Children NEED to respect their parents NOT fear them. It's vital for parents to be friends with their child/ children that will make it easy for the child to open up to their parents.
Actually, Children need to fear their parents, not be scared of them. Fear = Love + Respect + Reverence. Scared = Outright Terror. Where theres "Fear", the relationship tends to be multifaceted and thrive, granted the parents don't start taking it for granted.
Merci au vieux Trésor de tes interventions parce qu’à croire que l’éducation congolaise n’a que des défauts en écoutant certains… À les entendre, la solution pour nous africains c’est l’éducation à l’européenne (même si ils le disent pas le sous-entendu est tellement fort). On le sait tous que nos parents ne verbalisaient pas tout mais c’est pas pour autant que l’on ne comprenait pas les messages. La vie c’est pas Disney… Un parent qui s’adapte à son enfant aura des difficultés à assumer 100% de son rôle de parents. « Muana mobali a lelaka te »même lorsqu’il est mal utilisé ça reste un moyen d’endurcir le garçon et qu’il réfléchisse autrement que de verser des larmes à tout va.
Great conversation, Syntyche you make excellent points but your age and lack of experience with certain things shows at times. parents should not be feared but rather respected. Am glad to see the majority in our generation are making positive strides to raise our children different. There are 4 stages of parenting: discipline 0-5, training 5-12 , coaching 12-18 and finally friendship 18+..
This is a great topic to discuss in our community. I do however think that when discussing certain topics such as this one , solola bien needs to really select the right panelists. Tresor, francos , karoline & Stephanie, made valid points !! they brought up childhood trauma, our parents upbringing, …. etc
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏 LET SOLOLA ALSO ABOUT THIS.
Brother Tresor some ❤ of our parents are broken inside because of their up bringing hence they try to break their children as welll , so brother Tresor theres no love in hurting another human being ❤
Other children have spiritual misbehaving problems they are tooo naughty and the solution is prayer not beating 😊 Other parents have spiritual issues as well that’s why they beat and abuse their own children to mental abuse their children as well and it become a cycle 😢
Where is Gladys? Dymund?.. Syntyche 0 encore .. this episode for me wasn’t the best like Papa Trésor et Ya Frankos were good but I don’t know about the rest
The only reason why yall think my generation is too soft is because we are very adamant towards closed minded people. And that causes us to put so much emphasis on topics like emotions. Being both logical and emotional is great FOR BOTH GENDERS, same as being strict and friendly, or physical discipline and verbal discipline, but the truth of the matter is that over doing any of these causes toxicity. The minute people understand that instead of being quick to call my generation weak and emotional, the more we can actually evolve.
Also y’all should go live weekly just to take calls because a lot was left unsaid. And especially because as a gen Z I need to defend my generation 😂 yall need to stop saying all these negative things about us like we’re not helping yall heal.
i am surprise Stephanie didnt talk much. this was her topic to explode on. Love the show guys. All i will say is this, all kids arent the same there have been some valuable points i have known and learned. Thank y'all.
You can tell who got kids and who doesn’t have kids lol 😂 when you don’t have kids, it’s easy to speak but once you have a chance to be a parent, your speech will change..
Nobody ever loved me the way my father did when I was at home, but he never told me I love you, but today I have tens of people who tell me I love you after every call, at every opportunity, but who don't even show it, and some ended up being haters. Vous pouvez me dire "je t'aime," c'est bon, mais je saurais qui m'aime par les faits, les actions.
I have two brothers whom I have always told you ain’t no punk if you cry nothing wrong with shedding tears . I agree with Frankos a lot of men especially African men are incapable of being vulnerable even with their lady for it has been embedded in their system that a men is to never valid his emotions. I was in a relationship with a guy who find it hard to appear “weak “ ask for help and not been less of a man . Dude hardly even accessed healthcare facilities even when he was in physical pain. Telling someone to suppress their emotions is not only emotional abuse, but even psychological manipulation in a sense
I don't understand the link with suicide that Syntyche kept bringing up?? Doesn't mean because people aren't killing themselves literally that they are aren't killing themselves emotionally everyday beacuse of not addressing their traumas or seeking help/healing. However, for once i do agree with not EVERY emotion needs to be labelled and exaggerated bla bla bla but when it's effecting how you raise your children, then there is an issue that needs to be solved.
