I remember hearing my grandmother say that when I was a kid. These women who go through all sorts of humiliation and stress over a man are nuts to me. Life's too short!
It's crystal clear her husband is not feeling her anymore. He's going to leave her as soon as he finds himself a new woman to be in a relationship with. He doesn't even like her anymore, he complained about her attitude, looks, and rather hit the bar on Valentine's Day lol. It's the beginning of the end.
@@bupedoes2447 I agree he may be turned off by her size and attitude. There’s most likely deep rooted things behind both couples and individual therapy might help both. We gotta stop bailing when things get difficult in our marriages. The grass is rarely greener.
She thinking her husband cheating with this dude because he always with him, her husband could have been using him as an excuse saying he was with him when he was actually out with another woman 😏
Anybody can see that he doesn't want her. Whatever his reason of marrying her in the beginning most likely wasn't for genuine reason. Some men will settle, especially if they're at a point in their lives that they're lacking in self esteem, finances...etc. So, they'll pretend to care. Once they begin feeling themselves again, they will wait until something better comes a long and leave. All the signs are there, he isn't interested. He goes out with the boy because he's getting attention from other women, and fishing for her replacement. This man sat up here and said "When her makeup comes off she basically isn't attractive". He think she's ugly. For him to say that to her and in her face, DAMN! Please leave him right the hell now!!!! Her self esteem will be affected if she doesn't leave him.
She’s hurt. She’s hurt at the fact that her husband doesn’t wanna touch her anymore. That’s shattering to a woman, especially if it wasn’t always like that. And her laziness could be more of an emotional drainage from a lack of affection. In that regard, I empathize with her. These two could really just sit down and have an honest convo about what they would like from one another and try to meet each others’ needs intentionally with devotion. Sounds like a couple of attempts were made (lotion, hair), but if honest communication never occurred, they would never know what those asks/offers truly meant. *sigh * poor Tommy smh 😂
This is true, communication is key! Ppl take the easy road thinking if they get another partner that'll solve all their problems: well it doesn't solve the problem getting someone new, you just have to start all over learning the next person; stay where you are, at least you already know what you got and should be able to reconcile your differences...
Honestly she is probably just lazy, period. He's probably sick of it. She is hurt because he doesn't want her, but refusing to take heed to his reasons why. He is basically begging her to stop being lazy and keep herself up better. They are both only human. As women we tend to sympathize for the woman in the situation naturally, but she doesn't care about being attractive for her husband, has a terrible attitude, and keeps calling him gay. Why would he want to sleep with her. They both need to work on themselves.
I gotta be honest here as a woman…this lady needs to figure out why he’d prefer to hang out with his buddies and at the bar than with her. I know the answer just after watching this clip.
He knew what his wife looked like before he married her. Lady let that man go, you're right he's no longer interested. Can say you all are entertaining!
He is literally telling her that he's not attracted to the way she carries herself and her response is that he's gay lol. I really hope that I'm not this unaware in my relationship with my man. She isn't the most attractive and her attitude is trash then she wonders why he won't sleep with her. He is getting nothing at all out of this marriage
The best comment I've seen thus far because most of the ones I see have been towards him when really and truly as a woman you can't be hard to love just as a man can't be extremely macho with his woman
How is she in denial, when she said it herself that he didn't want her. She said that he wanted the other man. When he's telling her what he wants her to do is to fix herself up, not just for court purposes. She just doesn't care anymore.
I came for this hairstyle. She told her stylist she wanted to be remembered on tv. Her stylist definitely understood the assignment. You have my attention. I'll watch.
