i made a binder that's COMFORTABLE

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ส.ค. 2024
  • omg a SECOND video in the span of ONE YEAR??? who is he he's so consistent
    anyway yeah i needed to nerf the tiddies and while it might not be the most normal looking silhouette i could have achieved it sure as hell felt better than wearing a bra
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  • @mylesgarden
    @mylesgarden ปีที่แล้ว +5337

    it is trans armour.

    • @zubinsedghibassguitar
      @zubinsedghibassguitar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +219

      It’s traumor- WAIT NO ON IT CANT

    • @TealCruncher
      @TealCruncher 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      @@zubinsedghibassguitarYOU DIDNT

    • @Eros.n.pippins
      @Eros.n.pippins 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      ​@@zubinsedghibassguitarNOOO

    • @zubinsedghibassguitar
      @zubinsedghibassguitar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      @@Eros.n.pippins I DONTMEAN ITS ACTUAL TRAUMA SO YK I AM NOT HOMOPHOBIC IM OPEN TO ALL AND TO ALL A GOOD DAY

    • @enzo_gabriel3964
      @enzo_gabriel3964 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      ​@@zubinsedghibassguitarar nar traumarrr

  • @dunno7844
    @dunno7844 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +342

    Hmmm yeah I’m totally cis. Just a normal, regular cis kid, watching a video about making breathable binders… I’m such a cool ally

    • @ninjakiwigames5418
      @ninjakiwigames5418 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Me fr fr

    • @somerandomplastyk
      @somerandomplastyk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "I'm such a cool ally" - cool virtue signaling mate.

    • @dunno7844
      @dunno7844 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      @@somerandomplastyk It’s a joke, I’m saying I’m not cis, or are you also being sarcastic

    • @William_Nowin
      @William_Nowin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      something i would say about 2 years ago 😅😅

    • @wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd.
      @wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@somerandomplastyk
      How did you not realize that was a joke

  • @kalyssiaseptember
    @kalyssiaseptember 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    I’m not trans and I have no idea why the algorithm is algorithming like this rn, but this is FASCINATING

    • @Zack_cats
      @Zack_cats 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same ⏤͟͟͞͞. ★

    • @tumblingartist
      @tumblingartist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      the algorithm just decided to share hidden gems today

    • @aria_slayz_fr
      @aria_slayz_fr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FR

  • @Aeice_art_fish
    @Aeice_art_fish 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    His voice changing half way through the video made me literally scream, MY GOD the happiness of hearing a trans mans voice before and after LOL

  • @pamwaldron3504
    @pamwaldron3504 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    I'm a larger busted woman and I found that the way a rebozo wraps around the upper body to carry a baby or small child on your back is perfect for supporting and possibly somewhat flattening the bosom - without having to wear a small person on your back.
    The wrap pattern is very comfortable, supports the bosom and -Amazingly- keeps the girls from flopping around when you run or jump. It's made using cotton fabric cut slightly on the bias, and wraps around the body numerous times (at least 2 to 4) over your clothes, but can tied in front or back. I am trying it out as an undergarment using a lot less fabric than what is needed to carry littles on your back.
    I am trying to figure out an easy to wear bra based on the rebozo wrap. Available regular and specialty bras have way too much elastic, padding, underwires and provide no comfortable support and sports bras offer absolutely no support unless you want to fight more elastic. And even then, the girls flop like dying fish out of water.
    While a regular rebozo will make the thorax (upper body) appear thicker, It is so comfortable that I, for one, don't care.
    COMFORT OVER FASHION!

    • @cheshirenevande4701
      @cheshirenevande4701 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      let me know how that goes!

    • @MsSteelphoenix
      @MsSteelphoenix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you, this is super useful info! Is there a specific tying technique that you prefer?

    • @pamwaldron3504
      @pamwaldron3504 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As far as technique, I just Google rebozo and tried different ways. I prefer to start in the front, pass in back, then do the "cross your heart" in front a couple of times, one more pass around the ribs then tie and tuck loose ends under the rib band. You'll probably want a narrower and shorter wrap since you're not carrying anyone or anything in the wrap.
      So far, I have decided I'll need to hand-sew one on place after wrapping and cut either the front or back, but making the closure after and getting it to fit comfortably without using elastic is a challenge. Plus, I'll need help sewing the back in place while it's on.
      What I like best about the wrap is my girls are comfortably supported and separated, and I don't get a uniboob like I do with commercially made bras. And there's no need to mutilate your body.

    • @ReinaElizondo
      @ReinaElizondo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This reminds me of a pattern that has 'sling supports' which some people who make it adjust or leave off because it can flatten especially with compression stretch fabric. It's Muna and Broad's Banksia Bralette pattern.

