Kyle was the man. If you were a twenty something brotha in the 90s? Like I was? The way he dealt with Maxine in that show was a damn seminar on black male/female relations. That show captured the truth in fiction perfectly.
My ex-wife got really angry with me because I refused to argue with her. I told her we can discuss any problem as long as we do it as adults, in a calm manner when aiming to resolve the problem. She realized after a couple of discussions, a logical approach to problem solving invariably showed there was no problem, just an unrealistic expectation. She hated that because she didn't want to resolve the problem she wanted to win the argument. I refused to live in an argument filled marriage so divorced her. I don't know if she ever changed, I know she got married twice after our divorce, and that she's single again now, so I suspect not. The best thing I ever learnt from my grandfather was not to argue with loved ones, if you lose your temper you'll do and/or say something you later regret. Women goad men into losing their temper and use the loss of control to criticize or shame them. Deny them it and you're already ahead, if they have a valid argument you can listen to it, it they haven't the problem dissolves like morning mist. Stay safe guys
@@lebendystraw3683 I'm not suggesting how anyone should deal with a wife's changing emotional state, I'm simply saying what I was prepared to tolerate in my marriage. I got married again 5.5 years ago, I made my expectations about discussing things very clear before we got married. In that time my wife allowed emotions to override her good sense regarding problem solving twice, but neither time has she ever raised her voice to me. I got involved both times to get the problems resolved, afterwards when she had calmed down we discussed what happened. I'm not saying that's right for anyone else, but it seems to work well for us. If having her yelling in your face works for you and your partner/wife, then I'm not going to say it's wrong. But when emotions are allowed to run unchecked, the things you don't ever think you'll say, somehow get said. Apologies can sometimes reduce the impact but the words can never be unsaid.
It's one thing to challenge a man intellectually, it's a another to try to manipulate him psychologically. Because real Men are like a broken Atarii: they don't play games.
@@vegannn7178 it's not always about you.....and you little iPhone 6 world. you impact others........with entitlement comes responsibility. oops, too late.
And women today will actually admit that they're mean and combative as if those are amicable traits for anyone to have! And wonder why they're still single
Exactly. It’s crazy how many are looking for a man who can “handle” all of that. Men are told to do better while women can do the “take me as I am” approach. Both genders must do better.
Yep. I am incredulous when people express admiration for combative women. Men temper their responses because they know it can end with a punch in the face. Women just need to be better because they take it for granted that people will show restraint against their disrespectful behavior.
My most recent ex played these kind of games and then broke up with me during an argument, when she realized she had crossed a "no going back" line with me all of a sudden she was like youre the best thing that ever happened to me ill get therapy i hate not having you in my life etc etc. point being, if they cant appreciate you when you are there then its.not your priblem how miserable they are when you are gone
that's the non-toxic crayon version of "If they can't handle me at my worst, they don't deserve me at my best". Thank you for showing us the Non Leaded Version of what Media should be saying. 👍
Yeah they have an Immaturity issue, it's like calling your own father a useless prick and telling you that you hate him then losing your shit when he decides to cut the water bill.
Similar thing happened regarding my second to last ex. This was when I was already not in a good mood because at the beginning of that week, my mother, sisters, stepfather, and I were told that one of my cousins, who was more like a younger brother to me, self deleted (i really hate that TH-cam won't let me say the actual word) only to find out two days later at the vigil that his ex and the pos she left him for got him offed. Even worse, those two had the audacity to show up at the vigil but thats another story. Day before the date of his funeral was when the breakup happened. She realized she crossed the point of no return and was blowing up my phone while the wake and funeral was going on.
This isn't just with "combative women," this is with anyone, male or female, in a relationship who seeks to make every conversation hostile or disrespectful.
This is actually more exclusive to women because you can't deal with men and women the same way, especially in today's social climate. With women, you have to be stern, but disciplined because they have to get the point you're trying to settle but you can't make it aggressive otherwise you're "in the wrong."
LDK, considering the amount of fatherless men out there that don't know how to control their emotions, you have to stay vigilant with men too at all times and get out without landing yourself in jail waiting for a court date over someone else's mistake.
@@YouKnowMeDuh and how do you think those fatherless men ended up that way? Because of a single mother. Y’all still not focusing on the source of this stuff.
@@georgiasweetpotato7170 It takes a certain kind of energy to deal with single female lawyers, specifically poc. Their whole job is to argue until they win 😂
If only I had had a father to teach me. Mind boggling that even your own mother can attempt to eviscerate your confidence and manhood. But once I disocvered what self-respect really meant, game changed
THIS is Masculinity the way it’s meant to be - there was no violence, no aggression. They did not waste time playing with feelings, just said it like it is. The second clip was my favorite because he didn’t just walk away; it gave you the feeling that he’s aware his woman has strong emotions, so he’s just returning that strength balanced with love.