If I had a husband that treated me like that, I would go to the gym 🏋️♀️ everyday lose my weight and go out and meet me some male and female friends to go and kick it with. And leave him where he's at and I'd do me especially for Valentines 💝 💕 day that really shows you how much he doesn't care about you. Ain't no one going to be treating me like I'm in the backseat✌️ 💯
@@admar6934 I don't know what you're talking about. What man in his right mind wouldn't want a gigantic woman who barely cooks for him? Too lazy and unappreciative to get her hair done for free. Also, has a stankin attitude, and constantly disrespects him by calling him gay? Wtf is wrong with this guy?🤦♂️
@@admar6934 We'll obviously he liked her attitude an personality when he married her, people don't change overnight, seemed like he was enjoying her moments in the courtroom. Kept on smiling I thought he'd get mad about her calling him gay like most man does. He said his issues were about the way she dress always wearing Jeans and a t-shirt. so please go back and replay before responding. Thank you
If my husband or a man that I'm dating ever felt the nerve to tell me the things he's said to this women, I would be GONE BEFORE HE BLINKS! AND I MEAN THAT LITERALLY! I understand that sometimes we have to put ourselves in another person's shoes to understand the rationalization of why they'd tolerate such minimal and disrespectful behavior from someone. I can understand why she's probably holding on to him. I. Today's society men don't view her body type of looks as "Attractive", therefore that's most likely why she's disregarding is neglectful treatment of her, shes afraid of walking away due to having a difficult time finding another man, so she puts up with his mess. If I could talk to her I'd say "Sista you are a diamond in the rough, one of a kind, unique in your own way, no other like you, hold your head up higher, clinch your pearls, work on yourself, adjust your crown, stay in prayer, and kick his sorry behind to the curb.
He probably was never attracted to her. And her not attending to herself probably adds on to him not wanting to be affectionate towards her. He is avoiding her.
What's strange about being annoyed your spouse's best friend is at your family vacation and hanging out on Valentine's Day? If anyhting, him.having a side piece proves her point about him being inattentive.
@@brooklyndecember the "strange" part is the rubbing of feet because SHE said so, and doing what she says, when she says it. I don't blame her for being mad about the Valentine Day's fiasco.
@@Bear4196yeah I see what you mean… typically some men have the same expectation of what a wife should do in a marriage but it seems that she has the expectation that he need to take care of her to the “T” without reciprocating
I agree women just want to be taken care of but don't take care of their men ,they forget that marriage is a two way agreement, she has a role and he has one too but she wants for him to do only his part,plus she don't take care of herself
@@admar6934 that's no reason too cheat that's an excuse just talk it out with your partner instead and men also need to met there woman's needs it can't just be one sided u men can be hella stupid
Right at the beginning! This very good show turned into a «Jerry Springer Show» from the start. Everybody speaking at the same time, the audience grows ‘hoooooo’ and ‘haaaaaaaa’, clapping unnecessarily. A real circus!
One thing you must do as a woman a wife, is keep yourself up, and keep looking good erryday, keep the house clean and cook,,,He's clearly disconnected from her by her behavior,,Keeping all these things in tact is a must more so when you are married 😊 😉
Her accusation reminds me of the situation earlier this year with the woman whose husband and the husband bestfriend were taking yearly "friend trips" and the husband would never go anywhere with her or the kids. The best friend made a big stink because she wanted to go and he didn't want her on the trip. The husband begrudgingly wanted to compromise but the BFF was NOT having it. This man may not be gay but he doesn't want her. Men love to show their women off! He probably hooked up with her when he needed a place to stay and someone to take care of him. Dustavious and his band of Dusties!
I've had more than 1 guy not like the way I look at home when I don't feel like wearing make up or making my hair look cute. There were guys who didn't like my crooked teeth or my skin on my face or the clothes that I wear. It's sad that u can't just be yourself when u want with your boyfriend or husband. I got braces when I was around 28 yrs old then at 31 yrs old I had breast augmentation surgery. At that time I was skinny and worked out and maintained a nice body for a while. Right now I'm 52 and I'm really out of shape! But u know, if someone wants to complain about how u look, then that means they really don't like other things about u as well. So it's best to just move on and if u want to change your appearance because you feel not so pretty or sexy then do what u want like diet and exercise or plastic surgery. Only do it if you want it not because of what others think! Don't ever feel hurt about how cruel people tell u things about your looks it's just plain evil of them they should keep their opinions to themselves.
People have a right to choose the type of person they want to be with, including appearances. I don't understand why people deny the obvious. People want who they are attracted to and have the right to reject people they are not attracted to.
