You are a beautiful soul and don’t think one second the devil doesn’t want it. We are angels and some of us chose to give our soul to the devil and those people are for real people walking this earth and they are now obeying the devil and helping him take our souls. Please don’t let him take it. Demons hide inside those who chose the devil. Their outward appearance is a lie. They are demons inside.
I can only speak for myself, the new supply is their only option . When I saw who my husband was cheating with..I instantly looked at the sky and said” ok God I can let go now , I hear you loud and clear”. Never mind she was unattractive , made less money and didn’t have anything, it was about knowing he would sleep with anything , he didn’t value a wife that was educated, a high earner, pretty and most important loved him and our family. He wanted whatever wanted him… So he can have everything he thought was better. He is stuck and I’m free.
SAME! She is unattractive , unemployed and lazy. She is 46 years old and her mother is supporting her financially. Both! Narc and her, because he is poor and lazy too. .And her mother is not rich.....Poor lady...😨
@@korimoore1691 my story exactly. Even though it is not easy to crawl to my freedom from this narc, I have faith that in the end it all will be well for me and my children.
They sit back and laugh at the fact your on your knees and they think your pathetic while they think they're the new queen bee, boy do they not know what they are in for, they have no clue what's in store for them
Yes they new supply don't know what a narc is. Its unbelievable how we all have similar horror stories. Without this I wouldn't thought anyone would have had it as bad or as bad as me. Thanks Hario! Me being with that narc was totally embarrassing. I was paying for his everything and he was doing me foul!
My narc new supply called be right after we just had sex he was hiding her talking about let me know so I can dismiss him I’m like girl he just left me it was given I’m lying now she’s in the window crying while he in another state bring another supply to family cookout 🙊but told her he was locked up and she was the one that was supposed to be at the cookout I know he planned it out to show me yet another supply he got I just laughed talking about never did this before his phone going straight to vm then called him arguing with him the whole night while he watching me 😂😂😂
This man chased me for yearssss until I finally said ok I’m single let’s give this a try love bombing and trying to control me soon as we got tighter he gave me a car on to track me confronted of coursed he cried and said he love me and he’s going to change and took the car ever chance he got I was paying the insurance glad I never took his rent money firing his energy on me until I put it to a stop
New supply knew about me and thought she had won the prize . 11 mths down the line countless fallouts between then and it ended with her nearly losing her children because he left them in the house on their own . She was a social worker as well she cut him off straight away and he came back to me for 2 years but still stalked her . We have been split again now for 6 weeks and no hoovering so guess he had another new supply lined up . There is no coming back again for me my mental health couldn't handle it again so yes you are 100 percent right . They don't change and most likely get worse with each supply
Thank you for your comment I'm in the same situation he discarded me for his supply n she really thinks she won a prize she has 4 small children not his she has has unhealed childhood traumas he preys on
@@jacobromero2634 yeah she had 2 children and when she discarded him he said he was sick of her kids so it was all an act playing this great step father and he had no interest in them at all
Good show!! Needed this. My Ex Husband Narc’s new supply told me that maybe all our issues were in my head. She hasn’t seen anything crazy…she says. She was Gaslighting me!! She knew of all the craziness because she WAS my good friend. I can’t wait for the Karma and crazy making to hit her like a brick! Blocked both them fools!
I remember when it was the last straw and I detached mentally. We were about to go get groceries but he decided to throw the PSNAP card(food stamps) at me and told me to go on the bus or walk to get them. It was about 7:00 am I started walking in the store random people were telling me to have a "blessed day"was coming back with 3 grocery bags and one of our neighbor's said" good morning". It's the first time I felt seen and not invisible. I believe now that was Jesus Christ pushing me to stay strong ❤️🔥🕊️🙌
Unless you pay them money then they want you in jail but still working while in jail making liscence plates and sending them the money but stay in jail lol.
My narc told me earlier he dreads coming home to me. He’s been sleeping on the couch for over a month just watching movies on his phone. He just ignores me. Tonight I told him to leave and he pretty much said gladly. I’m not gonna lie, I’m scared to death right now. Pls pray for me. I feel disposable.
You are not alone you deserve so much better heal you find you again cut contact with them you are the most important person don't lose yourself to no1 ❤️
Yes... all pretend. I think back now, I was never happy. Just a show, because I was told by ex narc not to look sad, not to say anything to anyone about our relationship... "Love, trust, commitment, devotion"... Just TOTAL bondage, lies, and slavery! I'm ONLY committed and devoted to the Lord! As for love and trust? Not in the narcs vocabulary!
Great title! I was lots of time "new supply" to the same men, my ex. I exactly know what it means that behind "new supply's" smile is fear, pain and doom!!! Now, when I am real ex to my ex after I was finally brutally discarded, I do not want even to see smile of his new supply. I totally dont care!!! Let her deal with it now. She thinks than she won something. She won road to hell from where I am returning now. Thank you Hario for all your efforts :) Thank you beautiful people, keep on trying and thriving. Greetings from Croatia
The day I left, I deleted the text thread, blocked his#, and deleted EVERY photo. I knew it was over when I was able to do all of that. I’m serious….. do all narcs read from the same book?!! Because all of their behavioral patterns are the same.
The new Supply is my godsister. She has coveted the relationship between me and my husband for 30 years. It's going to be fun watching two narcs destroy each other.
He really telling the truth good times but in those good times something always pop off no good birthdays Anniversary no happy nothing they all ways ness it up. They happy because u are their fool .
This narcissist took the picture off the wall thought he hurt me no baby I replace all I gave him because I didn't want him coming back and forth to my home bothering me. It's bn 2 years he cheated now he wants to take me to court for alimony am waiting because it's going to be reversed they are out to hurt you because he couldn't destroy you before u put him out I thank God. I saw the narcissist with his supply / new wife 25 years old and I ignored them totally it felt so good now she's getting what she put me through empty marriage with kids oh well
I'm seeing a Narc know and have been for the past 30 years, but didn't notice the true side of him until about 2 or 3 years ago. I started studying him and watching videos about it and every video hit the nail on the head... I'm easing my way out of this, I can't do it any more
Even during the early stages of the love bombing stage before I knew what the term narcissist meant, there were red flags. For example, she would get angry whenever I was enjoying myself at outings and making others laugh etc. Making ultimatums of wanting to be married within 6 months to a year after dating at the start of the relationship. Telling stories about how her baby daddy was this abusive jealous guy who was always in and out of prison. That he would continuously threaten her and his kids lives. Etc. This was a part of the love bombing stage, along with the good. We were married for five years. 5 years married to the narcissist by the way felt more like 12 years in general 😂. The devaluation stage was the biggest part of that relationship. First, the indifference started out small with little disrespectful things which eventually grew into something much larger by the discard stage, the love was gone. Love, by the way is like a fragile jewel that must be nourished. I had become indifferent by this point, and she were definitely cheating by that point(most likely throughout). So we hear stories about how guys can be too controlling and insecure in relationships, and me wanting my marriage to flourish was completely conscious of that. So when she would come to me about her going out with friends, I had complete trust in her to be respectful of our marriage. I wanted her to go out and have a good time with her girlfriends, but what really happened is that she used her friends/flying monkeys as her alibi to go out and cheat. I was so disgusted, the fact that she would sex someone else and then come home and lay up under me at night, that's insane but ideal behavior to the narcissist. I was done, and I shortly thereafter within a 30 day period moved out choosing to sleep in the basement in the meantime. During those 30 days the disrespect intensified to a point that I became fearful that she might recklessly put me in a dangerous predicament through triangulation with her new supply. Once I left the toxicity, I felt a great sense of relief 😂. It was done and over. That first year before my divorce, she would hoover every 2-3 months to no avail, and in typical narcissist fashion, she took no accountability, blaming me for her actions if she wasn't denying them completely. She would speak in terms of whatever I did although I am admitting to nothing is your fault. By the end of that first year going into the second year of being separated, the divorce was finalized. It has now been 5 months since my divorce and the hoovering appears to have come to an end. Good riddance.