Women are more hormonal but that doesn't mean they have stronger feelings in fact there's studies that show men actually feel emotions more intensely it's just that we express them less openly than women so cause women are more open n expressive it seems they feel more when it's not necessarily the case but I do think women on average are more sensitive
Men have every right to be aggressive and to be physical if the women is attacking. Why only Men are restricted to being "real" Man or "True" Masculinity? Why the same won't apply to women? Because women can't handle it. And women want the petty privilege to show their whiny frustration
You have to be willing to walk away. Never put up with disrespect and drama. Move on. You're just identifying who's not the one, and the sooner you can do it the better. My old boss use to always say, "if you're going to fail, fail quickly". You might not what it is, but you know what or in this case, who it's not.
They would call that sexual tension. It's the reason so many women end up in toxic relationships, and why all of them seem to have a story about dating a narcissist
Should've included the scene from The Fresh Prince of Bel Air where Carlton successfully put Jazz's rude and aggressive sister in her place after Jazz and Will were too cowardly to do it themselves. (Side note: Amazing how that scene now serves as a testament to the real life Will Smith.)
That's right. That scene would've fit right in. Carlton wasn't aggressive, but Jazz's sister knew what time it was after Carlton calmly said his piece.
I remember once a woman I was dating told me something like “you are not going to do that” then, finally not feeling codependent anymore, I asked her: “who are you to tell me what can I do or not?” When we do not feel needy then we can really have a relationship
Kyle reminds me of my husband i never see him lose his temper and he speaks with a very strong but gentle tone. I love my husband and hearing my husband speaking Japanese to me and our relatives is wonderful.
For the record...this technique actually works. Even before seeing this, I accidentally used a similar technique on a Karen customer at my job. She came in, looking for a combative confrontation, chose me, and because I was already having a rough day, I IMMEDIATELY shut it down and shut her down. I literally said..."No, we are NOT having this conversation. Speak to the manager or call Corporate, but get out of my face, bye, bye." Guess what happened? She just left with a shocked look on her face and NEVER CALLED OR COMPLAINED. She looked like no one had ever spoken to her like that before. My co-workers stared shocked because usually I'm very calm, passive and accommodating at work. This was a classic case of...Not Today.
Years ago I was working as a supervisor in a Wal-Mart. I got called over to deal with an obnoxious customer who was cussing out one of my cashiers. She immediately started swearing at me. I cut her off and said, "I'm here to help with the situation, but you do NOT get to talk to people like that. So you can either control your language or I'll personally throw you out of this store." She looked like she'd been slapped, and her mother said, "Honey, maybe you should calm down." Maybe if she'd been raised right, this wouldn't have been a problem... She asked to speak to a manager. I went and got one, and told her everything that happened. Later, the manager tracked me down and said, "I don't know what you meant about how obnoxious she was; she was polite to me and we got everything taken care of in no time." 😂😂😂 The world needs more people who aren't willing to tolerate mistreatment and who give pushback to bad actors.
@@michaeldavis3819 Exactly. And for the record, I absolutely hate customers who are rude and obnoxious to you, then demand the manager and suddenly start acting polite towards them. UGH!
My wife used to interrupt me a lot during “discussions”. I finally had enough and when it happened again, I just told her “I am speaking” in an authoritative voice. Her response was a sarcastic “Oh, dang”, but she hasn’t interrupted me since.
Back in high school, my gf said: "You gotta choose Nintendo or me." So what did I do? Like Princess Zelda said later that day: "It's a secret to everyone."
I had an ex who was like this. At one point I got so tired of her arguing/abusing me that I just hung up the phone in her face. She called back about 5 seconds later in complette disbelief and was like "DID YOU JUST HANG UP ON ME?". So I calmly told her yes, and that "from now on every time you speak to me disrespectfully like that im going to hang up on you". She tried raising her voice at me two more times, and two more times I hung up in her face. It was amazing how much she changed her tone after this, although ultimately it ididnt matter in the end as we ended up breaking up regardless. Still, the point remains - nobody (man or woman) should tolerate being disrespected like this by a partner.
Yeah you can't try to logic your way with someone who's being overwhelmingly emotional. Sometimes you just gotta walk away. That goes for women AND men
I used to watch Living Single all the time with the fam growing up. I ended up working at a store in Alexandria, VA a couple years back that was attached to a theater. Terrance Carson was one of the actors. I never went out my way to let him know because honestly he seemed like he didn't want to be bothered but not in a bad way. I always thought how funny it was that he had no clue this random white kid grew up watching him and throughly enjoyed the show. It's a small world sometimes.
Whenever my wife (R.I.P.) would start yelling at me during a disagreement, I would calmly remind her that saying things louder, didn't make her any more right or wrong, just harder for me to listen to.
After 7 years I didn't let on I wasn't cool with her last abuse and just never visited her again. Took the woman 3 months before texting me. Not a caring bone in her body.
