If Age Gap Couples Were 100% Honest | Split Decision

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  • @lolerene3776
    @lolerene3776 ปีที่แล้ว +17367

    We need to start a support group for people that have watched this episode 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @OohLa118
      @OohLa118 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +305

      This comment 😭

    • @Bobab0y
      @Bobab0y 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +796

      bruh fr like i’m struggling getting though the first 5 min. this is wild

    • @birthdaycakey2893
      @birthdaycakey2893 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      fr like what is this help 😭@@Bobab0y

    • @nancysindani9696
      @nancysindani9696 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      forealll!

    • @K177a
      @K177a 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Lmao

  • @napoet_02
    @napoet_02 ปีที่แล้ว +12213

    Him saying he wanted to be a slave was INSANE 😭😭😭😭 done set us back 100 years

    • @arizzc
      @arizzc ปีที่แล้ว +445

      I WAS LIKE WTH 😭

    • @Austinflwrz
      @Austinflwrz ปีที่แล้ว +353

      Massa’s wife home alone what happened to secrets??

    • @musaazi87
      @musaazi87 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

      Its a humiliation kink

    • @escupetube
      @escupetube 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

      ..... obviously he is not refering to that

    • @plaugecentury2337
      @plaugecentury2337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +361

      GIRL I WAS GASPING. And the cherry on top was that her kids were racist and called him the n word as if she didn’t raise them😭

  • @indigolash4650
    @indigolash4650 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6275

    I feel like two older gay men are literally gonna be best friends after this😭

    • @alexajose-nixon6028
      @alexajose-nixon6028 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +275

      them connecting over olivia newton john😭😭😭

    • @Airbender1802
      @Airbender1802 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

      Also they look the same 😭

    • @rt20089
      @rt20089 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      One of the couples have a channel named out loud and they're so freaking adorable.The video really didn’t do them justice

    • @serpent3nvy
      @serpent3nvy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      they all should become friends after this.

    • @TheeDezaray
      @TheeDezaray 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      more than that lol

  • @lora753sofi
    @lora753sofi ปีที่แล้ว +13714

    I'm a minute and a half in and it's already a tough one to watch

    • @user-soon300
      @user-soon300 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      That's me❤ it's really tough to watch I don't feel it's deserve...

    • @Roseskatrina
      @Roseskatrina ปีที่แล้ว +825

      Some of the info they’re sharing no one could ever get out of me 💀

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +549

      @@Roseskatrina “I like to be a slave…” 🚪🚶🏽‍♂️

    • @KJ75678
      @KJ75678 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      @@itsnatemate7697THIS ‼️😭😭 IM LIKE OH???!

    • @lora753sofi
      @lora753sofi ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Okay i finished the video actually it was very touching

  • @lailaes802
    @lailaes802 ปีที่แล้ว +5936

    Talia and her husband seem the most normal and aren't talking much and I think it's because their age gap isn't that huge

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads ปีที่แล้ว +375

      And Alejandro looked young.

    • @xxintixx4638
      @xxintixx4638 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Yeah they look normal

    • @tonyofhousestark1511
      @tonyofhousestark1511 ปีที่แล้ว +317

      They look normal because this kind of relationship is much more commonly seen than the others, also they have the smallest age gap.

    • @pasc8699
      @pasc8699 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      He’s the only one that doesn’t look like he’s trying to look young. Talia also seems mature compared to the other young people

    • @ekleiman4043
      @ekleiman4043 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      I was thinking that too, but it also seems as though everyone else is more out spoken or were asked more questions. Like when one of them would be on no or yes and the other was on the opposite, they weren't asked about. They were talked to sometimes, but I'm almost done with the video and haven't heard much of them.

  • @Sillygoose24
    @Sillygoose24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +723

    The couple where the younger guy said he wouldn't want to have children because he doesnt want his kids to lose a dad so young is SO valid.
    I'm 25, i lost my both my birth parents. (i never really had a connection to them) but knowing my adoptive parents who are in their mid 80's might make it only another 5 years, is devastating.
    Its so hard seeing your parents go through the last stages of life and knowing they will most likely never meet my future children, or be there when i am married, or even just have somewhere to go home to.

    • @Littlewulff
      @Littlewulff 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      So true, but at the same time, consider the kids who don’t get to have parents at all. I think if I were a foster kid needing stability, I’d rather have two nice dads for 15 or 20 years than never having that at all. Anyone who has a different experience, I’m open to hearing it but knowing the alternative for some kids is NO parents…

    • @Jen-5595
      @Jen-5595 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's the only unselfish person in this group for sure...

  • @alexwambugu8228
    @alexwambugu8228 ปีที่แล้ว +6419

    “I want to be a slave” is insane
    “ massa wife is home alone” is senile

  • @ElliottOrSomething
    @ElliottOrSomething ปีที่แล้ว +3043

    tbh i wouldn’t be able to tell an age difference between talia and alejandro 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel ปีที่แล้ว +305

      I think it's because they have the least age gap. Or she just has aged pretty bad and he aged pretty well

    • @freddieking441
      @freddieking441 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @mel-ed3yw
      @mel-ed3yw ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my thoughts exactly

    • @RosaGarcia-zd8zm
      @RosaGarcia-zd8zm ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Talia se ve mayor y alejandro muy joven

    • @shannon3525
      @shannon3525 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

  • @bryannab07
    @bryannab07 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +537

    bro the “we met in my dorm” to “i wanna be a slave “ idk if i can finish this 💀

    • @Petsmenagerie
      @Petsmenagerie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The slave thing isn’t surprising. That is a huge kink in the kink community.

    • @magnoliah6476
      @magnoliah6476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      same, ive made it just after 8 minutes and yeah im not gonna make it.

  • @seymagurbuz2066
    @seymagurbuz2066 ปีที่แล้ว +4075

    -"what will i be in 40 years?"
    -"dust" 💀💀💀

    • @ChrisPTY507
      @ChrisPTY507 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      💀💀💀💀

    • @Summer-fb7gb
      @Summer-fb7gb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      I actually screamed

    • @myssteehbby
      @myssteehbby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @mirlineesperance2223
      @mirlineesperance2223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chocolate2162
      @chocolate2162 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I am weaketh😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @notkenziedotorg3736
    @notkenziedotorg3736 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1445

    Is no one gonna talk about how half of Cheryl’s hair is straight?😭😭😭💀

    • @yuiitodoro7791
      @yuiitodoro7791 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol

    • @beautybyashhhx
      @beautybyashhhx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      Production did her dirty

    • @embananasplit2935
      @embananasplit2935 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      It’s an 00s inspired style, just poorly executed lol

    • @rebeldiamond601
      @rebeldiamond601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I noticed that too and tried so hard to ignore it😂😂😂

    • @polaris7346
      @polaris7346 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      she said, “the back of my head is NONE of my business!”