Thank you Hario😀 you know exactly what we’re going through and you give us the strength 💪 to carry on and believe in ourselves. God bless you and everyone in our online family for always 🙏
I laugh at him and the new supply he married. They look ridiculous 🤣 he made his bed. It was a blessing I got out/discarded. The entire month of December he hoovered me. Nah buddy no returns 💪😑
I met the narcissist through business he waisted no time letting me know he wanted to be intimate. He didn't know anything about me personally he was dumb af. He started to triangulating me with other women of his office to make me jealous but I am not that type. In fact men like that put me off completely. But I played nicely for a while never giving him what he wanted. So one day I flipped and sent him a msg telling all I thought of him letting him know the others could have him explaining him in detail how worthless he is to me. This was a year ago and every time I see him walking about town I ignore him pretend I don't know him because who needs trash!?
Going thru a divorce that’s horrible. He took millions from me. My son was gaslighted. Now he’s on Facebook with new supply while we are still married. No divorce yet. All my finances, emotions, personal property is gone. He’s gotten face lift gastric by pass, lips, chin. Everything redone dancing around in Aruba night club with new supply. What the hell??? I’m was left with nothing struggling after 40 years. Ugh.
I feel your pain Diana, May God continue to give you strength. Remember that God pays debts without money and He will get you through this terrible time and you will win through 🏆 . Stay strong 💪 xx
The same happened to me after 34 years.I still struggle 9 years later, he was on facebook within months of split a year before divorce with new girlfriend half way around the world posing for pics together while i could hardly eat.he also got hair transplant,I feel your pain life can be so unfair.
Girl I can’t . These things don’t stop. Once you think they’ve taken it as far as they can go they find a new level and show u there’s no bottom to their dirt
Whatever the narcs says and does literally take it the opposite way because that’s what it is. If it’s awesome it’s really horrible and if it’s fun it’s really misery. If you were never happpy with them they willl go off and be unhappy with whatever comes their way.. everything they touch they wanna destroy secretly. And that’s the truth. They will never find happiness in this world... they are filled with destruction period and never forget that because yes we are not perfect but love should never hurt.
Why do you bother thinking they are happy because he was not happy with you .He/She had a new supply while bn with you now ur energy made them shine before he / she left now one thing you need to remember If anyone take another person out of someone bed will never have any success it was started on shaky grounds and it shall fall. Your narcissist is not happy and they do have other plenty of victims you just don't need to be one of them go to counseling talk to a supportive friend do things that you love yo do and forgot while u were with that narcissist please continue to listen to these videos ur life is in them and it's going to be hard but hang in there . I will pray for ur healing nothing but love for u
I tried warning the new supply which was actually an old supply n she took it as I wanted him but little does she know she gave me peace freedom and lower blood pressure😊
I tried to call my narcissist yesterday and this morning I was doing well but block him on what's App and regular but yesterday I unblock both why and he had. Block me on both I'm praying for the Lord's help I need you guys to help pray for me as well
Healing is messy we have all been there educate yourself cut all contact stay off their social media it's not worth it it's all fake anyways you focus on you, you deserve better than that do some journaling write a letter but don't send it remind yourself of the bad times than the bits of good you need to find you move on and let it be the lesson to achieve better in your life
Why u unblocked him he's not hitting u are and you need to put ur feelings aside and think of how he treated you and if he wanted to be with you he would be there holding you. Remember nothing you can do will keep a man A man wants to be Kept that's what holds a man himself. Continue to watch the video ur life is in it go to counseling find a great supportive friend to vent to get out go and do the things ur forgot u love while u were with the narcissist because u lost urself I've been there it's going to hurt but hang in there ur soul is the best because u need to find you throw all the things he gave u away or hide it from you you going to make it nothing but love for you praying for you
he cannot touch me or get to me I'm in the stage now where I'm angry and I want to fight back the legal way has nothing to do with the love I love myself I'm the one that started checking because I knew something wasn't right about the behavior and I'm the one that broke it off because I knew I deserve better I checked my messages I have to type of devices on my phone there were some from him there's nothing he can say to win me back you can best believe that see I gave him a second chance I give no more but I thank you for the advice and this group is very helpful
He is with his new supply pretending to be a Christian because he is mirroring her. She is a complete codependent so perfect target! So glad God released me from this demon!👿
Seems happy, she works at a bar he is an alcoholic she feeds the lifestyle he wants … she never gets time away from him they spend every moment with each other … new supply is controlled! I don’t feel bad for her!
It’s been 15 months and it still hurts. He discarded me for a 19 year old girl (he’s 40) and they now have a 1 month old baby together. I know I shouldn’t, but I still look at his social media. They split temporarily last year for a couple months and she called him “scum” publicly on his Facebook, saying how he put her on the street. But now they’re back together and “couldn’t be happier”. He’s posting about how he “loves his family”. I’m still hurting a lot, even though I have worked on myself a lot.
That fool is not happy at all he’s back with her because obviously she’s young and being controlled. As long as she dance to his music the narc aren’t going nowhere but straight to hell! That girl is throwing her life away she’s gone look up one day with many of regrets I’m sure by now she’s depressed and getting lots of abuse while he still continues to be a narc.
I'm in the same boat. He's really all I had - I only have one friend. He liked that fact because they like to keep you isolated and drive friends/family away
Literally after he put the ring on my finger in 2020 the next weekend the mask started to fall. This Christmas he's shacked up with his new wife lol. They can have one another 😑✋. I'm investing my love into me and God now.
