This is why he's divorced. People who has tiny heart like this man will only exist alone. Can't get along with anyone. You better find the exit bc he won't change, sister.
When there is NO trust in a relationship (marriage or not), it's best to keep your money separate. The only joint account should be a checking account that's used ONLY for household expenses! IMO, if there's no trust in a relationship, then why have a relationship?! By the way, any money meant for children should either be put in a WILL or a TRUST FUND so that nobody can touch that money but the children. The way these two went about things is not how a LOVING couple should approach money, it's how roommates approach money! Why bother with marriage, just live together like roomies with benefits! This couple has a farce of a marriage!
Way to go sister, keep it that way. No need to trust him. You're doing the right way. But if I were you I would've divorce him. You're better off being alone.
He can do whatever he wants with his money before the marriage, but he needs to be honest. I think he is doing the right thing by protecting his kids. Anything they earn after their marriage must have both their names.
Tus me viv ncaus aw lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais ntas ces yeej tib tug lej xwb cov zoo ces tsawg kawg nkaus kv los yog ib tug zoo li koj zaj no thiab tu siab kawg
This is why I decide to be by myself and stop looking for someone to love me because the best relationship is with yourself!!! It is sad but the more you with, the rest will be annoying asf & I hate it when there's so many drama and no PEACE!! Turn your pain into POWER!! People be having so much SECRETS... I ain't going to want anyone to tell me what to do and what to wear and blah blah blah...
Sister aws peb cov niam tog txiv nta no mas ua neej yeej nyuaj siab tshaj plaws li os..kuv tus txiv tamsis no los wb yeej ua li ko nyias muaj nyias nyiaj thiab nyias paid nyias nuj nqi thiab os..wb mas kuj hos tsis cais ntau npaum neb thiab kev sib hlub yuav koom pab rau lub tsev menyuam mas ob leeg yeej sib pab yuav sib pab them mas..thaum nyiaj tsis txaus los kuj sib pab thiab..
Zaj no tu siab kawg os...poob rau los lus tias dej txiag paug siab. Koj tseem yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta, zoo li peb ib txhia es twb yog niam nkauj txhaiv qaib nraug txaiv noog los cas ib tug yeej tseem zais siab npaum li ko thiab os. Leej twg tsis tau tus txij nkawm zais siab ces tsis paub txoj kev tu siab li koj hais tiag. 😢
Yog nrauj tsis taus koj tus txiv ko ces yeej yog li koj hais lawm os mog, ua phim nws es yus thiaj nyob taus xwb os. Kuv nkag siab zoo kawg lub neej zais siab li ko, tu siab tshaj plaws yog yus yog tus neeg ncaj ncees.
Zoo li neb es sib yuav ua niam txiv ua dab g nas neb tseem sib yuav thiab nas qhov neb sib yuav nyob ua ke ces tsuav neb sib tsuav ntsuag thaum twg los tau xwb puas yog ua niam txiv zoo li neb twb g npaum li cov ua nkauj ia nraug tseem sib hlub tshaj neb lm os
Ntuj os lawv aw cas yuav pauv tsis tau koj niag txiv rau kuv niag pojniam es cia peb cov neeg siab phem 2 no mam li ua ntxoov tes saib mas ntshais yuav txaus siab heev tiag xyov cas lub neej yuav los nkim laus tag lawm es tiam no ces cia tos txog hnub txoj sia tu yog tseem muaj lwm tiam mas ciam mam ua tib zzo xaiv kom tau tus neeg tsoob tsib los nrog yus koom ib lub neej os.yog mloog ntau cea yim tu siab xwb.
Ntuj npam nws koj thiaj li paub Txhob ntseeg ntseeg tus sab nrauv lawv Kaus yus noj Niam no kuv laj ntseeg ib tug txiv neej li lawm Txiv neej ces yeej zoo li no xwb ntshai lawm os.
Just keep him for booty call. There's no need to get married if that's how he wants to play. I mean he doesn't need to allocate 100% to you, but at least divide it evenly among you and his kids.
If there is no trust, it is better to divorce him. Why stay in a relationship that their is secret. And why does he keep calling you a divorced woman? It is not like he has not divorced before? You don't need to stay in a relationship that gets you a headache. Better to stay single.
When there is no trust, there is no need to be in a relationship. Why be in a relationship when it’s a one way only. Keep all your money separate or not be marry. You should just keep all your assets and list only your children as beneficiary. BS to him being the man and is entitled to your money but you’re not entitled to his. Why even get marry when there’s no trust. Who knows what else he is hiding from you. Make sure your life insurance beneficiary is your children. Yus nyob yus ua phooj ywg noj fawm xwb.