I had a girlfriend who would call me five times a day. On the last call she said, "You know, I'm just a carton of milk to you. A carton of milk with an expiration date." So I said. "You're right. You're just a carton of milk with an expiration date, and that expiration date is NOW! We're thru." That's when she started visiting my window at 4 O'clock in the morning.
Kings we need to remember who we are individually and collectively the fact we are even alive at all goes against our very existence but we are here now let’s fucking act like it be excellent to yourself and others but don’t let anyone bring you down no matter who they are family, friend, lover, etc. cause in the end they’re just like you a human being worthy of peace and love ✌🏽
If you just bail at the first sign of trouble that just makes you a weak cowardly man. You're supposed to talk and establish boundaries. If she breaks said boundaries afterwards then it makes sense to leave.
This is what boundaries are. You establish them at the beginning of a relationship. Don't try to do that after a half year. It's too late already then. To make a woman respect you after not respecting you is almost impossible.
This is how real women expect a man to react. It shows maturity, self-confidence, and emotional intelligence. If we overreact or give in to easily, it makes us look codependent, unstable, or weak. Which will turn a woman off quickly. Stand your ground, fellas.
So wat I'm getting is in a relationship the man has to be more mature mentally n emotionally but the woman can act like a child but society tells us women mature earlier that contraction is pretty confusing cause you'd think that if women mature earlier shouldn't they be expected to be more mature mentally n emotionally but they're not
@@jeshurunhazelton7789The HEADS of the relationship should absolutely be better at maintaining their emotions. Smh y’all want the crown but not the responsibility🤦🏿♂️ Weak sht
Why is this in my recommend? Is google stalking me? 😂 I had the biggest fall out with this type of woman recently and it doesn't help that she was my mother 😅
You needed to scour over 40 years of television, and only found three clips of male characters drawing the line with women. _And_ 2/3rds of the clips were filmed between 1988 and 1994. That is effective propaganda against men.
The always make the man look like the villain or the dumb incompetent dumbass...but the woman always seems to know better. The only shows that show equality is Cosby show Fresh prince of bel air Smart Guy Boy meets world Wonder years Brady bunch Malcolm in the middle King of the hill The Man can be competent without making the woman a damsel or condescending asshole
@@raspiankiado The original poster, is saying that sitcoms today is a result of and in part the reason for effective propaganda against men. In TV Shows today you would be hard press to find a guy STAND up for himself against a woman. Usually, they have a woman do it for them or on their behalf, or they take it and do nothing about. Now, I will say this, if the guy is a villain in the show they will allow him to stand up to a woman....but USUALLY they do it in a way that is over the top toxic and unrealistic.
@@raspiankiado most shows these days show the man desperately joining for the woman's approval while she treats him like a punk who is lucky she's gracing him with her presence
I like how they included Dwayne Wayne when he spent 98% of A Different World chasing after Denise or Whitley like a lost puppy. When Whitley decided to marry someone else, he literally had to be dragged out of the chapel while screaming “baby, baby, please!!!” 😂
Stop dating the same kinds of women, then saying "99% oF WoMin arE liKe tHat". Yeah, 99% of the women YOU CHOOSE to date are like that, maybe, but not 99% of all women. Jeez. So when I date a crazy guy, it's my fault for choosing someone with bad qualities. But when guys date crazy women, it's the woman's fault???? Nah fam, you have a type, and you're mad that your type didn't turn out the way you expected in an actual relationship.
Also, birds of a feather flock together. So if the women you date all turn out to be vidictive, manipulative narcissists, maybe you outta look in a mirror. I'm a working girl, and I attract hard-working men. Sorry to break it to you, but people like being around other people who they can relate to bro. Even if they don't necessarily get along with them. Couples don't only fight because of their differences. A lot of couples fight because they're just alike.
Kyle was the most savage. We're through, it's over, don't want you, ba bye. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What movie was the 1st one?
Even as kratos, still savage.
Clip 1 is from a tv drama called "saints and sinners."
Kyle was just savage.
@@kls701 Kratos: *furiously taking notes*
Dude in the third clip handled that girl like a King. No raised voice, no physical violence, just pure class and composure. ✊🏽👑
The legendary Kyle Barker from Living Single played by TC Carson, the voice of Kratos.
Kyle was the man. If you were a twenty something brotha in the 90s? Like I was? The way he dealt with Maxine in that show was a damn seminar on black male/female relations. That show captured the truth in fiction perfectly.
Kings beheaded women back in the day. So they were violent.
Irony of ironies considering who he'd voice in the future, yeah?
@phoenixmg that's Kratos 😲
My ex-wife got really angry with me because I refused to argue with her. I told her we can discuss any problem as long as we do it as adults, in a calm manner when aiming to resolve the problem.