This is like my story. The new supply knew about me… 3 months after the wedding, he proposed to the new supply. Now they have matching tattoos. She knows he lies to her and all … smh
@@MsRence1212 the blessing in the discard!! Saved by God's grace. I feel ya sis, it's one of those journeys you're like, did that just happen?!! Lol Keep healing, we deserve so much more ❤️
Send them a birthday gift, nicely wrapped with a bow. So when they're thinking how stupid you must be... they unwrapped the gift, they open the box to discover it's nothing but a can of dog food or cat food as the case may be. Now, that's what I call narcissistic supply.
that's what they make you think, your the only one, i nearly got married to this person, came within a hairs breath of having a baby, no idea this person had no values , or cared about other people, the more i stood up for myself , the more she would leave , i tried everything to have a balanced mature relationship with this person , only to realise they threat people like a child treats toys.
I still don’t get what a narc is. Cause my husband would never argue back with me he was just unemotionaly available. He got me pregnant and then left me for someone else. Soooo idk. A covert?
We lie to ourself because we are shame to what we knew we were marrying or dating and it take years to clear urself away from the devil it's a struggle
Yes we feel shame for what we put up with and put others through too. But remember that God has forgiven us and now it’s time for us to forgive ourselves. We can only beat the devil by living our best lives ever💪💕
My ex narc and I broke up last Yr after I found out he was cheating on me with a woman that I actually met once and I ignored my instincts coz it just looked weirs but I didn't have any proof...fast forward just this Feb we were talking abt getting back together coz when I left him last Yr I went no contact until this Yr but I hadn't figured out he was a narc. Ironically the same time we were talking abt getting back together he kicked her out coz they were living together coz he was reconnecting with me she even went a step further to try and burn his house so tye whole time I was laughing at her especially because she thought she had won over me and she don't even know me...now am back on the no contact path coz I realised the truth 2wks ago that after all that drama he still was conversing with he I just thought to myself even his sense of judgement left the room coz he likes this girls unstable attention he gives her...come to find out she actually has 2 kids who she don't live with coz she is too busy trying to make him happy and in the end I saw them with my eyes he couldn't lie and say he didn't know her or anything else which of course was a lie...now after that whole drama in my head I thought I was fighting for my family and when I stood and looked at the situation it was just getting worse more disgusting and he looked soooo pathetic to me...he knew he lost me that day a week later still after the whole drama of seeing them together I texted that girl coz she liked texting me when he would mistreat her and I told her the same grave she was helping him dig for me they are both going to fall in it especially since he knows she knows who she truly is and she decides to stay even after kicking her out like a dog she went back...she was always telling me how they don't even use condoms which made me lividdddd coz he was now putting me in danger and that's when we were living together.....but you know what after that day I texted them and violated both of them for disrespecting me I went no contact 2wks but this time I now know what I was dealing with wasn't in my head the constant anxiety and walking on eggshells with this individual but now Knowledge Is power I can understand him without engaging with him and he is sooooo scared abt that....his family has kinda also separated themselves from his coz of his actions so now she gets all his attention both good and bad so good luck to her especially since even her willingly participated in tye nonsense I told her you can keep him and laughed abt them...
This makes you not want to trust a person again how do we know we don't have any narcissists in the group or that things were done so bad 2 an empath that we won't turn like them or want to pay them back for what they have done to us I know there's some of us in this group that want to do that I'm a super empath I'm going to fix him the legal way
Always trust people, always be loving and caring but have the heart of a lion. Learning about the narcs can help prevent losing your life to one of them by seeing all the red flags. If there’s a narc in this group who cares all the kindness and support we give each other I’m telling you it’s like pouring acid on them... they can’t stand this kind of stuff. Talking about love is like them talking about killing someone now can you stand a conversation like that?? Nooo it will scare the shyt out of you same thing with them and talking about good and happy things.. never worry about anything when you’re with god.
@@wayforward6928 thank you... honestly I feel like god himself is putting all these ideas and thoughts in my head and I’m so glad to share it with all of you guys.
I was in love with mine genuinely but after the discarding, manipulation, gas lighting he still wanted to put on a show for social media and I wasn’t going…
I burned everything she ever gave me I picked up the last of my clothes from her house last Monday I took all the birthday cards and clothes that she bought me and threw them in the trash when she heard me throw them in the trash he had to play it off and go check the trash by throwing out something in the trash I know that got to her I didn't do it to try to get revenge I did it to break all connections deleted all pictures I want nothing else to do with that woman or any other narcissist that's in my life straight devils
You know if this is a movie it'll be funny but this is real life nothing funny about it but you're right Hario this is spiritual warfare and we need to help each other as much as we can
You're so right Lisa and God be praised as He is leading us through this Armageddon. We are part of the army of survivors all of us in our online family🙏Thank God for sending Hario who unites us all and above all thank God whose love for us is everlasting.🙏
He knew that he was not on my level and that’s why he targeted me on my job he always said he wanted to get as high as I was but he was there to take everything that I had but God stepped in divorce this man and he got nothing just tried to give him nothing because he never even showed up costing me a fortune to get this divorce
Every time I would address him about cheating he would tell me I’m making it up and there’s nothing there low and behold it was there the whole time. He lied and said his mom had early on set so he would have to go back and forth to the dmv, low and behold it was the new supply. He even moved the new supply here..
Hario I never remember having a good week nothing last long with the narc.I got rid of all my pics,videos and anything the narc gave me I don't want no reminders no damn memories of the hell I was going threw at all
The love bomb stage is part of what hooked you, and the sex is through the roof. They ghost you ,don't answer your phone calls 😢. Hurt your heart unbelievable.