I can't help but wonder what else does the husband hide, or will be hiding from her now that she knows how greedy he is? It's not a healthy and safe marriage anymore. No trust, why married. She should've divorced him, or have something in place if they were to continue their marriage.
I can understand his point of view and yours too. He should've told you about his $ before he married you and what his plans were for it then you two could agree or disagree before making the decision to marry. I would totally hide my $ if I won the lottery or could save a big amount bc the husband likes to spend $ too much.
Sister, why would be so foolish to put him as a beneficiary on your life insurance? Leave that to your children. You do not combine your money. You keep your finances separate. If you do you only put the same equal amount into a joint account if that's the case. He doesn't trust you. He has too many secrets.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Nej mas tseem yog niam tog txiv nta Peb twb yog niam nkauj txhav qaib Los kuv twb zoo ib yam li koj thiab os Tau tus txiv tsab ntse ces neej tsa qhua qhua tiam sis lawv tsis paub yus lub neej xwb os Kuv twb ntsib tus txiv neej zoo li ko Kuv nkag siab koj kawg.
I’m also remarried. Anything you buy or did before him or he did before you should leave it alone. If you want you should buy a new 1 for you and he buys 1 for him and leave you as a beneficiary and you have him as beneficiary on your policy. That’s my 2 cents and that’s how I did for myself. We shouldn’t stirred something that doesn’t belong to us before he married you.
Tus sister aw..nej es tseem yog niam tog txiv nta os kuv ces twb yog niam nkauj txav qaib txiv nraug txav noog los kuv twb taug txoj kev Kom tib yam twb tau 30 lub xyoo no Cia lub ntuj ma li txiav txim ma..
Cas koj g paub tu siab li na txawm yus yuav los yuav tau nws yeej muaj ib pob nyiaj ua ntej los koj twb los Yog nws poj niam txhua2 yam yuav tsum yog koj li ib yam nws li los yeej yog koj li, koj pob los yog nws pob na. Yuav ib tug txiv zais siab g pub koj paub txog tej nyiaj txiag li ntawv ces xum g yuav peb ua niam txiv g sib qhia siab ces tu2 siab luag lam yuav yus los ua chaw tiag taw kom muaj ib tug poj niam nyob rau ntawv es kwv tij neej tsa saib taus nws xwb os. Luag saib yus yog ib niag poj nrauj g muaj nqis thiab g ntseeg koj siab li qhov koj hais ces txawm nyob uake los g sov siab os.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You never know. Now a days people are too evil. Have seen and heard too many cases where the new wife/husband took all the money and left nothing to the kids. So i don't think it's wrong to protect your money. That's my personal opinion. Don't come at me if u don't agree. Just move along.
You both should have remained boyfriend and girlfriend only so you can live like roommates. You were right to move your money out of the joint account. He is very manipulative and hypocritical so it’s best to keep your money separate. Sounds like you both are only together so you can afford living. No trust = no love.
Ua li neb es sib ua puas hnov zoo nyob lm nas los thiab puas xav hais tias yog niam txiv no mas neb zoo li neb yog partner xwb es ib tug puas xav hu ib tug tias koj niam koj txiv lm mas los .
Girl you're in the wrong that is his business. You should start from where you start with him not his assets from before you. You complain and siab mey girl.
Koj zaj dab neeg no stupid dhau lawm os... what he has before u he doesn't need to share with u, neb teb tso 20k each lawm ces yuav li ntawv xwb, stop being so greedy and nosy that u want everything! Tsam tau ua pojnrauj dua os!
You are such a horrible wife and mother. He's being a good father by planning ahead and saving that money for his children in case anything should happen to him. You're not the mother of his children, he has the right to be concern. You apparently don't care much about your children to think about their future and well being. All you care about is that your husband is hiding money from you. He's not using that money on another women, it's for his children. Just because you're married, doesn't mean he can't have a saving for his children, and he doesn't have to tell you about it. Any smart person would do the same. No matter how much you love a person, you don't know when their feelings will change. Money means more to you that you're willing to let your marriage fall apart. How can he ever trust you now that you made money the problem of your marriage? Having separate account is a good thing, a smart thing! I'm surprised he's still with you, If I were him, I would have left a long time ago. It's not about trust, he's being a good father to his children.