Ok I get what you trying to say but what’s the point or this if you’re not even in life anymore to solve this? And she didn’t say that you shouldn’t be looking for help not that’s not true she said that why would go pay someone to listen and just talk about your felling cause with the study there’s more people who kill themselves while doing it but back in Congo there’s less much less people who kill them selves bcs of their problem
I mean you can talk to someone from your family like most of human being. Sometimes all you need it’s just being listen to. You don’t need someone trying to always name or “understand” where you pain came from cause sometimes it’s maybe not even the case and it’s just confusing you more than when you first came in
Synthiche parle aussi en lingala pour nous autres c’est une émission de la communauté n’est ce pas ? Alors mingi mingi pe mua lingala ekosala biso bien 👍🏾
Yerat/ yirah is the Hebrew word translated or commonly used to describe fear for the LORD, however this translation has been watered down to mean one thing only (to be scared) when on the contrary the word means to show or showing reverence and humility (which is closer to the word respect). You see we must respect our parents and show reverence and humility at their presents, in this we can hold a great understanding and different kind of friendship. With each and every friend we hold in our lives I am sure not one person can say that the union of our friendships is the same with them all.
Bon pona opinion wana I think Christian didn’t really handle this show.. he asked multiple questions to one person and didn’t give them a chance to finish their first answer… Also, cutting off ya Tresor was a bit rude while he was finishing his thought.. this could have been a better segment Mai’s bon maybe next time
No disrespect Christian but i feel you need to just stick to one language, cos when you try to mix them up it's too messy & you tend to struggle with words etc.
This synthetic girl argument appears to be thin air findings . Where was her citation? Because NIOSH complies investigation and they are find that money is one the main reasons and that medical doctors have the highest suicidal rate as many pointed out if something is left unresolved it builds up and builds negative outcomes. Therapy, counselling does not necessarily mean that the you are mad it’s to try and navigate your emotions and everyday life . Some things requires the assistance of Gods creation others require prayer this idea to just pray and leave it to God isn’t right . Your miracle could be through booking an appointment that’s how God will manifest
I would like to think that children need to fear their parents, but not be scared of them. Fear = Love + Respect + Reverence. Scared = Outright Terror. Where theres "Fear", the relationship tends to be multifaceted and thrive, granted the parents don't start taking it for granted. To reference off the bible, the people of Israel were "scared" of God (Their Father) but they never "feared" him - which is what he wanted from them. As a result of not fearing him, look how much rebellion happened in their camp... The only way to get a child to fear you, is to discipline them - equally with words (explaining why they should/shouldnt do certain things) + with the rod while they are young to reinforce rule of command... because children can't understand words initially, they interpret right and wrong through pain. Until eventually they begin to see a pattern of cause and effect which teaches them discernment. Disciplining using one without the other - will lead to your children either being scared of you and not fearing you... which will lead to you raising, either hypocrites OR it will lead to them not being scared of you and not fearing you, which will mean you have to deal with very unruly kids who just do whatever they want - whether you like it or not. Another take away from what I said: Don't be scared of God, BUT FEAR HIM... and you'll slowly see how sinful habits will begin to break away from your life.
There’s children who have double personalities and very deceitful . At home in the presence of their mom or dad or both they are well mannered due to fear that isn’t health they don’t necessarily respect nor feel a positive emotion towards their parents , they step outside and act differently. As Frankos pointed out some women many got pregnant some even aborted things like this unveil itself as time goes by the burden wears them down . Not fearing your parent doesn’t not mean you do not respect them there’s ways and I think many took on bad habits like hiding being fearful whenever they do something
Syntiche is pointless, j’ai comme l’impression qu’elle ne pousse pas trop loin sa réflexion, elle parle seulement pour parler il y a des choses qu’elle dit qui prouvent qu’elle a besoin d’expérience
Saison 4 vraiment papa Trésor tu l’a pas donné beaucoup de parole je suis vraiment déçu et aussi beaucoup d’anglais surtout Syntiche anglais n’a anglais c’est trop!!! Des fois y’a pas de traduction on est perdu des fois
There is a Big difference between fear and respect, my dad calls my brother and me , is friends "I have two real friends my son and my daughter " . Because of this "friendship " my brother and me have a very big respect for my parents, we respected them and we cherish them. They used to beat us but one day they hade the déclic and now they discipline us and we talk about what we did bad and why it is bad. They realized that it works better.