Just venting and seeking some advice. My situation is so extensive and downright evil to me that I'd rather list some of my events with my mother to keep my post from being too long. Please, if there are anyone who can identify with some of my similar encounters just let me know that I'm not alone. There is more but this is just 20 encounters with my biological mother that I will share in this post: 1. My mother gave me up to the foster care system when I was an infant. She had 2 additional children that she raised after she left me in the foster home. 2. While in the Foster Care system for 11 years my mother never called me, Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, bought school clothes, checked on my grades or my welfare. 3. When I turned 11 years old, my mother came and got me out of the foster care system. By this time, I had been molested by one of my foster brothers and severely emotionally abused by my foster Aunts. 4. After my mother got me from out of the foster care program at 12 years old, she dropped me off to her sister who already had 5 children in the projects. 5. While living with my mother's sister; my mother never called me, brought over Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, bought school clothes, checked on my grades or my welfare and we were in the same city during that time. I would even see my biological brothers with new clothing and shoes but she never would do the same for me. 6. While living with her sister; I got into a fight with my youngest aunt (my mother's youngest sister who also lived with the same sister as I did). This Aunt and I were close in age. During the fight, my youngest aunt burned me in the face with a heavy-duty soldering iron. 7. I was transported to the Burn Unit at the local hospital in the city where we lived during that time. I was told by the doctors that I would have permanent scarring from 2nd and 3rd degree burns to the left side of my face and mild nerve damage to my left eyelid. 8. I stayed in the Burn Unit for several days...after I was released from the hospital, Children services had my aunt investigated and I was no longer allowed to return to that particular aunt's house for my protection. My mother picked me up from the hospital on the day of my release and instead of taking me with her she later dropped me off to her oldest sister and left me there. Once again, no school clothes, christmas gifts, birthday gifts...you get it...same pattern as I became accustomed to. I beg and plead to go back to my foster family in a different state which I previously came from. Oddly enough, she allowed me to go back to my Foster parents at the age of 13, that was the only thing she ever did for me. 9. Fast Forward years later, I gave my life to Christ..during that time I decided to forgive my mother and allow her to tell me her side of the story. Here is my mother's response to me: 10. My mother stated that her mother made her give me up to the foster care program. Mind you, my mother was 19 years old when she had me and 18 months to 3 years later she was raising 2 boys that were conceived after me. I thought this was my mother's opportunity to take responsibility and sincerely apologize. 11. My mother then said that she was paying my Foster Parents child support to buy me things all of those years that I was living there. My mother didn't know why my foster parents never told me about all of the money. This was another unnecessary lie. How many parents do you know pay child support to kids in the foster care program as these programs are funded by the state for the approved child. So now she is trying to paint the picture that my foster parents were bad people. 12. My mother later told me that my Foster mother wrote her a letter before she died and told her that I was having sexual encounters with my foster father. THIS NEVER HAPPENED!!! MY FOSTER MOTHER WAS AN UPSTANDING WOMAN AND WOULD HAVE NEVER SAID SOMETHING LIKE THIS...ESPECIALLY SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT TRUE. 13. My mother said that every time she attempted to get me that I never wanted to go with her. Mind you guys I was a child with no authority to choose who I wanted to live with. 14. My mother told my biological family members that my foster family told her that I was doing heroine while I was in the foster home. I have NEVER done drugs as a child in the foster home. 15. My mother have told my biological family members and friends that I stole my uncle's lawyer money (which I did not but my mom did). 16. My mother have told family and friends that I was promiscuous with adult men as a child (which I have NEVER been promiscuous as a child but only molested). 17. My mother told family friends that she paid my college tuition (which she has never paid anything for me). 18. Even now that I'm grown and doing really well in life....my mother still manages to turn other family members against me with her lies. What's even more hurtful is that none of these people will even have a conversation with me to confirm whether I said what was told to them or not. Instead, they just run with the lie and spread it to others. 19. It would be different if some of these same family members and friends did not have their own personal encounter with my mother's lying, deceitful, divisive and conniving ways. However, even with this knowledge they rather follow suit with her and not like me without even asking me I said it. 20. My mother really hurt and traumatized me as a child and for the life I don't understand why she continues to try and destroy my character as an adult and not take any responsibility for anything. She really believes her lies and all the things that she has done to me she tells people that I did it to her. She is ALWAYS the victim. Can anyone relate to this?
I actually did see the too. and it didn't go well. For I next walked up to him and her and told him how I'm calling the police to make a accusations that he not only raped me last night but beat me with fresh made bruises. And he was picked up she was pissed all I needed to smirk n her face with him behind bars!!!! Eventually I dropped the charges just to let them have each other with him coming back to me instead
Well in my case she absolutely knew who he was and what he is so he doesn't even really have to pretend she accepts it long as she has a man, he doesn't have to pretend so much
"The Narcissist just wants to cheat in peace". PRICELESS!!!
I have to keep watching these videos while I’m healing. I need reassurance
Me too it's rough but My God is worthy to be praised
You are a beautiful soul and don’t think one second the devil doesn’t want it. We are angels and some of us chose to give our soul to the devil and those people are for real people walking this earth and they are now obeying the devil and helping him take our souls. Please don’t let him take it. Demons hide inside those who chose the devil. Their outward appearance is a lie. They are demons inside.
Kika, Your not alone we all watch the VIDEOS. We have to move on and get past the Narcissist. We never let them back into our life's.
@@davidcoppotelli3957 ❤️❤️
@@kikataye6293 Thanks Same to You. Stay well.
Demons hate the joy of the Lord and genuine people
I can only speak for myself, the new supply is their only option . When I saw who my husband was cheating with..I instantly looked at the sky and said” ok God I can let go now , I hear you loud and clear”.
Never mind she was unattractive , made less money and didn’t have anything, it was about knowing he would sleep with anything , he didn’t value a wife that was educated, a high earner, pretty and most important loved him and our family. He wanted whatever wanted him… So he can have everything he thought was better. He is stuck and I’m free.
SAME! She is unattractive , unemployed and lazy. She is 46 years old and her mother is supporting her financially. Both! Narc and her, because he is poor and lazy too. .And her mother is not rich.....Poor lady...😨
AMEN... I nearly fell of my damn chair coz you are so right 🤣🤣
When you see the degradation you let it go completely!!
My story exactly verbatim!! that's how you know this thing is real, but I'm free now she was my ticket out!!
@@korimoore1691 my story exactly. Even though it is not easy to crawl to my freedom from this narc, I have faith that in the end it all will be well for me and my children.
When I seen the women my ex narc husband was sleeping with I was sick to my stomach.
They sit back and laugh at the fact your on your knees and they think your pathetic while they think they're the new queen bee, boy do they not know what they are in for, they have no clue what's in store for them
FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯😂😂😂😂😂
I needed to read this so true. She feels like she won lol yeah garbage
Yes they new supply don't know what a narc is. Its unbelievable how we all have similar horror stories. Without this I wouldn't thought anyone would have had it as bad or as bad as me. Thanks Hario! Me being with that narc was totally embarrassing. I was paying for his everything and he was doing me foul!
It’s crazy! We are the lucky ones to leave though! Thank God for these videos on TH-cam
Same here!
Amen 🙏
My narc new supply called be right after we just had sex he was hiding her talking about let me know so I can dismiss him I’m like girl he just left me it was given I’m lying now she’s in the window crying while he in another state bring another supply to family cookout 🙊but told her he was locked up and she was the one that was supposed to be at the cookout I know he planned it out to show me yet another supply he got I just laughed talking about never did this before his phone going straight to vm then called him arguing with him the whole night while he watching me 😂😂😂
This man chased me for yearssss until I finally said ok I’m single let’s give this a try love bombing and trying to control me soon as we got tighter he gave me a car on to track me confronted of coursed he cried and said he love me and he’s going to change and took the car ever chance he got I was paying the insurance glad I never took his rent money firing his energy on me until I put it to a stop
Ms P.
I was warned by the old supply. I was stupid thought I could make the narc a better person.
I couldn’t.
Ms. P. Come on now you won't be the last one Girl. The Narc isn't going to change. Go live your life.