This is why he's divorced. People who has tiny heart like this man will only exist alone. Can't get along with anyone. You better find the exit bc he won't change, sister.
O.m.g might as well be by yourself.
When there is NO trust in a relationship (marriage or not), it's best to keep your money separate. The only joint account should be a checking account that's used ONLY for household expenses! IMO, if there's no trust in a relationship, then why have a relationship?! By the way, any money meant for children should either be put in a WILL or a TRUST FUND so that nobody can touch that money but the children. The way these two went about things is not how a LOVING couple should approach money, it's how roommates approach money! Why bother with marriage, just live together like roomies with benefits! This couple has a farce of a marriage!
Way to go sister, keep it that way. No need to trust him. You're doing the right way. But if I were you I would've divorce him. You're better off being alone.
He can do whatever he wants with his money before the marriage, but he needs to be honest. I think he is doing the right thing by protecting his kids. Anything they earn after their marriage must have both their names.
Tus me viv ncaus aw lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais ntas ces yeej tib tug lej xwb cov zoo ces tsawg kawg nkaus kv los yog ib tug zoo li koj zaj no thiab tu siab kawg
This is why I decide to be by myself and stop looking for someone to love me because the best relationship is with yourself!!! It is sad but the more you with, the rest will be annoying asf & I hate it when there's so many drama and no PEACE!! Turn your pain into POWER!! People be having so much SECRETS... I ain't going to want anyone to tell me what to do and what to wear and blah blah blah...
Sister aws peb cov niam tog txiv nta no mas ua neej yeej nyuaj siab tshaj plaws li os..kuv tus txiv tamsis no los wb yeej ua li ko nyias muaj nyias nyiaj thiab nyias paid nyias nuj nqi thiab os..wb mas kuj hos tsis cais ntau npaum neb thiab kev sib hlub yuav koom pab rau lub tsev menyuam mas ob leeg yeej sib pab yuav sib pab them mas..thaum nyiaj tsis txaus los kuj sib pab thiab..
Viv ncaus aws, txias2 siab lawm os. Yuav los tsis kaj siab nyob lawm nawb
Yog. Lawm os niam laug wb . Leej twg tsis tau tus txiv zais siab tes yeej tsis paub li os
Tsis tav sib yuav lawm vim nws yeej tsis ntseeg koj siab. Koj thiaj ntsseg nws siab. Zoo qhov koj tsis koom nyiaj ib pliag ces koj plag.
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Zaj no tu siab kawg os...poob rau los lus tias dej txiag paug siab. Koj tseem yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta, zoo li peb ib txhia es twb yog niam nkauj txhaiv qaib nraug txaiv noog los cas ib tug yeej tseem zais siab npaum li ko thiab os. Leej twg tsis tau tus txij nkawm zais siab ces tsis paub txoj kev tu siab li koj hais tiag. 😢
Viv ncau cas koj hai tu siab heev li tas sis cas koj ho tseem nyob nrog nw thiaj yog kv ces tsi yuav lm
Tau tus txiv zais siab ma tu siab tshaj plaws. Nyiaj los luag zais tsis pub yus pom. Qhov luag tso kuv npe pub yus pom ces yog qhov checking account xwb qhov saving ces luag yeej zais tsis tso yus npe. Luag ua li vim luag yeej muaj luag ib lub hom phaj thiab luag yeej tsis ntseeg yus siab luag ntshai tsam yus nyiag nws li nyiaj. Yog niam nkauj txhav qaib nraug txhav noog los tus siab phem yeej siab phem tsis tas yuav yog yawg nrauj poj nrauj es thiaj zais coj li. Ua niam txiv yog zoo li no ces txias txias siab tsis xav sib hlub lawm.
Seem like a pretty good life together 😊
Yog nrauj tsis taus koj tus txiv ko ces yeej yog li koj hais lawm os mog, ua phim nws es yus thiaj nyob taus xwb os. Kuv nkag siab zoo kawg lub neej zais siab li ko, tu siab tshaj plaws yog yus yog tus neeg ncaj ncees.
You two don't have a marriage. You both are roommates with benefits 😂
Niag poj nrauj nkawg Xaiv niag tsis pain cais, niag poj nrauj xuab li koj es leej twg thiaj ntsheeg koj nas niag poj nrauj xuab
At this point, mind as well again divorce. I cannot and will not live like this with a man for that many years.