  • @iluv.snails
    @iluv.snails 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    Jeff seems like such a sweet guy! The way he immediately comforted Cheryl warms my heart 😊

  • @ashleyredsheep
    @ashleyredsheep ปีที่แล้ว +5939

    Not really a strong choice to start broaching this controversial subject with the sex life but... maybe that's just me. As someone who supports healthy age gap couples, I would think the emotional connection is what you'd want to lead with.

    • @annieelle9070
      @annieelle9070 ปีที่แล้ว +525

      yeah i feel you, kinda feels like a fetishized take when there's a lot more nuance than that

    • @qualiangelica
      @qualiangelica ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Agreed.

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Sure but at the same time sex is one of, if not the most important thing in relationships.

    • @ashleyredsheep
      @ashleyredsheep ปีที่แล้ว +198

      @@jato2942 Personally I strongly disagree with that, but that's a matter of opinion.

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@ashleyredsheepYOU can disagree, but that makes you the minority

  • @PurposefulLivingwithNdem
    @PurposefulLivingwithNdem ปีที่แล้ว +2633

    Going into sex questions to start makes the age gap look like it's sex only. Starting with emotional questions would have been more beneficial, in my opinion. You can do better jubilee!

    • @Rnue
      @Rnue ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Yeah. Ick tactics.

    • @dadoniks1184
      @dadoniks1184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They always start off with sex in order to grab attention

    • @NikkiBudders
      @NikkiBudders 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      I can easily see it as baiting viewers, lessening nerves of the people with a comedic question, or just wanting to get a big viewer question answered so they can move on to deeper subjects. Maybe it's a mix of all 3. I don't really fault Jubilee for it. That's just what pleases the algorithm and exploring viewers. You don't begin by asking hard questions, it's too jarring.

    • @TheKidd98
      @TheKidd98 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dont worry that literally that all these vids are like

    • @tmuto5119
      @tmuto5119 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I mean u can extremely easily tell they all have an emotional connection. Ppl were crying for each other and showing how much they love each other.
      Feel like it’s the base standard, like obvsly ppl in relationships love each other regardless of age. So sex life is a bigger talking point bc that’s one of the things that makes their relationships sm different to typical ones.

  • @kaylamoriarty4352
    @kaylamoriarty4352 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1752

    I’m a bit disturbed by the comments “we met in my dorm room” “it was my first time” like WHAT

    • @SarunaSari-cc9tc
      @SarunaSari-cc9tc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

      he was 16 when they met😭😭😭😭

    • @leckmich5452
      @leckmich5452 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@SarunaSari-cc9tc oh no

    • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
      @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@SarunaSari-cc9tc no. 17 when you graduate college or 18 of your bday falls late in the year.

    • @maurartsy2916
      @maurartsy2916 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Most were groomed

    • @maurartsy2916
      @maurartsy2916 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721quarantine was 16 or 15 when they met

  • @narutardandproud7568
    @narutardandproud7568 ปีที่แล้ว +6332

    Couples of opposite political views would be cool to have on the show

    • @vivacev
      @vivacev ปีที่แล้ว +167

      I would like that too. I was a bit surprised when one of the couples said they don't talk about politics in order to not have to disagree.

    • @Bluntgirly
      @Bluntgirly ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I'm so tired of the political videos, let's get new topics

    • @myas.6485
      @myas.6485 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      It feels so gross that people date people with different political ideologies. So many of their opinions are about basic human rights

    • @Flesh_Wizard
      @Flesh_Wizard ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Or put em in an arena and let em duke it out

    • @daviddinoger
      @daviddinoger ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@myas.6485lol

  • @leeloodallas959
    @leeloodallas959 ปีที่แล้ว +4036

    Cheryl must have has a rough life cuz she says she’s 63 but she looks at least 80. Wow.

    • @sierracuacuas2931
      @sierracuacuas2931 ปีที่แล้ว +640

      I think drugs were involved

    • @CBCRadioGirl
      @CBCRadioGirl ปีที่แล้ว +695

      Her Instagram bio openly says she struggles with an eating disorder, so. Some other commenters have mentioned she's talked about addiction on TikTok, but can't confirm that because I don't use it. Whatever the case, not surprising. She mentions being in abusive relationships in the past, and who knows what else she's dealt with. Hopefully she's doing as well as she can these days.

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Don't do drugs

    • @kikitam00
      @kikitam00 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      Sun damage from being a surfer

    • @rosebeelow7159
      @rosebeelow7159 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

      She says it was mostly from being a surfer but she’s also said that yes she had a very hard life

  • @Morg100
    @Morg100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +513

    Am I the only one who thinks Tre looks 35?? 22 is crazy!!!!

    • @PrettyOmnificent333
      @PrettyOmnificent333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      your not.

    • @PanoramicView-o5p
      @PanoramicView-o5p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed there’s no way

    • @ItsHowdy
      @ItsHowdy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it’s the hair color

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ItsHowdy I’ve seen him with black hair on his TikTok page. He still looks older lol.

  • @wh0refortwd
    @wh0refortwd ปีที่แล้ว +1215

    why did nobody help her with her hair😭mf could’ve let her know half of it was straight

    • @lorenmphelan1893
      @lorenmphelan1893 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

      Thank youuuu I was looking for this comment. Her hair was bothering me so much.

    • @alexistutera2404
      @alexistutera2404 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      i’m rolling 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @marijaskvorc6293
      @marijaskvorc6293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Come onnn, she just goes by the saying: If you can't see it, it doesn't exist 😂

    • @enmanley
      @enmanley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      DEADASSSSS I brought me back to middle school dances, and refusing to let my mom help me with my hair 😭😭😭

    • @chelsmeister
      @chelsmeister 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Lowkey loved her hair. It's a look. She rocked it haha

  • @nadiajupiter8340
    @nadiajupiter8340 ปีที่แล้ว +3153

    I would love to see a video on couples with a size difference being a plus size women with a skinny husband it isn’t easy I’d love to hear about other peoples experiences

    • @GroundedSolidarity
      @GroundedSolidarity ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Meh

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      It makes more sense to create an episode, when the woman is healthy or skinny, and the guy is obese. Society tends to show more support for obese women, and women, who want to leave relationships.

    • @AWallflowergirl
      @AWallflowergirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes that's a great idea

    • @yomnaaa7397
      @yomnaaa7397 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

      ​@@eugenetswongI think it's the opposite? I don't know where you live but here you can be a morbidly obese male actor portrayed as a love interest, but you can't be even overweight woman in the same position, I think what you interept as "society support" is more of society pity or over correction

    • @bean4435
      @bean4435 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      @@yomnaaa7397 some men want to be victimized so bad they straight up lie lol..!

  • @martagustafsson5749
    @martagustafsson5749 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +289

    My heart broke when Cheryl talked about her kids not approving of her husband and when she said that she can't visit her grandchildren. To have your kids acting like that towards you and your partner that for once is making you happy and are taking care of you when all the past ones were abusive must be horrible

    • @shelbygray2214
      @shelbygray2214 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      To choose your kid over a guy and stick with him, if family doesn't approve don't go for him, she could of dated younger, she choose him over seeing them

    • @martagustafsson5749
      @martagustafsson5749 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@shelbygray2214 she said they were racist towards him and sometimes family don't approve for the wrong reasons. She shouldn't just lay flat and oblige just because her family don't approve if they have a shitty reason for not liking him, she definitely should stay if that's the case

    • @imdva
      @imdva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shelbygray2214 wtf is wrong with you? her family called him slurs multiple times and are clearly racist. thats the one thing i sympathized with them on.