Not even narcs are looking for other narcs 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️🌟👑
Jus to cheat on you with
New supply knew about me and thought she had won the prize . 11 mths down the line countless fallouts between then and it ended with her nearly losing her children because he left them in the house on their own . She was a social worker as well she cut him off straight away and he came back to me for 2 years but still stalked her . We have been split again now for 6 weeks and no hoovering so guess he had another new supply lined up . There is no coming back again for me my mental health couldn't handle it again so yes you are 100 percent right . They don't change and most likely get worse with each supply
Thank you for your comment I'm in the same situation he discarded me for his supply n she really thinks she won a prize she has 4 small children not his she has has unhealed childhood traumas he preys on
@@jacobromero2634 yeah she had 2 children and when she discarded him he said he was sick of her kids so it was all an act playing this great step father and he had no interest in them at all
@@wendywoo8686 they do that if they need somewhere to go,sex and of course revenge on the ex. It's all lies and sick games.
No matter how much you stroke a snake 🐍 it will never turn into a cute puppy 🐶! Walk on and leave this 🐍
Lol 😂
They are terrible 😢
Good show!! Needed this.
My Ex Husband Narc’s new supply told me that maybe all our issues were in my head. She hasn’t seen anything crazy…she says. She was Gaslighting me!! She knew of all the craziness because she WAS my good friend.
I can’t wait for the Karma and crazy making to hit her like a brick! Blocked both them fools!
She’s knows, she just think that she’s better than you. He’s probably already getting treated bad but will stay just to prove to you that she’s happy
Well wait until it's in her head bet she won't be saying that then
She’s already getting it. Trust and believe
U right big bro appreciate what u do helping people out here on a NARCIST AND HOW THEY GET DOWN 💯 THEY SATAN KIDS 💯
For real demonic freaks!!! And the lord said they shall go to hell away from all his real angels. He will protect us to the end 🙏
@@ivantheamazing1188 amen facts 💯
Narcissist's are Satan's children. 😲
Diarrhea
FACTZ!!!!!
I remember when it was the last straw and I detached mentally. We were about to go get groceries but he decided to throw the PSNAP card(food stamps) at me and told me to go on the bus or walk to get them. It was about 7:00 am I started walking in the store random people were telling me to have a "blessed day"was coming back with 3 grocery bags and one of our neighbor's said" good morning". It's the first time I felt seen and not invisible. I believe now that was Jesus Christ pushing me to stay strong ❤️🔥🕊️🙌
There is a harsh reality to face about the narcissists . these people need to stay out of way of people because this truly a mental issues.
They don't care if you're in the hospital or not they want to finish you off so they can go to the next victim
They’re worse than vampires!
Your right I was in just in the hospital we are separated but claims he loves me ,told me straight up he wasn't coming lol
Unless you pay them money then they want you in jail but still working while in jail making liscence plates and sending them the money but stay in jail lol.
My narc told me earlier he dreads coming home to me. He’s been sleeping on the couch for over a month just watching movies on his phone. He just ignores me. Tonight I told him to leave and he pretty much said gladly. I’m not gonna lie, I’m scared to death right now. Pls pray for me. I feel disposable.
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Let him GO!@@
When they get like that…I realized they can’t stand us because we trigger their shame and guilt.
You are not alone you deserve so much better heal you find you again cut contact with them you are the most important person don't lose yourself to no1 ❤️
They do that to hurt u they know u need intimacy they don't
Yes... all pretend. I think back now, I was never happy. Just a show, because I was told by ex narc not to look sad, not to say anything to anyone about our relationship... "Love, trust, commitment, devotion"... Just TOTAL bondage, lies, and slavery! I'm ONLY committed and devoted to the Lord! As for love and trust? Not in the narcs vocabulary!
OMG, Yes! Every photo I look at with my narc (vacations etc.) I can remember some drama that was going on behind the scenes.
Great title! I was lots of time "new supply" to the same men, my ex. I exactly know what it means that behind "new supply's" smile is fear, pain and doom!!! Now, when I am real ex to my ex after I was finally brutally discarded, I do not want even to see smile of his new supply. I totally dont care!!! Let her deal with it now. She thinks than she won something. She won road to hell from where I am returning now. Thank you Hario for all your efforts :) Thank you beautiful people, keep on trying and thriving. Greetings from Croatia
You are positive person after going thru it with these ppl that's powerful
The day I left, I deleted the text thread, blocked his#, and deleted EVERY photo. I knew it was over when I was able to do all of that.
I’m serious….. do all narcs read from the same book?!! Because all of their behavioral patterns are the same.
Ms p....you are right...no contact with the supply as well!
Hario gives some of the funniest looks 🤣
The new Supply is my godsister. She has coveted the relationship between me and my husband for 30 years. It's going to be fun watching two narcs destroy each other.
So true Hario good moments but never good days, weeks, months and especially years!!
He really telling the truth good times but in those good times something always pop off no good birthdays Anniversary no happy nothing they all ways ness it up. They happy because u are their fool .
This narcissist took the picture off the wall thought he hurt me no baby I replace all I gave him because I didn't want him coming back and forth to my home bothering me. It's bn 2 years he cheated now he wants to take me to court for alimony am waiting because it's going to be reversed they are out to hurt you because he couldn't destroy you before u put him out I thank God. I saw the narcissist with his supply / new wife 25 years old and I ignored them totally it felt so good now she's getting what she put me through empty marriage with kids oh well
You jamming in the background the old school way and still teaching love it ..
Missed this again ive been struggling lately Thanks to you I am learning 🏴😘
They don't appreciate or value the sacrifices n d unconditional love u freely gave them heartless excruciating pain
I'm seeing a Narc know and have been for the past 30 years, but didn't notice the true side of him until about 2 or 3 years ago. I started studying him and watching videos about it and every video hit the nail on the head... I'm easing my way out of this, I can't do it any more
You can do it sis. Get some support and keep watching videos. You are worthy of freedom and a good life. ❤
Good for you. Only way is to leave.
Even during the early stages of the love bombing stage before I knew what the term narcissist meant, there were red flags. For example, she would get angry whenever I was enjoying myself at outings and making others laugh etc. Making ultimatums of wanting to be married within 6 months to a year after dating at the start of the relationship. Telling stories about how her baby daddy was this abusive jealous guy who was always in and out of prison. That he would continuously threaten her and his kids lives. Etc. This was a part of the love bombing stage, along with the good.
We were married for five years. 5 years married to the narcissist by the way felt more like 12 years in general 😂. The devaluation stage was the biggest part of that relationship. First, the indifference started out small with little disrespectful things which eventually grew into something much larger by the discard stage, the love was gone. Love, by the way is like a fragile jewel that must be nourished. I had become indifferent by this point, and she were definitely cheating by that point(most likely throughout).
