From what I know, basically you used to be someone who was obsessed with social media but what gave you the burst of energy to break through and figure all this out?
Appreciate the question :) The burst of energy was from being totally done with my own self-sabotage. I was using SM as an escape from my toxic job and relationships. So I decided to fix the root cause, heal myself, accept my flaws and get out my own way. Took me a couple of years to get here but it was worth everything.
@@asmareflects I ask for a little bit of advice, if you feel like you've become confident in yourself but maybe too confident and then you start to think maybe you come off to people in a different way then you expect, (Like a bad way) how exactly would I fix that since being confident is good but the cons are pretty bad
@@wind_andenergy4611 Great question, I think there's a fine line between confidence and overconfidence (a.k.a arrogance or superiority complex). Confidence is a deep sense of knowing your worth - you're born "enough", you're capable of achieving anything you set your mind to and can bounce back up from every challenge of life. You accept your flaws & mistakes but you don't let them define your sense of worth because deep down you know you're trying to improve yourself consistently. You don't need to seek validation from others, nothing to defend, nothing to prove, nothing to conquer. I learnt this analogy from Peter Sage. The moment you start thinking "I'm better than others" is when ego enters the room. If owning your true worth makes other people think you're "over-confidence", then that their perception, not yours. I hope this helps, I plan on making a video on this topic sometime. In the meantime you can watch Peter Sage's videos as he explains it in a much better way :)
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Wise words!! Became realised about this this past week, and it's so important for your self guidance in life.
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From what I know, basically you used to be someone who was obsessed with social media but what gave you the burst of energy to break through and figure all this out?
Appreciate the question :)
The burst of energy was from being totally done with my own self-sabotage. I was using SM as an escape from my toxic job and relationships. So I decided to fix the root cause, heal myself, accept my flaws and get out my own way. Took me a couple of years to get here but it was worth everything.
@@asmareflects I ask for a little bit of advice, if you feel like you've become confident in yourself but maybe too confident and then you start to think maybe you come off to people in a different way then you expect, (Like a bad way) how exactly would I fix that since being confident is good but the cons are pretty bad
@@wind_andenergy4611 Great question, I think there's a fine line between confidence and overconfidence (a.k.a arrogance or superiority complex).
Confidence is a deep sense of knowing your worth - you're born "enough", you're capable of achieving anything you set your mind to and can bounce back up from every challenge of life. You accept your flaws & mistakes but you don't let them define your sense of worth because deep down you know you're trying to improve yourself consistently. You don't need to seek validation from others, nothing to defend, nothing to prove, nothing to conquer. I learnt this analogy from Peter Sage.
The moment you start thinking "I'm better than others" is when ego enters the room.
If owning your true worth makes other people think you're "over-confidence", then that their perception, not yours.
I hope this helps, I plan on making a video on this topic sometime. In the meantime you can watch Peter Sage's videos as he explains it in a much better way :)
@@asmareflects thank you it does make things a lot clear now