    • @Samiscool114
      @Samiscool114 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@martagustafsson5749you have no idea if that is actually true there is probably a whole lot more to it

    • @msadeyes
      @msadeyes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      She said she has 7 kids and doesn’t speak to 6, something is off if you don’t speak to 6/7 of your kids

  • @lebogangngcobo3096
    @lebogangngcobo3096 ปีที่แล้ว +3187

    Tre being 22 is crazy😭

    • @djkwells2168
      @djkwells2168 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

      Yea! They were together for 6 years 😅 and he talks about them hanging out in his dorm

    • @amelie4813
      @amelie4813 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

      ​@@djkwells2168 HE WAS 17???????

    • @djkwells2168
      @djkwells2168 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      @@amelie4813 something like that crazy how they didn’t even try and cover it up but that is terrible

    • @sope2882
      @sope2882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@djkwells2168 how would Tre be in college at 16/17? Can you add the timestamp for when they said they were together for 6 years because I don't remember hearing that.

    • @HeavenlyJLove
      @HeavenlyJLove 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      @@djkwells2168it’s jon and brian who’ve been together 6 years

  • @macngeeseyt6029
    @macngeeseyt6029 ปีที่แล้ว +3877

    There is a reason people consider it wierd.

    • @allme1000
      @allme1000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr tho especially cherry she groomed that lil boy and made him into her lil slave just like she did back in her day smh 😒

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Yea, I would say when it gets to 20 it starts getting a bit odd in my opinion. Most the relationships i have seen in my life has been within 10 years of age. I have seen married couples have problems with age difference of 20 years as well just due to retirement and other factors. Each their own, but it is odd for majority of people

    • @WubbyPunch
      @WubbyPunch ปีที่แล้ว +101

      It’s more important in straight relationships where kids could be involved for sure. But yeah generally the wider the gap the weirder. And the gayer the couple the less weird to be honest lol.

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ​@@WubbyPunch lmao you're not wrong tho

    • @MrLuffyoo
      @MrLuffyoo ปีที่แล้ว +29

      ⁠@@ashtinpeaks9972it's rare, but it's noone else business except for the people living the relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge others ?

  • @Kissesfromrory
    @Kissesfromrory 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Usually I hate ads but I needed a break from this in the lelo thing

  • @QueensNYgirlie1988
    @QueensNYgirlie1988 ปีที่แล้ว +4255

    Hats off to Cheryl's one child who isn't a raging racist 👏

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads ปีที่แล้ว +489

      I did wonder how her kids could’ve grown up to be racists. One usually learns that from one’s parents. But one’s community has a big influence, too, so that could’ve been what helped develop that hatred in them.

    • @hazykuriboh222
      @hazykuriboh222 ปีที่แล้ว +518

      ​@Ceerads it sounds like her ex husband's were pretty bad and abusive so I wouldn't doubt their father is a raging racist if he's capable of abuse and SA

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      ​@@Ceerads Y'all are wild af. Children are fully capable of knowing their gender, having hormones and cutting off body parts but in everything else it's the parents where the kids got it from. Make it make sense.

    • @pluto-kl5od
      @pluto-kl5od ปีที่แล้ว +137

      @@xenondoro8573 what?

    • @AndSoWeLaughed
      @AndSoWeLaughed ปีที่แล้ว +78

      yes lets praise the absolute bare minimum. woohoo.

  • @mikaapichatsakol530
    @mikaapichatsakol530 ปีที่แล้ว +1230

    Alejandro and Talia are not controversial enough for this experiment lol

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      They're just the least open

    • @hannahgates2994
      @hannahgates2994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@manifestingsanctuary which isn’t necessarily a bad thing 🤷‍♀️

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@hannahgates2994 Of course, just doesn't mean they're less controversial if all was aired out in the open.

    • @parrisnia72
      @parrisnia72 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I honestly wouldn't even think they were an age gap couple if I saw them out and about. I mean close up, he does look older than her, but I never would have guessed there was 16 years between them

    • @Niya.B649
      @Niya.B649 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@parrisnia72 Agree!

  • @Cyberrpuke
    @Cyberrpuke 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +249

    congratulations jubilee you officially created the hardest watch on youtube

  • @mariasarik4269
    @mariasarik4269 ปีที่แล้ว +7015

    imagine dating someone that was 30 when you were born

    • @believeume122
      @believeume122 ปีที่แล้ว +512

      This is what I think of everytime someone says they have a huge age gap

    • @BooksToAshes
      @BooksToAshes ปีที่แล้ว +363

      I always found an age gap way too much if the person could have been your parent (or worse, grandparent...)

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Ew

    • @tortellinicat
      @tortellinicat ปีที่แล้ว +163

      I mean you could even apply that to smaller gaps. My partner is just 5 years older than me and when we think about it, I was in elementary when they were in high school which is weird. I was 13 when they were 18 and that's weird. But we didn't meet then, we met as adults.. so it's normal. But idk I also am just not put off by the idea of dating someone even 20+ years older than me. We're adults, if the dynamic works, it works.

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh Lord

  • @marmarino2070
    @marmarino2070 ปีที่แล้ว +1040

    Jeff and Brian should become besties, they were totally vibing! Wish all the best to all the couples!

    • @archiraxx
      @archiraxx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      People like you are incredible for being able to go trough the first 5 minutes and still root for all the couples 💀

  • @dozyrozypozy
    @dozyrozypozy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    "i wanna be a slave" stand up my brother, ur free😂

    • @Petsmenagerie
      @Petsmenagerie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is a legit kink. Him being black ain’t got nothing to do with it.

  • @Yosefiel
    @Yosefiel ปีที่แล้ว +3079

    Wow Jubilee. First subject is sex? Given the sensitive subject, you could've gone a different route. And the guy was graphic at that... Just wow!

    • @STRING246
      @STRING246 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Was disappointed that this was the direction of this as well

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Why is the topic of sex problematic for you?

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I think it was a great fun icebreaker :)

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 ปีที่แล้ว

      Normal people don’t care. Only you religious people and actual children

    • @kateryna-ostapenko
      @kateryna-ostapenko ปีที่แล้ว +197

      ​@@jinhub2175 i don't think they find the topic problematic in general. Just the fact that they started with that may send the wrong message. I personally feel similarly about hypersexualization in LGBT community. If people have a prejudice towards a certain sexuality, I think it's better to showcase the romantic side of it at first to show that it's a whole relationship rather than a fetish. For instance I'm bi and many people jump straight to the topic of threesomes when they find out.