That’s just means they weren’t for you! There are sooooo many people in the world. Sometimes you’ll have to go through a lot of them before you find the one for you. If he can’t accept you, NEXT. And you find someone that loves every part of you. Until you do, you just focus on loving you, changing what you’re uncomfortable with, and building yourself up
MEN are Physical creatures. Women are as well, but don't admit it. Basically, a Man or Woman should Never get so Comfortable that they don't Maintain certain attributes in a Relationship. It's clearly obvious that This Man Is Unattracted to His Wife, and Before she gets up and gets in better shape; she would Believe that Her Husband is GAY. He Should Have Expressed His Lack of Attraction to Her; and they should have decided where to go from there. Just from a HEALTH PERSPECTIVE, this Lady is Blatantly Out Of Shape. So even if she didn't Do Anything To Attract Her Husband, she Should Do Something to Help Herself. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
She married for "love" without loving herself and he married for stability she turned out to be more than what he wants to deal with so it's better for her to leave so that way it's her fault not his🤣🤣🤣 he almost slipped and said he BEEN CHEATING😭 Good Lord people need to just be SINGLE and love themselves
Me too 🙋♀️ Girl.. I'm so tired 😫 and I'm also tired of people making a big deal out of as if it was the new pair of Jordan's that just came out or something. it's been going on since the 19th centuries like who cares. I rather hear about crack is back 🥴
All these life years with a man that wasn't your husband, then you finally get married and have nothing to look forward to because you already done it as girlfriend and boyfriend....smh then she's loud, puts him down that's a turn to a man!!!!
He’s not into her, it doesn’t mean he’s into men! What kind of conclusion did she made about him?!? I would be a man, I wouldn’t be interested into a pachyderm! She should take care of herself and her weight or it won’t be long she will face diabetes.
This sounds like a comedy play. The wife should move on. Stop investing life with someone who doesn’t want you; doesn’t respect you; doesn’t love you. Ladies we need to nurture ourselves first.
Idk why he asked her to get married in the 1st place, in the wedding pictures she even looked heavier. it’s a mystery to me why he asked her to get married and he is now calling her unattractive. She didn’t drastically change her looks.
She got married and got lazy, complacent, rude and difficult to be with so he just decide to spend my time anywhere but home which is sad if they would have communicated it probably could have worked out
As he was talking to her outside the courtroom I am so glad he kept his hands in his pocket that shows he was trying to keep his composure. I hope these allegations are not true and only defamation of character. I hope they can figure out how to keep their brown and brown love going.
I think I didn’t give her feeling like he is her husband,ok he pay for bills and these things but sometimes women need someone who give her a good feeling and he went to thh bar on. Vallentin day ,so this is realy hurt
No why did Tommy wear his uncle suit? 😂 Secondly she's just in denial about the disdain her husband feels for her so instead of looking within and working on her, it's easier to say he's gay
Why did he marry her?? I think he needed a place to stay she needs to keep her appearance up I can definitely see her letting herself go and it's probably not a pretty site 😂
I think she's accusing him being gay because she's got something to hide this woman is unbearable no wonder he wants to hang with his boys and just so everyone knows being gay is not a bad thing I mean it's not for me but my best friend was bisexual so just because someone doesn't touch you in 7 months it doesn't mean they're gay chances are it's got something to do with you maybe if you'd be quiet and listen every once in awhile you get more attention
I feel kind of sad for both of them...he's trying to tell her what he wants, but she's not listening...she's hurt due to the lack of affection, so she calls him homosexual. They need to have a real heart-to-heart. Tommy just got roped into the madness.
I think there's just time for them to go to a separate ways no longer compatibility he doesn't seem to be attracted to her he might just stick around for convenience I think if she take time and work on herself and make herself better for herself prove that she can do it. Keep the faith exercise daily eat right and hell with his thoughts and his friends that's who he want to deal with let him go ahead be him by his self. No sense of person having to keep showing you they're not interested 😳🤦🏻♀️👎🏼🥴🍆☃️🍆🤬👎🏼
This woman isn't an unattractive woman. However, the weight is a turn-off for most men. Perhaps that's the issue? But then again, if he's not attracted to BBW's, I am not sure why he'd go thru the hassle of marrying her. Also, when you're a BBW, you MUST keep your appearance in tact as you already have something negative contributing to your overall appearance.