She realized after a couple of discussions, a logical approach to problem solving invariably showed there was no problem, just an unrealistic expectation. She hated that because she didn't want to resolve the problem she wanted to win the argument.
I refused to live in an argument filled marriage so divorced her.
I don't know if she ever changed, I know she got married twice after our divorce, and that she's single again now, so I suspect not.
The best thing I ever learnt from my grandfather was not to argue with loved ones, if you lose your temper you'll do and/or say something you later regret. Women goad men into losing their temper and use the loss of control to criticize or shame them. Deny them it and you're already ahead, if they have a valid argument you can listen to it, it they haven't the problem dissolves like morning mist.
Stay safe guys
Women that make you lose your temper on purpose and then shamr you are literal scum.
Understanding
If your gf or wife goads you into getting angry, dump her immediately. Otherwise you’ll end up ruining your life
I mean you gotta argue a little bit, women usually have more emotions bro and screaming at your stupid face is one way of getting them out.
@@lebendystraw3683 I'm not suggesting how anyone should deal with a wife's changing emotional state, I'm simply saying what I was prepared to tolerate in my marriage.
I got married again 5.5 years ago, I made my expectations about discussing things very clear before we got married. In that time my wife allowed emotions to override her good sense regarding problem solving twice, but neither time has she ever raised her voice to me. I got involved both times to get the problems resolved, afterwards when she had calmed down we discussed what happened.
I'm not saying that's right for anyone else, but it seems to work well for us. If having her yelling in your face works for you and your partner/wife, then I'm not going to say it's wrong. But when emotions are allowed to run unchecked, the things you don't ever think you'll say, somehow get said. Apologies can sometimes reduce the impact but the words can never be unsaid.
Be hard pressed to see a man have this kind of respect for himself in shows past 2020. Unless he's the Villain.
Thanks for watching
Yeah, masculinity isn't allowed on network TV anymore.
@@KtotheGcorrection: men with masculinity aren't allowed anymore.
Nowadays “don’t ignore me please my Queen!” Then somehow ends up kissing another man during the series 🙄
@@RevealedFilms
All facts. What I find weird are the people still denying this.
It's one thing to challenge a man intellectually, it's a another to try to manipulate him psychologically. Because real Men are like a broken Atarii: they don't play games.
Hell yes!!!!
Amen, brother.
That Atari bit is hotter than hell. 😄
Kratos definitely didn't play games
Quite true
Kratos knows what he’s doing 😎
Most won't get the reference but I do.
@@stevenhaymon2441 yeah, it's an overlooked fact 😅
He sho does💯
@@stevenhaymon2441if it’s based on total number of comments and likes to this particular comment, I’d say most did get it.
@@stevenhaymon2441Most will. You ain’t exclusive fam. Remember that.
I thought Dwayne's line was the coldest, but my boy Kyle laid the law DOWN!!!😅
the only thing that bugs me is that now it's years later, and no indication that women have LEARNED anything.
@@user-zp7jp1vk2i "That's the funny part..."
--Omniman, Invincible, season 2.
Facts
@@user-zp7jp1vk2iWhat is it exactly that you want women to “learn”?
@@vegannn7178 it's not always about you.....and you little iPhone 6 world. you impact others........with entitlement comes responsibility. oops, too late.
Living Single the original friends.
The funnier one
@@jeremiahscott2032facts
🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
friends were inspired by livung single...good luck convincing folks of that truth tho lol
My wife has been telling me this for years. Looks like I need to humble myself and tell her she correct😅
TC Carson, the definition of calm & reasonable.
Not to mention his drip game was top tier.
@@AmeerolisaRa-cw3qg*god tier
Both these comments, chefs kiss
Is he, a calm and reasonable person?
@@danielchettiar5670 Ask Zeus
Kyle paused on the stairs and for a second thought about turning into Kratos.
At least verbally,he did!
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And women today will actually admit that they're mean and combative as if those are amicable traits for anyone to have! And wonder why they're still single
My mother says the same thing. I tell her, "you must think that's cute?"
Exactly. It’s crazy how many are looking for a man who can “handle” all of that. Men are told to do better while women can do the “take me as I am” approach.
Both genders must do better.
Not all women like that are single.
Yep. I am incredulous when people express admiration for combative women. Men temper their responses because they know it can end with a punch in the face. Women just need to be better because they take it for granted that people will show restraint against their disrespectful behavior.
So would you rather them lie and say they’re not mean n combative n then get with them and find out that they actually are? Pick one,
My most recent ex played these kind of games and then broke up with me during an argument, when she realized she had crossed a "no going back" line with me all of a sudden she was like youre the best thing that ever happened to me ill get therapy i hate not having you in my life etc etc. point being, if they cant appreciate you when you are there then its.not your priblem how miserable they are when you are gone
that's the non-toxic crayon version of "If they can't handle me at my worst, they don't deserve me at my best". Thank you for showing us the Non Leaded Version of what Media should be saying. 👍
Faxs
Yeah they have an Immaturity issue, it's like calling your own father a useless prick and telling you that you hate him then losing your shit when he decides to cut the water bill.