So we hear stories about how guys can be too controlling and insecure in relationships, and me wanting my marriage to flourish was completely conscious of that. So when she would come to me about her going out with friends, I had complete trust in her to be respectful of our marriage. I wanted her to go out and have a good time with her girlfriends, but what really happened is that she used her friends/flying monkeys as her alibi to go out and cheat. I was so disgusted, the fact that she would sex someone else and then come home and lay up under me at night, that's insane but ideal behavior to the narcissist. I was done, and I shortly thereafter within a 30 day period moved out choosing to sleep in the basement in the meantime. During those 30 days the disrespect intensified to a point that I became fearful that she might recklessly put me in a dangerous predicament through triangulation with her new supply. Once I left the toxicity, I felt a great sense of relief 😂. It was done and over.
That first year before my divorce, she would hoover every 2-3 months to no avail, and in typical narcissist fashion, she took no accountability, blaming me for her actions if she wasn't denying them completely. She would speak in terms of whatever I did although I am admitting to nothing is your fault. By the end of that first year going into the second year of being separated, the divorce was finalized. It has now been 5 months since my divorce and the hoovering appears to have come to an end. Good riddance.
The new supply doesn't know!
My narc move everything while I was at work ,with his new supply son ,after he was caught cheating on me smh 30 years of marriage down the drain.
he made me lose my mind lol
Thank you Hario😀 you know exactly what we’re going through and you give us the strength 💪 to carry on and believe in ourselves. God bless you and everyone in our online family for always 🙏
Much appreciated ty everyone for priceless information
God always want to protect us ,from the worse,scenerario , is our choice to be happy ,is never too late!🙏💗
I laugh at him and the new supply he married. They look ridiculous 🤣 he made his bed. It was a blessing I got out/discarded. The entire month of December he hoovered me. Nah buddy no returns 💪😑
TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🔥🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥
No more pain! Thank God!!!
I met the narcissist through business he waisted no time letting me know he wanted to be intimate. He didn't know anything about me personally he was dumb af. He started to triangulating me with other women of his office to make me jealous but I am not that type. In fact men like that put me off completely. But I played nicely for a while never giving him what he wanted. So one day I flipped and sent him a msg telling all I thought of him letting him know the others could have him explaining him in detail how worthless he is to me. This was a year ago and every time I see him walking about town I ignore him pretend I don't know him because who needs trash!?
Going thru a divorce that’s horrible. He took millions from me. My son was gaslighted. Now he’s on Facebook with new supply while we are still married. No divorce yet. All my finances, emotions, personal property is gone. He’s gotten face lift gastric by pass, lips, chin. Everything redone dancing around in Aruba night club with new supply. What the hell??? I’m was left with nothing struggling after 40 years. Ugh.
I feel your pain Diana, May God continue to give you strength. Remember that God pays debts without money and He will get you through this terrible time and you will win through 🏆 . Stay strong 💪 xx
The same happened to me after 34 years.I still struggle 9 years later, he was on facebook within months of split a year before divorce with new girlfriend half way around the world posing for pics together while i could hardly eat.he also got hair transplant,I feel your pain life can be so unfair.
Girl I can’t . These things don’t stop. Once you think they’ve taken it as far as they can go they find a new level and show u there’s no bottom to their dirt
I don’t know why I still believe they are happy🤦🏾♀️
Whatever the narcs says and does literally take it the opposite way because that’s what it is. If it’s awesome it’s really horrible and if it’s fun it’s really misery. If you were never happpy with them they willl go off and be unhappy with whatever comes their way.. everything they touch they wanna destroy secretly. And that’s the truth. They will never find happiness in this world... they are filled with destruction period and never forget that because yes we are not perfect but love should never hurt.
Wait for the other shoe to drop.
@@ivantheamazing1188 Thank you. I kept mentally falling into the trap thinking him and the new supply are in a land of bliss.
Why do you bother thinking they are happy because he was not happy with you .He/She had a new supply while bn with you now ur energy made them shine before he / she left now one thing you need to remember If anyone take another person out of someone bed will never have any success it was started on shaky grounds and it shall fall. Your narcissist is not happy and they do have other plenty of victims you just don't need to be one of them go to counseling talk to a supportive friend do things that you love yo do and forgot while u were with that narcissist please continue to listen to these videos ur life is in them and it's going to be hard but hang in there . I will pray for ur healing nothing but love for u
@@ciennaredd1366 Thank you for these words🙏🏾
Ms. P you are absolutely right!
it seems like this is so prevalent these days ...... is it the parents or the water source 🤔 ...... or we are in the END DAYS
I tried warning the new supply which was actually an old supply n she took it as I wanted him but little does she know she gave me peace freedom and lower blood pressure😊
I tried to call my narcissist yesterday and this morning I was doing well but block him on what's App and regular but yesterday I unblock both why and he had. Block me on both I'm praying for the Lord's help I need you guys to help pray for me as well
Healing is messy we have all been there educate yourself cut all contact stay off their social media it's not worth it it's all fake anyways you focus on you, you deserve better than that do some journaling write a letter but don't send it remind yourself of the bad times than the bits of good you need to find you move on and let it be the lesson to achieve better in your life
@@lisamarieharte the only social media I have is Facebook and messenger and he's blocked out of both way before this happen and WhatsApp
Why u unblocked him he's not hitting u are and you need to put ur feelings aside and think of how he treated you and if he wanted to be with you he would be there holding you. Remember nothing you can do will keep a man A man wants to be Kept that's what holds a man himself. Continue to watch the video ur life is in it go to counseling find a great supportive friend to vent to get out go and do the things ur forgot u love while u were with the narcissist because u lost urself I've been there it's going to hurt but hang in there ur soul is the best because u need to find you throw all the things he gave u away or hide it from you you going to make it nothing but love for you praying for you
he cannot touch me or get to me I'm in the stage now where I'm angry and I want to fight back the legal way has nothing to do with the love I love myself I'm the one that started checking because I knew something wasn't right about the behavior and I'm the one that broke it off because I knew I deserve better I checked my messages I have to type of devices on my phone there were some from him there's nothing he can say to win me back you can best believe that see I gave him a second chance I give no more but I thank you for the advice and this group is very helpful
@@lisamcshane7629 go live your best life ❤️
Since i startene listening to you guys i have become a narc hunter 😅😅😅😅
He is with his new supply pretending to be a Christian because he is mirroring her. She is a complete codependent so perfect target! So glad God released me from this demon!👿
It sure isn’t once u get away they should be no longer a thaught of yours !!!! Amen 🙏🏽
Seems happy, she works at a bar he is an alcoholic she feeds the lifestyle he wants … she never gets time away from him they spend every moment with each other … new supply is controlled! I don’t feel bad for her!
It’s been 15 months and it still hurts. He discarded me for a 19 year old girl (he’s 40) and they now have a 1 month old baby together. I know I shouldn’t, but I still look at his social media. They split temporarily last year for a couple months and she called him “scum” publicly on his Facebook, saying how he put her on the street. But now they’re back together and “couldn’t be happier”.