She’s annoying and a terrible person. I wouldn’t want to be around her either. It makes her feel better to think he’s gay rather than recognize she lost her man because she’s irritating and unattractive to him. He literally said. She doesn’t try to glam up a little bit. Hope he found happiness.
it seems it would be easier for her to believe he's 🏳🌈 than to accept that he no longer wants her and hasn't for quite some time. By the sound and look of things, its easy to see why he wants out
Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you. Judge Lynn Toler
This man done said it in every which way.
I remember hearing my grandmother say that when I was a kid. These women who go through all sorts of humiliation and stress over a man are nuts to me. Life's too short!
How did Tommy get dragged into this mess,leave that man at the bar in peace!😅😅😅
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😂😂 wys! Tommy reactions had me so tickled
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She'd rather believe he's gay than except the truth he doesn't want her anymore
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Omg when she said he eats , look at me ? Don't I eat ? Then you know he eats . .🤣🤣 . I lost itttt ! 😭
When she stated that she thought her husband was cheating with the witness. I knew it was going to be a mess!
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The husband has been using Tommy as an excuse for all his escapades. No wonder she thinks thats his boyfriend...Poor Tommy
I agree👍 ... Don't know about the Poor Tommy bit he always around like a girlfriend ...👍💯🔥
@@brownie100 Aparentely not as often as it is claimed like "Valentines" he is just the decoy.
Being a couples counselor, I have seen this issue in my clients… long story short, physical attraction is highly important in relationships
Well said 👍🤣
As a counselor too - this woman is in denial...
It's crystal clear her husband is not feeling her anymore. He's going to leave her as soon as he finds himself a new woman to be in a relationship with. He doesn't even like her anymore, he complained about her attitude, looks, and rather hit the bar on Valentine's Day lol. It's the beginning of the end.
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He made a vow stick to it. He needs to find a way to feel her again
@@bupedoes2447 That's why divorce exists.
That case is like someone that,I definitely knows is going through.
@@bupedoes2447 I agree he may be turned off by her size and attitude. There’s most likely deep rooted things behind both couples and individual therapy might help both. We gotta stop bailing when things get difficult in our marriages. The grass is rarely greener.
7 months with no sex… he’s definitely getting his needs met elsewhere.
With a man
It's so sad to watch. The reason she's asking him to lotion her up is to get some physical attention. I guarantee that's the reason.
exactly
Or she's just lazy 😏 I've seen her type before
I don’t think she can reach
She thinking her husband cheating with this dude because he always with him, her husband could have been using him as an excuse saying he was with him when he was actually out with another woman 😏
Right he said it's plenty of women want me🤔so yea he got side peace that's why he tired😊
Yep!!!
We all have done that
Please that dude gay
Anybody can see that he doesn't want her. Whatever his reason of marrying her in the beginning most likely wasn't for genuine reason. Some men will settle, especially if they're at a point in their lives that they're lacking in self esteem, finances...etc. So, they'll pretend to care. Once they begin feeling themselves again, they will wait until something better comes a long and leave. All the signs are there, he isn't interested. He goes out with the boy because he's getting attention from other women, and fishing for her replacement. This man sat up here and said "When her makeup comes off she basically isn't attractive". He think she's ugly. For him to say that to her and in her face, DAMN! Please leave him right the hell now!!!! Her self esteem will be affected if she doesn't leave him.
She’s hurt. She’s hurt at the fact that her husband doesn’t wanna touch her anymore. That’s shattering to a woman, especially if it wasn’t always like that. And her laziness could be more of an emotional drainage from a lack of affection. In that regard, I empathize with her.
These two could really just sit down and have an honest convo about what they would like from one another and try to meet each others’ needs intentionally with devotion. Sounds like a couple of attempts were made (lotion, hair), but if honest communication never occurred, they would never know what those asks/offers truly meant.