Amen
Similar thing happened regarding my second to last ex. This was when I was already not in a good mood because at the beginning of that week, my mother, sisters, stepfather, and I were told that one of my cousins, who was more like a younger brother to me, self deleted (i really hate that TH-cam won't let me say the actual word) only to find out two days later at the vigil that his ex and the pos she left him for got him offed. Even worse, those two had the audacity to show up at the vigil but thats another story. Day before the date of his funeral was when the breakup happened. She realized she crossed the point of no return and was blowing up my phone while the wake and funeral was going on.
This isn't just with "combative women," this is with anyone, male or female, in a relationship who seeks to make every conversation hostile or disrespectful.
This is actually more exclusive to women because you can't deal with men and women the same way, especially in today's social climate. With women, you have to be stern, but disciplined because they have to get the point you're trying to settle but you can't make it aggressive otherwise you're "in the wrong."
LDK, considering the amount of fatherless men out there that don't know how to control their emotions, you have to stay vigilant with men too at all times and get out without landing yourself in jail waiting for a court date over someone else's mistake.
@@YouKnowMeDuh Real
Naw princess. Just females.
I don't argue with chicks.
Trade them like cars and upgrade to a new model 💯
@@YouKnowMeDuh and how do you think those fatherless men ended up that way? Because of a single mother. Y’all still not focusing on the source of this stuff.
The OG Kratos was a savage with that clap-back!!!
That last guy on the stairs was cool, was as cool as a cucumber and didn’t even stress, he just left like a baws
💯💯 Kyle Barker was Check and Mate! 🤗 for Maxine Shaw Attorney-At-Law 🤣🤣🤣
@@georgiasweetpotato7170 It takes a certain kind of energy to deal with single female lawyers, specifically poc. Their whole job is to argue until they win 😂
Self respect goes a long way men. Stay on the path.
If only I had had a father to teach me. Mind boggling that even your own mother can attempt to eviscerate your confidence and manhood. But once I disocvered what self-respect really meant, game changed
@@lizwejamluji8846 your mother can do it without realizing, or with realizing and she won’t find issue with it. It’s in a woman’s nature.
@@lizwejamluji8846Nah mama did what she knows best. Got to fogive but never forget
@@lizwejamluji8846yea lot of shitty moms out there
THIS is Masculinity the way it’s meant to be - there was no violence, no aggression. They did not waste time playing with feelings, just said it like it is. The second clip was my favorite because he didn’t just walk away; it gave you the feeling that he’s aware his woman has strong emotions, so he’s just returning that strength balanced with love.
Yeah he did not feel superior
He established rapport and raised the bar setting up healthy boundaries
Women are more hormonal but that doesn't mean they have stronger feelings in fact there's studies that show men actually feel emotions more intensely it's just that we express them less openly than women so cause women are more open n expressive it seems they feel more when it's not necessarily the case but I do think women on average are more sensitive
@@jeshurunhazelton7789men don’t express their full spectrum of emotions because patriarchy socializes us to be violent and angry
Men have every right to be aggressive and to be physical if the women is attacking. Why only Men are restricted to being "real" Man or "True" Masculinity? Why the same won't apply to women? Because women can't handle it. And women want the petty privilege to show their whiny frustration
@@jeshurunhazelton7789it's because gybocentrism and feminism demonizes male behavior
“I AM THE GOD OF WAR!!”
“NONE SHALL DEFY ME!!”
You have to be willing to walk away. Never put up with disrespect and drama. Move on. You're just identifying who's not the one, and the sooner you can do it the better. My old boss use to always say, "if you're going to fail, fail quickly". You might not what it is, but you know what or in this case, who it's not.
Remaining calm and refusing to match energy is always the best way to deal with combative people.
This is a critical life skill for men. Thank you for sharing.
Modern-day women aren't used to men like Kyle, hence, the efficiency of his response.
Nor Dwayne
Or the fact that he’s competent , respectful, not narcissistic at all .. we need more Kyle’s ..
Which one Kyle
@@MattGarcyaDC The one at the end I think
Most men don't leave relationships unless they are leaving to be with someone else.
Good to see men respecting themselves and setting healthy boundaries. Women need to do this too with men who are combative.
Lol they like combative men, what they don't like is nice guys, whom they perceive as weak
says who? your imagination? You don't speak for me. I set boundaries.@@tinkywinky8558
@@tinkywinky8558ok nice guy.
They would call that sexual tension. It's the reason so many women end up in toxic relationships, and why all of them seem to have a story about dating a narcissist
@@RebeccaLoran Said me, pay attention, Rebecca.
