Its the parents who are the blame by spoiling & emotionally crippling their son. By finally kicking him out of the house, Matthew learned the hard way by being independent is a great thing.
Is it just me or anyone else who can't FATHOM keeping their desk and bed this dirty. I mean seriously? Crumbs between the keyboard, chips on the bed. I'll rather sleep on the floor, no thanks!
Nah…a 30 year old who still acts like he’s 13 needs to be forced to grow up. The parents also help with rent for 3 months, so it’s not like they threw him to the wolves.
Being independent its's a very important thing in life his life is completely change because of his new disable friend meeting someone with full of courage can really inspire others fantastic message love it
Yep. Seeing his roommate disabled really brought him to his scenes and when his parents told him to find a place to live in. I agree, you can’t depend on other people forever not even your parents. We all have to grow up and pull our own weight round here.
I ended up living on my own at 18. My grandma passed away and I inherited our home. Soon after that, my arthritis had gotten so bad that I could hardly walk and couldn't find a job due to being in poor health. Even though I was being denied employment, I was also being denied disability benefits because I was going to college to try to get where I could be employable. I had to live off inheritance and financial aid for 4 years and it was hard. I was really depressed and always worried about whether I would have enough food or be able to keep the electric and water going. I couldn't just sell the house because to find a decent apartment would cost too much for monthly rent and I would have never been able to get approved because I didn't have any income. When I finally was able to find a job last summer, it changed everything for me. I am no longer having anxiety and I have less depression now. I'm 23, I still have a ways to go but I'm better than I was a few years ago.
Glad that life has gotten better for you. I was on my own at 17 sleeping from pillar to post trying to figure life out on my own with no family to help me. Know that Jesus Christ loves you and is always there beside you ever waiting for you to draw near to Him and trust Him. God bless you. ( Matthew 11:28-30/NKJV)🙏🏾
@cs_laughter I wish I had faith like most people, it just seems like whatever I want to do something always goes wrong, I've always wanted to move away but then I've been vilified for it, it just feels like I'm being punished for my past sins and regrets
I’m happy that a story on a freeloading child took a different turn here instead of having him struggle through the world and take advantage of peoples kindness.
This was well crafted. They gave Matthew depth by giving him insecurites. Once he saw what somebody he previously thought as trapped could accomplish, it was like a bell rang and everything improved for him. This is so unlike any of the other Dhar videos that I would have believed it was made by somebody else. It takes courage to face your flawed self, for me to face my own shortcomings, and to make the changes needed to thrive.
How the hell does bro have the courage to talk to his parents like that? Like I live in an Asian household and my parents would've whooped me till' the next Juice WRLD concert if I was talking to them like that!
@@Analy5196 brainwashed by abuser. it is abuse. if you did the same thing to your gf/ wife it would be domestic violence. same with children. in fact , especially with children
@@joey6451that Isnt abuse 😂 as a haitian and Dominican person if I even speak to my parents the way the main character was in the video I wouldn’t be typing this rn
I've always keep the house clean. Because it's my job to take care of it and I love living in my house. You should always keep your house clean no matter what. Thank you so much Dhar, I really appreciate it. 🙂😀😃😄😁🤩
Bro with my Latina mom, I wouldn’t have lived to see the next day if I treated her like this. She taught me right and raised me to be the successful teen that I am now. Thanks mom❤
A lot of people still live with their parents In there 40's, But the majority of them Have jobs so there pulling their weight. Some people can't afford to live independent.
yeah in his case it is true, he is just a lazyahh. others do still live with their parents for various reasons tho like to care of a disabled parent or just to help them out with the bills if their parents can't afford them with just their jobs.
I'm so glad I moved out when I was 19 years old. I grew up real fast, had my own apt, I bought my mom's station wagon, had a job and never came back home
@@joey6451 Me too, I failed both college and trade school. I work but I don’t make much, it’s very frustrating. I worked really hard too I’m just very stupid.