*sigh * poor Tommy smh 😂
This is true, communication is key! Ppl take the easy road thinking if they get another partner that'll solve all their problems: well it doesn't solve the problem getting someone new, you just have to start all over learning the next person; stay where you are, at least you already know what you got and should be able to reconcile your differences...
Honestly she is probably just lazy, period. He's probably sick of it. She is hurt because he doesn't want her, but refusing to take heed to his reasons why. He is basically begging her to stop being lazy and keep herself up better. They are both only human. As women we tend to sympathize for the woman in the situation naturally, but she doesn't care about being attractive for her husband, has a terrible attitude, and keeps calling him gay. Why would he want to sleep with her. They both need to work on themselves.
Poor Tommy ain’t bothered nobody 😂😂😂😂
I gotta be honest here as a woman…this lady needs to figure out why he’d prefer to hang out with his buddies and at the bar than with her. I know the answer just after watching this clip.
I’m dying 🤣 If her husband had kissed Mr. Preston on his way back to his seat I would have LOST IT 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I can’t be the only one who felt that way 😭
I definitely thought they were gonna kiss during the confessional🤣Homie was smiling a lot
There’s someone for her but it’s not him. No one should have to beg for affection, time, attention from their significant other.
Sis leave him alone he doesn't want you just divorce him
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He knew what his wife looked like before he married her. Lady let that man go, you're right he's no longer interested. Can say you all are entertaining!
Welp ....they are unhappy. You can't force someone to love nor like you. A person is in charge of their own happiness though.
No one comes to Divorce Court happy 🥺 Not even the people that's watching it.
He is literally telling her that he's not attracted to the way she carries herself and her response is that he's gay lol. I really hope that I'm not this unaware in my relationship with my man. She isn't the most attractive and her attitude is trash then she wonders why he won't sleep with her. He is getting nothing at all out of this marriage
The best comment I've seen thus far because most of the ones I see have been towards him when really and truly as a woman you can't be hard to love just as a man can't be extremely macho with his woman
It seems like he's not attracted to her anymore
Ya think?
Poor Tommy!! Lol!! Tommy got put all up in their mess 🤣
"Look at me, don't I eat!?!" 😅😅 HILARIOUS
That man ain't gay. He doesn't like her company.
hes both
The 18:21 look is so ancestral for black people😂! The “You on thin ice”, look.😂
He do not want her and she in denial.
How is she in denial, when she said it herself that he didn't want her. She said that he wanted the other man. When he's telling her what he wants her to do is to fix herself up, not just for court purposes. She just doesn't care anymore.
She's not in denial. She said he didn't her a million times lol
Child that hair piece just as over it as I am 😂😂😂
I came for this hairstyle. She told her stylist she wanted to be remembered on tv. Her stylist definitely understood the assignment. You have my attention. I'll watch.
🤣🤣Amen
Oh that bun was in back in the day; she was on point ❤❤
Where did tommy get that big ass suit? Lol
1:30 the witnesses face tells all! 🫖 😂
If I had a husband that treated me like that, I would go to the gym 🏋️♀️ everyday lose my weight and go out and meet me some male and female friends to go and kick it with. And leave him where he's at and I'd do me especially for Valentines 💝 💕 day that really shows you how much he doesn't care about you. Ain't no one going to be treating me like I'm in the backseat✌️ 💯
Is not just looks is also personality, and attitude, she fails both
@@admar6934 I don't know what you're talking about. What man in his right mind wouldn't want a gigantic woman who barely cooks for him? Too lazy and unappreciative to get her hair done for free. Also, has a stankin attitude, and constantly disrespects him by calling him gay? Wtf is wrong with this guy?🤦♂️
@@admar6934 We'll obviously he liked her attitude an personality when he married her, people don't change overnight, seemed like he was enjoying her moments in the courtroom. Kept on smiling I thought he'd get mad about her calling him gay like most man does. He said his issues were about the way she dress always wearing Jeans and a t-shirt. so please go back and replay before responding. Thank you
@@gracie4200 FACTS!!!