Zoo li neb es sib yuav ua niam txiv ua dab g nas neb tseem sib yuav thiab nas qhov neb sib yuav nyob ua ke ces tsuav neb sib tsuav ntsuag thaum twg los tau xwb puas yog ua niam txiv zoo li neb twb g npaum li cov ua nkauj ia nraug tseem sib hlub tshaj neb lm os
😮might as well leave when you still can! When you’re married you share everything! Cant believe how shallow he is
It's a roommates with benefits situation and the husband reaps most of the benefit.
Ntuj os lawv aw cas yuav pauv tsis tau koj niag txiv rau kuv niag pojniam es cia peb cov neeg siab phem 2 no mam li ua ntxoov tes saib mas ntshais yuav txaus siab heev tiag xyov cas lub neej yuav los nkim laus tag lawm es tiam no ces cia tos txog hnub txoj sia tu yog tseem muaj lwm tiam mas ciam mam ua tib zzo xaiv kom tau tus neeg tsoob tsib los nrog yus koom ib lub neej os.yog mloog ntau cea yim tu siab xwb.
Soooo sad😢😢 yog kuv ces ntshe twb tsid yuav lawm os ua poj nrauj zaum2 los lav liam tsis k li os sister aw..
tus txiv zoo li no ces tsi tha yuav lawm os sister aws...
Koj niam aw cas koj tseem muab wb zaj dab neeg tuaj hais hauv nov thiab na. Oyyy. 😂😂😂
Ntuj npam nws koj thiaj li paub
Txhob ntseeg ntseeg tus sab nrauv lawv Kaus yus noj
Niam no kuv laj ntseeg ib tug txiv neej li lawm
Txiv neej ces yeej zoo li no xwb ntshai lawm os.
Yuav thaiv qaus qus, txhob qhia koj tej nyiaj tas tas rau nws thiab mog.
Just keep him for booty call. There's no need to get married if that's how he wants to play. I mean he doesn't need to allocate 100% to you, but at least divide it evenly among you and his kids.
You guy should sign an agreement on funeral expenses too 😊
If there is no trust, it is better to divorce him. Why stay in a relationship that their is secret. And why does he keep calling you a divorced woman? It is not like he has not divorced before? You don't need to stay in a relationship that gets you a headache. Better to stay single.
When there is no trust, there is no need to be in a relationship. Why be in a relationship when it’s a one way only. Keep all your money separate or not be marry. You should just keep all your assets and list only your children as beneficiary. BS to him being the man and is entitled to your money but you’re not entitled to his.
Why even get marry when there’s no trust. Who knows what else he is hiding from you. Make sure your life insurance beneficiary is your children. Yus nyob yus ua phooj ywg noj fawm xwb.
Nkawv neb pw ua ke tseem hnov zoo thiab los
Vuag thov nyoo os mloog xwb kuv tsis ok li
Someone like him should stay single and divorced with his kids. He doesn't need anyone else.
Ab cas nej pheej ntshaw ntshaw lwm tus lis nyiaj e los ua nej lis nyiaj na kuv ma tsis yog kuv lis kuv yeej tsis ntshaw kiag
Whatever he has before you is his. Don’t get upset. You can do the same.
Koj vwm xwb os ho tsis hu hais tus txiv neej ntawv thiab ho tsis hais koj tus niag txiv ua ntej
I can't help but wonder what else does the husband hide, or will be hiding from her now that she knows how greedy he is? It's not a healthy and safe marriage anymore. No trust, why married. She should've divorced him, or have something in place if they were to continue their marriage.
I can understand his point of view and yours too. He should've told you about his $ before he married you and what his plans were for it then you two could agree or disagree before making the decision to marry. I would totally hide my $ if I won the lottery or could save a big amount bc the husband likes to spend $ too much.
Sister, why would be so foolish to put him as a beneficiary on your life insurance? Leave that to your children. You do not combine your money. You keep your finances separate. If you do you only put the same equal amount into a joint account if that's the case. He doesn't trust you. He has too many secrets.
Viv ncaus aw!!! Nej mas tseem yog niam tog txiv nta
Peb twb yog niam nkauj txhav qaib Los kuv twb zoo ib yam li koj thiab os
Tau tus txiv tsab ntse ces neej tsa qhua qhua tiam sis lawv tsis paub yus lub neej xwb os
Kuv twb ntsib tus txiv neej zoo li ko
Kuv nkag siab koj kawg.
Txivneej tsis muaj tus hlub tiag os. Lawv phem hos.