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏
Naah this synthetic girl clearly did not process anything before speaking throughout the debate so that in itself is an emotion. All is emotions is valid either it’s bad or good . Suppressing your emotions so feelings of sadness , frustration, anger and yes emotions doesn’t always register correctly, but it’s still valid and to be explored
A Constructive criticism Christian - Watch other talk shows not to copy but to watch those who are great hosts how they ask questions and keep control. I would say you wouldn't have an issue with people talking over each other had you 1. Asked one question at a time rather than interjecting their answers with another question and 2. set a time for how long each one can express their thoughts because the lack of being able to express oneself is what makes them keep talking even when its another person turn because they were cut off and given multiple questions to answer in one go which isn't fair to the panelists nor us the audience watching at home. Please work on these points because it will only make Solola Bien even more outstanding.
Il faut discipliner un enfant verbalement mais des fois ca nécéssite la force physique, mais elle doit être une force controlée pour ne pas battre son enfant. Les blancs aussi le font, les mots fessée, gifle etc ne sont pas des mots bantu alors pourquoi croire que les mundele éduquent mieux? Leurs gosses sont impolis, cependant, ils nous dépassent en communication. Notrr problème c est la communication, on ne sait pas exprimer nos émotion. Au Canada, la loi pénale dans son article 46, permet la discipline physique contre un enfant mais ya des limites et cela doit être fait pour but d apprendre une leçon...parlons plus, expeimons nous plus et utilisons très rarement la force physoque car à 98% du temps, elle n est pas nécéssaire.
Nice show but really, there is no need to emphasise so much and every single time you introduce your panel that karolina is mixed race I.e. half Congolese /Greek. She is obviously on the panel as the Congolese woman that she is. It’s boring to hear you each time single her out as a mixed race person. I’m sure you don’t mean wrong but in reality it doesn’t sound right.
I don't understand why Karolina speaks in French then ask how to say certain things in French? It doesn't make sense. Girl speak one language is less stressful 😅
@@lolokapita7008 not all the time though. that means she doesn't know the language that well but since us Congolese love to show off with French when she could just speak in lingala or English 🤷♀️
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏 LET TALK ALSO ABOUT WHY WE FOLLOW EASTERN CULTURE ?
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏
These are the topics that should be discussed. It’s not everyday Men vs Women and relationship topics
You are 💯 right ! Couldn’t put it better myself 🤦🏾♀️. Funny thing is they turn every topic into Men vs Women 🤦🏾♀️.
Les enfants ne doivent pas avoir peur mais doivent respecter leurs parents.
Children NEED to respect their parents NOT fear them.
It's vital for parents to be friends with their child/ children that will make it easy for the child to open up to their parents.
Actually, Children need to fear their parents, not be scared of them.
Fear = Love + Respect + Reverence.
Scared = Outright Terror.
Where theres "Fear", the relationship tends to be multifaceted and thrive, granted the parents don't start taking it for granted.
Merci au vieux Trésor de tes interventions parce qu’à croire que l’éducation congolaise n’a que des défauts en écoutant certains…
À les entendre, la solution pour nous africains c’est l’éducation à l’européenne (même si ils le disent pas le sous-entendu est tellement fort).
On le sait tous que nos parents ne verbalisaient pas tout mais c’est pas pour autant que l’on ne comprenait pas les messages. La vie c’est pas Disney…
Un parent qui s’adapte à son enfant aura des difficultés à assumer 100% de son rôle de parents.
« Muana mobali a lelaka te »même lorsqu’il est mal utilisé ça reste un moyen d’endurcir le garçon et qu’il réfléchisse autrement que de verser des larmes à tout va.
Great conversation, Syntyche you make excellent points but your age and lack of experience with certain things shows at times. parents should not be feared but rather respected. Am glad to see the majority in our generation are making positive strides to raise our children different. There are 4 stages of parenting: discipline 0-5, training 5-12 , coaching 12-18 and finally friendship 18+..
I couldn’t agree more. Great points she made but eventually she’ll get there
Carolina is always talking good 👏🏾👏🏾.
Tréeeeeeesoor Image, merci d'être là, cas c dangéreux soki l'homme est trop émotionel!!!
J’aime beaucoup les réactions de Trésor… He’s often right.