I’m proud of you for that. I left college last year and I’m currently unemployed, so I probably won’t get my own place until I’m in my late 20s. That doesn’t mean I don’t like living at home with my parents, but I need my own space.
I'm glad I moved out as soon as I graduated from high school, didn't want to end up like my big brother who was a slacker living in our parents basement by the time he was 34. By 30 I was married and with a child. I'm 43 now.
I’m literally 9 and I do the laundry vacuum the floors clean the house and more and I don’t even ask my mom or dad when I do it they are very kind and I think since they treat me amazing I should treat them the same
This impacted me a little bit, because my 50 year old uncle still lives with his 82 year old mom and takes advantage of her, and gets mad when he has to do his part.
Okay if he was like 20 years old I’d understand, but you said this dude is 50 and still lives with his mom? Bro should’ve been moved in his own house, and had a decent income like 20 years ago. And you said he gets mad when he’s asked to do his part? Geez he must be so immature and insecure of himself. He should be ashamed of himself.
@@Dyan27 I'm telling the truth. How about you stop lying? You're just jealous because you did this and recieved no attention. So ha! You got your attention.
Very touchy topic DharMann, As a disabled person in a wheelchair Independents and freedom Is such a big key To keeping your mental stable So you could concentrate on other things in your life so this story line was very Very real very reality And very well done. Big kudos to the cast the crew and the writers great job
@@justinratcliffe947damn bro chill He just meant his parents are strict It was just sarcasm That doesnt mean they dont love him Chill out with those words and dont call anyones parents assholes...
For some reason, I just thought of an excellent video suggestion. The kind of video where a college dropout who’s living for free with his parents is kicked out for all the wrong reasons, so he decides to proof them wrong by starting a $10 billion company that goes onto become successful and he ends up proving his parents wrong the whole time.
I left home at the age of nineteen ,I migrated working as a au pair , spent one year then I returned for a half sister wedding, then I migrated at age twenty two, to Great Britain for twenty seven years, I had to learn how to survive to take care of my relatives back in Jamaica, the rest is history, I only recently had to fled for my life after I married a Jamaica man filed for him and took him to the UK in 2019, who was very delusional wanting me dead, and ordered white cops to profile me and physically, mentally, and sexual abuse me, the rest is history, it great when parents can be supportive to thier children, it's not easy out thier. I personally wouldn't run him out. I would give him a little responsibility by helping to contribute to the bills.
The easy way isn’t always the best. I love that quote dhar. Sometimes we have to learn the hard way/ go through struggles in order to have a better life.
This was the best. Beautifully acted and a wonderful presentation. Really enjoyed it.. It's very thought-provoking. He got his independence and a best friend, which is totally priceless
I’m am 29 years old live with my parents I’m like this guy play video games all day. The difference between me and him is work a full time job 4 days a week 12 hour shifts. I own my own car . I go to the gym I help my dad with any housework and I do the dishes and take out the trash , cut the grass besides that I don’t go anywhere just gaming. If people at my age and older going to live with your parents at least help out and have a job.
My neighbour got a brother like this guy.He moved in with them over a year now and all he does is eat and sleep the whole day at 40yrs.This is crazy yall
Ok, but 2 weeks is an insufficient amount of time to find a new place. My mum and I have been seeking for over a year, but there still is no place available. This could really depend on the situation your area is in, but it has been difficult for me.
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He’s lucky he has these type of parents. The fact it took him until he was 30 to get kicked out says a lot.
it's a Skit ...
@@mooseinnit- yeah no shit 💀.
@@Kaisaccountt so why you actin like its a real story, hop off it bro ☠
@@mooseinnit- it’s a story based on a real life situation. I don’t get who pissed in your cereal but no need to act like a douche over it 💀.
@@mooseinnit-Blud really wants to start an arguement
1:43 He just poured a whole mountain of salt on his popcorn
that’s what I am saying
@@bri.900Salt + Butter.