  • @starboardia
    @starboardia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    so everyone else just got recommended this video a year later too?! cool.

  • @DumplingDoodle
    @DumplingDoodle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    i'm a cis dude, i do not run in these circles, i have no idea how i got here. but very cool, i wouldn't have ever guessed you had boobs if i met you wearing that. and the logistics are actually very impressive, well done!

  • @lilofi825
    @lilofi825 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    cis woman here but I never liked having breasts and was actually thinking about getting them removed permanentally

    • @bbambbiiii
      @bbambbiiii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I’ve also thought of it. I could write a whole book about why I dislike them but I’m not trans lol.

    • @ashtoncullinan5946
      @ashtoncullinan5946 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do it. It will help so much, it’s your body.

    • @lilofi825
      @lilofi825 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@bbambbiiii one of my friends that is in the same position as me actually did it last month. Next time I see her I wanna ask her about her experience. I wish you the best!

    • @maddie6321
      @maddie6321 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People do breast reductions you can look into that

  • @Chemicaldessert
    @Chemicaldessert ปีที่แล้ว +161

    As a big bob person I'd say this will make your chest appear smaller but definitely not flat. If you had some sort of cushioning that would push the breasts outwards, this would also make the garment flush rather than betraying the curves of the breasts. If you wanted to get really advanced maybe a kind of wire frame? That would hold everything in place and create space between the chest and garment

  • @smellslikesouls
    @smellslikesouls 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    finally, the reverse corset

  • @austinrm
    @austinrm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I am a trans guy who is quite a bit larger, just in general, and especially in the chest area and i LOVE historical fashion i dont know why it never occured to me to use a modified corset-ish/stay typs pattern. Youre genius. I will definitely modify this and try it myself!

    • @o5-7firefox
      @o5-7firefox หลายเดือนก่อน

      If this works for you, you should post a pattern somewhere. I bet you’d be successful on Etsy with it if you wanted to make money

  • @kaynugro
    @kaynugro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I may not be trans, I may not have wanted to bind before, and I may not know why this video was even recommended to me, but seeing this video has awakened something in me and I don’t know what. It might be gone in the morning but at least I have this knowledge

    • @forest_green
      @forest_green 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sending hugs. I get you.

    • @maezgordon7254
      @maezgordon7254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      also want to remind that some folks just like to reduce/bind their chest for the aesthetic! A good amount of the time I bind as a genderfluid person it has no deeper meaning other than I feel like it makes my outfit look better. Learn about yourself, don’t overthink it, and use safe binding practices if you do feel so inclined!

    • @kaynugro
      @kaynugro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@maezgordon7254 yes! I’m pretty sure that’s what it was. I just like the idea of being able to have that look and comfortably too! Clothing has no gender, not even chest binders and we are not what we project to the world

    • @thebraidedmane
      @thebraidedmane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kaynugro Yeah I'm a genderfluid person who wants the option of having boobs for some outfits/styles and not having them for others. This style of binder would be great for that flexibility!

  • @ThroughTheThornvine
    @ThroughTheThornvine 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    bro had an audio glow up mid-video

  • @christalcavanaugh
    @christalcavanaugh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Wait… this is so clever! The way undergarments worked in the 1800s or whatever was to combine both padding and tightening to get the right silhouette. Therefore, it makes sense that a binder should pad out areas that give a more “masculine” silhouette as well as reducing the visual appearance of the chest

    • @nathat4250
      @nathat4250 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just thought we had come further in the past 200 years but no, people still care about arbitrary concepts of masculinity and femininity, leading to girls harming their bodies playing dress-up.

  • @sophisticatedPJs
    @sophisticatedPJs 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    One thing that's kinda underrated is just wearing some sort of undershirt with your binders (and corsets). Historically people would always wear an extra layer underneath corsetry and other undergarments that had boning in them to make them more comfortable and wearable for long amounts of time with less chafing ^^ might help with any comfort issues you're having with this project, but i haven't tested it myself so take that with a grain of salt

    • @grandmasgopnik9642
      @grandmasgopnik9642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Honestly as someone from Florida I just recently started doing this and it is a game changer. I only did this because I remember my ancestors did for work clothing and of course historical fashion. I put terry cloth between any folds because as a nurse I’ve seen a lot of unfortunate skin infections but seriously, under layers are a game changer.