Again thank you to Solola Bien and the participants. Show kitoko makassss 💯
This is a great topic to discuss in our community. I do however think that when discussing certain topics such as this one , solola bien needs to really select the right panelists. Tresor, francos , karoline & Stephanie, made valid points !! they brought up childhood trauma, our parents upbringing, …. etc
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏 LET SOLOLA ALSO ABOUT THIS.
Brother Tresor some ❤ of our parents are broken inside because of their up bringing hence they try to break their children as welll , so brother Tresor theres no love in hurting another human being ❤
Other children have spiritual misbehaving problems they are tooo naughty and the solution is prayer not beating 😊
Other parents have spiritual issues as well that’s why they beat and abuse their own children to mental abuse their children as well and it become a cycle 😢
I love that girl Syntyche… she’s thoughtful with her points backed by research. We need more of her!
she didn't quote a single research kaka i have research but ignorant to a lot
The next topic should on how congolese music has influenced the world😊.
Do anyone know any congolese dance club in london? 😮😮😮
Where is Gladys? Dymund?.. Syntyche 0 encore .. this episode for me wasn’t the best like Papa Trésor et Ya Frankos were good but I don’t know about the rest
Vraiment zéro pona Syntiche. I don’t understand how a young woman can say such things
@@naomiock6530 C ça le problème, dès que une personne de la nouvelle génération pense autrément, ça vous trouble.. Génération moko faible
The only reason why yall think my generation is too soft is because we are very adamant towards closed minded people. And that causes us to put so much emphasis on topics like emotions. Being both logical and emotional is great FOR BOTH GENDERS, same as being strict and friendly, or physical discipline and verbal discipline, but the truth of the matter is that over doing any of these causes toxicity. The minute people understand that instead of being quick to call my generation weak and emotional, the more we can actually evolve.
Can you please talk about tribal issues and politics in our Congolese community and country
Also y’all should go live weekly just to take calls because a lot was left unsaid. And especially because as a gen Z I need to defend my generation 😂 yall need to stop saying all these negative things about us like we’re not helping yall heal.
i am surprise Stephanie didnt talk much. this was her topic to explode on. Love the show guys. All i will say is this, all kids arent the same there have been some valuable points i have known and learned. Thank y'all.
Me & you both.
I love this show 💪🏼🔥🔥
You can tell who got kids and who doesn’t have kids lol 😂 when you don’t have kids, it’s easy to speak but once you have a chance to be a parent, your speech will change..
Francos always on point 👍🏾👌🏾
Nobody ever loved me the way my father did when I was at home, but he never told me I love you, but today I have tens of people who tell me I love you after every call, at every opportunity, but who don't even show it, and some ended up being haters. Vous pouvez me dire "je t'aime," c'est bon, mais je saurais qui m'aime par les faits, les actions.
Guys when is the next épisode ??? Happy New Year Guys we are waiting for New topics for 2024 blessings !!!!!
Synthiche is brilliant, most of my ideas are interpret by her
I have two brothers whom I have always told you ain’t no punk if you cry nothing wrong with shedding tears . I agree with Frankos a lot of men especially African men are incapable of being vulnerable even with their lady for it has been embedded in their system that a men is to never valid his emotions.
I was in a relationship with a guy who find it hard to appear “weak “ ask for help and not been less of a man . Dude hardly even accessed healthcare facilities even when he was in physical pain.
Telling someone to suppress their emotions is not only emotional abuse, but even psychological manipulation in a sense
I don't understand the link with suicide that Syntyche kept bringing up?? Doesn't mean because people aren't killing themselves literally that they are aren't killing themselves emotionally everyday beacuse of not addressing their traumas or seeking help/healing.
However, for once i do agree with not EVERY emotion needs to be labelled and exaggerated bla bla bla but when it's effecting how you raise your children, then there is an issue that needs to be solved.
Ok I get what you trying to say but what’s the point or this if you’re not even in life anymore to solve this? And she didn’t say that you shouldn’t be looking for help not that’s not true she said that why would go pay someone to listen and just talk about your felling cause with the study there’s more people who kill themselves while doing it but back in Congo there’s less much less people who kill them selves bcs of their problem
I mean you can talk to someone from your family like most of human being. Sometimes all you need it’s just being listen to. You don’t need someone trying to always name or “understand” where you pain came from cause sometimes it’s maybe not even the case and it’s just confusing you more than when you first came in
Bonjour comment allez-vous ? J'aimais bien vos talktable mais vous ne le faites plus
Mon émission je vous aime très fort 🎉❤
Synthiche parle aussi en lingala pour nous autres c’est une émission de la communauté n’est ce pas ? Alors mingi mingi pe mua lingala ekosala biso bien 👍🏾
Yerat/ yirah is the Hebrew word translated or commonly used to describe fear for the LORD, however this translation has been watered down to mean one thing only (to be scared) when on the contrary the word means to show or showing reverence and humility (which is closer to the word respect). You see we must respect our parents and show reverence and humility at their presents, in this we can hold a great understanding and different kind of friendship. With each and every friend we hold in our lives I am sure not one person can say that the union of our friendships is the same with them all.