Delicious
My folks always do that to themselves and to me as well. They use hyponatræmia as an excuse.
Bro ewwww
I live in a black household and I would have been smacked into next week talking to my parents like that
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Same😂
Samee😂
@@needmorelacagtranslate your reply to English.
Same here 😭🤣😅😂
Owen is great! Even though it shows he is disabled, he still has a very happy look on his face.
its a drama, no disabled person is that existed about life
Its the parents who are the blame by spoiling & emotionally crippling their son.
By finally kicking him out of the house, Matthew learned the hard way by being independent is a great thing.
It doesn’t seem like he is *only* wanting an “easier life” it also seems that he is scared of leaving his parents and living on his own.
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nah he’s just last asf
That life looks hard ngl
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Is it just me or anyone else who can't FATHOM keeping their desk and bed this dirty. I mean seriously? Crumbs between the keyboard, chips on the bed. I'll rather sleep on the floor, no thanks!
same
Real
literally fr
REAL LIKE WHAT 😭 CRUMBS ON BED?
Not when you have adhd like me
Parents: Your out.
After not coming back
Also parents: He doesnt visit us anymore.
Gee i wonder why
I know but the parents did the right thing. if they didnt kick him out he wouldve been like this for the rest of his life.
Nah…a 30 year old who still acts like he’s 13 needs to be forced to grow up. The parents also help with rent for 3 months, so it’s not like they threw him to the wolves.
In case of a Story of a 16-year-old guy I would give a like to you
do i need to remind you he was 30! mooching off of them and had no job he needed to go
Imagine if the parents smashed his stuff, told him to get a job, and kicked him out. Luckily that didn't happen to him
I'm surprised they didn't go McJuggernuggets on him.
Being independent its's a very important thing in life his life is completely change because of his new disable friend meeting someone with full of courage can really inspire others fantastic message love it
Matthew finally learned a valuable lesson from the roommate.
Nah Cuz
Yep. Seeing his roommate disabled really brought him to his scenes and when his parents told him to find a place to live in. I agree, you can’t depend on other people forever not even your parents. We all have to grow up and pull our own weight round here.
Every parents deserves love and respect
not "every"
@@KhoaLe-bo7eqOfc if there bad parents and stuff
@@flamingocaster3835Every child deserves love and respect.
What, even Josef Fritzl?
@@temiire right
Woo hoo! Was a pleasure working on this one. And that pizza was delish❤
you are really a good actor man u got that positive vibe 👏
I ended up living on my own at 18. My grandma passed away and I inherited our home. Soon after that, my arthritis had gotten so bad that I could hardly walk and couldn't find a job due to being in poor health. Even though I was being denied employment, I was also being denied disability benefits because I was going to college to try to get where I could be employable. I had to live off inheritance and financial aid for 4 years and it was hard. I was really depressed and always worried about whether I would have enough food or be able to keep the electric and water going. I couldn't just sell the house because to find a decent apartment would cost too much for monthly rent and I would have never been able to get approved because I didn't have any income. When I finally was able to find a job last summer, it changed everything for me. I am no longer having anxiety and I have less depression now. I'm 23, I still have a ways to go but I'm better than I was a few years ago.
What about your arthritis?
More power to you young man. Keep the faith !!
@@starplayzreadbio373 My arthritis is still active, it hurts a lot, but I'm trying the best I can.
Glad that life has gotten better for you. I was on my own at 17 sleeping from pillar to post trying to figure life out on my own with no family to help me. Know that Jesus Christ loves you and is always there beside you ever waiting for you to draw near to Him and trust Him. God bless you. ( Matthew 11:28-30/NKJV)🙏🏾
@cs_laughter I wish I had faith like most people, it just seems like whatever I want to do something always goes wrong, I've always wanted to move away but then I've been vilified for it, it just feels like I'm being punished for my past sins and regrets
I’m happy that a story on a freeloading child took a different turn here instead of having him struggle through the world and take advantage of peoples kindness.