  • @Vrail14th
    @Vrail14th 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    The voice drop between video and voice over Dorian! Wow! It really made me smile. I'm very happy for you

  • @adawolbert4034
    @adawolbert4034 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    needing a flat chest is when my bad posture comes in handy i wear alot of hoodies oversized shirts etc and because of my bad posture my chest looks flat

  • @epicdogbattles
    @epicdogbattles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    im just interested in sewing in general, so here are some tips for larger chested binder-curious sewists:
    You will need to lengthen the boning in the front. since there is a larged mass prodtruding forward, you will need a longer line to connect visually from apex to bottom of rib. in addition, youll need a thicker band or even a tankini top to help smooth the side and back lines. i would also suggest making it slightly tighter towards the top so the mass is smooshed down. last tip, add a few more boning channels and keep them more vertical to compress, ray pattern will compress but also push UP for larger mass.

    • @mineash2945
      @mineash2945 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you

    • @Kardinaalilintu
      @Kardinaalilintu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ah, so that's wrong with my current binding corset. Good to know.

  • @hellsreek
    @hellsreek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    this one video accidentally creating a summoning circle for all transmascs that activated a year after the video went up:

    • @Jay_hates_his_readers
      @Jay_hates_his_readers 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it took a year for the summoning circle to be made _clearly_

  • @rhincodon_typus
    @rhincodon_typus 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    For anyone with access to an H&M store - they occasionally sell proper binders. If they currently don't, they have a sports bra that is the best binder I have ever seen. For anyone curious, DryMove collection, one colour, simple cut, has three small seams down the front, following that same boning structure idea.
    The problem with compression binders is that breathing is kinda nice, and if you're bigger chested, it pushes them down and can be painful. Any sort of bra or sportsbra that lifts them up usually makes them bigger, not smaller.
    That one specific bra from H&M does exactly what you described. Up, and to the side/spread out in general.
    Hella comfortable to wear all day long for any kind of activity.
    They do have removable padding, but it's incredibly thin and you can just take it out. No visible nip slip, which I appreciate.
    Suitable for bigger chested fellas, for maximum effect, I suggest going down one size and getting some of those bra extension hook thingies to give you more width for your ribs.
    They're affordable (10-20 bucks) and frequently on sale for half the price when they drop new colours.
    Considerably improved my mental health, finding proper de-tittyfiers was fairly life changing. 🥲🏳️‍⚧️

    • @olliehop20
      @olliehop20 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good to know! I never would’ve guessed they’d have something reasonable! I’ll keep that in mind! Ty!

  • @willowprinxe
    @willowprinxe ปีที่แล้ว +118

    This is genius. Why can’t big binding companies pick this up?!? The lives and ribs of so many trans kids would be saved man 😭😭 This summer i’ll def be making this!

  • @josephinefogg6542
    @josephinefogg6542 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    I’m a cisgender ace girl but man I want my tiddies gone so bad😭 I never asked for theeese. Imma take heavy inspiration from this and see if anything like this is possible for me despite chest size and all that cause this is so creative and cool

    • @user-bm2tx7qu7o
      @user-bm2tx7qu7o 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Oh, I understand you. I also want a flat chest. I always hunch, cz as a teen I was insecure about them, but now it's just a habbit. I just think if I had it flat, mb I would stand with strait back?
      I also recently decided to go for more gender neutral look, so flat chest will also help -_-

    • @LookItsStar.
      @LookItsStar. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE WHO UNDERSTANDSSSSSSSSSSSS!!

    • @emilillez
      @emilillez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same! (Although I do vibe with agender too.) I wonder if its common for ace girls to not want boobs...

    • @monkey-yy8bk
      @monkey-yy8bk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I am aroace and agender and i don't want my tiddies either 😢 like whyy are they there?? I have no use for them they're literally just sacks of fat on my chest that make me insecure

    • @e.moon_
      @e.moon_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@emilillezaroace agender here, i feel this

  • @lucid_3938
    @lucid_3938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    The voice difference for voice-over Dorian made me gasp 😭 im so happy for you (and admittedly jealous) im glad T is working for you!

  • @azylisemiku6117
    @azylisemiku6117 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I made a binder inspired by this video and have a more than consequent chest... It worked so much better than expected! and is extremely comfortable! I used lacing to close it in the back, like on my corsets, and it works very very well! thank you so much or this.

    • @theboxygenie
      @theboxygenie หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Did you make any significant adjustments? Or does Dorian's method work for you?

    • @azylisemiku6117
      @azylisemiku6117 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@theboxygenie Not that much. Not to the cut. Adjusted to size, and I didn't use elastic or mesh. Used cotton and linen for breathability and cross lacing in the back for adjustability .