Should've included the scene from The Fresh Prince of Bel Air where Carlton successfully put Jazz's rude and aggressive sister in her place after Jazz and Will were too cowardly to do it themselves. (Side note: Amazing how that scene now serves as a testament to the real life Will Smith.)
Played by Vivca A. Fox 💯
That's right. That scene would've fit right in. Carlton wasn't aggressive, but Jazz's sister knew what time it was after Carlton calmly said his piece.
Dammmmmm
Hhhhmmm...testament in fiction for him on TV, not in real life! Ooopppssseee!😅😅😅😅
I remember once a woman I was dating told me something like “you are not going to do that” then, finally not feeling codependent anymore, I asked her: “who are you to tell me what can I do or not?”
When we do not feel needy then we can really have a relationship
Depends on what you mean.. what was she telling you couldn't do?
@@timewarpdrive77 it doesn't matter, if i truly can't let me find out, or make it an advice not a test.
@@jurassicthunder What you wrote makes no sense; please rephrase
Kyle reminds me of my husband i never see him lose his temper and he speaks with a very strong but gentle tone. I love my husband and hearing my husband speaking Japanese to me and our relatives is wonderful.
You're husband's black?
@@olawaleoliver8862 Afro/Japanese
Zulu Father Japanese Mother
@MayumiC-chan9377 I love speaking Japanese to my wife and her family too. 😁 They're from Chiba.
@@Yuki.Hinode my family and my mother-in-law are from Sapporo-shi
@@MayumiC-chan9377 OH Sapporo. I haven't been there yet. The closest I got was Sendai. I hope I can go to Sapporo one day.
When the black homies stop simpin'...
Damn right
Lol but sadly for every masculine man like this you gone have 50 simps making it easy for woman to finesse and harder for men like us
@@righteousmasculinelet the simps be finessed
Kratos says ‘Good point. ’
For the record...this technique actually works. Even before seeing this, I accidentally used a similar technique on a Karen customer at my job.
She came in, looking for a combative confrontation, chose me, and because I was already having a rough day, I IMMEDIATELY shut it down and shut her down. I literally said..."No, we are NOT having this conversation. Speak to the manager or call Corporate, but get out of my face, bye, bye."
Guess what happened? She just left with a shocked look on her face and NEVER CALLED OR COMPLAINED. She looked like no one had ever spoken to her like that before. My co-workers stared shocked because usually I'm very calm, passive and accommodating at work. This was a classic case of...Not Today.
Lol, I work in customer service and I lobe this story yo. Lol. Dont let em ruin your day frfr be my mindset.
On behalf of the anti-karen corporation, we salute you sir🫡🫡
Yt women are the most combative and aggressive for no fcking reason. Shts annoying asl. Glad u shut that Karen down lmao
Years ago I was working as a supervisor in a Wal-Mart. I got called over to deal with an obnoxious customer who was cussing out one of my cashiers. She immediately started swearing at me. I cut her off and said, "I'm here to help with the situation, but you do NOT get to talk to people like that. So you can either control your language or I'll personally throw you out of this store."
She looked like she'd been slapped, and her mother said, "Honey, maybe you should calm down." Maybe if she'd been raised right, this wouldn't have been a problem...
She asked to speak to a manager. I went and got one, and told her everything that happened. Later, the manager tracked me down and said, "I don't know what you meant about how obnoxious she was; she was polite to me and we got everything taken care of in no time." 😂😂😂
The world needs more people who aren't willing to tolerate mistreatment and who give pushback to bad actors.
@@michaeldavis3819 Exactly. And for the record, I absolutely hate customers who are rude and obnoxious to you, then demand the manager and suddenly start acting polite towards them. UGH!
Kyle was a fuckin’ savage in the nicest fashion possible 😂
A Different World and Living Single are both on HBOMax.
Living Single is also on Hulu 😉
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Thank you. Didn't know that.
@@daniellediaz2516 , thank you. Didn't know that, either.
Maxine wasn't ready for that statement lol 😂
She was thinking "I know he didn't just tell me that!"
My wife used to interrupt me a lot during “discussions”. I finally had enough and when it happened again, I just told her “I am speaking” in an authoritative voice. Her response was a sarcastic “Oh, dang”, but she hasn’t interrupted me since.
Back in high school, my gf said: "You gotta choose Nintendo or me."
So what did I do?
Like Princess Zelda said later that day: "It's a secret to everyone."
Woman tend to forget if men wish to play games they simply use their computer or a console, not someone's feelings.
and women still think they are the prize and something to be chased 😂
Kyle could have me any day of the week....I felt that scene 😂😂
I had an ex who was like this. At one point I got so tired of her arguing/abusing me that I just hung up the phone in her face. She called back about 5 seconds later in complette disbelief and was like "DID YOU JUST HANG UP ON ME?". So I calmly told her yes, and that "from now on every time you speak to me disrespectfully like that im going to hang up on you". She tried raising her voice at me two more times, and two more times I hung up in her face.