  • @NovaRambo4427
    @NovaRambo4427 ปีที่แล้ว +3426

    I think it only becomes an issue when you *exclusively* desire people far older/younger than you (like 30 *ONLY* dating 19). If you just so happen to fall in love with an older/younger person then I don't think it's a big deal... as long as you are happy (and power dynamics are equal/ there's no manipulation).

    • @justinwilson9848
      @justinwilson9848 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Might not be for the people who know it but people who don't just jump to whatever they feel

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      To exclude them manipulation to relationships that have large age gap is a little agist. Every type of relationship has manipulation, coercion and downright toxicity. The age, as long as it's legal, is not the difference, it's the level of maturity, attachment, styles, and intentions between both parties. We love to judge people's preferences for some reason. We're obsessed by it. As long as it's legal, it's none of my or your business. I for one prefer people my own age. But I'm not going to be judging somebody who prefers somebody younger as long as it's legal.

    • @rseestella2296
      @rseestella2296 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      ⁠​⁠@@MindfulAttraction2.0Interesting that you say that after you just commented on a video saying that children consenting to sex with adults is insane. There are no MAJOR changes going on in the brain from 17-19 where a child just clicks and becomes equipped with everything they need to be an adult. Teenagers 13-19 do not have the life experience to be “mature” enough to be in a relationship with a fully grown adult. 9 times of 10 if they do, it’s from traumatic experience that’s making them think it’s okay to date fully grown adults who are attracted to the idea of grooming them. A child who hasn’t had the experience to know when to walk out of a toxic relationship or know when a relationship is toxic is the difference. Legal or not, if you are attracted to the idea of being able to manipulate someone because they are coming from a place of naivety , that is weird.

    • @johannesmattsson9900
      @johannesmattsson9900 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      ​@@MindfulAttraction2.0Just because it's legal doesn't mean it's moral, people exclusively going after those much younger than them is often predatory and going after people who haven't had the chance to mature fully.

    • @liv-w2o
      @liv-w2o ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0legal doesn’t equal moral lmao
      also “ageism” doesn’t exist when talking ab this subject.

  • @charityrobbins5152
    @charityrobbins5152 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    Talia and Alejandro never got the chance to talk in this vid. 😂

    • @Cherrykins
      @Cherrykins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      they probably didn't have very many opinions worth putting in the video, they're the most "normal" of all the couples

  • @Scribbby
    @Scribbby ปีที่แล้ว +773

    You can tell that both Jeff and Tre are an emotionally intellectual couple. They're able to effectively communicate their feelings towards one another and it's a characteristic that allows a relationship to go far.

    • @giulia6344
      @giulia6344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Brian and Jon seemed even more mature to me. But yeah they were fine too.

  • @itsssandrearenee
    @itsssandrearenee ปีที่แล้ว +2188

    Quran was so defensive about so many of the topics.... from knowing about their relationship; them meeting when he was 16, both of them having SA trauma, and her family issues... I feel like deep down, he feels it is wrong and knows just he fell into a weird relationship when he was so young and broken. He has a big heart and he feels bad for Cheryl and doesn't want to leave her because she'll be alone. That's my analysis.

    • @OfficialWikipedia
      @OfficialWikipedia ปีที่แล้ว +64

      When did he say he was 16 when they met?

    • @somerandomblkgirl
      @somerandomblkgirl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OfficialWikipedia the information is public information on social media (specifically TikTok) there are many videos about it. Hope that helps.

    • @_sadaf_
      @_sadaf_ ปีที่แล้ว +376

      I still don't get the whole concept behind their marriage,
      Their relationship is the weirdest one among them.

    • @MoonMoonTM
      @MoonMoonTM ปีที่แล้ว +341

      @@OfficialWikipedia They did an interview a few years back. He was 16 and working for her son which is how they met. They became "friends" for 8 years and then started dating.

    • @Freetheebees
      @Freetheebees ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Wow you made up that “analysis” based on how you perceived him by a few questions? Which btw he didnt seem at all regretful.. Maybe you’re the one that thinks its wrong so you think he does? Weird thought process lady.

  • @madlibs4
    @madlibs4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This makes me miss the love of my life who was 42 years older than me and died in 2020. It takes a special type of person to be in an age gap relationship. The confidence, comfortably, and fun energy between these partners is a special kind of connection. There’s no judgement. You embrace your differences. It’s pure love, and every moment is precious. Everything was a fun adventure to us. We were always laughing and could joke with each other without ever taking anything personally. I’ve never felt as free with anyone as I did with him, and it’s such an amazing learning experience to be with someone from a different era. There’s so much mutual respect, and the ability to not care about what anyone else thinks is so powerful. No relationship in my life has ever compared.

  • @Marie70707070
    @Marie70707070 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    I love the host of this show. He's very open and sensitive. Just a very likeable person :)

    • @robynblondie1132
      @robynblondie1132 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This!

    • @gigi-ph8zd
      @gigi-ph8zd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      i agree you could totally tell he made them 100% comfortable

    • @shoutaaizawa1068
      @shoutaaizawa1068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it's almost like his job is on the line

  • @ivysrainbow6735
    @ivysrainbow6735 ปีที่แล้ว +1825

    I hope Cheryl is ok, something is going on with her we can all see it but I hope I’m wrong.

    • @stephanie.420
      @stephanie.420 ปีที่แล้ว +693

      Meth bb. I’m actually not judging though I used to be addicted to heroin lol

    • @uaibix
      @uaibix ปีที่แล้ว +67

      something for sure

    • @stephen1922
      @stephen1922 ปีที่แล้ว +504

      She’s tweaking for sure 😂 can’t stop moving

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stephanie.420she does seem methed up

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I honestly think they're both on drugs. She's just into it more

  • @WhoAmI2YouNow
    @WhoAmI2YouNow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I get the feeling that Cheryl uses some kind of medication.. the way she moves etc.. I hope she is okay

  • @prismen5535
    @prismen5535 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    the:
    "where will i be in 40 years-", "dust"
    was wild asf

  • @HappyDia01
    @HappyDia01 ปีที่แล้ว +2949

    The casual discussion about Daddy and Coach and all these other weird pedophilic fantasies was too much for me. You can’t tell me it’s not borderline predatory to be in such a large age gap when you are openly talking about being interested in those types of things.

    • @kanyebutdarker8152
      @kanyebutdarker8152 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So two consenting adults in a relationship is pedophilic?

    • @woahwhat7321
      @woahwhat7321 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      Very odd and very off

    • @AZ-ji3zl
      @AZ-ji3zl ปีที่แล้ว +318

      Also the fact that he’s dated other older men too… jon has issues if he’s consciously only going for older men

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle ปีที่แล้ว +181

      that's silly everybody has kinks and phantasies. There is nothing weird about that.