If my husband or a man that I'm dating ever felt the nerve to tell me the things he's said to this women, I would be GONE BEFORE HE BLINKS! AND I MEAN THAT LITERALLY! I understand that sometimes we have to put ourselves in another person's shoes to understand the rationalization of why they'd tolerate such minimal and disrespectful behavior from someone. I can understand why she's probably holding on to him. I. Today's society men don't view her body type of looks as "Attractive", therefore that's most likely why she's disregarding is neglectful treatment of her, shes afraid of walking away due to having a difficult time finding another man, so she puts up with his mess. If I could talk to her I'd say "Sista you are a diamond in the rough, one of a kind, unique in your own way, no other like you, hold your head up higher, clinch your pearls, work on yourself, adjust your crown, stay in prayer, and kick his sorry behind to the curb.
I'm mad at her wig 🤣🤣 Seriously, she seems a little hard to talk to.
STOP 🛑… 😂😆😆
He took his friend on a family vacation. wow
they had an extra ticket and her relatives did not want to come
She is boring,that's why he took some one to have fun with..
Can't leave his wingman 😂
I hope he got far away from her. If she's this animated on TV, I CAN ONLY imagine her theatrics in their home
So he really calling his wife ungly yea he cheating
He probably was never attracted to her. And her not attending to herself probably adds on to him not wanting to be affectionate towards her. He is avoiding her.
When women spend a lot of time together they're just friends but when men spend time with other men they are gay. Smh
because men are not that close bonding..not the straight ones
😂😂😂 LMAO 8:50 the person in the back.
Pure comedy couple
She has a strange idea of what marriage is all about. I’m willing to bet he’s right when he says she’s lazy. Dollars to donuts he has a side piece.
What's strange about being annoyed your spouse's best friend is at your family vacation and hanging out on Valentine's Day? If anyhting, him.having a side piece proves her point about him being inattentive.
@@brooklyndecember the "strange" part is the rubbing of feet because SHE said so, and doing what she says, when she says it. I don't blame her for being mad about the Valentine Day's fiasco.
@@Bear4196yeah I see what you mean… typically some men have the same expectation of what a wife should do in a marriage but it seems that she has the expectation that he need to take care of her to the “T” without reciprocating
@@justhereyeah1112 You got it, Justhere….😀
No, he just doesn't like you anymore. Shytt, from what I see I don't like her. She can't see who she is with all that attitude.
This was a funny mess 😂
She is not taking care of her husband but wants him to take care of her . She gonna lose him and still not take accountability
I agree women just want to be taken care of but don't take care of their men ,they forget that marriage is a two way agreement, she has a role and he has one too but she wants for him to do only his part,plus she don't take care of herself
Why would she take care of a cheater...
Men only cheat when their needs aren't being met, just like you they also have needs
@@admar6934 so so true👏👏👏👍!
@@admar6934 that's no reason too cheat that's an excuse just talk it out with your partner instead and men also need to met there woman's needs it can't just be one sided u men can be hella stupid
If this is her demeanor it is surprising someone married her omgeeee
She comes off very self-centered he can't stand her that's why he is never home
Right at the beginning! This very good show turned into a «Jerry Springer Show» from the start. Everybody speaking at the same time, the audience grows ‘hoooooo’ and ‘haaaaaaaa’, clapping unnecessarily. A real circus!
Judge Lynn was a bit unfair to this women, true she’s a bit loud, but clearly this man is cold n unloving to her because he doesn’t want her anymore.
Anitra, your too beautiful for ole boy, please free ya self an LOVE ON YOU💯
I’d wake up with an attitude, too, if it’s been 7 months since I’ve had s3x with my husband. Tuh.
Such a vile little woman. 🤨
I would love to have this hamburger helper in my life 😆
One thing you must do as a woman a wife, is keep yourself up, and keep looking good erryday, keep the house clean and cook,,,He's clearly disconnected from her by her behavior,,Keeping all these things in tact is a must more so when you are married 😊 😉
Her accusation reminds me of the situation earlier this year with the woman whose husband and the husband bestfriend were taking yearly "friend trips" and the husband would never go anywhere with her or the kids. The best friend made a big stink because she wanted to go and he didn't want her on the trip. The husband begrudgingly wanted to compromise but the BFF was NOT having it.
