alona looking good sir
Like @halfunkbass2966 said, I try to represent all black men in the Philippines. I was very very lucky to meet a really good woman and a really good family. They treat me really well, they shower me with love and appreciation. I try my best to reciprocate, of course without being a simp. I don't like to hear stories like this. Makes me really ashamed..
Yes Your right most of these guys get a taste of a pretty Filipina and all common sense and advice you give them goes out the window haha
I wouldn’t have even speak on it!
This kind of information is helpful to men coming here to date. All parties were kept anonymous. Thank you for your feedback.
No disrespect, but rarely take a womans word at face value. We as well traveled and experienced men know women typically twist the narratives to look like victims and not look at their actions. She is literally blaming you at the moment. To the next crowd you would be demonized. So please dont fall for the bs. Remember any time someone is with you to live off you, thats not unconditional love. If im lying, tell that person you are broke/acting the part and see how well that honest good love lasts.
Who said that I believed her one way or the other? This story could help a lot of men if they would listen instead of critiquing. Thank you.
@calroach1 Not critiquing you Cal. Re reading it , it could be more generalized. I'm just putting that truth about women out there for the men who run to stand up for someone who creates a problem and then lies to get sympathy. Way too many men in jail, been thru hospitals or in the ground running to the aide of a woman that was lying.
Mr. Calvin ... how dare you ... $1.2 Billion Dollar Mega Million Jackpot here in NYC and I didn't Win! Now how do you feel being a Jinx
😂😂😂 unk what you got going on now 😂
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I blame u, Cal
You already involved yourself in drama 😂
It's not that serious. We're complete strangers and the vlog kept everyone anonymous.
🎉🎉🎉
Cal, We both from living here, Philippines is Dramaville, I find only one explanation here, Many women here are Krong, Krong. To your Subs Be super Careful, I have even seen men killed over Drama and jealousy it’s nuts, 😮 Make no difference Black or White, You are a foreigner in the Philippines,
Sunshine shoulders if you have jonalyn on to talk about me and her then also have me on to tell my side is that fair?
I really don't want to get involved. This came out of nowhere brother. I thought it was a troll. I would rather keep everyone anonymous.
@calroach1 sure I think she wants a little more fame 😂 so I don't mind making it even more fun
If you black you r powerful man read the Bible it all about us his people you don't no the power you possess i seen it just the short time I visit they enjoyed my respect so much they invited us to the big catholic church to wed again an took up a collection of money for her about 2500 Paso. Becareful you will be judge higher than the other race the judgment come higher after death according to how they treated gods true vine this doesn't have nothing to do with money or fame it's a mark god put on his people
These guys always ruin the good girls who are in very sort suppy these days.
Don’t get stuck in that mindset. They are plentiful here.
Good girls hahaha
@@LawrenceWeber-z5o We can drean right...lol
Lots
Well maybe the guy was not all in to her like she was about him and the other girl was better than her and he decided to go with her that's his choice and she said they chatted for 2 yrs u always say don't chat with them more than a week or two that's not good
There's no victims here.
All Black Men Follow Calvin! 😁
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Dear leader 😂
@paulbunyan9436 😂
Why be racist?? Divisive??
All men are different black white Indian and most men are not coming to the Philippines for marriage some of them won't tell you so it's up to you to determine like I tell my Filipina you got to stop living in a fantasy world not all men are coming to sweep you off your feet some will but others won't you need to ask what are you here for.
Sounds like she dodged a bullet. He sounds like he is not worth her time and that he is not very kind.
She was that old woman in your chat. Well maby she was low quality.... Maby he was low quality... She picked a low quality man .... That's her fault not yours...
she was prob asking for all kids of $$$ for her family
Prove it.........
Owe you talking about the woman who found her dad after you brought it to the publics attention. Now yr gonna accidentally find her a great man. Awesome
Not the same person.
Be decent. Be a man. Are you looking for fun ? Or are you looking for a permanent woman? Be honest and don’t crap on the Philippines.
In love fell hard for him or his wallet ?
Damn Calvin you know you have hit it big when you get blamed for the cheat lol :)
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All black men do listen to you...lol
Good day Mr Roach ❤️
Hoping you choose me in your spin the wheel,im your follower in Facebook and here in TH-cam channel Mr Roach.since 2020 im always support your page ❤
Use Disclaimer statements at the end of your Vlogs. Because, some of your viewers make take your Vlogs as an endorsement. Just saying.
An endorsement of what?