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s giving mega diet pedophilia to me, like they know they can get away with it because it’s legal but they still totally fantasize about it

  • @enmanley
    @enmanley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This is the most honest I’ve ever seen a collective group be in these videos

    • @gracewong957
      @gracewong957 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      maybe to honest i did not need to hear abt the p!ss k!nk

  • @KJ75678
    @KJ75678 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    Grandpa ….to 17 grandchildren …at 26….. someone help 😭

  • @shaymazardoub7506
    @shaymazardoub7506 ปีที่แล้ว +993

    My jaw literally dropped When Jon said "Dust"💀

    • @jeangenie1240
      @jeangenie1240 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      They have an excellent rapport, that's just typical of their humour.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I clown my age gap ex like that too. He always would act like I don’t know dhit because I’m young but I was never that young

    • @denisesiddon317
      @denisesiddon317 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I called my older ex when I was with him dinosaur as a joke that was acceptable but dust is a bit too far

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@denisesiddon317 It's up to them to decide what is too much. That's a lame roast in gay circles anyway.

    • @khozamasechaba
      @khozamasechaba 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I perished 😭😭😭

  • @BlueTechBite
    @BlueTechBite 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Jubilee needs to pay for my therapy session.

  • @Heyguhh
    @Heyguhh ปีที่แล้ว +1478

    Having a slavery kink is wild and vile asf🤦🏾‍♀️
    (Yes im kink shaming)

    • @artofjoy4418
      @artofjoy4418 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Exactly!! No sir!!!

    • @pasc8699
      @pasc8699 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      I feel like it’s a humiliation kink rather than a slavery kink but he doesn’t understand that yet

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      It's very common, and this mentality is what keeps people feeling intense shame about kinks for years. It does nothing but hurt those individuals. Nothing has been gained

    • @Cheray_
      @Cheray_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      You'd think massa's kids name-calling would turn him on🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Cheray_ That's a vile thing to say

  • @jess6558
    @jess6558 ปีที่แล้ว +1137

    Omg everyone just said “let’s over share!”

    • @HB-ey2dk
      @HB-ey2dk ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Like... WAY overshare wtf 😂

    • @ufohoh
      @ufohoh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The black guy having a slave kink is crazy 💀

    • @soanyways5167
      @soanyways5167 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fr

    • @Anny-me9ny
      @Anny-me9ny ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Would you not rather them be honest ?

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Anny-me9nyyou can be honest without saying we like to shove our arms up each other’s bums and then urinate on each other.

  • @imnotgonnasay3612
    @imnotgonnasay3612 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    After laughing along with the rest of the internet about Cheryl and Quaran's relationship, I researched age-gap relationships and found this video on Jubilee. Watching the interaction between these two makes me feel ashamed for judging what looks to be a very genuine and happy couple. I hope they continue their life of happiness and love!

    • @ArtiyaFuwape
      @ArtiyaFuwape 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I mean they met when he was 16 and he was her employee or something. Nothing nice about that. She is a predator and he is a victim.

    • @imnotgonnasay3612
      @imnotgonnasay3612 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ArtiyaFuwape It's best to do your due diligence before judging. Where they are from, age of consent is 16.

  • @TheRockerX
    @TheRockerX ปีที่แล้ว +202

    1:14 my jaw was on the floor when Quran started talking about ejaculating all over Cheryl 😲😲

  • @MoonMoonTM
    @MoonMoonTM ปีที่แล้ว +637

    There is no way the lady in the thumbnail is only 64.
    Edit: She met him when he was 16 and was "friends" with him. 🤢

    • @itstheboyaj
      @itstheboyaj ปีที่แล้ว +20

      All hail Queen Cheryl

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@itstheboyajShe gonna end up like Queen Elizabeth 💅🏽

    • @kitcowool
      @kitcowool ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what abuse, raising 7 kids after two failed marriages and terrible life decisions will do.

    • @ラファエル-i3q
      @ラファエル-i3q ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I thought she was at least 80!

    • @AllThatJuice-
      @AllThatJuice- ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Meth

  • @pallaszina
    @pallaszina 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I wish everyone the best. My heart melted when Brian hugged Cheryl to console her. It's nobody's business but their own.

  • @SpongebobSquarepants-gz1jj
    @SpongebobSquarepants-gz1jj ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Idc ab the age gap it's just that Sheryl met quaren when he was 16..

  • @analuizapassos4678
    @analuizapassos4678 ปีที่แล้ว +1338

    The last couple, of 16 years difference, is the only one that isn't cringe

    • @HippiePajon
      @HippiePajon ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It's less "different" one yeah. But hey love is love 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @Ghxstgvrl
      @Ghxstgvrl ปีที่แล้ว +51

      What exactly is cringe about the other couples? I’m genuinely curious because I didn’t perceive them that way.

    • @RyanCooper-r9n
      @RyanCooper-r9n ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What's cringe about the other's?

    • @RyanCooper-r9n
      @RyanCooper-r9n ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@GhxstgvrlI'm curious as well.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@Ghxstgvrl
      1. The white and black gay couple started with a student that just got into college and a guy that is equivalent to the age of a father that just sent their kid to college. Don’t know why you’re that age and hooking up with youngsters 🤢
      2. This one I don’t see anything wrong, still weird to date someone 40 years older but whatever
      3. This relationship started when he was a MINOR and she was “friends” with him

  • @icey_joy208
    @icey_joy208 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    The amount of times I had to pause to process what I’m hearing is crazy

    • @angelcare5969
      @angelcare5969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fuuuuk the best comment ever 😂😂😂😂 I'm dieing

  • @ms.borzynski2195
    @ms.borzynski2195 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    Crazy I’m seeing this after watching someone react to Quran and Cheryl. They’re kind of popular on TikTok and they met when Quran was only 16 and Cheryl was like 53 😬😬 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with an age gap but how could you be with someone you knew when they were underage. Kind of icky if you ask me

    • @anothertitan5543
      @anothertitan5543 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Yeah no thats definitely grooming ://

    • @a_83567
      @a_83567 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@anothertitan5543 And in this video he has said some things that imply they got together when he was a minor but I’ll leave that alone.

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Then u think there's something wrong with the age gap....
      CAUSE THERE IS 😂

    • @ms.borzynski2195
      @ms.borzynski2195 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@wiseguy240Winston not necessarily because if they met when he’s 30 and she’s 67 like yes that’s a big age difference but he’s be 30 and a grown adult with a fully developed brain you know? So it’s not really the age difference but their actual ages currently if that makes sense? Kind of the same idea of like a senior dating a freshman in high school. It’s only 4 years but the developmental difference is huge but later in life 4 years is nothing

    • @v4l3nt1n30
      @v4l3nt1n30 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      fr, like sum there was def planned 😨

  • @TheNewLooter
    @TheNewLooter ปีที่แล้ว +1289

    I don't know what's worse, blud's slavery kink or the necromancy

    • @CrankyCanine
      @CrankyCanine ปีที่แล้ว +161

      STOOPPP NOT THE NECROMANCY HAHAA

    • @allaboutstace77
      @allaboutstace77 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Im ded

    • @cometthetigress
      @cometthetigress ปีที่แล้ว +38

      That's foul 💀

    • @Mrs.411
      @Mrs.411 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      OMG THIS COMMENT 🤣

    • @rivermana
      @rivermana ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You got me lol

  • @DanielFreakinAwesome2
    @DanielFreakinAwesome2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Bro Cheryl crawled out of the crypt for this one

    • @ourspace1959
      @ourspace1959 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @MrNicoleCherie
    @MrNicoleCherie ปีที่แล้ว +1088

    Please talk about the emotional connections more than sex. Plus in queer culture age gaps are extremely common and we feel more comfortable talking about sex because we have to explore it more. This episode would come off shocking cause the way you guys entered into the conversation. Its taboo! Dont make it more so by aaking weird questions! Interview age gap couples and ask what questions they feel are most relevant to their relationships.