I love this video, it shows how being independent can make you a better person
0:56 he a real one tho he cares for his mom 😂✨️❤️
I WAS THINKING THAT
He drunk more soda and ate more snacks than my lifetime🤣
LOL
This was well crafted. They gave Matthew depth by giving him insecurites. Once he saw what somebody he previously thought as trapped could accomplish, it was like a bell rang and everything improved for him. This is so unlike any of the other Dhar videos that I would have believed it was made by somebody else. It takes courage to face your flawed self, for me to face my own shortcomings, and to make the changes needed to thrive.
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How the hell does bro have the courage to talk to his parents like that? Like I live in an Asian household and my parents would've whooped me till' the next Juice WRLD concert if I was talking to them like that!
I live in an african household and same as well
my mum never abused me. if i spoke like that to her she would just talk to me about it not hit me.
@@joey6451 not that abuse, it's discipline and we still grew up fine
@@Analy5196 brainwashed by abuser. it is abuse. if you did the same thing to your gf/ wife it would be domestic violence. same with children. in fact , especially with children
@@joey6451that Isnt abuse 😂 as a haitian and Dominican person if I even speak to my parents the way the main character was in the video I wouldn’t be typing this rn
I've always keep the house clean. Because it's my job to take care of it and I love living in my house. You should always keep your house clean no matter what. Thank you so much Dhar, I really appreciate it. 🙂😀😃😄😁🤩
This video inspired me to clean my room thank you dhar man
Same! Mine was not as messy as his though 💀
Same 😂😭
Are you being sarcastic?
@@ChrisB0719 no
The part where Matthew pushed Owen in his wheelchair while running was kinda cute tho
Bro with my Latina mom, I wouldn’t have lived to see the next day if I treated her like this. She taught me right and raised me to be the successful teen that I am now. Thanks mom❤
Gotta learn the hard way
“I dunno about that”😂 haha
This is crazy 30 years old and still living with his mom and dad 😂😅
A lot of people still live with their parents In there 40's, But the majority of them Have jobs so there pulling their weight. Some people can't afford to live independent.
Some people just don't have option u know?
yeah in his case it is true, he is just a lazyahh. others do still live with their parents for various reasons tho like to care of a disabled parent or just to help them out with the bills if their parents can't afford them with just their jobs.
I know someone that live with their parents older than 30.
man americans are so weird with moving out so early
I like the way that Matthew has changed
Who else
@@sumayoabdirasaq9629me
1:46 those 2 popcorn pieces being left out 😭
If he put SALT on that POPCORN there’s something wrong with you
Nah man I put sugar
I don’t think he put butter, so that must’ve been some really salty popcorn lmao
the guy in the wheelchair is super cute
1:36 that popcorn is hard as a rock. Literally sounds like him pouring rocks into a bowl.
Matthew is such a good looking, handsome, and very attractive man 🥰. I hope to see him in more episodes ❤
Independence is key to managing a successful lifestyle.
True
If you want to be useful yes
No
I'm so glad I moved out when I was 19 years old. I grew up real fast, had my own apt, I bought my mom's station wagon, had a job and never came back home
because im autistic and have adhd , i prolly wont end up moving out til my late 20s
@@joey6451 Me too, I failed both college and trade school. I work but I don’t make much, it’s very frustrating. I worked really hard too I’m just very stupid.
I’m proud of you for that. I left college last year and I’m currently unemployed, so I probably won’t get my own place until I’m in my late 20s. That doesn’t mean I don’t like living at home with my parents, but I need my own space.
@joey6451 nothing wrong with that, life is so different living on your own, I wish I could go back to my younger days without a care in the world
Help you shower is crazy 😂😮😅
ur so dirty minded smh
Theirs people who are disabled that need help with showers.... how is that crazy? 🧐🙄
@@Josh31287sus
I'm glad I moved out as soon as I graduated from high school, didn't want to end up like my big brother who was a slacker living in our parents basement by the time he was 34. By 30 I was married and with a child. I'm 43 now.