This man may not be gay but he doesn't want her. Men love to show their women off!
He probably hooked up with her when he needed a place to stay and someone to take care of him. Dustavious and his band of Dusties!
Poor tommy 😂😂😂
I've had more than 1 guy not like the way I look at home when I don't feel like wearing make up or making my hair look cute. There were guys who didn't like my crooked teeth or my skin on my face or the clothes that I wear. It's sad that u can't just be yourself when u want with your boyfriend or husband. I got braces when I was around 28 yrs old then at 31 yrs old I had breast augmentation surgery. At that time I was skinny and worked out and maintained a nice body for a while. Right now I'm 52 and I'm really out of shape! But u know, if someone wants to complain about how u look, then that means they really don't like other things about u as well. So it's best to just move on and if u want to change your appearance because you feel not so pretty or sexy then do what u want like diet and exercise or plastic surgery. Only do it if you want it not because of what others think! Don't ever feel hurt about how cruel people tell u things about your looks it's just plain evil of them they should keep their opinions to themselves.
People have a right to choose the type of person they want to be with, including appearances. I don't understand why people deny the obvious. People want who they are attracted to and have the right to reject people they are not attracted to.
That’s just means they weren’t for you! There are sooooo many people in the world. Sometimes you’ll have to go through a lot of them before you find the one for you. If he can’t accept you, NEXT. And you find someone that loves every part of you. Until you do, you just focus on loving you, changing what you’re uncomfortable with, and building yourself up
MEN are Physical creatures. Women are as well, but don't admit it. Basically, a Man or Woman should Never get so Comfortable that they don't Maintain certain attributes in a Relationship. It's clearly obvious that This Man Is Unattracted to His Wife, and Before she gets up and gets in better shape; she would Believe that Her Husband is GAY. He Should Have Expressed His Lack of Attraction to Her; and they should have decided where to go from there. Just from a HEALTH PERSPECTIVE, this Lady is Blatantly Out Of Shape. So even if she didn't Do Anything To Attract Her Husband, she Should Do Something to Help Herself. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Hanging with the boys, she boring
She married for "love" without loving herself and he married for stability she turned out to be more than what he wants to deal with so it's better for her to leave so that way it's her fault not his🤣🤣🤣 he almost slipped and said he BEEN CHEATING😭 Good Lord people need to just be SINGLE and love themselves
What she’s failing to realize is that he doesn’t like her!!! She’s pretty but too obnoxious. Also, tired of people using gay as an insult. It’s not.
Me too 🙋♀️ Girl.. I'm so tired 😫 and I'm also tired of people making a big deal out of as if it was the new pair of Jordan's that just came out or something. it's been going on since the 19th centuries like who cares. I rather hear about crack is back 🥴
All these life years with a man that wasn't your husband, then you finally get married and have nothing to look forward to because you already done it as girlfriend and boyfriend....smh then she's loud, puts him down that's a turn to a man!!!!
He’s not into her, it doesn’t mean he’s into men! What kind of conclusion did she made about him?!? I would be a man, I wouldn’t be interested into a pachyderm! She should take care of herself and her weight or it won’t be long she will face diabetes.
But she was that way when he married her.
This sounds like a comedy play. The wife should move on. Stop investing life with someone who doesn’t want you; doesn’t respect you; doesn’t love you. Ladies we need to nurture ourselves first.
I don't believe she said nevermind on Valentine's day, that's couples day
Idk why he asked her to get married in the 1st place, in the wedding pictures she even looked heavier. it’s a mystery to me why he asked her to get married and he is now calling her unattractive. She didn’t drastically change her looks.