    • @microwave8931
      @microwave8931 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      It's gross. Across all sexualities, it's predatory. Unless if they're like 30 and 40

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That would have been better than fisting and pissing. I don’t care what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes. I just don’t care to hear about it.

    • @carlbonara602
      @carlbonara602 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      They did. It looks like they asked the "shocking" questions first because they want to get it out of the way before going into the more emotional/deeper stuff.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s extremely common cause ped0s/older men think it’s okay to groom younger gay men and having night stands with them because “oh I was in the closet for decades…” 🙄

    • @Freetheebees
      @Freetheebees ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Did you finish the video ?

  • @NRV0
    @NRV0 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    I'm sorry but I can't really support someone in their 20s dating someone who 60+. Just feels to wrong to me.

    • @SpringAngel1
      @SpringAngel1 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Trust me, they’ll be OK without your support

    • @girlplease2452
      @girlplease2452 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@SpringAngel1she met him when he was a minor and waited till he was 18 so….

    • @alexisoshea1692
      @alexisoshea1692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Do you want to explore why that is?

    • @diyaa14159
      @diyaa14159 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I know!! we don't need to normalise everything!

  • @martialartsnerd7673
    @martialartsnerd7673 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    "You can't hurt me if I don't read it" I love that.

  • @VictoriaHatzson
    @VictoriaHatzson ปีที่แล้ว +629

    “We anchored our love on our mutual abuse” YIKES!that even SOUNDS unhealthy, you shouldn’t wonder if it is, from the moment that thought entered your head to the point it exited your mouth you should have been able to realise how wrong it sounds!

    • @floflo8164
      @floflo8164 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      i really don't think so. like they said, when u've gone through something like that in your life, it's much harder to find people who really understand you. they can sympathize, sure, but they can't fully step in your shoes, and they shouldn't have to either. as long as both individuals are in their healing journey, it makes for a healthy relationship. speaking as someone who's gone through abuse as well, i personally don't want my partner to pity me or see me as some broken lamb or to feel like a burden in any regard. being with, even just talking to people who've gone through similar things, it's a very different and significant type of understanding

    • @birdmandoesnthavediabetes4009
      @birdmandoesnthavediabetes4009 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@floflo8164exactly, and I'm sure they were able to establish a much deeper connection on other things after bonding over trauma.

    • @RockinLoud360
      @RockinLoud360 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're reaching

    • @smileprincess6834
      @smileprincess6834 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We all anchor our love based on mutual things, whether be it hobbies, careers, whatever...just because theirs was their experiences of abuse doesn't mean they can't love or see each other beyond that. It just means it drew them closer to one another, like any other mutual thing people can share and they grew from there. It's really not "Yikes" nor unhealthy. Their relationship isn't based around only those experiences, it doesn't revolve around that...that would be unhealthy.

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think you're confusing trauma bonding with what they explained. It's not the same thing. This shared past experience allows them deeper empathy between one another; it is a positive them.

  • @J3R1K4s
    @J3R1K4s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If people stopped watching at the beginning I consider you again.
    There's some very powerful and deep conversations.
    I commend everyone for being so open and candid. Your openness, humility and transparency is eye opening and may be hard for some to swallow or wrap their heads around, but I know I have learned more about humanity from this, I can empathize with some subjects as well.
    I always thought my bf and I had it tough being an interracial relationship with a child, I wasn't accepted in his family and we cant go to some family because we would likely deal with some horrific situations if we came out alive.
    Though seeing what they have gone through in gay couples and in age gap couples and seeing the interracial experiences as well it has been eye opening.
    Wishing all of them the best!

  • @georgenep1082
    @georgenep1082 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    These are all adults but as a mother the age gap is so hard to understand.

  • @ahhhhh5849
    @ahhhhh5849 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    Public sex is degenerate. Don't involve strangers into your sex life... absolute sickos.

    • @ahhhhh5849
      @ahhhhh5849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BuzziePitch 4:25

    • @ahhhhh5849
      @ahhhhh5849 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@BuzziePitch He legit says they do it in parks but go off ig

    • @BuzziePitch
      @BuzziePitch ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@ahhhhh5849 welp i missed that for sure and now side with you

    • @v0idk1tty
      @v0idk1tty ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I've done it where it was dark in the middle of the night and no one was around. I wasn't involving others (besides my partner) but we were still in public

    • @SpookyPookster
      @SpookyPookster ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Parks?! I freak hope dude means like forests and trails not swings and slides parks...

  • @samschwinn9614
    @samschwinn9614 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    When he said he wanna be a slave 🤦‍♂️

  • @Busaio
    @Busaio ปีที่แล้ว +580

    Cheryl and Quran's relationship gives me the ick.

    • @femafull
      @femafull ปีที่แล้ว +18

      same

    • @Randomcommenter90
      @Randomcommenter90 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You're such a hater. It's so sad, too, because they get enough criticism... and for what? Two ADULTS choosing to be together who seemingly have a healthy, beautiful relationship. Yet there's always someone trying to rain on their parade ☹️. GIVE THEM A BREAK!

    • @panzerchad
      @panzerchad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Randomcommenter90 bro definitely likes GILFs

    • @anna4338
      @anna4338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@Randomcommenter90My biggest problem is that they met when he was 16

    • @Randomcommenter90
      @Randomcommenter90 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anna4338 as long as they weren’t together then it doesn’t matter if they’re together now.

  • @ratmaid8264
    @ratmaid8264 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    HOW’D THEY GET CHERYL ON HERE ☠️

    • @JoelWright-e7m
      @JoelWright-e7m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      With a carrot on a stick, but with crack instead of a carrot.

    • @Uknownperson12
      @Uknownperson12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr lmao

    • @dimitrakazazo5394
      @dimitrakazazo5394 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@JoelWright-e7momg I laughed 😂

    • @MaddysinLeigh
      @MaddysinLeigh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JoelWright-e7mthis!

  • @shakuan868
    @shakuan868 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love all your videos EXCEPT THIS ONE! This is why I can’t be a public figure ever cause I ain’t letting this slide!