It was amazing how much she changed her tone after this, although ultimately it ididnt matter in the end as we ended up breaking up regardless. Still, the point remains - nobody (man or woman) should tolerate being disrespected like this by a partner.
Real talk! Time for us men to STEP UP and look out for ourselves when appropriate! I love this video!
Defiantly the best "Take this into your pipe and smoke it" moments.🤣👍👏
Yeah you can't try to logic your way with someone who's being overwhelmingly emotional. Sometimes you just gotta walk away. That goes for women AND men
A man is always ready to propose to the woman of his dreams until the one he believes is the one breaks his heart.
"choose better"
He should have picked a better woman.
I used to watch Living Single all the time with the fam growing up. I ended up working at a store in Alexandria, VA a couple years back that was attached to a theater. Terrance Carson was one of the actors. I never went out my way to let him know because honestly he seemed like he didn't want to be bothered but not in a bad way. I always thought how funny it was that he had no clue this random white kid grew up watching him and throughly enjoyed the show. It's a small world sometimes.
Dude was about to pull out that scene from why did I get married too with MJW just before the video cut out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yep! Creatively and firmly stop them in their track without arguing or responding combatively, that's how.
Exactly. No pain. No anger. No shouting. Leave them where they're at.
Last guy was utterly ruthless...
0:22 The jersey helped him channel that Michael Jordan alpha energy
Kyle was always smooth like that! He broke it down!!!
Kyle paused and almost hit the L3 button 😂😂😂
Im hoping someone can animate the last scene with kratos, actually using kratos. Lol
Lol maybe I will, hoping to learn animation soon XD
Whenever my wife (R.I.P.) would start yelling at me during a disagreement, I would calmly remind her that saying things louder, didn't make her any more right or wrong, just harder for me to listen to.
And that is a kind response.
Kyle was always the coolest most chill brother on television i remember being a kid watching him like wow
0:45 my man said it straight.
Last guy was smooth😂
I've always wanted to be Dwayne Wayne....The inventor of Dwaynetindo
After 7 years I didn't let on I wasn't cool with her last abuse and just never visited her again. Took the woman 3 months before texting me. Not a caring bone in her body.
Kyle Barker mighta been the most official mf on the air when it come to this line of work 😂😂😂
They need to put this in a museum!
I had a girlfriend who would call me five times a day. On the last call she said, "You know, I'm just a carton of milk to you. A carton of milk with an expiration date."
So I said. "You're right. You're just a carton of milk with an expiration date, and that expiration date is NOW! We're thru."
That's when she started visiting my window at 4 O'clock in the morning.
wtf?!? 😂 yikes!
@@Aurumfae My bedroom window.
Amen brother, great point!!! ❤
If you do this in 2024 they accuse you of liking other men... theyre so funny when theyre hurt
I thought he was gonna say " I am the god of war. None shall defy me".
Kings we need to remember who we are individually and collectively the fact we are even alive at all goes against our very existence but we are here now let’s fucking act like it be excellent to yourself and others but don’t let anyone bring you down no matter who they are family, friend, lover, etc. cause in the end they’re just like you a human being worthy of peace and love ✌🏽
Yes! Totally agree. 😌
I absolutely loath arguing and the loss of energy that comes with it. 😖
You drop that one and look for one that is non-combative. . .
Yeah, a doormat who has a broken spirit. Strong men don’t seek weak women………
@@wrenbyrd1093 weak women only look for broken men, you only talk about broken men..... see the connection yet.....no
@@wrenbyrd1093 why are you trying to inject elitism into self respect and boundaries
Some men just want peace and others want drama
If you just bail at the first sign of trouble that just makes you a weak cowardly man. You're supposed to talk and establish boundaries. If she breaks said boundaries afterwards then it makes sense to leave.
I legit learned how to deal with hard headed women. By watching all these shows lmao. I was doing this stuff in high school
TELL US MOOOOOAAARRRE!!!!
Now how do women deal with hard headed men, or is that another male privilege?
Name of the first show?
U didn't answer the question
This is what boundaries are. You establish them at the beginning of a relationship. Don't try to do that after a half year. It's too late already then. To make a woman respect you after not respecting you is almost impossible.
Always know that you have value
Never think that you're irreplaceable
I needed this inspiration today because lawwd I need your grace and mercy lol
The last dude was as smooth as silk from the moment he 1st spoke till the moment he went back up the stairs
Nothing made my ex angrier than when I refused to argue with her. Nothing.
Last bro was the inventor of smoothness
Last Guy Kyle, Didn't Handle it With Care But Handled it With Class. 9x💯
This is how real women expect a man to react. It shows maturity, self-confidence, and emotional intelligence. If we overreact or give in to easily, it makes us look codependent, unstable, or weak. Which will turn a woman off quickly. Stand your ground, fellas.