  • @shark_boytoy
    @shark_boytoy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Why did we all get recommended this one* year later at the same time?
    *changed two to one

    • @BudgieCute
      @BudgieCute 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      no clue but im watching it now

    • @Jooeeeeeeee
      @Jooeeeeeeee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it’s not been two years yet

    • @AryaFairywren
      @AryaFairywren 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ye lmao like I'm a transfem and I'm watching

    • @spaceavril
      @spaceavril 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      20 MINUTES AGO THIS IS SO ACCURATE AND PRECISE

    • @uncommonusername
      @uncommonusername 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wait what

  • @Sm1l3Time
    @Sm1l3Time 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    DUDE THAT SUDDEN VOICE CHANGE MADE ME TEAR UP, THATXS ONLY A COUPLE MONTHS ON T??? I'M SO EXCITED- LIKE ACTUALLY, WOW.

    • @dragonshadow4145
      @dragonshadow4145 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It was so funny, never seen such a dramatic yet nonchalant change lol

  • @roseishere_sunny
    @roseishere_sunny 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    GUYS WHY IS EVERYONE FINDING THIS VIDEO TODAY?
    comments are from like, 10 minutes, 39 secds, 24 minutes
    WHAT !?!?

    • @kimberly_disk
      @kimberly_disk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah! Like, I’m not even trans but i clicked anyways haha

    • @croissora
      @croissora 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      IKKK

    • @roseishere_sunny
      @roseishere_sunny 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kimberly_disk same i was born as a girl and currently a girl
      but i mean, nice to see poepl be excited by their own creations !!

  • @Green-Elf_text
    @Green-Elf_text ปีที่แล้ว +55

    As a teen who identifies as a male... I never found a video so relatable ;-; "I want them gone" SAME BRO, I HATE IT

  • @rutabegagrrl9657
    @rutabegagrrl9657 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Fyi you can use zip ties with the ends cut off for boning! it's what my mom uses, she's a sewingtist that works in mostly renaissance styles. Also, I would KILL to have a window placed like that. Also suggestion for boning poking through- victorians would wear slips over their corsets to hide any boning or unsightly edges from poking through clothing.

  • @timquentin567
    @timquentin567 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I'm genderfluid, so it doesn't really make sense for me to permanently remove my chest. My default way of going anywhere is running, so normal binders are not ideal. I will most definitely come back to this video as soon as my sewing skills have improved. Thank you for this idea. You are a genius.

  • @salamicam12
    @salamicam12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    This whole video is a revelation with introducing a whole new potential way to bind (for me at least), but more than anything I’m going to take “my beloathed” and RUN WITH IT

  • @ubtpixielox
    @ubtpixielox 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This is very much what I decided to switch to a while ago. I was inspired watching some of Bernadette Banner’s videos on older fashions and how they actually achieved a lot of body shapes not by squishing things in, but rather padding things out. The Edwardian style in particular helped me figure out how to remove the shape of having two lumps on your chest, instead making across the chest and from the shoulders to the belly one more continuous smooth shape.
    Also, “Oh these? These are just my vertical ribs. What direction do your go in?”

  • @jannuarytrash
    @jannuarytrash 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    idk why youtube decided to push this video to literally everyone but let's fucking go dude

  • @GoblinGhouls
    @GoblinGhouls 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    My chest is huge enough that companies don't really make binders designed for my chest size (either I'm sizing down and can't breathe well or I can feel the sweet dripping off the bottom of my boobs down to my stomach and that sucks)....anyway, this is inspiring and I'm thinking I need to try it! Thank you for the innovative idea!

  • @craz2580
    @craz2580 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I am not trans, idk why this got here but its interesting to get to know other people's struggles, nice video, and really appreciate that people can talk openly. I hope you can manage to get what you need to feel better with yourself

  • @verynormalvic
    @verynormalvic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    obsessed with the 3 month later voiceover voice drop

  • @BadgerLord
    @BadgerLord 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    i cant explain the feeling i felt when i saw you make a corset/bra combo and imagined making and wearing one myself. I can however express the utter fucking desperate need to make one, especially as a gym rat.

  • @wonkiermuffin
    @wonkiermuffin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    The way my jaw DROPPED when I heard your editing voice over. Also this is incredible! I’m so glad you showed up on my fyp

  • @madgoat2125
    @madgoat2125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I can’t bind but whenever I feel dysphoric I remember Slimecicle will always have bigger moobs than I do and I feel better