  • @alukeom3815
    @alukeom3815 ปีที่แล้ว +825

    Not Cheryl showing up only curling the front half of her head 😂

    • @meryemk3531
      @meryemk3531 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      If she keeps talking too much her mouth gon fall down 😭😭😭

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@meryemk3531Gonna be like them cartoons with the jaw all the way down 😭💀

    • @_sadaf_
      @_sadaf_ ปีที่แล้ว +24

      She would have probably forgotten, she's aging 🙂😭💀

    • @racheltang9985
      @racheltang9985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha

    • @Oumaima500
      @Oumaima500 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I literally can’t stop laughing about this 😭😭😂

  • @sarruh
    @sarruh ปีที่แล้ว +169

    the slave kink is WILD 💀

    • @sntt3404
      @sntt3404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      slave/master is not that uncommon or wild

  • @Little_miss_mr_star
    @Little_miss_mr_star 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    SLAVE IS ABSOLUTELY CRAZYYYYY 😭😭😭

    • @standowner6979
      @standowner6979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your pfp encapsulates the face I made when I hear it

  • @XDsymphony
    @XDsymphony ปีที่แล้ว +363

    A couple in my grandma’s retirement community have a 25 age gap. The husband is 105 and the wife is 80 they are the cutest couple ever.

    • @SQUELCH-zj7il
      @SQUELCH-zj7il ปีที่แล้ว +207

      At those aged, it doesn't matter anymore 😭

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣

    • @Cheray_
      @Cheray_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      With age the gap seems to lessen for sure!

    • @immanuelcunt7296
      @immanuelcunt7296 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ​@@SQUELCH-zj7ilyeah but the point is they were 25 and 50 at some point

    • @giulia6344
      @giulia6344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg you go granps 😂

  • @likeprincetj
    @likeprincetj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I understand why people want older people because they’re typically more mature and know what they want by that age.

  • @sophialikestocode
    @sophialikestocode ปีที่แล้ว +356

    biggest surprise was cheryl being 64

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *63

    • @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063
      @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Fr, she has to be at least 80

    • @Antisocialpessimist
      @Antisocialpessimist ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think shes lying my mom is her age and doesnt look like that

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Antisocialpessimist My mom is 73 and looks 10 years younger than this woman!

    • @Guess-ky2ir
      @Guess-ky2ir 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      She struggled with meth when she was younger, so that's why

  • @Katechap20
    @Katechap20 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Did I miss an explanation for how they met in his DORM ROOM?

    • @DeathShiniGama
      @DeathShiniGama ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dorm is college generally. Which is generally above 18.

    • @Justinn229
      @Justinn229 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He was swiping on them aaaapps

    • @Tyrone-s7d
      @Tyrone-s7d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@DeathShiniGamaare you saying it's OK for middle-aged adults to pursue young college students?
      Yes, we know that dorms are on campuses, thanks for the education.

    • @chantjelly6773
      @chantjelly6773 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Tyrone-s7d the college students are also adults mate...

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@chantjelly6773He was about 17 at the time that’s creep behavior no way around it

  • @joshualamp2438
    @joshualamp2438 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    How is Cheryl only 63? Must have been a rough 63 years.

  • @hj5520
    @hj5520 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    Quran and Cheryl “anchoring their love” and “bonding” over abuse and trauma makes too much sense… that’s not very healthy. Also did Cheryl only curl her hair in the front??

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that shows that's she's whacked.

    • @catheriinee3358
      @catheriinee3358 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      CREASING AT THE HAIR

    • @RadiantRiv
      @RadiantRiv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It’s called ‘trauma bond’

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Judging people on youtube like they're on trial in the town square prob isn't healthy either.

    • @Ms.marinn
      @Ms.marinn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve been searching for this comment I, I thought I was the only one😂

  • @irlmikasa
    @irlmikasa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    this was so much more wholesome than i thought it would be. of course there are some relationships with large age gaps where it's clearly about money/power imbalance/grooming, but not all of them; this is a clear example of that. i don't think it's fair to immediately judge and be rude to couples like these when all of those horrible reasons to date somebody are also so often found in couples with little to no age gap. love is love and if it's genuine then there should be nothing but support for the couple.

    • @heavenlydoll222
      @heavenlydoll222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      soo true!!

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Started off wild asf, but got wholesome mid way through.

  • @MarcadiesGaming
    @MarcadiesGaming 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I was thinking this is one of the sweetest videos with couples who were totally on the same page and understanding to one another and the comments did NOT match the vibe check.
    They have amazing sex lives, lots of laughs, so many totally sweet and caring moments... this was my favourite video Jubilee has posted and I am so shocked not everyone else agrees.

    • @Cherrykins
      @Cherrykins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i think when you & your partner are outliers, you have that extra comfort being an outlier with eachother. two people who have verrry specific tastes in life probably have an extra comfort boost going on between them, it just makes sense

    • @chemical_bride
      @chemical_bride 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Pretty sure it's bcause the comment section consists of mainly children lol.

    • @Mooniowo
      @Mooniowo 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i am shocked how vile the comment section is
      these people clearly care for each other and bring each other happyness and comfort
      all the grooming aligations would destroy me internally if i would be in the older partners shoes

    • @Luxordolls
      @Luxordolls 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Mooniowo well don't groom and you wont be viewed as a groomer???

    • @Mooniowo
      @Mooniowo 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Luxordolls but grooming yourself is so important :^)

  • @juliehousley1972
    @juliehousley1972 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Cheryl taking that boys virginity is so sad. Like age gaps to an extent arent a problem, I don’t have much of a issue but it does feel very predatory with that specific couple,he was young and didn’t know anything else

    • @RadiantRiv
      @RadiantRiv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      At age 25 your frontal cortext is fully developed, anything under that age is super iffy since you don’t have the maturity to deal with these issues

    • @anna4338
      @anna4338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      ​@@RadiantRiv they met when he was 16

    • @buhahahaha8363
      @buhahahaha8363 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@anna4338 really?? that’s wild

    • @dimitrakazazo5394
      @dimitrakazazo5394 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I still struggle to believe their relationship is real ... I've tried my best to not judge but their relationship and dynamic really looks odd .

    • @Cherrykins
      @Cherrykins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@dimitrakazazo5394idk all those apologies to his people about what his fantasy was seemed so genuine 😭 crazy to say already but even crazier to say something like that fr

  • @bethanywest5257
    @bethanywest5257 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    This was interesting. When the video started I was like “Whoah, no, this is not okay” because of some of the things they were discussing, but as the video went on my disapproval lessened. I’ll say, it’s still not something that appeals to me personally even though I’ve definitely been attracted to older people, but I gained a little understanding for these couples. I do truly believe these people love each other and that’s really all that matters.

    • @TheBB1994
      @TheBB1994 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You described what I wanted to say perfectly.

    • @madlibs4
      @madlibs4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      👏 thank you for being open minded and giving their perspectives a chance! Way too many people did not.

  • @KristinReneeCreative
    @KristinReneeCreative 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    This was surprisingly wholesome to me. I’ve seen and judged these couples before but they are happy and clearly fill a void the other person had in their life. Jeff and Tre are so cute together I love them.