No need to talk like that about your siblings in a TH-cam comment section lol
@@InheritedHopes it’s her choice to share her life in TH-cam I guess ( not tryna be mean in any way )
@@xo71 that's not the point
@@InheritedHopes Oh okay, sorry
Facts bro @@InheritedHopes
0:01 love it
47 likes omg mom I’m famous
bro chill it’s a second into the video
Hahhahahahha
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I’m literally 9 and I do the laundry vacuum the floors clean the house and more and I don’t even ask my mom or dad when I do it they are very kind and I think since they treat me amazing I should treat them the same
thats so wholesome omg 🥹
thats good!! always help ur parents even if they didn’t ask u to, they’ll feel so proud and will adore u
That's so cute 🥺
U r so respectful. But do not reveal ur age on the internet. It's not safe at all
@@Outriley what’s the worst that could happen?
I really needed this. Independence is something extremely important and valuable. It will open many doors for you.
That was a really good video. Hit me close to my heart. Thank you Dhar.
This impacted me a little bit, because my 50 year old uncle still lives with his 82 year old mom and takes advantage of her, and gets mad when he has to do his part.
At 50 damn at 50, he should be married with children and making a good living.
Okay if he was like 20 years old I’d understand, but you said this dude is 50 and still lives with his mom? Bro should’ve been moved in his own house, and had a decent income like 20 years ago. And you said he gets mad when he’s asked to do his part? Geez he must be so immature and insecure of himself. He should be ashamed of himself.
that is a straight lie
Stop lying for likes and attention
@@Dyan27 I'm telling the truth. How about you stop lying? You're just jealous because you did this and recieved no attention. So ha! You got your attention.
"Easy way is not always the best"
Wise man once said ^
If I ever talked to my mom or dad like that I would of been tossed out
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No child should treat a parent like that “NEVER”Thank you guys god bless you I never had this many likes
Lol if u meet my mom u think different u one of the dumb people who think they perfect sometimes they in the this video are fake unrealistic
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6:12 still headphones in his head
I will drink 1cups of water for every likes this comments gets 😂😂😂😂
Bro I’m fasting
Stop begging for likes
347 cups, good luck
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Very touchy topic DharMann, As a disabled person in a wheelchair Independents and freedom Is such a big key To keeping your mental stable So you could concentrate on other things in your life so this story line was very Very real very reality And very well done. Big kudos to the cast the crew and the writers great job
we love and appreciate your video so much dhar mann !!❤❤
Why is this like watching Dr. Phil all over again?
You need to understand your parents does a lot for you and need to love them for loving your
The patience, friendship, kindness and support of the roommate helped in the end 😊
Bros a discord mod 💀
nah discord mods are fat as shit
2:00 they’re bed looks like a hospital
*indians have joined the chat*
indians don't move out but this guy was being lazy 💀
This may be one of my favorite videos! You never disappoint dhar ❤
My parents would sue me if i talk to them like that
Your parents probably don't love you anyway. Not that it's your fault or anything. Some parents are just assholes
You mean grounded
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@@justinratcliffe947that’s harsh
@@justinratcliffe947damn bro chill
He just meant his parents are strict
It was just sarcasm
That doesnt mean they dont love him
Chill out with those words and dont call anyones parents assholes...
The dad was NOT sugar coating anything 😂😂😂
I would never do this to my parents.
There is a time in one's life when you need to take responsibility for your life. Thank you Dhar for your video.
Among every other DHARMAN videos.. This one really did inspired me thr most
words can’t explain how angry that man made me 😂
I’m 12 and I still didn’t take that personal 😂
For some reason, I just thought of an excellent video suggestion. The kind of video where a college dropout who’s living for free with his parents is kicked out for all the wrong reasons, so he decides to proof them wrong by starting a $10 billion company that goes onto become successful and he ends up proving his parents wrong the whole time.
wow thats such a great idea i hope dhar sees this and make it happen i would for sure watch that.