  • @akinoichiro3434
    @akinoichiro3434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    A cis woman here. (don't ask me why I'm here, it's like watching pet advise videos despite never wanting to own the pet. It's just interesting. But also I kinda like cosplaying male characters, so it might come in handy)
    I just had a huge realization and flashback to when I was younger and still went to school, when you spoke about the fatique thing. I remembered wearing too tight bras because I had it hammered into my head, that I need them to shape my boobs and my parents didn't have enough money to always buy new ones when I grew. After a long school day I often felt so dizzy and fatiqued, because I struggled to breath. Sometimes I secretly opened my bra, when it got too much. I often jumped in joy when the disgusting metal piece underneath the polsters finally pierced the fabric and I could just pull it out. They hurt so much.
    Finally some years ago my parents found a really cheap pack of sports bras and I WAS SO RELIEVED. They didn't bother me after a long day. But I still like to not wear a bra at all when at home.
    To sum it up, I have huge respect for you to try to solve your problem with your skill and even help others with the same problem. I'm sure you can improve the small flaws in the design soon. Good luck!

  • @RabbitRabbit46
    @RabbitRabbit46 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Great video, great job! I think more people should take historic stays into account when they're designing chest binders, that's a good idea.

    • @dorian.crafts
      @dorian.crafts  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i've seen a pretty direct adaptation by dearhyacinthus on instagram! they look really nice 😊

    • @lynndragon2536
      @lynndragon2536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m looking into making a strapless version of a binder using stays as a base for patterning

  • @elnic_kai
    @elnic_kai 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    **whispers softly**
    *"corset coverrr"*

  • @herlocksholmes-uv5qw
    @herlocksholmes-uv5qw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I'm not transgender, but I subscribed solely because I thought this solution was really creative + your channel name fucking killed me. Good luck on your transition!!

  • @chickenwing8983
    @chickenwing8983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The voice change scared the ever living enjoy out of me, I thought I accidentally called someone

  • @daemonbug
    @daemonbug 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    when you said boning my jaw dropped because that is so smart. I'm enby and don't like my chest, and I use stays a lot for historical fashion, I like the flat chest conical shape it makes because the boning, so this is right up my alley.

  • @ConiferConnieTreeCow
    @ConiferConnieTreeCow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    "i have tits and i dont want them" who is this dude, why is he in my youtube recommendations, and why is he so concerningly relatable even tho im cis? also that cat is adorable 👍

  • @mariadevries416
    @mariadevries416 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    oh my god the algorithm really did give this to everyone at the same time

    • @vwvw6473
      @vwvw6473 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol yea!!!

  • @clarabrandaog
    @clarabrandaog 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I am a cis woman, absolutely no gender disphoria here. I do, however, love sewing. I'm not great with boning or any kind of structured work like that but it's awesome to see people trying to find new solutions for binding! I also have a trans sibling who binds and for a while the safety aspect of compression binding has been worrying me while we shop for new binders for them and we look through the bruises and warnings online... Great job!

  • @Kunstner1004
    @Kunstner1004 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I have no clue why this 1 year old video is suddenly trending rn, but this was really interesting. Good job.

  • @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac
    @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    I’m gender-fluid and can’t do any kind of binding at all because my parents are transphobic, and they would definitely notice if I tried. But I thank you for creating this video for others who can and will make this to help them feel themselves. Have a good day/night.
    (I also literally had to make a separate TH-cam account to comment this because I can’t have anything LGBTQ popping up on my for you page 🥲)

    • @Jess-wx3cg
      @Jess-wx3cg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Oh my god same like all the way same keep going and don't give up I hope you fulfill your dreams

    • @CoatApple
      @CoatApple 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Hi! I’m genderfluid, too. Stay strong & please remember you’re valid.
      From personal experience- it gets easier. After staying persistent with my parents they’ve slowly started coming around. If you aren’t in a situation where you think that will happen, you only have to go until you’re ~18 before you can really be yourself. Try to get as many LGBT+ friends as you can & find spaces where you can start being yourself.
      Have a good day/night, & stay strong, because you aren’t alone 🩷🤍💜🖤💙

    • @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac
      @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ⁠@@CoatAppleThe second I saw this and read it I just started grinning like crazy. Thanks for the support, I really appreciate it! 😊

    • @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac
      @Kaen_anADHDinsomniac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Jess-wx3cgi hope you fulfill you’re dreams too!

    • @shadow8005
      @shadow8005 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      From someone else whose parents were super bad about trans stuff, I promise it gets better. You’re going to get through this!!

  • @antigod8385
    @antigod8385 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    love how the algorithm just decided to randomly recommend this to everyone after a year lmao

  • @pancaked_111
    @pancaked_111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    A whole bunch of people was recommended this at the same time lmao, I love this

    • @Ojoni_H
      @Ojoni_H 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr😂😂

  • @chabileo
    @chabileo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    did the algorithm just summon every transmasc or...?

    • @CatbaronAle
      @CatbaronAle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah I legitimately got yeeted from my pre-T warm bath ritual over here.