He’s posting about how he “loves his family”.
I’m still hurting a lot, even though I have worked on myself a lot.
That fool is not happy at all he’s back with her because obviously she’s young and being controlled. As long as she dance to his music the narc aren’t going nowhere but straight to hell! That girl is throwing her life away she’s gone look up one day with many of regrets I’m sure by now she’s depressed and getting lots of abuse while he still continues to be a narc.
I just want to stop missing him😢 because all the emotions and rollercoaster emotions all come back to the point that I miss him.
I'm in the same boat. He's really all I had - I only have one friend. He liked that fact because they like to keep you isolated and drive friends/family away
Literally after he put the ring on my finger in 2020 the next weekend the mask started to fall. This Christmas he's shacked up with his new wife lol. They can have one another 😑✋. I'm investing my love into me and God now.
This is like my story. The new supply knew about me… 3 months after the wedding, he proposed to the new supply. Now they have matching tattoos. She knows he lies to her and all … smh
@@MsRence1212 the blessing in the discard!! Saved by God's grace. I feel ya sis, it's one of those journeys you're like, did that just happen?!! Lol Keep healing, we deserve so much more ❤️
That ring is just a pair of shackles
@@bellamorenita6138 💯
Empaths army are very happy about this videos
Send them a birthday gift, nicely wrapped with a bow. So when they're thinking how stupid you must be... they unwrapped the gift, they open the box to discover it's nothing but a can of dog food or cat food as the case may be. Now, that's what I call narcissistic supply.
that's what they make you think, your the only one, i nearly got married to this person, came within a hairs breath of having a baby, no idea this person had no values , or cared about other people, the more i stood up for myself , the more she would leave , i tried everything to have a balanced mature relationship with this person , only to realise they threat people like a child treats toys.
Oweee the truth in the lies you see when you look back at those photos. Smh
I still don’t get what a narc is. Cause my husband would never argue back with me he was just unemotionaly available. He got me pregnant and then left me for someone else. Soooo idk. A covert?
Its like living life like Norbit 😂😂😂 trust me ik lol
We lie to ourself because we are shame to what we knew we were marrying or dating and it take years to clear urself away from the devil it's a struggle
Yes we feel shame for what we put up with and put others through too. But remember that God has forgiven us and now it’s time for us to forgive ourselves. We can only beat the devil by living our best lives ever💪💕
Why Narcs aways try to keep your things? Power tripping?
My ex narc and I broke up last Yr after I found out he was cheating on me with a woman that I actually met once and I ignored my instincts coz it just looked weirs but I didn't have any proof...fast forward just this Feb we were talking abt getting back together coz when I left him last Yr I went no contact until this Yr but I hadn't figured out he was a narc. Ironically the same time we were talking abt getting back together he kicked her out coz they were living together coz he was reconnecting with me she even went a step further to try and burn his house so tye whole time I was laughing at her especially because she thought she had won over me and she don't even know me...now am back on the no contact path coz I realised the truth 2wks ago that after all that drama he still was conversing with he I just thought to myself even his sense of judgement left the room coz he likes this girls unstable attention he gives her...come to find out she actually has 2 kids who she don't live with coz she is too busy trying to make him happy and in the end I saw them with my eyes he couldn't lie and say he didn't know her or anything else which of course was a lie...now after that whole drama in my head I thought I was fighting for my family and when I stood and looked at the situation it was just getting worse more disgusting and he looked soooo pathetic to me...he knew he lost me that day a week later still after the whole drama of seeing them together I texted that girl coz she liked texting me when he would mistreat her and I told her the same grave she was helping him dig for me they are both going to fall in it especially since he knows she knows who she truly is and she decides to stay even after kicking her out like a dog she went back...she was always telling me how they don't even use condoms which made me lividdddd coz he was now putting me in danger and that's when we were living together.....but you know what after that day I texted them and violated both of them for disrespecting me I went no contact 2wks but this time I now know what I was dealing with wasn't in my head the constant anxiety and walking on eggshells with this individual but now Knowledge Is power I can understand him without engaging with him and he is sooooo scared abt that....his family has kinda also separated themselves from his coz of his actions so now she gets all his attention both good and bad so good luck to her especially since even her willingly participated in tye nonsense I told her you can keep him and laughed abt them...
I took a few pictures with the narc but I didn’t take to many. He said why don’t you like to take pictures!
This makes you not want to trust a person again how do we know we don't have any narcissists in the group or that things were done so bad 2 an empath that we won't turn like them or want to pay them back for what they have done to us I know there's some of us in this group that want to do that I'm a super empath I'm going to fix him the legal way
Always trust people, always be loving and caring but have the heart of a lion. Learning about the narcs can help prevent losing your life to one of them by seeing all the red flags. If there’s a narc in this group who cares all the kindness and support we give each other I’m telling you it’s like pouring acid on them... they can’t stand this kind of stuff. Talking about love is like them talking about killing someone now can you stand a conversation like that?? Nooo it will scare the shyt out of you same thing with them and talking about good and happy things.. never worry about anything when you’re with god.
Well said Ivan💯
@@wayforward6928 thank you... honestly I feel like god himself is putting all these ideas and thoughts in my head and I’m so glad to share it with all of you guys.
Im binge watching him, mental healness and sam and a couple more. No turning back. I had a charming narcassist so the bad times were few but effective
I'm Alive lam Blessed without the Narc.
Thank you for this video
paul its cos u know u might be alone forever because of the damage
Buy new supply a fruit basket!!!! Knowledge is power!!!! Each one teach one!!!!!
You are a god's ambassador to empaths world
*New Sub* I don’t know how I stumbled upon this channel but so glad I did. As an empath, they seem to sniff me out! You are spot on!
We’re who they’re looking for. They want what we have. 😂
@@jessicafrost9894 Facts!
He had so many red flags. I now have lost my children and brother 💔 and the rest of the family and friends 💔 😭😢
You did it again hario. Another amazing video
Let's "pretend" I ever met that Narc.
I was in love with mine genuinely but after the discarding, manipulation, gas lighting he still wanted to put on a show for social media and I wasn’t going…
It really hurts when you still love them some but know it's time for them to go forever. otherwise we will burn in a living hell
True that 🙏🏻👌
I burned everything she ever gave me I picked up the last of my clothes from her house last Monday I took all the birthday cards and clothes that she bought me and threw them in the trash when she heard me throw them in the trash he had to play it off and go check the trash by throwing out something in the trash I know that got to her I didn't do it to try to get revenge I did it to break all connections deleted all pictures I want nothing else to do with that woman or any other narcissist that's in my life straight devils
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when you said i just felt the evil that spoke to meeeee omg
You know if this is a movie it'll be funny but this is real life nothing funny about it but you're right Hario this is spiritual warfare and we need to help each other as much as we can
You're so right Lisa and God be praised as He is leading us through this Armageddon. We are part of the army of survivors all of us in our online family🙏Thank God for sending Hario who unites us all and above all thank God whose love for us is everlasting.🙏
This remind me of The Stand by Stephen King but only this is reality stand that we are in
Peace and love to myself
Yep.