I like this idea!
I like this idea
Yeah that could work
12:39 Dhar Mann probably the best background noise I’ve ever heard in a video!!! I have been watching sense 200k too. So great background noise!
blud you've been on yt for 5 months
@@icreateanimatealt other channels
The easy way is not the best way. Glad that Matthew got himself together in the end
I left home at the age of nineteen ,I migrated working as a au pair , spent one year then I returned for a half sister wedding, then I migrated at age twenty two, to Great Britain for twenty seven years, I had to learn how to survive to take care of my relatives back in Jamaica, the rest is history, I only recently had to fled for my life after I married a Jamaica man filed for him and took him to the UK in 2019, who was very delusional wanting me dead, and ordered white cops to profile me and physically, mentally, and sexual abuse me, the rest is history, it great when parents can be supportive to thier children, it's not easy out thier. I personally wouldn't run him out. I would give him a little responsibility by helping to contribute to the bills.
I rather watch these movies then TV. What a great channel.
Awesome episode. Bravo! 👏
Such a wonderful story and wonderful moral here.
Never be a freeloader in a household
JESUS AND GOD LOVES EVERYONE SO MUCH TURN TO THEM BEFORE ITS TO LATE
@@2KHunter i'm an atheist
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The easy way isn’t always the best. I love that quote dhar. Sometimes we have to learn the hard way/ go through struggles in order to have a better life.
This video is so motivational and inspirational as it gives a powerful message of independence, responsibility, maturity, and accountability.😍😎💯👍
I don’t really feel disabled
“BUT YOU ARE”
AHHHHHHHHH😂
I know a few grown men who live under the roofs of their girlfriends since they have no ability to fend for themselves living alone
That's sad
@@alanamcmillian5810 No lie about that
The fact that his controller is unplugged even though it’s a wired controller is wild like come on dharr Mann
30 he looks at least 42 years old. Definitely blame video games on not wanting kids to grow up.
So true lol
It is a blessing from God to have parents that supports us.
Damn, this is harsh.
He's a 30 year old man.
@JandJMSAandDharMannLovers2k5its not tough love , its common sense
Love your vids Dhar
I love the Dhar Mann actors they deserve awards for putting so much heart and effort into each video🏆🏅🎖️🏆👏👏👏
Absolutely loved this one!❤
2:14 uhm i thought that was a hospital for a sec
Same
Frrr
This was the best. Beautifully acted and a wonderful presentation. Really enjoyed it.. It's very thought-provoking. He got his independence and a best friend, which is totally priceless
I’m am 29 years old live with my parents I’m like this guy play video games all day. The difference between me and him is work a full time job 4 days a week 12 hour shifts. I own my own car . I go to the gym I help my dad with any housework and I do the dishes and take out the trash , cut the grass besides that I don’t go anywhere just gaming. If people at my age and older going to live with your parents at least help out and have a job.
My neighbour got a brother like this guy.He moved in with them over a year now and all he does is eat and sleep the whole day at 40yrs.This is crazy yall
great video!
I love your videos 🎉🎉
Dhar mann you make very good videos
THAT GUY NEEDS A LIFE 😐😐🤥🤫
What life??
Ok, but 2 weeks is an insufficient amount of time to find a new place. My mum and I have been seeking for over a year, but there still is no place available. This could really depend on the situation your area is in, but it has been difficult for me.
crazy the ending was shocking .love you Dharr
No it wasn't all his videos like this end this way
We love your videos dhar mann ❤❤❤❤
The cap on the bottle said I believe I could fly
I love your videos keep up the great work dhar mann I really love your videos god bless you
Best Dhar Mann video - easily.....
the long hair one looks like long hair harry styles💀