    • @evanware
      @evanware 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeahhhh

  • @Utterly_Insanee
    @Utterly_Insanee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I love how we have all collectively decided to come together and learn about binders

  • @fionamorrigan
    @fionamorrigan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I found out today that an appointment I made 4 months ago with an endocrinologist was cancelled b/c the clinic doesn't do transgender services, so I'm gonna find my stays pattern and modify it to make a binder for myself tomorrow to make me feel better. Thank you for the inspo!

  • @rinnne_
    @rinnne_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    “I have tits and I don’t want them” made me laugh harder than it should have

  • @BarbieDreamDungeon
    @BarbieDreamDungeon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Your craftsmanship reminds me of an artwork I saw meant to look like an advertisement for binders set in the distant past, "the gentleman's garment"

    • @matchamelon330
      @matchamelon330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      reminds me of marlowe lune's illustration!!

  • @solsez
    @solsez 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Hot tip, don't need artificial whale bone, just get large thick zip ties. you can look up the specifics online but my mom has made many a historical boned garment in this exact way, infinitely cheaper.

  • @ellarabbit3300
    @ellarabbit3300 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    You are literally the male version of Emma chamberlain and I’m here for it

    • @dorian.crafts
      @dorian.crafts  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      this is so funny i keep collecting celebrity lookalikes. so far im also timothee chalamet and aidan gallagher

  • @vaguelywukong
    @vaguelywukong 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I love how the youtube algorithm just did a mass summoning lmao

    • @Ash-rf4ri
      @Ash-rf4ri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly 😵‍💫

  • @charliesharp6450
    @charliesharp6450 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Sewing tip for anyone that decides to make this. Add a layer of this quilt batting cut the same as your othe fabric layers it to smooth the look of the bones and that problematic transition to the straps under a fitting garment

  • @chickenwithitsheadcutoff
    @chickenwithitsheadcutoff 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    VOICE DROP SLAY

  • @dannhan3104
    @dannhan3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    6:56 "i dont even remember what i was tracing in this clip, but it looks really good so i´m keeping it in" this is such a mood

  • @morgan7045
    @morgan7045 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I love the idea of a binder that relies more on built in structure than compression to provide the desired silhouette! Another historically based idea: padding out areas? Padding has historically been used along side boning and compression to change perceived body shape. I'm sure a clever and creative person that is more textile inclined than I might be able to incorporate that into a binder! I am quite lucky to have already had top surgery, but I absolutely love this video. Cheers!

    • @grandmasgopnik9642
      @grandmasgopnik9642 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Honestly that’s what I do. I actually have done it for my Dad for a long time and he helped and suggested stuff for me because while as a trans guy I’m actually a bigger weight class and almost taller than him I transitioned more recently (I’m almost 30 😅) so obviously quite past my puberty and ended up becoming quite curvy like my Vietnamese grandmother (idk WHAT she got going on but she built like a BADDIE lmao 😂) which is cool but obviously as a trans man a little ackward clothing wise 😅 so my Dad is very helpful. I mean he is too. My moms ass look like she got hit real hard with the door on the way out it 🤣 I definitely got stacked in the back from my Dads side. Anyways, so he has had to use and have me assist in adding padding and etc to help him disguise some of his really bad scars and injuries from a bad accident he had from poking out and just general better fitting/silhouette.

    • @voidify3
      @voidify3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Reminds me of this post I saw about how someone’s parents wouldn’t let them get Ken dolls so they turned one of their barbies into a boy with a haircut and also by wrapping tape around the doll’s midsection to make the abdomen the same width as the chest. One of the reblogs said “middle surgery”

  • @albedougnut
    @albedougnut 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I do not miss binding at all since getting top surgery.

    • @djungelskog132
      @djungelskog132 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I want that so bad.
      Congratulations

  • @Cat..Person
    @Cat..Person 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    “I have tits and I don’t want them” is the most relatable thing ever…

  • @embroideredragdoll
    @embroideredragdoll 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    That reminds me of the time I wore a corset (the modern ones that do NOT take my size into consideration at all) and I remember thinking “that would make a decent binder if it wasn’t so feminine looking”. It’s nice to see someone actually make a binder using historical corsetry techniques.

  • @gaphic
    @gaphic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I have seen some quite big breasts tamed to near-invisibility by 18th century stays, so this is DEFINITELY viable for different chest sizes!
    Compression is less of an issue than location and elasticity- corsets can compress a LOT, but it’s distributed over the entire ribcage, and because they’re not elastic there’s significantly less compression when you exhale. I can tightlace and still be fairly active and comfortable for many hours, but just layering sports bras for a flatter chest feels like I’m being strangled

    • @ulhi7564
      @ulhi7564 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Any recommendations for people who make such shifts. I'm cis with a larger chest than I would like to have most days. Because of proportions it has just become about impossible to find bras that are comfortable and give a nice shape.