Bon pona opinion wana I think Christian didn’t really handle this show.. he asked multiple questions to one person and didn’t give them a chance to finish their first answer… Also, cutting off ya Tresor was a bit rude while he was finishing his thought.. this could have been a better segment Mai’s bon maybe next time
Oui
No disrespect Christian but i feel you need to just stick to one language, cos when you try to mix them up it's too messy & you tend to struggle with words etc.
I agree
This synthetic girl argument appears to be thin air findings . Where was her citation? Because NIOSH complies investigation and they are find that money is one the main reasons and that medical doctors have the highest suicidal rate as many pointed out if something is left unresolved it builds up and builds negative outcomes. Therapy, counselling does not necessarily mean that the you are mad it’s to try and navigate your emotions and everyday life . Some things requires the assistance of Gods creation others require prayer this idea to just pray and leave it to God isn’t right . Your miracle could be through booking an appointment that’s how God will manifest
I would like to think that children need to fear their parents, but not be scared of them.
Fear = Love + Respect + Reverence.
Scared = Outright Terror.
Where theres "Fear", the relationship tends to be multifaceted and thrive, granted the parents don't start taking it for granted.
To reference off the bible, the people of Israel were "scared" of God (Their Father) but they never "feared" him - which is what he wanted from them. As a result of not fearing him, look how much rebellion happened in their camp...
The only way to get a child to fear you, is to discipline them - equally with words (explaining why they should/shouldnt do certain things) + with the rod while they are young to reinforce rule of command... because children can't understand words initially, they interpret right and wrong through pain. Until eventually they begin to see a pattern of cause and effect which teaches them discernment.
Disciplining using one without the other - will lead to your children either being scared of you and not fearing you... which will lead to you raising, either hypocrites OR it will lead to them not being scared of you and not fearing you, which will mean you have to deal with very unruly kids who just do whatever they want - whether you like it or not.
Another take away from what I said: Don't be scared of God, BUT FEAR HIM... and you'll slowly see how sinful habits will begin to break away from your life.
There’s children who have double personalities and very deceitful . At home in the presence of their mom or dad or both they are well mannered due to fear that isn’t health they don’t necessarily respect nor feel a positive emotion towards their parents , they step outside and act differently. As Frankos pointed out some women many got pregnant some even aborted things like this unveil itself as time goes by the burden wears them down .
Not fearing your parent doesn’t not mean you do not respect them there’s ways and I think many took on bad habits like hiding being fearful whenever they do something
Syntiche is pointless, j’ai comme l’impression qu’elle ne pousse pas trop loin sa réflexion, elle parle seulement pour parler il y a des choses qu’elle dit qui prouvent qu’elle a besoin d’expérience
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Saison 4 vraiment papa Trésor tu l’a pas donné beaucoup de parole je suis vraiment déçu et aussi beaucoup d’anglais surtout Syntiche anglais n’a anglais c’est trop!!! Des fois y’a pas de traduction on est perdu des fois
Papa trésor alobaka bien mais hôte wana azo ko tika ye a lobela bien bien te
There is a Big difference between fear and respect, my dad calls my brother and me , is friends "I have two real friends my son and my daughter " .
Because of this "friendship " my brother and me have a very big respect for my parents, we respected them and we cherish them. They used to beat us but one day they hade the déclic and now they discipline us and we talk about what we did bad and why it is bad. They realized that it works better.
Ya Trésor and Syntyche we are on the same page with this topic. "Ba Faible" lool oooh too emotional man.