After some consideration I really do not give a fuck what waman wont me to do. Once i give it to her, she is already getting what she wants. No way.
man you are too one-noted... for this world
So wat I'm getting is in a relationship the man has to be more mature mentally n emotionally but the woman can act like a child but society tells us women mature earlier that contraction is pretty confusing cause you'd think that if women mature earlier shouldn't they be expected to be more mature mentally n emotionally but they're not
@@jeshurunhazelton7789, society has been feeding us bull shit lately. The men in this video are what men are supposed to be like.
@@jeshurunhazelton7789The HEADS of the relationship should absolutely be better at maintaining their emotions. Smh y’all want the crown but not the responsibility🤦🏿♂️ Weak sht
Why is this in my recommend?
Is google stalking me? 😂
I had the biggest fall out with this type of woman recently and it doesn't help that she was my mother 😅
The power they have....is the power you give them.
Patrice O'Neal
Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 no hesitation
You needed to scour over 40 years of television, and only found three clips of male characters drawing the line with women. _And_ 2/3rds of the clips were filmed between 1988 and 1994. That is effective propaganda against men.
Excuse me, but the hell do you mean?
The always make the man look like the villain or the dumb incompetent dumbass...but the woman always seems to know better. The only shows that show equality is
Cosby show
Fresh prince of bel air
Smart Guy
Boy meets world
Wonder years
Brady bunch
Malcolm in the middle
King of the hill
The Man can be competent without making the woman a damsel or condescending asshole
@@raspiankiadoit's kinda self
@@raspiankiado The original poster, is saying that sitcoms today is a result of and in part the reason for effective propaganda against men. In TV Shows today you would be hard press to find a guy STAND up for himself against a woman. Usually, they have a woman do it for them or on their behalf, or they take it and do nothing about. Now, I will say this, if the guy is a villain in the show they will allow him to stand up to a woman....but USUALLY they do it in a way that is over the top toxic and unrealistic.
@@raspiankiado most shows these days show the man desperately joining for the woman's approval while she treats him like a punk who is lucky she's gracing him with her presence
I didn't realize Kratos could be so polite at not being polite
Could you please tell me the name of name of the last show
@@patstarfish9514 Living Single (1993-1998)
That’s how I handle combative men, I don’t no one disrupting my peace
The bye-byes....now I see why moma use to love watching these so much 😂😂😂😂
How to deal with combative women......
...dont.
Kyle was my favorite on LS lok
Love the short circuit at the last one the "wait.. no.. yes? umm.. what.. I.. did not think this was the path that he would take"
Kyle cut it short no explanation needed 😂😂😂
Ignore!!!!😶, you DON'T have to Holla and Cuss , say what you Mean, Do what you say and Move on!!
Kratos has spoken!!
Some women needs to be spoken to in that manner!
The second i thought was the best because it showed that he communicated his boundaries and the consequences of breaking those boundaries.
TC Carson is a real classy brother.
I like how they included Dwayne Wayne when he spent 98% of A Different World chasing after Denise or Whitley like a lost puppy. When Whitley decided to marry someone else, he literally had to be dragged out of the chapel while screaming “baby, baby, please!!!” 😂
"Good point" That line was satisfaction.
Fact is...treat everyone accordingly, man or woman. JMO...God bless everyone.🙏🏾
0:27 Fun fact: He is also the VA of young Kratos.
0:05 listen carefully….. sounds like the person recording the video FARTED
😂😂
Wish you would have shown the Marcus scene. He checked TWO women!
The last one was so good 😂😂😂😂.
the first conversation on the phone is how 99% of women act. they always have a comeback, no matter how nonsensical it may be.
Stop dating the same kinds of women, then saying "99% oF WoMin arE liKe tHat". Yeah, 99% of the women YOU CHOOSE to date are like that, maybe, but not 99% of all women. Jeez.
So when I date a crazy guy, it's my fault for choosing someone with bad qualities. But when guys date crazy women, it's the woman's fault???? Nah fam, you have a type, and you're mad that your type didn't turn out the way you expected in an actual relationship.
Also, birds of a feather flock together. So if the women you date all turn out to be vidictive, manipulative narcissists, maybe you outta look in a mirror.
I'm a working girl, and I attract hard-working men. Sorry to break it to you, but people like being around other people who they can relate to bro. Even if they don't necessarily get along with them. Couples don't only fight because of their differences. A lot of couples fight because they're just alike.
@@bellebonebag8096 thank you Dr. Phil
@@Uprising771 "they always have a comeback, no matter how nonsensical it may be"
You dug a grave and fell in it LMAO
what grave? and how? and what? wtf are you even talking about. im not even in a relationship
Dude from living single was always awesome like that 😂
Kyle was standing on business 💯 💪 real niggas know in real life she gon be calling his phone begging him to come back
KYLE was COLD with it!!! lol