    • @gaphic
      @gaphic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ulhi7564 my first recommendation for such things is always r/abrathatfits (trust me) but I’m afraid I don’t know anyone who does commissions for this kind of thing :/

  • @lilylackluster2148
    @lilylackluster2148 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Love that the algorithm popped this out to everyone all at once XD but awesome work, and it reminds me a lot of the "better binder project" which is another boned binder project

  • @Lion-xl8gy
    @Lion-xl8gy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    looks like the youtube algorithm has organized a viewing party today :D

  • @julianssheetmusic
    @julianssheetmusic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    For a log time I've been very on the fence on whether I'm actually non binary and don't want a chest or if I'm just being weird, but the amount of gender envy I experienced watching this vid is insane. Thanks for clearing stuff up I guess?? Now I just gotta find a way to help myself until I can move out and afford top surgery ha.

    • @gyounce1
      @gyounce1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As an enby myself, I personally don't need top surgery as I don't particularly *hate* my body, I just don't like for other people to see it. I like to present as androgynous or genderless, but there are big issues with both my body and my face. I also can't cut my hair short because I look really feminine with very short hair when my face is fully exposed. Anyway, none of this is exactly relevant to you, but I want to wish you luck on self discovery and fulfillment, and I do hope you can find what works best for you ❤.

  • @missnotmisses7100
    @missnotmisses7100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    So everyone just got this video on their youtube recommendations just now huh

  • @ladybi_
    @ladybi_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love that TH-cam decided to call us all out at the same time

  • @grandmasgopnik9642
    @grandmasgopnik9642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Honestly as someone with bigger chest the compression binders have been difficult due to their small arm holes and almost a pancaking of a rather large fatty mass 😅 it’s looks very unnatural and clear you are a trans man or other person who is binding large tissue so I feel like boning would solve many of those issues! Plus they even have corset covers to help smooth out the boning bumps or internal boning.
    I love your idea of using boning and stays as an inspiration! I love historical fashions and honestly it reminds me of the silloutte padding and menswear corsets of Dandies or even some of the tight Jerkins of the Tudor period that who were often made fun of for their vanity but clearly were common practice in garments that remain.
    It’s lovely! ❤quite creative and a good solution!

  • @lofiandminecraft
    @lofiandminecraft 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    IMEDIATLY SENDING THIS TO MY BEST FRIEND OH MY GOD-
    His binder just came in the mail and he's so sad because he said that he loses his breath regularly and he can't wear it to school because he studies the whole day, so it hurts a lot, so I will be making one for him!! Thank you for sharing!!!

    • @justaperson6922
      @justaperson6922 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're the sweetest!

    • @b3nnefits
      @b3nnefits 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      help I’m sending this to my bestfriend too 😂

  • @Jelli_Bugg
    @Jelli_Bugg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I'm Cisgender and have no intention of binding, but one of my friends sometimes forgets to take their binder off when sleeping and I feel that this could help to make them be less at risk of suffocating. Thank you for this.

    • @Oktopus549
      @Oktopus549 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s very nice of you

    • @Jelli_Bugg
      @Jelli_Bugg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would really rather my friend not die so thanks o(TヘTo)

    • @asterismos5451
      @asterismos5451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not sure the risks are the same since this has the elasticy back but you are recommended to not wear corsets/stays overnight so I think this should also be removed when possible but it certainly does seem safer to not take off if that's going to happen anyway.

    • @Jelli_Bugg
      @Jelli_Bugg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asterismos5451 Good point, this is definitely not a substitute, I just thought it may be a bit safer, as it seems a bit more breathable.

  • @sku11zyxx
    @sku11zyxx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    why is this from 1 year ago and yet everyone’s here rn 😭

  • @adrianaiello1608
    @adrianaiello1608 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    i gotta say the voice drop was so fun to hear, congrats haha

  • @lunnafurst
    @lunnafurst 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    MY BELOATHED

  • @imtryingokay8125
    @imtryingokay8125 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I hope someone figures out how to make this for people with larger chests. Thank you for this:)

  • @amiprettyenoughtofckingdie
    @amiprettyenoughtofckingdie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    WHY ARE COMMENTS MINTY FRESH

    • @sidz669
      @sidz669 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my so true!