When we redo and do not benefit anything, why are we staying together
Tus niam tsev koj yuav txiv kom tau qau xwb na neb tsis yog niam txiv os nyias nyob nyias zoo dua
Oh no, cooking is alot of labor and exhaexhausting. Need to charge for your time and sweat.
I’m also remarried. Anything you buy or did before him or he did before you should leave it alone. If you want you should buy a new 1 for you and he buys 1 for him and leave you as a beneficiary and you have him as beneficiary on your policy. That’s my 2 cents and that’s how I did for myself. We shouldn’t stirred something that doesn’t belong to us before he married you.
Tus sister aw..nej es tseem yog niam tog txiv nta os kuv ces twb yog niam nkauj txav qaib txiv nraug txav noog los kuv twb taug txoj kev Kom tib yam twb tau 30 lub xyoo no Cia lub ntuj ma li txiav txim ma..
Whats the point of staying married? Bc u dont want to be a divorcee again? Thats so dumb. You dont need him and better off alone. Smh.
Cas koj g paub tu siab li na txawm yus yuav los yuav tau nws yeej muaj ib pob nyiaj ua ntej los koj twb los Yog nws poj niam txhua2 yam yuav tsum yog koj li ib yam nws li los yeej yog koj li, koj pob los yog nws pob na. Yuav ib tug txiv zais siab g pub koj paub txog tej nyiaj txiag li ntawv ces xum g yuav peb ua niam txiv g sib qhia siab ces tu2 siab luag lam yuav yus los ua chaw tiag taw kom muaj ib tug poj niam nyob rau ntawv es kwv tij neej tsa saib taus nws xwb os. Luag saib yus yog ib niag poj nrauj g muaj nqis thiab g ntseeg koj siab li qhov koj hais ces txawm nyob uake los g sov siab os.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes sister u need to make him taste his own medicine so he understands what it feels like. Lol
You never know. Now a days people are too evil. Have seen and heard too many cases where the new wife/husband took all the money and left nothing to the kids. So i don't think it's wrong to protect your money. That's my personal opinion. Don't come at me if u don't agree. Just move along.
Umm... I have trust issues too. I'll just stay alone lol
You both should have remained boyfriend and girlfriend only so you can live like roommates. You were right to move your money out of the joint account. He is very manipulative and hypocritical so it’s best to keep your money separate. Sounds like you both are only together so you can afford living. No trust = no love.
😂😂😂nyias cia nyias nyiaj es sib tsuav ntsuag hmo ntuj xwb ma.. nyias hlub nyias Cov menyuam xwb os 😂😂😂
Ua li neb es sib ua puas hnov zoo nyob lm nas los thiab puas xav hais tias yog niam txiv no mas neb zoo li neb yog partner xwb es ib tug puas xav hu ib tug tias koj niam koj txiv lm mas los .
Maybe your new husband’s guy? Never know nowadays. Should’ve be upfront with him when you saw the truth.
Girl you're in the wrong that is his business. You should start from where you start with him not his assets from before you. You complain and siab mey girl.
The 50,000 is not your problem but he should match your 30,000 other than that that money was before you so go sit down
Omg that's his money before u. Y ubso worried about it. He should just do prenuptial though.
The kind of liar this man is…able to swear on his life means he can kill you if necessary. Leave him.
Obviously, you're in it for the money. Everything was bought or have was before you.
Koj tus txiv ko ruam tsab ntse
Koj zaj dab neeg no stupid dhau lawm os... what he has before u he doesn't need to share with u, neb teb tso 20k each lawm ces yuav li ntawv xwb, stop being so greedy and nosy that u want everything! Tsam tau ua pojnrauj dua os!
You are such a horrible wife and mother. He's being a good father by planning ahead and saving that money for his children in case anything should happen to him. You're not the mother of his children, he has the right to be concern. You apparently don't care much about your children to think about their future and well being. All you care about is that your husband is hiding money from you. He's not using that money on another women, it's for his children.
Just because you're married, doesn't mean he can't have a saving for his children, and he doesn't have to tell you about it. Any smart person would do the same. No matter how much you love a person, you don't know when their feelings will change. Money means more to you that you're willing to let your marriage fall apart. How can he ever trust you now that you made money the problem of your marriage? Having separate account is a good thing, a smart thing! I'm surprised he's still with you, If I were him, I would have left a long time ago. It's not about trust, he's being a good father to his children.
😮might as well leave when you still can! When you’re married you share everything! Cant believe how shallow he is
Thaum zoo li no lawm ces tsis xav sib hlub lawm. It’s not worth staying married.