    • @PanDaL0v3r11
      @PanDaL0v3r11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wish more people saw it this way

  • @KassieKreep
    @KassieKreep ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Tbh, Jeff and Tre are my favorite. The emotional intelligence and openness between the two of them is so strong. Even in normal age gap couples, that's hard to find.
    In general, definitely should not have started this off with the sex topic. It really does not help with this particular topic. Go through this one in reverse and it would be better and flow waaaay smoother.

  • @raymax_1071
    @raymax_1071 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I don't care about age gaps that much as long as both are functional and consenting adults but grooming can and many times is a thing with these relationships and that's when it's unacceptable.

    • @Guess-ky2ir
      @Guess-ky2ir 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yea cheryl and quran are the only ones I'm concerned about. They didn't say it in the vid, but they met when he was 16 and working for her son. They didn't date till 20 (I think) but it was still weird imo.

  • @shaylamiles4643
    @shaylamiles4643 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    her: "my kids call him the n word"
    him: "i want to be a slave"
    me: i wonder why💀

  • @Ama94947
    @Ama94947 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Age is NOT just a number.

    • @alexkezeh8020
      @alexkezeh8020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Honestly this mindset really needs to change cause wtf

    • @avelasoyingwa
      @avelasoyingwa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts

    • @Mmesomachii
      @Mmesomachii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      At a point it is lol. I’m 18 and my way of thinking is higher than those in my age bracket. My partner is 30. It wouldn’t have worked if I hadn’t shared similar experiences and thinking with him. At least in our case it’s just a number

    • @Tyrone-s7d
      @Tyrone-s7d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@Mmesomachii"my way of thinking is higher than my age bracket" is delusional and narcissistic.
      I don't want to know when the two of you met by there are a few agencies that might.

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@MmesomachiiStill time to delete before y’all get investigated

  • @knzay
    @knzay ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Notice how all the young ppl met their partners BEFORE their prefrontal cortices were fully developed?

    • @PennyMsElite
      @PennyMsElite ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup

    • @peacheskp0p
      @peacheskp0p ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @amsterdamesmoking, drinking, and maybe military for sure

    • @knzay
      @knzay ปีที่แล้ว +2

      great idea!! @amsterdame

    • @geopoonaniluva4141
      @geopoonaniluva4141 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@amsterdame25 is too young, 40 sounds more ideal

    • @file.zip.
      @file.zip. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      cortice

  • @Julie_875
    @Julie_875 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I feel so bad for Cheryl and the grandkids situation. Why can't they just accept that she is happy? It's just so saddening.

  • @Dreabz617
    @Dreabz617 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    At first I was confused because I thought Talia and Alejandro looked like they could be around the same age. She looks her age (27) and he looks like he could be around 35 😅

    • @gokcenihal
      @gokcenihal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and I don't think their age gap is outrageous. They should be able to relate to a great extent

    • @Kiall.
      @Kiall. หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's wellknown that latinos don't age 😅

  • @samuelmedina-conchi8757
    @samuelmedina-conchi8757 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    They had to start with sex because that was the elephant in the room. Get it out of the way and focus on the other things better. I respect and love watching their love for eachother ooze out of the screen.

    • @madlibs4
      @madlibs4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Thank you for saying this 👏

  • @thegubmeister
    @thegubmeister 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lots of these comments are kind of poking fun at the couples and, I'll admit, I also thought this video would be a hard watch since it's about couples who have a significant age gap. But what actually happened is I feel a lot of respect for these people. Especially the ones who actively post about their relationship on social media. That one guy worded it perfectly when he was talking about how seeing the true passion and love people share can really change your point of view. They all have a deep, profound and beautiful relationship with their partner and I commend them all for sharing their story.

  • @indybruggeman1293
    @indybruggeman1293 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Sherly is on something. She's acting like she's cracked out

    • @CrankyCanine
      @CrankyCanine ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She has quirks that definitely point to having some kind of stimulant dependency, but it could have been a past addiction. A lot of people who've had addictions to stims basically develop adhd, and also bruxism (moving your jaw back and forth a lot).

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@CrankyCanineyou can't develop adhd you either had it your whole life or you didn't

    • @CrankyCanine
      @CrankyCanine 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@salmaabdullahgb Adhd can develop through stimulant addiction.

    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Theyre not sane

    • @wynnie_margeaux
      @wynnie_margeaux 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think she said on tik tok that she struggled with a drug addiction when she was younger

  • @visconsio
    @visconsio 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    24:42 Quran & Cheryl's story (molestation, SA, family disaproval) really makes me cry. I wish them the happiest many years to come for their beautiful love.

  • @stephanie.420
    @stephanie.420 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Why do Cheryl and Quaran have different stories about how they met all the time?? They’ve said her son was his boss before and that’s how they met, when he was 16..??

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah she groomed him

    • @littlelam3691
      @littlelam3691 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When did the contradiction occur?

  • @MeganR9156
    @MeganR9156 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Jeff and Tre are my absolute faves. They are actual goals, they are both so sweet and genuine and they work so well with each other💛

    • @notnow-wq4lr
      @notnow-wq4lr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah but the public s"x in PARKS is.... ew

  • @dezloutay
    @dezloutay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    brian is such an attractive human and a kind soul. I wouldn't give a damn about the age gap either

  • @CookieJessiee
    @CookieJessiee ปีที่แล้ว +325

    I know for sure that I would be one of those people who’d judge them immediately as a first impression. However, the more I’m watching and listening, the more I’m sympathizing…

    • @i3qyi
      @i3qyi ปีที่แล้ว +26

      no fr i already knew queen cheryl from tiktok and i was quite judgemental toward them but i geniunely cried a lil watching this and i feel so bad for them now

    • @ashtraypup
      @ashtraypup ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@i3qyishe groomed him lmfao don’t feel bad for her. her son was his boss and she started talking to him when he was 16

    • @thesibsfsurkfb
      @thesibsfsurkfb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Really to me it got more disturbing the longer I watched

    • @CookieJessiee
      @CookieJessiee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can also see why 😂@@thesibsfsurkfb

    • @idonthavegoodhumor
      @idonthavegoodhumor 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ashtraypupfr the couples are way too weird, i barely feel bad

  • @b8665
    @b8665 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    it’s annoying that so many people sexualize age gap relationships. it’s the same as sexualizing any non traditional relationship and it needs to stop.. sex is important in any relationship, but the emotional connection is most important. i wish they had talked about that more in this episode.

    • @xxintixx4638
      @xxintixx4638 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Womp womp

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whomp Whomp

    • @heavenlydoll222
      @heavenlydoll222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@xxintixx4638shut up

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What? The age gap is almost always a fetish for the people in the relationship atleast from the start.

  • @mayraacevedo3262
    @mayraacevedo3262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Now yall let miss Cheryl go out here with the back of her head uncurled

  • @venusisaplanet7546
    @venusisaplanet7546 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Brian and Jeff seem to have more chemistry than with thier partners

    • @altlover85
      @altlover85 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's just camaraderie.

    • @meghanh.4606
      @meghanh.4606 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      i think they'd be best friends not partners though. they seem similar and being similar doesnt mean being compatible