He knew that he was not on my level and that’s why he targeted me on my job he always said he wanted to get as high as I was but he was there to take everything that I had but God stepped in divorce this man and he got nothing just tried to give him nothing because he never even showed up costing me a fortune to get this divorce
Every time I would address him about cheating he would tell me I’m making it up and there’s nothing there low and behold it was there the whole time. He lied and said his mom had early on set so he would have to go back and forth to the dmv, low and behold it was the new supply. He even moved the new supply here..
Yeah they will gaslight and lie and try to make you be out to be the crazy one!
There's so many narcs out here it's ridiculous man
I didn't believe too he was a devil , Hario. I couldn't believe....
You silly lol. Yeah O thought I was the only one too
That is so true I didn't even know that I was faking but I knew there was something wrong from the very moment I met her God bless our souls
Member Marla Maples reached out to Ivana Trump and Ivana Trump said you didn't reach out when you were between the sheets with him
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm so loving your talk
Hario I never remember having a good week nothing last long with the narc.I got rid of all my pics,videos and anything the narc gave me I don't want no reminders no damn memories of the hell I was going threw at all
Funny that was me at one time
The love bomb stage is part of what hooked you, and the sex is through the roof. They ghost you ,don't answer your phone calls 😢. Hurt your heart unbelievable.
She just about a narc devil as he is
I believe she's the bigger devil and this is karma
Just venting and seeking some advice. My situation is so extensive and downright evil to me that I'd rather list some of my events with my mother to keep my post from being too long. Please, if there are anyone who can identify with some of my similar encounters just let me know that I'm not alone.
There is more but this is just 20 encounters with my biological mother that I will share in this post:
1. My mother gave me up to the foster care system when I was an infant. She had 2 additional children that she raised after she left me in the foster home.
2. While in the Foster Care system for 11 years my mother never called me, Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, bought school clothes, checked on my grades or my welfare.
3. When I turned 11 years old, my mother came and got me out of the foster care system. By this time, I had been molested by one of my foster brothers and severely emotionally abused by my foster Aunts.
4. After my mother got me from out of the foster care program at 12 years old, she dropped me off to her sister who already had 5 children in the projects.
5. While living with my mother's sister; my mother never called me, brought over Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, bought school clothes, checked on my grades or my welfare and we were in the same city during that time. I would even see my biological brothers with new clothing and shoes but she never would do the same for me.
6. While living with her sister; I got into a fight with my youngest aunt (my mother's youngest sister who also lived with the same sister as I did). This Aunt and I were close in age. During the fight, my youngest aunt burned me in the face with a heavy-duty soldering iron.
7. I was transported to the Burn Unit at the local hospital in the city where we lived during that time. I was told by the doctors that I would have permanent scarring from 2nd and 3rd degree burns to the left side of my face and mild nerve damage to my left eyelid.
8. I stayed in the Burn Unit for several days...after I was released from the hospital, Children services had my aunt investigated and I was no longer allowed to return to that particular aunt's house for my protection. My mother picked me up from the hospital on the day of my release and instead of taking me with her she later dropped me off to her oldest sister and left me there. Once again, no school clothes, christmas gifts, birthday gifts...you get it...same pattern as I became accustomed to. I beg and plead to go back to my foster family in a different state which I previously came from. Oddly enough, she allowed me to go back to my Foster parents at the age of 13, that was the only thing she ever did for me.
9. Fast Forward years later, I gave my life to Christ..during that time I decided to forgive my mother and allow her to tell me her side of the story.
Here is my mother's response to me:
10. My mother stated that her mother made her give me up to the foster care program. Mind you, my mother was 19 years old when she had me and 18 months to 3 years later she was raising 2 boys that were conceived after me. I thought this was my mother's opportunity to take responsibility and sincerely apologize.
11. My mother then said that she was paying my Foster Parents child support to buy me things all of those years that I was living there. My mother didn't know why my foster parents never told me about all of the money. This was another unnecessary lie. How many parents do you know pay child support to kids in the foster care program as these programs are funded by the state for the approved child. So now she is trying to paint the picture that my foster parents were bad people.
12. My mother later told me that my Foster mother wrote her a letter before she died and told her that I was having sexual encounters with my foster father. THIS NEVER HAPPENED!!! MY FOSTER MOTHER WAS AN UPSTANDING WOMAN AND WOULD HAVE NEVER SAID SOMETHING LIKE THIS...ESPECIALLY SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT TRUE.
13. My mother said that every time she attempted to get me that I never wanted to go with her. Mind you guys I was a child with no authority to choose who I wanted to live with.
14. My mother told my biological family members that my foster family told her that I was doing heroine while I was in the foster home. I have NEVER done drugs as a child in the foster home.
15. My mother have told my biological family members and friends that I stole my uncle's lawyer money (which I did not but my mom did).
16. My mother have told family and friends that I was promiscuous with adult men as a child (which I have NEVER been promiscuous as a child but only molested).
17. My mother told family friends that she paid my college tuition (which she has never paid anything for me).
18. Even now that I'm grown and doing really well in life....my mother still manages to turn other family members against me with her lies. What's even more hurtful is that none of these people will even have a conversation with me to confirm whether I said what was told to them or not. Instead, they just run with the lie and spread it to others.
19. It would be different if some of these same family members and friends did not have their own personal encounter with my mother's lying, deceitful, divisive and conniving ways. However, even with this knowledge they rather follow suit with her and not like me without even asking me I said it.
20. My mother really hurt and traumatized me as a child and for the life I don't understand why she continues to try and destroy my character as an adult and not take any responsibility for anything. She really believes her lies and all the things that she has done to me she tells people that I did it to her. She is ALWAYS the victim.
Can anyone relate to this?
I actually did see the too. and it didn't go well. For I next walked up to him and her and told him how I'm calling the police to make a accusations that he not only raped me last night but beat me with fresh made bruises. And he was picked up she was pissed all I needed to smirk n her face with him behind bars!!!!
Eventually I dropped the charges just to let them have each other with him coming back to me instead
his baby mama aint going nowhere...she been waiting for years, the kid is 40 yrs old and she still took him back after he left her for me
Yo I need Hario this guy is awesome.
Why do we really think dat they r so much better for d new supply
Well in my case she absolutely knew who he was and what he is so he doesn't even really have to pretend she accepts it long as she has a man, he doesn't have to pretend so much
When i said i loved him he said you supposed to be a grown woman😅