Tommy was fake af for throwing him under the bus 🤣🤣🤣
Everybody don't watch pork, and He insulting her direspectful
I got beg my Husband too stop touching me🤣🤣
Right 7 months is a long ass time truth be told
She got married and got lazy, complacent, rude and difficult to be with so he just decide to spend my time anywhere but home which is sad if they would have communicated it probably could have worked out
She’s not getting any she’s got that need some dick stressed angry attitude 😂
Or he probably is gay. Lots of Dl dudes
She should have just faced the fact that he didn't want her anymore and not be childish
As he was talking to her outside the courtroom I am so glad he kept his hands in his pocket that shows he was trying to keep his composure. I hope these allegations are not true and only defamation of character. I hope they can figure out how to keep their brown and brown love going.
I agree they probably are down low
Same here. They're 🤨 suspect!
Leave him at the bar 😮
I think I didn’t give her feeling like he is her husband,ok he pay for bills and these things but sometimes women need someone who give her a good feeling and he went to thh bar on. Vallentin day ,so this is realy hurt
Sis you better get you a toy👅a pink flower🤣🤣
No why did Tommy wear his uncle suit? 😂
Secondly she's just in denial about the disdain her husband feels for her so instead of looking within and working on her, it's easier to say he's gay
I love you divorce court ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Why did he marry her?? I think he needed a place to stay she needs to keep her appearance up I can definitely see her letting herself go and it's probably not a pretty site 😂
She’s over bearing, rude, accusatory, immature and I can see why he goes to the bar!!!!
I think she's accusing him being gay because she's got something to hide this woman is unbearable no wonder he wants to hang with his boys and just so everyone knows being gay is not a bad thing I mean it's not for me but my best friend was bisexual so just because someone doesn't touch you in 7 months it doesn't mean they're gay chances are it's got something to do with you maybe if you'd be quiet and listen every once in awhile you get more attention
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13:50 the cheating guilty smile
Oh!!!...this case is easy...he's not gay...he's no longer interested in her....it's obvious 🤷🏿
I think it’s disrespectful to start with “WELL FIRST OF ALL YOUR HONOR!!!!”
I wouldn't pay you no attention cause you too paranoid..
I feel kind of sad for both of them...he's trying to tell her what he wants, but she's not listening...she's hurt due to the lack of affection, so she calls him homosexual. They need to have a real heart-to-heart. Tommy just got roped into the madness.
Most times men want some peace and quiet in their lives.
(Proverbs 27:15) A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
I think there's just time for them to go to a separate ways no longer compatibility he doesn't seem to be attracted to her he might just stick around for convenience I think if she take time and work on herself and make herself better for herself prove that she can do it. Keep the faith exercise daily eat right and hell with his thoughts and his friends that's who he want to deal with let him go ahead be him by his self. No sense of person having to keep showing you they're not interested 😳🤦🏻♀️👎🏼🥴🍆☃️🍆🤬👎🏼
Chileee the wig
This woman isn't an unattractive woman. However, the weight is a turn-off for most men. Perhaps that's the issue? But then again, if he's not attracted to BBW's, I am not sure why he'd go thru the hassle of marrying her. Also, when you're a BBW, you MUST keep your appearance in tact as you already have something negative contributing to your overall appearance.
Well said I agree and her weight is a turn off.
The way he is smiling about bring up the ex gf tho 🫠
She’s annoying and a terrible person. I wouldn’t want to be around her either. It makes her feel better to think he’s gay rather than recognize she lost her man because she’s irritating and unattractive to him. He literally said. She doesn’t try to glam up a little bit. Hope he found happiness.
He doing something with somebody sneaky ass
When a man start to find everything else to do but you he's over it! She need to move on!
it seems it would be easier for her to believe he's 🏳🌈 than to accept that he no longer wants her and hasn't for quite some time. By the sound and look of things, its easy to see why he wants out
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She saying he takes her for granted from what they saying she taking him for granted she doesn’t do anything just lazy and keep calling that man gay.
I wouldn't want to sleep with her either. All that attitude is a real turn off.
I see HOMOSEXUALITY!
Who brings a dude on a vacation with his woman? This is so wrong and so nasty!
The down low? Feel sorry for the lady.