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏
Naah this synthetic girl clearly did not process anything before speaking throughout the debate so that in itself is an emotion. All is emotions is valid either it’s bad or good . Suppressing your emotions so feelings of sadness , frustration, anger and yes emotions doesn’t always register correctly, but it’s still valid and to be explored
Donc bana basi wana bakomi midele yango boza déséquilibrer
Now where here for children’s live languages eh 😮😢
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A Constructive criticism Christian - Watch other talk shows not to copy but to watch those who are great hosts how they ask questions and keep control.
I would say you wouldn't have an issue with people talking over each other had you 1. Asked one question at a time rather than interjecting their answers with another question and 2. set a time for how long each one can express their thoughts because the lack of being able to express oneself is what makes them keep talking even when its another person turn because they were cut off and given multiple questions to answer in one go which isn't fair to the panelists nor us the audience watching at home. Please work on these points because it will only make Solola Bien even more outstanding.
First time I agree with Syntiche
Il faut discipliner un enfant verbalement mais des fois ca nécéssite la force physique, mais elle doit être une force controlée pour ne pas battre son enfant. Les blancs aussi le font, les mots fessée, gifle etc ne sont pas des mots bantu alors pourquoi croire que les mundele éduquent mieux? Leurs gosses sont impolis, cependant, ils nous dépassent en communication. Notrr problème c est la communication, on ne sait pas exprimer nos émotion. Au Canada, la loi pénale dans son article 46, permet la discipline physique contre un enfant mais ya des limites et cela doit être fait pour but d apprendre une leçon...parlons plus, expeimons nous plus et utilisons très rarement la force physoque car à 98% du temps, elle n est pas nécéssaire.
Syntiche est vraiment toxique.
I'm with Tresor on this generation being too soft and overly emotional. They need some tough love to grow a pair.
Syntche is a National Treasure 🏆
Nice show but really, there is no need to emphasise so much and every single time you introduce your panel that karolina is mixed race I.e. half Congolese /Greek. She is obviously on the panel as the Congolese woman that she is. It’s boring to hear you each time single her out as a mixed race person. I’m sure you don’t mean wrong but in reality it doesn’t sound right.
I don't understand why Karolina speaks in French then ask how to say certain things in French? It doesn't make sense. Girl speak one language is less stressful 😅
You can speak a language fluently but some words can skip your mind still…
I agree with Syntiche. There needs to be a balance.
@@lolokapita7008 not all the time though. that means she doesn't know the language that well but since us Congolese love to show off with French when she could just speak in lingala or English 🤷♀️
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏 LET TALK ALSO ABOUT WHY WE FOLLOW EASTERN CULTURE ?
This Gen Z want soft life soft parenting, soft speaking, but get upset when their called “SOFT” 🤧🫠🥹😮💨
BODY OF CHRIST WE NEED TO SPREAD THE REAL GOSPEL OF JESUS-CHRIST. CHRISTMAS, HALLOWEEN,ST.VALENTIN, ETC...AND ALL THE FESTIVAL ARE NOT GODLY. THERE ARE NONE OF THEM IN THE BIBLE. JESUS WAS NEVER BORN IN DECEMBER AND HE NEVER SAID FOR US TO REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY BY H " BUYING A GREEN TREE DECORATE IT, BUY TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND EATING LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW OR WORSE PUTTING A RED HAT OR WEARING RED PYJAMAS OR PUTTING A. CHRISTMAS TREE INSIDE THE CHURCH !! ABOMINATION. JESUS SAID TO REMEMBER HIM" TAKE A SMAL BREAD BREAK IT PRAY AND EAT IT AS HIS BODY " FULL STOP. ALL THESE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS THINGS IT IS A DECEPTION FROM THE PIT OF HELL. WHEN YOU MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVING THAT THERE IS A " SANTA-CLAUS ( by the way SANTA= SATAN) YOU OPEN YOUR A DEMONIC DOOR TO YOUR CHILD ! AND IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THAT HAVE THE NAME OF " CHRIS.." THAT MEANS GOD IS THERE OR GOD APPROVED IT. MAKE. SOME RESEARCH : " WHO START XMAS AND WHY " IT IS ALL FOR WHITE PEOPLE TO MAKE MONEY , MAKE PEOPLE TO SPEND AND IN JANUARY, THERE IS NO MONEY ! ST.VALENTIN IT IS WORSE IT IS A " GODDESS VENUS" THAT PEOPLE ARE WORSHIPPING. PLEASE IF YOU KNOW YOU WANT HEAVEN STOP CELEBRATING ALL THAT ! WAKE-UP !! 🙏🙏🙏