    • @croissora
      @croissora 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      REAL???? LIKE I JUST FOUND THIS AND DECIDED TO WATCH IT WTF

    • @Ash-rf4ri
      @Ash-rf4ri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FR HAHA @@croissora

  • @mywither7878
    @mywither7878 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Just found you, that voice difference between the recording and voiceover was like a book slapping me in the face, wow! Congrats, and I know this video is a year old, but I hope you're doing great and this was a very interesting watch! You're real crafty, cool stuff :D

  • @ReignBeauofTerror
    @ReignBeauofTerror 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Historically, you would wear a "corset cover" (basically a somewhat loose undershirt) under your shirt to disguise the lines!

  • @afreepotatochip8765
    @afreepotatochip8765 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    ngl i got very excited when the voiceover was a lot deeper good on you

  • @cupidxqs
    @cupidxqs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Did we all just find this video today?

  • @Lysteneromelody
    @Lysteneromelody 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why did this just pop up for everyone today

  • @greenconcretee
    @greenconcretee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    damn so we're all here rn (im nonbinary)

    • @rottznov4861
      @rottznov4861 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      yeah. (I'm nb too!)

    • @William_Nowin
      @William_Nowin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We all have been summoned

  • @EmberLeon
    @EmberLeon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This is so cool to see. I do historical costuming and most of the Victorian/Edwardian eras were about building up the body to the shape YOU want. And it makes me so happy to see that being used in a modern capacity here!
    To hide the boning in a lot of corsetry they would use 'corset covers' which often had frills to puff out the chest and conceal, howeverrr I imagine one could use a slim-fitting tank top (like a sportswear one, that fits real snug and smooth but doesn't compress) to help hide the boning in outer layers!
    Great, funny, and informative video! It warms my heart to see how you used historical dress to fit a modern need

    • @mirabellegoldapfel6256
      @mirabellegoldapfel6256 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, a corset cover-like undergarment is my idea as well. But I'd rather use an undershirt made out of a woven material (a tube with straps is enough) instead of a modern sports undershirt. Jersey as used in most modern shirts is just so elastic due to it being knitted and form fitting. Woven undergarments act more like a slip dress and cling to your outer layers instead of your body. Ikeas humble and cheap unbleached bomull cotton works for that or even better linen for added sweat and smell protection (linen is kinda magic). Great pillowcase project, too.

  • @ranpo_edogawa
    @ranpo_edogawa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    i love how most of the comments are less than 1 hour old from the time im writing this. youtube really just pushed this one out to all us gays huh? 😭

  • @thae427
    @thae427 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    the voice transformation is insaneeee :D

  • @Darkraiomega5
    @Darkraiomega5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Dunno why the algorithm is blowing this up now but honestly this seems genius and I hope it becomes more publicly known, feel like it would help people a LOT. Also, gotta throw ya a sub, from one Dorian to another.

  • @Midorix_
    @Midorix_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    +3 armor
    +2 confidence
    +2 charisma
    +1 dexterity
    Now that's the good stuff.

  • @Auglur1
    @Auglur1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    youtube moment pushing it forward to everyone at once

    • @y0urblu3
      @y0urblu3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      MY GIRLFRIEND SENT ME THIS VIDEO LMAO

  • @MrSpock..
    @MrSpock.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    hearing your post t voice made me so happy!! congrats on the gender and this is suchhhh a cool project!!

  • @chloesibilla8199
    @chloesibilla8199 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm sorry if I'm not supposed to mention it but Omg the voice change midway through gave me dopamine. I'm so happy!

  • @starglittersys
    @starglittersys 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    i wish they made good binders for people with large chests 😔 i'm happy that you made one that makes you comfortable!!!

  • @kayagirllove526
    @kayagirllove526 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    the algorithm really liked this video right now lmao. i love that this was suggested to me. not trans but love learning about binders. always found them interesting. love this idea, seems very useful.

    • @kayagirllove526
      @kayagirllove526 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      also for the thin shirt issue, have you tried using an undershirt with it to kind of help pad the boning?

    • @frankieloinandgroin
      @frankieloinandgroin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠@@kayagirllove526well he got top surgery already so he really has no use for any binding method anymore lol

  • @grepgrok8735
    @grepgrok8735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    As a cis guy with minimal ability to sew, I doubt I’ll ever use this. Thanks!
    Also, as a gay guy, that first shot with the binder was very cute-guy cute. Do with that information what you will.

  • @mythicmusique6226
    @mythicmusique6226 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    All the comments are from seconds ago, I guess the youtube algorithm is working it's magic today

  • @FrankensteinsMom
    @FrankensteinsMom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    His voice sounds amazing! I’m actually blown away. And this idea for a binder is insanely clever I really want to make one.